Why did we choose our Chinese Wives?

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    People often ask us for relationship advice, and a lot of that advice that we give comes from our experiences in China with both dating and getting married. In this episode, we talk about why we chose who we did, and how it all worked out for us.
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  • @ADVChina
    @ADVChina  Před 5 lety +86

    Google maps link of where we were - Must eat here - 阿璋肉圆 (Changhua meatballs stuffed with all kinds of deliciousness) goo.gl/maps/sQ1QVhUASzs
    Also - 老店朱爌肉飯 (Perfectly cooked pork belly (meat) over rice) - goo.gl/maps/7xX7HQjUSpL2
    Mt. Bagua Buddha Temple - goo.gl/maps/MZS8zxK3PZU2
    Hotel Recommendation - Forte Hotel Changhua (Around $60) - goo.gl/maps/w9h9cz1mVEE2
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    • @ADVChina
      @ADVChina  Před 5 lety +5

      Thank you!

    • @superjesus4307
      @superjesus4307 Před 5 lety +1

      Both of them are hot, but I still prefer my girlfriend from Zhengzhou.

    • @sheldonaubut
      @sheldonaubut Před 5 lety

      +Max Pain -- You do know that they are not at home in mainland China but visiting Taiwan and these are rental bikes?

    • @lupusdeum3894
      @lupusdeum3894 Před 5 lety +2

      Good talk, guys!

    • @subratomazumder2687
      @subratomazumder2687 Před 5 lety +1

      Nice video...specially all footpath with lightly manicured tree...its awsome

  • @richardc5100
    @richardc5100 Před 5 lety +430

    Now your wives should make videos about why they chose you.

    • @tecluchi
      @tecluchi Před 5 lety +12

      Richard C Touché! My third grade kid neighbor could think of another civilized word to used on that tittle other than “choose” :)

    • @boomerangsruckflug8513
      @boomerangsruckflug8513 Před 4 lety +5

      @@tecluchi that's the word they use themselves in the video, so calm down man.

    • @stephen-gi9uz
      @stephen-gi9uz Před 3 lety +3

      Perhaps due to religion called white worshipping

    • @thelugoffgamecock792
      @thelugoffgamecock792 Před 3 lety +1

      @@tecluchi I prefer "nailed." "Pounded" works well too.......or, "hammered."

    • @gretashapiro4118
      @gretashapiro4118 Před 2 lety

      They're white and potential to leave China to a western country

  • @mrmadmaxalot
    @mrmadmaxalot Před 5 lety +151

    I remember one of the first times I watched Winston's channel I was amazed that he was so professional he had even hired a model to do his intro for him. lol

  • @TheHoodmailbox
    @TheHoodmailbox Před 5 lety +27

    Did I mention my wife’s a doctor? Only a thousand times!
    (So proud)

  • @paul_grimsley
    @paul_grimsley Před 5 lety +72

    “....Fluttery heart nonsense.” - Winston, you’re brilliant man, never change!! Stay awesome!!!

    • @sim.frischh9781
      @sim.frischh9781 Před 2 lety +2

      One could argue he chose a doctor for his heart issues...

  • @johnblackmouth
    @johnblackmouth Před 5 lety +69

    Both of you are quite lucky and made a perfect choice. May your marriages stay awesome!

  • @juststeve5542
    @juststeve5542 Před 5 lety +160

    Winston, is your wife a doctor?!
    Seriously though, C-Milk hit the nail on the head... You need someone who is also your best friend.

  • @bensajdak9133
    @bensajdak9133 Před 5 lety +364

    Your wives chose you and allowed you to believe you chose them ;-)

    • @SwissTanuki
      @SwissTanuki Před 5 lety +3

      Story of my life

    • @noth606
      @noth606 Před 5 lety +8

      Angus Lee Not always, when I met my now wife the first time we had already basically decided that short of finding some hidden deal breaking thing about the other, we would get married and try to have children. We communicated online and by phone before my visit, and a little less than a year after my first visit she had moved to my country and we started wedding preparations and were actually wed less than a year from our first encounter. 3 months later she was pregnant.
      Not all people see it as being primarily a romantic love thing, although that also usually is there.
      In case you are interested I'm European and my wife is Japanese.

    • @kenramnath30
      @kenramnath30 Před 5 lety

      Agreed. Just what I was saying on my comment

    • @sonyaisababyan674
      @sonyaisababyan674 Před 5 lety

      Omg off the top of my head

    • @-whackd
      @-whackd Před 5 lety +2

      Haha. A relationship is a process of continuously choosing.

  • @mjc42701
    @mjc42701 Před 5 lety +282

    I am a woman and have seen your wives on both your video's and your wives own video's, they are both intelligent beautiful women with great personalities being Chinese or not they are both great catches.

    • @mjc42701
      @mjc42701 Před 5 lety +16

      American meme generic negative troll comment LOL

    • @mjc42701
      @mjc42701 Před 5 lety +9

      hahahahah must have struck a nerve

    • @bazle64
      @bazle64 Před 5 lety

      Why you pretending to be a woman?

    • @rococokitchen3988
      @rococokitchen3988 Před 5 lety

      mjc 427: are you a chinese...

    • @kennance115
      @kennance115 Před 5 lety +1

      Yea they are accomplished girls. Good women .Actually I am not sure why these girls like these guys. To be honest I am not sure why my Chinese wife likes me. If I were a women I don't think I would like these.guys further more, I wouldn't even like myself. Glad I am not a woman. Happy to say I am a guy and I like myself these guys too.

  • @Dafoodmaster
    @Dafoodmaster Před 5 lety +155

    woah winston's wife is a doctor? so cool

    • @chrissabre1761
      @chrissabre1761 Před 5 lety +34

      Yeah, hes only told us that a dozen times,

    • @Dafoodmaster
      @Dafoodmaster Před 5 lety +13

      @@chrissabre1761 woooosh

    • @ChopStickZero
      @ChopStickZero Před 5 lety +9

      @Chris Sabre dont forget his "training" doctors lol...he just loves to use that word to sound like hes teaching them surgical skills :)

    • @TrangDB9
      @TrangDB9 Před 5 lety +13

      Just like Ben " my wife is a doctor" Shapiro

    • @chrissabre1761
      @chrissabre1761 Před 5 lety +2

      Yep, and he did train doctors in cultural behavior.

  • @virginiacopeland108
    @virginiacopeland108 Před 5 lety +195

    Third times a charm! My husband and I both were divorced twice and never intended to marry again. The moment we saw each other we knew we would marry. It's been 25 years now and we are best friends and get along like two peas in a pod!

    • @madmax6654
      @madmax6654 Před 5 lety +7

      Virginia Bradley Thank you for sharing. Wishing you and your husband another 25 years of happiness together 🙏

    • @yellowrain3601
      @yellowrain3601 Před 5 lety +4

      awesome! i was once there..the feeling of love is something no dictionary can explain. it overtakes you

    • @bloodaxe5028
      @bloodaxe5028 Před 5 lety +6

      Your husband needs MGTOW

    • @brianplum1825
      @brianplum1825 Před 5 lety +4

      Echo One -- why only 25 more years?

    • @madmax6654
      @madmax6654 Před 5 lety

      Brian Plum I commented on the message within a couple of seconds reading it. It was more of a poetic simulation to them being together 25 years... but of course the overall message is happiness forever.

  • @NSG_UK
    @NSG_UK Před 5 lety +13

    My Malaysian Chinese wife is the best. Honest, hardworking, PhD educated, beautiful. Amazingly she had been classed as leftover woman as over 30. After one date, our chemistry was so strong we decided to marry and three years later both live in UK.

    • @zeiitgeist
      @zeiitgeist Před 5 lety

      Don't remember Malaysia having the idea of left over women, however, Chinese in Malaysia tend to vary, those more in-tune in western media and outlook will tend to avoid mixing with majority of the local population due to their inability to interact with them normally, they typically also have another perspective of what Malaysia or the culture really is - when they put in the effort to exposed their background to others.

    • @miriamtiuseco2nd
      @miriamtiuseco2nd Před 5 lety

      Chinese guys want younger women. So if one is over 30, it's harder to find a mate. Lol

    • @vapeurdepisse
      @vapeurdepisse Před 11 měsíci

      Nice geomaxx, hope it lasts

  • @mranon_101
    @mranon_101 Před 5 lety +112

    *PLOT TWIST*
    Winston's wife is actually a nurse

    • @J0J0McM0M0
      @J0J0McM0M0 Před 5 lety +6

      Climbatise chinese doctor = european nurse kappa

    • @TheBakuganmaster99
      @TheBakuganmaster99 Před 5 lety +3

      Or maybe a dentist.

    • @allenschmitz9644
      @allenschmitz9644 Před 5 lety +2

      yes, one more of Winstons lil' fibs, the doctor gambit, trust me a nurse is not a doctor, my sister is a nurse for 30 years and I dont call her a doctor, why does winston keep making that mistake on social media?

    • @Kotiara123
      @Kotiara123 Před 5 lety +1

      Chinese doctor = western witch doctor

    • @allenschmitz9644
      @allenschmitz9644 Před 5 lety

      @@Kotiara123 I-CHING patent charts...lol'

  • @jackwest3282
    @jackwest3282 Před 5 lety +21

    You guys have beautiful and amazing wives, cheers for saying such honest and open things about them with us! Loving the mini-taiwan tours you guys are doing. I've only been to Taipei myself and loved it. Cheers for sharing your experiences with us, take care and ride safe!

  • @g-bgcg
    @g-bgcg Před 5 lety +15

    As the saying goes "Love knows no bounds" Glad you guys have found your true loves. Some people spend a lifetime searching for this and never find it. Thanks for the video. C milk your kid is soooo adorable and cute.

  • @electriczebra99
    @electriczebra99 Před 5 lety +36

    Thanks! I'm a Canadian, married a Zimbabwean here in South Africa. Agree with the guys - go for 100% happiness and find that special person wherever you are in God's great world. Life's adventures can lead anywhere...

    • @Tired_Farmer
      @Tired_Farmer Před 5 lety +7

      ElectricZebra 93 This was a pleasant read. Thank you very much for sharing this and I wish you a prosperous life ahead with your wife

    • @richardkaltenbach3961
      @richardkaltenbach3961 Před 6 měsíci

      I Myself Almost Married A Beautiful Lovely Sexy AF 🇬🇭 GHANAIAN, Sadly She Was Killed In Her STC Bus Hijacking Back In April-May 2014.

  • @pathofexile7529
    @pathofexile7529 Před 5 lety +57

    C-milk said few times he dated lot of people in past. Its ok mate we belive you did🤣

  • @duenorth40
    @duenorth40 Před 5 lety +9

    Why did I marry my wife?? For her love of family, my family and her family.
    Also her love for nature. We have similar minds. She calls herself a simple woman,
    but she is everything to me. We are best friends and eternal lovers. ❤️

  • @charliewolf7500
    @charliewolf7500 Před 5 lety +60

    Fairchild C-119 Flying Boxcar was used in the movie "Flight of the Phoenix" (2004) is an awesome Medium Cargo Aircraft, replaced by the C-130 Hercules still in service. The fighter is the Northrop F-5E Tiger II (has the oval nose). It has that gorgeous female coke bottle shaped fuselage. My favourite fighter of all time. So many aircraft derived from it, T-38, FA-18, F-20 and many X-Planes. Thank you for sharing.

    • @lupusdeum3894
      @lupusdeum3894 Před 5 lety +3

      Top speed of 290 mph/466kph!
      Not bad for a flying boxcar!

    • @charliewolf7500
      @charliewolf7500 Před 5 lety +4

      Awesome. It's an enlarged version of the P-38 Lightning.

    • @ronaldreed7698
      @ronaldreed7698 Před 5 lety +1

      The C-130 replaced the C-47 which unlike the 119 is still flying commercial flights and is the only aircraft that makes cargo movement in central America possible. Little short dirt or clay runways hauling food, fuel, people and livestock to people who live without roads.

    • @whataboutbob9786
      @whataboutbob9786 Před 5 lety +2

      Knew you guys would show up, with some good info! Now, why is China displaying US planes?

    • @kevmc291
      @kevmc291 Před 5 lety

      I wondered that too until I realised they were actually in Taiwan on this occasion.

  • @chef1190
    @chef1190 Před 5 lety +99

    Winston should thumbnail this "my
    Wife is a doctor "

    • @dakotaranger
      @dakotaranger Před 5 lety +1

      There's an American commentator that already has that tagline jajaja

  • @scottwatrous
    @scottwatrous Před 5 lety +9

    The big thing that western people overlook when you say "you marry the family" isn't just that you marry into their family, but they are also marrying into YOUR family. At this point I've had more than one relationship with an asian person turn when they realized my family doesn't mesh with their ideals. Just because your family is cool with you finding someone from overseas, doesn't mean your potential partner is going to just be cool with them automatically.

  • @Starmast3rmusic
    @Starmast3rmusic Před 5 lety +17

    Last time I was this early for an advchina video, I... Wait, I was never this early
    Seriously though, hearing your sweet stories about how you met your wives gives me hope. Keep up the good work, you two!

  • @lennon_richardson
    @lennon_richardson Před 5 lety +49

    Remember, you are marrying a family, not just a girl. Great advice.

    • @neville132bbk
      @neville132bbk Před 4 lety +1

      My daughter. ..very independent minded NZ girl..2 years in Japan after gaining Masters...3+ years ago married HK born buy who had spent 26 of his 36 years in London....Certainly true about marrying 1 person and then all the family... which can bring all sorts of things....even a NZer marrying an Australian brings up the cultural differences. .....or an Aucklander....

    • @gentlegiant6585
      @gentlegiant6585 Před 4 lety

      SOoooo true.

  • @davidtriune8028
    @davidtriune8028 Před 5 lety +73

    thats awesome sasha is one of prettiest chinese women i've ever seen and vivi is rich full of stories :)

  • @maranti34b
    @maranti34b Před 5 lety +7

    My wife is Malaysian. We have two sons, 21 and 17. We live in Northern Cal east of Sacramento. She attended 6th grade in America and First Form in England. Her native language is actually English. Has a diploma from Malaysian Institute of Technology and a BS in Finance from Cal State Sacramento. I was specifically looking for an Asian girl friend who could go the distance and she was looking for "a Yank, a man like you." She has seen more of America than I have, has been to Japan, England, Scotland. We're in our third decade of marriage. My mother was born in London, raised in Perth. My father was in US Navy six years some of it in the US Asiatic Fleet, nearly all in the Pacific. Served from '39 to '45. She and I fit the parameters you set up for mixed marriages that work. I know of 3 mixed marriage involving Malaysians that did not fit your recommendations and did not work. Wife's father did undergrad work in Queensland, phd. in England. My brother-in-laws have masters in engineering from UK. One brother-in-law has Danish wife with a fashion business in Malaysia. Her father was a career-long expat. She worked for one year as the manager of a resort on Easter Island. I enjoy my periodic visits to Malaysia and the East.

  • @liamwilson8924
    @liamwilson8924 Před 5 lety +15

    You guys have great wives. Incredibly intelligent women, they're just lovely when they're in videos. You guys, and the ladies, chose well

  • @robburdack4361
    @robburdack4361 Před 5 lety +6

    As always thankyou for the window into china and surrounding cultures and your life....its greatly appreciated as someone that will never see it first hand !

  • @HellPaul.
    @HellPaul. Před 5 lety +163

    I'm a 20yo Italian guy who has a 21yo Chinese girlfriend who lives in 湖南.
    I really do love her and she really loves me so much, but the family doesn't know it yet, wish me luck people😂😂😂

    • @carloscastrodegouveia435
      @carloscastrodegouveia435 Před 5 lety +8

      @@jamesstern8043 issa trap

    • @TheBradylands
      @TheBradylands Před 5 lety +10

      I'm married to a Chinese woman for 10years now .it took some time for her family to accept our marriage, but they did .don't give up.

    • @FarrFromPerfect
      @FarrFromPerfect Před 5 lety +8

      Cook for the mother-in-law, drink with the father-in-law and you will be fine. I couldn't even speak the same language as my in-laws (Shanghainese) when I met them but it worked out good.

    • @Sr68720
      @Sr68720 Před 5 lety +7

      If family don't know it's not a relationship.

    • @HellPaul.
      @HellPaul. Před 5 lety +3

      @@jamesstern8043 I met her when she was a 留学生 (foreign student) here in Italy, after sometime we both fell in love and we have been engaged for 6 months before she left (I accompanied her to the airport), and we are still engaged now

  • @tristy29
    @tristy29 Před 5 lety +11

    I'm happy i just discovered your channel few days ago.. now i have alot of content to watch... i watch you every night before i go to sleep... I'm very happy that you found peace and beautiful love as she is there in China. I wish you never stop doing that kind of content and I respect you so much for not raping us with adds.
    Greetings to you, all your friends and good people of China from Slovenia!

  • @chun1305
    @chun1305 Před 5 lety +58

    C-Milk:' Your wife is a doctor? No way!' I hope C-Milk is being sarcastic or he is loosing it.

    • @whataboutbob9786
      @whataboutbob9786 Před 5 lety

      Delirious from the heat? They mentioned nearly passing out from heat, but it looked like a nice over cast day.

    • @hannakinn
      @hannakinn Před 5 lety +6

      Haha, no C-Milk was saying that because of how many times Winston has worked that into a vlog. For Winston to say he didn't know if he'd mentioned it was kinda crazy given how often he's said it. Winston's response was perfect. That said I think Winston says it so often not to be pretentious but because he loves his wife and is proud of her.

    • @chun1305
      @chun1305 Před 5 lety +5

      Winston should consider changing his alias to SerpentMD , married to a doctor, and make more videos explaining his new name. ;-)

    • @BH-ix7nq
      @BH-ix7nq Před 5 lety +4

      Wait.. you seriously couldn't pick out the sarcasm???

    • @FoodforThought12345678dsds
      @FoodforThought12345678dsds Před 5 lety +1

      BH - Chinese do not understand sarcasm

  • @sammieseoul5544
    @sammieseoul5544 Před 5 lety +13

    Please.. I BEG YOU.. get the Wives together and have them discuss why they chose you as foreign men. While most of us know why it would be great to hear them discuss this in the style of this video minus the bikes....

    • @metalmayhem3622
      @metalmayhem3622 Před 5 lety

      I don't think women choose men. I also would like to see the girls discussing it WITH bikes.

    • @s0nnyburnett
      @s0nnyburnett Před 2 lety +1

      @@metalmayhem3622 Women absolutely do choose. Men pursue, women choose. Life would be easy if men were the ones that got to choose.

    • @metalmayhem3622
      @metalmayhem3622 Před 2 lety

      @@s0nnyburnett In a way. It's like choosing where to eat then choosing what to eat.
      You have to pick the restaurant first and that's what men do.

  • @josephfrederickrule352
    @josephfrederickrule352 Před 4 lety +2

    I had a Chinese girlfriend for two and half years. We met at university in the UK and fell in love. Watching any foreigner living in China with their Chinese girlfriend or wife makes me long for that again myself, because it's such a special and delicate bond that you have which winds itself across two cultures. I miss being in a relationship with like that.. it's like two souls from different worlds coming together, and it's magic. That experience I would recommend to anyone who wants to open themselves to new horizons.

  • @Wil_Dsense
    @Wil_Dsense Před 4 lety +5

    2:05 “everybody around me was getting married, my wife... my kids...”🤔 😂

  • @user-tw5ek1gg8j
    @user-tw5ek1gg8j Před 5 lety +20

    Besides your videos, I love the comment section XD

  • @montwittwer
    @montwittwer Před 5 lety +20

    I’m married to a woman from China and we live In America. We have our moments with the cultural differences, but it’s the greatest adventure of our lives for both of us. We are lucky because her family loves me and mine loves her too. Ps: Chinese women are not submissive women. Lol!

    • @FarrFromPerfect
      @FarrFromPerfect Před 5 lety

      Find out what Chinese year she is - year of snake, has a sharp tongue....year of ox - is stubborn......year of rabbit - never content.......

    • @miriamtiuseco2nd
      @miriamtiuseco2nd Před 5 lety +1

      Those born in the 50s are submissive. Their life revolves around the husband and family. Lol

    • @harrymcnicholas9468
      @harrymcnicholas9468 Před 5 lety

      Yes and not subtle as I was told. 3 weeks my Chinese gf says to me "Harry, when are you going to buy me something?".

  • @stevenstafford3571
    @stevenstafford3571 Před 5 lety +1

    Hey guys I love your videos. I live in America and have been to China 3 times. I have been to Beijing Anqing Nanjing Chongqing Dali Li Jiang and Chendu. Your videos helped me so much. On my last visit I was in Chongqing for 2 months and Married my wonderful Chongqing girl who's name is Vivi also. Keep up the good work!

  • @majorcalvary6515
    @majorcalvary6515 Před 5 lety +2

    It just happens. Like with my wife. I am Asian, wanted to marry a white girl. Dated German, Greek, Mexican, Argentinian, but end up with Korean? Just happened. No regret for 12 years now. She just knows me, better than me. I can’t hide anything from her. She can tell when I’m lying. Only other person that can do that to me was my mom.

  • @Annsunshine30
    @Annsunshine30 Před 5 lety +8

    Vivi is super cute, and funny! And her english is perfect!

  • @robertlindsay497
    @robertlindsay497 Před 5 lety +3

    My wife found me online from china nanning Guangxi her family is military very high ranking 2 star General...my wife could read english but could not speak so we used google translator sometimes it did not translate words properly but we managed to understand each other.
    I agree with half or more of your findings about the chinese people i have traveled to harbin to all the way to thailand. Yes there are many things i do not like but that is their culture and the way they do things and somethongs you will never understand or will understand.
    I have been married to my wife for 10 years and i would never change that it was the best thing that happen in my life. We live in california and we travel a lot to china to see family and friends that we have made....its always something new to learn about china and the rich history that i enjoy.
    As for her family they love me and accepted me with open arms...so i guess i am one of the lucky one's that the family has an open mind.
    I did run from american women to look else where.

    • @sleepy314
      @sleepy314 Před 5 lety

      Robert Lindsay of course her family loves you... you got their daughter out of China!

  • @mattprior8442
    @mattprior8442 Před 5 lety +1

    I honestly think that both you guys are very lucky because both of your wives are beautiful and have characters which are compatible with you both !

  • @clintpot8521
    @clintpot8521 Před 5 lety +1

    Well done lads! I'm married to a Chinese woman and the cultural differences are tough to get thru. Takes a lot of understanding and commitment to make it work. All the best!

  • @aleksinuutila2315
    @aleksinuutila2315 Před 5 lety +16

    *not C-milk's mom
    I really needed that...

  • @oilhammer04
    @oilhammer04 Před 5 lety +7

    Looks like you guys found some good women. I've been married 43 years to the woman my mother introduced to me. I chose to marry her because she is a sweet Christian. I became a Christian 8 years later. It is good to have a solid foundation for a marriage. “Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock."
    “But everyone who hears these sayings of Mine, and does not do them, will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it fell. And great was its fall.” (Matthew 7:24-27) NKJV

  • @domgia9248
    @domgia9248 Před 5 lety +2

    It's either "My wife is a doctor" or "There was that one time at the foot massage parlor"

  • @HisShadowX
    @HisShadowX Před 5 lety +27

    Everyone loves the famous Dr Hu

    • @lupusdeum3894
      @lupusdeum3894 Před 5 lety +2

      Who?

    • @portaltwo
      @portaltwo Před 5 lety +2

      Winston's wife. She has her own vlog, called Hu Knows.

    • @darkenergy9893
      @darkenergy9893 Před 5 lety +1

      This is my gf who is a millions time hotter than Dr Hu czcams.com/video/LTejJnrzGPM/video.html

    • @jgibson111
      @jgibson111 Před 5 lety

      She's not a doctor though. But I doubt Sasha can hand craft bamboo furniture. That was very impressive and gave me a new channel to subscribe to!

  • @MistyAndBonnie
    @MistyAndBonnie Před 5 lety +65

    Lets be honest you picked a chinese wife because you were living in china :)

  • @presidentofkekistan2690
    @presidentofkekistan2690 Před 5 lety +17

    You need to stop saying training doctors, you taught them English dude come on.

  • @Peter-MH
    @Peter-MH Před 5 lety +82

    Love how these planes are just parked up for people to enjoy, totally unguarded. If this was the US or Europe they’d have almost certainly have been vandalised. Good to see Taiwanese obviously have a lot of respect for this stuff

    • @ReticulatingSplines_
      @ReticulatingSplines_ Před 5 lety +10

      Depends. There is a tank in the park here (USA) for kids to play on and it's not vandalized. 🤷‍♀️

    • @ptaing8
      @ptaing8 Před 5 lety +1

      92% of people in Taiwan are 漢人!

    • @starrodkirby
      @starrodkirby Před 5 lety +2

      @Osman Oglu literally 30 years ago half of Taiwan was discriminating against each other and at their teeth in ethnoracial identity politics

    • @Unclejamsarmy
      @Unclejamsarmy Před 5 lety

      As soon as someone says there’s a positive aspect about another culture it immediately turns into some neck beard screeds about ethnic purity jfc weebs are the worst

    • @jameshorn270
      @jameshorn270 Před 4 lety

      ​@Osman Oglu I have a large chunk of Nationl Geographics in storage, and one of them from the late 20s early 30s had nn article on Taiwan, which was Formosa at the time, and under the Japanese. It was treated as the home of fairly primitive natives. The island came under Chinain the late 17th century and went to the Japanese in the late 19th century, just before the Boxer Rebellion, I believe. The Chinese government has this idea that if they ever controlled territory, it forever Chinese, thus their siezure of Tibet, which actually once controlled parts of China.

  • @hshs5756
    @hshs5756 Před 5 lety +19

    I'm an American white man who has dated a couple of American black women and found the "cross cultural" problems to be as large or larger than if they'd been Chinese. But it's just as easy to run into big differences when dating within your own race and nationality -- people are amazingly variable in their likes, dislikes, and goals in life.

    • @petelongworth7136
      @petelongworth7136 Před 5 lety +1

      My thoughts are, we are raised to believe we are to be with our kind(race). It will be difficult for someone to share in an interracial relationship if outside opinions are considered a subject of concern in your relationship. Not saying that can’t be overcome but it would definitely irritate.
      Simply put, it takes 2 very open minded individuals that have a true love for each other.

    • @spookycrane9318
      @spookycrane9318 Před 3 lety

      Do you know the risk of you’re children if you were to mix and have kids ?

    • @hshs5756
      @hshs5756 Před 3 lety

      @@spookycrane9318 What would that risk be? There's hardly a "black" person in the US who isn't already mixed with some white blood, unless they are first-generation immigrants from Africa.

  • @humansvd3269
    @humansvd3269 Před 5 lety +41

    You picked them because they consistently loved you and vice versa.

  • @MaTtRoSiTy
    @MaTtRoSiTy Před 5 lety +56

    C Milk has been living in China too long, starting to drive like they do (stopping in middle of roads lol)

    • @TheBakuganmaster99
      @TheBakuganmaster99 Před 5 lety +2

      The road is fucking empty, I would have done the same thing.

    • @RawOlympia
      @RawOlympia Před 5 lety +1

      yeah, almost hit that poor ped in a crosswalk, when no one was even around ~

    • @MaTtRoSiTy
      @MaTtRoSiTy Před 5 lety

      @@TheBakuganmaster99 You must like tickets, if you did that in most western nations and a cop happened to come around the corner you will get your dumb ass busted.

    • @yestincarey5161
      @yestincarey5161 Před 5 lety

      Bullshit

    • @MaTtRoSiTy
      @MaTtRoSiTy Před 5 lety

      @@yestincarey5161 what an intelligent and compelling response. Clearly you're the big brain of the bunch so your fantastic argument has fully convinced me

  • @kristykung1020
    @kristykung1020 Před 4 lety +1

    I’m from a Dutch family born in Australia and my husband was born in China. I don’t speak Chinese my in laws don’t speak English our 3 year old son speaks both Chinese and English and often translates for me. Or we just get buy not having to have big talks. They are very Chinese just walk into our hour rearrange our drying washing ect but we make it all work out fine. There has been some incidents that needed to be sorted out by my husband talking to his parents about the Australian life and it’s mostly wonderful over all. My husband is my best friend and everything else I need him to be. I’m very very lucky.

  • @peterboth6785
    @peterboth6785 Před 5 lety +8

    Kudos for the drone footage at the end of the video.

    • @chrisobrien3574
      @chrisobrien3574 Před 5 lety +1

      That struck me too, it was a great shot and not a follow me mode, so you guys have someone to help you now?

    • @peterboth6785
      @peterboth6785 Před 5 lety

      I am guessing the crew from the conquering china series

    • @fred5784
      @fred5784 Před 5 lety +1

      It's not from this video. Winston's bike has the purple gas tank and C-milk is wearing long pants. He wore shorts in the video.

    • @chrisobrien3574
      @chrisobrien3574 Před 5 lety

      oh yeah, your right, C=Milk is on his bike too not the sickness scooter.

  • @royzor34
    @royzor34 Před 5 lety +11

    Thumbs up if you know you will love this ADVChina video before watching! Best CZcams channel ever!!

  • @lutemule
    @lutemule Před 5 lety +8

    I am a new subscriber just yesterday and have been doing a lot of catch up on you videos! I did not realize that you are in Taiwan. Great format and content guys, love to hang with you guys!

    • @ADVChina
      @ADVChina  Před 5 lety

      Usually we’re in Mainland China

    • @juststeve5542
      @juststeve5542 Před 5 lety +2

      And Winston's wife is a doctor ;-)

  • @sapulpaorganics5402
    @sapulpaorganics5402 Před 5 lety +1

    Okay, now I have to make a second comment.....First, I love the drone shot at the end, so COOL!!
    You asked us to leave a comment on how we met our wives or girlfriends......We actually met online and she is the one who chose me because of my profile. After one week we both knew we had a good connection and after nearly 6 years now it has only become stronger and we are both very lucky to have found each other and we both feel we are a perfect match. We plan to get married as soon as her visa is approved!! Now I am planning my third trip to China and can't wait!
    Thanks for sharing how you both "chose" your wives, but I think they "chose" you too.....lol
    Great content guys and look forward to the next one :o)
    I also want to say that you two have helped me so very much as far as traveling to China and what to expect. Your insights and advice have been spot on and I really want to thank you both for all of the AWESOME videos!!

  • @aardvark1956
    @aardvark1956 Před 4 lety +1

    We are about six weeks short of our 41st anniversary. We even had two weddings - one in his hometown in one state and one across the continent in mine. We each had very different concepts of what the wedding was because of the very different denominations we grew up in. It was important to both of us to let the other one fulfill that dream. We also didn’t want to keep family and friends who were important to us out of the wedding-so we had 2! We even had two sets of blood tests and wedding licenses in each state because we didn’t want one wedding to be “the real wedding” and one wedding not to be “real.” We each have fond memories of the whole deal and we love getting to celebrate for two days straight!

  • @kenshek5074
    @kenshek5074 Před 5 lety +10

    Ha ha "not c milks mum"!!! Lol

    • @hannakinn
      @hannakinn Před 5 lety +1

      ken shek - That made me wonder which of them did the editing. Lol

  • @anaerobia
    @anaerobia Před 5 lety +12

    Looks like F-5E. Taiwan used to have lots of that back in the 80s.

  • @Hashslingingslasher-
    @Hashslingingslasher- Před 3 lety +1

    love the drone footage at the end and the checking out of the planes

  • @Haltech007
    @Haltech007 Před 5 lety +1

    Honestly, I enjoy seeing how happy y'all are. You seem very happy. My relationship with my Taiwan gf ended very badly. I have a Filipina wife now and couldn't be happier.

  • @jia2001
    @jia2001 Před 5 lety +60

    Taiwan looks SOOOO much better than China!

    • @maxz4274
      @maxz4274 Před 5 lety

      so so

    • @Blindswordsman1994
      @Blindswordsman1994 Před 5 lety +10

      Jann Lee no communists

    • @GrandTA1
      @GrandTA1 Před 5 lety +3

      this is taiwan?very clean and peace

    • @wt4397
      @wt4397 Před 5 lety +1

      mabe better air in taiwan but dont look better than shang hai or hong kong ^^

    • @mrniusi11
      @mrniusi11 Před 5 lety +2

      Hong Kong looks old and rusty and moldy.

  • @majorcalvary6515
    @majorcalvary6515 Před 5 lety +5

    Are you guys in Taiwan? The fighter jet was either a F5 E Tiger, or older F5A freedom fighter. Then there is C119 cargo plane. They were ROCAF planes. I’m originally from there.

  • @fandango5900
    @fandango5900 Před 5 lety +1

    Really enjoy your videos. Great to see how you met your wives. I’ve dated a few beautiful Chinese woman, as well as Thai. What I have come to appreciate is finding a woman who reflects the same values and has a chemistry that’s hard to explain. You chose well! I am currently dating a wonderful woman who is half Thai and half Vietnamese. Fingers crossed. All the best to you both!
    Daniel

  • @andreb1605
    @andreb1605 Před 5 lety +1

    I wanted a Chinese wife all my life....now I have a traditional Chinese wife for 10 years....and I am as happy as can be......cheers...

  • @thegrimyeaper
    @thegrimyeaper Před 5 lety +3

    Such a wonderful Winston way of describing love. "Fluttery heart-nonsense."

    • @genli5603
      @genli5603 Před 5 lety

      thegrimyeaper British origins confirmed.

  • @lyhjiba
    @lyhjiba Před 5 lety +52

    Taiwan is so beautiful and clean!

    • @glennw.4570
      @glennw.4570 Před 5 lety

      Taiwan is part of China. One China.

    • @glennw.4570
      @glennw.4570 Před 5 lety

      TK, you show your ignorance of the world.

    • @smithburush7800
      @smithburush7800 Před 5 lety

      @@TehKingBubbles Does the UN recognize that Taiwan belongs to China is not as good as you?

    • @user-xu1bp7dx9y
      @user-xu1bp7dx9y Před 5 lety +1

      @@TehKingBubbles 傻逼,是不是一个中国,关你屁事。两岸本是一家,台湾之事,我们家人说得算。你算什么?你不过是一个粗鄙无知之人罢了。国民党退居台湾,只是两党之争,并非两国之争。中国国民党,中国共产党,两岸人民血浓于水,在二战中共同为中国抛头颅,撒热血。学习一下中国近代史,在和我谈台湾是否是中国的。因为你列出的理由太过于可笑。

    • @domsjuk
      @domsjuk Před 5 lety

      As for cleanliness, you know the difference between Taiwan and the Mainland?
      You could actually eat from the floor in both countries! In Taiwan, cause it's so clean, and on the Mainland cause there's so much stuff lying around to feed you.
      ...that's just a joke of course. In many places cleaning Shushu is gonna come and pick it up it before you can snatch it.

  • @jorge3234
    @jorge3234 Před 4 lety +2

    Winston hit it out of the park with his wife. Wow she's pretty

  • @danibess6284
    @danibess6284 Před 5 lety +2

    I love that video quality with 60fps, just mind blowing!

  • @jeremiebornais400
    @jeremiebornais400 Před 5 lety +6

    Do you ever just wonder who decides to click the dislike button on videos?

    • @lupusdeum3894
      @lupusdeum3894 Před 5 lety

      Keep in mind there are many mentally ill people with access to the 'net...

    • @user-ss5je2pw3j
      @user-ss5je2pw3j Před 5 lety

      I agree. I feel like there should only be a like button. There is no need for people to 'express' their disapproval, they may simply choose not to press the like button. It kind of gives opportunities for online trolls to degrade other people's hard work.

  • @DWink-bp8vw
    @DWink-bp8vw Před 5 lety +10

    Second plane is an F-5, or a copy of the American F-5/T-38...

  • @Anton.Baryshnikov
    @Anton.Baryshnikov Před 5 lety +2

    You guys are awesome! Helping me preserve good spirits while living in China:)
    P.S. Both wives are gorgeous, thumbs up!

  • @ralphmarkasher
    @ralphmarkasher Před 5 lety +1

    Guys, the prop plane is a C-119 flying boxcar, A U.S. Air Force plane used during the Korean War. The jet is a U.S. F-5 Tiger a variant of the T-38 trainer used during the Vietnam War.

  • @TerrorTales4271998
    @TerrorTales4271998 Před 5 lety +13

    Winston, You & C-Milk have stunning wife's, I Wish The Best For You Two In The Next 30+ Years

  • @Greenfireball20
    @Greenfireball20 Před 5 lety +5

    I found a unicorn of a Chinese family. They all accepted me! Even the father! (Though he doesn’t say much). I think it helps that I have some Chinese ability. (Don’t totally escape the stereotype though, they keep asking about the grandkids!)
    I knew my wife was right when I made a that’s what she said joke (after explaining it) she laughed at it! She’s picked up some... interesting... English and uses it with a smile!

  • @lennielester4552
    @lennielester4552 Před 5 lety +1

    Great video as always! I'm happy for you guys that you have such good relationships with your wives. I hope your marriage STAYS AWESOME!

  • @therealdeal3672
    @therealdeal3672 Před 2 lety +1

    I know this was a while ago now that you made this video, but congratulations on your happy relationships! Hope that you continue to build wonderful lives with your wonderful wives! And kids!

  • @coweatsman
    @coweatsman Před 5 lety +5

    Worst or one of the worse reasons to marry is because all your friends are.

    • @user-ss5je2pw3j
      @user-ss5je2pw3j Před 5 lety

      Agreed! You should always marry someone you truly love and who will guide you your entire life, making you the best that you can be.
      I sincerely hope you can meet someone like that too.

    • @danieljong8442
      @danieljong8442 Před 5 lety

      Yep, that's a terrible thing to do...peer pressure to marry just because everybody else around you is. Sheep mentality and it's even more prevalent because of social media...you see all your friends status updates or you're attending like 4 weddings in a year and then you think something is wrong with you...this is a frequent topic coming up with friends of mine who are all in their thirties. It's your life, your future wife or husband and you choose when. Do it for the right reasons and for the right person

  • @MaximumEfficiency
    @MaximumEfficiency Před 5 lety +3

    This place looks so clean, planty and developed :O

  • @christophermacintyre5890
    @christophermacintyre5890 Před 5 lety +2

    My doctor is a wife. Just thought I'd put that out there.

  • @benjifigueroa1
    @benjifigueroa1 Před 5 lety +1

    Well, I met my now girlfriend thanks to a video posted by C-milk -I guess? It's been so long- about hello talk. That was back in 2017.
    Now, I'm travelling to meet her family in a few months this year. It's kinda sad I won't have the hope to meet you guys in China, but I wanted to take this chance to thank you guys. If it weren't for your videos, I wouldn't have been able to meet this amazing person.
    And, as Winston's catchphrase is, stay awesome.

  • @JBrander
    @JBrander Před 5 lety +20

    I can practically feel the heat from this video, and I can imagine the inside of that bomber was like stepping inside an oven

    • @ADVChina
      @ADVChina  Před 5 lety +4

      lord, it was bad

    • @777NihonSloan
      @777NihonSloan Před 5 lety

      Yep...that humidity looks savage. I've lived next to an ocean for years, so thankfully I don't have to deal with that anymore.

    • @Li.Siyuan
      @Li.Siyuan Před 5 lety

      That bomber? What bomber?

    • @thamsanqathusi9671
      @thamsanqathusi9671 Před 3 lety

      @@Li.Siyuan 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @damirko
    @damirko Před 5 lety +1

    Great Episode and thank you for sharing something personal with us on CZcams. I think you guys both married some amazing, great women and i enjoy seeing them in your videos too. Its great you were able to find someone to be happy with and go forward in life together. Keep up the great work, Cheers

  • @joeygar1
    @joeygar1 Před 5 lety +1

    Enjoyed your video very much. It doesn't matter who you chose in your life. You must follow your heart. Wherever she is Chinese or not is not the reason. It is about chemistry. It is about what you feel and what your heart tells you. From your past video I've seen of both Vivian and Sasha..... you guys are lucky to have found that special one. They both have a good sense of humor ( which I think it's important) and they make you guys look good. But, with all due respect it goes both ways. Both Winston and you C-Milk look like your guys are very happy in your marriage. My blessing for a great marriage for all of you. Thank you, hope to see more new videos from all of you.

  • @Marinuss
    @Marinuss Před 5 lety +14

    I love the memes you guys have among the two of you.
    But Winston, is your wife really a doctor?

    • @LD-rh3wo
      @LD-rh3wo Před 5 lety +5

      Marien Winston’s favorite meme used to be “I’m not an English teacher, I train doctors! (And I train them by teaching them English words)”

    • @allenschmitz9644
      @allenschmitz9644 Před 5 lety +3

      Winston is a man with out a country, he will say all kinds of chimerical things.

    • @777NihonSloan
      @777NihonSloan Před 5 lety +1

      @@allenschmitz9644 Indeed...but given the state of South Africa with the open genocide on Whites...well, he's between a rock and hard place as far as rising Chinese nationalism goes. Hopefully things work out for him.

    • @allenschmitz9644
      @allenschmitz9644 Před 5 lety

      @@777NihonSloan Now trumps embargo makes even travel to china dry up...increasing his forienge devil status..lol'.

  • @AllianceN7LP
    @AllianceN7LP Před 5 lety +10

    Cmilk: "Is that Obama?" Half a minute later: "Oh, he meant a bomber"

    • @bniblet
      @bniblet Před 5 lety

      Obama? In Taiwan? Oh there he is! it's a small world...

    • @ShaferHart
      @ShaferHart Před 5 lety +1

      Are you a native English speaker?

    • @AllianceN7LP
      @AllianceN7LP Před 5 lety

      @@ShaferHart No, I am not

    • @ShaferHart
      @ShaferHart Před 5 lety +1

      @@Sleepless4Life it's so sad to think of the hundreds of kids, women, grandmas and all around innocent people incinerated by Obama's bombs while he was at the "top of the world" and for what? Just sad.

  • @wakeuptoreality5359
    @wakeuptoreality5359 Před 5 lety +1

    From my personal observation, most western men who end up with Chinese women do it for 2 specific reasons: 1. Most Chinese women are friendly towards white men (even if older and not too handsome), 2. Most Chinese women stay slim for ever... add more if you want.

  • @bruceklmichigan9535
    @bruceklmichigan9535 Před 5 lety

    Your friend didn't know that your wife was a doctor. I got a kick out of that. You guys to excellent videos. Love the driving around on the points and not just sitting in front of a camera. The different subjects you discuss around a wide spectrum topics and issues is awesome as well. Keep the videos coming.

  • @12799MaDeuce
    @12799MaDeuce Před 5 lety +128

    LOL we need to get Ben Shapiro and Winston together, they can just talk about their doctor wives for hours on end

    • @glennw.4570
      @glennw.4570 Před 5 lety +20

      Shapiro is a dill-wad.

    • @12799MaDeuce
      @12799MaDeuce Před 5 lety +9

      Name-calling...bravo

    • @shelster9967
      @shelster9967 Před 5 lety +20

      @@glennw.4570 he is not a dillwad, he is a little shitbird fascist shill for FOX now....lol.

    • @glennw.4570
      @glennw.4570 Před 5 lety +11

      Shelster, the definition of fascism has been aborted. The classic definition is: "Political ideology that imposes strict social and economical measures as a method of empowering the government and stripping citizens of rights."
      Shapiro is in fact, a neoconservative who believes in US hegemony and unipolarism. Which is worst? Globalism and 'one world' or neoconservatism's goal of hegemony? I want neither. I want sovereign nations that respect each other and wage business for profit, not war for profit.

    • @LMONDEGREEN
      @LMONDEGREEN Před 5 lety +2

      Ew. King of the Incel .

  • @ofeklangleben7822
    @ofeklangleben7822 Před 5 lety +3

    Keep up the good work! Much appreciation

  • @susanm6606
    @susanm6606 Před 5 lety

    I have been watching you guys channels for a couple months, so there are a lot of videos I need to catch up. I have been enjoying them, but especially this one. The mountain where you and C-Milk visited, I grew up there, the airplane you stopped and looked at, I walked passed it everyday when I was a high school student. Being far away from home and watched this video, I just want to thank you for doing road trip not only in China but in Taiwan as well. I also enjoyed the videos I have watched so far. Thank you.

  • @Eionful
    @Eionful Před 5 lety +1

    I am married to a Chinese woman and we live in New Zealand.., I just wanted to say I like both of your wives, they are pleasant women..!!!

  • @BH-ix7nq
    @BH-ix7nq Před 5 lety +3

    Searched all over the comments waiting for the glass hearts to complain about them saying "country" pleasantly surprised i didn't find any

  • @sapulpaorganics5402
    @sapulpaorganics5402 Před 5 lety +10

    second like, fourth view........Happy to see you two again, only wish you would produce more videos. Once a week isn't enough :o)

  • @keithpup
    @keithpup Před 5 lety

    one was The Fairchild C-119 Flying Boxcar (Navy and Marine Corps designation R4Q) is an American military transport aircraft developed from the World War II-era Fairchild C-82 Packet, designed to carry cargo, personnel, litter patients, and mechanized equipment, and to drop cargo and troops by parachute. The first C-119 made its initial flight in November 1947, and by the time production ceased in 1955, more than 1,100 C-119s had been built. Its cargo-hauling ability and unusual twin-boom design earned it the nickname "Flying Boxcar".

  • @tomtom-ec6tb
    @tomtom-ec6tb Před 5 lety +1

    I can relate to this. My partner is Chinese British (she became British after been in UK for 12 years) and we have been together 6 years. She is also a doctor and I work in Investment industry but so many factors to consider before deciding on marriage. She is pushing for kids now so obviously marriage is what she is thinking of first. Then there is issue for us to consider living in UK or we relocate to Shanghai. So many factors!

  • @rokohai
    @rokohai Před 5 lety +3

    Love ur guy's videos, here's another one to add to the list

  • @scottleeper5658
    @scottleeper5658 Před 5 lety +7

    You both were very lucky that you have beautiful, loving women, ur lucky that u found true love, stay awesome.

  • @ChrisSlack
    @ChrisSlack Před 5 lety

    I picked mine because we got along well and she was willing to try new things and go new places. Plus, she was hard working.

  • @seanrodgers1839
    @seanrodgers1839 Před 4 lety

    Speaking of reading Chinese, I like the way that you read fron front to back on a truck, no matter which side.