My brother married a woman with 5 children by the same man and he loved each of those children as his own. He took care of her and those children. As in any other thing, to each their own. It is up to the individual. There are still men of great character walking around. Not many, but there are some.
She had 7 kids with a man, but she’s no longer with him. 🤔 Kitty should have also asked her “What happened to the relationship with the father?” Because 7 kids in, and she’s looking for another man??? In this economy, the most she can hope for, is a Sugar Daddy, or a F*ck Buddy.
nah i have the same and have been divorced for 13 years just wanted my kids to get older before i found him.. and i did.. so if a mofo want you all of that won't matter
@@Califooya It's different for men because the kids aren't in the house 24/7. Are his options different? Of course but she's the full time parent for what I assume are all of the kids. She can't get a man that really wants to deal with her so she should figure things out with her ex. She's too far gone at this point.
Single mothers with children should be interested in single men who have custody of his children. Single people with children, through divorce or through wedlock, should consider becoming a blended family, when it comes to marriage.🤔💡😉🤷
There's always some bs excuse as to why a babymama makes repeated irresponsible decisions...No self-respecting man wants a woman who makes chronic life changing mistakes, that eventually he has to be responsible for. Stop lying to these babymamas, their odds are dismal.
Just because her 7 kids are with the same man, that should not give her a reprieve. Having that many kids with that man shows that she committed to that man for the long haul. Why have 7 kids with someone just to leave and start all over? If this was such a bad relationship that she had to leave, why have 7 children with him? 🙄🤷🏽♀️
@@michaele5588 I'm almost certain that this is the case. I'm also certain that she's on government assistance and that's she almost definitely is lying when she says that they're all by this one man. It's a recipe for disaster whoever decides to take on that burden. She's only going to find men who want to sleep with her at this point, and I wouldn't be surprised if she gets pregnant by one of them too eventually (if she still has the ability to have children)
@@michaele5588that still doesn't change thr equation or the question! If the guy was so bad that she had to leave, why have any kid with him, to begin with? She all of a sudden found out that he was broke and had other baby mamas AFTER she had 7 kids? Knock it off.
I'd say a minimum of 3 kids have to age out/become adults, before she can really get a fair shot at dating. 7 kids (that are under one roof) + a new man + work? Yeah that's a lot. I can't even fathom someone taking it on and being an ideal relationship.
Please do not listen to this!!!! A good man will date you with children. This message is to keep children safe. @califooya will be in the comments section of every sad news. Saying. “ why she didn’t give the kids to CPS or drop them off at the fire station “ 😢
@@cinnamonstar808 lol wtf are you talking about? Make your point but leave me out of it especially when I spoke on the mother A N D the father. Go cherry pick on another post
@@rainbeauxunicorn5237 right because there is a whole slew of stupid...I mean eligible men lining up to wife up a woman with...how did LeBron and Dwade say it...not 2, not 3 not 4, not 5...🤦
@@KrimsonKannon1969 like seriously.. how can you supposedly have 7 kids by the same guy and expect any worthy man to look your way? That’s way too much biology your body has been through for it to still be desirable.. just the thought of it alone..
I just want to protect her!! The sad thing is there are some men who will see her as easy prey and their goal would be to bring chaos and destruction to her home!! It would be difficult for me to trust a man around my vulnerable children and my prayer is that God will fill her with a supernatural discernment so that she is wise and patient enough to understand that raising her children in a loving and peaceful home is enough for this season! Amen 🙏🏽
Protect her, so it's not partially her fault that she's in this situation and all of a sudden the dangerous men are going to come for her and her children. Ma'am please. The only man that will settle for her is a broken man needing resources and in hard circumstances. It's her responsibility to not take him in. People do to you, what you allow them too
For those asking, I think she meant “see her as easy prey” because shes searching for something outside of herself when The Most High already has blessed her with unconditional love 7 times. Love those babies and self. If the bio dad isn’t a good candidate for a partnership, yet she had babies with him over & over & over.. some men WILLLLL see her as weak and take advantage.
Then they should’ve thought of that before having all those kids to begin with 🤷🏽♂️. Funny how some ppl don’t like to face the consequences of their own decisions/actions.
@@mike972354: Uh, hello? It’s not always that simple. Not every woman is in a position to just walk away. Have you never heard of emotionally or psychologically abusive relationships? How about Stockholm Syndrome? Perhaps you should put down the joystick and pick up a book now and then. Sometimes women stay in relationships because they are afraid to leave. Some literally *CAN’T* leave without the threat of death, great bodily harm, or harm to their children. And not every woman in these situations has family or a support system outside the home. Some men can and will beat a woman down mentally to the extent that she believes she is incompetent and incapable of making moves or decisions without the man. And guess what? Some controlling and abusive men won’t allow their wives or girlfriends to use birth control and the women don’t even have a say over their own wombs. I’ve seen all of these scenarios with my own eyes. Speak on what you know, not what you assume.
@@user-ye4bu6xh4c No one said they're not but if you're a single parent in the dating world your days of being choosey and entitled to a high value man are over unfortunately. The harsh reality is that your competition are younger fertile women with no kids from an ex.
Point of Order (RIP E Mays) My sister shot straight to the financial aspects first.... then talked about structure in the household. Structure in this situation begins with her. It's up to her to create the space and understanding between the children and their father for this new man to come in and bring what he has to offer in the development of this new family foundation. She & he have to be one and harmonious to manage the household. May God bless their family
If I had seven kids and broke up with the woman I had those kids with honestly unless I'm super rich I'm not dating for a looooooooong time, not even casually. And I'm saying this as a man who by society's standards can choose to dip on those children and be irresponsible. Sister should maybe give up on trying to date for like a while because honestly it's not going to be easy, three or four kids is a lot, 7 is an entire army ffs 😭😭😭
@user-ye4bu6xh4c maybe if you stayed in school long enough to understand reading comprehension you could stay on topic. You coming to the defense of someone who can't spell proves you're just as illiterate as they are or more.
Uuuumm, yes he can be. Just because your not married to a man or not dating him, doesn't take away from him being a quality man. Sorry you can't find him.
@@ds8844… 😂😂😂 sure… he “can” be, but he’s not. A quality man doesn’t use women for their time, labor and sex. But you would know that if you were one. I don’t need to “find” anyone, sweet cheeks. I’m already married. I be trying to help y’all unfortunate males but y’all are too hard headed. But that’s ok because my sisters say they don’t wanna be bothered with yall anyways.
Nobody…and I mean NOBODY asked her why she had SEVEN CHILDREN with a man who she did not want to be with. They were CLAPPING FOR HER like she did something. We are doomed.
It takes at minimum $15,000 a year to cover expenses for each child. $15,000 x 7 kids = $105,000 a year taken off your income at the beginning of each year.
Hell naw you are severely underestimating thr income needed to care for 9 people. To be comfortable buddy would need at least 500k minimum. Shit the house would need to be a good 6 to 7 bedrooms to comfortably fit all those children. That woman would need a 1% and good luck with 7 kids smfh.😊
Maybe I didn't hear the whole conversation but I saw her reaction when it was suggested. How do you say yes to 7 children with the same person, but that same person is not good enough to work out a relationship with? You are asking A LOT from a stranger to come in and provide structure and leadership in that situation. The children's father is definitely the best option.
She can find love but she has to be open to the form that it comes in. I'm not saying that she has to settle for anything, but baby girl your days of being extra choosey is OVER. If that new guy shows you and those kids love, affection, structure, discipline and he has money to support y'all, u better stick with him even if he is a little over weight, not the skin tone that u would prefer, doesn't dress like the typical guy that you would be with. As long as y'all personalities vibe together, and he's respectful to and those kids, and you make sure that he's given that same respect back it can work. Don't worry about what your friends think about him, suppress that ego that Beyonce gave y'all about upgrading your partner, because those days are over for you. Now it's about setting a solid example for your kids, and being happy while your doing it.
Here y’all go lying to this woman. Yes is possible for her to Find a quality man The real question is it probable? Hell no . Only a fool would sign up for this chaos. Why would a quality man choose to deal with a woman with 7 kids when he can simply find a woman with no kids to deal with.
@TianaThompson90s Separate yourself from the rest of the women. Brothas been saying since the 70s we want our women with their NATURAL hair, no lashes and less makeup. But yall do the exact opposite.
Women be trying to protect other women’s feelings. She was not honest with her. The type of dude she gone garner with 7 kids ain’t gone be the kind she want. What sensible man “wants a woman with kids” let alone 7? That’s not the real world. Crazy part about this is y’all want a man that sees & loves your kids as his own but he is not allowed to discipline his kids as his own. “All of the responsibility with none of the Authority.” It’s a bad deal and I’ve heard stories of men who have been step fathers say “don’t raise another man kids. Don’t be a step father.” It’s a thankless job that no man deserves.
My first wife has 5 children. My second wife has 2 children. I dated a woman with 7 children. It is very difficult to take on that responsibility. All the adults have to have the best interest of the children in their mind. It is a financial strain, but child support helped. The mental responsibility is a lot. That's a lot of personalities, especially depending on the ages of children and the relationship they already have or don't have with their father.
And especially what the woman says and does. Of she has even an ounce of toxic in her, and doesn't watch carefully what she says and does, then it's a wrap. She has to be fully grown and fully healed to manage all that successfully. But, that is also true for all the adults involved.
And this is why I am scared to get back out in the dating scene! I don't & will not date a man who has children under the age of 18! Their kids need to be grown & gone just like mine!💯 I don't want the responsibility! Point, Blank, Period!
One child,maybe two you should have know sis. Hard to find a man thats gonna be into a relationship like that. Different reasons may made the relationship stop but building a new one with someone else's kids is gonna be difficult and i don't care how good you look
No woman leaves after 7 for no reason. Maybe dad was the one to leave, maybe he has changed his sexual preference. Maybe he was a danger to her or the kids. Who knows! It just sucks the suggestion was go back instead of …you can, but it would be easier if you wait until your children get older (at least half of them). For now you should be busy loving on them and focusing on coparenting.
🧢🧢🧢 In the time we live in unless it’s physical abuse and/or infidelity, it’s 100% a immature reason for leaving. Carrying a child to term without laying the foundation needed to raise it (I.e a married household) is completely on her being irresponsible. Your feeling became secondary the moment you decided to have a child, otherwise put that kid up for adoption.
@rodneywestshow Actually your impulsive response without understanding and mediation is the problem. If you read from a neutral place and not defense you can see the neutrality in my comment. I never said he was the problem. My point was there was too much unknown info to give advice on going back. I said No woman leaves after 7 for no reason. Maybe dad was the one to leave. If your limited view sees him leaving (without knowing why) as a problem your narrow minded. He could have left because SHE did something wrong. I said maybe he has changed his sexual preference. If you see that as a him being the problem that’s your perception. I see it as a reason the relationship wouldn’t work. Clearly she hasn't changed her preference based on the question. Now I did say Maybe he was a danger to her or the kids because it is reality it happens. My only issue was that she is focused on the next man instead of her kids right now. So clearly I recognized that her thinking is the issue. Like her, you need to self focus stay off CZcams!!!
Facts! 💯☝🏽 Because the kids don’t live with the dad full time or at all. If more men had physical or full custody like mothers do women would have an easier time finding men to marry them. It’s sad but it’s the truth. 😩😐
Because women see that as a sign that *other* women want him (don’t want Anything unless everyone else does) & ignore his lack of discipline 😴 Y’all really are a *Hive mind*
Only if he doesn't pay child support. I doubt any woman will take him, if he doesn't contribute to anything in the house as well after going broke paying "children" supports like this.
No it won’t when they hear you got 7 kids and you not someone like future that can actually pay that monthly support and still live like he ain’t got no kids, they will walk away cuz what bread dude gon have after he better off staying with girly
And it shouldn't be. A man with 7 kids should look unattractive as a woman with 7 kids. He need to stop playing and her as well. And leave the world alone. They got army of children. Talking about they looking for love. No they looking to pollute the earth. Because why should anyone be responsible for their 7 children but them. Why they keep bunny hopping if they don't like each other. Nope.
Yes...and, she will need to allow this man to guide and discipline all 7. None of this, "you're not my dad" foolishness. So, it took 7 children for you to know you don't want him in your life as a partner permanently? 7 children? Woman, YOU have problems, go fix those and stop thinking about a man. You are clearly not ready.
At this point she should just apply for FOOD STAMPS and enjoy the fruits of labor by being able to keep a house full of groceries for 7 kids 🙄 her men application READS .......LOOKING FOR TYRONE AND POOKY ONLY ,that's probably all she's going to attract 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Lol wisely said. It TOOK 7 kids for her to finally say I can't be with you forever. 🤦♀️ Woman you look foolish and unstable as a dating option to other men. Even a single dad with one child has better options than her.
Single mothers with children, should be interested in only single men who have custody of his children. Single people with children, through divorce or through wedlock, should consider becoming a blended family, when it comes to marriage.🤔💡😉🤷
7 kids!!!! I would need to know more. Like how old is the youngest? Are any of them twins? But by her and her baby daddy not being together, shows me someone or both of them are being selfish. With such a large amount of children at such a young age, they should be together, at least roommates. It takes a village to raise one, not one raising a village. It’s hard to transport 7 children let alone raise them. I got nothing but love and respect for this young lady, but they made their bed and they have to lay in it. Those kids ain’t ask to be here
That is a very tall order for any man.. It's possible but very rare.. I wish her the best.. 7 kids wow!! To be honest, the only good thing about dating her is, ( He knows she is less likely to say no to sex )..
My friend's older sister had 7 children from the same man, and they got divorced while the oldest child was still in high school. I'll admit, thought that it would be difficult for her in the dating market, but she began dating, and moved in with, a father of 3 so fast it was amazing to me. It's definitely possible, and apparently more probable than I would have figured.
That woman on the stage clearly has no clue if her advice is to get back with the BD. The strength it takes to leave a man with seven of your babies-- that's not a woman- she's a superhero. Stay strong queen. The right one will find you ❤
The way the lady sugar coated her response was crazy and baffling telling her it’s absolutely possible is wild absolute means it’s much more probable then improbable..secondly then following it up with a “tad” bit difficult seems to giver her much more then just hope and that’s absolutely not true in both cases and that’s truly an example of a women giving another women terrible advice and women also knowing they would rather be lied to then told the truth…this damn woman said the “financial footing to take on that responsibility” 😂😂😂😂😂that comment is so ironic and baffling all at the same time 🤦🏾♂️
i think they answered this carefully and very respectfully; seven kids is alot for a couple who had the kids, its very much more difficult for someone to come into that situation as a new person/outsider. they asked good questions, do you have enough love/energy/etc for this man when you have seven kids who have need/wants/etc. And how do those kids interact w/him, how does their lives and schedules impact him and yalls relationship. KIDS MAKE THINGS MORE DIFF FOR PEOPLE IN ESTABLISHED RELATIONSHIPS MUCH LESS PEOPLE IN NEW ONES>
Hey bro, love the video, but can you please tag the original? I really want to hear the rest of that conversation, but don't have the time it would take for me to go researching which video it comes from.
I personally think that more questions should have been asked about the relationship. She could have easily been a DV victim. In most DV situations it takes years and statistically speaking about seven times to leave. There are many scenarios that can explain why a woman won't leave. 33 is still so young. I wonder the journey it took her to leave him and to have her babies. By that age My mother was a mother of seven as well ,she found love. This woman was very brave to stand up and ask that question, I do think love is possible for her. To sum it up, there's a reason why that woman is out of that relationship and to properly assess we need more answers. She's a very beautiful woman.❤
If we're being realistic... You have to be extraordinarily above average for a man to come in behind seven kids. That's going to take a extraordinarily niche scenario The woman would have to be very attractive with an amazing place and attitude and a man who is wealthy who can't have kids or all. His kids are adults and he want more but don't want to make more.... Yeah good luck!😂
For her the future is looking bright just ask Russell Wilson. She was reading off her phone but I assume she’s speaking on her own situation. She stated getting back with the guy is not an option so the man isn’t deceased. There’s a sucker that will take her in and love those children as his own. He’ll likely be deeply in debt trying to keep up with all that mess and at 33 she’s just young enough to have even MORE children. I’d have to ask were they ever married having all those children? Why did she keep having MULTIPLE babies with a man she clearly doesn’t want to reunite with? Did she have her first child before she was an adult? Why does she think a high quality man would want to align with a woman engaging in low quality behavior? She can find SOMEBODY but high quality? NOPE!!
People were so quick to judge her. I will have some of you know that she may not have necessarily been pregnant seven times. Twins still exist, tripets still exist, quadruplets still exist, quintuplets still exist🙄 she must have her reasons why said no when Kitty suggested she work it out with the father.
@@user-ye4bu6xh4c women love to live in a fantasy world while also enabling other women to live in a fantasy world. The end of the video the lady on stage said what she said for a reason and they don't get that
Just flip what woman bout to take a man with 7 kids even if it’s by the same woman? Crazy part is if they don’t live with the man the scenario of it will keep him single
Seven kids but nobody asked how old are cause that matters. Teenagers are hell for anyone coming into the situation. Then its not supporting 7 its supporting a family of 9 now.
@laniminter3623 Cuz insulting a man's mother will for sure help your case 😭. But for some men whose parents weren't together and never had a step- father, maybe it's just history repeating itself. As a child you're too young to understand why your father either didn't live in your house or was missing altogether. Or why it wasn't a guarantee another man didn't step in. You get older and understand better
I don't have a case because I don't have kids. And Alot of men did grow up with single mothers as baby mama's, don't get mad at me. Ion make the rules. It's true and that's exactly why I don't date men raised by a single mother. They are weak emotional cant make a damn decision to save his life smart mouth and act just like his momma.
That's exactly why these men leave these annoying baby mama's attitudes are bad always want some money and don't let the man get married to somebody else.. They really act a damn fool. I won't date a man with small kids and some crazy baby mama hollering and screaming everybody hungry cause the food stamps ran out
I’ve seen a woman with six children marry a good and reliable man who had none of his own. But it’s a rare occurrence. She should just pray on it and continue providing a quality life for her kids. A man (or any partner) isn’t necessary, but that’s a reality that takes time and maturity to realize
It's not selfishness, what if the man cheated or ruined their finances. She however has wrong priorities, seven kids in the only thing you should be thinking is working and getting those kids set up. Hopefully she can start dating in like the next 6-7 years
Kitty told her the truth seven kids is a lot to ask for any individual to take on. I’m wondering why the relationship is ending now after all this time.
I knew a man who married a woman with six kids. It never really worked out. The children never respected him, inspite of him paying all the bills in the house. Even as they became grown and old, they still relied on the fact that he was their safety net. And after he became too old to drive trucks anymore, his wife put him in a state-funded old folks home and told him, *_"I never asked you to do anything of things you did for my family!"_* He died alone.
You’re asking a woman this question… you need to be asking a MAN that question… Instead of that long winded response, giving fake hope, she should’ve just told her to work it out with the pops. Thats the best answer Imagine getting involved with her, now you have to remember 7 other names, 7 other birthdays, etc
@@thebest1024 i know, I’m saying she didn’t say it soon enough. That should’ve been the first thing she said. Then again i could be wrong, because there is that slim chance of a guy who CAN’T have kids… he could be a quality man that makes her his first option… but that again is slim to none.
@@sundocdouglasI get what you're saying. She eas inadvertently giving her false hope, by not getting straight to it. But we all know women can't go against the sisterhood, so they will always tippy-toe.
I mean it’s hard but definitely not impossible. It helps if you are financially stable, your kids are older, and you look good. There are plenty of single men with kids that are dating. Nothing is impossible
Isnt it though? Do you understand that the majority of our women are going to be single for life and not understand why? Is the momentary sting you feel worth the greater goal of black women being in healthy, committed relationships?@Longhairdontcare34567
The Christian Mingle couple. The lady was a single stay at home mom of 6 boys, she met a guy that married her, adopted her 6 kids & moved them all to his home is Florida. She had 2 more babies with her new hubby.
I couldn't imagine a man stepping into that role. 7 kids is a lot of personalities to take on and depending on their ages the house could be full of chaos or just loud all the time. What if he don't like some of the kids frfr lol. I've worked at schools and there were kids in my class that of course I took care of but I really just didn't like them 😂 plus a man wants to come home to peace after a long day of work. If it were his kids then he would be cool but he gotta be uptight and stressed after work and come home to house full of rugrats that ain't even his?? That's a tough one. I hope sis finds happiness eventually though,
Sometimes ppl grow apart no matter how many kids yall have together and some things are just not repairable. Staying together just for the sake of the kids in the long run will make you miserable.
She’s only 33 ask yourself why she keep having more and more kids if you FEEL like they might’ve grown apart? You would THINK after maybe the 2 or 3 kid she would stop and leave. She knew the man she picked wasn’t ish and it don’t take 7 kids to figure that out…
Sounds selfish as hell to me not gonna lie. If you grow apart can’t you grow back together? Work on the relationship? “They aren’t the person I married”. Well…get to know the new them.
No man of standard is giving you 7 kids and not staying till they're grown. She was most likely dealing with a fuck boy and yall know it, you just dont want to admit. Aint no hapless victims here. This chick aint hardly Tina Turner and her BD aint Ike. Sidenote, Tina wasn't really Tina like the movie said but Ill save that for later.
When God gives you babies, 7 at that, it’s a sign to just love yourself!!!!! Especially if the daddy ain’t pulling his weight. Gotta step into your Divine Feminine Essence & show your kids what SELF LOVE looks like, instead of wandering and searching. As women we must learn to ATTRACT what IS for us… after experiencing what’s not. If it’s meant, it’ll be sent. Period.
Is it possible for her to find a man? Yes. But the world operates in probabilities. And the likelihood of her finding a man, especially one she admires and respects, and would accept the security and financial responsibility for her and seven nonbiological kids is slim to none.
Her statement excluded the man 1st, then never asked the woman what does she bring to the table now that you never brought before in her youthful past. Is she working, what type of level is she on and will she do more domestic work for this new man? Mom of 7! Tonight's Conversations I'm not just a Uniform
How old is her youngest? A baby???? She betta wait 'til they get grown & gone!💯 No man wants that responsibility! Straight up!
They need to stop lying to women and tell them the truth. The answer is No. She can find a man to have sex with her yes. Marriage is out the question
Finally a female with sense in the comments.
@@Kenny-Alpha Thank you🙏
My brother married a woman with 5 children by the same man and he loved each of those children as his own. He took care of her and those children. As in any other thing, to each their own. It is up to the individual. There are still men of great character walking around. Not many, but there are some.
She had 7 kids with a man, but she’s no longer with him. 🤔 Kitty should have also asked her “What happened to the relationship with the father?” Because 7 kids in, and she’s looking for another man??? In this economy, the most she can hope for, is a Sugar Daddy, or a F*ck Buddy.
nah i have the same and have been divorced for 13 years just wanted my kids to get older before i found him.. and i did.. so if a mofo want you all of that won't matter
@user-ye4bu6xh4c she didn’t say she was lol they said that
Super Big Facts
@user-ye4bu6xh4c of course he’s gonna help but don’t make it like that’s her goal.. looking for a hand out..maybe her ex does
What he’s supposed to
She’s gonna ruin someone life
Rather it’s the kids or guy trying to date her
😂 she picked a fine time to move on😂
Maybe he left her.
Both of y'all need to stay together
Yeah the kids father dating opportunities might be just as cooked as hers lol
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@@Califooya It's different for men because the kids aren't in the house 24/7. Are his options different? Of course but she's the full time parent for what I assume are all of the kids. She can't get a man that really wants to deal with her so she should figure things out with her ex. She's too far gone at this point.
She said no but you got pregnant by him 7x so you liked him at some point 🤦♀️
Key word Some.
Like him at least at 7 points…
🙄 ppl change, sweetie.
Single mothers with children should be interested in single men who have custody of his children.
Single people with children, through divorce or through wedlock, should consider becoming a blended family, when it comes to marriage.🤔💡😉🤷
Some point. She liked him a lot. Plus she’s young she’ll see at some point.
So it took her 7 childrn to figure out he wasnt the one?
Maybe he rejected her and the kids? I might be way off track. She didn't look scarred. However, looks can be deceiving.
@@pspence1963maybe she rejected him !! She’s 33. She started young enough.
It probably took her 7 children to realize he wasn’t going to do right by her and them.
@@curtis75black yes you could be right. For sure
There's always some bs excuse as to why a babymama makes repeated irresponsible decisions...No self-respecting man wants a woman who makes chronic life changing mistakes, that eventually he has to be responsible for. Stop lying to these babymamas, their odds are dismal.
Just because her 7 kids are with the same man, that should not give her a reprieve. Having that many kids with that man shows that she committed to that man for the long haul. Why have 7 kids with someone just to leave and start all over? If this was such a bad relationship that she had to leave, why have 7 children with him? 🙄🤷🏽♀️
I bet you that man also has multiple baby mamas and broke..... you wanna bet?
@@michaele5588
I'm almost certain that this is the case. I'm also certain that she's on government assistance and that's she almost definitely is lying when she says that they're all by this one man.
It's a recipe for disaster whoever decides to take on that burden. She's only going to find men who want to sleep with her at this point, and I wouldn't be surprised if she gets pregnant by one of them too eventually (if she still has the ability to have children)
Always the man’s fault.
@@michaele5588that still doesn't change thr equation or the question! If the guy was so bad that she had to leave, why have any kid with him, to begin with?
She all of a sudden found out that he was broke and had other baby mamas AFTER she had 7 kids?
Knock it off.
I said the same
Sorry girl, no. You knew what birth control was.
Exactly 💯
Always good to see the rare moments when BW hold other BW accountable, and tell them the hard truths instead of the comforting lies.
Best comment lol. This took me out lol
Facts bruh 🤦🏾♂️💯
She better work it out with that BROTHER !!! Y’all committed to 7 children. Work that shit out !! Ain’t no man taking on that risk !!!
Russell Wilson lacing his boots up now!! 🤣🤣
@@501Caution 😂😂😂😂😂
@@curtis75black He better focus on this remaining contract! Since he out here saving chicks!
If the man is toxic and abusive don’t go back
@@joytotheworld9254 She should've never went Forward! What you mean don't go back!
I'd say a minimum of 3 kids have to age out/become adults, before she can really get a fair shot at dating.
7 kids (that are under one roof) + a new man + work? Yeah that's a lot.
I can't even fathom someone taking it on and being an ideal relationship.
Exactly
Please do not listen to this!!!!
A good man will date you with children.
This message is to keep children safe.
@califooya will be in the comments section of every sad news. Saying. “ why she didn’t give the kids to CPS or drop them off at the fire station “
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@@cinnamonstar808 lol wtf are you talking about? Make your point but leave me out of it especially when I spoke on the mother A N D the father. Go cherry pick on another post
That's actually pretty smart-- never considered the bbs *ageing out* that's funny & so real
It's possible; it's just not probable. The father made pretty damn sure of that.
She did as well.
It’s not the father or the kids that’s the problem. It’s the quality of available men that’s the problem.
@@rainbeauxunicorn5237 right because there is a whole slew of stupid...I mean eligible men lining up to wife up a woman with...how did LeBron and Dwade say it...not 2, not 3 not 4, not 5...🤦
@rainbeauxunicorn5237 There are quality men and women out here. The issue is that men and women look for the wrong qualities.
Very true words
I’ll need her to confirm that all 7 belong to the same guy… 😂😂😂
That would be a great episode of Maury. I'd bet at least 3 don't belong tp the supposed father.
@@KrimsonKannon1969 like seriously.. how can you supposedly have 7 kids by the same guy and expect any worthy man to look your way? That’s way too much biology your body has been through for it to still be desirable.. just the thought of it alone..
You need to just focus on successful co parenting and being a good mom at this point. You can worry about companionship once they are out of the home.
Great advice. ❤
I just want to protect her!! The sad thing is there are some men who will see her as easy prey and their goal would be to bring chaos and destruction to her home!! It would be difficult for me to trust a man around my vulnerable children and my prayer is that God will fill her with a supernatural discernment so that she is wise and patient enough to understand that raising her children in a loving and peaceful home is enough for this season! Amen 🙏🏽
See her as easy prey? For what? Make a woman a victim in a heartbeat.
Protect her, so it's not partially her fault that she's in this situation and all of a sudden the dangerous men are going to come for her and her children. Ma'am please. The only man that will settle for her is a broken man needing resources and in hard circumstances. It's her responsibility to not take him in. People do to you, what you allow them too
@@MrSixfoot5
I'm not understanding either, but I'm with you on that.
Amen.
For those asking, I think she meant “see her as easy prey” because shes searching for something outside of herself when The Most High already has blessed her with unconditional love 7 times. Love those babies and self.
If the bio dad isn’t a good candidate for a partnership, yet she had babies with him over & over & over.. some men WILLLLL see her as weak and take advantage.
Damn she said work it out with the father. Some people do have that luxury of that suggestion 😅
Then they should’ve thought of that before having all those kids to begin with 🤷🏽♂️. Funny how some ppl don’t like to face the consequences of their own decisions/actions.
@@mike972354you don’t keep going because you have a lot of children with someone that’s dumb
@@mike972354: Uh, hello? It’s not always that simple. Not every woman is in a position to just walk away. Have you never heard of emotionally or psychologically abusive relationships? How about Stockholm Syndrome? Perhaps you should put down the joystick and pick up a book now and then.
Sometimes women stay in relationships because they are afraid to leave. Some literally *CAN’T* leave without the threat of death, great bodily harm, or harm to their children. And not every woman in these situations has family or a support system outside the home.
Some men can and will beat a
woman down mentally to the extent that she believes she is incompetent and incapable of making moves or decisions without the man.
And guess what? Some controlling and abusive men won’t allow their wives or girlfriends to use birth control and the women don’t even have a say over their own wombs.
I’ve seen all of these scenarios with my own eyes. Speak on what you know, not what you assume.
@mike972354 exactly what I wanted to say. Not to mention act entitled when they're a single parent in the dating world.
@@user-ye4bu6xh4c No one said they're not but if you're a single parent in the dating world your days of being choosey and entitled to a high value man are over unfortunately. The harsh reality is that your competition are younger fertile women with no kids from an ex.
Dude was looking over his glasses like…..
Point of Order (RIP E Mays) My sister shot straight to the financial aspects first.... then talked about structure in the household. Structure in this situation begins with her. It's up to her to create the space and understanding between the children and their father for this new man to come in and bring what he has to offer in the development of this new family foundation. She & he have to be one and harmonious to manage the household. May God bless their family
If I had seven kids and broke up with the woman I had those kids with honestly unless I'm super rich I'm not dating for a looooooooong time, not even casually. And I'm saying this as a man who by society's standards can choose to dip on those children and be irresponsible.
Sister should maybe give up on trying to date for like a while because honestly it's not going to be easy, three or four kids is a lot, 7 is an entire army ffs 😭😭😭
I THINK SHE NEEDS TO STICK WITH THE FATHER OF HER KID'S 🎯💯🔥
I think you need to go back to school and learn what apostrophes are used for.
@user-ye4bu6xh4c maybe if you stayed in school long enough to understand reading comprehension you could stay on topic. You coming to the defense of someone who can't spell proves you're just as illiterate as they are or more.
@@deja_ WELL REWRITE IT FOR ME ASSHOLE
No she will not find a man that's going to do that. She can definitely find a man that's willing to kick it with her though, but that's about it.
She said QUALITY man. A “kick it witchu” man ain’t quality.
Uuuumm, yes he can be. Just because your not married to a man or not dating him, doesn't take away from him being a quality man. Sorry you can't find him.
Facts 💯
@@ds8844… 😂😂😂 sure… he “can” be, but he’s not. A quality man doesn’t use women for their time, labor and sex. But you would know that if you were one.
I don’t need to “find” anyone, sweet cheeks. I’m already married. I be trying to help y’all unfortunate males but y’all are too hard headed. But that’s ok because my sisters say they don’t wanna be bothered with yall anyways.
@user-ye4bu6xh4c… 🤨Shake my hand? 🤢Ewww. I’m sorry I dont allow random ppl to touch me.
Nobody…and I mean NOBODY asked her why she had SEVEN CHILDREN with a man who she did not want to be with. They were CLAPPING FOR HER like she did something. We are doomed.
I believe they probably got there. It's logical to ask. But it's just a clip.
This is nuts 😂😂😂
It takes at minimum $15,000 a year to cover expenses for each child. $15,000 x 7 kids = $105,000 a year taken off your income at the beginning of each year.
Hell naw you are severely underestimating thr income needed to care for 9 people. To be comfortable buddy would need at least 500k minimum. Shit the house would need to be a good 6 to 7 bedrooms to comfortably fit all those children. That woman would need a 1% and good luck with 7 kids smfh.😊
@@michaelgatt7642
I totally agree
It's call government assistance. That is his name and CS
Take your crazy as on
@@daocean1103so u assume the father a bum u assume she doesn’t have a good job smh
Working it out with the father of 7 children is the right choice!
Maybe I didn't hear the whole conversation but I saw her reaction when it was suggested. How do you say yes to 7 children with the same person, but that same person is not good enough to work out a relationship with? You are asking A LOT from a stranger to come in and provide structure and leadership in that situation. The children's father is definitely the best option.
She can find love but she has to be open to the form that it comes in. I'm not saying that she has to settle for anything, but baby girl your days of being extra choosey is OVER. If that new guy shows you and those kids love, affection, structure, discipline and he has money to support y'all, u better stick with him even if he is a little over weight, not the skin tone that u would prefer, doesn't dress like the typical guy that you would be with. As long as y'all personalities vibe together, and he's respectful to and those kids, and you make sure that he's given that same respect back it can work. Don't worry about what your friends think about him, suppress that ego that Beyonce gave y'all about upgrading your partner, because those days are over for you. Now it's about setting a solid example for your kids, and being happy while your doing it.
Tad bit(difficult) 👀🤣
Stop it 😂
Here y’all go lying to this woman. Yes is possible for her to Find a quality man
The real question is it probable? Hell no . Only a fool would sign up for this chaos.
Why would a quality man choose to deal with a woman with 7 kids when he can simply find a woman with no kids to deal with.
Exactly
If she don’t stay with the father 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣…. Short answer mami: No ! No you will not find that man 😆🤷🏾♂️
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She will he just want be blk, blks only take ww with kids
Can I find a quality man knowing I'm single with no kids?
@TianaThompson90s Separate yourself from the rest of the women. Brothas been saying since the 70s we want our women with their NATURAL hair, no lashes and less makeup. But yall do the exact opposite.
@@TianaThompson90sis this a serious question?
Women be trying to protect other women’s feelings. She was not honest with her. The type of dude she gone garner with 7 kids ain’t gone be the kind she want.
What sensible man “wants a woman with kids” let alone 7?
That’s not the real world.
Crazy part about this is y’all want a man that sees & loves your kids as his own but he is not allowed to discipline his kids as his own. “All of the responsibility with none of the Authority.” It’s a bad deal and I’ve heard stories of men who have been step fathers say “don’t raise another man kids. Don’t be a step father.” It’s a thankless job that no man deserves.
Exactly 💯
I feel like a person with the same amount of kids should date her.
She chose the man 7 times!! Work it out, for better or for worse
My first wife has 5 children. My second wife has 2 children. I dated a woman with 7 children. It is very difficult to take on that responsibility. All the adults have to have the best interest of the children in their mind. It is a financial strain, but child support helped. The mental responsibility is a lot. That's a lot of personalities, especially depending on the ages of children and the relationship they already have or don't have with their father.
And especially what the woman says and does. Of she has even an ounce of toxic in her, and doesn't watch carefully what she says and does, then it's a wrap. She has to be fully grown and fully healed to manage all that successfully. But, that is also true for all the adults involved.
And this is why I am scared to get back out in the dating scene! I don't & will not date a man who has children under the age of 18! Their kids need to be grown & gone just like mine!💯 I don't want the responsibility! Point, Blank, Period!
Wow, God bless you ! 🙏🏽 at least you have the experience to make the choice that's right for you going forward.
So you have 7 kids? Or married women with kids?
@@VictoriousSage I married women with kids. They are my kids from love and marriage. They have biological fathers and me
One child,maybe two you should have know sis. Hard to find a man thats gonna be into a relationship like that. Different reasons may made the relationship stop but building a new one with someone else's kids is gonna be difficult and i don't care how good you look
Exactly but alot these women don't get it.
No woman leaves after 7 for no reason. Maybe dad was the one to leave, maybe he has changed his sexual preference. Maybe he was a danger to her or the kids. Who knows! It just sucks the suggestion was go back instead of …you can, but it would be easier if you wait until your children get older (at least half of them). For now you should be busy loving on them and focusing on coparenting.
Best advice in this thread💯💪🏼👏🏼
I absolutely agree with this comment!!!
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In the time we live in unless it’s physical abuse and/or infidelity, it’s 100% a immature reason for leaving.
Carrying a child to term without laying the foundation needed to raise it (I.e a married household) is completely on her being irresponsible.
Your feeling became secondary the moment you decided to have a child, otherwise put that kid up for adoption.
You really made every excuse to why the man could be the bad guy and not her your the problem
@rodneywestshow
Actually your impulsive response without understanding and mediation is the problem. If you read from a neutral place and not defense you can see the neutrality in my comment. I never said he was the problem. My point was there was too much unknown info to give advice on going back. I said No woman leaves after 7 for no reason. Maybe dad was the one to leave. If your limited view sees him leaving (without knowing why) as a problem your narrow minded. He could have left because SHE did something wrong. I said maybe he has changed his sexual preference. If you see that as a him being the problem that’s your perception. I see it as a reason the relationship wouldn’t work. Clearly she hasn't changed her preference based on the question. Now I did say Maybe he was a danger to her or the kids because it is reality it happens. My only issue was that she is focused on the next man instead of her kids right now. So clearly I recognized that her thinking is the issue. Like her, you need to self focus stay off CZcams!!!
It's far easier for a man with 7 kids to find a partner/girlfriend or wife.
Facts! 💯☝🏽 Because the kids don’t live with the dad full time or at all. If more men had physical or full custody like mothers do women would have an easier time finding men to marry them. It’s sad but it’s the truth. 😩😐
Because women see that as a sign that *other* women want him (don’t want Anything unless everyone else does) & ignore his lack of discipline 😴 Y’all really are a *Hive mind*
Only if he doesn't pay child support. I doubt any woman will take him, if he doesn't contribute to anything in the house as well after going broke paying "children" supports like this.
No it won’t when they hear you got 7 kids and you not someone like future that can actually pay that monthly support and still live like he ain’t got no kids, they will walk away cuz what bread dude gon have after he better off staying with girly
And it shouldn't be. A man with 7 kids should look unattractive as a woman with 7 kids. He need to stop playing and her as well. And leave the world alone. They got army of children. Talking about they looking for love. No they looking to pollute the earth. Because why should anyone be responsible for their 7 children but them. Why they keep bunny hopping if they don't like each other. Nope.
NO LIES DETECTED AT ALL BEAUTIFUL LADY
maaaaaaan 7 kids 😭sheesh
Yes...and, she will need to allow this man to guide and discipline all 7. None of this, "you're not my dad" foolishness. So, it took 7 children for you to know you don't want him in your life as a partner permanently? 7 children? Woman, YOU have problems, go fix those and stop thinking about a man. You are clearly not ready.
At this point she should just apply for FOOD STAMPS and enjoy the fruits of labor by being able to keep a house full of groceries for 7 kids 🙄 her men application READS .......LOOKING FOR TYRONE AND POOKY ONLY ,that's probably all she's going to attract 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
When did she say she didn’t want him
@@ignoranceisnotatrend4669food stamps don’t work like that slow it depends on your income
Lol wisely said. It TOOK 7 kids for her to finally say I can't be with you forever. 🤦♀️ Woman you look foolish and unstable as a dating option to other men. Even a single dad with one child has better options than her.
@@downbad2874she literally nods her head No at the suggestion of working it out with the father of her kids. That tells us right there.
What's more important? You r happiness or your duties as a mom and wife?
Ngl her body looks damn good after 7 kids.
You looking to give her the 8th baby?
Brah! She like 230lbs!!
@@fitnessfreak212😂😂😂
Single mothers with children, should be interested in only single men who have custody of his children.
Single people with children, through divorce or through wedlock, should consider becoming a blended family, when it comes to marriage.🤔💡😉🤷
There no man in his right mind signing up for that.
@@sevinbamuels6560
It just have to be the right woman with good kids.🤷
I agree with Ritchie's eyebrow!
7 kids!!!! I would need to know more. Like how old is the youngest? Are any of them twins? But by her and her baby daddy not being together, shows me someone or both of them are being selfish. With such a large amount of children at such a young age, they should be together, at least roommates. It takes a village to raise one, not one raising a village. It’s hard to transport 7 children let alone raise them. I got nothing but love and respect for this young lady, but they made their bed and they have to lay in it. Those kids ain’t ask to be here
I wouldn't tell my enemy to get involved with somebody with 7 kids.
I will.
That's why he is my enemy.
That is a very tall order for any man.. It's possible but very rare.. I wish her the best.. 7 kids wow!! To be honest, the only good thing about dating her is, ( He knows she is less likely to say no to sex )..
And somehow none of these single moms have figured that out yet. Snowflake theory is really screwing them.
My friend's older sister had 7 children from the same man, and they got divorced while the oldest child was still in high school. I'll admit, thought that it would be difficult for her in the dating market, but she began dating, and moved in with, a father of 3 so fast it was amazing to me. It's definitely possible, and apparently more probable than I would have figured.
Go back to him skittle dittle
These women fall in love with being pregnant. It's wild.
That woman on the stage clearly has no clue if her advice is to get back with the BD. The strength it takes to leave a man with seven of your babies-- that's not a woman- she's a superhero. Stay strong queen. The right one will find you ❤
The way the lady sugar coated her response was crazy and baffling telling her it’s absolutely possible is wild absolute means it’s much more probable then improbable..secondly then following it up with a “tad” bit difficult seems to giver her much more then just hope and that’s absolutely not true in both cases and that’s truly an example of a women giving another women terrible advice and women also knowing they would rather be lied to then told the truth…this damn woman said the “financial footing to take on that responsibility” 😂😂😂😂😂that comment is so ironic and baffling all at the same time 🤦🏾♂️
The way he said okay 😂
i think they answered this carefully and very respectfully; seven kids is alot for a couple who had the kids, its very much more difficult for someone to come into that situation as a new person/outsider. they asked good questions, do you have enough love/energy/etc for this man when you have seven kids who have need/wants/etc. And how do those kids interact w/him, how does their lives and schedules impact him and yalls relationship. KIDS MAKE THINGS MORE DIFF FOR PEOPLE IN ESTABLISHED RELATIONSHIPS MUCH LESS PEOPLE IN NEW ONES>
Hey bro, love the video, but can you please tag the original? I really want to hear the rest of that conversation, but don't have the time it would take for me to go researching which video it comes from.
This is a clip from the creator who posted this.
I personally think that more questions should have been asked about the relationship. She could have easily been a DV victim. In most DV situations it takes years and statistically speaking about seven times to leave. There are many scenarios that can explain why a woman won't leave. 33 is still so young. I wonder the journey it took her to leave him and to have her babies. By that age My mother was a mother of seven as well ,she found love. This woman was very brave to stand up and ask that question, I do think love is possible for her.
To sum it up, there's a reason why that woman is out of that relationship and to properly assess we need more answers. She's a very beautiful woman.❤
Kitt said absolutely positively NOTHING WRONG! BRAVO!
If we're being realistic... You have to be extraordinarily above average for a man to come in behind seven kids. That's going to take a extraordinarily niche scenario
The woman would have to be very attractive with an amazing place and attitude and a man who is wealthy who can't have kids or all. His kids are adults and he want more but don't want to make more.... Yeah good luck!😂
She better be for real and go make it work with that man
Where can I get the full video?
For her the future is looking bright just ask Russell Wilson. She was reading off her phone but I assume she’s speaking on her own situation. She stated getting back with the guy is not an option so the man isn’t deceased. There’s a sucker that will take her in and love those children as his own. He’ll likely be deeply in debt trying to keep up with all that mess and at 33 she’s just young enough to have even MORE children. I’d have to ask were they ever married having all those children? Why did she keep having MULTIPLE babies with a man she clearly doesn’t want to reunite with? Did she have her first child before she was an adult? Why does she think a high quality man would want to align with a woman engaging in low quality behavior? She can find SOMEBODY but high quality? NOPE!!
You are beautiful 💯💯💯 and keep it real 💯💯 and keep it moving forward 💯💯
Tell her the TRUTH!! NO MA'AM!! FINALLY!! the man would have to be paid 150.00+ an hour. Naw hun go back to the babies daddy!😂
People were so quick to judge her. I will have some of you know that she may not have necessarily been pregnant seven times. Twins still exist, tripets still exist, quadruplets still exist, quintuplets still exist🙄 she must have her reasons why said no when Kitty suggested she work it out with the father.
Yeah but men don't care about none of that
@@user-ye4bu6xh4c women love to live in a fantasy world while also enabling other women to live in a fantasy world. The end of the video the lady on stage said what she said for a reason and they don't get that
You sound like a woman
You must think it’s a family pack of one 😂😂 package
Really do you think you will ever win a billion dollars? Why do you think a woman with 7 kids will find a good man… no chance in hell 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Just flip what woman bout to take a man with 7 kids even if it’s by the same woman? Crazy part is if they don’t live with the man the scenario of it will keep him single
Dang! How can I watch the whole episode?
It’s a podcast. Visit the website.
Where’s the full video of this?
7 kids, really? For her to find a quality guy, she had better start collecting Dragonballs.
Seven kids but nobody asked how old are cause that matters. Teenagers are hell for anyone coming into the situation. Then its not supporting 7 its supporting a family of 9 now.
She be ok... these men love baby mama's and all dem kids
@@user-ye4bu6xh4cSomebody on a registry 💀💀💀 You wylin but ain't lying
Yea,, I know better,, men like a ran thru,,, with a bunch of kids hv of them grew up that way
@laniminter3623 Cuz insulting a man's mother will for sure help your case 😭. But for some men whose parents weren't together and never had a step- father, maybe it's just history repeating itself. As a child you're too young to understand why your father either didn't live in your house or was missing altogether. Or why it wasn't a guarantee another man didn't step in. You get older and understand better
I don't have a case because I don't have kids. And Alot of men did grow up with single mothers as baby mama's, don't get mad at me. Ion make the rules. It's true and that's exactly why I don't date men raised by a single mother. They are weak emotional cant make a damn decision to save his life smart mouth and act just like his momma.
That's exactly why these men leave these annoying baby mama's attitudes are bad always want some money and don't let the man get married to somebody else.. They really act a damn fool. I won't date a man with small kids and some crazy baby mama hollering and screaming everybody hungry cause the food stamps ran out
Raise your children ❤ focus on yourself ❤ the right man will come along eventually if she does the inner work. I wish her the best. ❤
Where’s the whole video?
I’ve seen a woman with six children marry a good and reliable man who had none of his own. But it’s a rare occurrence. She should just pray on it and continue providing a quality life for her kids. A man (or any partner) isn’t necessary, but that’s a reality that takes time and maturity to realize
Why should a man have the “financial footing to take care of you and seven children” of another man who’s alive and kicking?
Simple: go back or go single; don’t no man deserve such a burden for real. That was exactly the definition of “selfishness”
It's not selfishness, what if the man cheated or ruined their finances.
She however has wrong priorities, seven kids in the only thing you should be thinking is working and getting those kids set up. Hopefully she can start dating in like the next 6-7 years
What’s the link to this full episode ?
Kitty told her the truth seven kids is a lot to ask for any individual to take on. I’m wondering why the relationship is ending now after all this time.
What episode is this? Yall need to let us know the episode details on your clips.
I knew a man who married a woman with six kids. It never really worked out. The children never respected him, inspite of him paying all the bills in the house. Even as they became grown and old, they still relied on the fact that he was their safety net. And after he became too old to drive trucks anymore, his wife put him in a state-funded old folks home and told him, *_"I never asked you to do anything of things you did for my family!"_* He died alone.
That’s him I know someone it worked for
@@downbad2874 Anecdotal. There are more horror stories than happy stories. You only get one shot at life.
Whats the name of full video on your app
It is plain and simple NO. No need for excuses, lies and false hopes. Just No.
Society needs to bring honesty back.
Absolutely ❤
33 with 7 kids??? Gahdamn 😂Even for a committed relationship, that’s a hell of a lot lol
Respectfully, that's too much to ask of any man! I believe it would be difficult to find a man willing to take on that responsibility.
Which season and episode is this?
You’re asking a woman this question… you need to be asking a MAN that question…
Instead of that long winded response, giving fake hope, she should’ve just told her to work it out with the pops. Thats the best answer
Imagine getting involved with her, now you have to remember 7 other names, 7 other birthdays, etc
Well, in the respondent's defense...she did say that she should go back to the childrens' father.
@@thebest1024 i know, I’m saying she didn’t say it soon enough. That should’ve been the first thing she said.
Then again i could be wrong, because there is that slim chance of a guy who CAN’T have kids… he could be a quality man that makes her his first option… but that again is slim to none.
@@sundocdouglasI get what you're saying. She eas inadvertently giving her false hope, by not getting straight to it.
But we all know women can't go against the sisterhood, so they will always tippy-toe.
Which episode is this I want to watch the rest
She is flawless 😍 the HOST(edited) damn lmaooo
(for 33 year old mother of 7)
Im talking bout the host @@jayw1677
I'm not talking bout the guest damn lol@@user-ye4bu6xh4c
@@user-ye4bu6xh4che talking about the host not the lady with 7 kids🙄
I mean it’s hard but definitely not impossible. It helps if you are financially stable, your kids are older, and you look good. There are plenty of single men with kids that are dating. Nothing is impossible
Yep, when she makes it to the NBA, becomes a hot rapper or wins the lottery she'll have her pick of men.
She 33 tho, no chance her kids are older. She might as well wait till her 40’s to start seriously dating again.
@@marckristian81 It’s not that serious.
Isnt it though? Do you understand that the majority of our women are going to be single for life and not understand why? Is the momentary sting you feel worth the greater goal of black women being in healthy, committed relationships?@Longhairdontcare34567
Is the darker skinned woman not the most beautiful creation and love the tone in her voice just a true Goddess .yaaaa us!
Insecure
"Anyone who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery." Hard truth.
Me and that girl shook our heads at the same time when kittie said work it out with the father and she wasn't even talking to me 😂NEVAAA
The Christian Mingle couple. The lady was a single stay at home mom of 6 boys, she met a guy that married her, adopted her 6 kids & moved them all to his home is Florida. She had 2 more babies with her new hubby.
What episode is this
I couldn't imagine a man stepping into that role. 7 kids is a lot of personalities to take on and depending on their ages the house could be full of chaos or just loud all the time. What if he don't like some of the kids frfr lol. I've worked at schools and there were kids in my class that of course I took care of but I really just didn't like them 😂 plus a man wants to come home to peace after a long day of work. If it were his kids then he would be cool but he gotta be uptight and stressed after work and come home to house full of rugrats that ain't even his?? That's a tough one. I hope sis finds happiness eventually though,
What is name of this episode
Who paying for 7 kids that’s not theirs for 18 years 🤔
The question was answered before it was asked.
Sometimes ppl grow apart no matter how many kids yall have together and some things are just not repairable. Staying together just for the sake of the kids in the long run will make you miserable.
She’s only 33 ask yourself why she keep having more and more kids if you FEEL like they might’ve grown apart? You would THINK after maybe the 2 or 3 kid she would stop and leave. She knew the man she picked wasn’t ish and it don’t take 7 kids to figure that out…
Only thing grow apart was that 🐱
@@fitnessfreak212when did she say that
Sounds selfish as hell to me not gonna lie. If you grow apart can’t you grow back together? Work on the relationship? “They aren’t the person I married”. Well…get to know the new them.
No man of standard is giving you 7 kids and not staying till they're grown. She was most likely dealing with a fuck boy and yall know it, you just dont want to admit. Aint no hapless victims here. This chick aint hardly Tina Turner and her BD aint Ike. Sidenote, Tina wasn't really Tina like the movie said but Ill save that for later.
When God gives you babies, 7 at that, it’s a sign to just love yourself!!!!! Especially if the daddy ain’t pulling his weight. Gotta step into your Divine Feminine Essence & show your kids what SELF LOVE looks like, instead of wandering and searching. As women we must learn to ATTRACT what IS for us… after experiencing what’s not.
If it’s meant, it’ll be sent. Period.
lol.
Is it possible for her to find a man? Yes. But the world operates in probabilities. And the likelihood of her finding a man, especially one she admires and respects, and would accept the security and financial responsibility for her and seven nonbiological kids is slim to none.
Her statement excluded the man 1st, then never asked the woman what does she bring to the table now that you never brought before in her youthful past. Is she working, what type of level is she on and will she do more domestic work for this new man?
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What confuses me is you had hooow many children with the same man just to find out that he wasn’t a -quality man??!
It’s sickening