SPOT ON 100% right! He must've left his family i.e. abandoned his wife and children! This 36year old woman sounds like she's 14! 😖 She's amongst the women who wait for men to divorce their wives and hope to get married to them!
@@lashondarochell7584 True. Also, if he is willing to sleep with you before marriage, he's revealing his heart and who he really is. Furthermore, if he can't control his flesh before marriage, he won't control it after marriage.
@@tiawannarichmonde250 You spoke nothing but TRUTH 🙏 if a man has no control over his body before marriage it's will get worse once marriage self control is a fruit of the spirit that's why it's a must that while courting you need to be walking with GOD 🙏 so close that you will be able to discern if he is a true man of GOD or a distraction sent by satan, point blank period.
@@lashondarochell7584 Already! Years ago I asked God to show me if he wanted me to marry a man that I was dating. I made up an unusual sentence as a confirmation request to God (like He doesn't know our hearts and thoughts), and wanted Him to have my ex to say it verbatim. That night my ex said it to me in a dream. When I woke up, I tried to rationalize because I loved him and didn't want to really let go. Later that day, he came to my house, and as we sat in his car arguing, he leaned over with his elbow on the center console, looked me in my eyes and said it word for word! The sentence was so unusual, I can't even remember exactly what it was. I just tried to make it hard and unusual so I couldn't get the answer that I deep down already knew. Well, he said it and I couldn't believe it!! My heart went through the floor, but that was my answer. NO!!!!!!!
After watching your videos, I realised I've made so many mistakes when it comes to relationships. Definitely a wake up call. From now on, we do things differently.
I am proud of this young lady for having enough sense to not let him move in ! This man is SORRY! I wish her nothing but the best. Also, so many women are not happy with their bodies, (including myself) but we still know our worth.. I hope she finds her peace... Got to go... 🙏🏻🙌
Ladies a man can’t need you for anything. That is the only way you’ll know it’s real. There are so many women that is a foreign concept to. They have never been with a man who doesn’t need them for something. Too many women think that is the only way to have a relationship with a man. The man shouldn’t ever ask you for help and please for the love of god stop offering help to grown men. Ladies please learn this very important basic life lesson.
He can’t be your husband when he’s already married . Put your track shoes on and don’t look back . You need to start working on three B’s brain, body and brand. Work on you and everything else will fall in play. Keep God first and see how God will BLESS you .. 🙌🏾
I am so grateful for your videos. Not having a dad in my life definitely messed me up in my adult relationships with men. You have taught me so much knowledge and I can’t thank you enough! I watch your videos every day. It’s kind of therapy for me and It also gives me strength to keep moving forward from a toxic relationship that YOU helped me realize. Not only did you give me strength and teach me a lot about men but you also got me closer to God! So thank you so much for what you do! And just know that you made huge difference in my life. 🙏🏼 I hope you get to read this comment lol stay blessed 🥲 oh aaaand you are so funny sometimes haha
“You need to find you a woman that’s under the table, too!” yeeeeyoooooooooooo Tony has me SCREAMINGGGGGGG at that! I’ve replayed that part like 50 times. 😭
Tony, "whilst"- that's 🇬🇧! To the writer: Chuck him the ✌. He needed a place to LIVE & CITIZENSHIP; he told you want you needed to hear. Forgive urself & keep it pushing!
Love yourself and forgive yourself. We all have fallen victim to some man at some point. God bless ❤️. Ensure you repair your heart and hurt, so you have unimpaired judgement. I have made this mistake before.
Same here . He called me weird because I didn’t want to be with him because he was emotional abusive and very sarcastic and I told him I’m not dealing with it , he then told me I’m not fun and called me to crazy . On that note yea I was for dealing with u lol 😂. Bye 👋🏽
Tony there are so many women out here only having 3 months relationship. Dating is so difficult in this day and i age. I know too many women who are having sex and never had a relationship over the one year mark.
I could've thrown my phone too many times listening to this🤣🤣🤣🤣!!! Tony Gaskins is a character😂😂😂😂😂!!!! I loved every minute of this. Tony you are the realist...LIMBO!!!
Whew chile, love yourself more, don’t ever take care of a man, he got to get it how he live, point blank perioodddd! Blessings TG to you and the Queen🙏🏾
I believe that was game he used on her. That has happen to so many women especially in Cali . These people need help nowadays nothing more. You really can’t believe anything people from another country said period .
When you said women start competing and then the other woman is probably writing in ..... I LOST IT 😂😂😂😭😭 but you’re so right! I’m recently divorced as of almost 2 days ago lol .. all 3 of my kids w this man ..... and YES‼️‼️ you are so right w everything you said . I needed to hear this !
Let your heart heal from all of the hurt that has happen in your thus far. Move forward and surround yourself with uplifting, inspirational and motivational people. That was not your husband.💕💕💕Blessings!
So often, our hearts will guide us straight off a cliff. We have to be extremely cognizant of who we let into our lives and the choices we make. Let's not forget, God also gave us a brain🧠 to use 24/7. Users like this guy are everywhere.
When Tony get to blinking with that soft sarcastic smile we know we messing up! lol.... Sis move on & seek God. We cannot drive forward looking in the rear view mirror. Rooting for you! Amen.
I think you were referring to the movie Fat Girlzs for the weight gain. Comparison to others is the thief of joy. Indeed, a man doesn't appreciate what he does not work for (especially a woman).
When he broke it down at the end whew child. Never let a man break you down to the point where you see find guess God trying to show and tell you that ain’t you husband🙌🏾
Hello tony. As I appreciate your life-coacthing, i do not tend to agree with you about men liking older women to find a mommy. I think that some men, and not most. God bless!
@@BreeziDeezi Because she has every right to voice her opinion, that is the sole purpose of a comment section, for commentary. She wasn’t disrespectful, and her opinion just so happens to oppose Mr. Gaskins. It’s called independent thinking. Move around sis, and have a blessed day.
@@christywalker9999 Tony always says men know men. Women don't know how men think. Women are not privy to locker room talk. Women don't know how men hide alterior motives. But men do! Men know men! You can't come on a man's channel and teach him about men. He is teaching women the unknown factors.
Oh my gosh Tony I am so very grateful to your service you are providing all of us lost, and broken people. I believe God has given you a gift to bring awareness and opportunity for healing for those who are committed to growing. With this in mind we all have the oppurtunity for growth no matter what cards we have been dealt. In other words, it's our responsibility to change our programming. Anyway you have inspired me to change by leading by example in the way you live as a family man and the fact that you can relate to the way you used to be is hopeful to the rest of us because you've shown your growth by the steps you've taken in your personal life. Thank you so much my virtual big brother🕊👼
Hello Tony, please keep up your good work for the kingdom. The relationships today need the standard brought back to them and you have lit the path. Thank ya! God is good.
I've been listening to you for nearly a year now. I want to truly thank you for being so transparent. You have encouraged me to take a step into leadership and I have started working on my brand. focus on ME. I enjoy seeing how you endow Mrs. Gaskins with love and you show your appreciation towards her. Thank you for doing God's work. Thank you for being the epitome of how a man suppose to be. Some of us ladies did not have a Father figure in the household as a child which interfere with our decision making when it comes to men. We became known as the fatherless child in search for the fatherly love. You give hope to majority of the women that listen to you each and everyday. You have definitely spoken life into me!!!!! I just want to say THANK YOU
There's something about verbalizing things and hearing yourself talk about the details...that should reveal to you how it doesn't make any sense to pursue or to give any time to it. At least it should. i talk to God and myself ALL THE TIME! Helps me greatly.
I'm ALWAYS CONFUSED❓ when the letter writer states she and her boyfriend are " STRICTLY RELIGIOUS, but one or the other is married and also sleeping with someone else. How does this work? 😐
The ones who have never said what other men have said to you usually aren’t your husband or have any good intentions with you either. They just saying what sounds good and whatever to get your emotions going. As Tony would say “go on bout your business.”
To the lady who wrote in,
Consider yourself lucky that the trash took itself out. Soon he'll leave HER for someone else.
The last one
Your right! He’s eventually going to leave her for someone else.
You are 100% right!
Absolutely!
Touche'😂😂😂😂😂
He didnt want her, he wanted Help!!!
ma'am... leave this man alone, he is not your husband, he is your lesson, move on
Ooh!! I'll have to use that one!! Point made!!
Just by reading the title I can already hear Tony saying 🗣 “Gone bout ya business maam” 😂
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😂😂
😅😅😅😅🤦♀️👀
Lol yes!
So his WIFE put him out. But you think that’s your husband? God doesn’t send anyone someone’s husband PERIOD!
SPOT ON 100% right! He must've left his family i.e. abandoned his wife and children! This 36year old woman sounds like she's 14! 😖 She's amongst the women who wait for men to divorce their wives and hope to get married to them!
Your know....
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Check on Alicia Keys lol.. women swear they God will send another women’s husband😩😩
@@helena3631 She’ll be writing a new album soon about a heart break. We can’t see what’s happening behind closed doors.
“Don’t ever doubt your intuition!!..... 🥴unless you snorting powder” 🤣😂😂😂😂😂 too funny.
🤣😂
Too real
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😂😂😂😂
“A Man Only Appreciates What He Works For”. ~ Tony Gaskin’s best quote to date
Self Love Over Everything Ladies,
Amen
Absolutely!
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💯💯💯
Some of us need to apologize to our "strict and religious" parents for trying to protect us. Rebellion doesnt work out.
“He was attracted to you cuz you got somewhere to stay”... straight no chaser
That's the sad truth!!
Only because he was homeless. She has low self esteem and confidence because of her weight.
lol these women know that..its called desperation.. they trick their mind out of whats reality to fit their emotions
“If he want you on yo back before marriage, he not religious.” TG
Exactly you already know he is not Godly.
@@lashondarochell7584 True. Also, if he is willing to sleep with you before marriage, he's revealing his heart and who he really is. Furthermore, if he can't control his flesh before marriage, he won't control it after marriage.
@@tiawannarichmonde250 You spoke nothing but TRUTH 🙏 if a man has no control over his body before marriage it's will get worse once marriage self control is a fruit of the spirit that's why it's a must that while courting you need to be walking with GOD 🙏 so close that you will be able to discern if he is a true man of GOD or a distraction sent by satan, point blank period.
@@lashondarochell7584 Already! Years ago I asked God to show me if he wanted me to marry a man that I was dating. I made up an unusual sentence as a confirmation request to God (like He doesn't know our hearts and thoughts), and wanted Him to have my ex to say it verbatim. That night my ex said it to me in a dream. When I woke up, I tried to rationalize because I loved him and didn't want to really let go. Later that day, he came to my house, and as we sat in his car arguing, he leaned over with his elbow on the center console, looked me in my eyes and said it word for word! The sentence was so unusual, I can't even remember exactly what it was. I just tried to make it hard and unusual so I couldn't get the answer that I deep down already knew. Well, he said it and I couldn't believe it!! My heart went through the floor, but that was my answer. NO!!!!!!!
@@tiawannarichmonde250 GOD honored your request and was protecting You from a distraction
When you get that purse, I holler!!!!! “It’s a crossbody today”! 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂, u caught that too, this gonna be a cross body today. 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Love it when he grabs the purse!!!!!!😄😄😄
I hollered lol 😂
@@millertimekids That’s my favorite part. I have to go back and watch it over and over 😂
Sis needs to know he doesn't want her he wants HELP!!! Once she mentioned he is not a Citizen you know his motives.
What will be his motives
T-shirt alert;
“BLOCKED”
😂😂😂😂😂
Yep! That's the answer to everything 😂
BLOQUED ...LOL!!!! I think of all the ways to spell the word...LOL!!,
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And, “Got ta go!”
😅😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 crying
LEAVE THESE STRANGE MEN ALONE
After watching your videos, I realised I've made so many mistakes when it comes to relationships. Definitely a wake up call. From now on, we do things differently.
I am proud of this young lady for having enough sense to not let him move in ! This man is SORRY! I wish her nothing but the best.
Also, so many women are not happy with their bodies, (including myself) but we still know our worth.. I hope she finds her peace... Got to go... 🙏🏻🙌
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When Tony looks at the pictures via email.... Lmfao 😆
Usually use his "good" eye
Ladies a man can’t need you for anything. That is the only way you’ll know it’s real. There are so many women that is a foreign concept to. They have never been with a man who doesn’t need them for something. Too many women think that is the only way to have a relationship with a man. The man shouldn’t ever ask you for help and please for the love of god stop offering help to grown men. Ladies please learn this very important basic life lesson.
u right
Been through that before...it hurts at first but you realize that you are lucky to have dodged such a bullet!!
"Her friends are biased" aka they told her the truth and she didnt wanna hear it.
"She might not season her food" the shade lol
He can’t be your husband when he’s already married . Put your track shoes on and don’t look back . You need to start working on three B’s brain, body and brand. Work on you and everything else will fall in play. Keep God first and see how God will BLESS you .. 🙌🏾
Great advice! I had to work on the 3 B’s to find a better man.
Yes 👍
Tony..."I don't know if that's a word, but we gone use it right there." 😂😂🤣😄
😂
And I like the fact that if he doesnt know a word hes not afraid to Google it on sight rather than pretend that he knows the meaning of it
@@letrice2892 He actually just started doing that. I've watched all of his videos...Tony used to say an incorrect word and kept it pushing🤣😂 Hilarious
I'm choking on the SINGLE CALLED BLOCK!!!!!! HOLLERING🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Hilarious! 🤣
🗣 “Y’all women make common sense decisions then question yourselves.”
TONY!!! you had me hollering when you said, "You're not just a snack you're a full course meal!!" And batted your eyes 🤣
That man is a professional manipulator!
Pure Narcissistic behavior!
I am so grateful for your videos. Not having a dad in my life definitely messed me up in my adult relationships with men. You have taught me so much knowledge and I can’t thank you enough! I watch your videos every day. It’s kind of therapy for me and It also gives me strength to keep moving forward from a toxic relationship that YOU helped me realize. Not only did you give me strength and teach me a lot about men but you also got me closer to God! So thank you so much for what you do! And just know that you made huge difference in my life. 🙏🏼 I hope you get to read this comment lol stay blessed 🥲 oh aaaand you are so funny sometimes haha
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Everything you said was 💯💯💯💯💯
My story. Abused me, treated me so cruel, cheated, after he got his10 yr green card , he ghosted me, and gone to her and them. Thank you Jesus.
Amen!!!
“You need to find you a woman that’s under the table, too!”
yeeeeyoooooooooooo Tony has me SCREAMINGGGGGGG at that! I’ve replayed that part like 50 times. 😭
That look in the camera!!!! I’m screaming 😂😂😂😂
Don't give a man no handouts. If you do he's gonna take advantage of you. Jesus is his provider.
Tony, "whilst"- that's 🇬🇧!
To the writer: Chuck him the ✌. He needed a place to LIVE & CITIZENSHIP; he told you want you needed to hear. Forgive urself & keep it pushing!
Amén!!
Love yourself and forgive yourself. We all have fallen victim to some man at some point. God bless ❤️. Ensure you repair your heart and hurt, so you have unimpaired judgement. I have made this mistake before.
I just cut this dude off because he called me crazy when he raised his voice. He was way too aggressive. Sometimes you just gotta go.
Same here . He called me weird because I didn’t want to be with him because he was emotional abusive and very sarcastic and I told him I’m not dealing with it , he then told me I’m not fun and called me to crazy . On that note yea I was for dealing with u lol 😂. Bye 👋🏽
@@shiaspiritual962 amen for leaving he probably would've tried to put his hands on you. Then you would've had to kill him 😪
We not living together before marriage! My fave word BLOCKED 😎!!
Tony there are so many women out here only having 3 months relationship. Dating is so difficult in this day and i age. I know too many women who are having sex and never had a relationship over the one year mark.
Hello everyone. Hello Gaskins family.
Hello😊
Hello
I could've thrown my phone too many times listening to this🤣🤣🤣🤣!!! Tony Gaskins is a character😂😂😂😂😂!!!! I loved every minute of this. Tony you are the realist...LIMBO!!!
A man only appreciates what he works for. -TG
Whew chile, love yourself more, don’t ever take care of a man, he got to get it how he live, point blank perioodddd! Blessings TG to you and the Queen🙏🏾
He probably Trying to get his family papers, already Married in another country.
You got that 100% right! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this woman should RUN
Mr, Gaskins! I'm ready for class!!
Repair your self esteem... Rebuild your self worth . Self hate is real . 😩😩
You meet your husband only operating in your purpose the men you meet operating in complacency are without a doubt your distractions.
How was he your husband when he was already married?!? Tony pls take time with her🙄😅😅😅🤦♀️
@@LA-wv7gf lol
I believe that was game he used on her. That has happen to so many women especially in Cali . These people need help nowadays nothing more. You really can’t believe anything people from another country said period .
Lmao, not the single called BLOCKEDT! I’m screaming!
When you said women start competing and then the other woman is probably writing in ..... I LOST IT 😂😂😂😭😭 but you’re so right! I’m recently divorced as of almost 2 days ago lol .. all 3 of my kids w this man ..... and YES‼️‼️ you are so right w everything you said . I needed to hear this !
I’m over here CRYING laughing at this nose scenario 😂😂😂. I had to stop working and get myself together lol..
😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣
Let your heart heal from all of the hurt that has happen in your thus far. Move forward and surround yourself with uplifting, inspirational and motivational people. That was not your husband.💕💕💕Blessings!
Very nice comment!
The caption though 😳 I’m here for this 🙏🏾
So often, our hearts will guide us straight off a cliff. We have to be extremely cognizant of who we let into our lives and the choices we make. Let's not forget, God also gave us a brain🧠 to use 24/7. Users like this guy are everywhere.
Amen ,cause some men act like some women looking for a come up smh..
“Don’t be in my comments with y’all Doctorate” 😂😂😂
Look you know they were ready 👩🏽💻 lol 😂
Lol
I agree with what you said about giving men hand outs. I’ve witnessed the effects of this myself. Lesson learned.
He needs papers!!! 🏃🏾♀️ Run as fast as you can 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️ Block him!!!
Give me that BLOCK ringtone 😂🤣💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
“BLOCK”🗣 😭😭🤣
Since my 20s I knew that once you know a person's goal, you'll understand the strategy that person will follow
When Tony get to blinking with that soft sarcastic smile we know we messing up! lol.... Sis move on & seek God. We cannot drive forward looking in the rear view mirror. Rooting for you! Amen.
That under the table part 😂😂. I know this isn’t meant to be funny but Tony’s hilarious!
She didn’t lose anything...she will be thankful later 💯
He left bc he didnt want you. If he love you he never leave the woman he love
i cant with tony’s facial expressions 😩😂👏🏽👏🏽
Tony🤣🙏🏽your look is hilarious ! Self-esteem, ladies , love yourself first!!
Tony you literally are a father/ big brother for so many of us who never had that. We are grateful that the lord brought you to us so thank you!!!!!
Mandingo from the Congolese 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
I love it, I can't wait to hear the single called "blocked " I hope you really accomplish this, 😂😂😂😂, because I'm really going to sign up for it.
I justtttt knew Uncle Tony was going to hit us with "oh, yeah! I can type " 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I appreciate how he handles sensitive topics gracefully.
Self esteem issues , love yourself more Ladies
I Love when Tony types, it's so funny 😫😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂
48:00 Not the “Blocked” Single 🤣🤣🤣
“Before you meet destiny, you will meet a distraction that looks like destiny”
That’ll preach right there Tony!!!! Whew!!
That blockedddd took me df outttt🤣
Thank you Tony for your truth and wisdom, God bless you and your family!
"One bites is two bites"..sounds good to me..😂😂😂
🤣🤣
He was trying so hard to explain it
@@LEXZAYful gurl yes! sent me..😂😂..he was tryna be as delicate as he could..
I think you were referring to the movie Fat Girlzs for the weight gain. Comparison to others is the thief of joy. Indeed, a man doesn't appreciate what he does not work for (especially a woman).
Usually people who say "whilst" are usually from the UK
Yes we do ☺️
Us Australians too 🤣 I didn’t realize not everyone say it usually lol
@@susanntillzxo3626 me either!
I say it all the time and I am from the Desert S W.😬😮
God bless you for responding to her email. That was so sweet.
When he broke it down at the end whew child. Never let a man break you down to the point where you see find guess God trying to show and tell you that ain’t you husband🙌🏾
Oh my goodness,Tony is so funny....the part about under the table... LoL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love love his delivery. Always an awesome message with a bit of humor ...
I just stumbled upon this video, such compassionate teaching is rare and such a show of authenticity to your viewers🎉New subscriber!
A lot of woman have thyroid irregularities. Most case go undiagnosed, get your blood checked ladies!! ♥️✨
Hello tony. As I appreciate your life-coacthing, i do not tend to agree with you about men liking older women to find a mommy.
I think that some men, and not most. God bless!
You can always disagree but what’s the point of announcing it? Find a channel that aligns with what you want to believe.
@@BreeziDeezi Because she has every right to voice her opinion, that is the sole purpose of a comment section, for commentary. She wasn’t disrespectful, and her opinion just so happens to oppose Mr. Gaskins. It’s called independent thinking. Move around sis, and have a blessed day.
@@christywalker9999 Tony always says men know men. Women don't know how men think. Women are not privy to locker room talk. Women don't know how men hide alterior motives. But men do! Men know men! You can't come on a man's channel and teach him about men. He is teaching women the unknown factors.
Am here tonight listening and learning with Talks with Tony, God bless you Bro Tony and your family.
I will subscribe to that Bloooooockkkkeed ringtone!!🤣🤣 then he said that’s rent enough for me!!!😂😂😂😅
Oh my gosh Tony I am so very grateful to your service you are providing all of us lost, and broken people. I believe God has given you a gift to bring awareness and opportunity for healing for those who are committed to growing. With this in mind we all have the oppurtunity for growth no matter what cards we have been dealt. In other words, it's our responsibility to change our programming. Anyway you have inspired me to change by leading by example in the way you live as a family man and the fact that you can relate to the way you used to be is hopeful to the rest of us because you've shown your growth by the steps you've taken in your personal life. Thank you so much my virtual big brother🕊👼
Hello Tony, please keep up your good work for the kingdom. The relationships today need the standard brought back to them and you have lit the path. Thank ya! God is good.
Everyone stay blessed 💕
“she might not season her food” 😭😩🥴
I've been listening to you for nearly a year now. I want to truly thank you for being so transparent. You have encouraged me to take a step into leadership and I have started working on my brand. focus on ME. I enjoy seeing how you endow Mrs. Gaskins with love and you show your appreciation towards her. Thank you for doing God's work. Thank you for being the epitome of how a man suppose to be. Some of us ladies did not have a Father figure in the household as a child which interfere with our decision making when it comes to men. We became known as the fatherless child in search for the fatherly love. You give hope to majority of the women that listen to you each and everyday. You have definitely spoken life into me!!!!! I just want to say THANK YOU
That single called “Blocked” is going to actually be fire 🔥. I can see it. 💯
There's something about verbalizing things and hearing yourself talk about the details...that should reveal to you how it doesn't make any sense to pursue or to give any time to it. At least it should. i talk to God and myself ALL THE TIME! Helps me greatly.
I'm ALWAYS CONFUSED❓ when the letter writer states she and her boyfriend are " STRICTLY RELIGIOUS, but one or the other is married and also sleeping with someone else. How does this work? 😐
@@LA-wv7gf Yep, we did. WE GOTTA RE-READ THE BIBLE TO FIND THIS CHAPTER ! 😆
These stories help me in my single season. Thanks Uncle Tony.
All this punctuation in here. They can write now lol 😂😂
Nailed it! Love the honesty!
Tony I must commend you...you did took your time with her😅😅😅😅👀
The ones who have never said what other men have said to you usually aren’t your husband or have any good intentions with you either. They just saying what sounds good and whatever to get your emotions going. As Tony would say “go on bout your business.”
Very true 🤦🏾♀️💯