Talking with kids about 🫢 and what happened after
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- čas přidán 2. 05. 2024
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I'm single and have no children, but your content is worth watching. I love this channel!! 😀
Same here❤
Love it !
Same and I'm also in the UK I have no idea how I found these guys years ago but they are my favourite ❤️ absolutely lovely genuine family 😊
I had a little tear when you said your children wanted to hear your love story and it touched me personally because I want to have a great love story to tel my children and children children.
Love what you’re doing bro! Love seeing black men in a positive light. You’re definitely leading the way and I’m watching and taking 📝 👌🏿
Grateful you got to introduce them. They already look up to you and now they know they can talk to you about pretty much everything. I like how you asked them first what they knew. And I love that they wanted the details about your and Yvette's story. Beautiful! I think their age is a great age. I think it depends on the kid and their environment and I agree with you about having that toe in the door to be able to establish a solid foundation of information. Always, great parenting, Beleaf!
This turned into a beautiful and unexpected direction. As a single person it’s inspiring to hear.
That's so profound. Your decision to abstain became a blessing to your children. Blocks you from a shame you don't have to face.
You are so right! Kids are curious beings, you've got to lay the ground work first, because what they learn now is going to color their outlook when they are older. Let them know about respect for themselves and what their boundaries are. Vitally important now, ESPECIALLY with the humph! stuff the schools want to fill their heads with. 😊🧡😊⭐💯 Have a lovely and blessed day, Glenn 😊🧡😊⭐💯
Wow, that's one of the best things I've heard on this channel. Totally melted my heart that they asked that question, and thank you for bringing up the importance of the road towards marriage and the intentionality behind it. Woowoo!!! Praise God from whom all blessings flow.
Wow!!!!! This is really deep. I’m going to share with my adult son. It’s only because your love is ordained that your children see love not sex. They are more concerned about how the connection works instead of how sex works. So beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
Wonderful story. I am an already an Audible member. Thanks for sharing. Blessings to you and your family.
Thank you for sharing. So great to hear how you had this conversation and the intention behind having it at a certain time.
Happy Father's Day to you. My husband had the conversation with each of our daughters at the age of 8 because they were curious. His answers were clear, concise, conscious and most of all loving. Like you I won't share the conversation or their responses (although it was the same as yours 😉) as young adults (21, 20 and 15) I think he did a great job. ♥
That was a very wise question for them to ask. It makes me wonder if G-d put that one into their little minds. To teach the both them a lesson for the future. So that the both of them can grow into better, wiser men and become what he wants for them, just as you have.
9-10 is an appropriate age to start talking to our girls/ boys about sex and puberty. Since ur children are close in age, close in friendship, probably share some friends it was good to include both
I work in the kitchen and I'm the only one that works in that kitchen. It's just me in the kitchen all day and every once in a while I run out down the hall with a little cart and deliver food to a bunch of preschoolers. I've come to a point where I might have to change jobs and the scariest thing about that is not having the whole kitchen to myself to listen to audiobooks all day. I get through so many books in a year by listening to audiobooks at work and in the car. I get in so many more stories and it makes my life so much better.
Wow that’s beautiful
I did this with my kids at an early age. I even got a little graphic but not vulgar. My youngest son started vomiting, my middle kid was crying, and my oldest was locked in. I got more kids coming up, so, the mission isn't complete😊
That seems….extreme. lol. Maybe have separate talks at different ages?
This channel has become so much more than entertainment!!
That is so beautiful that they asked about y’all love story! May God bless and keep you and your family in the Mighty Name of Jesus, Amen! ❤
Now I kinda wanna hear that story of how you and Yvette met and how y’all ended up getting married. If it’s in a video or podcast somewhere, can someone please share the link?
I needed this video. Love seeing and happy family and honorable man.
Priceless!!!!....
Great dad alert!!!!!
We had the birds and bees talk with my son at 8. Which was last year. Some of these kids in public school are spicy and we wanted to educate him and further educate on what is inappropriate.
Amen 🙏🏾💯‼️
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Love this, you go sir! I would say ages 7 - 10 at the earliest
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Glenn there's so much beauty in this story. It's very moving. I think Theo and Riah are at the right age. Imguessing they are around the 10 year or maybe a little less. But Aniyah andUzi are too young. I think there's an advantage of home schooling because they are putting stuff in libraries that expose very graphic in elementary schools.
For Anaya and Uzi, they can be told about the body parts that they should never allow anyone to touch.
@@Gwaycee True and important
@@Gwaycee Simultaneously teach children about personal boundaries which shows them that their bodies are their personal spaces and people are not allowed to trespass.
@@cecilecharlesking1795 Yes, that's correct. For example they could be taught never to sit on people's laps, let people kiss them, talk to strangers, receive gifts in the absence of their parents, open the door in their parent's absence etc.
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My mom told my daughter about the 🐦 and the 🐝 when she was 7!!! She said they were watching Look whos Talking and my kid asked her what were the worms swimming, so she explained it. I was mortified. She knew the proper words & explained it back to me.
The appropriate age is when the children start to ask questions.
What a beautiful video!!! My Mom had a very open and honest conversation with me about sex when I was 6. I found a children’s book in the public library about how babies were made so I naturally had alllllll of the questions! My mom explained everything even how fun and special it can be with my husband! I grew up viewing sex as sacred space and something that’s not scary, “nasty”, or taboo and I love my Mom for that!
I cannot wait until you have this conversation with your daughter, I feel like it will be wayyyyy different than with your boys but just as beautiful! Aniya is going to be funny! ❤
I think our children should know as young as six and seven years old. They should at least know about inappropriate touch. And the birds and the bees around nine years old. 11 years old is too late my classmates were full-on making out, French style in fifth grade.
My kids are around the same age, do you think it’s cool to have the convo together with brother/sister or separately?
I’d say together. It’s important for them to know what they need to know. They don’t need separate info.
I had to have this convo with my 5th graders (10/11 year olds) this past school year and it was my first time talking about sex with kids. They knew A LOT!!!! They knew what STDS were and were able to name some, they knew what a strap was... but those who didn't know asked questions and it was really interesting.
My son was very young when a situation required😊have a sex conversation with my son. I don't think that the first time we have a sex conversation is the first time. When we explain to our children good touch bad touch and boundaries of having their private area is a not touch zone. We have started that conversation. Sex talk comes throughout raising a child. Sex talk happens every day when raising children. The boundaries, and respectful behavior between the genders, and how to handle rejection with both genders that is sex. How to deal with aggressive behavior between genders is sex talk. All this is involved, we can never start too soon and it never ends.😊
So right! The first is not the last
I agree
I’m thirteen now and I remember waiting for my parents to tell me about it when I was younger, But they never did
I went to a private/independent catholic elementary school and now go to a similar highschool, my school never really taught us about sex. I had to learn about it through the internet and through my friends. Which means my perception
of sex and things like that were warped and sinful. I like to believe I know more now, but I still kind of don’t know what to believe
Didn't know if anyone knows but is that "text code" spelled belief? Or should it be like your channel beleaf?
I thought you would explain how you started the conversation. Like the first thing you said and blah blah😢😅
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I believe the appropriate age to talk to your kids about sex is at puberty, when their body starts changing. You want them to be comfortable in their own skin and not embarrassed about their body.
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❤ YourSelf First.. Because, When You Marry For Money, You Get What You Pay For.. (Example - r.i.p. Nicole Simpson).. TEACH *GOOD TOUCH AND *BAD TOUCH..
Can you please do a more detailed conversation on this with your wife. Im scared to discuss this because my daughter thinks God puts it in you if you pray hard this isnt entirely false but you know what i mean.
Healthy Minded Children Are Not Interested In Sex.. But, Now That You've Opened The Door, They're Going To be Very Curious With Questions.. That's A Good Thing.. BE HONEST.. BECAUSE, When I Was 8 Or 9yo I Asked My Dad "What's A Virgin"?? 😮MY DAD SAID THAT "A VIRGIN IS A GIRL THAT DON'T PLAY WITH BOYS" 😢.. I Spent That Whole Summer Thinking That I Was Not A Virgin?? NOR Were My Siblings.?? LOL
Kids are naturally interested in sex. It's developmentally appropriate. Many kids have basic questions and curiosity at a much younger age. Obviously they don't need all the details right away. But it's normal to think about and be curious about.