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I am always saying WE GOT THIS in real life and online. We all have our own struggles and I believe we can get through anything together. When I was diagnosed with cancer in September, I thought this was my own struggle but I realised my cancer has affected everyone around me. I am a daughter, a girlfriend, a sister, a friend, a cousin, a grand daughter & more. I know my journey has affected everyone around me and I know now more than ever that I have no choice but to get better. Whatever life throws at us, we are going to get through it together. We Got This
love you lots xxx WE GOT THIS
Hi my loving tiffanythinks family. I have missed you SOOO much. Thank you for being so understanding that I just need some time off to recover. How are youuu? Please update me with how you have been. THANK YOU for all your comments, love, messages and just for your positive energy. I love you a lot a lot a lot, I am sooo lucky to have the best loving tiffanythinks family. we got this💙 IG, FB & TikTok: @tiffanythinks. Subscribe💙
Sending you lots of love and healing xxx
@@glossypinx thank you so much💙
Missed you. You look good. 💙💙💙💙
Oh dear. My heart. So happy to see u.
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You’re looking so well sweet Tiffany. Thank you for letting us know how you are. We have all been thinking of you constantly. We love you 💙
Tiffany please only do what you can when you can. Don’t worry about us! Remember tears don’t compromise your strength! We got this 💙
Tiffany please don't be sorry. You have been through so much and are so strong. You are amazing, please take as much time as you need. 💜
That is so true!!!!
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You are amazing xxx
I agree. Look after yourself and we'll still be here when you are well enough. You are doing the right thing and don't feel bad. Well done for having the strength through this journey and you have such a strong faith. You are an inspiration. You are always in my prayers 💙
You look wonderful tonight. I remember caring for my father after his ileostomy. He first had colon cancer in his late 30’s. The mental work required was the most difficult part for him. Self image was not healthy. He was the sole provider for our family of 7 and had the weight of the world on his shoulders. Difficult days. PLEASE set up some zoom appointments with a therapist to help with the emotional and mental journey. Join a support group with others living with the appliance for tips and tricks. Self care is not just physical, during your adaptation. I want to share with you that my father lived another 23 years with good health. A couple bumps in the road but nothing he couldn’t take on. There is NOTHING he couldn’t do, even bought himself a ski boat and took up water skiing! He lived his life to the absolute fullest and was grateful every day for that surgery that allowed him more life, to watch all his children grow up, meet his grandchildren and enjoy life with my Mother. Tiffany, people love you. They see you exactly the same and just want you with them. You are now even more beautiful to everyone. Thank you for bringing this lifesaving surgery out in the open, to your followers. All the very best wishes for a long and happy life!❤
I have an ostomy. I do pretty much anything. Once you get the hang of it, it becomes second nature. Your body needs time to get used to it. Keep up with your fluids. Message me anytime.
Please do not apologise to us. You’ve been through more in the last year or do than most of us go through in a lifetime. I’m just so so happy that you’re “ok” you’ve been through so much physically and mentally and still have a long way to go but you will get there I promise. You got this darling 💙
Amen!!!
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Amen to that!
Please don't apologize. Sure your family and friends will understand too. You have got this. x
Your amazing with everything you have gone through the past year the last thing you need to do is apologize
Tiffany, I've been praying for you & asking God for a special miracle, because you are so special to us! When I saw you're video. I was so grateful to Him! We all are so thankful for you & your family support. Jesus loves you!
Tiffany- it’s been 2 years since I went through chemo, radiation and surgery for advanced rectal cancer. I’m still processing all that I’ve been through. And while the treatments saved my life I have a variety of side effects that I live with every day and most likely will for the rest of my life. I say all this to let you know that there is a significant emotional component to recovery. While the physical surgery is straightforward (mostly) to understand what’s been done to your body, the emotional impact is far less easy to identify and understand. I think you will find that it takes an extended period of time to mentally adjust and adapt to what you’ve been through. So don’t feel like you have to rush any of this along. I discovered your channel because I’ve been using online resources to help me cope with my cancer journey. Most of my treatment was done during Covid, so there were no support groups available for me to participate in. Your channel has been very helpful to me and I thank you for all the effort you’ve invested to create content. I did go back in time and watch some of your very early content when you were just 23. It’s amazing to see how you have matured since then. Though I suppose a cancer diagnosis would force quick maturation. Your positive attitude will help you greatly. You are so thoughtful about others and now is the time for you to think mostly about what you need. I was thrilled to see your smiling face. Create content when you can and when you are ready. I wish you the best with your recovery. And always prayers for you and your family.
*So* well said.
Well put
Seeing you today...was like a present. So happy your on the other ide of your surgery. Take care. Sending hugs along the way.
May God bless you and keep you as you also continue your recovery. Some of us don't appreciate that any one of us may be facing cancer one day. I lost two younger sisters to cancer, one was 59 and the other 63 (colon and pancreatic cancer respectively). Both were diagnosed too late to be treated. Fortunately, you and Tiff were able to get lifesaving care, as hard as it is for you both. I am glad you are still here with us until the day our Lord calls us, and until then, take care of the gift of life you have and call on Him when you are feeling discouraged. 'Am sending best wishes your way.
Beautifully written, you take care also 💕 will include you in my prayers
You don't owe anyone an apology or explanation we are just all so grateful you are okay 💙💙💙 get well soon Tiffany xxx
Hi girl! It’s so good to see you again!! Please don’t apologize for taking time off and take care of yourself. I had a similar surgery 12 years ago and I remember how fragile and how difficult was to see myself with an ileostomy bag. You will learn to manage your new life. At the beginning is going to be frustrating and you will have good and bad days. I remember how my three kids and husband took turns to help me with my bag and leaned how to cope together as a family with the new me. In my case after 4 months of recovery I had my ileostomy reversed because they managed to removed a large part of my colon and my rectum and a total hysterectomy. I my youngest daughter was 12 at that time and told me after explaining to her my surgery “then mommy you are hollow inside!” And that was exactly how I felt for long time. But believe me some days I miss my ileostomy bag because my reconnecting journey was so difficult. I will continue praying for you and let your family and friends to help you because they want the best for you. By the way I am a grandma now and my little granddaughter call me Amma. Kisses and hugs for your sweet Amma because this must be so difficult for her as well.
Honey, you're grieving. You just suffered a deep and powerful loss. You need to go through the grieving process so give yourself some grace to cry. And you don't owe us anything. We are here for you, not the other way around. One step at a time, sweet girl. You've got this even when you feel that you don't. And know one thing. We are all here loving you and supporting you through the trauma.❤❤
That’s exactly right! Very well said! 💙
Very well said! My sentiments exactly! We love you Tiffany! Thank you so much for this video. Please do not over exert yourself. We would rather you concentrate on your healing. You got this girl!!😘❤️❤️
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Beautifully said!💙
Over 5,000 views in twenty minutes. Please just feel the love and support being sent to you without putting pressure on yourself, sweet Tiffany. We lift you up with love, light and prayers.
I was diagnosed with cervical cancer for the second time last July & my response was to shut everyone out. I just couldn’t handle all of the questions about appointments & surgery, etc. Please don’t feel the need to apologize, sweet Tiffany❤ We love you.
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hey I hope your okay . ill pray for you.
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Jesus love you and died for our sins on the cross. we just have to believe and repent, meaning turn from our sins with Gods help.
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katie, how are you doing now?
I just finished my shift at the hospital and i honestly was content with the shorts just to know your okay! You had a huge procedure and your life will be different moving forward and i can only imagine what sort of grieving process you may have to go through with such an ordeal. Take your time!
I can’t imagine that anyone who has grown to care about you, expected you to pick up your camera and start documenting your surgery experience. This was a very big, personal journey and I think I speak for all of us when I say- we’re just so grateful you’re here! We’ll be here whenever you’re ready. Sending you gentle hugs and kisses sweet friend.✨🙏🏻😙💙
We missed you, honey!!! You made it through surgery. You will look back in time and feel the power of your strength today. Warrior woman! 🏆
Tiffany, I was literally shouting up to my daughter Tiffany Thinks is back! Please please please take it easy and if its a day a week a year til you post again we are all here and rooting for you. After my full lung was removed because of cancer I too struggled and every day was a challenge especially breathing. With family and friends support I saw a little light getting bigger daily and five years post op am living my new normal. You too will adapt Tiffany. You're a trooper and a treasure. Thank you soo much through everything you're going through posting us a vlog. Never ever apologise. You're the best. We got this💙Bernie Dublin.
FRIENDS - Please don’t ask her any questions! She must recover and learn to live her new life. Questioning or anything will strain her emotionally.
You can find out info on your own for pelvic-exenteration. But, she did mention she still has the bladder. BE KIND AND LET BEAUTIFUL TIFFANY COPE WITH HER LIFE. She will not forget us, but it’s all on her time now.
FIRST AND FOREMOST- recovery! This will also be a journey. With small but significant goals. SHEs GOT THIS!!
We are so blessed and thankful for Tiffany to be home and in this new phase in life. May she find strength through family, and new friends. 💜💜💜💜
ONE DAY AT A TIME!!
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Very well said!! 💙💙💙
Don’t ever feel pressure to post, this is your journey and you need to recover. Take care and rest girl xxx
Tiffany, my name is Cindy and I'm from Rancho Cucamonga, California , USA. I'm 66 years old. I tell you where I am so you can see how far you have reached in this world. I'm so happy you are alive and have survived the surgery. Last weekend my loved 28 year old Granddaughter had a mental collapase and hearing from you helped me to feel better and hope for her. Do what's best for you on your journey. I look forward to future posts. Best of luck ❤
IM SORRY These things are really sent to try us ,give your granddaughter time.its not easy.Dont give up on hope ,hope is the light that guides her home.much love.x
I wish all the best for your granddaughter.
I went through this. Please do not be sorry!! Remember this shall pass.
Dear Tiffany, I'm continuing to pray for your peace, comfort, and healing. Don't ever feel pressured to make videos, everyone can wait and anyone who truly cares about you won't mind waiting. This isn't a TV show, it's your life, your body, your mental health. Imagine you are one of your viewers or one of your loved ones, none of us feel like you owe us anything, none of us are upset when you take time for yourself, we know you need it, we want you to be healthy and happy, not stressed. Stay strong sis, take your time and your space. It won't always be like this ♥️
Welcome back 🙂 God bless you 🙏
Oh my goodness Tiffany, you have just have a major surgery. Give yourself some grace. Take time to recover, repair, and heal. We all understand!!
Honestly, I don’t think any of us expected to hear from you for a while yet after the surgery you’ve had, be kind to yourself, you’re a beautiful person inside and out xxx
Yeah you are very beautiful kind funny girl Tiffany and your a fantastic mum
I wrote the SAME thing. I expected to see her in Feb maybe. If it were me, I don't know if I could be on camera after only a month with such an extensive surgery!
I didn't think she would be putting a video out so soon, either. I hope she takes the time she needs to recover without worrying about her channel and posting updates ❤️
@Laney 26 she can cope how the flip she wants ''if that's with us strangers, family etc go drink your meds and control the evil side of you ....lmol
@Laney 26 your being sarcastic sating she shouldn't be on here talking to strainers if that was the case you should had just simply said just take your time with recovery but what ever have a good day!!
You are recovering from such a major surgery and you need not apologize to us, you just need to recover and settle in to and adjust to the changes you and your body have endured. It's good you are striving to get your routine and structure back in to your life. Wishing you a full recovery, you are doing so well, you are amazing!
Hi Tiffany- I am coming up on my 1 year anniversary with an ileostomy to save my life . The 1st couple months are rough, but can honestly say now that it’s quite easy to manage, and don’t feel it or think about it much throughout the day anymore. I had no choice but to make my ostomy permanent by having my colon and rectum removed too 12 weeks ago. I empathize with your emotions. Please know there are happy days ahead. 🙏
Still praying for you Tiffany. Take care.
Oh my goodness Tiffany , please don’t say you’re selfish! We’re all so pleased to see you’re recovering well. There’s no hurry to start posting again, we’re all waiting patiently for when you’re ready! Big hugs. WE GOT THIS 💙💙💙💙💙
Hello Tiffany..........yes we don't know what people are going through. May the Lord keep his protection on you & your family.🙏❤️
Please, please, please stop apologizing Tiffany.. you’re going through a grieving process. We all need to respect that. We’ll all be right here when YOU’RE ready
Sending you, Matt and your family much love and healing ❤️
Amen
Exactly!!!
You are beautiful. I am so glad you are home and talking to us. 27 years ago I was told I had a brain tumor and I had brain surgery which turned out to be an aneurysm. It took me awhile to recover and I have now. I will pray 🙏 you heal fast. Hang in there we will always watch to see you. Thank you.
Love to you Tiffany - your a warrior , my 21year old son has just gone chemo and then cardiothoracic surgery to remove a 8.4 cm tumour from his mediastinum so we have some idea of what you are going through . Take it steady lovely lady .Sending all our love
Don't think of us. Be Selfish! This is your time to heal . We will be here for you when you are ready . We've got this 💙
Hi Tiffany 👋 👋
I have a urostomy and a colostomy because of the damage caused by having cervical cancer.
I'm not gonna lie.... it will be tough at times. But you have amazing support from your Matt and family.
I feel the not being able to do anything, but honestly..... take that time.... let your body heal. It has been through so so much.
If you ever want to chat, feel free to reach out.
This extends to anyone with an ostomy bag! Xx
First of all it is so so so good to see you. You are an inspiration in perseverance and what the human body can withstand and overcome.
May I say that I felt all along that the aftermath of surgery, living with the reality of it was always going to be the hardest. A life without cancer will come with a daily cost to you. You don't deserve that, it is unfair and awful. You are allowed to feel bad about that. Don't ever spologise for not updating us when we all know you are going through so much. Give yourself some grace. Be kind to yourself Tiffany. Nothing in life stays the same, not good, not bad. This will change and you can be sure of that. Sending you a huge hug and all the positive vibes. You really are something else ❤️
Healing from major surgery is personal and private. Space is required. Take your time, don’t worry. Everyone will be thinking good thoughts and sending healing vibes. Wishing you the best possible outcome.❤️
Tiff, we love you and have been praying!💙💙💙 We are so proud of you. This is totally normal to need seclusion and process. We are always here and have not forgotten you!😘
Tiffany - so glad for an update and I hope you are doing okay. I know it’s a huge thing to have to adjust to. I’m 24 and had my bowel cancer surgery in November and I too have an ileostomy. Your videos and your story helps me so much with my own diagnosis, and I hope you know you’re not alone. Don’t push yourself too hard, enjoy your recovery time if possible and you will get there ❤️
Hi Shel I’m so sorry to hear that you have been through the same ,I hope you will feel well soon sending you love healing preys Ann uk ❤️❤️❤️🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
Shel. Sending you so many get well wishes & lots of healing love. I hope you are recovering nicely. Take it easy honey. You got this too x
Stay strong Shel, you got this 💜
@@lydiamaria thank you! I’m doing okay! My cancer was low down in my rectum so there was a chance my bag would be permanent, however luckily it is only temporary and fingers crossed will be reversed later this year. Just trying to recover mentally now! It’s a huge thing x
@@annsmith4739 thank you Ann it means a lot. I have my up and down days, currently a bit down but I know I’ll get there eventually x
You’ve been so missed! Your body has been rerouted and parts taken from you and moved around. I can’t imagine, but I hope after you heal some you’ll have relief from the tumor that was ravaging your body. You’re one in a million, keep pushing through-keep putting yourself first and know that you’ve got thousands of ppl loving and supporting you! Most importantly Matt and your mom❤
Please do not apologise ever, you are a beautiful brave warrior dear Tiffany, sending you the biggest hugs and many healing wishes for your recovery. Stay strong dear. ❤️🙏🏻
Words can’t explain how happy seeing your face made me and I’m sure every other Tiffanythinks family member feels the same.
Knowing your okay and home is all we needed to hear, take your time please don’t push yourself Tiff you need time to heal body and mind. We love you, We got this ♥️✨
Oh my gosh! You have totally brought me to my knees. I’m soooooo happy to see you! We love you! We love you! We love you! I’m praying for you daily! I think about you everyday! We miss you we miss you we miss you!
U will come through this girl. Take your time but missed u sooooooo much darling. May God bless u.
My dear Tiff I’m so happy to see you. You look stronger and more beautiful than ever!😊. Don’t worry about us. We understand and we can wait for you. There’s no rush Tiffany. You need time and that’s okay. You need to give yourself some time and get stronger physically and mentally. Do you have a therapist? Because honestly you need one. You can talk to him/her through FaceTime or Zoom! Maybe some anti-depressants can help you also. These changes aren’t easy. It’s like taking baby steps again. You are not selfish please don’t say that. You have to FORGIVE AND LOVE YOURSELF. And you need to take a mirror, look at yourself and see the sweet and lovely woman that you are to others! You need to treat yourself the same way Tiff because right now YOU ARE FIRST AND THEN ARE THE REST MY DEAR FRIEND. I’m a woman that’s been living with Bipolar, Depression and Anxiety for more than 20 years. It’s not easy to live with mental illness. To be “stable”, or try my best to be able to do my things because I live alone. But don’t worry or feel sorry for me because I know how to work with myself. Psychiatrist and Psychologist, oh, and I can’t forget my meds. This doesn’t go away but thanks to God you have Amma, Matt, your loving family and US!!! 😊😊😊. So my dearest warrior heads up, you will conquer this Tiff you will !!! Love you❤❤❤💚💚💚. WE GOT THIS 💙💙💙
We are so happy to hear from you. Please don’t push yourself on our account. Just rest as much as possible. We are just happy to hear your voice. ❤
I was soooooo worried about you...I got veryyyy depressed after my surgery. The fear of cancer coming back is horrifying praying you don't go through that and I'm soooooo glad to see you doing well. It was a breath of fresh air today to hear your voice. I love you sis and I'm so happy to see your smiling face. Get well soon Tiff u seem to be doing great sis.
So happy to see you, Tiffany! Don’t feel bad please that you haven’t been on video. You need to think of yourself to rest rest rest. Your body went through so much, so rest is crucial to healing. All the best for further recovery. We love you! 💕
Hi Tiffany, just wanted to say thank you for the update and please don’t apologise, everyone understands you need time to heal both physically and mentally! My sister has an ileostomy, it was a huge adjustment at the start but she’s been living with this for 10 years now and lives a really normal life. Things get better, I promise. Sending you a virtual hug xxx
Tiffany, so many of us have had life altering surgeries. We’ve been the road you are on now. Everything your feeling is normal. You have to give your emotions as well as your body a chance to heal. The emotional part of it can be every bit as hard as the surgical recovery. We love you, your friends love you, your family loves you. No one is going to fault you for taking this journey at your own pace. We’ll be here waiting for you no matter how long it takes. It did my heart good to see you but I can feel your pain..both physical and emotion. 😢 hugs, Tiffany ❤❤
So true!!!!
Oh sweet girl. Tiffany please don’t apologize for taking the time you need to take care of yourself. We all completely understand and are going to be here when you are ready to talk. We love you! YOU GOT THIS! 💙💙💙
"We all have these battles that are thrown at us in life, so let's all be kind to each other!"
That is so true! Tiffany, you can put things into words so well! It goes straight to my heart!
Please don't put any pressure on you. Always be kind to yourself! We all love you! 💙
God bless you!
Tiffany, I never comment and I don't even know how I stumbled upon your videos, but I'm really praying for you! Thank you for sharing your cancer journey with us and showing us that every moment in life should be cherished. We're the same age and I've gone through some stuff of my own, but nothing near the magnitude of what you're going through. You're one of the strongest and kindest person I've come across (online and in real life). I've learned a lot from you and I pray that you will find your "new normal" filled with happiness again soon. ❤️ Thank you for reminding us to cherish and be grateful for every moment in life.
Tiffany 💙
I wish I could give you an enormous ( yet gentle) hug. I’m sending you so many virtual hugs & hoorays for your incredible progress , courage & thoughtfulness. Even during this difficult challenging moment in your life, you are apologizing for choosing yourself 1st. Woman , you are the sweetest & selfless type of soul I strive to be. As a proud member of your Tiffany Thinks Family, I firmly encourage you to CHOOSE YOURSELF 1st! Be selfish , do what’s right for you & do not apologize for it. Never apologize for taking care of yourself. Your T.T. Family & your real life family understands. I promise you that we do.
All we want is for you to feel & get better asap. Updates & videos are so nice , bc we do enjoy hearing from you. We understand that those updates will be at the pace & timing that you deem fit. Please don’t feel pressured to produce content at this time.
I’m praying for your smooth recovery & praying it happens as soon as it is possible. Take this time to “ baby “ yourself & let others “baby “ & help you too. As much as many ( if not all) of us would want to help you through this, we know you will be the one doing the “hard work “, of healing , learning & adjusting. So, THIS is certainly the time to be “selfish” .
Thank you for sharing this update with us. You are a champ & one of the strongest people I’ve learned about. You are beautiful & are looking great .
Thank you for allowing me to share with you, in this lengthy comment.
Ps. Ama, Matt , Your Sister & all of your loved ones are also in my thoughts & prayers. May peace , patience & support fill your hearts , minds & lives during this challenging time.
Sending so much love from Wisconsin, USA .
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Ditto
Prayers for you and loved ones
You have a great way with words!
What she said Tiffany ♥️
…I’d also add that your mental health right now Tiffany is so important, it goes hand in hand with your physical health. Seek out support groups that know EXACTLY what you’re going through.
Much love from Utah!
Very well said and that is what all the TT family says, take care of yourself first
Totally agree with Flor 💜💙💜💙
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Thank you so much for your kind words. 💕
Every emotion, thought, and doutfulness you are experiencing is NORMAL Tiffany. Going home after your surgery is euphoric, and then the PTSD sets in, that's NORMAL too and part of this journey. WE GOT THIS Tiffany!! You will be TRIUMPHANT. Allow yourself patience and accept the love. YOU need and deserve it💙💙💙
Amen to that 🙏
You are the most inspirational person I know. I’ve followed your cancer journey since 2021 and you have battled through this with a smile on your face. Huge love to you
You got this!! My continued prayers for strength and healing . Both physically and mentally. You are loved. Gentle hugs
tiffany, you do NOT need to apologize! it's YOUR life!! we are just happy you are OK.
You're a beautiful soul! Never apologize for taking care of yourself xxx We will all be here ,when you're ready and healed! You are soooo strong 💪 ❤️
Hi Tiffany, honey it is so wonderful to hear from you. You are the sweetest little bundle of joy in my life. You are right baby girl you have to put yourself first, nobody feels otherwise. We are all just waiting for you. Nobody is holding anything against you not posting, although I never had a surgery like you had, surgery is surgery some are more intense then others. Iam sure everyone understands. You will continue to be in my prayers everyday. It all hasn’t been that long since your surgery, please give yourself a chance to get better, but dwelling on what they did and how weak you must still feel isn’t going to help you feel better, you had mega major surgery and it is going to take time. Please set small goals for yourself. Whatever you feel up to doing in the morning, set that goal. Then late morning the same. During the day try to go outside even if it for two minutes. Inhale and breath it out two or three times. Do this two or three times a day as you feel up to it. Take in the sunshine as much as you can. Remember give god all the glory honey. Stand up in the face of the enemy and tell him he is a liar, tell him god saw you all through this walk and you are victorious in Jesus’ name claim your healing. Our God has brought you through this. Now everyday your gaining strength. You will feel stronger I promise. God is the same yesterday, today, and forever he changes not !!! Please let Amma and Matt know I think of them as well and are in my prayers as well. Love you sweetheart, all my love ❤ Marilyn Queen from New Jersey USA 🇺🇸
Dearest Tiffany, so glad to see your shining smile again. I’ve been praying 🙏🏾 that you were healing and resting. I’m so sorry you feel sad/low, but the hardest part is over. I know you have some adjustments, and changes that have impacted your everyday living, I’m praying that you will adapt and move forward with living your life. Take as much time as you need to heal mentally/physically/emotionally….we will always be here for you. No apologies needed as you are not letting anyone down. Rest is your most important goal right now, not phone calls, text or filming videos. If you feel good one day make a short clip like you said, don’t stress or try to sit up to edit. Time heals everything, and God’s got you. We all love you and want you to recover and heal. You are so strong, bless your sweet heart for thinking about us when you should be doing exactly what you are doing “recovering”. YOU 💙 GOT 💙 THIS 💙 TIFFANY 💙🥰❤🙏🏾
Oh precious Tiffany. So so happy to see you but please don’t worry about uploading videos, only do it if it helps you mentally! Sending you so much love, prayers and strength. We Got This! 💙💙💙
So happy you are well and recovering. You have been such an inspiration to me and so many others I’m a new oncology nurse and your journey has helped me to be more thoughtful towards my patients needs. Keep your head up! You’ve got this!
Babygirl don’t ever think that we demand a video from you😢 You have to take your time and heal❤ I know what you’re going through when you talk about your depression on how you can’t do much😢 I have chronic pain and peripheral neuropathy in my hip replacement. I can’t do what I used to in my 20’s😞 It all started when I had my last baby at the age of 32. My hip came out of place and broke when my baby was 4 weeks old😢 I couldn’t be there for my new baby and my other 3 children😞 I’m 42 now and just got a revision 6 months ago and it made my pain worse!! So now I have to use a cane and walker to walk😢😢 My depression is really bad right now!! I love watching your videos cuz I can kind of relate even tho that I don’t have cancer. You are such a strong woman Tiffany and I’ll be praying for you to heal soon🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I hope your depression gets better soon too sweetie❤❤❤
Remarkable gentle soul. You are so wonderful ❤
Dear Tiffany,you never need to apologise, we will always be here waiting for when you are ready. Huge hugs to you and your family... We got this 💕💕💕💕💕
It’s amazing that you’re able to do this video for us, certainly didn’t expect you back so soon. Please just heal and look after yourself. Never apologize for that.
Beautiful sweet Tiffany. Don’t or at least try not to worry about us. You’re handling life changing health issues. Fight and adjust to all that however you need to. We are praying for you and only wishing you all the best. As a nurse and caregiver for my sister that’s had multi organ transplants…..take your time. We aren’t going anywhere. ❤💙
I have never stopped thinking about you all these days. We all love and pray for you Tiff💙
I’ve been thinking about you this whole week so much Tiff. It’s so good to see your face. You don’t need to worry about a schedule and posting anything if you’re not up for it. We are here for you and your health is so much more important than a video post. Wishing you a speedy recovery. Sending love always from Rhode Island USA. We got this!
Your light shines so bright, even as you have been navigating through all this. Taking care of your own needs is not selfish, it's self care. Thank you so much for the update. I'm so glad your surgery was successful.
I will be having my 6 month scan on Monday. I have been in remission for a year and half. Hoping for continued good news!❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️
i pray that you are good and cancer free!
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Tiffany, firstly I want to say “welcome back”!
Funny thing, we are strangers but I feel like we are besties at the same time.
It is amazing when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, authentic and raw that the angles in our universe go to work and brings people (including strangers) together. Hand picked each of us to see you through this in communication and a heck of a lot of prayers. In turn we were gifted with a life lesson in humanity.
Suggestion for healing purposes; try standing naked in front of a mirror and get reacquainted with the new you. This allows you an opportunity to connect visually and mentally to the changes. You may feel nervous, scared, cry and even laugh about this a bit. Take your time at this and you may want to do this a few times to draw out the confidence that you already have. Your confidence is a little shaken, look out when it shines once again.
I am certain that your healthcare providers spoke to you about the possibly of experiencing depression. Situational depression, temporary from the trauma that you have just experienced. Lots of learning ahead of you but eventually a day will come when you look at your bag and refer to it as “oh that old thing” !
You did it Tiffany! Your healthcare team are Super Hero’s for doing the work that they all do.
So, please don’t spend too much time wanting to be alone. You need that right now but don’t get stuck there. The critical parts of your cancer journey chapter (getting through surgery) has ended. When you are ready, you will need to start the next chapter. Healing (painful, discomfort, learning, managing the changes mental and emotional well-being) and back to living your life again. Visiting, celebrating, enjoying tea and coffee out with friends and family. Getting dressed up, makeup and dancing around the house to wonderful music.
Remember, WE GOT THIS! You are a ROCKSTAR!
Aw Tiffany 💙 You’ve been so missed. It was enough to know you were home and recovering. An update wasn’t needed. Take time and rest. There’s light at the end of the tunnel 🫶 We got this 💙
Oh Tiffany, it is such a relief to hear from you and to see that you are okay! Believe me, you don’t owe us anything and you are the least selfish person I know! Take all the time you need and whether we hear regularly from you or not, we will still all be here sending you our love and positivity. It is enough to just know you are okay. Be kind to yourself and take all the time you need 💙💙💙
It's going to get easier. Yes. Tiffany you really are doing better than you think. Love and support and a virtual hug.
Hello Tiffany. I'm from Canada, I've been watching you and I wanted to tell you that you are truly an inspiration. I wish I could know you in real life. I would love to give you a hug. You are so brave and beautiful and I have really liked getting to know you through your hard journey. I can't imagine what you have been going through. Don't worry about us out here, just get better. Praying for you and love you from a far. Never say you are sorry. If anyone can't understand than it is really their problem. You are so sweet, smart, beautiful, courageous, brave, amazing, so many things. Would be honored to know you. 🙏 ❤️
Oh Tiffany! I looked at you in this video and I said to myself, have I seen this video before? When I realized that it was “you”, I was shocked, amazed and thrilled to see you so soon. I’m so thrilled to see you, you look wonderful. Thank you so much for letting us see you for a short time and hear your sweet voice. I have missed you SOOO much and I thank God that you are getting better every day. Don’t worry about us, we’ll be here when you are 100%. Until then, you rest, cry, smile, sleep and just do everything you need to do to get well. We understand more than you think we do. We love you sooooo much. Take your time, we LOVE you! 💙🇺🇸✝️🇬🇧💙❤️❤️❤️💙 You got this! Blessing and hugs to you, Matt and Oma!
Tiffany I can't explain just how happy and relieved I am to hear from you and to see how good you look. You have been going through a lot a lot A LOT!!!!!!! You don't need to apologize or say another word.. WE GET IT!!!! You are a warrior, you are a fighter.....just because you have been crying and needing time to yourself it doesn't take away from the fact that your strength, resiliency and stamina....mentally and physically is so admirable. I AM SO VERY PROUD OF YOU GIRL!!!! What you have been through and are still going through in your recovery and in your adjustment both physically and mentally would seriously challenge the strongest most well adjusted person on the planet. Despite all that you have faced... you are coming out a champion of strength, grace and resilience in my eyes. My prayers are with you now and will continue until you are back to feeling positive and comfortable physically and mentally again. You WILL get there!!!! Remember you have an army of prayer warriors at your side...together WE GOT THIS!!!!! Much much love dear sweet Tiffany.
I love your beautiful and comfy words for Tiffany, thanks! Blessings for the New Year 2023😊
Tiffany I’m so happy to see you! 🥰We are all here for you anytime - please do this journey in your own time and don’t even think about apologising or justifying anything to us - we are your family which means we will always be here for you no matter what and you never need to explain anything to us - keep being the inspiring, loving bright star that you are - you got this! ❤❤❤🤗
Hi Tiffany, it’s so good to hear from you to know that you are ok. I look for an update from you every day so thank you for making time to make this video. Don’t apologize for taking the time you need to heal and recover. We are here for you and will be with you through this whole journey no matter how long it takes. Time will heal and you’ll get better every single day. We love you and will be thinking of you every day. Hang in there warrior. We got this 💙
So happy to see you Tiffany! Take your time with everything. It took me over 6 months to feel comfortable talking about my surgery without bursting into tears, it is okay and it is normal to be upset and grieve who you were while embracing who you are becoming! I genuinely have so much love for you and wish you the best on your healing journey. We got this 💙
Tiffany, you're an incredibly tough person to not only endure such a difficult surgery, but to share with the public over the last year, has been very selfless and generous. We support you and wish you continuing recovery. Put yourself first and don't let others pressure you to post anything. Protect your mental energy and just focus on you.💙💙💙
Life is tough but it does get better and it will for you. Tiffany, you look absolutely gorgeous, and you can do this! It's a challenging journey but you are amazingly resilient and in no time, you will have adjusted to the new normal. We're cheering for you because we truly love you and want you to be happy.🥰
Darling Tiffany, imagine that your favourite CZcamsr had just undergone life changing surgery. Would you be mad with them if they didn't start posting regularly straight after the surgery? Would you expect them to come on and tell you all the personal information and share absolutely every single thing with you? How about you treat yourself the way you treat others, with kindness, compassion and love. Love from Perth, Australia. Mel ❤❤
YOU GOT THIS MORE THAN EVER💙
The amount of stress and pain you've been through recently is huge, any reaction is normal, please don't feel guilty for wanting to isolate and not posting for a while. You are such a hero for going through all that, you should be proud of yourself💙 We are all proud of you, Tiffany 💙
OMG Tiffany. I'm trying to get through your most recent posting and I just can't stop crying. I cannot imagine what this must have been like for you to go through. Only those who've been there would begin to know. I'm so grateful that you posted this video first. What I'm doing is watching the new post as long as I can, then switching to this one (to remind myself how much better you are doing now), then watching a bit more of the new post. You are so brave and such an inspiration.and it is such a blessing that you have Matt and your Amma Momma to support you through this. You are now a modern-day miracle girl/woman. You've got this!
So glad you made it to this point. You don’t need to apologize for anything. As a cancer survivor I know you need to heal and rest and that’s your main focus. We love you and pray for you.
As someone who is grieving the recent loss of my mom, I think it should be said that you are more than allowed to grieve right now. Grief is a process! A very tricky one too! You've been through so much, lost body parts to cancer, and are still in the throes of healing so please be kind to yourself. I hope everyone on here shows you nothing but love and kindness and best wishes moving forward. It is truly so nice to see you again! xx
i'm sorry for your loss .. i can't even imagine what you're going through. Please take care of yourself xxxx juliette from holland
Please take care of yourself xxx denise Fitz 💙💙💙
so sorry for your loss x
My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your mom. ❤️
So sorry for your loss. Take Care.
Tiffany please don't apologize. No one here expects you to post, Please don't stress about videos. You are still in my prayers. It's so nice to see you and hear your voice. Please do whatever is best for you. We are here whenever you feel up to it. And no judgment or expectations from us, just prayers and love
Beautiful, Sweet Tiffany, is wonderful seeing you here today!!
You’ve been missed, but please do not worry yourself about posting videos until YOU are ready - NO apology necessary! We will be here for you for as long as it takes. You’ve been such a positive influence and have faced this cancer challenge with grace, courage & dignity! You are loved by all your TiffanyThinks Family, and we are praying for your recovery! 💙🙏💙
Tiffany, please just take care of YOU. There is only one precious you. Do everything to work at stabilizing your physical, mental, and spiritual health because it is truly the most important thing. Those of us who support your channel are going to be here whenever you're ready. Continuing to pray for your strength and healing. Much love to you and those God has given you to care for you. 💙🙏🏼
It’s such a blessing to see your beautiful face, hear your voice. I’ve missed you, I’m sure lots of us have. You’ve been in my thoughts so much. I pray you recover, heal and I know you’ll be fine. You’ve got this darling xxxx
Seeing your beautiful face has made my day! Never apologize to us for taking time to recover and adjust to your post surgery normal. I know I speak for everyone in saying we are so happy you are home and surgery is behind you. Your positivity and strength are an inspiration and will help in your recovery. Thank you for posting and YOU’VE GOT THIS 💙
TIFFANY!!! I was sooo happy to see you, I've missed you so much! No apologies needed, you take the time you need to heal and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. 💙🌿💙🌿💙🌿💙
Soooo great to see you Tiffany. Glad you are okay.
Welcome back….so so happy to see you! You have not been selfish and, once again, no need to apologize.
Love and prayers coming your way. I am an OR nurse and definitely know how massive your surgery was. Put yourself first and pop in when you feel that you need love from your “family”. We are here for you. We’ve got this! ❤️
Never apologize! ✝️💜✝️
Tiff, even if it’s a few minutes, it’s great your sitting up. It’s a journey. Do it in your own time!!! 💜💜💜
When you have major internal surgery, it takes a long time for your body to brain to recover from the shock to the system. Take all of the time you need to recover. I spent over a month in hospital after my surgery. In addition, I took the entire summer to allow yourself to recover. It is a physical, emotional psychological process. Even when you are feeling much better, you need to be prepared for the psychological challenges that will arise. Do not push yourself to do more faster. Don’t put any pressure on yourself. Take it easy. You actually need to be selfish right now, until everything is sorted out. It is a very difficult time and situation. I have been there and know what it is like. After finally having a digestive system that sort of works, I am always dealing with chronic pain and now have chronic pancreatitis, which means I am often not able to eat. I no longer produce digestive enzymes and have to take them and painkillers regularly. I take the anti sickness pills many times a day as well as other medications. Because my pancreas is not functioning well, I am now also diabetic as well. We all live complicated lives.
Dear Tiffany, im so glad you’ve posted. i kept checking but I wasnt overly worried as I knew the surgery would be intense. Ive been watching you for ages, but it never seemed the right time to post until now. my name is Susan and I live in the US--in the state of NJ. I must say your sweet countenance adds so much to your story. You’re so brave as well and thank you for being so open with us. Im so sorry you’ve gone thru so much pain. Your smile brightens my day and you have such a positive outlook. Im cheering for you across the pond. Matt is just precious and so is your sweet, devoted mama. Its nice to see you all living together, helping one another. A movie should be made about your story someday! Im currently going through tests myself, because theres a chance I have cancer as well. i do keep you in my prayers. i know God has a wonderful plan for your life. Just keep being yourself and thank you for keeping us posted on your progress❤🎉❤❤❤
Good morning from New Zealand Tiffany. I'm so happy that you are on the road to recovery. Listening to your story as a with a colostomy I completely understand how you are feeling. Nothing on this world can or coukd prepare you for a life with and ostomy, illeostomy or a urostomy. I felt exactly the same when arriving home I was on my own and having so much change in your lifestyle was the hardest part. There are days when I still struggle I'm not going to lie. But we warriors you and I and you will eventually make this your new normal. Cry if you need to take as much time as you have to it's your body and your change and it's on💙 many blessings to you I will say a special prayer for you. If you need any advice on illeostomy, questions your nurses can not help with or just want to vent you can message me. Or there are many fb chat rooms for people with similar bags and they are all amazing. Keep well remember YOU GOT THIS 💙
I was just thinking about you and up you popped! Just take your time and don’t worry about uploading if you don’t feel well enough. We’re here for the journey xx
Time is here for a purpose it helps us to reflect, divulge and pass through. We are here when your ready ! This is your journey and we appreciate walking it along side you. We are not offended it’s about you being comfortable when your ready. We’ve got this ❤
Tiffany, you are the sweetest young lady. Please, please, please do not apologise. It’s wonderful to know you are ok, as well as you can be anyway. Stay strong lovely & know you are loved by so many. You got this 💙