4 Small Habits To Improve Self Esteem

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  • čas přidán 30. 09. 2022
  • Self esteem is defined as the degree to which qualities and characteristics inside one’s self-concept are perceived to be positive. In short, it is your opinion of yourself.
    So why is this important? There will be moments that will knock you down and make you give up. They will create doubt and leave you feeling insecure and unmotivated. You may feel like all your ambitions and goals are pointless. But, when you stop believing in yourself, it’s over. Your self-esteem plays a role in your future success. So much so that if you stop believing in yourself, it will be difficult for you to achieve your goals. So here are a few sma;; habits to improve self esteem.
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    References:
    Mayo Clinic Staff. (2020, July 14). 7 steps to boost your self-esteem. Mayo Clinic. Retrieved from www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/self-esteem/art-20045374.
    Reach out Staff. (2021). 10 tips for improving your self-esteem. 10 tips for improving your self-esteem | Confidence | ReachOut Australia. Retrieved from au.reachout.com/articles/10-tips-for-improving-your-self-esteem.
    Steph. (2021, October 17). 5 Ways to Improve Low Self Esteem. @selfcarevisuals. Retrieved from .
    Winch, G. (2017, January 10). 5 ways to build lasting self-esteem. ideas.ted.com. Retrieved from ideas.ted.com/5-ways-to-build-lasting-self-esteem/.

Komentáře • 653

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Před rokem +281

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    • @ArtsyAriaHehe
      @ArtsyAriaHehe Před rokem +9

      No, but thanks for the videos! Helped me with crushes and mental health :)

    • @HarryWilson55896
      @HarryWilson55896 Před rokem +6

      Hello psycho 2 go I don’t know if you will see this but I have this problem it feel like a voice in my head and my brain says what’s the meaning of life maybe learning I’m not to sure or like what if I never clicked on the first link I would’ve never knew that and that like what if thoughts like and like what if I never saw this video what is happening? What is this oh and also but when I found out something I felt calm and a excited feeling in my body thinking I found the secret to like life the advice I can follow

    • @TheIT221
      @TheIT221 Před rokem +7

      You know what’d be a great idea for a video? Covering mental benefits that diaries can give, whether it be personal therapy or memory skills

    • @asrolsiti
      @asrolsiti Před rokem +3

      About scared of dark phobia thing
      or
      Acraphobia (fear of spiders)

    • @tomypower4898
      @tomypower4898 Před rokem

      Oh yes! Yes!

  • @visibletoallusersonyoutube8638
    @visibletoallusersonyoutube8638 Před 6 měsíci +326

    The fact that you looked up / clicked on this video proofs you are aware that you should be more kind to your self and should improve your self image. This awareness is the first step. Be proud of yourself for wanting things to change. Be your best friend! Have a great day guys :)

  • @DaestrumManitz
    @DaestrumManitz Před rokem +944

    Understanding that people have different personality types has given me a whole new perspective on the self-esteem subject. We can’t compare apples to oranges nor our differences as individuals.

    • @TravisGoodman
      @TravisGoodman Před rokem +28

      Totally it’s helpful to understand how different types function in the world and more importantly once you are aware of your own type you can then figure out how to build your own self esteem and view of self.

    • @posieandrosie
      @posieandrosie Před rokem +2

      Exactly ❤

    • @abhijay5144
      @abhijay5144 Před rokem

      @Silver Sun are you referring to MBTI types? :)

    • @Mars-ig3vs
      @Mars-ig3vs Před rokem +3

      I can compare apples and oranges

    • @selena3467
      @selena3467 Před 11 měsíci

      Next time just use F5

  • @ives3572
    @ives3572 Před rokem +436

    "Self-esteem is made up primarily of two things: feeling lovable and feeling capable." - Jack Canfield

    • @someonesomeone25
      @someonesomeone25 Před rokem +9

      And both of these must be evidenced by externals. If other people love me, and others give me recognition for my abilities, I will have esteem. If they do not, then even in the unlikely event I feel esteem ir would be considered an arrogant delusion by others.
      But love and recognition for talent are.not things that everyone can achieve equally. A handsome and highly.intelligent, high status person will get more esteem for less effort than a repulsive poor idiot. On that sense, self-esteem is as much a matter of luck as everything else.

    • @someonesomeone25
      @someonesomeone25 Před rokem +2

      @EzC Fenix Make friends, have a romantic relationship, and get good at something. There's basically no other way.

    • @someonesomeone25
      @someonesomeone25 Před rokem

      @EzC Fenix Form a specific plan.
      To become good at something requires three things:
      1) picking something that it's possible for you to be good at. Some things have hard genetic barriers, like maths or singing or athletics. If you haven't got the right genes you'll never be great at such things. But most things don't have such clear genetic barriers - playing guitar, speaking German, juggling, painting, etc. Find something you can become at.
      2) regular practice. When you've decided what you want to become good at, do it daily for 6months and you'll be much better than most. Do it daily for 5 years and you'll be top percent. Do it daily for 15 years you'll be a master.
      3) mentorship - having good teachers makes you better. Put some effort and money into what you want to be good at and it will pay dividends.
      To make friends also requires a plan:
      1) join at least 4 varied groups, such as a hobby group, sports group, education, religious, political, social, etc. And in that group make sure you speak to everyone and get as many social media contacts as possible. Go regularly and talk to prople regularly.
      2) go to bars and cafes and speak to strangers. Make a habit of doing this weekly. Become a regular at a pub or games shop or cafe. Get to know the staff.
      3) to be personable be confident, well groomed, ask questions and listen twice as much as talking. Smile a lot. Laugh easily.

    • @ItsjustSaddist
      @ItsjustSaddist Před 8 měsíci +2

      I feel none of those

    • @ruskinyruskiny1611
      @ruskinyruskiny1611 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@ItsjustSaddist They are habits of thought and can become our habits by patience and persistance.

  • @aries8597
    @aries8597 Před rokem +1938

    1. Stop comparing yourself to others
    2. Overcome perfectionism
    3. Figure out what you’re good at and develop it
    4. Focus on what you can change and things that are in your control.

    • @TravisGoodman
      @TravisGoodman Před rokem +7

      Yes to all these!

    • @djbond6241
      @djbond6241 Před rokem +4

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    • @RelaxCreatorMary
      @RelaxCreatorMary Před rokem +1

      Wow the first Aries that cares about the others

    • @GeoHuman.
      @GeoHuman. Před rokem +1

      You think this is because of Zodiac signs? -_-

    • @djbond6241
      @djbond6241 Před rokem +1

      Aries WHY DO YOU NOT HAVE ANYTHING ON YOUR CZcams CHANNEL...??

  • @ninasolum8868
    @ninasolum8868 Před rokem +178

    One of my favorite things to do is conversate with people about what it is they are passionate about. To see people's eyes sparkle while indulging me with the details of their passion is so satisfying and informative. People often have near expert level knowledge concerning objects of their affection.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +25

      That's really empowering! It's great to be someone can inspire others by listening to their stories.

    • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
      @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Nicceeee that is so refreshing to know ^_^

  • @rhysowens1
    @rhysowens1 Před 9 měsíci +56

    "The moment you stop believing in yourself, you abandoned hope of success." Truer words have not been said, and what a great message for those struggling.

  • @malaficus
    @malaficus Před 3 měsíci +6

    My favorite thing?
    Probley learning new things.
    Knowledge for the sake of knowing.

  • @anissafrancois
    @anissafrancois Před rokem +1126

    If you’re reading this you’re worth way more then you may believe and you’re never alone 🤍

  • @BubbaBear-oz3sf
    @BubbaBear-oz3sf Před 9 měsíci +25

    Things I like to do in life
    Drawing and making art
    Building Lego Mocs
    Playing competitive games like Splatoon, or Hard video games like Cuphead or Megaman
    And when I try doing those things and never give up, I’ll be alright

  • @fishstick1900
    @fishstick1900 Před rokem +546

    0:35 Stop comparing yourself to others
    1:22 Overcome perfectionism
    2:12 Figure out what you're good at and develop it
    3:06 Focus on what you can change and things that are in your control

    • @djbond6241
      @djbond6241 Před rokem +3

      A FISHSTICK IS IN DA CHAT...

    • @ruskinyruskiny1611
      @ruskinyruskiny1611 Před 2 měsíci

      "Just be kind" Kurt Vonnegut. is a good plan. (To yourself as well as others.)

  • @california816
    @california816 Před rokem +119

    “The minute you stop believing in yourself-you abandon hope of success.”
    Jesus. I needed to hear that. Thank you, ma’am.

  • @allstar965
    @allstar965 Před rokem +26

    This couldn’t have come at a better time, Psych2Go. You have no idea how much I enjoy your videos. After a stressful day I love to watch them. It helps me understand my problems better and I consider it a self care activity

  • @tejasbhoyar1704
    @tejasbhoyar1704 Před rokem +3

    I usually watch your videos because your voice is very comforting to me. It feels like you're hugging me and telling me everything is going to be okay through your voice.

  • @youtubecommentergal4346
    @youtubecommentergal4346 Před rokem +51

    Baby steps for sure and I'm glad for this channel shining a light and helping people get through mental health struggles without feeling ashamed about it. 😊

  • @victoriabungart4330
    @victoriabungart4330 Před rokem +6

    The things I enjoy doing are being in nature, reading, writing, talking to my friends and sister, making beaded jewelry, being around cats, cooking, shopping, and watching movies and television

    • @ruskinyruskiny1611
      @ruskinyruskiny1611 Před 2 měsíci

      Martin Luther King thought the most important thing we can ask ourselves is "What am i doing for others" others ,of course includes animals.

  • @sofienasiha954
    @sofienasiha954 Před rokem +29

    Overcoming petfectionism is the tool I needed today. Thanks a lot !!!

  • @vince065us.2
    @vince065us.2 Před rokem +8

    I add to the list: Be yourself, and you,are your only competition.

  • @cant_draw
    @cant_draw Před rokem +119

    I love this! I've been struggling with my self esteem lately, this has been so helpful to watch.

    • @TravisGoodman
      @TravisGoodman Před rokem +3

      Yes very helpful video!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +10

      Glad this video can be helpful. What are your main takeaways from this video?

    • @cant_draw
      @cant_draw Před rokem +12

      @@Psych2go
      1) Don't let other peoples accomplishments get you down about yours, do YOUR best.
      2) set yourself reasonable goals.
      3) grow in areas that you enjoy.
      4) identify your worries, don't get caught up in your unproductive worry.

    • @TravisGoodman
      @TravisGoodman Před rokem +2

      @@Psych2go you had very practical steps to work on it which is always helpful to have some tangible takeaways. As a therapist, I always balance education with practical applications.

    • @elizabethanna6816
      @elizabethanna6816 Před rokem +1

      I had adhd and I struggled a lot with my peers till I began micro dosing and it has helped me a lot. You should consider it

  • @LtRee96se
    @LtRee96se Před rokem +24

    1. Stop comparing yourself- Instead of telling us to stop, tell us how to stop. Give us some ideas that we can use to stop comparing ourselves. I've compared myself with my brother since the beginning of time. How can I stop? It's like telling me how to breath different. Help me stop. 2. Perfectionism- we can overcome that for your four reasons. It is hard to figure out "reasonable goals". Allowing room for mistakes? My whole life seems one mistake after another. But, that's just life. Some things I do right and can get a sense of accomplishment and pride. 3. Find what you are good at and developed it. Okay, that one I have done to some extent. I make and sell polymer Dragons and jewelry. I am a good friend, so I have been told. I am loyal to my friends. I am going to start learning to crochet. It's just that I don't seem to be good at much. But I am trying. 4. Focus on the things you can change- Things in my control. I can focus on the things I want to do better. But my depression makes me see that it is so much work that I'd rather go back to bed. I'm working on this one. Wow! I have never heard about Productive Worry. That I can use against depression. Thank you for that one. Boy, I really needed this episode. I have so little self-esteem, but I have been working on this point-negative self-talk. I frequently call myself names in my mind. I am working on not doing that for 1 hour. I will increase that when I have success.

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml Před rokem +4

      I hope soon you will see what a great person you are

    • @LtRee96se
      @LtRee96se Před rokem

      @@hnnhml Thank you. I wish I could.

    • @roberttruman8444
      @roberttruman8444 Před rokem +5

      Pay attention to those you're comparing yourself with, and take note of their mistakes and signs of imperfection (everybody's got them). Or try some good old fashioned empathy. Sometimes the success you see in them comes at a great price that you don't know. My oldest friend appears to have it all, the wealth, the confidence, beautiful wife, house, holidays, marathon runs etc. In truth he's unable to stop himself from working and has an unhealthy addiction to money, he can't allow any part of his day to be controlled by anyone other than himself, he can only sustain surface level friendships, he always longed for his dad's approval and found out in his 40s that he was 'donor conceived', he is unable to do the basic domestic duties e.g. can't cook/clean/wash clothes, unable to empathise, sexless marriage to a willing wife who is only starting to realise that he never wanted children and lied about his plans all along.
      He still desperately needs his father's approval and tries to fill the void by seeking admiration from people he doesn't know and doesn't need in his life. The traits that have made him successful are also detrimental to him. For me to enjoy his success would come at the cost of my identity, and I'm not gonna find another one like that anywhere else!

    • @leonardomotta1143
      @leonardomotta1143 Před rokem +3

      I call myself names all the time too. I’ll try to do what you do and everytime I do it, I’ll say something nice to myself as well. Thanks for that one

    • @LtRee96se
      @LtRee96se Před rokem +2

      @@leonardomotta1143 Don't stop trying. That would be a "win" for the person who called you names in the first place. And hang in there! I've got your back. Only truly decent people ever try to change for the better. So, you are one of them!!!!

  • @Drnken229
    @Drnken229 Před rokem +6

    I love this channel so much, it helps me a lot to find my way back to a normal life and how to properly live

  • @chriss.249
    @chriss.249 Před rokem +7

    Pre watch: Back in 2019 when i felt like utter GARBAGE, my secretary gave me a little tip that helped me grow and change. Heres what she said:
    Every morning when u wake up, look at yourself in the mirror and verbally tell yourself 5 personality traits u have that u love. Not physical traits, but personality traits. It can be the same 5 at 1st, but overtime? Aim to find new ones. Not going to lie, the 1st couple days/weeks its going to be TOUGH, but the journey of 1,000 miles begins with a single step. And arent u worth putting in the effort for?
    One of the BEST pieces of advice ive ever gotten. It made me more self reflective. Whenever I said something harsh or like i didnt intend, i could catch myself, realize what i did wrong, think of who i wanted to be in that situation, and change it to what i MEANT to truly say. U pick up on things about yourself much better. As well as feel more complete.
    I swear i wish she was around when i graduated so i couldve hugged her and told her how thankful i was for her kind words💯
    I hope this advice manages to help someone else one day. Gotta pass it forward and give someone else a chance👍🏾💪🏾

    • @elizabethwarman9028
      @elizabethwarman9028 Před rokem +1

      Still working on that. I am 65, and still not able to talk to myself in the mirror.

    • @m488thunderbird3
      @m488thunderbird3 Před rokem

      All of this feel like an untended sequel to Unus Annus. Markiplier’s series

  • @jadareneel932
    @jadareneel932 Před 7 měsíci +10

    This is very helpful. I’ve been struggling with perfectionism and convincing myself confidence is narcissism. I was raised by narcissists. So, my contradictory behaviors are over-powering me.

    • @BloomzMember
      @BloomzMember Před 6 měsíci

      Now you're aware ...
      Things will change, for the better, for you.
      🕊✌️🦋

  • @flamegamer3424
    @flamegamer3424 Před rokem +6

    I’ve been having a hard time of what to do with myself, but with these tips, I can find a way to boost my self esteem and have motivation to do anything.

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml Před rokem +1

      You can do it 🙌🏻

  • @imanabdullahi3298
    @imanabdullahi3298 Před rokem +115

    Great video. Can you do unnoticed/hidden signs of low self esteem? It can manifest in so many different ways, like too flexible OR rigid boundaries for example.

    • @imanabdullahi3298
      @imanabdullahi3298 Před rokem +4

      I know you already made some good low self esteem videos, but you mainly covered the typical signs, but there’s a lot more signs than just those.

    • @TravisGoodman
      @TravisGoodman Před rokem +1

      How do you experience those hidden signs?

    • @imanabdullahi3298
      @imanabdullahi3298 Před rokem +12

      @@TravisGoodman When I say “hidden” I mean signs that aren’t obvious to others, but can still point to self esteem issues. Like being controlling for example.

    • @TravisGoodman
      @TravisGoodman Před rokem +3

      @@imanabdullahi3298 Oh gotcha! A good question to ask about behaviors is to go behind and dig into their purpose, what they are trying to achieve, gain, etc.

    • @imanabdullahi3298
      @imanabdullahi3298 Před rokem +1

      @@TravisGoodman Yes, true

  • @vault1390
    @vault1390 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you for the video! The thing I enjoy the most is doing art. I was amazed by how I could put the worlds inside my head right into a paper and that's why I neevr stopped drawing. However after making the decision to turn it into a career I have been more aware of my peers that are so much better than me, the peers that will apply to the same unis as me. I have been drawing just to fill my portfolio as well and I believe these elements are making me forget the reason I like art, lowering my self esteem and raising my insecurities. I hope in the end I will be able to turn my passion into a career. Hope all of you do what you enjoy too!! have a good day/night!

  • @adelekeabraham8179
    @adelekeabraham8179 Před rokem +10

    I just needed to hear this. And I won't give up on myself.

  • @wisteriaonthem00n
    @wisteriaonthem00n Před rokem +3

    My favorite things to do are art and writing. I can just let my creativity flow because I really do have a rich imagination and even though I struggle sometimes, it's still really calming and makes me happy.

  • @leydamorante
    @leydamorante Před 2 měsíci +3

    about a month ago,i was involved in a traumatic accident that left me shocked even to this day. i felt like i lost a crucial part of myself. im afraid,anxious,angry,and worried about things. i used to be fearless and daring,now i feel stuck. i have been feeling like my mental state has declined despite me doing incredible progress this past year. like my therapist said “it’s not a step back but progress on its own”. i feel like getting back into the world and becoming a better person for myself . the thing that keeps me going is that I have went through worst and was victorious,i am determined to not be my old self but a better self.

    • @Riri-ju3jb
      @Riri-ju3jb Před měsícem

      Cheer up! You'll be okay

    • @janvishah4336
      @janvishah4336 Před 2 dny

      You will be okay and I hope you are okay. ❤️

  • @drinasun6984
    @drinasun6984 Před rokem +11

    Thank you for sharing this! I dealt with low self-esteem in my childhood and adolescence.

  • @StardustAvenger
    @StardustAvenger Před rokem +16

    This week I had my first session with my therapist and whilst I'm still not 100% sure about it I can ses this will be a step in the right direction

    • @trucktierz8216
      @trucktierz8216 Před rokem +2

      We all have our lowest days but remembers there’s no such things as bad days without good days take time for yourself and improve the minor mistakes that happens throughout your life im pretty sure you find purpose one day 😊

    • @TravisGoodman
      @TravisGoodman Před rokem

      Yes one step at a time!

  • @hazy.cosmic.jive.
    @hazy.cosmic.jive. Před rokem +8

    i’ve been needing this for so long, thank you so much!! also, could you please make a video with tips on how to get of a manipulative relationship? i’m pretty sure i’m in one and don’t know how to get out

  • @princessalli2466
    @princessalli2466 Před rokem +2

    I’m actually glad I found this video! My counselor said that I have a low self-esteem so I am trying to work on it.

  • @wynettemukosera2680
    @wynettemukosera2680 Před rokem +3

    Great work psych2go!! One needs to focus on making themselves better and avoid comparisons especially what is influenced by social media

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq Před rokem +12

    Thank you so much for this video, I really needed to hear this advice today.

  • @isha1195
    @isha1195 Před rokem +4

    I do love challenges, and testing how far i could go, i know i have so many things to develop in my character and i am enjoying every single tasks to do in a day, i am passionate on continues learning and at this age of 20 im practicing a strong sense of self in having a strong sense of responsibility as a preparation to difficult adulthood, i know there's still alot to learn so let's keep on carrying on

    • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
      @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Hey, that's great to know that you're willing to take on challenges that will gradually build you as an individual who (I'm assuming) is ready to make sacrifices and endure potential obstacles in order to embrace the next phase of your life and how you choose to live life. Based on my experiences in my early 20s, it was fun in many ways, but I've realized that the older I've gotten...the more I believe that challenging yourself to do certain tasks is important to an extent - but not worth the sacrifice if it doesn't feel right. And as somebody who's been rejected by peers, past friends, and colleagues; they really don't have the influence on me (like I used to think) but it actually has helped make me a stronger, wiser, and knowledgeable person and in regard to whatever challenges come your way; I wish you the best of luck and highest level of success that is within your realm. I'm sure whatever you put your mind to, you'll do great things! There will probably be a lot of ups and downs, but realize that even if achieving something is difficult; it's not impossible either. Blessings 🙏

  • @youngd4ys274
    @youngd4ys274 Před rokem +3

    You seriously help a lot. I am just a kid in middle school that struggles a lot with self esteem and self confidence. These videos state all my problems for me to fix with a solution.

    • @noahdoesstuff3193
      @noahdoesstuff3193 Před 10 měsíci

      I was too I have been working out and playing sports as well as talking to and seeing friends now I am about to begin highschool feeling a lot better.

  • @imanarxzzeff993
    @imanarxzzeff993 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I just wanna be friends with the owner of this voice , I feel like you're a very wholesome person to be around

  • @deannal.newton9772
    @deannal.newton9772 Před rokem +9

    This is good because I'm always hard on myself if I don't do things the right way or a mistake or even not get the results I thought would happen even if I did do everything right. I guess I have low self-esteem because I've been rejected multiple times and have been told to leave them alone or wonder why I'm even talking to them. So I only talk to people if they talk to me first because I don't want to be a bother or come across as annoying or a desperate attention seeker.

    • @shobayoelizabeth2180
      @shobayoelizabeth2180 Před rokem +1

      This is so me. And till date, I still find it difficult to make friends.

  • @chojin6136
    @chojin6136 Před rokem +6

    Focusing on things I can change is the biggest problem I have right now, because so little actually seems to be in my control

  • @mangarajatyangsa
    @mangarajatyangsa Před měsícem

    OMG Unproductive worry and Productive worry, THAT'S HELPFUL, thank you so much, now thats unproductive mindset can put on my self, and focusing on the productive one

  • @Feilili
    @Feilili Před 5 dny

    I love learning about various topics. Mostly surface level but I go extra deep if it interests me like psychology, cooking, and gaming.

  • @user-mu3iy8fq3d
    @user-mu3iy8fq3d Před 6 měsíci

    This video provided profound insights into boosting self-esteem. Learning about self-praise and the importance of gratitude truly inspired me to cultivate a positive outlook on life.

  • @andykolte5613
    @andykolte5613 Před rokem +3

    I am struggling with self esteem since many years. Lots of love. This video is helpful and amazing.

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml Před rokem

      I hope some day you’ll see how great you actually are 💜

  • @dhiegov
    @dhiegov Před rokem

    thank you guys so much, love your vids!, this one def. going in my p2g favorites playlist to revisit later

  • @jetzgehtsloos4829
    @jetzgehtsloos4829 Před rokem +2

    I love music and writing. Im great at writing, too.

  • @MissDoreen
    @MissDoreen Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video on low self-esteem. I’ve always had trouble with self-esteem and self-confidence issues. May I suggest doing a video on how to show yourself self compassion

  • @atticusvines
    @atticusvines Před 6 měsíci +1

    Everybody out there struggling with something that makes them feel low and not worth of anything. I love you and hope you find peace in your life, we are all brothers and i wish the best for you stay with me i have been very close to giving up many times but theres a reason i keep getting back up❤️

  • @akmanticore421
    @akmanticore421 Před rokem +22

    Personally, i like story telling. There’s nothing more fulfilling to me than creating an entire fictional world with characters and what fuels their motivations. And more so i like exploring the reasons behind said motivations and what led to these aspects of a character forming

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +2

      Lovely!

    • @LtRee96se
      @LtRee96se Před rokem +2

      Keep story telling. You can write a book with that talent!!

  • @percubit10
    @percubit10 Před 3 měsíci

    I have been restelss and been living in fear and anxiety. I always strive for exceleence. I find meaning in doing what I need to do for myself. I used to do that. I loved music and art and science and productive life.

  • @MissDoreen
    @MissDoreen Před 4 měsíci

    I generally enjoy, helping others, and being of service, and helping in anyway, that I can to make others feel better about themselves❤😊 My intention is to show my self, self compassion so that I can have a greater understanding of self compassion for others in the world😊

  • @michaelyeary828
    @michaelyeary828 Před 7 měsíci +1

    My favorite thing is to help others grow because I see myself in them when they progress I feel like I progress but I will say there has been a gap lately it’s like Ive had this separation of self and others which can be good in it’s own right but it has left me less passionate, so I’m taking a break from it for awhile I want to find that fire again I want to find the new me

  • @TheGreatCrow
    @TheGreatCrow Před rokem

    I enjoy gardening and nature! I garden using native plants to help the local wildlife, which I love to observe

  • @oheybom
    @oheybom Před 2 měsíci

    those 4 qualities of a perfectionist is so accurate, thanks for helping

  • @harreshh9803
    @harreshh9803 Před rokem +2

    Thank you so much for this video✨🥺

  • @mrladnek
    @mrladnek Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing this one. It really makes sense. It will definitely help a lot.

  • @zenica2k1
    @zenica2k1 Před rokem

    That was really helpful. When i hear your voice, i feel like you're good friend of mine.. Your voice is so soothing ❤️

  • @isha1195
    @isha1195 Před rokem

    In order to have and build any capabilities and life skills you must really need to put yourself into the world where you realize you must come from an intentional living,being connected to yourself,and having the courage to take the action for what contributes to your growth and strengths, killing habits that pull you down, being mindful and helping yourself every step of the way

  • @jameslast3192
    @jameslast3192 Před rokem

    Thanks. Your voice is very kind and calming. The info is very helpful too❤.

  • @darkstorm08
    @darkstorm08 Před rokem +2

    Knowing that not just my self that everyone had character flaws helped learn to accept that I can't follow someone's blueprint for an easy life....
    I need to become a blackprint, forge my own template and navigate my own way... Though hard and sad at times... Becoming.... Is the goal

  • @rodrigorocharsr3721
    @rodrigorocharsr3721 Před rokem

    As my understanding and perspective at the moment, I think I need more "me time". I'm always surrounded by people, don't get me wrong It's not necessarily a bad thing. But I feel in need to take a journey to hear, understand and release myself...

  • @ananyarao3024
    @ananyarao3024 Před 2 měsíci

    Love the soothing voice and the crisp content of course 💯

  • @YeeWhoEnterHere
    @YeeWhoEnterHere Před 6 měsíci

    For me it's remembering what I am good.at after decades of practice I am already good enough at art and poetry. Getting therapy and keeping tabs on my self talk. Healing so that I can succeed in life and help others.

    • @ruskinyruskiny1611
      @ruskinyruskiny1611 Před 2 měsíci

      The only thing you should worry about being good at is being kind to others (including animals). This means being patient with others, understanding of others , forgiving (but wary) of others. Read Martin Luther King and Gandhi for encouragement.

  • @johannaisabellaleyva9236

    Baking and painting brings me the most sense of purpose. I feel like I’m good at these things, but I have trouble keeping up practice😅

  • @TheDreamingThinker
    @TheDreamingThinker Před 10 měsíci +1

    After watching this I understood I was a perfectionist and that was the reason for my low self esteem..

  • @mizu6970
    @mizu6970 Před rokem +1

    I enjoy photography and drawing
    I draw a lot and often take pictures of scenery I find nice!

  • @nick27march
    @nick27march Před rokem

    My way of perception has changed.Now days I try to listen to people,understand them and then act accordingly.Don't judge, someone taught me.Never judge someone of their disabilities coz you may be one of them.

  • @gamingpro17
    @gamingpro17 Před rokem

    Your such a legend uploading at night to help us thanks allot! Stay safe! 👍😃

  • @kosmitkau3u401
    @kosmitkau3u401 Před rokem +3

    Thanks to this channel I was able to diagnose myself with depression and im trying my best to get better, thank you so much

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml Před rokem

      I hope you get better soon 💗

    • @ruskinyruskiny1611
      @ruskinyruskiny1611 Před 2 měsíci

      Avoid watching TV/Radio news to much. 20 mins a day is enough. Understand what is behind all the bad news (usually greedy persons) and work at improving the lot of those near you and far away. "Be versed in action (good deeds) yet try to remain unaffected by your actions" Gandhi.

  • @socialglitch2663
    @socialglitch2663 Před 6 měsíci

    This is a helpful video, thank you. Particularly the bit about perfectionism, which is something I grapple with.

  • @randomguy9511
    @randomguy9511 Před rokem +26

    I enjoyed the video. I've struggled with self-esteem for as long as I can remember. I've gotten better at it in recent years, but there's always room for improvement:)

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +2

      What was the most consistent habit that helped you cultivate positive self esteem?

    • @randomguy9511
      @randomguy9511 Před rokem +6

      @@Psych2go A few things. Acknowledging the problem has been a big help. Then I can actively work on it. I've been doing a lot if reading/research on mental health to get more info. A lot of it has been retraining my thought process to not be so negative. And when I am having a "bad day", I know it's just that, and focus on stuff that make me happy to help get through it. A favorite show, music, friends whatever I think will help. Plus, just getting older and "wiser"-ish. Lol. Thanks for asking. And thanks for the videos. They have been a helpful resource as well:)

    • @tomypower4898
      @tomypower4898 Před rokem +1

      Yes longer works with new character models. Also apparently the actual name of the object (starting with a B) isn't allowed.

    • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
      @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Před 9 měsíci +1

      ​@@randomguy9511and to reiterate what you explained - I've had a lot of similar experiences myself - and believe me; it's not fun. But I also believe that one major aspect of life we all struggle to cope with is ACCEPTANCE: meaning that we don't always have to be happy with every little choice we make or second guess ourselves to the point where it drives us crazy....however I think the rhetoric we set for ourselves as individuals is a big aspect of developing and maintaining reasonable self-esteem (which I've never always have been the best with). And as somebody who's a sports fan and tries to have a strong awareness of issues that affect us all on a socioeconomic, sociopolitical, and sociocultural level; I believe that acknowledging any triggers related to what I briefly described is necessary for getting along but at the same time - appreciating the skills you (that us all) were blessed with, and not always worrying what others think. Having some sort of bias or validation is important depending on your situation; but even more important that you have resources to work with even if your self-esteem is far from perfect. If I'm wrong in this instance, then it can only make me work harder and feel stronger on the inside knowing I at least put in a genuine effort to spread awareness.
      Blessings as well 🙏

  • @haboondegan-xt1qi
    @haboondegan-xt1qi Před 5 měsíci

    Thanks for your help❤❤❤
    I enjoy cooking , drawing and IT

  • @02alangkritaborah15
    @02alangkritaborah15 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you for the video! Your voice is really soothing to hear. 🥰

  • @safakhadem6294
    @safakhadem6294 Před rokem +8

    Really needed this one

  • @trans-serif
    @trans-serif Před rokem +2

    my self esteem has always been atrocious and while i can't confirm or deny the effectiveness of these tips i'll definitely try some of these out
    on another note i just realized how close you are to 10 mil subs rn

    • @ruskinyruskiny1611
      @ruskinyruskiny1611 Před 2 měsíci

      You thought patterns are habits they can be changed by patience and persistance.

  • @andrexbeta2575
    @andrexbeta2575 Před měsícem

    I am 32 years old and i feel myself at the bottom of a pit, everyone around me, even my little brother who was just like me managed to improve, and that only hit me even harder.

  • @endlesswonderland205
    @endlesswonderland205 Před rokem +25

    0:36 Stop comparing yourself to others
    1:23 Overcome perfectionism
    2:13 Figure out what you're good at and develop it
    3:07 Focus on what you can change and things that are in your control
    Thank you Psych2go :)) 🤍

  • @lapotencodelamenso4654
    @lapotencodelamenso4654 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this. It reminds me as well to be strong for myself😄

  • @Imari3
    @Imari3 Před rokem +4

    Oooh I love my hero academia reference!!! And the baby plant in diaper is way too adorable!! You guys are awesome!!! Thank you for this one as well. 🥹

  • @awuraama927
    @awuraama927 Před rokem

    I enjoy singing and doing home decors. Also love helping others but i always turns out pleasing them instead of helping them

  • @jcwt_pdx
    @jcwt_pdx Před rokem

    I enjoy sketching and looking at fine art books. 💜

  • @stephaniealvessantos9332

    This was really helpful. Thank you ❤

  • @haithamnabil88
    @haithamnabil88 Před měsícem

    I LOVE THIS VIDEO, Short, Simple & straight to the point. Its beneficial more than the 2 Hours motivational videos 😂😂😂

  • @celliaputri6658
    @celliaputri6658 Před rokem

    Finally! I really need this! Thank youu

  • @DanyTheExoticDoll
    @DanyTheExoticDoll Před rokem +17

    ~Amazing advices! I really hated the feeling of being judged of who I am... it makes my self esteem low but I will try to think of positive ways its not just me it's everyone else that has similar issues!😅

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před rokem +2

      That's great that you have a strong mindset!

    • @roberttruman8444
      @roberttruman8444 Před rokem +1

      I've struggled with this feeling of getting judged for so many years. It's really debilitating. What's crazy is that I do believe that nobody is qualified to judge, yet it has still plagued me for much of my life.

    • @EmbraceTheStruggle24
      @EmbraceTheStruggle24 Před 9 měsíci +1

      ​@@roberttruman8444wow that's deep whoever you are...
      Blessings 🙏

  • @pepethefrog8759
    @pepethefrog8759 Před rokem +1

    I swear you post the right video at the right time! 😭

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml Před rokem +1

      I hope you feel better soon 🤍

  • @arcalite7635
    @arcalite7635 Před rokem

    I have low self esteem since childhood and now it is very to overcame it
    Thanks for the video

  • @thedreamer3089
    @thedreamer3089 Před rokem

    I enjoy doing music and I've now created 9,270 compositions. Even though this is the case, I still have trouble with finding motivation to continue because I'm struggling with a deep depression. My hope for trying to get in the industry is lacking but all I want so badly is for people to hear the beautiful music and continue to be touched by it.

  • @ralphshadow
    @ralphshadow Před 3 měsíci

    What I enjoy most in life is playing a card game. Growing up my parents were always worried about me playing sports bc I would get hurt. So, playing card games help me test my mind and improve my critical thinking skills. I enjoy critical thinking and the aftermath of accomplishing a difficult scenario is worth it.

  • @itsyourgirlnicole761
    @itsyourgirlnicole761 Před 10 měsíci

    I will definitely try this tips thank you so much you are the best.

  • @gurnoorchadha1434
    @gurnoorchadha1434 Před 10 měsíci

    Your channel is a saviour for many people ❤

  • @user-sd5ne9gf7b
    @user-sd5ne9gf7b Před rokem

    I would really suggest adding chapter to every videos from now on that would be very helpful

  • @thebluebeyond2329
    @thebluebeyond2329 Před rokem +5

    I have no idea what lm good at 😂😂

  • @valeriebwilliams701
    @valeriebwilliams701 Před měsícem

    My Grandparents raised us not to compare, but to be thankful and seekers of goodness. 🙏🏽

  • @gAm3r_GuRl984
    @gAm3r_GuRl984 Před rokem

    Your videos always come at the right time

  • @kemigisavictoria7285
    @kemigisavictoria7285 Před 11 měsíci

    Love offering guidance when asked to do so

  • @sebastiaanstok
    @sebastiaanstok Před rokem +1

    'Compare Yourself To Who You Were Yesterday, Not To Who Someone Else Is Today'
    From '12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos' by Jordan B. Peterson
    This is how to you can stop comparing yourself to others, take inspiration from others sure. But you can compare yourself to someone who has a completely different life experience, genetics, etc. The differences are to major to make any real equation possible, on saying also here "If you met one person who is [race/gender, age, language, etc]. You met one person who is [...]."
    Labels and category don't work either here as you would have to make too many intersections, and each label takes one part of a bigger whole into consideration but cannot on itself be used to identify a single person as too many also have this label and many other labels as well.

  • @JL-re1rx
    @JL-re1rx Před 3 měsíci

    Well done. Thanks for sharing

  • @Snowman794
    @Snowman794 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for this, I think this is going to help me a lot 🤓

  • @pervfox
    @pervfox Před rokem +6

    Thank you👏