The defendant definitely isn't making good decisions if she moves a guy into her home who just got out of rehab to live with her and her 5 year old son. Mother's need to put their children first!!!
Y’all awfully judgy. 😂 Only one judge that I know of and it ain’t none of y’all. Why people always judge other peoples decisions with their kids or life. Wild to me.
@@christibarrick1768 um maybe because children need to be cared about and protected. There's a lot of times when children are almost an afterthought. I have personally seen this many times working in pediatric Healthcare for 8 years and now the emergency department in a hospital. I wouldnt be surprised if I saw this woman on steve wilkos next
Her loser son is a 28 year old man & she never twisted the defendants arm to move him in & take care of him for 2 years. If he were under 18 I could understand your statement!
Even though I understand why the plaintiff won the case, I feel badly for the defendant. It really does seem that the mother went after her for the money mostly out of anger about her son being arrested. The defendant didn’t even press charges for the domestic abuse (she absolutely should have though). She was ethical about returning the cross pendant without needing to be asked to do so. She moved out of the house with her young child because the plaintiff wanted her to move instead of asking the son to go through the hassle. She seems like a decent person. Also, even when she didn’t have much money she still made some small payments ($10) because she was trying to honor her commitment to pay the debt. (Something I doubt the unemployed son would have done.) I realize that she still owed the money, but it just seems like the plaintiff was mostly motivated by anger about her son being in trouble. I wish there could have been another outcome. Obviously the plaintiff’s son benefitted from those loans indirectly because he was able to live rent free and job free for 2 years.
My son's girlfriend moved down here to Florida from just south of Chicago and needed a car. I loaned her the money and we signed a written agreement. She paid it off early. They got married 5 years ago and she's sharp when it comes to money and she never misses a beat. In fact she got him saving like crazy something his dad failed to do. LOL
The plaintiff is definitely suing out of spite for getting her POS son arrested! The defendant knows this, so I’d ask the judge if I were to talk to my local PD can I still press charges for assault? See the moms face drop 😂😂😂
She lent money to a woman taking care of her son for two years. Her son will never be productive. I hope the best for that young lady. Only blessings from here.
You should never lend money to someone with no means of paying it back, if they claim they will repay with tax refune, above all.... have that Promissory Note.
can never understand how people use that as a reason, in all my years I have never heard this about getting tax back, I never know if I must pay in or not until I get a SMS or email saying I must log in
Yeah, that was laughable when the defendant said "I never asked for the money. She offered it to me." Whenever I talk to my sons' girlfriends/wives, I always offer to give them thousands of dollars for no reason. Totally believable. 🤣🤣
how does US citizens always know how much to get back, in all my 40 years of working I never knew how much I would get back or have to pay in until I got a sms or email from tax office,
JM has asked for a drink of water in prior episodes so maybe she was just taking a drink. The camera pans around and it looks like she has something in her hand and setting it aside.
@@sisterdoublehappiness9714since technically the Nazis were also fighting, then yes. Both sides should have had a time out and a stern look of disappointment from their nanny.
I only lend (less than $100) to pay them to go away. I even paid someone to go away once. I said - Here's $$. Can you go to the store for me?.....and I never saw them again!
I hate mouth noises …from the dry smacking sounds to the swallowing… those mics pick up everything!!! 😮. Why don’t they offer these people water 😒. It all just sounds nasty.
She should get half his jail time. I guarantee she was as abusive to him as he was to her. The police didn't believe he "bashed her head". Neither do I.
@@yung1717 - He was not charged in connection to any violence or physical abuse. It's IN THE VIDEO. Head out of the clouds would be a better look for you, Suzy.
@@broeheemed32 he wasn’t charged for the abuse doesn’t mean it didn’t happened. Nor does it mean that she hit him. You absolutely made that last part up. So get your head out of alpha male podcasts that hate women
Why isn’t the son just paying? He mooched off the GF and that money actually supported him. The plaintiff is in denial of the monster she raised. DV is horrible. I wouldn’t leave a child with him as defendant did.
Why didn’t the judge took in consideration that the plaintiffs son was dropping the kid at the bus stop? That’s extremely hard work and that’s probably the reason he wasn’t finding a job and using drugs, he’s only 28 and still a mommy’s baby.
The mother calls putting the boy on the bus and taking the boy off the bus as a duty? What does that have to do with him getting a job? Her son is a bum.
Parents, (ladies AND fellas) DON'T move someone into your home with your children until you TRULY KNOW THEM.... 5 months is not truly knowing someone. Especially don 't leave them alone with your kids.
Sorry, if defendant was paying all the rent, she shouldn't have to pay. Judge Judy had a similar case where she dismissed the case- all she said was, "He paid for some of the months."
Not defending abuse (if it actually happened), but the son's behavior and drug habit had absolutely no bearing on this case. Although Judge M did finally get around to saying 'but that's not why I'm here', lol.
Does anyone else think if she stayed with the loser son then she would not be sued? I think the enabler mom only did it out of anger. Her son definitely doesn't take accountability for anything and she cleans up all his messes
I never asked for it… They never said it was going to be a loan … I thought it was a gift… That’s all these people say the same thing. If somebody gives you money, pay it back.
@@KSakamoto From what I understand, both parties get paid a $250 appearance fee, and then the show also covers whatever the settlement is. So, even the losers get something.
@@michaelrusso6822 the legal disclaimer for the show says they’re “paid an appearance fee, the amount awarded, if any, is paid from the appearance fee” That’s why people agree to go on the show, it’s also why they bother trying to win or lose. They want at least the appearance fee, if they’re not the one suing. She says stuff like “you’re going to have to start saving” because ultimately it’s a show, that’s supposed to appear to be a courtroom. It’s just legal arbitration.
Honestly, what this woman's son did to someone else.Is not the point here.The point is she owes her money. 3:04 The cops will stop taking you serious if you continue to put yourself back into a dangerous situation with someone. It may sound harsh but it's true. 3:31 Come on, mom open your eyes.It doesn't take anyone two years to find a job if they're really looking !!
A shame that deserving individuals like this have to worry about housing and such. Let's hope that when they have children that the children have programs to take care of them.
I kinda believe the defendant in this one… seems like the mom would have done anything to have her son have a better life… then a year goes by and he beats the defendant and they break up so she wants money back.
So, you move a recovering heroin addict in w you and your kids? K. His mom tells you that it'll be better for YOU and YOUR kids to move out of the home that YOU pay rent for....and you do it??? TF?? And, the mom is an enabler based on her saying that the gf pressed his buttons---plus, she was trying to make it seem like him putting her kid on the bus was equivalent to paying rent.
Legally the Defendant owes the money. Morally, after supporting the son for 2 years(the Defendant), the Plaintiff should have let it go. Also, pretty slick saying the son came to her asking for money on BEHALF of the Defendant. Let the Plaintiff get the money FROM HER SON. The Defendant's actions with returning the cross shows that she is a moral person. She's better off without the Plaintiff's son in her life.
unfortunately the fact that he was abusive had nothing to do with the case, she borrowed the money and she has to pay it back. All that other information was just to give background. If she would have gotten it in writing and the lady said you don't have to pay me back, the judge may have considered that.
Crazy how somehow can rack up 3 grand in credit card debt and get bailed out by your boyfriends mom and then somehow your not responsible to pay back is crazy
Lady she paid your credit card debit just pay her and stop thinking because a relationship was bad and failed your no longer obligated to your finicial debts!
Normally I would say pay up, but the money was obviously for the defendant and the plaintiff's son. I think she should have to pay only half back. She wouldn't have given her the money if she was not with the son.
I think his mother should get a clue. Her son's drug addict. She needs to worry about her son getting clean and getting him help. If he lived there Two years with no job, the mom don't deserve anything
Nobody but nobody has a tax return due, it's a tax return once it's in your account, until then it don't exist no matter what is written, proposed or told.
The judge is so back and forth with the way she rules on cases I've seen her many times tell someone that because they had no record of trying to get the money for a long period of time that that they didn't owe the money because it was either a spouse or a family member, I also think if the judge was going to make the defendant pay the money back that she should have only been responsible to pay half of it, so because the plaintiffs son was a bum loser he was responsible for absolutely zero when it came to the financial aspect of their relationship!
I don’t think the plaintiff should’ve won. They didn’t have a written contract everything was verbal so if she verbally said the loan was forgiven how is able to just change her mind? And it’s like the judge missed the part where the plaintiff said her son would call and say Amanda needed help as if his bum ass wasn’t staying there and really needed the help😑
The fact that this chick can't muster up enough Pride to pay back such a large amount of cash to someone who was kind enough to help her out. I'd be ashamed and embarrassed!! Hopefully the Plaintiff smartens up too and STOPS loaning out money2ppl whom she isn't even related too..
The defendant definitely isn't making good decisions if she moves a guy into her home who just got out of rehab to live with her and her 5 year old son. Mother's need to put their children first!!!
That’s how I feel about all the people on love after lockup. Moving their jailbirds into the house straight out of jail with their kids smh
Amen!
Say it louder !!!! 💯 💯!!
Y’all awfully judgy. 😂 Only one judge that I know of and it ain’t none of y’all. Why people always judge other peoples decisions with their kids or life. Wild to me.
@@christibarrick1768 um maybe because children need to be cared about and protected. There's a lot of times when children are almost an afterthought. I have personally seen this many times working in pediatric Healthcare for 8 years and now the emergency department in a hospital. I wouldnt be surprised if I saw this woman on steve wilkos next
Mom is the very definition of enabler.
Yep, and she definitely took her to court because her son was arrested.
3370$ is not small money to just give away to her son gf. She needs to pay back
@@Kelseaeff7436 Agreed. I would sue her, too. But Mom is far too involved in her adult son's life.
@@mikeyh0 what gives you that impression? Because she helped his gf? She didn't talk about anything else to my recollection
@@Kelseaeff7436I think that’s evidence enough. All her grown sons probably live in her basement. Yikes
3:15 “what was ur son doing for those TWO YEARS?” “He was looking for a job”. 😂😂😂 shuuuut up
Hey, looking for a job is a job. Lol
@@aprilpinketon2567 its very strenuous looking for a job, lol
LOL…😂
And my job out here with mandatory overtime
I could see two months, not two years!😒
It was her loan and she owed it, but I would feel like an idiot for suing someone who financially supported my loser son for 2 years.
Her loser son is a 28 year old man & she never twisted the defendants arm to move him in & take care of him for 2 years. If he were under 18 I could understand your statement!
i completely agree!
@@noahbarrett4650 both things can be true
Even though I understand why the plaintiff won the case, I feel badly for the defendant. It really does seem that the mother went after her for the money mostly out of anger about her son being arrested. The
defendant didn’t even press charges for the domestic abuse (she absolutely should have though). She was ethical about returning the cross pendant without needing to be asked to do so. She moved out of the house with her young child because the plaintiff wanted her to move instead of asking the son to go through the hassle. She seems like a decent person. Also, even when she didn’t have much money she still made some small payments ($10) because she was trying to honor her commitment to pay the debt. (Something I doubt the unemployed son would have done.)
I realize that she still owed the money, but it just seems like the plaintiff was mostly motivated by anger about her son being in trouble. I wish there could have been another outcome. Obviously the plaintiff’s son benefitted from those loans indirectly because he was able to live rent free and job free for 2 years.
The plaintiff is a huge part of her son’s problems.
I agree. I’m glad someone else feels the same way I do.
Yes, my thoughts exactly! Agree..
all good points
She moved a drug addict into her home with her 5 year old son? Seriously?
You must be proud of your son.. he is doing a fantastic job doing nothing
She really sat there and justified her sons actions
Ahhhh, the ol' "I'm getting a Big tax refund" trick!
😂😂👏🏾👏🏾Yup!!!
cant believe how US citizens fall for this trick
Judge Mathis enters the chat
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😂😂😂😂😂
My son's girlfriend moved down here to Florida from just south of Chicago and needed a car. I loaned her the money and we signed a written agreement. She paid it off early. They got married 5 years ago and she's sharp when it comes to money and she never misses a beat. In fact she got him saving like crazy something his dad failed to do. LOL
@@benjaminbrzoza1783 Apparently you do or you wouldn't have replied. Take a chill pill you'll be okay Skippy.
Dude congrats! Your son is lucky
This mother is such a liar she is trying to get even with her for having put him behind bars
Plaintiff’s son was job hunting… for two years!🤷♀️😂
Those jobs are really well hidden!
The plaintiff is definitely suing out of spite for getting her POS son arrested! The defendant knows this, so I’d ask the judge if I were to talk to my local PD can I still press charges for assault? See the moms face drop 😂😂😂
She lent money to a woman taking care of her son for two years. Her son will never be productive.
I hope the best for that young lady. Only blessings from here.
You should never lend money to someone with no means of paying it back, if they claim they will repay with tax refune, above all.... have that Promissory Note.
How many times have we heard people say on this show "I was promised they would pay me back when I get my tax money!" It Never happens!!
can never understand how people use that as a reason, in all my years I have never heard this about getting tax back, I never know if I must pay in or not until I get a SMS or email saying I must log in
Never lend more money out than you can afford to loose
Girl nobody offers to pay your debts
Yeah, that was laughable when the defendant said "I never asked for the money. She offered it to me."
Whenever I talk to my sons' girlfriends/wives, I always offer to give them thousands of dollars for no reason. Totally believable.
🤣🤣
@@JamieM470She could’ve if she felt bad about her abusive son abusing the girl
The old “refund check” is the oldest routine.
how does US citizens always know how much to get back, in all my 40 years of working I never knew how much I would get back or have to pay in until I got a sms or email from tax office,
It’s the kiss of death.
She needs to be suing her sorry son.
1:36 Who is gulping here? It's driving me crazy 😅
😂😂😂
The judge's mic is picking that up.🤣
Omg that was disgusting. Ugh, I'm glad to see I wasn't the only one grossed out by that 😂😂
JM has asked for a drink of water in prior episodes so maybe she was just taking a drink. The camera pans around and it looks like she has something in her hand and setting it aside.
SAME 🤬
Violence for whatever reason is BAD
Boxing world title?
Nature is violent ideology will never Trump Nature
its never good for any person to be violent, male or female,
So fighting the Nazis in WW2 was bad?
@@sisterdoublehappiness9714since technically the Nazis were also fighting, then yes. Both sides should have had a time out and a stern look of disappointment from their nanny.
Never lend kids money. Never lend anyone money because if the can't get it on their own, then you probably won't get paid.
Never lend money or cosign for anyone. When you want to get paid back, you now have an enemy. They'll also say it was a gift.
I only lend (less than $100) to pay them to go away. I even paid someone to go away once. I said - Here's $$. Can you go to the store for me?.....and I never saw them again!
one of the worst things is to lend family or friends money
Many parents shell out money to get rid of their drug addicted children. They put them off on girlfriends to get rid of the burden...
Absolutely
I should not have to hear them swallow . Gross
I hate mouth noises …from the dry smacking sounds to the swallowing… those mics pick up everything!!! 😮. Why don’t they offer these people water 😒. It all just sounds nasty.
Her son should Liable for half
She should get half his jail time. I guarantee she was as abusive to him as he was to her. The police didn't believe he "bashed her head". Neither do I.
It was the defendants credit cards
@@broeheemed32you made that up
@@yung1717 - He was not charged in connection to any violence or physical abuse. It's IN THE VIDEO. Head out of the clouds would be a better look for you, Suzy.
@@broeheemed32 he wasn’t charged for the abuse doesn’t mean it didn’t happened. Nor does it mean that she hit him. You absolutely made that last part up. So get your head out of alpha male podcasts that hate women
Why isn't the son paying one half of the bill?
None of it was his...
Because losers don’t typically do things like that.
Thankfully for the defendant this show pays the judgment.
@@Sunintheam8 exactly!
"She lured him to her house." "She manipulated me." "She pressed his buttons." Knock off the victim talk already. WAY too old for that!
I just noticed that the guy who walked in with the defendent in the beginning is Mass Of Man (singer/rapper) . I love his song "Fallen Angel"
Lol I noticed that to I also mentioned that as well on here
Never heard of him before
He's an absolute unit😅
0:27 😂😂😂 these 3 walk in like those Russian dolls 🪆 when ya open one, there one smaller inside!! 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 So true!👏
😂😂😂😂
Why isn’t the son just paying? He mooched off the GF and that money actually supported him. The plaintiff is in denial of the monster she raised. DV is horrible. I wouldn’t leave a child with him as defendant did.
As Judge Judy says no good deed goes unpunished
Thanks for reminding me not to lend money
You should never get back with an abuser. It never works out because the abuse will never stop. You cannot fix an unfixable person.
Is that sound her swallowing ? 🤮
😅😂 4:41
I hate those sounds. Chewing too...ughhh
He. Benefited he should pay half
Mom got on binoculars and still can’t see. Parents like this is why kids grow up entitled
How is a heroin addict entitled?
I’ve noticed a trend. The losers never accept responsibility 😂
The defendants eyeroll at the end said it all. She knows she owes the money.
I bet if that man opens his hoodie we would see him on someone’s shoulders. He is huge! Almost looks fake 😭😂
Don't let people borrow money.
And I thought I was an idiot for staying with my abusive alcoholic husband for 15 years…geez!
Don't lend money if you expect to get it back.
The defendant acted so innocent until she made facial expressions toward the judge after the ruling
The gulping sounds, ugh.
That dude with the defendant is huge wtf
First minute impressions: seem like a classy bunch.
Pressing buttons is a slang for PROVOKING
“I didn’t want to take her money, it was her idea. She forced me to buy a new house with her son”. Yeah, sounds legit 🤣 🤣 🤣
Why didn’t the judge took in consideration that the plaintiffs son was dropping the kid at the bus stop? That’s extremely hard work and that’s probably the reason he wasn’t finding a job and using drugs, he’s only 28 and still a mommy’s baby.
The mother justifies everything her son does!! He’s a LOSER ma’am!
c'mon guys! You're not seriously suggesting that the son shouldn't be liable for half of that debt
That is a big, big boy on the defendants side...Damn!
When the defendant walked in, the three of them looked like one of those Russian nesting dolls set! Wild the way they just kept increasing in size!
The mother calls putting the boy on the bus and taking the boy off the bus as a duty? What does that have to do with him getting a job? Her son is a bum.
I cant believe these people dont actually have to pay. I cant watch peoples court the same now that i know
Never lend any money you cannot afford to lose. Either give if you can, but never lend money.
Parents, (ladies AND fellas) DON'T move someone into your home with your children until you TRULY KNOW THEM.... 5 months is not truly knowing someone. Especially don 't leave them alone with your kids.
Dont trust them with your children Or your pets.
Sorry, if defendant was paying all the rent, she shouldn't have to pay. Judge Judy had a similar case where she dismissed the case- all she said was, "He paid for some of the months."
The mom is mad that she's not supporting her son
Not defending abuse (if it actually happened), but the son's behavior and drug habit had absolutely no bearing on this case. Although Judge M did finally get around to saying 'but that's not why I'm here', lol.
Yep, there it is. Another person with an entitled attitude.
Does anyone else think if she stayed with the loser son then she would not be sued? I think the enabler mom only did it out of anger. Her son definitely doesn't take accountability for anything and she cleans up all his messes
I never asked for it… They never said it was going to be a loan … I thought it was a gift… That’s all these people say the same thing. If somebody gives you money, pay it back.
At the end, she didn't care... because she knows that the show pays whatever the final judgement is.
She'll still have the judgment against her publicly and will effect her credit. She probably doesn't care 😂
They pay the settlement out of her appearance fee, though. So she doesn’t make money for showing up.
@@KSakamoto The appearance fee is only $250. How she or others pay? I do remember JM say you better start saving to pay. Not sure what that meant?
@@KSakamoto From what I understand, both parties get paid a $250 appearance fee, and then the show also covers whatever the settlement is. So, even the losers get something.
@@michaelrusso6822 the legal disclaimer for the show says they’re “paid an appearance fee, the amount awarded, if any, is paid from the appearance fee”
That’s why people agree to go on the show, it’s also why they bother trying to win or lose. They want at least the appearance fee, if they’re not the one suing.
She says stuff like “you’re going to have to start saving” because ultimately it’s a show, that’s supposed to appear to be a courtroom. It’s just legal arbitration.
Honestly, what this woman's son did to someone else.Is not the point here.The point is she owes her money. 3:04 The cops will stop taking you serious if you continue to put yourself back into a dangerous situation with someone. It may sound harsh but it's true. 3:31 Come on, mom open your eyes.It doesn't take anyone two years to find a job if they're really looking !!
Oh my gosh that's one big dude! 😂
Defendant's, posse made sure to show his tat 😮😂😂
A shame that deserving individuals like this have to worry about housing and such. Let's hope that when they have children that the children have programs to take care of them.
Wait. What? Did the gf think if she told JM that it wasn’t her idea it would’ve turned out any differently??? Omg. 🙄
I kinda believe the defendant in this one… seems like the mom would have done anything to have her son have a better life… then a year goes by and he beats the defendant and they break up so she wants money back.
So, you move a recovering heroin addict in w you and your kids? K. His mom tells you that it'll be better for YOU and YOUR kids to move out of the home that YOU pay rent for....and you do it??? TF?? And, the mom is an enabler based on her saying that the gf pressed his buttons---plus, she was trying to make it seem like him putting her kid on the bus was equivalent to paying rent.
Legally the Defendant owes the money. Morally, after supporting the son for 2 years(the Defendant), the Plaintiff should have let it go. Also, pretty slick saying the son came to her asking for money on BEHALF of the Defendant. Let the Plaintiff get the money FROM HER SON. The Defendant's actions with returning the cross shows that she is a moral person. She's better off without the Plaintiff's son in her life.
wasn't part of the loan for expenses that were jointly insured by her son as well, why does she have to pay it all back.
OMG DOUG!!!!’😂😂😂
unfortunately the fact that he was abusive had nothing to do with the case, she borrowed the money and she has to pay it back. All that other information was just to give background. If she would have gotten it in writing and the lady said you don't have to pay me back, the judge may have considered that.
“…get your life together”? Didn’t her son get out of rehab and then move in with her? Ma’am…
Crazy how somehow can rack up 3 grand in credit card debt and get bailed out by your boyfriends mom and then somehow your not responsible to pay back is crazy
Look at the defendant’s eyes! So shifty! up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A….. Konami code! Haha…
Lady she paid your credit card debit just pay her and stop thinking because a relationship was bad and failed your no longer obligated to your finicial debts!
Normally I would say pay up, but the money was obviously for the defendant and the plaintiff's son. I think she should have to pay only half back. She wouldn't have given her the money if she was not with the son.
I think his mother should get a clue. Her son's drug addict. She needs to worry about her son getting clean and getting him help.
If he lived there Two years with no job, the mom don't deserve anything
I totally disagree with this case. If they were on Judge Judy, she would have made that crackhead son pay half
Nobody but nobody has a tax return due, it's a tax return once it's in your account, until then it don't exist no matter what is written, proposed or told.
The judge is so back and forth with the way she rules on cases I've seen her many times tell someone that because they had no record of trying to get the money for a long period of time that that they didn't owe the money because it was either a spouse or a family member, I also think if the judge was going to make the defendant pay the money back that she should have only been responsible to pay half of it, so because the plaintiffs son was a bum loser he was responsible for absolutely zero when it came to the financial aspect of their relationship!
Girl shut up and pay the money back.
Did you know the production company pays the verdict plus each one gets an appearance fee plus airline tickets?
I guess they would have to offer some incentive to the guests, in order to get them to dismiss their cases and appear.
The plaintiff is a liar
That looks like mass of man the music artist
So I just seen at the end on his arm a tattoo that said Mass of Man lol
Sounds like mom's had a sour worthless seed 👼🏻😂
That chick is pure evil
Isn't he still the third (III) Herbert? 😂😅
I don’t think the plaintiff should’ve won. They didn’t have a written contract everything was verbal so if she verbally said the loan was forgiven how is able to just change her mind? And it’s like the judge missed the part where the plaintiff said her son would call and say Amanda needed help as if his bum ass wasn’t staying there and really needed the help😑
The soune of her gulping water is awful😖
I wasn’t aware that it takes 2 years to find a job. The son is definitely a loser….
The fact that this chick can't muster up enough Pride to pay back such a large amount of cash to someone who was kind enough to help her out. I'd be ashamed and embarrassed!! Hopefully the Plaintiff smartens up too and STOPS loaning out money2ppl whom she isn't even related too..
That’s a big dude 😮
Ah yes.. the losers classic defense.. "she didn't let me speak"
🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽Wow my eyes couldn’t stop staring at the Brother walking into court Wow🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽
🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽Wow look at the size of that Brother standing in the hallway Wow🇺🇸❤️🙏🏽
10:50 why are all these people acting like divorce isn't a thing?
12:28 😮omg the monster behind her! Lol! Ironic Tattoo behind her head lol