When Things Go Wrong in the Philippines/The Real 90 Day Fiancée Story

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  • When Things Go Wrong in the Philippines/The Real 90 Day Fiancée Story‪@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234‬ I Interview my friend who had to stay for 6 months in Manila before she was able to travel to the United States to be with her Fiancé

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  • @MrSridharMurthy
    @MrSridharMurthy Před rokem +27

    Lovely conversation! The lady is bright and intelligent. Paul looks really 5 years younger than before radiant, alive, and kicking! Way to go!

    • @steverunswithscissors
      @steverunswithscissors Před rokem +6

      Being happily married and living a low stress life has a lot to do with it.

  • @robertpiekarski6115
    @robertpiekarski6115 Před rokem +16

    Her analysis of the US is spot on. In fact when I moved to the PH, my stress level went to 0. ( except for driving here). And even her analysis of the snow situation (I came from Colorado) is also spot on. Great interview!!! Congrats to you and Baby Mae as well (and Tada).

  • @henrycohen1910
    @henrycohen1910 Před rokem +15

    Paul, the same thing happened to my wife. I was back in the states and we decided to for her to go over on a fiancee visa. She put the paper work together(very efficient woman) and when she had her physical a spot was found on her lung. She had to go back to manila every week for two months to be tested. She finally cleared and flew over. Towards the end of the 90 days we married and were in the process of putting the paper work together for my visa and making flight reservations when covid hit, this was 2019. Finally by September 2021 we left the states for the Philippines. The flight here is another story.

  • @ivanmiller383
    @ivanmiller383 Před rokem +9

    I must tell you, you have done of absolutely perfect job of interviewing her and asking the right common sense questions. And she gave succinct clear answers. You both did a great job! I must add, some thing that pisses me off about my fellow Americans Is that many think a huge age difference is perversion, and yet they will act as if two men crawling into bed is normal. It’s a sick society that feels that way

  • @getbusydrizzy5296
    @getbusydrizzy5296 Před rokem +3

    I APPRECIATE HER HONESTY.

  • @ronjclm8590
    @ronjclm8590 Před rokem +11

    Great Interview ! Lovely lady ! America is a Hamster Wheel. Big Business encourages consumerism. Buy, buy, buy !!! As a small business owner, I felt like I needed to spend the money in my business, or send the money to the government. Money saved was money depreciating. Now, at 69.5 years old, I still have a tool & equipment addiction. My brain still thinks I'm 35, but my ass is almost 70.

    • @brianasamuels
      @brianasamuels Před rokem +2

      I think we may be twins..

    • @ronjclm8590
      @ronjclm8590 Před rokem +1

      @@brianasamuels There are millions of us. All by design...

    • @steveky7829
      @steveky7829 Před měsícem

      I'm 69. Since I tore my knee up, I've slowed down on buying tools...

  • @ragjamrock
    @ragjamrock Před rokem +16

    A warning that the United States is not for everyone. Making sure you have a plan in place in case she's not happy here is important. Are you prepared to retire in the Philippines? Good interview Paul!🏝️

    • @HiPlayerProdigy
      @HiPlayerProdigy Před rokem +1

      I'd say you'd need enough money to take care of her otherwise it isn't worth it. Let her be a Stay at Home wife

    • @GreaseWood-px4gk
      @GreaseWood-px4gk Před rokem

      Every part of the US is different...it's a puzzle.

  • @jbuzzy
    @jbuzzy Před rokem +4

    Paul, another great interview. Lazell was a delight.Very insightful, entertaining and funny interview.

  • @eBag944
    @eBag944 Před rokem +14

    The Philippines is a good country to live when you have money to live without working and or lazy to work. The USA is a good country to live if you want to work, earn money, save, and come back to the Philippines to live happily ever after. That's the fact.

  • @DikaMo
    @DikaMo Před rokem +2

    Pleasant interview from your guest Old dog…She delivered a honest perspective in my view. Great interview Old Dog… 👈🏿

  • @marconeyu
    @marconeyu Před rokem +1

    Paul, thanks for doing this! She's an absolute darling! And she could not have defined the working class any better! When she said something like "you have to work just to pay the bills" she was spot on!

    • @33afterM
      @33afterM Před rokem

      but don't they have to do that over in the Philippines as well? I don't understand the difference. Not arguing, I just don't understand.

    • @marconeyu
      @marconeyu Před rokem

      @@33afterM Yes, that sentiment applies everywhere in general. The difference is that, I think, in Asian countries like the Philippines they are very tight-knit families often living together as (very!) large, extended families and they look out for each other. It's a "collective" support system, whereas, in the US, it's mostly the individual esp. if you moved here like in this case as a fiance/spouse, pretty much a two-member household where you really feel the sting of it, I think that's what Lizel is talking about.

  • @chrism4008
    @chrism4008 Před rokem +6

    I agree about the snow. I hate living somewhere that gets so cold that it can kill me.
    The dry air in winter definitely causes bloody nose. For me it makes my skin so dry that my knuckles split open just using them normally
    Philippina's seem so incredibly pleasant to be around. Id really like to visit one day, hopefully i can go there before i retire, maybe in a couple years

  • @RatFink-nr5td
    @RatFink-nr5td Před rokem +38

    Well done Paul. The young lady was charming, intelligent and quite funny. My Indonesian wife loved our trips to the US, mainly because she knew we were only going to stay for the holiday visits with my family. But, we did have a major trip to show her the major locations of the US. She was happy to have seen them, recorded it for showing her friends and family, including the snow. But, no way we will leave our beautiful home in Jakarta. Happy, retired and loving my family in Indonesia!

  • @marlenepineda1079
    @marlenepineda1079 Před rokem +5

    That is the way of life here in America. We work hard to make a living to a better future. Life still good. USA is the best country. Mabuhay and God Bless. Good interview po. Born in the Philippines, raised in the US.

  • @RonKris
    @RonKris Před rokem +7

    I had a friend in the same situation. He decided to take his fiancee' to another doctor (but still affiliated with St. Lukes's) for an second diagnosis. The second doctor said his fiancee' did not have TB. The second doctor did a chest x-ray and a second PPD. Both neg. St. Lukes's refused to accept the second diagnosis. His fiancee' had to suffer through 6 months of this torture. She finally arrive in the US. Both were happy.

    • @jjohnsengraciesmom
      @jjohnsengraciesmom Před rokem

      Can they be sued for malpractice?

    • @RonKris
      @RonKris Před rokem +1

      @@jjohnsengraciesmom The whole PH medical exam procedures should be revamped, IMHO. First, the only place to get the Medical is St. Luke's. There needs to be other facilities available in different parts of the PH. Second, if a TB diagnosis is shown to be wrong, then there should be some form of appeal. I'm not sure, but I'm betting either the misdiagnosis of TB is on purpose *for some financial gain* or their testing procedures are flawed. There are false + for TB. As far as suing, I'm not sure if it is possible.
      I worked in the medical field and we were required to have a PPD every year. Some of my co-workers would test + everytime even though the chest x-ray was -. The PPD can have false +. Seems St. Lukes's does not understand this or does not care.
      I've considered St. Lukes uses this as a "See, we're catching all these TB applicants...aren't we doing good, USCIS?"

    • @johndoh5182
      @johndoh5182 Před rokem

      @@jjohnsengraciesmom Judy, you are asking about suing an organizational structure set up to allow Filipinos to come into the US. Think that over carefully and what would the repercussions be.
      Can a couple sue a specific doctor in the Philippines who's working in conjunction with the US govt at St. Lukes, who does all the medical screening for allowing people to stay in the US? My first answer would be no, you cannot. And then I get to, would you WANT to? And once again I get to, no you would not. And the third point would be, did a false diagnosis cause REAL physical harm to the person undergoing the treatment, and once again I get to, most likely not.
      Was it a pain in the ASS? CERTAINLY. Did it add to that couple's expense? CERTAINLY. Do you want to sue for compensation when the US govt would just make the process more expensive if they have to deal with a lot of lawsuits? Or, they make it much harder to deal with medical screenings?
      Sometimes it's best to deal with the hassles and accept it, rather than fighting a case where the outcome is hundreds of thousands to a few million people have a much harder time because of the outcome of that lawsuit.
      And I would say the same thing is true in the US where too many states allow outlandish awards for lawsuits, mostly against business. Who is REALLY going to get punished depending on the outcome of that lawsuit? Typically it's consumers.
      Now, SHOULD St. Lukes allow for a 2nd opinion to be considered over the doctors working directly with them? That's a tough question to answer. I would say sure, as the expense of the couple seeking the 2nd opinion because I'm not going to bash the doctors at St. Lukes because I think just like anywhere in the world they do the best they can and aren't looking to torture people. My wife had to go through that process and it was quick and easy, as it is for almost all Filipinos working through that system. If I remember it was two days, one where she had a bunch of testing and bloodwork done AND getting vaccines to be up to date on what the US requires, and the 2nd day to get the results of everything and given her medical clearance.

    • @johndoh5182
      @johndoh5182 Před rokem

      @@RonKris My only problem with everything you said is
      "Seems St. Lukes's does not understand this or does not care."
      I don't see the justification in making that statement. I think St. Lukes has to trust the people who work with them to make many hundreds of thousands of diagnosis every year.
      I think allowing 2nd opinions in sets up a situation to where the whole medical process gets more expensive and more time consuming, and the whole thing of lawsuits would open up that whole process of getting very expensive.
      I think in general these doctors do the job they're trained to do, I don't think anything is done out of ill will, and it has to run as efficiently as possible as all medical systems have to around the world.
      And at the end of the day, a 2nd opinion is still a 2nd opinion from a person who isn't being paid to do that job of screening people to get a VISA to live in the US, so it gets to whose opinion are you going to take. And the only good way I see around that one is to give all the results to another doctor at St. Lukes who is responsible for these screenings, and let them decide if St. Lukes is going to validate that 2nd opinion.
      As far as the process of allowing people into the US, that's the business of the PH and the U.S. If they want to take on the expense of allowing another embassy to do processing, that's fine and if they do that it should be from central or southern PH, but I don't think I would agree with changing how they run that process, part of which is a political process.

    • @RonKris
      @RonKris Před rokem +1

      @@johndoh5182 "Do you want to sue for compensation when the US govt would just make the process more expensive if they have to deal with a lot of lawsuits?" No, sue for changing the system, not compensation.'
      Do you believe you'd have the same opinions if your now wife had to endure the 6 months of torture? This treatment is not always without consequences. My friend said she suffered daily during the treatment due to her body's reaction to the Rx. Additionally, she now has elevated liver enzymes and has since (she believes from the Rx for TB given at St. Luke's).
      Her PCP has told her it is possible, but no base bloodwork to prove or disprove. Regardless, I believe this is more needless suffering (not just the treatments but also travel and other unnecessary expenses).

  • @tewoldekuflom4098
    @tewoldekuflom4098 Před rokem +3

    She is genuine. Hard to relocate a person from the place of his birth. The sun is the best gift of God to the southern hemisphere and that's why you see people smiling always.

  • @maryannemillendez7547
    @maryannemillendez7547 Před rokem +7

    America 🇺🇸 is the best place to live when you're young and energetic but not when you're OLD. Staying in Florida is just like the Phil with regards to the weather and the pace is not as bad as up North. If you earn well you'll be comfortable living here with all the amenities . She said they live in the countryside so there's nothing there probably. As someone mentioned America is not for everyone and I still feel blessed that I've live here for 30 yrs. No complaints

  • @annfreedle3856
    @annfreedle3856 Před rokem +2

    I usually watch your videos.. but this was a fun one because I can relate on most if not all of her feelings about life here in the US. Thanks Paul for having her on.

  • @SomeDumbGuy01
    @SomeDumbGuy01 Před rokem +1

    Another great video, Paul. Thank you

  • @douglasgraham1916
    @douglasgraham1916 Před rokem +1

    Great interview Paul! I really enjoyed this video. Good to get a different perspective! Keep up the good work 👍

  • @steveperyer4850
    @steveperyer4850 Před rokem +26

    Paul, this was a great interview, and a public service announcement with an honest Filipina, and what she observed while living in the US for 5 years. Like she said, she prefers the Philippines, over the US, but depending on other Filipina perspective in life, it can be what they want. I knew that she would get the grandpas treatment, and that is a shame. You are so right that the Filipina look much younger than they truly are. They are lucky, and us expats the end up with them , are better for it. You are looking much younger now, than in earlier videos, and that may be the lifestyle changes, for yourself, but feel Mae could have something to don with that also. Thanks again😉

  • @johnchittick900
    @johnchittick900 Před rokem +3

    "Other grandfather" kidded me! Thanks Paul for another great episode!

  • @dipshit781
    @dipshit781 Před rokem

    Hello Paul................thanks as always. I liked the location for the interview, and of course the interview itself was top notch.

  • @markpurcell1488
    @markpurcell1488 Před rokem +3

    Excellent video. She is a great person. May God bless her and her husband more. Great interview Paul!

  • @davidkaiser810
    @davidkaiser810 Před rokem +3

    Fascinating interview Paul, what foreigners and Filipinas have to go thru to be together, it makes for a stronger relationship

  • @les8518
    @les8518 Před rokem

    Fantastic video Paul. I love your guest. She is a real gem.

  • @garyt7232
    @garyt7232 Před rokem +6

    Enjoy a good story. Wish the young lady and her husband well. Know several people that came to the States from SE Asia thinking America is the land of milk and honey. After a few years of working their tails off, not saving much money, and experiencing America first hand, they left to go back to their respective countries. America is not all that is cracked up to be for them. All the best to you and BM.

  • @LADETROIT
    @LADETROIT Před rokem +15

    Took my wife 3 years 8 months to get my wife here. The process is not for the faint of heart. Beware Passport Guys/ Bros. It can be a expensive process. edit. Now 9 years later she's a citizen working as BSN-RN and was able to petition her Mother who arrived 3 months ago. Also built a house in Davao. Here in L.A. and Vegas there's a large Filipino community, so they are comfortable .

    • @jjohnsengraciesmom
      @jjohnsengraciesmom Před rokem +1

      Also San Francisco amd Marina California large Philippine community

    • @LADETROIT
      @LADETROIT Před rokem +1

      @Nick Gurr Not sure. But around 20K. That includes supporting her for 3 years, government fees and tickets. She's happy that she's able to pay me back now. LoL

    • @LADETROIT
      @LADETROIT Před rokem +1

      @Nick Gurr Not planning to have kids. We have a few more years to decide, then if, I feel we need to move back to the Philippines to raise them. She's still very respectful. Much more than a Western women. just like any hard-headed woman you have to put them in check sometimes. And yes there were changes. She did become smarter, wiser and richer..LOL. It was worth it. I lived in LA for 33 years and dated beautiful woman from all over. The qualities of the Filipina have them all beat.

  • @CF.
    @CF. Před rokem +2

    I really enjoy all your interviews Paul. I like that you interview a variety of people of different ages and life experiences. Really good stuff.

  • @jocelynwilliams7569
    @jocelynwilliams7569 Před rokem +2

    same here. Finally, I convinced my husband to retire there in the Philippines with our 3 teenager children, weather they like it or not. I’ve been here in the US for 20 years and I miss home. It will be a big adventure and challenge so help me God.

  • @blake86303
    @blake86303 Před rokem +3

    One of the best interviews you've done, Paul.

  • @feidongzxzx9109
    @feidongzxzx9109 Před rokem +2

    One of the best interviews on CZcams.

  • @DaveandChariAdventures
    @DaveandChariAdventures Před rokem +1

    That was a good interview. I really enjoyed your videos. Keep up the good work. Thanks.

  • @paulkramer7844
    @paulkramer7844 Před rokem +6

    The misperception of age works both ways: I'm a 71 year old white man, but when I went to the cashier reserved for seniors at McDonalds, a couple of years ago in Cebu, no one would come to take my order. My Filipino friends were amused by the reaction of the employees who could not believe I was over 65. Not only Filipino friends, but even here in Ireland, people who know me think I'm joking when I say I'm over 70.

    • @islandhopper100
      @islandhopper100 Před 10 měsíci +2

      sounds like a great problem to have

    • @smokin67dog
      @smokin67dog Před 5 měsíci +1

      That's a nice problem to have. 🙂👍

  • @travelinghobo
    @travelinghobo Před rokem +3

    That was a good interview 👍🏻

  • @mikesimpson9997
    @mikesimpson9997 Před rokem +1

    I wish everyone could spend time in america. They could see the Long work days and every dollar you make is never enough. I like her she seems to have common sense

  • @patrickpepper412
    @patrickpepper412 Před rokem

    Another great video Paul, keep the great content coming!

  • @scotthummer1319
    @scotthummer1319 Před rokem +2

    Paul My Big Fat Filipino Life gave you a really nice shout out. You are a star in the Philippines YT genre. You and Baby Mae do a great job and you are great people. Great interview. Thank you

  • @Phiyedough
    @Phiyedough Před rokem +8

    She does only look about 20 so I'm not surprised about her being asked for ID. What bothers me when there is a big disparity in ages is that any children are more likely to lose their dad too young. I was about 50 when my dad died and it was a major blow but it would have been much worse if I had only been 20.

    • @drdr76
      @drdr76 Před rokem

      I agree. That's why I had a V before I retired--not fair to have a kid grow up without either parent. I don't fault those who do though. In fact, I met a 72 year old Norwegian who had a 2 year old daughter with his Thai wife. He still visited his 93 year old father in Norway every summer for 3 months!

    • @henrydoone7554
      @henrydoone7554 Před rokem

      She looks about 20? I think you need some glasses. She is 30+ easily!

  • @edic2619
    @edic2619 Před rokem +3

    Beautiful Filipina, great interview. Glad you made it to US. Stress and hardshipships make us all stronger.

  • @WhenTheManComesAround
    @WhenTheManComesAround Před rokem +1

    Excellent vid as always my friend 👍

  • @lensnart1303
    @lensnart1303 Před rokem +7

    Same thing happened to my wife. She was TB+ and had to move to Manila to take the medicine daily. I supported her and her mother while she lived there and now she is a U.S. citizen, and we've been married 7 years.

    • @hufficag
      @hufficag Před rokem

      Isn't there a TB treatment process that doesn't involve the embassy? Can you check beforehand, get treated, then go to Manila?

    • @lensnart1303
      @lensnart1303 Před rokem

      @@hufficag The U.S. embassy required it and they were affiliated with that clinic in Manila. Unless that has changed.

    • @erikdespard4195
      @erikdespard4195 Před rokem

      What all do they test for??? What other diseases?

  • @metaphy
    @metaphy Před rokem +2

    Really nice interview. You're a great questionner and the answers were very thoughtful.

  • @MsLarry91
    @MsLarry91 Před rokem +2

    I came to the US as a professional nurse in the late 70's. Met my husband here. He worked in the business world so my neighbor saw him in business attire everyday. One time she must have seen me working outside. She had the nerve to ask my husband where he hired his Japanese gardener (that was me). He told her that i am his wife . He was so mad but i found it funny. It is ignorance that the woman asked that. Sometimes people are not exposed to different cultures and some assume that because we look different they form assumptions.Some also assumed that i met my husband in the military back to my old country. I just smile at them.

  • @richardbalderas2408
    @richardbalderas2408 Před 11 měsíci

    Great interview Paul!

  • @johnintheus856
    @johnintheus856 Před rokem +10

    OMG Paul, that was hilarious about the grandfather bit, lol
    When I had my daughter with my Filipino wife, I had ladies come up and tell me, oh, what a cute grandbaby 😂

  • @gheechiedan9299
    @gheechiedan9299 Před rokem

    GREAT interview my man ! 👍🏾

  • @jspice-kl2wc
    @jspice-kl2wc Před rokem

    What a great interview, I also like the snow about 50 years ago. Thank you so much. 👍👍👍

  • @johnbergeron9997
    @johnbergeron9997 Před rokem +1

    Great interview Paul

  • @bookemdanopinay7427
    @bookemdanopinay7427 Před rokem

    Excellant ! Great interview. Living the Dream

  • @kevinkennedy6875
    @kevinkennedy6875 Před rokem +2

    That young lady's husband is a very lucky man! Excellent interview, Paul. Her observations were very interesting (and sometimes unexpected). Thanks!

  • @hotpaprika67
    @hotpaprika67 Před rokem

    love your laid back attitude, and giggle, pleasure to watch. :)

  • @TransistionalMemories100

    Great interview Paul as usual! funny part about the grandfather tho!!😂

  • @retiredbiker59
    @retiredbiker59 Před rokem

    Awesome interview thanks for sharing.

  • @Ty-dt8xv
    @Ty-dt8xv Před rokem +1

    Great interview Mr Paul 👍👍👍

  • @ofeliacabasal3948
    @ofeliacabasal3948 Před rokem +3

    I’m curious on what her husband looks like 😂 great interview, though. I was smiling the whole time 🤣🤣

  • @_apey
    @_apey Před rokem

    Thanks Paul. Good and interesting interview.

  • @HexFlex-ss9rm
    @HexFlex-ss9rm Před rokem

    I love what she’s trying to say, and I love you Paul . Great job 🎉

  • @thearttheftsituation
    @thearttheftsituation Před rokem

    This is a great interview!

  • @rolandmueller7218
    @rolandmueller7218 Před rokem +5

    It depends where you live in the USA as to what it’s like. Some areas have many Filipinos in them as well as Filipino stores. America is a such a large country that you can probably find any climate that suits you . The cost of living is cheaper in some areas than others. The health care is better in the USA, if you can afford it.

    • @dochi1958
      @dochi1958 Před rokem

      Only a very few people can afford healthcare in America, and that includes those WITH insurance!

  • @markgrindeland
    @markgrindeland Před rokem

    Paul, as always, a wonderful video. I love watching your channel. Thank you

  • @frantzlauredant3425
    @frantzlauredant3425 Před rokem

    Paul, one of the best CZcamsrs out there! Thank you for sharing these insights!

  • @kevinripley4405
    @kevinripley4405 Před rokem +3

    In the philippines I go around our local town with my daughter and we always get comments like, they are a beautiful couple or they will have beautiful children together. It makes me smile and my daughter seems okay with it too. Then we both took my grand daughter around and people said what a beautiful child you have. Sometimes people want pictures of us. We are celebrities. My daughter looks foreign, I have blue eyes and my grand daughter is my sons child and she beautiful. We have never had comments saying Is that your father or grandpa or at least not heard such comments. So there can be positives. We live in the province so maybe different there to the cities.

  • @stevehayes8755
    @stevehayes8755 Před rokem +1

    Paul a great interview with a very honest and down to earth Lady

  • @bradleymiller7375
    @bradleymiller7375 Před rokem +2

    Great interview with Gorgeous Lady with golden information!

  • @williamweeks3374
    @williamweeks3374 Před rokem +2

    I love the honest review. When people ask why I will point them to this video so they understand that our land is not perfect and it has its issues the same any other country. Good video!

  • @scottbrown321
    @scottbrown321 Před rokem +2

    Great interview! I think my wife had to take TB meds also. First time she saw snow, ran outside excited. Came in quickly, didn't know it had to be freezing out to have snow.

  • @PaulOviews
    @PaulOviews Před rokem

    Great video! Good job 👍

  • @johndoh5182
    @johndoh5182 Před rokem +3

    SO, without getting into the details of what was in this video, I just want to say that I really feel empathy for this woman. It's true that you can have a disease for a long time and never know it. I had cancer for months without knowing it. I was lucky in that when it was discovered it wasn't stage 3 or 4 cancer, that it was still stage 2. But the weird thing for me is that even though it was stage 2 (had started to be in lymph nodes) that the source was undetermined. This is terrible really, because the doctors can't target a specific spot and they have to hit a wider area with radiation, and since this was head and neck cancer it did some serious damage, the treatment.
    So finding out you have some disease as serious as TB is hard to deal with for many people. It sucks the joy out of your life for a time period and it's only if you have a full recovery and are back to being symptom free that it becomes easy to put behind you after you are well past the treatment of it.
    So, more than anything else I just want to give well wishes to the woman, and without her name listed in the comments I don't know how to spell it.
    My wife had friends in Manila. They know ALL ABOUT small apts. there because the costs are high if you want something with comfortable living areas.

  • @BruceCinader
    @BruceCinader Před rokem +2

    Cute girl and very interesting conversation. You keep hitting them out of the park with your vlogs.

  • @deweycampbell
    @deweycampbell Před rokem

    Great video, Paul.

  • @dannyyates7208
    @dannyyates7208 Před rokem +1

    Great interview. 👍👍👍

  • @laniemanagbanag61
    @laniemanagbanag61 Před rokem

    Watching now sir to the.premiere

  • @mader348
    @mader348 Před rokem +1

    Great woman, great interview 😀

  • @marcrichard7251
    @marcrichard7251 Před rokem +2

    Paul I had to laugh at the granddaughter comment….now mind you I’m in the same boat as you Paul with age gap….I start collecting my social security in a few months then it’s off to Dumaguete…Can’t wait to get back to my fiancée.

  • @LK-dm7kx
    @LK-dm7kx Před rokem +3

    The woman at the church got jealous because the men are going overseas and marry much younger and feminine beautiful women that listen to their husband.
    Men are making good choices and living happy,healthy and longer.

  • @Niftynorm1
    @Niftynorm1 Před rokem +1

    Great interview and some good information too. I am glad she is where she wants to be with her husband. Now it's his turn for the adventure.

  • @racebiketuner
    @racebiketuner Před rokem

    Great interview Paul.

  • @LivingTheLifeRetired
    @LivingTheLifeRetired Před rokem +1

    Nice interview Paul, sweet girl.

  • @rickylee6129
    @rickylee6129 Před rokem +1

    Good Video Paul 😊. Very delightful young lady. Her husband must be very proud of her. 💎 ❤️ 💙 💜
    Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏

  • @rickconn5293
    @rickconn5293 Před rokem +7

    Great interview, My Filipino wife and I did the 90 day visa, to USA, and lived mostly in USA for 12 years, my wife loved the snow and had no problem with the cold weather, a couple years ago we built a home on Poro Island, Cebu, and spend 1/2 year here, (wife loves the food, me not so much), there is good and bad in both countries, big age difference, we found that the women would try and get my wife to not be happy with me, she is young, pretty and smart, mainly the older women were upset with us as a couple. We wish we could live in both countries all the time! USA+ the high quality of life, +Philippines THE PEOPLE. (of course negitives in both countries) 😊Rick

  • @brettsmith9121
    @brettsmith9121 Před rokem

    Great Paul! 😀

  • @troymoses8405
    @troymoses8405 Před rokem +2

    Greetings Paul, excellent interview and informative video. Vicky and I are still in the process with this K1 visa, it’s been a challenge. But hopeful it will be completed soon. Take care and God bless.

  • @barrypress3704
    @barrypress3704 Před rokem

    Hi Paul a great interview with her.

  • @consueloviray741
    @consueloviray741 Před rokem

    This is great content! I am currently undergoing the K1 visa process... under sputum waiting for the culture result!

  • @tmangeles7575
    @tmangeles7575 Před rokem +2

    She is a total kewtie. Glad it worked out. I made a vow never to be cold again in 1978. I miss the Phils!

  • @leslieclaire
    @leslieclaire Před rokem +13

    Leezel is lovely and I appreciate her talking so candidly about her take on America. When she started talking about snow, I knew where she was going. 😂 Very nice interview again Paul!

  • @shawnm5611
    @shawnm5611 Před rokem

    Great video, really cool to hear that perspective.

  • @ningayeti
    @ningayeti Před rokem +2

    Paul,
    Thank you for such a beautiful and charming guest. I have had several TB patients over the years. You may not know, but there were over 8000 cases in the U.S. last year and the incidence is (by some experts) expected to climb from the current ~2.7 / 100,000 to as high as 3.1/ 100,000 because of the massive influx of impoverished people flooding across our southern border. Another concern is the proliferation of drug resistant strains of TB that are becoming harder and harder to treat.
    However; I'm now retired and don't have to deal with this or ANYTHING anymore - so excuse me while I head out for a nice steak and a Rob Roy or two.
    Good Day

  • @noahcount7132
    @noahcount7132 Před rokem +20

    Great interview, Paul. Everyday life is fraught with pitfalls no matter where you may be, and this video did well at pointing out some of the cultural shock pitfalls a Filipina living in America might encounter. 👍

    • @peter-pg5yc
      @peter-pg5yc Před rokem

      I have a college educated wife from caloocan educated in fillipeans, sister a pediatrician other a banker. she works in silicon valley as a bean counter.. education makes a big difference..Boogie my buddy stated as i talked with a person in manilla. peter your talking to a fence post.. That can and will grow old.. One needs to have a conversation other then sex.. with a person that understads things.. but has full fillipina standards.. thats a winning combo..

  • @geoffbeckett6678
    @geoffbeckett6678 Před rokem +3

    Yeah, she looks to be about 23. Gotta love Filipinas. She stated the same reasons why I'm looking to move to the Philippines.

  • @bcpioneer59
    @bcpioneer59 Před rokem +4

    Thank you for that interview, such a nice young lady. I can not imagine having to go somewhere for half a year every single day just to take a pill. You would think they could give prescription, to last at least a few weeks, and then back in for a refill and a quick check up. Sounds like they are both very happy now and the weather here in my part of BC Canada has been great and warmer days for last two weeks, but now snowing like mad lol, I am tired of it too lol

    • @free2roam674
      @free2roam674 Před rokem +1

      Hi Mike, unfortunately the majority of people do not even take a 7 day course of pills properly or completely and virtually none will for 6 months. Partially treated TB leads to drug resistance which is already becoming a big concern for many diseases. Van is cold and raining, Calgary is cold and snowing. Sigh. I was in the Philippines in Feb and I am retiring there this fall so I am expecting this to be my last miserable crappy cold winter in Canada.

    • @6foot596
      @6foot596 Před rokem

      She's my age lol and Vancouver is one of the most beautiful cities around. Many Filipinas there too

    • @judithfrench7018
      @judithfrench7018 Před rokem

      Same here in Uk, always rain and we enter into April still no sun yet..

  • @waynebard5809
    @waynebard5809 Před rokem +2

    Chalk up another great video, Very nice interview you're journalism skills get better and better with every video I can relate to being grandpa as I have two young children, and I've been asked if I am Grandpa.
    This Is one of my ambitions to want to move and retire to the Philippines. It is the norm there and not the exception. With every video, I watch I learn more and more. I have much respect for you Paul your public service announcements are phenomenal. I thought TB was eradicated, In America, and I believe it is so glad she got treatment and now is okay. I think most Americans can relate to the treadmill we all run on day after day trying to make money. I have worked for the same organization for 30 years and I do ok financially, but never managed to get ahead and actually have anything such as our own properly.
    That will be different in the Philippines. I'll get off the treadmill and really start to enjoy life something, I was never able to do in America. Stress every second of every day, I had enough.
    Also, if my wife were given a chance to live in America or the Philippines she would choose the Philippines.
    This is after almost ten years in America
    I love America just cannot afford to live here anymore.

  • @jocelynbattleson
    @jocelynbattleson Před rokem +4

    I feel how you feel during a medical test at st. Luke’s sucks I also failed in TB test they will force you to cough and it’s horrifying trying to force a cough when you don’t feel like coughing I know I am not sick in anything cause I am not a sickly person.. but they wanna make sure I don’t have TB they run another test and wait several months to find out if it a positive and it turns am negative I can not understand why the first test is positive 🎉 and it cost money

  • @RodrigoPatatas-mc2yw
    @RodrigoPatatas-mc2yw Před rokem

    Good informational vlog! 👍

  • @allen9129
    @allen9129 Před rokem

    This is what I really like about you Paul, you never fuck around, you tell the truth.

  • @fishzilla6934
    @fishzilla6934 Před rokem

    Awesome job Paul!

  • @garydavis9887
    @garydavis9887 Před rokem +1

    nice video Grampa !

  • @Attila-LV
    @Attila-LV Před rokem +2

    What a great interview. You both had me laughing 😂