@@JuiceBox875 All you should do is reflect. Don’t ‘stay’ in the past. Think about the size of a rear view mirror and the size of a windshield. The rear view is small and only should be used for a very short period of time and only a couple of moves. A windshield is vast. It’s clear (not reflective), and allows you to see what’s ahead of you. Train your mind to think positive thoughts. Speak positively about yourself and your life. Write down the things you want to see changed, and the things you want to achieve. Read that list aloud often. Change your actions, and work towards the things on that list. Let go of bad habits, people, and things that no longer serve you. You’ll see the change. Many blessings and much success to you! 🙏🏾💪🏾
Our PRECIOUS and WISE elder, Ms. Iyanla has entered the conversation! I LOVE IT! WE (black people and people of color) NEED this! Thank you all for creating a safe place for those of us who are discarded, damaged, and desire to be healed.
She's so right, some people are so unaware of their low vibrations, that they are actually inviting the mess into their lives that they say they don't want. I'm still working on unpacking my hidden truths. Having a therapist, mentor, or unbiased 3rd parties are soo important to breaking open the complex nature of our consciousness and subconsciousness.
Now that's truly a word!!! This applies, to not just potential mates, but to every person in our lives. Some people's energy just open the doors for any and everything to come in. People just playing in your face and you can't figure out why. It's your ENERGY!!
We should always look at what we allow before we point the finger at others. We can be fooled but NOT ALL THE TIME. U can NOT be a victim every time, so watch what/who u allow in your space and life. Get counseling (do the work) and prayer as well as pray yourself
I love that you guys and ladies are inviting others onto the platform. They are bring wisdom as well and the vibe from this group is amazing. We are all learning so much. Now I have to work on cleansing my frequency because Boo comes needing help and as an advocate I am all about serving in my purpose. But then he don’t wanna move on. I can’t find the balance mad i m working on healing my traumas so I know when to help and when not to help. And who to help and who not to help. Thank you Queen Iyanla.
We need to start talking more about enslaved Africans in America and ancestral trauma. #Blackancestraltrauma Black Men and Women have never been in a position to heal properly so people keep going around in circles. PTSD is real. Passport bros are being found missing or dead these days. Some marry and take care of the woman's family ignoring their first set of kids. This is not just about race or culture either. It's a world wide problem men planting seeds and not watering them. It's the children who suffer who eventually grow up. Now we have Generation Z and The Alpha Generation. Your vote does matter, why people died for that.
Who we attract and who we give our energy to are two different things. If we are solely responsible for whom we attract does this means a murder victim, rape victim, pedo victim, slavery victim brings it upon themselves due to their energy vibrations
And THAT Gentlemen.. is when you should be opening up your wallet! Just remember.. YOU have to “wait 90 days”.. Pookie (that get her all tingly) has to wait 90 minutes. ✌🏾
This is classic! You can't sore like a eagle, if you hang around turkeys! How do you expect to attract a high level man or woman, if you hang around 304's or thugs?🤔 It is just simple logic. 😮
For relationships I see how this is accurate. I’m trying to figure out how this applies to me getting cancer or other bad things happening. Is it all from my own subconscious thoughts?? If so, that’s very scary - even while doing the work, therapy, prayer, meditation, etc…
People don't understand when I say, the people I date or have been involved with come every 10 years. Meaning there is a 10 year gap of not dating, 10 years of abstinence, 10 years of growth, learning and understanding me. I've evolved in that time frame, my vibration is higher, the requirement is for the new person, also known as energy to meet me where I am, not where I've been.
When I ran across this new species, I was vulnerable at the time coming out of a 3 yr toxic situationship..😮 My low vibration of energy brought through cuckoo boo boo the fool..😮 He were suffering from highly severe depression, manipulating, gaslighting, arrogant, hated black women undercover 😮, two different religious beliefs😮 💭 different personality disorder, 5 yr toxic relationship..😮 I'm disappointed within myself from running into a train 🚆 reck..🤦 not protecting my energy,🤦and letting my conscious control more of my thoughts 🤔 being obedient to God by not using the gift of discernment.Smfh
Yes, shes talking science and its place in our social lives as humans, were all made of cells and energy can't get around that.....its not new, it always was
That is not entirely true…..like I’ve said before…..I’ve seen many people who were absolutely low vibrational (self loathing, bitter, angry) attract great partners and lots of money that other “high vibing” people WANT but don’t have🤷♀️ I’ve seen people who are happy and good people have awful experiences while people who intentionally self harm receive healing from illnesses.
People aren't ready for this type of accountability. She explained it so nicely.
Soooooo many arent
Exactly 💯
I am , I just don’t know where or how to start. All I know is reflect on what I did wrong.
@@JuiceBox875 All you should do is reflect. Don’t ‘stay’ in the past. Think about the size of a rear view mirror and the size of a windshield. The rear view is small and only should be used for a very short period of time and only a couple of moves. A windshield is vast. It’s clear (not reflective), and allows you to see what’s ahead of you. Train your mind to think positive thoughts. Speak positively about yourself and your life. Write down the things you want to see changed, and the things you want to achieve. Read that list aloud often. Change your actions, and work towards the things on that list. Let go of bad habits, people, and things that no longer serve you. You’ll see the change. Many blessings and much success to you! 🙏🏾💪🏾
@@JuiceBox875start by being conscious of what you want and who you need to be to gain what you want. BE AWARE!!!!
Energy is real. Adjust your frequency.
When she speaks…I listen 👂🏽👂🏽👂🏽
And do !!!
She learned from her life experiences ❤
Every👏🏾time
We picking up what she laying down!!!!!
Our PRECIOUS and WISE elder, Ms. Iyanla has entered the conversation! I LOVE IT! WE (black people and people of color) NEED this! Thank you all for creating a safe place for those of us who are discarded, damaged, and desire to be healed.
Don't attract Boo Boo the fool or Marqueta the cheetah! 😆 🤣 😂
😂 not Marqueta the cheetah. Lol I have to use this.
😂😂😂
😂😂🤣🤣🤣 ooooh no
not Marqueta
I damn sure got a boo boo…….but I’m making changes and he’s about to be a bye bye.
😂💯
"We're vibrating down here wanting someone vibrating up here."
"We have to stop being victims to the things we attract."
This hit me like a truck.
Doing the internal work is so IMPORTANT to your Personal growth.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE ONES IN THE BACK!!!
She was born for this!❤
Truth Demands Accountability. 💯
Iyanla?! Let's go!!!
Lord, I wish she was back on some platform where we could get that kind of dialogue on a regular basis.
She's so right, some people are so unaware of their low vibrations, that they are actually inviting the mess into their lives that they say they don't want. I'm still working on unpacking my hidden truths. Having a therapist, mentor, or unbiased 3rd parties are soo important to breaking open the complex nature of our consciousness and subconsciousness.
Now thats some REALTALK, self awareness and accountability is everything.
Yes, you date at your level of self esteem and maturity.
Now that's truly a word!!! This applies, to not just potential mates, but to every person in our lives. Some people's energy just open the doors for any and everything to come in. People just playing in your face and you can't figure out why. It's your ENERGY!!
Yo! She dropped a gem on us right there!!!! Beautiful!!
I love Mrs. Vanzant, because she is a truth teller and she gives helpful information for all men and women.
Energetic Invitation... DEPTH!!!
Yes, and this works for all types of relationships❤
Facts preach preach preach
I can really listen to her speak. McQueeda the Cheetah is a new one for me. I love that.
I love Iyanla. She says things more eloquently than most in a way that touches the soul.
Alright now!!!!! I have been following her( Iyanla) for years…
@susanhenderson9739
Me too. I want to meet her and conversate with her. Omg the wisdom i would get from her.
Yessss, yall got the Queen on your show yeaaaa❤
We should always look at what we allow before we point the finger at others. We can be fooled but NOT ALL THE TIME. U can NOT be a victim every time, so watch what/who u allow in your space and life. Get counseling (do the work) and prayer as well as pray yourself
Iyanla Vanzant…. Visions to reality…. I adore you!!!
Yes yes shes great at what she does ! Thank you
Thank you Jesus for our precious, wise, amazing elders.....now this is tonight's conversation ❤🙏
Mashallah to this woman. I never heard something truer than her words of wisdom.
Omg!!! Yassss the Queen has arrived!! We are lit lit🔥🔥🔥
She's on point😊
Come through with the elders!
All things start from within and that means we individually need to confront our inner self.
I love that you guys and ladies are inviting others onto the platform. They are bring wisdom as well and the vibe from this group is amazing. We are all learning so much. Now I have to work on cleansing my frequency because Boo comes needing help and as an advocate I am all about serving in my purpose. But then he don’t wanna move on. I can’t find the balance mad i m working on healing my traumas so I know when to help and when not to help. And who to help and who not to help. Thank you Queen Iyanla.
This is the one of the best pieces of advice I've heard from Iyanla
Go on and tell them Mama Iya!!!
You are sooooo on point god
Straight up god you are on majority point mamaz “>✨💯👑
This is so true.
We all need to look at our selves within
GOOD KNOWLEDGE INFORMATION, LOVE IT 🖤
Good one! I really needed this reminder! Thank you for sharing!❤❤❤
My Grandmother always told me, "If you don't feel good about yourself, you will attract TRASH everytime".
Teach, Mom Iyanla 🙏🏾
This is absolutely 💯 true!
Love Iyanla!! Damn i miss her show
We need to start talking more about enslaved Africans in America and ancestral trauma.
#Blackancestraltrauma
Black Men and Women have never been in a position to heal properly so people keep going around in circles.
PTSD is real.
Passport bros are being found missing or dead these days.
Some marry and take care of the woman's family ignoring their first set of kids.
This is not just about race or culture either.
It's a world wide problem men planting seeds and not watering them.
It's the children who suffer who eventually grow up.
Now we have Generation Z and The Alpha Generation.
Your vote does matter, why people died for that.
My mouth DROPPED when I seen Ms Iyanla Vanzant on the thumbnail . immediate click
Love her ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Same
Amen and amen preaching
Sister Vanzat, TEACH!!! Thank you!!!
Who we attract and who we give our energy to are two different things. If we are solely responsible for whom we attract does this means a murder victim, rape victim, pedo victim, slavery victim brings it upon themselves due to their energy vibrations
Soooo very true!!...i just realized that as of 2024
ENTITIES 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yes, its the deep thoughts, and beliefs. Absolutely.
Preach....
Preach 🙏
As a man thinketh in his heart so is he
Nobody wants to know that they did it to themselves....
And THAT Gentlemen.. is when you should be opening up your wallet! Just remember.. YOU have to “wait 90 days”.. Pookie (that get her all tingly) has to wait 90 minutes. ✌🏾
This is classic! You can't sore like a eagle, if you hang around turkeys!
How do you expect to attract a high level man or woman, if you hang around 304's or thugs?🤔
It is just simple logic. 😮
I love it! Great job
Gotta love Iyanla! 🤗💜🦋 If you listen you'll definitely learn from her.
Speak on it 👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥👸🏾
DEEP!!!
Asé Asé Aaaaasé🙌🏽
Ok look who they got up there🎉
For relationships I see how this is accurate. I’m trying to figure out how this applies to me getting cancer or other bad things happening. Is it all from my own subconscious thoughts?? If so, that’s very scary - even while doing the work, therapy, prayer, meditation, etc…
Speak the real truth
Preach
Word(s) Period 😊
People don't understand when I say, the people I date or have been involved with come every 10 years. Meaning there is a 10 year gap of not dating, 10 years of abstinence, 10 years of growth, learning and understanding me. I've evolved in that time frame, my vibration is higher, the requirement is for the new person, also known as energy to meet me where I am, not where I've been.
You are what you attract.
Facts 👸🏽
That make SO much Damm SENSE BOO_BOO da FOOL and MaCHEETA LA QUANTA HELLO
That part! 👌
Pookie & Ray Ray has entered the chat
OK! You already got Tripp and Kitty now you add Iyanla!! With those three you don't need anybody else on this show!
That was so good
Period❤❤❤❤
💯💯💯🔥🔥
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Talk about it Iyanla
🙌🏿
When I ran across this new species, I was vulnerable at the time coming out of a 3 yr toxic situationship..😮 My low vibration of energy brought through cuckoo boo boo the fool..😮 He were suffering from highly severe depression, manipulating, gaslighting, arrogant, hated black women undercover 😮, two different religious beliefs😮 💭 different personality disorder, 5 yr toxic relationship..😮 I'm disappointed within myself from running into a train 🚆 reck..🤦 not protecting my energy,🤦and letting my conscious control more of my thoughts 🤔 being obedient to God by not using the gift of discernment.Smfh
Yup!!!
Facts
Anit nobody else coming in to my life in I mean it I'm Straight 🤞🏼
I ❤ Iyanla Vanzant!
❤
So now the question would be is how to raise vibrations?
Yes, shes talking science and its place in our social lives as humans, were all made of cells and energy can't get around that.....its not new, it always was
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
she basically said all those trash partners were you attracting like energy
Can anyone give me the name of that gorgeous goddess, I need to seek more of her wisdom
I love her so much I want to meet her
I love how all of the comments telling men to hold their wallets for 90 days, have been deleted. 😂
.. good luck with Pookies other children ladies.
Where is the full vid, why all the clips and no link?
That is not entirely true…..like I’ve said before…..I’ve seen many people who were absolutely low vibrational (self loathing, bitter, angry) attract great partners and lots of money that other “high vibing” people WANT but don’t have🤷♀️ I’ve seen people who are happy and good people have awful experiences while people who intentionally self harm receive healing from illnesses.
exactly!!! she didn’t even scratch the surface with trickster spirits, twofaced karmics, & energy vampires!!!
I dated a narcissist because I had low self worth
No lies were told 😐
💎💎💎💎🎂
PLEASE INVITE IYANLA TO CHARLOTTE'S SHOW!