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Amit sir aapse influence hokar maine ek property leli bhale hi tier-3 city me li hai. Shaadi bhi karli. Stock market bhi chal rha hai . Astrology me mera interest nahi. Cooking khud hi seekh li, bartan dhone or safai ke liye maid rakhi hui hai. Ab kuch naya or bada value addition karwao aap. Paisa aur sukoon bhadana h jeewan mein. Basics pure hogye life ke.
@@akashbharadwaj1 unko bhi sunta aa rha hu Aakash kaafi lambe time se. Ha influence hota hu but jo merko mere fayde ki lagti hai. Coz har koi apna agenda chala rha h duniya me. Aap ye dekho isme aap ka kya fayda hai. Apki kya value addition ho Rahi h life me. Ultimately Paisa kamana or sukoon hi chahiye har kisi ko jeewan me.
I don't know how this problem will be resolved. Maybe after 2-3 generations do this, it will get resolved. I'm glad that this has atleast started but we have a long way to go. Culturally, we do not have strong boundaries and have problem saying no. I know a newly married couple in my family. They got a rental apartment 5 mins away from the boy's place to stay there after they get married. Now the mother in law goes to their house every day to see what the bahu has cooked and she also goes there to stay with them for a few days in a week. I think if a couple wants to stay away they should live in a nearby city but not very near.
@Recoverycounselling_1 yes, absolutely 😂😂 Imagine rent bhi bharna pada and mother in law ka interference and judgment bhi sehna pada. This couple lives in Mumbai and the girl's previous job was in Bangalore. I think they will move to Bangalore but now I'm thinking what if mother in law Bangalore Jaye and 1-2 months rahe? Because she is now retired and her husband is annoyed with her and he wants to travel so she now free to interfere in the son's life. I think inlog ko Canada hi jana padega 😂😂
Clear communication between bhu and sas is much better on any topic like late uthna , kay phena n all. This will fix the problem sas also need to acknowledge the new requirements. Sath rehna is great benefit , practical learning of life and everything else also. This was the value of our Indian homes. Let's educate people for clear communication and cohesive bonding.
1st step of clear communication: wanting to communicate clearly. Most of the elder generation think they're right and know everything, especially the mother in laws who never did a job for one day in her life. They think since they had to suffer, this generation should suffer the same way. This is their 'life learning'. You can live next door and still learn.
Saath rehana is no benefit, sirf ek ghissi piti zindagi jeena hai, and this stifles( kuchal deti) the creativity of the bahu also. Makes the son also a bhondu.
@rajanimenon1780 whoa relax madam. Leveraging generational resources, wealth and wisdom can make you leapfrog in life. Instead of living a emi driven, shit life and working all your life to pay off those home loans. Moving out is for peasant class. Have you ever seen the rich kids moving out? Abhishek bachchan, ambani, shah rukh's kids, ranbir kapoor? You are indoctrinated and clearly not ready to move up
What is wrong with paying EMI, it is same as paying rent and in few years , you have a paid off house. And as if the rich people are staying together, cooking together etc, they stay in various bungalows, floors, many times both parents or their kids stay abroad also most of the times, so dont compare, in fact only peasants ( poor) stay together as they have no option.
Please make a video on marital issues where husband expects that his wife should ask her mother and brother for compensation of difference of amount spent in their wedding and her sister's wedding. His wife was a bank officer and his sister-in-law is not working. Despite earning herself she never got the independence to even spend Rs.1000/- according to her wish, so she left the job and now this husband asks for both her job and also money from in-laws
So true Sir, inlaws baki sari cheeze to culturally or morally bolkr krenge pr apne case me vaanprasth ashram ka course hi hata dete hai book se ki wo b culturally or morally hua krta tha 😅, mtlb apne convenience k hisaab se culture ko mold kr do for new generation, Vaanprasth convenient nai hai unke liye to uske baare me baat b nahi krenge 😂😄ki pehle kaise ek time baad apni zimmedariya apni agli generation ko dekr old couples would go for vaanprasth, iske bare me koi baat nai krta na koi whatsap forward ata hai. Sir pls make a video on this topic, kum se kum physically agr aaj possible nai hai to mentally toh they should follow it !!!
मेरे गांव घर में जब बुड्ढे बुढ़िया ऐसी बात करती हैं की आजकल के बच्चे परंपरा भूल गए हैं तो मैं उनलोगो को वानप्रस्थ के बारे में याद दिलाता हूं। और पूछता हूं की आप कब परंपरा फॉलो कर रहे हो?? तो मेरे से तो दूर रहते हैं वो फिर। मुझे नहीं आते ज्ञान देने।
It is not about Hindu muslim caste, it's about him not giving middle class anything, no tax cuts, tax on bank interests, rebate on housing, jobs, etc , middle class doesn't have money to pay children's school fees, electricity bill etc.
One of the reasons in-laws don't want to take care of the child by living separately is that the Indian family doesn't have unconditional love between parents and children. Old generation parents brought up kids with expectations. It's not going to go away soon.
Sir ji, please give ur valuable comments on the rcent high court verdict on , husband can divorce his wife if she tries to seperate his parents...thank u..
Gharo me kaam krne wali cook actual me achcha khana nhi bna pati hai... doesn't matter unko kitna bhi payment badha kr de do.. meri cook starting me thik khana bnati thi..bt over the period of time.. she started cooking very badly..even the simplest things..!! Problem is that there is shortage of good cooks as maids... So kisi nai cook bhi rkho to wo waisa hi khana bnati hai...
Ekdum sahi bola aapne. Aisa bolte h ki zada paise se achi maid milegi per wo accha khana banaye iski koi guarantee nahi. Isilie jo khana maa/wife bana skti h, jo take care ghar ka wo kar skti h, wo kitne bhi paise dekar koi maid nahi kr skti atleast for middle class. Ab koi Ambani wala example na de yaha per.
@@RajatK91 exactly... Jyada paise se achchi maid to blkl nhi milti .. Kaam unko apni trh se hi Krna hota hai.. roj roj koi smjha nhi skta ek hi baat...!! I still missing the food made by my mother.. even relatives aur hm khud bhi waisa nhi exactly waisa nhi bna pate hai...!! Bt cooks ka bnaya hua majburi me khate hai log.. kyuki Ghar ki female bhi working hoti hai.. unka mind n soul already sucked up ho jata hai ofc ki vjh se.. it's not possible for them to beat the level of previous generation of mother's in today's scenario...!!
@@swaatigautam111 wahi toh..maa ki koi replacement nahi hai khaane me...aur amit sir bolte h maid rakhne ko..toh wo quality mil pana impossible hai..that's why I have learnt cooking on his suggestion. Rest of the things like cleaning/washing is delegated. But reading yours and other similar comments it seems like this problem of not getting quality food from maid is a problem not just limited to a city or region rather everywhere it's the same.
जो पहले झाड़ू पोछा करतीं थीं उन्होंने ही खाना बनाना शुरू कर दिया है. उनमें एक अच्छे खाना बनाने का हुनर ही नहीं है. बस बेस्वाद सा किसी तरह गटक लेते हैं.जैसे ये भी एक काम पड़ा है करने को.
Har baar ghoom firke mahila ko hi support karna hai. Esa ho sakta hai, vo mahila jis ghar main kaam karti hai, vaha in-laws nahi dekh ke khid bhi yahi chahti hogi aur vaise behave karti hogi apne ghar main.
Change the set-up, let girls parents live with them or next to them. Girls parents take care of grand children without much expectation from son in law. All expectations are from own daughter only. And being a blood relation it is felt ok in heart. While as in case of in-laws of daughter, they have very high expectations from daughter in law and high expectations from son as well. That causes problem.
Sir ma apki kuch samya sa video dakh rhi hu bhut achi lagti ha ma ek bati ki maa hu mana 2 sal pahla bati ki shadi ki ha wo sasural ma bauht parashan ha ladka galiya data ha gandi bata bolta ha sasur bhi galt bota ha nand nandoi ko sasural walo na ghar ma rakha hua ha sas na apna bhi ka pariwar ko bhi rakha hua ha shdi sa phala ya sab nhi pata chala na hi un logo na batya bati bhut parashan ha usna sasural walo ko kha ki ham kirya per chala jata ha tho sasural walo na kha ha ki asa hi rahna ha sabka sath ladki bhi achi job krti ha ab bati hamara pass aye hui ha tab sa na tho sasural wala bat karta ha na ladka bat karta na pho karta ha ham sab bhut parashan ha kuch samjh nhi aa raha kuch batiya kya kera 🙏🙏
😂😂सास भी कभी बहू थी तरनणन तरनणन फिर वो बन सीलेंडर ईरानी तरनणन तरनणन बैठी रहती थी धरने पर लेकर सीलेंडर भैसानी अमेठी की जनता ने मारी लात सच करी कहावत गई पानी में भैंसानी 😂😂
It's all about understanding, chahe saas ho ya fir bahu agar understanding sahi hai then no issue aur agar understanding sahi nahi hai to fir chahe paas rahen ya door koi fark nahi padta ladai to hoke rahegi... Dono parties ko ek safe mental distance rakhna jyada important hai aur sath hi ek doosre ko proper respect bhi... It's my point of view
yes, I agree.. It is better to live in most western countires... but honestly it is nothing new... Papers were always leaked... cheating always used to happen. Now thanks to social media we can know everything
Guruji, some girls insist on staying with in laws as then they don’t have to do anything regarding managing the house, cooking and can go out and party without thinking about where to keep the children.
Hello... for... Hindu s ..in... India... concept..of.. marriage..is.. already..Dead..!!!..& from... year..2030 ..india is totally.. different..!!!...&.. for.. muslims..same story will continue after year 2040 onwards because of inflation/ capatillism/ feminism / ..& ton of .. toxic social issues..!!!
Yahi to samsya ban chuki hai, saas bahu ko lagta hai unki hi pida badi hai aur dusre ne compromise karna hai... isme piste hai pati aur unki mental health aur sath mai fiance aur kaam pe impact hota hai... kathin samay hai ji..
Ye adjust karein wali baat hi toh insaan ki standard of living ko bohot bekaar banayi hui hai. Isse kisee ko bhi khushi nahi milti. Ye ek ghissi piti zindagi hai, itne mehnet karke padhe likhe banker agar ye zindagi hi mile toh kya fayda? Independently jeene ka mahaul bana paye yeh hi aadmi ka sabse bada achievement hota hai.
@@DineshGaikwad that's why alag rehna is a better option. Agar saas bahu alag rahgenge to utna bhidenge nahi. Saas can't tolerate how her daughter in law can change something in her house and the daughter in law doesn't feel like she belongs in the family because of saas's behaviour. Ultimately the Saas and the Bahu are connected to each other because of the Husband so he has to give a clear cut decision. Puri life compromise karke nahi raha ja sakta. Harmoney maintain karne me ya to paise kharch honge ya to martial life kharab rahegi. It's very rare if both are alright.
this is not saas bahu problem but its a lack of home buying money problem...this problem is more severe in cities like Mumbai Delhi where rent is 30-40k and EMI is 80-to 100k
That is why young couple can first buy a small flat, like even 1bhk , even a little far from centre of city, might be near their place of work, possibly or where public transport is available and start staying there, later, in few years they can sell that and buy bigger flat.
Very apt video. Sir you are doing a great job by pointing out such issues. It should work as eye opener to today's society struggling with matrimonial issues
Guruji post marital pr banao, for those who are already married, jinhone ne kaand krdiya unka batao, is divorce the solution, if girl is dominant and not likesby boy too
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Respect Sir 🙏 Aap bahut sahi or point ki baat bolte hai. Sath se achha pas me rahe... Mgr Sir shaadi ke baad ek mokka to saas Bahu ko ek dusre ko samajhne ka dena chahiye pehle. Kya pata dono ki understanding achhi bane.... kyunki shaadi ke turant baad maa baap se alag hona unki feelings ko hurt karega. Isliye agar saas or bahu dono hi ek dusre ke sath comfortable nhi hai fir to aapne jo kaha vahi last option hai.
Sir ek question meri mummy bolti h sasa sasur ka seva krne ko after marriage but vo tho tabhi possible h jab sath h family rhe Vo budape m kese bnake khege ya koi physical fit nh h tho unko support kese krege
Singapore me Chinese log ek hi apartment me 2 flat le lete hai ek me saas sasur aur ek me khhud. Daily milna julna hota hai without any interfare. Jab koi bimar hota hai to aa ke help karte hai.
What this video is saying is not required in every case, if you and your mil go along well. Then you no issue. And take care living in same house else don’t leave your responsibility but be close to them in different house and check with them frequently.
Sahi baat ,sharma sharmi me qs nahi puchhe jate...beta aisa nahi kehte aisa nahi karte vo log kya sochenge ?aise hi sab fir routine life me piste jaate hai
By this way, farmers should be the highest in the value chain. Someone labouring hard in the unclean and tough conditions in the field should be paid maximum
Sir aap jo advice ladki waalo ko de rahe hai na wah jaroor kamyadaan ke dharmik rulebook me bhi hogi. Par ladki ke ma baap jab beti se pyaar nahi karte ya mughal invasion ke aftermath me still jeete rehne ka bahane se jo atyachar karte hai, un betiyon ko kaun bacha sakta hai.
Jitna bhi de do ye cook theek nahi hoti. Hum jarurat se jyaada donestic helpers aur cook par depend hain. Meri nepali cook hame kachhe chawal aur kachhi roti aur jali sabji deti thi kyoki usne hamare sath sath 3/4 ghar aur pakad rakhe the. To ek ghar me 45 min se 1 ghanta hi cooking par deti thi. Hygenic bji nahi thi uske hath pair me skin diesese thi. Ghar saaf kane vaali bhi aise hi thi, ghar ki safai karte karte mere ghar me Puja room me pade silver article aur kitchen ke bartan tak chura ke le gayi.
Singapore me Chinese log ek hi apartment me 2 flat le lete hai ek me saas sasur aur ek me khhud. Daily milna julna hota hai without any interfare. Jab koi bimar hota hai to aa ke help karte hai. Pyar bhi bana rahta hai aur interference bhi nahi hota.
If you can't have your own home / rent home, don't get married / staying with parents is like hell like situation / better we die / parents never want children live their life ;
Just see what is suiting you, if you see everything is confusing If you are comfortable then you can live with parents, if not then live sometime with husband alone then again shift with parents. Initially you can try this
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@@he-man9723 the client is one of the acquaintance of my husband. He wanted marital counseling as he was having tough time with his wife. I took some logic tools from pre-marital seminar and relationship seminar by Amit Sangwan sir and I could give him remedies. I talked for two hours. He was so thankful for giving him hope and happily gave 5000 rupees. 😀
The client was one my husband's acquaintance. He was having tough time with his wife. I took few tips from Amit sirs premarital counseling webinar and also relationship webinar and gave him remedies. He was happy and gave me 5000 rupees for 2 hour counseling. At the end of counseling he was hopeful and happy 😊
@@he-man9723 yes. The client was thinking about divorce but after my counseling he got hope that he can make marriage work. I want to give this credit to Amit sir who has saved many marriage to break apart and gave new direction to the lives of middle class couple dealing with martial problems. 😊
आप बावर्ची मूवी के हीरो हो,वो उस जमाने में घर की शांति और प्रेम बढ़ाने का काम अपने हिसाब से करता था,अब जमाने के अनुसार आप शांति और प्रेम बढ़ाने का उपाय बता रहे हो
Sir i am a fauji and my wife is working.....how to create balance...sab alag rehne lag jayenge to kaise kaam chalega Meri wife ko to rehna hi padega ghrwalo k sath .... please suggest kya krna chahiye aise me!
As a man, the best thing you can do is talk to your parents. Boundaries bohot zaruri hai. Apki wife apke bharose shaadi karke aayi hai. Agar parents problems create kar rahe h toh you should be the one dealing with it kyunki wo apke parents hai, wife ke nahi. Aapke saat khoon maaf honge par wife ki choti se choti bhul pe bhi lamba taana ayega. And isse pehle ap dono ka rishta bigad jaaye, teeno ko apne paas bula lo. Quarter me rakho apne saath if possible. Dekho agar kisi aur ki aulaad se apne mata pita ki sewa karani hai toh uska bhugtana bhi bharna padega. Your wife is helping you financially too. So protect her as her husband.
@@michebang9541 thank you for your suggestion..... as of now nothing of that sort has happened... my parents and my wife both are very well together..... Maine ye sir ki video ko dekhte hue bola ke alag alag rehna hi solution nahi hai ... agar ghar me kuch hota bhi hai to we should sort it out by talking amongst each other only.
Sir I have a same thought process like you...I think in such way...if u do this,that will happen and if you are not ready to bear circumstances don't do it...people be like hame to shadi bhi karni he,bachhe karne he,samaj me bhi jana he aur freedom bhi chahiye...inka aisa he aaj kal walo ka chit bhi mera ,pat bhi mera aur aada mere baap ka....aur har badi chiz sacrifice mangti he inko to bas chahiye aur wo bhi instant...usme ekad anjali arora aur chappri evlish yadav jaise aa jaye ho chuka ye sab mile pure desh ka fabric tod rahe he...hope can see you in person someday
any guy who has dignity manners and self esteem will directly reject the girl without even seeing her face if she will say that she wont live with family or help him in taking care of them. parents are also our family , family doesnt mean only wife
Ladki ko kid ke parents kitne bhi bure ho lekin achche hi lagte hai aur ladke ke parents agar kuch bole to zahar jaise lagte hai aur privacy chahiye hoti hai!
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Amit sir aapse influence hokar maine ek property leli bhale hi tier-3 city me li hai. Shaadi bhi karli. Stock market bhi chal rha hai . Astrology me mera interest nahi. Cooking khud hi seekh li, bartan dhone or safai ke liye maid rakhi hui hai. Ab kuch naya or bada value addition karwao aap. Paisa aur sukoon bhadana h jeewan mein. Basics pure hogye life ke.
ab to acharya prashant ko sunne lagoge shayd tum. influencer se bhaut influence hote ho ap shayd.
@@akashbharadwaj1 unko bhi sunta aa rha hu Aakash kaafi lambe time se. Ha influence hota hu but jo merko mere fayde ki lagti hai. Coz har koi apna agenda chala rha h duniya me. Aap ye dekho isme aap ka kya fayda hai. Apki kya value addition ho Rahi h life me. Ultimately Paisa kamana or sukoon hi chahiye har kisi ko jeewan me.
@@RajatK91shi baat
Ab sari property bech kar world tour karlo bas
Woww bhai.. congratulations itna life improvement
I don't know how this problem will be resolved. Maybe after 2-3 generations do this, it will get resolved. I'm glad that this has atleast started but we have a long way to go. Culturally, we do not have strong boundaries and have problem saying no.
I know a newly married couple in my family. They got a rental apartment 5 mins away from the boy's place to stay there after they get married. Now the mother in law goes to their house every day to see what the bahu has cooked and she also goes there to stay with them for a few days in a week.
I think if a couple wants to stay away they should live in a nearby city but not very near.
Haha musibat fir agyi iss case mai jo apne btya.😂 .han mtlb 45min-1hr dur pe ho zruri nhi state alag ho..
@Recoverycounselling_1 yes, absolutely 😂😂 Imagine rent bhi bharna pada and mother in law ka interference and judgment bhi sehna pada. This couple lives in Mumbai and the girl's previous job was in Bangalore. I think they will move to Bangalore but now I'm thinking what if mother in law Bangalore Jaye and 1-2 months rahe?
Because she is now retired and her husband is annoyed with her and he wants to travel so she now free to interfere in the son's life.
I think inlog ko Canada hi jana padega 😂😂
Clear communication between bhu and sas is much better on any topic like late uthna , kay phena n all.
This will fix the problem sas also need to acknowledge the new requirements.
Sath rehna is great benefit , practical learning of life and everything else also. This was the value of our Indian homes.
Let's educate people for clear communication and cohesive bonding.
1st step of clear communication: wanting to communicate clearly. Most of the elder generation think they're right and know everything, especially the mother in laws who never did a job for one day in her life. They think since they had to suffer, this generation should suffer the same way. This is their 'life learning'. You can live next door and still learn.
Saath rehana is no benefit, sirf ek ghissi piti zindagi jeena hai, and this stifles( kuchal deti) the creativity of the bahu also. Makes the son also a bhondu.
@@rajanimenon1780agreed. Paise bachane aur tradition follow karne ke chakkar me, life me extra kalesh plane ko taiyar hai log.
@rajanimenon1780 whoa relax madam. Leveraging generational resources, wealth and wisdom can make you leapfrog in life. Instead of living a emi driven, shit life and working all your life to pay off those home loans. Moving out is for peasant class. Have you ever seen the rich kids moving out? Abhishek bachchan, ambani, shah rukh's kids, ranbir kapoor? You are indoctrinated and clearly not ready to move up
What is wrong with paying EMI, it is same as paying rent and in few years , you have a paid off house. And as if the rich people are staying together, cooking together etc, they stay in various bungalows, floors, many times both parents or their kids stay abroad also most of the times, so dont compare, in fact only peasants ( poor) stay together as they have no option.
Itna mehnat karke padh likhkar aadmi apna independent ghar basa sake, isme hi uska happiness hai aur sabse bada achievement hai.
आपकी ये सलाह बहुत ही जबरदस्त है,समाज को आईना और शांति का पाठ पढ़ाने के लिए धन्यवाद
Sir Vanprastha k upar 1 detailed video hum new generation bacchon k liye
Please make a video on marital issues where husband expects that his wife should ask her mother and brother for compensation of difference of amount spent in their wedding and her sister's wedding. His wife was a bank officer and his sister-in-law is not working. Despite earning herself she never got the independence to even spend Rs.1000/- according to her wish, so she left the job and now this husband asks for both her job and also money from in-laws
Collect proof of demand and file 498a dowry case
Great clarity and good way of selling course.
But seems useful as these are real issues
घर घर की अशांति को आपने पहचान कर आपने रामबाण इलाज बता दिया गुरुजी प्रणाम
So true Sir, inlaws baki sari cheeze to culturally or morally bolkr krenge pr apne case me vaanprasth ashram ka course hi hata dete hai book se ki wo b culturally or morally hua krta tha 😅, mtlb apne convenience k hisaab se culture ko mold kr do for new generation, Vaanprasth convenient nai hai unke liye to uske baare me baat b nahi krenge 😂😄ki pehle kaise ek time baad apni zimmedariya apni agli generation ko dekr old couples would go for vaanprasth, iske bare me koi baat nai krta na koi whatsap forward ata hai. Sir pls make a video on this topic, kum se kum physically agr aaj possible nai hai to mentally toh they should follow it !!!
Bilkul sahi...sath me reh ke din bhar ka kich kich aur gyan dena....headache dena....
Sahi hai, culture ke kayi aisi cheeze hain joh log apne convenience se apnate hai aur discard karte hain.
मेरे गांव घर में जब बुड्ढे बुढ़िया ऐसी बात करती हैं की आजकल के बच्चे परंपरा भूल गए हैं तो मैं उनलोगो को वानप्रस्थ के बारे में याद दिलाता हूं। और पूछता हूं की आप कब परंपरा फॉलो कर रहे हो?? तो मेरे से तो दूर रहते हैं वो फिर। मुझे नहीं आते ज्ञान देने।
@@shivam.trivedi026 😂😂, sach me !! Ye unke syllabus me nai ata hai na jo wo apni nayi generation k liye banate hai 🤣🤣
U r 100% true... This is happening in indian households... Happened same with my devrani
Not happy with cabinet formation, please make a video on it
Bhai please dimag thoda khud se chalao jo bh discussion hota h media or YT pe waisa hota nahi h toh Kya hoga aage koi nahi janta
@@nishu7sunexactly.... aur ab yeh discussion kuch badalne bhi nahi wala
Will your child wife parents become happy by a good cabinate
Modi ji is also not happy with the Hindus bcoz they are divided on caste n haven't voted him n BJP
It is not about Hindu muslim caste, it's about him not giving middle class anything, no tax cuts, tax on bank interests, rebate on housing, jobs, etc , middle class doesn't have money to pay children's school fees, electricity bill etc.
कृपया भाजपा सरकार की वित्तीय नीतियों पर एक वीडियो बनाएं
One of the reasons in-laws don't want to take care of the child by living separately is that the Indian family doesn't have unconditional love between parents and children. Old generation parents brought up kids with expectations. It's not going to go away soon.
Thank you🙏🙏 very real talk
Sir ji, please give ur valuable comments on the rcent high court verdict on , husband can divorce his wife if she tries to seperate his parents...thank u..
Sir agar shaadi se pahle hi alag ghar ki baat karen to shaadi hi nhi karte ladke waale ,mna kar dete h.
Aap Khud ka ghar pahle bana lo fir baad me alag ghar me rahna apne pati ke sath
40 lakh खर्चने padenge khud k ghar वाले ladke के लिए
@@erabhinandan5935 free me chahiye inko bhai
@@erabhinandan5935wo inse nahi ho paayega
@@Shashimohankajaliska matlab bhau ki zindagi barbad karne ki puri planning kar rakha hai
Gharo me kaam krne wali cook actual me achcha khana nhi bna pati hai... doesn't matter unko kitna bhi payment badha kr de do.. meri cook starting me thik khana bnati thi..bt over the period of time.. she started cooking very badly..even the simplest things..!! Problem is that there is shortage of good cooks as maids... So kisi nai cook bhi rkho to wo waisa hi khana bnati hai...
Ekdum sahi bola aapne. Aisa bolte h ki zada paise se achi maid milegi per wo accha khana banaye iski koi guarantee nahi. Isilie jo khana maa/wife bana skti h, jo take care ghar ka wo kar skti h, wo kitne bhi paise dekar koi maid nahi kr skti atleast for middle class. Ab koi Ambani wala example na de yaha per.
@@RajatK91 exactly... Jyada paise se achchi maid to blkl nhi milti .. Kaam unko apni trh se hi Krna hota hai.. roj roj koi smjha nhi skta ek hi baat...!! I still missing the food made by my mother.. even relatives aur hm khud bhi waisa nhi exactly waisa nhi bna pate hai...!! Bt cooks ka bnaya hua majburi me khate hai log.. kyuki Ghar ki female bhi working hoti hai.. unka mind n soul already sucked up ho jata hai ofc ki vjh se.. it's not possible for them to beat the level of previous generation of mother's in today's scenario...!!
@@swaatigautam111 wahi toh..maa ki koi replacement nahi hai khaane me...aur amit sir bolte h maid rakhne ko..toh wo quality mil pana impossible hai..that's why I have learnt cooking on his suggestion. Rest of the things like cleaning/washing is delegated. But reading yours and other similar comments it seems like this problem of not getting quality food from maid is a problem not just limited to a city or region rather everywhere it's the same.
Agar aadmi help kare , toh miya biwi dono milke acha khana bana sakte hai, specially sabzi acha bana sakte hain. Cook ko sabzi pyaz/ lehsoon adrak katna etc aur roti banane ke liye rakh sakte hain.
जो पहले झाड़ू पोछा करतीं थीं उन्होंने ही खाना बनाना शुरू कर दिया है. उनमें एक अच्छे खाना बनाने का हुनर ही नहीं है. बस बेस्वाद सा किसी तरह गटक लेते हैं.जैसे ये भी एक काम पड़ा है करने को.
Thanks sirji❤ Apki baat kadvi hoti hai Lekin Fayde ki hoti hai.. 🙏🏼
Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gayaaaaa 🔥✨🔥
Har baar ghoom firke mahila ko hi support karna hai. Esa ho sakta hai, vo mahila jis ghar main kaam karti hai, vaha in-laws nahi dekh ke khid bhi yahi chahti hogi aur vaise behave karti hogi apne ghar main.
Same thing happening with my cousin bro+wife vs SaaS.... bros wife demand separate home
Change the set-up, let girls parents live with them or next to them. Girls parents take care of grand children without much expectation from son in law.
All expectations are from own daughter only. And being a blood relation it is felt ok in heart.
While as in case of in-laws of daughter, they have very high expectations from daughter in law and high expectations from son as well. That causes problem.
The word middle class is very irritating.he murder ed it 😢
Young couples need to build their own households
Entitled parents/in-laws … their love is conditional … I’m child free by choice, if I did have kids I would never expect them to live with me.
Sir ma apki kuch samya sa video dakh rhi hu bhut achi lagti ha ma ek bati ki maa hu mana 2 sal pahla bati ki shadi ki ha wo sasural ma bauht parashan ha ladka galiya data ha gandi bata bolta ha sasur bhi galt bota ha nand nandoi ko sasural walo na ghar ma rakha hua ha sas na apna bhi ka pariwar ko bhi rakha hua ha shdi sa phala ya sab nhi pata chala na hi un logo na batya bati bhut parashan ha usna sasural walo ko kha ki ham kirya per chala jata ha tho sasural walo na kha ha ki asa hi rahna ha sabka sath ladki bhi achi job krti ha ab bati hamara pass aye hui ha tab sa na tho sasural wala bat karta ha na ladka bat karta na pho karta ha ham sab bhut parashan ha kuch samjh nhi aa raha kuch batiya kya kera 🙏🙏
God bless you
Very good video Sirji
😂😂सास भी कभी बहू थी तरनणन तरनणन
फिर वो बन सीलेंडर ईरानी तरनणन तरनणन
बैठी रहती थी धरने पर लेकर सीलेंडर भैसानी
अमेठी की जनता ने मारी लात सच करी कहावत गई पानी में भैंसानी 😂😂
It's all about understanding, chahe saas ho ya fir bahu agar understanding sahi hai then no issue aur agar understanding sahi nahi hai to fir chahe paas rahen ya door koi fark nahi padta ladai to hoke rahegi...
Dono parties ko ek safe mental distance rakhna jyada important hai aur sath hi ek doosre ko proper respect bhi...
It's my point of view
Aurat hi aurat ki dushman hai 😂😂
NEET 2024 scam ke bare me bhi baat kare.....ab to ye desh chorne ka halat agaya hei
yes, I agree.. It is better to live in most western countires... but honestly it is nothing new... Papers were always leaked... cheating always used to happen. Now thanks to social media we can know everything
Netao ne hamare Bharat ko rehne layak ni chhoda bhai
It's very true for mind peace
Guruji, some girls insist on staying with in laws as then they don’t have to do anything regarding managing the house, cooking and can go out and party without thinking about where to keep the children.
Yeh toh bohot hi ajeeb likha hai, jaise ki bahu araam se party karne jati hai roj, aur saas sasur nahi tokte hai, ye naya suna hai 😅 .
Kaun si bahu saas k sath rhna chahti hai ?
Yaha mere apne ma baap ke ghar mein unka beta hoke bhi coca cola peene pe rok hai 😂
Socho Bahu ka kya haal hoga.
Hello... for... Hindu s ..in... India... concept..of.. marriage..is.. already..Dead..!!!..& from... year..2030 ..india is totally.. different..!!!...&.. for.. muslims..same story will continue after year 2040 onwards because of inflation/ capatillism/ feminism / ..& ton of .. toxic social issues..!!!
If anybody can t understand this video / only God save them ;
Sath rahein, ek dusre ko smjhein, adjust karein, paisa bachayein, and lifestyle inprove krein.
Yaa gir alag rahein, EMIs bharte rahein, maid, servant sabka paisa dete rahein, and poori zindagi stress and tension mein guzaarein
Yahi to samsya ban chuki hai, saas bahu ko lagta hai unki hi pida badi hai aur dusre ne compromise karna hai... isme piste hai pati aur unki mental health aur sath mai fiance aur kaam pe impact hota hai... kathin samay hai ji..
Ye adjust karein wali baat hi toh insaan ki standard of living ko bohot bekaar banayi hui hai. Isse kisee ko bhi khushi nahi milti. Ye ek ghissi piti zindagi hai, itne mehnet karke padhe likhe banker agar ye zindagi hi mile toh kya fayda? Independently jeene ka mahaul bana paye yeh hi aadmi ka sabse bada achievement hota hai.
@@DineshGaikwad that's why alag rehna is a better option. Agar saas bahu alag rahgenge to utna bhidenge nahi. Saas can't tolerate how her daughter in law can change something in her house and the daughter in law doesn't feel like she belongs in the family because of saas's behaviour. Ultimately the Saas and the Bahu are connected to each other because of the Husband so he has to give a clear cut decision. Puri life compromise karke nahi raha ja sakta. Harmoney maintain karne me ya to paise kharch honge ya to martial life kharab rahegi. It's very rare if both are alright.
this is not saas bahu problem but its a lack of home buying money problem...this problem is more severe in cities like Mumbai Delhi where rent is 30-40k and EMI is 80-to 100k
That is why young couple can first buy a small flat, like even 1bhk , even a little far from centre of city, might be near their place of work, possibly or where public transport is available and start staying there, later, in few years they can sell that and buy bigger flat.
Very apt video. Sir you are doing a great job by pointing out such issues. It should work as eye opener to today's society struggling with matrimonial issues
Guruji post marital pr banao, for those who are already married, jinhone ne kaand krdiya unka batao, is divorce the solution, if girl is dominant and not likesby boy too
Make a video related to insurance
interested in the workshop. How to get it?
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I am totally against your ideology!
Something new as always
Respect Sir 🙏
Aap bahut sahi or point ki baat bolte hai. Sath se achha pas me rahe...
Mgr Sir shaadi ke baad ek mokka to saas Bahu ko ek dusre ko samajhne ka dena chahiye pehle. Kya pata dono ki understanding achhi bane.... kyunki shaadi ke turant baad maa baap se alag hona unki feelings ko hurt karega. Isliye agar saas or bahu dono hi ek dusre ke sath comfortable nhi hai fir to aapne jo kaha vahi last option hai.
Sir ek question meri mummy bolti h sasa sasur ka seva krne ko after marriage but vo tho tabhi possible h jab sath h family rhe
Vo budape m kese bnake khege ya koi physical fit nh h tho unko support kese krege
Singapore me Chinese log ek hi apartment me 2 flat le lete hai ek me saas sasur aur ek me khhud. Daily milna julna hota hai without any interfare. Jab koi bimar hota hai to aa ke help karte hai.
What this video is saying is not required in every case, if you and your mil go along well. Then you no issue. And take care living in same house else don’t leave your responsibility but be close to them in different house and check with them frequently.
Sahi baat ,sharma sharmi me qs nahi puchhe jate...beta aisa nahi kehte aisa nahi karte vo log kya sochenge ?aise hi sab fir routine life me piste jaate hai
ghar alag toh leke rahenge wahan ladka ke maa baap toh nahi rahenge par ladki ki pura maika aake rehte hai ye hai aapki solution ka reality
Cook as a professional should be higher in the value chain. Someone living in a slum in unclean conditions and stress should not be cooking food.
By this way, farmers should be the highest in the value chain. Someone labouring hard in the unclean and tough conditions in the field should be paid maximum
Neat and clean cook ke salary 30k hogi itni afford Karo
Sir aap jo advice ladki waalo ko de rahe hai na wah jaroor kamyadaan ke dharmik rulebook me bhi hogi. Par ladki ke ma baap jab beti se pyaar nahi karte ya mughal invasion ke aftermath me still jeete rehne ka bahane se jo atyachar karte hai, un betiyon ko kaun bacha sakta hai.
Thanks Sir 🙏
Very well said
Jitna bhi de do ye cook theek nahi hoti. Hum jarurat se jyaada donestic helpers aur cook par depend hain. Meri nepali cook hame kachhe chawal aur kachhi roti aur jali sabji deti thi kyoki usne hamare sath sath 3/4 ghar aur pakad rakhe the. To ek ghar me 45 min se 1 ghanta hi cooking par deti thi. Hygenic bji nahi thi uske hath pair me skin diesese thi.
Ghar saaf kane vaali bhi aise hi thi, ghar ki safai karte karte mere ghar me Puja room me pade silver article aur kitchen ke bartan tak chura ke le gayi.
Singapore me Chinese log ek hi apartment me 2 flat le lete hai ek me saas sasur aur ek me khhud. Daily milna julna hota hai without any interfare. Jab koi bimar hota hai to aa ke help karte hai. Pyar bhi bana rahta hai aur interference bhi nahi hota.
Mat ghuso yaar, jisse dikkat hogi wo dekh lega. Society apne aap move ho jaegi.
If you can't have your own home / rent home, don't get married / staying with parents is like hell like situation / better we die / parents never want children live their life ;
Effects of watching TV serials
Sango brother
You are saying CONFUSED views
One side you talked about 2024
Other side VANPRASTH
But I always enjoy CONFUSED ones
Just see what is suiting you, if you see everything is confusing
If you are comfortable then you can live with parents, if not then live sometime with husband alone then again shift with parents. Initially you can try this
Awesome
I have earned 5000 rupees by getting ideas from his pre-marital counseling session. I am hopeful to earn more. But one more disclaimer here that whenever you get a client dont forward Amit sirs video or tell about platinum membership because he may get the course for 779 rupees and we may lose 5000 rupees consultation fees😂
So how you got the client
From your relatives?
@@he-man9723 the client is one of the acquaintance of my husband. He wanted marital counseling as he was having tough time with his wife. I took some logic tools from pre-marital seminar and relationship seminar by Amit Sangwan sir and I could give him remedies. I talked for two hours. He was so thankful for giving him hope and happily gave 5000 rupees. 😀
The client was one my husband's acquaintance. He was having tough time with his wife. I took few tips from Amit sirs premarital counseling webinar and also relationship webinar and gave him remedies. He was happy and gave me 5000 rupees for 2 hour counseling. At the end of counseling he was hopeful and happy 😊
@@sreelathapendu ohh great..so you gave them marriage counseling, as you mentioned they were already married
Very nice 👌
@@he-man9723 yes. The client was thinking about divorce but after my counseling he got hope that he can make marriage work. I want to give this credit to Amit sir who has saved many marriage to break apart and gave new direction to the lives of middle class couple dealing with martial problems. 😊
Its true
🙏Phaji
Dur raho,khush raho..ya fir satth raho,samjo,khit pit na Karo..
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Har. Video me bell baj jati hai
Sir,make a video on
""live in relationship ""
And high body count of women
आप बावर्ची मूवी के हीरो हो,वो उस जमाने में घर की शांति और प्रेम बढ़ाने का काम अपने हिसाब से करता था,अब जमाने के अनुसार आप शांति और प्रेम बढ़ाने का उपाय बता रहे हो
guruji kook cook aagya aaj kya bnega🤣
Sir i am a fauji and my wife is working.....how to create balance...sab alag rehne lag jayenge to kaise kaam chalega
Meri wife ko to rehna hi padega ghrwalo k sath .... please suggest kya krna chahiye aise me!
As a man, the best thing you can do is talk to your parents. Boundaries bohot zaruri hai. Apki wife apke bharose shaadi karke aayi hai. Agar parents problems create kar rahe h toh you should be the one dealing with it kyunki wo apke parents hai, wife ke nahi. Aapke saat khoon maaf honge par wife ki choti se choti bhul pe bhi lamba taana ayega. And isse pehle ap dono ka rishta bigad jaaye, teeno ko apne paas bula lo. Quarter me rakho apne saath if possible. Dekho agar kisi aur ki aulaad se apne mata pita ki sewa karani hai toh uska bhugtana bhi bharna padega. Your wife is helping you financially too. So protect her as her husband.
@@michebang9541 thank you for your suggestion..... as of now nothing of that sort has happened... my parents and my wife both are very well together.....
Maine ye sir ki video ko dekhte hue bola ke alag alag rehna hi solution nahi hai ... agar ghar me kuch hota bhi hai to we should sort it out by talking amongst each other only.
Ye insaan aapko advice nhi de raha hai... Balki apne business me marketing kar raha hai.... So don't stuck in his trap. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Sir I have a same thought process like you...I think in such way...if u do this,that will happen and if you are not ready to bear circumstances don't do it...people be like hame to shadi bhi karni he,bachhe karne he,samaj me bhi jana he aur freedom bhi chahiye...inka aisa he aaj kal walo ka chit bhi mera ,pat bhi mera aur aada mere baap ka....aur har badi chiz sacrifice mangti he inko to bas chahiye aur wo bhi instant...usme ekad anjali arora aur chappri evlish yadav jaise aa jaye ho chuka ye sab mile pure desh ka fabric tod rahe he...hope can see you in person someday
sir completely agreed with you.
Ghanti baj gayi
any guy who has dignity manners and self esteem will directly reject the girl without even seeing her face if she will say that she wont live with family or help him in taking care of them. parents are also our family , family doesnt mean only wife
sarvgyani ,sarvagya,sir aacharya Prashant kam the kya aap bhi aa gaye gyan pelne.
Ladki ko kid ke parents kitne bhi bure ho lekin achche hi lagte hai aur ladke ke parents agar kuch bole to zahar jaise lagte hai aur privacy chahiye hoti hai!
* khud ke
ghani sahi baat kahey sey TAU🫡