Stop Giving A Sh*t | Mel Robbins
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You want to be a massive success, break the mold, do it bigger, live better, be the best business owner or writer or artist or parent? Then stop giving a sh*t about what everyone else is going to think about you.
The most common reason people get stuck looking at their life from the sidelines is because they put the opinions of other people ahead of their own dreams. Why do you do that? Why do you listen to people who claim to be your friends when they doubt you?
Stop letting the fear and doubt sink you before you even try. Stop letting the opinions that may or may not be true steal this one life from you. Stop letting what you look like or sound like stop you from even TRYING!
And definitely don't take advice from people you wouldn't trade lives with.
What is the cure to doubt? What is the cure to worry? What is the cure to what if?
It is action.
Action so loud it tunes out everyone else's two cents.
Stop whining and wondering, start winning.
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*"Don't take advice from people you wouldn't trade lives with"* opened my eyes honestly, thank you Mel. ACTION IS KEY!!!
Mel has become a blessing in my life. She touches on everything I struggle with and she gives it to me straight and says it all so concisely and eloquently.
âEverybodyâs always judging everybody else, thatâs why you canât worry about it.â
"live a life where you get to express yourself at the highest level!" đ
Rise above all!
Yes!!!!
Love this! Donât get caught up in âPOOPâ: Perceived Opinions of Other People đ©
Love it!!!!
POOP! I love this acronym!! I couldnât agree more!
Great one.. I'll have to try and remember it..
And this is why we love you Mel, you give it to us straight
Sooo true. I hate how people put down kids who are so curious and unafraid and when they grow up like that all theyâre told is to take life seriously and stop being themselves. Kids are the wisest people out there and damn it I never wanna âgrow upâ the way society wants us to. Itâs just hard to remember that once you *do* fall through that trap. Thank you for this amazing reminder Mel
Yesss! I always say, âitâs not my business what other people think about meâ. I see it as a selfish way of being because people are too worried about themselves that they canât offer true value from their heart!
Truth!!!!! Like an 11 year old and just be yourself....I LOVE IT!
Omg yessss be yourself I canât đđđ
Post some videos
I've been told for almost 60 years...from my parents, doctors , friends, siblings, husband ....and I've even told myself in the past....because you have impairments...you can't do...you can't hope...you can't dream...and now...i say , that's all bull...I can...I will..I must...not for anyone else approval...but for me ...I'm 4 me....
âWe want to live a life where we get to express ourselves at the highest level.â
Mel, you really are an important person in my life. Every time I feel low or feel bad or don't feel like it. I always come searching for your advice and then I feel better. I try to clam or explain myself to relax... but I relax only when I hear you and a feeling of confidence starts building into me, saying it's gonna be fine. I don't know what I am doing is right or wrong, but I don't want to think about it because.... According to me all I do is wrong( I don't if this is making any sense..). I am so grateful that I bumped into you. Thank you for who you are and thank you for sharing your knowledge, this means a lot to me, its like you are my Therapist.
t's my biggest weakness. A person who lost their daughter years ago, 2 years ago, my wife tragically, since then remarried to a beautiful young lady and I spend most time being judged or worrying what people think of me trying to move through the pain.
The 25 thumbs down are those who can't get past constantly thinking what others think. Give this lady her flowers haters!
My favorite part: "F#@k your friends!"
It might sound harsh but it is such an important mindset at times. Awesome words Mel, thank you! =)
Action is the foundational key to all success. đ
Thank you Mel!! Once again you're helpful!! I'm angry and cannot concentrate but I gotta do what I gotta do. 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 ...
This video helped me to leave my postgraduate course. Thank you!
The only cure is action - Melâs content just keeps getting better and better!
Melâs advice is awesome. It has contributed to changing my life. I first came across her via her iconic TED talk and subscribed straightaway. Iâm the queen of procrastination and perfection, but Iâm getting out of that rut. Massive changes in my social landscape and friends circle in a very positive way, changing jobs and moving continents. Mel, thank you for everything you do to better peopleâs lives - great legacy!
Mel Robbins inspired me to be a better person and excel in life
Mel, you are spot on!! I've been watching your videos but this one has helped me squash the excuses I was using to cover up the real truth stopping me from starting my wellness videos: I'm busy worrying about what others think. Ugh. I love this: "Whether it's speaking from the heart, speaking from the gut, like that is the skill to develop, is the ability to be...themselves." Thank you. 54321! Off I go to plan my content calendar! You are a blessing.
Thank you Mel!! You are an important piece to my growth right now. I am learning to become even more truly authentic and to stop give a shit about the opinions of others. I am not going to give a shit any longer! Thank you!!
Everytime I watch this video..it inspires me to be myself and Mel is a great great personality.She is so cool and confident.I just love the way she speaksâ€ïž
YESSS! THIS IS ME! So UP in my head that I am missing the events in the present moments.
So grateful for people like Mel supporting and reaching so many who are suffering. Running in love, being love is so powerful. đ
Mel thankku so much ! We all need to get that attitude of yours ! Amazing !
Most people care more of what you think of THEM to think about you.
Love love love this woman đ. Solid, no nonsense advice that is easy to implement into every day life. Bless you Mel for all your amazing insights.
Action cures fear.
100%!!!
Even for panic disorder and anxiety disorder?
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Crissy Gomez yes exposure therapy often practices the above mentioned
I'm so happy with this video! I slowly but surely started not giving a shit! Thank you, Mel! I'm 19, and I've lived a hard 19 years, but once you filter through what is really important, the rest of the shit falls away. Its like the trash took itself out. I just do what I feel is important. It tore me apart in the beginning, but I've come so far that I don't regret what I went through with myself. And so 54321!â€
Thankyou Mel. that was the best explanation ever!
Thanks for always inspiring us and getting us to step out of our comfort zone. Love you Mel!
Mel had just nailed it.So specific and so clear understanding. she has spoken each n every word truth.I agree 100%.Truly Mel is a "Greatest and most smartest lady" I've ever seen on this planet.â€ïž
Yep Say wht you feel like!!! Dnt care abt others!!!! Mel you truely rock!!!
Mel, I LOVE your honesty
I love this Lady!
Thank you so much for exercising your Gift Of Speaking. You Show Up n Show Out Every Time. Keep doing what you do because your Damn Good at it.
Big Love From The BayArea510 âŁïž
Rebuilding my life requires people like yourself loving , living , in your truth. You dont need to read this comment , nor do i wait or need recognition. Thats how powerful you and all of us are who seek this wisdom daily. We understand truth , purpose. Thank you.
Thank you so much for this speach
i agre so much with that !!! as soon as i decided to show myself on youtube and not care about what other people think i am happy , accomplished and successful:) and i really love you Mel!! thank you for your amazing contents on You Tube â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
You are killing it!!
Oh Mel! I'm so grateful for my company bringing you into my life.
Thank you Mel for all your amazing work!
Thanks so much for that! I so needed that!
I love this woman đthanks for the truth đ
thanks mel i changed a lot by ur
speeches and book thanks a lot rock girl
Thanks!
Iâm so happy I found you Mel. You inspire me a hell of a lot
Happy to inspire!!
The beginning of the video makes me laughâ€Love you, Melâ€â€â€
Love your work! Admire you as a woman with great personality. Thank you for your work!
I learned about 15 years ago to stop worrying about what other people think because at least in the USA they rarely do.
This is just what I needed to hear this morning!! Thank you so much.
Me too, it all resonates with me. Mel talks, I listen đ
LOVE! This. Thank you!đđđŒâšđŻđ
I definitely have to start...giving a shit about what other people think...
You are spot on Mel!
Just want to thank you, Mel!
Great talk! Thank you! Repeat!
Thank you
When you stop giving a shit what other people think youâve found true freedom.
I am so glad I found you on CZcams, Mel Robbins.
This is why they call timeout before the kicker kicks the field goal...so that they have time to "think about it." and the more they think about it the better chance they will think about what could go wrong and miss the kick because the mechanics will be thrown off.
Thank you Mel!!
Excellent. High Five fou you.
Thank you for sharing this. Be blessed more and more. :)
The editing and message are on point đ
Thank you Mel â€
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Today is the first time I ever saw and heard of her. Wow finally someone I can relate too.
One of my favourite people I've never met. Love ya Mel.
Looooove the video esp the beginningâ€
This helped me to finally leave my wife and 4 kids and pursue my dream of being a professional YO-YO athlete! đđŒ Tired of them laughing at me!
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Excellent.đ
Me hesitant - 5,4,3,21 - Let's go !!!!
So wanted to hear this. You are just awesome.
Spot-on!!!
I Love this woman!
that was fantastic Mel mamđ€đ€
I love this woman! â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
BlueCat Blu Me too , looking all those toxic people around us , when you see Mel she is like a big sister who take care of you and gives you some tools to defend your self .
Thanks for the kick ass compliment! xo
Mel Robbins thanks for your reply , it means a lot â„
God bless you .
Me too sheâs awesome đ
yes to all of this!
Be yourself I donât have that I want be like my friend
Mindfulnes... No judgement
God I love this woman!!!! â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
loved what u just said in this video
I like her words- and she's from my state- The Bay State! cool!
Mel you are amazing â€ïž
Where have you been? Omg! So glad I found you!
đ Now I can officially say I give zero shoots
Great advice, it is changing my reaction to constant harassment.
Even upon slipping to react , returning to this video reminds my wisdom to outsmart the immature bullies.
Your so inspiring xxxxx thank you xxxxx
You are so right!! Great message. But would love to know how to respond when admins constantly remind you of how well you are paid? I go the extra mile and work hard and get praised for my work. They hired me for my rate of pay so why throw it in my face? I would love a response.
If I stopped to do the 5 second rule everytime I feel doubt or have negative thoughts, I would literally be counting 24 hours a day. I have no idea how to get out of this cycle.
I never make it my choice to live by otherâs life advice because itâs not my responsibility to live up to anyoneâs expectations
I like this woman!
The younger you are the MORE you care but by 40 you get it; it doesn't matter what anyone thinks about you; it matters what you think about "you".
So true đž
I know, right? Used to care about people's opinions in the past but as we get older we don't give a shđt anymore. I've lost lots of friends over the years and like Mel said, "then they weren't really your friends"
I love this video to is fix honest truth she's amazing person her videos are awesome and I love her videos to so thank youâșđđđđ
SO GOOD YES
I love you Mel!! I freaking love u
The barrier is shame.
Love it đ