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About Haleh Banani, M.A. Clinical Psychology and Faith-Based Counselor (Islamic Psychology)
As a Muslim mental health professional and Muslim Coach dedicated to mental health awareness, Haleh Banani has practiced Islamically integrated counseling and psychotherapy since 1998 helping thousands of Muslim families worldwide in crisis situations overcome emotional and relationship obstacles by empowering them with proven, psychological methods she's developed within the Quran and sunnah. Her modalities do include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
A faith-based mental health professional, mental health advocate, host of her own T.V. show 'With Haleh' appearing on Al-Jazeerah and Huda TV (call in expert) with Sheikh Mohammad Salah. An international speaker and writer fueled with the passion to spread optimism, and revolutionize Islamic characteristics with the aim to strengthen the family unit and improve the overall quality of the Muslim household.
She has a thriving private practice with a two-month wait masha'Allah. She has gained a stellar reputation for achieving amazing results by using fast and effective methods that restore relationships, save marriages, build strong families, heal emotions and rebuild self-esteem.
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What if you are a stepparent and leaving makes a situation where the kids live in emotional and psychological abuse? The marriage is bad, but staying gives the kids a parent who takes care of their emotional and psychological needs. I live with the verbal abuse, gaslighting, emotional torment, lies and manipulation. I'm miserable but if I leave it will turn back to them because that's what they lived until I stepped in. The kids are so much happier now with me in their lives and I'm afraid of what will happen if I divorce.
I think you can help to get the kids to safety but at the same time don't feel obliged to stay just because of them. I don't think it has to be either / or. I would advise working with a therapist and/or social worker. Don't do this alone.
May Allah make it easy for you my sister
Please give me some advice. My ex husband is getting away with abuse towards my children because I won’t agree to be in a haram relationship with him. His family refuses to help stop the harassment. I don’t have anyone I’m alone in this country. My kids and I are suffering we are emotionally tired of living in this toxic situation, my kids are being taught that abusive behavior is normal, I don’t know what else to do.
I’m literally watching this monster get away with abusing my children and destroying their childhood. He spies on me I can’t even go out to the patio. I’m in a position to beg the person whose sole purpose is to destroy me for me and my children’s basic needs. His rich bit will only give us the bare minimum. He beats my children so hard he sweats like a pig. He use to do this with me but since i stopped all contact he’s now taking out most of his violence on them.
I moved to a Muslim country fearing American society could harm my children. In this Muslim country we are being hurt by the own family.
Thank you for your comment. I am deeply sorry to hear about the distressing situation you and your children are experiencing. Here are some steps you can take:
1. Seek Immediate Help - If your children are in immediate danger, please contact local authorities or child protection services. Their safety is paramount.
2. Legal Action - Consider seeking legal advice to understand your rights and the legal protections available to you in your country. There may be laws against domestic abuse that can provide you with the necessary protection.
3. Support System - Reach out to local community organizations, mosques, or support groups for assistance. They can offer both emotional and practical support.
4. Counseling - Emotional support is crucial. Consider seeking counseling for you and your children to help cope with the trauma. Our Banani Method trained coaches can provide personalized support. You can schedule a session here: [halehbanani.com](halehbanani.com/).
5. Empower Yourself - Educate yourself on your rights and available resources. Knowledge is power, and it can help you make informed decisions for your family's safety and well-being.
Remember, you are not alone, and there are people and resources that can help you through this difficult time. May Allah ﷻ grant you strength and ease your hardships.
Best regards,
Aisha, on behalf of Sr. Haleh Banani.
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@@haleh_banani thank you so much for your response. I did seek help from the authorities but their lack of support, my ex husband’s threats and his psychological manipulation over my children scared me from fighting to the end. It’s been two years we are living in this oppressive situation. But I see my only solution is to follow through with my legal fight.
He might threaten and the authorities might be less than helpful, but I know nothing will get worse unless it’s what Allah wills.
Even though these past two years have been incredibly difficult, I feel that all the arguments and heart break my kids have caused me, have helped. Even though it wasn’t the ideal way to get through to them. I wish they could have taken my advice without me being so upset so many times.
But I had to do what I felt was the only way I could get through to them. I can only hope and pray one day my children will understand how they made things worse for me but I kept trying to save our relationship even though I felt unloved and unsupported by them.
I see a difference in them already. We don’t have access to counseling but I’ve tried hard to explain right from wrong to them and the way true believers should behave.
I keep seeking knowledge and teaching them what I learn. We have a language barrier so it makes communication difficult but I don’t let that stop me from trying every day, alhamdulilah.
I know the harder I try, no matter how my kids turn out I’ll be able to live with myself knowing I did it all to please Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala.
Jazakumullahu Khairan.