5 Easy Hacks to Win Your Restraining Order Hearing (+ FREE class on how to win)
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If you're facing a domestic violence restraining order hearing, don't panic! In this video, we'll share 5 easy hacks to help you win your hearing and avoid a restraining order.
In the FREE class, you'll learn how to attack the DVRO protect your freedom and future. By following these simple tips, you'll be able to win your restraining order hearing and keep your safety and safety of your children intact! â www.defeatthedvro.com
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Man these DVROs fight them like your life depends on it! Or it can be used to steal your property, reputation, and family from you!
FOR REAL. Yes.
Amen, guilty by mere accusation so get tbe EFF out of your house, dont take your belongings and o, and hurry the eff up. So now im on the streets postponed the hearing twice to prepare since she has a lawyer and i dont. I have no money and not working from a police brutality on my property needing surgery. I used the last of my. Retirement to survive after my ejection and i cant believe this is happening to me. I was great to hed n my kids they had great lives. But now adults they decided they want my house without me in it. So,they got me removed.
Move
That plus my wife needing to become an american citizen i mean anything else i can get you before i die crom the elements?
Dvpo is the biggest tool in the toxic woman's toolbelt. It can and will be used against you. Don't marry, don't have kids with women who will put their kids aside and fuck you the first night. Don't ignore red flags. Leave the sluts to be evicted and cps to their children. Don't ever be a cpt save a ho
Facts!! I'm dealing with family members that isolated my brother smdh. I did file a lawsuit against them for defamation due to the false restraining order and won my case on summary judgment now im seeking a restraining order so they can leave me the hell alone
Some very basic knowledge here but đŻ % helped me win the first restraining order case. I have 2 files against me from family that are bullying and defaming and attempting to disenfranchise me.
This video helped!
Ty and itâs unfortunate that they were unable to file charges against me as your firm only handles felony situations.
Cheers
I am in the same similar situations. It was hard finding any attorneys...in CA.
Thank you for these helpful tips and for the bonus! đ
Iâm a family law attorney in Oregon and watching your video was such a treat! Preach!
Thank you , I'm learning a lot !
Thank you for the information it was helpful
đRepresenting yourself? Get a free class the teaches you exactly how to win your restraining order hearing. www.defeatthedvro.com
Do know the statistics for LA county as to how many DVRO's are successfully dismissed vs awarded? Thank you so much!
Thank you VERY MUCH for the awesome and informative video!
Keep it up. You look great, â€â€â€
Can you recommend any attorneys in Houston area for a protective order case? I just lost mines against my ex husband because my attorney was not prepared. All and any help is appreciated.
Can a party attach any document as evidence with TRO complaint? I thought that would be hearsay.
I didn't know a police report was hearsay. So does that mean it can't even be used to prove a domestic violence situation was occurring in order to validate the order itself?
Judge isint gonna care. Prossecutors gonna play on emotions and the judge will give gulty verdict by simple hearsay.
in some states if someone doesnât get a subpoena from a lawyer to retain the documents that comes from a police station, then the documents CAN NOT be used in court. reason being hearsay.
@@joegranillo7216 it was my own mother and family.
@@vincentdolente7053 I believe cops opinions are given higher deference than a typical person. Training, experience, state appointee, all that stuff. I could be wrong in some cases.
@@socalguy24 in an ideal world. That might be for the good. But right now i just feel like its abused.
I need help I have court case for DV on the 28th I need a lawyer by my side
I have one against me I have no proof or evidence of the person texting but calling me no voicemails however I deleted the numbers and the time it was called but it's on my scam shield app that's also deleted but all numbers are blocked however I have an attorney on me what can I do?
If you win your retraining order case, but you and the ex shares leases together but got you evicted can you get your apartment back and she get evicted?
Question, I'm sure that I will attain my restraining order. But the person lives right next to me in the same building practically. Can the judge issue a move out order? the person made threats and kept us in our home for over an hour banging on our door. I have multple recordings of her making the threats and banging on my doors and windows.
Iâm going through that right now my ex husband bullying me and lying.
I just got a restraining order put on me after I got blindsided by a hearing. I choose not to speak because im getting a lawyer so the judge issued the order because of that and Iâm not even in the same state as my ex. I absolutely did not nothing wrong and have ALOT of proof I didnât and a witness. My trial is in a couple weeks. Any advice?
Wow thats foul i would certify my right to subrogation
Do you offer your services on a payment plan or do you require a retainer. I have a hearing in 6 days and would love to walk in with a lawyer to destroy my ex who as you said, is basically bullying me. I caught her lying, (and more than likely cheating) and SHE filed a restraining order against me to prevent any problems with her getting caught in these lies
How did it go?
How did it go
What if the person doesn't respond in time
To the temporary restraining order ??
And when at the hearing can they respond at the hearing to the Judge to tell there side of the story along with evidence??
Frank, Iâm sorry, Iâm just seeing this. You donât have to respond âin timeâ because you donât need to actually file a written response at all (in California). At the hearing, the person who filed goes first, then the person who is defending. I just made a video with way more details than this one about how to win your restraining order hearing (including how to present your evidence).
I am trying to help my friend who is being accused of domestic violence restraining order. His ex took all the money out of there account and filed it an hour later the same day. How can u get photos from the bank? Would this be good evidence to use?
I need help , Iâm nervous and scared. a female I was talking to previously put out sheâll put an restraining order on me but I never physically hurt her nor verbally threatened her besides saying Iâm going to leaving her . Idk what to do atp . Will I be fine ????
Just lay low and avoid contact at all costs avoid her number
Iâm taking my brother in law to court for the same porpouse my lil sis and him are having disagreements in the process his dog bite my mom and me plain simple we donât want him back in the house. I thoughts I would like hear them.đđ
Very good video, one of the best ive seen regarding this particular situation. Thank you.
Thank you! I hope it helped.
I need help Iâm in Tucson az
I wish my sister could afford a lawyer. She got out of an abusive relationship. He then decided to move from nevada to California. He threatened my sister if she doesn't let him take the baby for a month then he would make sure she would never see her baby again.
The plan was they meet halfway a month later and gives her the baby back.
He made her drive all that way to have his cousin serve her with restraining order papers. And he didn't return the baby.
It's been very hard to figure out how to get her emergency custody.
She's very scared knowing she doesn't have a lawyer.
i have a op hearing monday defending myself due to not having a lawyer child is involved can i email you for advice?
I was divorced in 2020 dec. 6
The other side all the sudden feels like they need a protective order
Say bc ive been threatening like several voice messages of me crying like a child begging her to return my two hounds since the D theyve been with me 24/7 everywhere i go they were with me
Can she bring up pics and evidence from the divorce?
What do I do when the judge has blatant political bias and Grant's not only the RO, but 100% legal custody for aside from my political affiliation, for a 2018 case I was not only exhaunerated from, but the petitioner who made the DV allegation admitted in that case under oath she made up the charges so I'd go away. This order was granted in 2021 and 1 year later WE HAD ANOTHER CHILD! INTIL 5 MONTHS AGI SHE LET ME VIDEO CALL WITH THEM EVERY NIGHT AND SEE THEM TIME TO TIME. IIVE DOR MY KIDS. I NOW LIVE IN A TENT AND AM HOPELESS, HEARTBROKEN, AND CANT BEAR THE IDEA THIS CO PARENT HAS WEAPPNIZED THE COURT AND OUR CHILDREN TO PROTECT HER EGO (SHE IS A CHEATER). PLEASE HELP
I have filed a TRO request against one of my neighbors for threatening and harassing me. Can they bring up a court case against me that was completely dismissed that is 40 years old and has no relevance to the issues I am facing today?
They can try, but you should object based on relevance.
@@veronicatbartonesq Thank you, would a a judge allow it to be admitted?
My wife got an order of protection against me because I blocked her mother's phone number from calling our home phone because it rang out loud, and she (her mother) refused to use cell phones.
The judge granted my wife a 1 year order.
The year is coming up.
Will the judge automatically grant my wife's request to extend the order?
It won't be automatic. There will be a hearing (similar to the hearing you likely had the first time). She will have to show that a restraining order is necessary to prevent future domestic violence. Usually, if there has been no contact between the two of you, the judge would not grant the request to extend the restraining order.
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Actually, SHE (my wife) got the order modified to talk about business (we ran a business together).
In fact, the week before that hearing last October, her lawyer told my lawyer that my wife wished to talk about anything. But then at the hearing a few days later, her lawyer said, "no, no, just business."
Okay, fine.
So, my wife and I have been having nice exchanges involving business.
I did slip up in February of this year when I asked my wife's parents for help with our suddenly exploded credit card debt, and got mad at them in another email when they did not reply.
But, no, there has been no harassment or contact of any kind.
I think my wife's lawyer is freaking out because my wife lied to him and caused him to lie to the judge at the original OP hearing last August. Her lawyer is freaking out because I have continually called him out for withholding an exhibit he presented at the hearing. By surprise at the hearing, he held up texts showing me calling my wife a b and ah the night before she filed, when in fact, I was asleep and had only hours before told her, "I love you, what time will you be home tomorrow?" via text.
See? This case is really weird.
Step 1: In laws bother me.
Step 2: I block them.
Step 3: They get mad at my wife.
Step 4: A negative feedback loop is created and I said "Stop bothering me about blocking your fuk cing mother!"
Step 5: Bam, I'm out for a year based on lies.
Thank you so much for replying!
I pray to god I can go back home at the end of August and see my kids.
Unfortunately, I missed my daughter's last year at home before college, her last Xmas, Easter, prom, graduation, everything all because... I crossed my in laws. I am so sad and heartbroken.
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The judge did not extend the OP.
Unfortunately, I messed up AGAIN (god hates stupid people):
She was granted exclusive possession of the marital home during the pendency of the divorce proceedings.
3 months in, I was lonely and went to our street. A stranger's car was on my driveway. I went onto the driveway to look at it, then up the first 2 of 6 steps to our front porch to see who was in my home.
I left.
Unbeknownst to me, she had had Blink installed and saw me.
She filed for a new order of protection.
Now what?
I freqeuntly wish I could take back 60 seconds of my life.
I canât afford an attorney and he did! But I have reports and pictures of his abuse. Iâm not lying . Does that mean Iâll lose?
No! If you have admissible evidence, you present your story well and do not change it, and you have appropriate demeanor in court, an attorney can only do so much. You might want to go watch some hearings.
Please get the free class here: defeatthedvro.com What I teach in the class and the course applies to you. If the attorney says, "objection, foundation," for example, don't get flustered. Explain where the evidence came from. Bring extra copies (at least 3 copies) of each document. Don't plan to show anything that's on your phone (call the court ahead of time if you need to play a video or audio). Re-read your request for a restraining order so that you do not accidentally make changes to your story. If he has violated the restraining order at all, bring proof of that and tell the judge about it.
if you have clear and crucial evidence, you don't need an attorney at DVRO case.
Hi I unfortunately have a trial this Friday because I had to get a restraining order against my ex. sheâs been harassing me as well as my current girlfriend. This ex and I have been broken up for 4-5 years now and she wonât leave me and my girlfriend alone. I didnât think I was gonna need an attorney but after watching your video (though it was very helpful) also had the negative side affect of making me more nervous and unsure. Do you think Iâd need an attorney or do you have any extra tips for me? I got a domestic restraining order bc she was abusive when I was with her. Anything would help I wanted to ask you because you seemed like a really genuine caring person, smart too! Thanks so much.
Hi Cory, Restraining orders are the one type of court hearing that I actually do think you can win on your own, especially if the other side doesnât have an attorney. I actually created a course teaching you how. You can get a free first class here: defeatthedvro.com
Oh ok thatâs good to hear I really appreciate you taking time to respond. Thank you so much Iâll definitely check it out. Have a great day.
@@cobymazariegos8252 hello there what was the outcome of trial?
Somebody wants one agianst me im like a child idk what to do they said they wont if i admit the truth but the thing is that "truth" is a lie it was about a bullying thing there were bullying me
I need help! Going to San Bernardino court; wicked sister; abusing my mother, put me on restraining, now my mother passed away.... i need help
Question. I am a 37 year old disabled disabled individual who is living at my mother's House temporarily, At no point was there any kind of violence involved However, she did get a restraining order against me. I know it's because of her perceived idea of The possibility of violence because I occasionally drink alcohol Which she did not want in her home. Now she's 80 years old, and I'm almost certain. The court will always side with her as she plays the victim. I have a public Defender. Should I plead no contest as they are suggesting to me or take this to trial? Because no harm was ever done to anyone.
I welcome your thoughts below period I very much hope somebody will give me some idea on how to proceed because I have never once been in trouble with the law.
And have no idea what to do.
Hey, I know you comment is from 6 months ago, but I want to say that Iâm in exact same situation and I hope all is working out for you. Have a great day my friend
My fiances ex-husband threatens her constantly with restraining orders and to take the kids from her. He has her so fearful she doesn't know what to do. Even the solutions I mentioned she rejects out of fear. I wish I had a lawyer in her corner like yourself.
Can a restraining order be made to penalize anyone regardless of the situation? For instance, if the person filing it was the one who is aggressive and destructive?
My neighbor called 911 and told them I attacked her. She is now filing a restraining order. The thing is I showed the Police a video of what happened and it was in fact her attacking me*. You can even see her smirking at me when she was lying to the 911 operator about me grabbing her(she doesnt know I have cameras in the area). The video shows me as I backed away from her with my hands in the air. I also have several videos of her destroying my raspberry and blackberry bushes(talking to herself as she stabs at the branches to cut them away), destroying one of my vegetable gardens by crushing my plants with the cinder blocks used in my own compost pile(we are in a land dispute and the compost pile was in an area they claim as theirs). There is another video of her and her husband killing our 19 year old mulberry tree(although I dont think they did it on purpose. They pruned it to death right as it was coming out of dormancy)...but Im getting the restraining order placed on me?
I dont go near her, talk to her, or even look at her, her husband, nor her kids. When we see them, we just go back in the house. We are kind of scared of her, she's unstable(her husband even said she was once, in confidence, back when he and I got along. That "she could be vindictive and aggressive". That she "cycles" through emotions. Whatever that means)..and she has (subtly)threatened to harm my puppies.< but I cant prove that.
She is a Wealthy Pediatric radiologist and Im a struggling artist. I cant do a long, expensive court battle.
*apparently it wasnt a crime for her to grab the hose in my hand use it to push me back and then throw the hose to the ground..I was following a court order to remove my raspberry bush and needed to loosen the soil by watering when she went off on me.
Wait so I need to hire a lawyer I canât win by myself? Now Iâm nervous cause my ex put one on me and when I asked for some items back, she wanted give it to someone to give to me all I responded was â you need them more than me â and next day boom I got hit. Is that even legal ?
How is it hearsay to use police reports? If I am suing somebody for harassment and their form of harassment was abusing the police and court system against me, can I not use their own statements to the police and courts as my evidence of this claim? Will someone please explain this to me
Having evidence and police reports are NOT heresy. Just a heads-up, prayers to you
@@HeatherDavis-ys5rn Dear HEAD in hole...anyone else's remarks are HERESAY unless they personally appear to TESTIFY.....
I paid 3k today. Not doing this again with my 10 yr old son with the subpoenas
Youâre not allowed to bring phones yet alone a laptop into court.
Thatâs not true
OMG gooddddddddd one! LMAO!
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What do we do if someone is using a temporary restraining to threaten you? Can you tell the court that?
I was threatened with ill call sheriff she grew next door and dated him for a short while I said do it that's the best thing for you to do call the law on a man who has absolutely 0 to lose that's
@@ervinharris6756 we went to court with our lawyer all 5 orders was struck off cause my sister who lied about us did not come to court she could not afford a lawyer,we had enough to prove she is a filthy liar
Hello there
My ex girlfriend and I have a baby boy and shes lying and saying all kinds of horrible stuff about me that I did not do. We split up on good terms and now I have another relationship and she got so mad thats why she served me. And I cant see my baby. She's not letting me see him.
Iâm sorry about that. Iâve been going through the same with my ex wife for a year. I finally have court for it in 2 days. Advice man. Give her no ammo, follow all the rules, find a lawyer, gather up all evidence you can and stay strong brother
@@zion8246 thanks bro wish you all the luck in the world.stay up king
It's really sad how all of this works. The last DVRO hearing I had, I ended up giving advice to a few different people in the hallway who were responding to these restraining orders, which is what inspired this video in the first place.
@@veronicatbartonesq That's awesome thanks for giving back
Going through a similar situation. I hope you get to see your child.
My ex girlfriend put a restraining order on me and i lost my home i signed the lease on. I got a restraining order back but i want my belongings and my place back. Any advice if possible.
Hey howâd you get the RO back??
Single male.37. Got an order of protection slapped on me last Friday. Sheâs got recordings of me yelling. Iâve never been arrested for anything domestic, she literally resided here 10 months as of 1-11-24 she left me that day. Sheâs made false allegations Iâve put hands in her daughter face on Christmas. Her daughter stayed at my home 6 days, this teenager texted me looking for mom after she left, long story short Iâm on recording yelling. Iâll admit I yelled. I did not assault anyone ever. Iâm
Just nervous. Iâm broke, court date is 1-25-24. Just nervous, and more importantly embarrassed. She was homeless prior to me.
How did it go for you?
How do I show video evidence in court ?
Hi Jorge, Check out the course at defeatthedvro.com
I explain how to show your video evidence, keep the other sideâs evidence out, and from A to Z how to win your hearing.
I emailed you my information, i need help with a upcoming case.
Do you enjoy being in charge
I do not agree with laptop. That was the one thing that bothered me in this video. Before you even mentioned laptop, your typing was very annoying. Maybe I'm in the minority, however I personally would never want to intentionally be annoying in court. đ€«Love your content!â€đđđ
My ex filed a restraining order because I broke up with him and he wanted to get the house. Now Iâm staying in hotels and going broke so I canât afford an attorney but I have evidence that he is the abuser.
Becca, when is your hearing? And are you in CA? You can often win these on your own, especially since you have the evidence on your side. Iâm about to launch a course on how to successfully defend these. (It will be ready in the next day or two.)
@@veronicatbartonesq Iâm in Oregon and I plan on representing myself. I have the police report and him on video saying that Iâm trying to scam him out of the house. Also, my dad is the co-signer of the house and my ex recently lost his job. We now have dual restraining orders and court is set for April 6th. Any tips would be greatly appreciated.
@@Beccah503 I just emailed you
@@Beccah503how did it go?
Hello I need your help please đ đ. Would you help me ?
Hi Jake, I'm currently fulled booked for restraining order cases, but I created a course called Defeat the DVRO in which I teach you how to represent yourself and win. You can get your free first class here: defeatthedvro.com (If you'd prefer a referral to an attorney, please email me at clients@bartondefense.com)
Video starts at 3:15
I am in the exact situation I live in Boyle heights in Los Angeles can I hire you
Hi I like they say u explain things. I
I have a restraining order hearing this morning I n Orange California. I'm so unorganized because I have so many papers I bieve will make her look bad but idk. Are tax docs that she wod amend then forge my name be helpfully? I'm sorry I actually wanted to ask your availability. Iv never hit a woman or child in my life but my youngest son 17 n half reported me as a mad man who attacked him with box cutters.
Hi Mike, If you donât feel ready and have not already postponed the hearing, you have the option of asking to postpone it one time. (The judge will say yes if it is the first time you asked and you are the respondent.) The tax papers may or may not be helpful, depending on what she is alleging.
@@veronicatbartonesqwhere do I postpone it now till another day
@@veronicatbartonesq Veronica, where should I go now to ask for a continuance and also access to my house. I filled it with groceries the night before and payed mortgage for two months leaving me broke
@@MikeRyte-tb1nb Go to court, and ask the judge: âYour Honor, I would like to request that we continue this matter to another day so that I have sufficient time to gather my evidence.â (The courtroom staff will likely ask before youâre in front of the judge whether you intend to go forward with the hearing today, or similar.) The judge will understand your request and grant it.
@@MikeRyte-tb1nb The TRO will remain in place until the hearing actually takes place, so if she has possession of the house, she will keep possession of the house until the hearing.
What is she said her son was driving but her son die 4 yrs a go and yes she got up set in court because i said we both have a drinking problem
I am getting a restraining order against someone whos been stalking me online and she terrorised me over my art. Internet psychos need to be monitored and sent to jail if they are reported and there is legit evidence and people need to stop beinf jealous
I need helpđđ I canât see my daughter
Same, how did it go? Hope well
Kangaroo court completely disgusting
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I am a victim of severe domestic abuse! Do you not realize how condescending you come across with a Power Trip High Attitude in which you seem to be oblivious as to whether or not either party can present their true evidence and it seems you rather enjoy deliberately causing a situation to be worse than it already is I'm playing Court games. This is not a game and people do died everyday. You should really consider re-evaluating your smile which is very smirky and doesn't come across is wanting to exercise justice law for all parties or anyone else involve. It's like you're more interested in getting it as in "I gotcha you" rather you've actually got a gotcha you or not, well getting off on use and twist the law to cause people to not be able to exercise their rights by the law is the impression that I get from this video. Again this is not a game Lady it's not about you being some little super lawyer in a courtroom twisting people's lives using courtroom technicalities to manipulate the case instead of serving it for other party involved. And pardon me, but this thing about the judge is higher or holier-than-thou and such and citizen is lower and cannot speak attitude is one of the major problems in this country. I am woman betta male judge puts his pants on one leg at a time just like I do and I was created equally just like everyone else. In other words for Dr World this is known as a God complex! Or in the most simplest of terms you are not all that special... D_m! You should try living on the street for a week and not eating for 3 Days to get a reality check of how horrible it can be to live in this world and come down off of the pedestal that you seem to think you're on... Because this is the core problem is why it is that women cannot actually get the help that they need in the real life because politicians and lawyers and people who think they're upper-class only because they might have some money failed to recognize the status of an actual hardship life are there in the short-term or over a period of decades in life as I have suffered personally yet I'm not interested in doing a guy. You to get Justice for my husband's behavior I'm interested in the courts following the law and executing what is right not playing I got you games with a technicality to prevent someone from being able to testify or to deliberately fluster someone so that they come across as someone that did normally wouldn't be if they weren't being deliberately prodded and poked to cause a very irritable response that ordinarily would be out of character even and yes I am referring to potential as well. Overall this issue are domestic violence is not but you seem to come across with the attitude that you think all of this is a laughing matter. A tip of advice
Sounds like you need some therapy. The way you assumed that she had a "smirk" and assuming she is condescending shows that you are very emotional and *Argumentative* (I'm using what I just learned) and not understanding what she is saying. While I understand your emotions, Frustrations, and being pissed off at your abuser and their attorney because I too was a victim of Domestic Abuse (almost got killed, and the asshole had a bulldog attorney his parents were paying for ...I went through some terrible shit plus had PTSD from the abuse), you are still in your emotions while viewing this video and that is exactly what you should not do in court and while preparing to be in court. The court system in the U.S. for Family Law MUST change and totally sucks (I got screwed over by it), complaining about it without actually learning how to Use and Work the system isn't going to help the situation. You are also assuming she has a God-complex ... I just see her as trying to help and smiling to the camera so that people can see how she is friendly and trying to be presentable. I recommend that you go to therapy--it really helped me.
Everyone deserves to have a defence. They are millions of videos helping the victims and almost always there are comments saying: lock them up and throw away the key. This is literally the only channel i've found helping the other side and i wholeheartedly thank the creator of this channel. Every Person has good aswell as bad traits in them and there are almost always two sides to the story.
I felt the same from this video. Women stay because they are afraid and when they try to leave often abuse escalates and lawyers doing what she described above where she laughs as she decimates the victim is not justice esp if the abuser controls the money and ability to have legal representation. When she sees a victim without a lawyer she said it's fun to decimate them. Women die every day from domestic abuse. Others live in fear for many years with no access to money, because they are traumatized and don't present organized. Mine hired father's rights lawyers just for divorce. Controlled millions and the home and car. Said he needed to control me and the accounts because there was something wrong with me. I was healthy prior to marriage and DV. At no point in divorce did I have access to even checkbook. I signed, under duress without discovery while his abuse escalated. I was afraid to report him. Then he defaulted on divorce and said he's untouchable. That's what these lawyers do to women. Even divorced I'm not safe and have no rights to even enforce what he signed.
I had run into a woman for 27 years put a restraining order on me. My wife past away in my arms. Well an electrician who worked at my home who also worked at her home. Well he gave me her phone #r instead of his phone #r. Well I love this I texted her I cared for her and I love her. Well this electrician hung out with me for 10 months to start trouble. He introduced me to some of her friends. So all the sudden I'm going to court for menacing by stalking. He was calling her telling her false things. So she's scared for her life and distressed. I would hurt this woman I love her. So my lawyer basicly made me sighn it before court. I'm so hurt over this.
The beginning made me cringe! Itâs kind of tacky to gloat that you like destroying the plaintiff. For instance, Iâm trying to get a restraining order against my neighbor. Heâs a jackass living with his mom, heâs 27 years old, and threatened to kill my dogs and myself. But mommy and daddy are paying for his lawyer for the restraining order. Please read text full and saying things because some people canât afford a lawyer, but they really do you have a need for a restraining order.
There are definitely two sides to it.
I only do defense work (although I did volunteer for a domestic violence legal clinic for about a year). What I often see is people lying in order to get a leg up on custody/child support or kick someone out of their house while not even paying rent.
I've never, in 10 years of doing this, had a case where the other party kicked my client out of his home with a TRO but still paid their fair share of rent, for example. Never.
I came home from court after defeating one such petitioner and filmed this video, which is.... polarizing to say the least. But hopefully it helps people.
Best of luck with your case, but beware of having a false sense of security. A restraining order is a piece of paper. It's not going to stop anyone determined to commit violence against you. At least in California, you'd be better off calling the cops and reporting him for a criminal threat. At minimum, then a prosecutor would make sure to get a protective order on your behalf, without you facing a lawyer in court alone.
Why would you help people not to get a restraining order
Restraining orders can go on your record and affect your future housing, employment, and professional licenses. They can also cause you to lose custody of your children and lose your home (while still having to pay). Not everyone who applies for one is telling the truth, and even amongst those who are, not everyone actually needs a restraining order to protect themselves.
@@veronicatbartonesq but what if you need one my friend x has been harassing and stalking me since January.. threatening violence and revenge porn ( not that he has any) but still
There are resources to assist you with obtaining a restraining order in most states. Personally, when I felt harassed, I blocked the other party and moved away. A restraining order is a piece of paper. Violating it is a crime, sure, but it doesnât stop a determined person from bothering you, especially if the police and/or local prosecutors donât care.
Isnât the judge being a bully by letting allowing the plaintiff to perjure herself and still grant order. Oc sup cat jdg is a dumass
her smiling is creepy
Hereâs a tip, donât abuse Harass stalk people?
Tell that to person who makes the complaint with lies
As though no one has ever lied about someone harassing them. Big đ§ comment
Win and lose?? Makes no sense. I want these people out of my life. I have to win something to stop my parents breaking into my house?
In the state of California, if you want to have the government make it a crime for someone to contact you, come within X amount of feet of you, etc. (as well as potentially affect their background checks, housing, employment, etc.) you have the burden of proof to show the judge that you are entitled to a restraining order. If you meet your burden as the petitioner, you win. If not, you lose.
You wouldnât want anyone obtaining such an order on you without providing sufficient proof (or at least most people wouldnât, which is why we have due process in the U.S.). If you do not agree with due process, there are plenty of countries without it. (Just hope you donât end up being the accused person there, I suppose.)
Plenty of people ask for restraining orders based on lies. Their motives are to gain various advantages in housing, custody, alimony, child support, immigration⊠the list goes on. Our system is not perfect, but it at least requires the person claiming that they need protection to convince a judge before obtaining a burdensome restraining order on someone else.
Jesus get on with it
Exactly what the judge will think if you represent yourself & donât know what youâre doing ;) Go to DEFEATtheDVRO.com to learn how to represent yourself and prevent the judge from thinking âJesus, get on with itâ and ruling against you.
The way you word the beginning is pretty disturbing. Youâre taking joy and describing âabsolutely destroyingâ someone at the initial hearing, who very likely is a victim of abuse just trying to get some protection from the court..
Many times itâs also someone lying
This lady is full of herself đ