How to Heal your Broken Heart| Buddhism In English

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Komentáře • 1,4K

  • @hsmint
    @hsmint Před rokem +1122

    1)If you need to cry, is ok to cry. Crying release pressure.
    2) Find a person to share your sorrow. The person should not give hateful comments about your ex partner as that will build up the hatred further.
    3) Always reflect and recollect that one day you will be parted and separated with all the dear people in your life. Alot of people don't like to think about this when they are in a relationship. However, being aware that we have limited time with our loved one(s) will enable one to give the fullest love and compassion.
    4) True love will never break your heart, but attachment will.
    5) If you need to heal the wound, you need to reduce touching it. Therefore, reduce the amount of attention you give to past memories.
    6) No matter how terrible the situation is, it will change one day. You will be ok one day.
    7) Know that this experience will make you stronger.

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Před rokem

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song czcams.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/video.html

    • @qb6989
      @qb6989 Před rokem +13

      Wow! Thank you for this!

    • @marktodd4479
      @marktodd4479 Před rokem +3

      #3 is so very helpful. I experienced the most absolutely devastating losses of my life 2 years ago. I did treasure them and many many times while laying in peace with them I felt such gratitude for the moment and for them. The loss is unbearable and I don’t know about others but life is of no use or holds zero attraction to me anymore and I just remain in this maya because of others depending on me

    • @meghnac78
      @meghnac78 Před rokem +10

      And what happens when the terrible situation happens over and over again? When life gives you nothing but misery and heartache as soon as you think you are okay?

    • @myversionoftruth
      @myversionoftruth Před rokem +2

      Thank you very much. 🙏

  • @anudiaz6914
    @anudiaz6914 Před rokem +1602

    When you are heartbroken cry,forgive ,learn from your expeiences and let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.🙏

    • @LilB.
      @LilB. Před rokem +7

      Well said..

    • @moulinyan
      @moulinyan Před rokem +2

      how u do u cry

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Před rokem

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song czcams.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/video.html

    • @prema1009
      @prema1009 Před rokem +23

      But I am struggling 😫. My mind says I need to forget and move on... but very difficult to practice

    • @kimberleyjane2338
      @kimberleyjane2338 Před rokem +4

      ​@@prema1009 Very difficult and especially when you realize that your needs are not their priority or their problem.

  • @anomakahawandala6816
    @anomakahawandala6816 Před rokem +576

    "True love will never break your heart, but attachment does"

    • @sich_verstehen
      @sich_verstehen Před rokem +28

      But aren't we all attatched to our loved ones?

    • @nickkaysay
      @nickkaysay Před rokem +28

      ​@@sich_verstehen yes, but all of our attachments bring us suffering. We fear of losing what or who we cherish, we feel sad and devastated when we actually lose it, we get used to the temporary feeling of happiness, that when it's over it breaks our heart. All of us should learn to let go and understand that all things that appear, sooner or later will disappear. Including the bad things. Hope I could help you❤

    • @jselenatan9834
      @jselenatan9834 Před rokem +1

      Thank you, I needed to hear this.

    • @bankingtricks614
      @bankingtricks614 Před rokem

    • @tararathnayake7582
      @tararathnayake7582 Před rokem +3

      We attach to people without even love, when we love there is always an attachment. No matter at the end, attachment makes us suffer. Love without any attachment make us free

  • @benazir4425
    @benazir4425 Před 4 měsíci +102

    Anyone going through a tough time hold on guys You're not alone😊 ( may Allah make it easy for you all) and remember this too shall pass!

  • @ChezzzyChez
    @ChezzzyChez Před rokem +210

    I love your quote of “let your tears water the seeds of your happiness.” 🙂thank you

    • @catherinesmith932
      @catherinesmith932 Před rokem +1

      Yes great words! Thank You

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Před rokem

      Or turn it into a beautiful painful song czcams.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/video.html

    • @nigithat7803
      @nigithat7803 Před 4 měsíci

      True words. It help me... Over come more tension, pressure.... 🙂

  • @Basira_Anwary
    @Basira_Anwary Před 11 měsíci +13

    The soul usually knows what to do to heal itself.
    The
    challenge is to silence the mind.

  • @jeandaniel4277
    @jeandaniel4277 Před rokem +259

    I lost my son 27 years old in an accident two months back ,I am so broken and search for motivational talks. I listen to your speeches and there is a temporary relief I still need to hear more on losing a loved one. You are a great preacher teacher and don't talk about religion but only truths . Thank you.

    • @artaleasham4105
      @artaleasham4105 Před rokem +25

      I feel sorry for your loss. Try to keep yourself on your daily tasks. Cleaning, going to the grocery store, work. Things like that. If you can't find something to do, then take a walk around the park/maybe even jog. It doesn't have to be fast, just moving is good. Keep yourself busy.
      It's okay to cry at any given time of your day. So what if people see you! You're human. You are allowed to cry. Anyone can understand what you are going through. The most important thing is to give yourself time to mourn, but also to keep yourself moving. Try some yoga/sports.
      Trust me, out of anything that can help, movement is it. Your brain will release dopamine and that will make sure your body will be more calmed. The movements will also make you tired, wich in turn makes it easier to fall asleep and the tiredness will make it harder for your mind to wander. The best thing is to push your body as hard as it can go, but it's not ideal to do this every time. Especially if you're a beginner at anything, try to take it one step at a time, and it's okay to take breaks.
      This won't heal your wound, but it can help be a band aid until it gets better, bit by bit. I hope you can give it a place someday and be happy again all the way! And remember. You are never alone. If you want to talk to someone about it, there might be talking groups you can go to/or a psychologist. Don't be afraid to talk to lots of your friends too! Everything will help to give it a place.

    • @rangerwhite5165
      @rangerwhite5165 Před rokem +7

      Best wishes to you and I hope you find peace. I can't imagine how horrific that would be.

    • @sunshineshining4167
      @sunshineshining4167 Před rokem +4

      Hope you are fine now.

    • @user-sj9lf2bi1y
      @user-sj9lf2bi1y Před rokem

      Cheer up! 🌸🍀

    • @Save-INDIA
      @Save-INDIA Před rokem +6

      That is what budha has taught in his Dhamma….. he teaches way of life which is useful for each and every individual…. He says ,, don’t expect too much,,, attachment’s brings suffering,, expectations brings suffering, be compassionate, be kind , he says 1) there is suffering 2) there is reason for suffering 3) you need to understand the cause of suffering 4) find out solutions or healing for that suffering bz it’s in your hand to reduce your pain and suffering by kindness and compassion for others…..,, then he shows 8 fold pathways to follow for life then in the prayers itself he says….. 1) be away from lies 2) be away from hurting animals 3)be away from addiction, alcohol 4) make your character stronger 5) don’t do robbery…………, so beautiful BUDDHA had taught us……..2500 yrs ago…….. so simple and so true…………

  • @manjulapaul5065
    @manjulapaul5065 Před rokem +389

    The way you talk with a smile on your face that's very beautiful 😍👌 ❤️

  • @deiagraham5510
    @deiagraham5510 Před 10 měsíci +26

    #2 True Love will never break your heart, but attachment Will!! NEEDED TO HEAR THIS!!😮

  • @toou332
    @toou332 Před 3 měsíci +20

    i am muslim but i am inspire of this man🙂

    • @wellplatedsabu
      @wellplatedsabu Před měsícem +1

      Same here❤

    • @Swanselm
      @Swanselm Před 24 dny

      Are you allowed to do that?

    • @lilbitotrble
      @lilbitotrble Před 15 dny

      This is a demonstration of your wisdom to consider another's perspective. You are an enlightened being (IMHO) .

  • @ramyag1043
    @ramyag1043 Před měsícem +10

    Iam Christian girl but I always follow your videos.

  • @yashodaraabeysinghe5437
    @yashodaraabeysinghe5437 Před rokem +176

    "When you are heart-broken, cry, forgive, learn from your experiences & let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness"

    • @freidapaynor1641
      @freidapaynor1641 Před rokem

      been 2yrs and the tears hasnt dried up.

    • @vanshikadixit5892
      @vanshikadixit5892 Před rokem

      Where we can purchase this uniform? He wearing.

    • @yashodaraabeysinghe5437
      @yashodaraabeysinghe5437 Před rokem +1

      @@vanshikadixit5892 it's called 'robe'..Sri Lanka..but you can't just buy a robe & just wear like a uniform..First you have to become a monk..it's quite a process..

    • @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA
      @IloveSB19_ourMAHALIMA Před rokem

      @@yashodaraabeysinghe5437 Or turn it into a beautiful painful song czcams.com/video/v2vk1S03MUo/video.html

    • @twilit
      @twilit Před rokem

      @@vanshikadixit5892lol it’s not a fashion

  • @ankitanandi5594
    @ankitanandi5594 Před rokem +189

    I am getting addicted to this channel..at the end of every talk I get tears...namo budhdhaya 🌸🌸🌸

    • @doroteotimtim8854
      @doroteotimtim8854 Před rokem

      Listening to your words of wisdom makes me feel content with your understanding about how people can get together platonically. Never stop preaching about love and lasting relationships...

    • @kushymathai9821
      @kushymathai9821 Před rokem +1

      Yes you are right i watched all videos waiting for next one👍👍👍

    • @PRASHANTSINGH-sh2hn
      @PRASHANTSINGH-sh2hn Před rokem +1

      Are u heartbroken?

    • @tharmab4658
      @tharmab4658 Před rokem

      🙏

    • @sophiafara5997
      @sophiafara5997 Před 10 měsíci

      i have fat tummy

  • @katherinelydon7306
    @katherinelydon7306 Před rokem +9

    Crying is truly the best way to heal. No shame in crying. It reveals the depth of love you felt for that person.

  • @ewelinak1575
    @ewelinak1575 Před rokem +73

    After my heart was broken for 4 years ago I went through spiritual awakening. It was a blessing. I would do it again and again. I'm a new person- real me and I love myself unconditionally and every single thing around me. The best gift ever

    • @shivanimallik656
      @shivanimallik656 Před 11 měsíci +5

      Hey ...can you please share your experience about spirituality... I'm going through a heartbreak now.. it's really tough for me...but I'm seeking help from yoga meditation and god.. I feel like I'm going to make it my routine...but still I get sudden anxiety attacks specially in morning... I'm just begging God to take the pain away.

    • @ewelinak1575
      @ewelinak1575 Před 11 měsíci +8

      @@shivanimallik656 Dearest friend
      It takes time to find your own strength. It took me 4 years- greatest years of my life too be where I am now. No one can help you with the pain. Take it as a great lesson from life. There is always happiness on the other side. It will shape you. Nothing takes forever. You must know that you are responsible for your life and choices. All the reasons you will recognize later. There is always something to see positive. Start to seek the truth of life. We are supposed to be happy in this life and happiness is a choice. I know you will make it and wish you all the best

    • @blindjedi4139
      @blindjedi4139 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I’m glad you found your happiness, I started mine about an year ago, I know it’s a long journey worth taking.

    • @timbolrey5814
      @timbolrey5814 Před 10 měsíci

      ❤❤❤

    • @MariaGonzalez-cn4kc
      @MariaGonzalez-cn4kc Před 8 měsíci

      💕 stay strong

  • @Iamvaishnavi23
    @Iamvaishnavi23 Před rokem +12

    I don't have any person to share anything. I have only me . I don't have friends. I have my family who will never understand anything. I can't cry because everyone is always around me . I feel horrible

    • @bhumikamahajan761
      @bhumikamahajan761 Před měsícem +2

      Make personal diary and write down anything what you want to share someone

    • @RPSKLM
      @RPSKLM Před 5 dny

      My sister the same but she passed out last year I saw it what I missed ...so u can share with my mom mam maybe u will be comfortable

  • @chandramunasinghe4017
    @chandramunasinghe4017 Před rokem +214

    We lost our eldest daughter 26 years ago...when she was 11 years...I am still struggling to overcome our loss....by listening to yr dhamma talks....i feel bit light hearted ....thanks ..Namo Buddhaya

    • @ro_boat
      @ro_boat Před rokem +6

      My condolences to you 😢 and yours! I lost my sister and brother-in-law to a speeding driver in March 4th 2017. I miss her soooo much.

    • @ro_boat
      @ro_boat Před rokem +6

      I feel your pain and your are not alone!

    • @anomakahawandala6816
      @anomakahawandala6816 Před rokem +4

      "Nothing is permanent "

    • @anjou6497
      @anjou6497 Před rokem +2

      ⚘️💜

    • @Eddieangelj2288
      @Eddieangelj2288 Před rokem +4

      Sending you love and strength, our loved ones never ever leave us, I ask the angels to bring you peace and signs of eternal life. May peace be with you and your family brother 🙏❤

  • @dianmar8717
    @dianmar8717 Před rokem +23

    I am a Muslim, from Indonesia. I like your channel. The way you present is calm, come out from your pure heart. and logical

  • @alexishoggan2098
    @alexishoggan2098 Před rokem +12

    3 times I have been through this and now I know I was attached not in love I'm 41 and now I'm learning to love myself

  • @Kk-yn7dk
    @Kk-yn7dk Před rokem +8

    we never heal we just learn to live with it

  • @djjess9553
    @djjess9553 Před 2 měsíci +4

    My 23 year old son is going through a heartbreak,i hope he watched this ..we all been through it..i wish him the best

  • @tejasmeshram7128
    @tejasmeshram7128 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Some one cheated me in horrible way. Someone used to tell me that she can't live without me. She found new option, so she left. I'm crying since 1 months. I was unable to eat anything. I felt like empty and heavy. My weight decreased to 41 kg. My tooth broken. I never thought I would be cheated like this. She showed highest level of cruelty to me. Because she found handsome guy. I came to know this world is unfair and cruel.
    After listening to you, I feel better. You're very inspiring. Thank you so much 🙏 Master 💙 I'm grateful to you ❤️ from bottom of my heart 🤍
    Namo Buddha🙏
    My tears came out🌼🌼🌼

  • @FeCadacio
    @FeCadacio Před rokem +267

    Reverend, I'm a Catholic but since I started subscribing this channel through your enlightenment I learned a lot and I got a lot of improvement. Thank you so much 🥰

    • @sraddhayoga1
      @sraddhayoga1 Před rokem +17

      I am also a Catholic and knowing about Buddhism has made me know another point of view that complements my way of seeing life. Greetings from MEXico.

    • @JoelPit
      @JoelPit Před rokem +2

      I'm a minister, and I'm here as well. I've been searching the Bible for dating advice there is none how did the basic instruction before leaving earth leave this out. Marriage is of earth and not of heaven and so must be dating. We are only responsible for our sinful responses

    • @mumtazessa4270
      @mumtazessa4270 Před rokem

      Hi thank u so much how much said was very good

    • @iaber1698
      @iaber1698 Před rokem

      @@JoelPit mmm, well, the 10 commandments are all of earth and not of heaven. As far as I am concerned, the bible offers advice to humans, who all live on earth.

    • @honestchileshe7098
      @honestchileshe7098 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Am also a catholic but I learn alot

  • @angelique2653
    @angelique2653 Před rokem +116

    Thank you so much. My beloved husband passed away three years ago. After 33 years very happy marriage. I am healing slowly, slowly. I am blessed to have known such love.💚💙💜🙏🙏🙏

  • @skygazer6898
    @skygazer6898 Před rokem +36

    I grew up in an abusive environment and have spent most of my adult life on my own. When I bought a puppy Labrador, I never knew my life would be transformed so drastically. I enjoyed getting out and walking her for hours on end, even meeting and chatting with other dog walkers. I loved coming home from work and being greeted by my best friend, I just loved her so much. Lucy got cancer and I had to have her put to sleep, to say it has turned my life upside down is an understatement. It has been 5 years and I miss her so much and feel like I don't want to be here anymore without her. I am so broken hearted without my girl. I have lost family and close friends but nothing has been so painful as losing my beautiful Labrador, Lucy. I truly loved Lucy and my HEART is BROKEN

    • @Happiness-qj3ry
      @Happiness-qj3ry Před rokem +3

      My 1st furkid pass away 2 years back and my whole world died. I can't accept it at all. My second furkid came to show me love and always there for me. I am happy with my furkid. You may consider to adopt a furkid and give a lovely life. Lucy may come in another furkid. I am feeling it right now

    • @freestyle7951
      @freestyle7951 Před rokem +8

      It would be therapeutic to adopt a pet and bring back the sweet love and companionship that animals add to your life. Lucy will always be your first love and you can rescue an animal who needs You. Let go and love again. Your life will be a gift to share with an animal who is starving for the love and security you have to give. Love again ...Live again. You can do it.💕

    • @leesanderson6885
      @leesanderson6885 Před rokem +5

      Time has come for that pain to be healed. Could you go and get a little rescue doggy? You can heal that little doggies heart. And he will heal yours. Lucy would hate for you to be so broken for so long. Its time to heal your sadness. Xx

    • @artaleasham4105
      @artaleasham4105 Před rokem +1

      I understand what you mean. In my life I have had a lot of animals and I still remember every one of them. Once a year I have a day to remember them. It's on pet's day. I make some sort of prayer and just try to let them know I still love them and that I hope that I will meet them again someday.

    • @skygazer6898
      @skygazer6898 Před rokem +1

      @@Happiness-qj3ry I cant think of adopting another dog. no,

  • @kirivrahimi8156
    @kirivrahimi8156 Před rokem +14

    If you love someone don’t you automatically become attached to that person, because you love each other you share your life with them and you want to spend as much time as you can with them so I believe that it would be virtually impossible not to feel the pain once they are gone. Thank you❤

  • @msmotivation6040
    @msmotivation6040 Před 4 dny +1

    True love will never break your heart but attachment does.

  • @angelinegeorge275
    @angelinegeorge275 Před rokem +80

    Im am a christian but your talks n lessons of life n philosphy are universal n can b applied by people from all walks of life. U have a very calm n peaceful appearance . Im learning from u n i can apply these lessins in lifev to anyone who is in need of advice. Thank u n please continue with your good work. Amen!

    • @amyherr9018
      @amyherr9018 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Same here Christian God bless!!!

  • @yourfutureisnow6480
    @yourfutureisnow6480 Před rokem +33

    I always say nothing is guaranteed and certain with others. If you love someone, just love them and enjoy the times you have with them. Don't take things so seriously. Always have other outlets to express yourself.

  • @STNNurseMikey1990
    @STNNurseMikey1990 Před rokem +5

    I'm noticing those past memories come up in waves. The moment I notice the process it pops, but there is fear to even let them dissolve and allow peace!

  • @borange588
    @borange588 Před 11 měsíci +5

    I broke up with my first love and my selfish actions that were fueled by the attachment led to it ending very badly. She was the one and only person who truly understood me. But it ended so badly, I'm struggling to forgive myself. I wish I could change it. But the past is the past and there's nothing I can do to undo the damage I have caused. However, these great teachings are giving me hope and some direction into healing and moving on with my life. Thank you

    • @EduverseAca
      @EduverseAca Před 3 měsíci

      Same thing happened with me.😭 I cannot forgive myself 😭😭😭

    • @DarkWolfWRX
      @DarkWolfWRX Před měsícem

      I just broke up with the woman I thought would be the one. We were not together a drastically long time. But I failed and let my anxieties from a prior relationship push her away and in the break up hurt her more with my actions. I tried so hard to get her to understand I will work on my anxieties. But she just couldnt give it another shot. I have never been so depressed in my life.

  • @brandyfuller515
    @brandyfuller515 Před rokem +23

    Gosh just found you on CZcams and im so happy I did!! Im greiving really bad!! I lost my two children 22 years old son and 21 year old daughter 4 and 5 years ago thank you for being you

    • @mariianicababaPT
      @mariianicababaPT Před rokem +3

      ❤️ you deserve to by happy in this life… for you and for your children ❤️

    • @atuldwivedi3959
      @atuldwivedi3959 Před rokem +3

      I can feel your pain. I did lose my mom when I was 13 and after one year I did lose my grandmother. Don't lose hope. Your son and your daughter are watching you from heaven and discussing how brave their mom is ❤

    • @Dreamdr
      @Dreamdr Před 9 měsíci +1

      i feel really sorry abt u 😢❤

    • @brandyfuller515
      @brandyfuller515 Před 9 měsíci

      @@Dreamdr thank you im so lost

    • @barbaraseidel4342
      @barbaraseidel4342 Před 3 měsíci

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @kashishagarwal7575
    @kashishagarwal7575 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Sometimes, heartbreaks are not becoz of the love of our life, sometimes it is by the people who love us. Sometimes our first heartbreak is by our family whome we loved the most in our lives. And its really veryvery painful when your own family doesn't trust u. And it breaks u the most to the extremities.
    But as said that we should try to forgive things and take experiences to not repeat the same, which is the only thing we can do.🤞🙌

  • @jcd3869
    @jcd3869 Před rokem +21

    "Cry, forgive, learn from your experiences, and let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness".

  • @Swadheenta06
    @Swadheenta06 Před rokem +26

    1. Someday we have to seperate ourselves from everyone we loved
    2. True love can never break your heart, it's done by attachment

  • @thefutureisnow209
    @thefutureisnow209 Před 11 dny +1

    Also true love never breaks your heart bc true love doesn’t leave. Thank you for this beautiful video. ❤

  • @kimberlydavis5034
    @kimberlydavis5034 Před rokem +23

    I haven't been able to grieve and heal. My heart is broken in many pieces. I'm always busy trying to help others. I was taught that crying is a sign of weakness. I always had to put everyone else before myself. I need time to myself. I need to be by myself to recharge my mental, emotional and physical being. I need time to myself to be able to grieve and heal. I haven't been able to do this in over 30 years because I had to but myself on the back burner and be a caretaker for everyone else my whole life. Now I have to work on self-care and work on myself. Thank you for these encouraging teaching lessons. I appreciate your kind compassionate words and understanding.

    • @rubytuesday7653
      @rubytuesday7653 Před rokem +1

      Kimberly , it's like you broke out of my brain and wrote about me🥀. I'm broken. I'm all alone. No friends, No family, No Church Family,No Neighbors. It's like I don't exist.

    • @rubytuesday7653
      @rubytuesday7653 Před rokem +1

      I've been crying allot......I can't stop.

    • @beatleme2
      @beatleme2 Před 2 měsíci

      @@rubytuesday7653 feel the same since my wife of 13 yrs passed 8 1 23 -hope you're doing better

  • @thearomunlocker3781
    @thearomunlocker3781 Před rokem +4

    Sadhu sadhu sadhu 🙏🙏🙏🥰
    I'm Buddhism from Cambodia 🇰🇭🙏🥰

  • @RobinLahoe-pj2uq
    @RobinLahoe-pj2uq Před rokem +5

    I am a heart broken mother which my daughter who pass away thank you for advice and may God bless . ❤

  • @shereenmehmood906
    @shereenmehmood906 Před 10 měsíci +12

    Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness 🙏🏽

  • @bevm8446
    @bevm8446 Před rokem +42

    The way you deliver the speech with a smile on your face is priceless, gracious and calm, you touch my heart so deeply with your words of wisdom. තෙරුවන් සරණයි

  • @janjust4205
    @janjust4205 Před 11 měsíci +8

    When your heart broken. Cry, forgive, learn.
    Let your tear water the seeds of your future happiness.

  • @thyservant2310
    @thyservant2310 Před rokem +5

    forgiveness and acceptance is the key, let go of what you must 🤗

  • @mrhotot
    @mrhotot Před rokem +10

    We ended up 8 years of our relationship. Ending up couldn't have hurt me but she cheated on me which hurt me alot. If she was really not interested on me then she could have told me. People ending relationship to, not working out get less hurt than those who get cheated. It cuts so deep. It's been more than a year. Still can't find way to get on my track. It complete made me lost. It hurts so much. God should show her karma. Thank you for everything we share.

  • @debbie6533
    @debbie6533 Před rokem +7

    I think about him every morning before my day starts and before I go to sleep every day. it's true love. Crying is good but limit it. As I know when I cry too long, I always get very very sick for weeks. I think I will burn a candle and meditate instead. Acknowledge it but limit it

    • @ovz197
      @ovz197 Před rokem

      That's true. I'm in the same situation. Hope things will get better soon! Stay safe.

    • @debbie6533
      @debbie6533 Před rokem +1

      @@ovz197 God bless, be safe, be well❤️

    • @ovz197
      @ovz197 Před rokem

      @@debbie6533 Thanks a lot

  • @MeenAk.
    @MeenAk. Před rokem +14

    Your messaged reached me at the right time. I am suffering from this heartache from two months. Somehow recovered but not fully. Today am again into same old past thoughts. Staying in the middle of life when u have no one around u kills. But i have learnt to stay away frm people.Thank you ur video was quit helpfull.🙏

  • @sliceoflife1111
    @sliceoflife1111 Před rokem +8

    True love will never break your heart, but attachment will ❤

  • @governessenglish2680
    @governessenglish2680 Před rokem +22

    Have no words to thank you Ven . Thero. I am a Buddhist...but the way you present all these facts is very interesting , heart touching an logical. More over your smile wipes our sorrow away for a moment ... තෙරුවන් සරනින් ඔබවහන්සෙට උතුම් වූ නිර්වාන දොරටුව වැඩි ඈතක නොවේවා!! Namo Buddhaya !!

  • @marciadesouza3314
    @marciadesouza3314 Před rokem +56

    Thank-you! So...much for talking about "Broken-Hearts"💔. My sister was very, very sick, was taken to Hospital and was ill-treated badly and was killed by giving allergic tablets. That death is extremely hard to get over with. I trust in the Lord everyday, taking one day at a time. I am asking for your prayers 🙏 😌.

    • @trevordamien1550
      @trevordamien1550 Před rokem +4

      Oh Ma’am I am so deeply saddened about ur v unpleasant experience that you had to undergo with ur dearest sisters tragic death! I understand ur dilemma as I’m suffering immensely been a guy n the youngest of the family. I lost my dearest darling Mom whom I looked after for past 10 years all by myself. My darling Mom left me all alone in this world! I’m emotionally down, fallen and my mind is frozen too. Pl accept my deepest sympathies on ur great loss.

    • @marciadesouza3314
      @marciadesouza3314 Před rokem +5

      @@trevordamien1550 Trevor dear ♥ . Thank-you, so very much for being in touch with me. I am really sorry to hear about your mum and your circumstances and you tell me your the last one in the family 👪 it's really heart ❤ breaking. I understand how you must feel. With my sister's death and that they took her life was too much to bear, cause, it was done in front of my eyes. Every, memories of my sister breaks me down completely. This is something, I cannot forget and will never forget. I am sure you must feel the very same. I Sympathise with you. Trevor. The day my sister was killed 😪 😢 I turned to the "Lord" praying day and night. I cried too so...very much. I cannot explain. I can't believe that the hospital's would do such a thing. I am so.....very sorry for taken her to hospital. They ill- treated her and then took life. I am living with a broken💔heart and so must you Trevor. I long, really long to be where my sister is, and I am sure you must feel too. Tc Trevor be in touch whenever you need too. I Love ❤ 😍 💖 you. Don't worry, God will take care of us we hope😘♥️🌹

    • @chanpisethsuos1306
      @chanpisethsuos1306 Před 4 měsíci

      Sending prayers ❤

    • @marciadesouza3314
      @marciadesouza3314 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@chanpisethsuos1306 Dear chanisethsuos1306. Thank-you! So...very much for your prayers for us. I hope God will bless 🙌 you immensely. I will think of you, when, I am Praying. Thank-you!❤🕯❤😘

  • @MissiJade
    @MissiJade Před rokem +16

    Thank you for this very important message. I have lost my Mother, my spouse and my 23 year old sister all in tragic circumstances. I held on to my tears and lived in solitary for four years. I now understand that my loved ones would want me to live my life. Finding sincere support is difficult when you are without any family support however I am grateful that I am focusing on the good memories and myself now and anyone who has experienced multiple losses, my heart is with you. Your teachings have taught me so much. I am so grateful ❤

    • @flaviacogo5627
      @flaviacogo5627 Před rokem +2

      Sorry about that 😢

    • @dinethmaaponso8873
      @dinethmaaponso8873 Před rokem +3

      sorry to hear that, but they will be proud of you💟

    • @fear_less_2020
      @fear_less_2020 Před rokem +2

      I pray your heart heals very soon. Losing them is tragic but God will give you strength and peace very soon. Your loved ones want you to lead a happy life. Please live your life to the fullest. ❤

    • @rosalielopez9138
      @rosalielopez9138 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Courage !
      Dont give up !

    • @MissiJade
      @MissiJade Před 10 měsíci +3

      Thank you for your beautiful messages of support. I feel so grateful that you have taken the time to write these. I wish you all happiness and good health. ❤️‍🩹

  • @catherinesmith932
    @catherinesmith932 Před rokem +15

    Wow that was real enlightenment for me! True Love never breaks your heart. I see that in my life.

  • @jamess8175
    @jamess8175 Před rokem +10

    Such profound wisdom is only taught by the supreme Buddha. Namo Buddhaya! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @renukadave7273
    @renukadave7273 Před rokem +25

    Namo Budhdhay, Master. 🙏
    So nicely explained..!
    Feel your love and compassion for mankind in each of your words.. 🙏
    Lucky to have such Guru 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sutharmian
    @sutharmian Před rokem +23

    Thank you for sharing Buddha's wisdom ❤️🙏 !

  • @so_shruti
    @so_shruti Před 7 měsíci +2

    ‘’True love will never break your heart’’. That hit home. Guess I haven’t found true love yet…always heartbroken 💔

  • @carolinetoppari7090
    @carolinetoppari7090 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I have learnt my lessons and cried my eyes balls out, neither ami perfect but i have learnt my lessons and lifes lesson, trust is harder now for me, im finding it hard to trust anyone.

  • @belovegems
    @belovegems Před rokem +10

    Let the tears water the seeds of your future happiness 🙏

  • @pratikshanagose21
    @pratikshanagose21 Před rokem +3

    Dimple vale prabhuji Thank you for this lecture Hare Krishna
    Nmo Budhay
    Hari Bol🙌🙌🙌

  • @louisruffin6808
    @louisruffin6808 Před rokem +1

    Yes sir,
    I am experiencing a broken heart. But it isn't about losing a girlfriend, but it is about my life. Life ingeneral.

  • @mimikoo5197
    @mimikoo5197 Před rokem +24

    Whenever I feel down, after listening to your sharing of Buddha's wisdom, it always made me feel very touched n very humbled. Thank you.

  • @mariabejaranomonge2183
    @mariabejaranomonge2183 Před rokem +22

    Thank you so much. Your words bring light, peace and confidence. 🙏✨✨👏

  • @nilanisiriwardena5019
    @nilanisiriwardena5019 Před rokem +4

    THE TRUTH. EXPLAINS EVERYTHING. AS A BUDDHIST I AGREE WITH YOUR ADVICE. GREAT.

  • @STNNurseMikey1990
    @STNNurseMikey1990 Před rokem +6

    Attachment/aversion feels like one of my biggest blocks to freedom. Through my practice I am noticing old patterns after a recent breakup, and merging with them means the suffering is immense. There is an attachment to merging with these patterns here.
    I appreciate the timely reminder of impermanence. But through reflection a lot of pain is here from identifying with the one who wasn't able to give as much love as he wanted to, for whatever reason. Mainly shame. and there is merging with tremendous guilt.
    So this was a bitter sweet video for me. Started off with an opening, then a contraction, then this comment.

  • @abhijitha7246
    @abhijitha7246 Před rokem +6

    Your words bring peace and confidence.🌟

  • @seethakalahasthi1821
    @seethakalahasthi1821 Před rokem +12

    So beautifully u have explained...the last sentence is a perfect punch line.I adore your way of speaking.

  • @bestrongandloveyourself2370

    These advices are very helpful! Thank you so much! 🙏☺️

  • @dr.lucifer5678
    @dr.lucifer5678 Před rokem +4

    I have been going through this since 2 and a half year, I didn't find any person to share with, whomsoever I share, they just advice, start judging, I just cry out evry day to remove the pressure!!🥺...with a hope to get healed one day❄️

    • @piyushmandal5647
      @piyushmandal5647 Před rokem +1

      Same here 😖🥺😭

    • @dr.lucifer5678
      @dr.lucifer5678 Před rokem

      @@piyushmandal5647 🥺Hope you overcome your situation soon...
      I hope all the positivity in the world to clear out all the mess which is troubling you...
      May god bless you to the fullest, heal you to the highest...
      -your well wisher, who is also trying to overcome the depression...🥺🙂

  • @CL-jb9nd
    @CL-jb9nd Před rokem +23

    Dear teacher, thank you so much for your teachings. They are so wise and so helpful and they give me a lot of peace in mind. I am so thankful for your sermons! 🙏🏻☺️

  • @happydays3678
    @happydays3678 Před rokem +9

    Thank you. It's hard to feel love without attachment. I will look at your other video which explains more. Beautiful words, thanks again. 🙏❤

  • @arupabanerjee2854
    @arupabanerjee2854 Před rokem +13

    You have a peaceful way of explaining things..your smile itself gives peace...thank you so much Sir..Namha Buddhhaye.🙏🙏

  • @BigBBigTrees
    @BigBBigTrees Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love seeing all of us from around the world, all learning from the same video. I hope everyone is healing well.

  • @divinelove2513
    @divinelove2513 Před rokem +4

    Right now I'm feeling exhausted. How a person ignore someone like that.His ignorance literally broke my heart lot of pieces..my brain always said that stop don’t text him but my heart don’t listen my mind..

    • @Rsri-pc4ld
      @Rsri-pc4ld Před 11 měsíci +1

      Battle with my heart and brain . Yep brains says stop texting him but my heart start to text 😢. Hw u feeling now .

    • @divinelove2513
      @divinelove2513 Před 11 měsíci

      @@Rsri-pc4ld right now I'm feeling okay..i would like to suggest you pls don’t text him, if you text him he will never understand your feeling
      So be yourself and live your life🧡🧡🧡

    • @Itspeti
      @Itspeti Před 7 měsíci

      I'm with you. How can someone tell you they love you, spend great moments together and drop you like you're just a piece of trash? I'm trying to be strong and not text or call moving on. Praying we both heal and find our one true love 🙏🏽

  • @manishamotivates
    @manishamotivates Před rokem +13

    Life is of impermanence. So, are heartbreaks. Grateful for this motivation and reminder.

  • @sandamali8173
    @sandamali8173 Před rokem +8

    Pinwath swamin wahansa our children always hearting us how can we heal our heart from a heart breaks we cannot bear that pain. I also addicted this channel. You are great reverent rev. May the Noble Trple Gem bless.May you attain nibbana🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @elizabethboland2091
    @elizabethboland2091 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Agree...
    When you are heartbroken:
    Cry.
    Forgive.
    Learn from your experiences.
    Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness. 🙏

  • @wh2204
    @wh2204 Před rokem +3

    thank you for this video.. as a muslim I amazed by the words.. it helps me to calm down, feels like he speaks to me privately heart to heart.. I feel touched and heard

  • @malshaabeysekare7357
    @malshaabeysekare7357 Před rokem +5

    Apart from thinking this is religious based discussion.. this whole idea can make me calm down.. it does everything isn't it! Thank you so much. I love the peace you just delivered.

  • @kapilafavorites
    @kapilafavorites Před rokem +9

    Noma Buddhaya! My humble respect to you sir! I am in pain. Thanks 🙏 for your session.l ❤️l

    • @jamess8175
      @jamess8175 Před rokem

      Wish you well! Namo Buddhaya! 🙏🙏🙏

    • @Dreamdr
      @Dreamdr Před 9 měsíci

      I hope u will be okay soon❤

  • @talesbywije
    @talesbywije Před rokem +6

    My heart felt like getting water to a parched dessert when listening to this, thank you so much.

  • @Bornto-serve786
    @Bornto-serve786 Před rokem +12

    Your voice and guidance not beings light in my life but they are the way that welcomes the new me each time I recorrect and regrow myself ❤️❤️❤️❤️..
    I'm a Muslim from kashmir

    • @madhuachpal503
      @madhuachpal503 Před rokem

      S²l ll lol
      Lol lol lol è1

    • @fortnitenoob9828
      @fortnitenoob9828 Před rokem +3

      Inshallah I’m Muslim too thinking off converting to a Buddhist ♥️

    • @Bornto-serve786
      @Bornto-serve786 Před rokem +3

      No need to convert Islam is beautiful too..
      Learn from every guru and hold on too one dignity ❤️ gudluck

    • @hasintan6112
      @hasintan6112 Před rokem +4

      "Govthama Buddha" he is a teacher ,,no problem who you are. your male, female,islamic,catholic,hindhu or non religion ,,, you can leran how to staying happy ,without suffering.
      ( my little friend mariya also from kashmir but i can't find her, great god help her❤️🙏😔)

  • @lydiamartinez1912
    @lydiamartinez1912 Před rokem +3

    My husband died last year from Congestive heart failure 30years married & the pain is still there inside of me it took so long to find him & im always grieving for him & the memories are still there inside of me prayer has helped me so much with my Grief

    • @shitikigriffin6314
      @shitikigriffin6314 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I lost my husband to heart failure to in 2001 together for 24 years

    • @Anotherhumanexisting
      @Anotherhumanexisting Před 8 měsíci

      This reminds me that all relationships, short or long, cause pain in the end.

  • @pranamum3109
    @pranamum3109 Před rokem +5

    Yes. You are correct.In family relationships it is painful.🙏🏻💐

  • @shatveekareddy3497
    @shatveekareddy3497 Před rokem +2

    great monk gave buddha teaching to modern generation in easy way in simple and depth , thanks a lot ,namo buddhaya

  • @maheshab7042
    @maheshab7042 Před rokem +6

    Venorable thero,
    What you have said is very true. I have experienced same situation. Its been 4 years. Still I couldn't overcome my pain
    This video will be a big help for me

  • @christrinder1255
    @christrinder1255 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Thank you so much for the blessings you’ve given us in this video……..crying isn’t something I usually do although I’m a woman….I have cried over the last 24 hours… as much as when my husband died 3 years ago….. I was too much attached to a person "………my daughter and granddaughter were my strengths and support me whilst I come to terms with it…..the world is a wonderful place….and tomorrow the sun will shine again…💖💖💖

  • @moonshine7429
    @moonshine7429 Před 5 měsíci +2

    12:01 let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness ❤❤❤

  • @uttamtisso4808
    @uttamtisso4808 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I really like your advice. Even though my wife had left us leaving her two children. But i have change my life.

  • @treesdeschout1190
    @treesdeschout1190 Před rokem +10

    Every day YOU encourage me with Your wise and helpful lessons, to give up our expectations and attachment 🙏❤️

  • @henashree9159
    @henashree9159 Před rokem +10

    Thanks 😔❤️ I don't know why I'm not able to heal..but IDK why I cried listening to you and your advice..I felt someone has cared for me 😔

    • @Dreamdr
      @Dreamdr Před 9 měsíci

      i hope u r doing okay dear 😢❤ everything thing will be okay soon ❤

  • @chrisjohnston1988
    @chrisjohnston1988 Před 26 dny

    Wow, that’s perfect 👌🏻. Just back from the temples in Thailand. Life has become more peaceful since. We were blessed by five Buddhist monks on samui at the temple.
    I’ve been looking for you, there you were. Peace and happiness to you and all of your people. X

  • @sutraandseed4078
    @sutraandseed4078 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I have been blessed by Lord Buddha today.
    He has heard and answered my prayer for help.🙏🏻
    Thank you Brother.💞

  • @shank1321
    @shank1321 Před rokem +18

    Right message at the right time.. soo grateful that I had a chance listening to your speech! Namo Budhaya 🙏🏽

  • @teresadockery7018
    @teresadockery7018 Před rokem +3

    Cry is helping to remove all your pressure. Either men or women.❤

  • @adventureseekerKe..
    @adventureseekerKe.. Před měsícem

    Thank you, this helps a lot. The thing I did is I became too attached to the person, to the point I had so much fear in letting go & the fear made me go back to him so many times. I still considered going back to him this time, calling him saying let's talk & work it out again....But this time I promised myself I will not go back because the person got so used to it and started taking me for granted .... So hard to do it... But I cannot fail myself again...

  • @hariharen5784
    @hariharen5784 Před rokem +13

    "LET YOUR TEARS WATER THE SEEDS OF YOUR FUTURE HAPPINESS"👌👌👌👌👌

  • @rotelco1
    @rotelco1 Před rokem +6

    This is one of the most practical sermon i have ever heard on overcoming grief.

  • @nethmikumburegama7294
    @nethmikumburegama7294 Před rokem +21

    It always feel very peaceful to listen to these videos in this channel. As a buddhist i have listen to many darma deshana. But this channel makes me feel better everytime somehow differently. ♥️නමෝ බුද්ධාය!

  • @rathananaga160
    @rathananaga160 Před rokem +1

    Now no broken heart healing problem,,,,I m strong now

  • @AlrizSusulan
    @AlrizSusulan Před 6 měsíci +1

    times are really tough for me at the moment, it seems and endless pain, sorrow and loneliness that i confront in a daily basis. i just came out from a 10 years Relationship with my wife. thank you so much for this inspiring words teacher. it encourages me to reflect in life that to love is not to be attach nor to own the person that you love. iv learned to forgive and let go, at least ive done my part to fixed things up but as you have said teacher, something are not beyond are control and in life all is impermanent. sending love and comfort to all who have heavy hearts around the world. peace and love in this life journey❤❤❤

  • @puja7776
    @puja7776 Před rokem +5

    An amazing motivational video. Especially the last quote...
    Namo Buddhaya.🙏