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Komentáře • 523

  • @ericaljones7665
    @ericaljones7665 Před 3 lety +344

    When you have a right mind to leave a man don't let your left mind send you back ... Noted

    • @394saci
      @394saci Před 3 lety +10

      I could not have said that any better myself.

    • @tamroc7847
      @tamroc7847 Před 3 lety +9

      Quote of the century!💯

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 Před 3 lety +14

      never pick up garbage you put down

    • @kishoflife
      @kishoflife Před 3 lety +3

      Are you a philosopher??? That was very deep-ly!!! I love it

    • @ericaljones7665
      @ericaljones7665 Před 3 lety +8

      @@kishoflife that's what Tony said in his message I just quoted him he's the goat 🐐 lol 🤣

  • @ShesGottaFastCar
    @ShesGottaFastCar Před 3 lety +107

    A man’s ego is more vulnerable than their heart!

  • @eupiaeupia2647
    @eupiaeupia2647 Před 3 lety +91

    Never take a man back! When you don’t sleep with a guy/men you are always the winner!

  • @vegigirl7440
    @vegigirl7440 Před 3 lety +102

    You want: clarity , answers, solutions, atonement, closure He wants: REVENGE You want to settle things out like adults He wants: REVENGE Go on about your business!!

  • @natashafreeman2220
    @natashafreeman2220 Před 3 lety +144

    Don’t break up with a Man unless you’re 100% certain that you are done and are ok with never speaking with him again. If you reach out in the future they will just rage back at you. Then you’ll really feel hurt.

    • @brianahernandez2731
      @brianahernandez2731 Před 3 lety +19

      My mom said the same thing before I left my ex, I wasn’t ready but I honestly don’t know if I’d be here if I continued on with him any further.

    • @LoveAlways1002
      @LoveAlways1002 Před 3 lety +1

      Story of my life 💯

  • @ashleycbla
    @ashleycbla Před 3 lety +181

    Another key lesson, stay off ya back. Wait a year and you will see his true colors if he isn’t your husband or is. Staying off ya back will give you clarity while getting to know who he is.

  • @pooh4025
    @pooh4025 Před 3 lety +177

    Sista you dodged a bullet..don't worry about him being engaged he is the new woman's problem.

    • @Amarillo2012
      @Amarillo2012 Před 2 lety +1

      "He's someone else problem" 💯....some females don't even realize this bc they THINK they're so "in love." 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🥴

  • @ak-47intelligence75
    @ak-47intelligence75 Před 3 lety +79

    Learn to cut them off EARLY.
    You see the signs here and there, actions not matching words, close the chapter.
    No second chances.
    One strike and you're out.

  • @trulyoptimistic3469
    @trulyoptimistic3469 Před 3 lety +80

    I have dealt with a grown man who was actually a grown boy in disguise. He would like to debate with me most of the time. It felt like he was belittling me; which he was. He would laugh and tell me that he was just playing. I eventually called him out on his behavior. He got so offended. He knew he was a narcissist, and he saw that I knew it also. I blocked him and almost six months later; he contacted me via another number because he knew his number was blocked. He said he wanted to win my heart, and get married. Pulling the "your my wife card". Grown boy if I was your wife, why did you treat me so bad? I told him to never contact me again. I blocked his new number too. In my big bro Tony voice BLOCKED.

    • @lukreecelupe8849
      @lukreecelupe8849 Před rokem

      Oh wow! My one contacted me after 6 months too… asking to get back together and then ignoring me… not texting back for 6hrs LOL

  • @tabmajor27
    @tabmajor27 Před 3 lety +67

    That's why the bible says to wait until marriage to have sex. Plus Mr. Tony says stay off your back. Then the man is limited to his revenge. It's for our protection.

    • @tiawannarichmonde250
      @tiawannarichmonde250 Před 3 lety +6

      She was very fortunate to have learned a lesson that only involved herself. A lot of women have lost kids and family members due to a vengeful man. She was fortunate that he went on about his business and didn't physically harm her or her family.

  • @reginaleftwich6898
    @reginaleftwich6898 Před 3 lety +76

    Grown Boy mentality shocked by a confident woman who
    knows her worth. Cannot tolerate the disrespect .
    I can SHOW YOU better than I can TELL YOU.

  • @heysonnibunnyketo8689
    @heysonnibunnyketo8689 Před 3 lety +117

    Whew! Tony just described my marriage and all seven times we tried to make it work after getting divorced. Yes, I said seven. Like walking around the walls of Jericho. After the last break up, I shouted out to God and the walls came tumbling down. I left and never looked back. Knowing he was a "grown boy", I continued to try to be a "good wife" and wait on my husband to grow up. 20 years after our wedding date, he's still in the same place mentally, emotionally, and spiritually while I have moved on with my life by the grace of God. I finally let go of the guilt of a failed marriage and I am finally learning how to love myself.

    • @394saci
      @394saci Před 3 lety +11

      Thank you for your testimony it was very helpful. Make God continue to bless your efforts. Keep healing and loving yourself.

    • @keelaw6749
      @keelaw6749 Před 3 lety +6

      Sounds familiar my Sista. God bless u. 💜

    • @CaramelKissez
      @CaramelKissez Před 3 lety +4

      God bless you 🙏🏽

    • @unapologeticallyauthentic2428
      @unapologeticallyauthentic2428 Před 3 lety +7

      Thank you for Sharing your testimony sis. It's definitely encouraging to us in a marriage thats only one-sided.

    • @rosegold5211
      @rosegold5211 Před 3 lety +3

      @@unapologeticallyauthentic2428 Thank you

  • @iambeloved8109
    @iambeloved8109 Před 3 lety +135

    It's a blessing that she's not with him. I just broke up with someone like this. He was 10 years my senior, and he would always downplay my thoughts and opinions. He was intimidated by the fact that he couldn't "teach" me anything. He felt some kind of way about me being on the same level as him when it came to our careers. Our relationship really went bad once I began to excel past him. He would do things like flirt with other females in front of me and then resort to gaslighting me every time I confronted him about it. I ghosted him and never looked back. A man that childish deserves to be left in time out. Girl, move on. There are men out there that will adore you for the type of woman you are.

    • @fah232
      @fah232 Před 3 lety +15

      Oh !! They don't like that, lol. They expect to mold you into what they want.

    • @iambeloved8109
      @iambeloved8109 Před 3 lety +3

      @@fah232 I hope that’s not what he thought. Lol

    • @iambeloved8109
      @iambeloved8109 Před 3 lety +8

      @@christina9238 During the many arguments that we had, I told him that I would leave if his behavior didn't change. He's a grown man. I'm sure he knew it was coming. Also, I knew that if I told him it would turn into another one of our ”great debates”.

    • @fah232
      @fah232 Před 3 lety +3

      @@iambeloved8109 Unfortunately that's what some of them think. I'm glad you're out, and I had my turn also and got away from that.

    • @vegigirl7440
      @vegigirl7440 Před 3 lety +4

      I think my ex was put off by me not being impressed with his 'intelligence'...he would put down other men who were truly more academically astute, showing his lack..he got with a younger woman who was more " street" smart than book smart, she has a mouth ( and a list of court appearances) on her (more his level, I guess)

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 Před 3 lety +30

    “This ain’t a loss; it’s a lesson.” TG

  • @anointedstilettos
    @anointedstilettos Před 3 lety +125

    "I met a distraction that looks like destiny"... ~TG

  • @MichElle-py8lk
    @MichElle-py8lk Před 3 lety +127

    Can't wait to get the BLOCKED ❌ t-shirt! Makes me laugh so much when Tony says that 😂😂

    • @ladyrcreation4702
      @ladyrcreation4702 Před 3 lety +2

      Yes!!! That's the Shirt!!

    • @amandabretch85
      @amandabretch85 Před 3 lety

      I looked for the shirts! There was only two to choose from? Was I looking in the wrong place?

  • @lisasmilez
    @lisasmilez Před 3 lety +94

    I know one thing, y’all better have that grammar together writing Tony! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @indyTyson
    @indyTyson Před 3 lety +36

    I love how hyped Tony is about this letter being typed correctly! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @elizabethodunlami
    @elizabethodunlami Před 3 lety +59

    Tony is not lying... I have stayed single for years because of the 80% grown boy population and not realising the work I needed to do on myself.

    • @Missybella92227
      @Missybella92227 Před 8 měsíci

      Right!!
      You’re probably being generous with the 80% too😂
      Dating 40 + year old grown boys out here!!

  • @wonderfullymade9750
    @wonderfullymade9750 Před 3 lety +85

    Mr. Gaskins, you really broke it down. I will never entertain another grown boy for the rest of my life. And ladies, lets stop bringing the trash BACK in the house, ok. lol

  • @Herbeliefinchrist
    @Herbeliefinchrist Před 3 lety +60

    U ain’t never lying about a woman breaking up with a man. I’m speaking from experience. No matter if you (the woman) is in the wrong or not NEVER call text or try to work it out. NEVER! Even if he does come back , he’ll just mess up again and you’ll be wasting MORE time. Unless like Tony said: u SEE CONSISTENT changed behavior. After 4 years of an on and off TOXIC relationship, No kids no marriage I finally walked away for good. This man was so bitter by that time that he damaged my car even tho he was paying the car note. How backwards is that lol. He even tried to date a girl younger than me. Mind u he was already in his 30s. So freakin immature. It’s been over a year now, I’m still in my 20s and I’m so so so grateful to not be with him. He’s been blocked an entire year plus more. I don’t take EXs back. He had good qualities but I was the BETTER half.
    Be blessed ❤️

    • @ataerabella
      @ataerabella Před 3 lety +8

      You are a WHOLE woman. A wife and a helpmate, you already are. You bring favour & blessings to a man”s life. When he covers you, it’s represents how GOD covers man. With love, protection, prayer, mercy, kindness and more love. Because of that, GOD blesses a man when he has you.
      Before Adam even named EVE, Adam said out loud before GOD....Whoa- Man. There is nothing half about that.

  • @aneesahm4301
    @aneesahm4301 Před 3 lety +56

    Lol, I teach elementary school remotely, and I want to tell my students the same thing! “Stop noticing and commenting on irrelevant things and get this lesson!” 🤣

  • @minnie_babygirl4762
    @minnie_babygirl4762 Před 3 lety +37

    If your Right mind tells you to leave; don’t let your Left mind send you back....Amen

  • @jenniferthompson5146
    @jenniferthompson5146 Před 3 lety +96

    The 2 boyfriends I've had were this way. Smart and confident but thought they were smart beyond question. I elevated them so high and was enamored, like Tony describes. If I questioned them I would get immediately shut down and made to feel like a silly school girl. "Just shut up and let me teach you" was the attitude. Now I'm looking for a man who is smart but has a quiet, humble confidence. They must respect and value my mind.

    • @deet200
      @deet200 Před 3 lety +2

      💯 ‼️

    • @reinaquisha9418
      @reinaquisha9418 Před 3 lety +3

      That's growth 🙌🏿

    • @lsmith6718
      @lsmith6718 Před 3 lety +11

      OMG, I’ve dated this type of guy. That’s how I found Tony. I started standing up for myself, and he ghosted me! Young lady in the email, just do the work, and you’ll heal. It’s been almost a year for me😃. I am So Grateful the Lord removed me from that situation. I can’t imagine having to spend the rest of my life with that man (grown boy) - draining AND depressing. Lord, I Thank You!🙏

    • @jenniferthompson5146
      @jenniferthompson5146 Před 3 lety +7

      @@lsmith6718 After seeing the pattern I can see how my insecurities were used against me and that if I shore up those weaknesses, those people wont be able to break me down, or even get close enough to try. 😊

    • @MrsVanness0929
      @MrsVanness0929 Před 3 lety +3

      Yessss!!!

  • @fashionwithoutlabels
    @fashionwithoutlabels Před 3 lety +25

    Women in the comment section...please stop knitpicking everything about Mr. Gaskins videos. Just be glad and thankful he teaching you things your father figures should have taught regarding men and their behaviors. I said what I said.
    if this doesn't apply to you....ignore.

  • @virtuous_committed
    @virtuous_committed Před 3 lety +111

    I can totally identify with this email. An ex-boyfriend of 32 years ago reappeared in my life, wantng us to rekindle what we had. Well considering that I was the one that broke it off before, I thought maybe he had matured and we could try it again. Boy was I wrong. After 30 days I blocked him twice, the second time was the final time. I found myself just like this email always being on the defense of my opinions and my feelings. He always downplayed what I said, pushed me off as if I meant nothing, and he acted as if he really didn't want to be bothered with me. I expressed this to him the first time it happened, and he acted like "oh I wasn't aware I was doing that, please forgive me". So I thought it would have gotten better and that he would have changed, in his approach towards me and he didn't. The second and the last time that it happened I expressed my concerns again and I proceeded to block him on every means necessary and I have not spoken to him again, because one thing I will not do and that is go back and forth when I have already addressed and expressed the issue once before. We are adults, not children.

    • @myserenityhomestead
      @myserenityhomestead Před 3 lety +24

      I had almost the exact same thing just happen to me. I definitely learned that ex’s are ex’s for a reason no matter how much time has passed since the breakup.

    • @anointedstilettos
      @anointedstilettos Před 3 lety +3

      I've been through the same thing as well.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 Před 3 lety +6

      32 years ago ..you shoudve not even entertain him..if you dump a guy and he come back sometimes they come back to to run you thru the ringer then dump yoiu ..do not redate someone they knew what to do the first time but they forgot.

    • @sarahyoung6963
      @sarahyoung6963 Před 3 lety +9

      Wow 32 years!? I guess it’s true ,they always come back

  • @ciaracorrea8344
    @ciaracorrea8344 Před 3 lety +82

    I had a feeling when my ex deployed to break up with him because I wasn't feeling like myself. He cried to me to take him back and my left mind said okay .... and in his deployment he broke up with me and it was just a horrible break up and bad timing of a family member death and he was aware of it. Lesson Learned, I walked away and I have never looked back. I'm 24 learning how to read men to protect myself and grow :)

    • @mvang3250
      @mvang3250 Před 3 lety +2

      I’m so glad to know that you’re growing from that! My ex boyfriend was also deployed and had broken up with me over text last year, so I can understand some of your pain during the breakup. You got this girl!

    • @disnalee
      @disnalee Před 2 lety +5

      Never give in to a crying man, its fake tears.

    • @shevettejackson.
      @shevettejackson. Před 2 lety

      @@disnalee Okay

  • @ShesGottaFastCar
    @ShesGottaFastCar Před 3 lety +57

    A man who challenges your every word or thought is the ultimate turnoff. (For me)

    • @tialaboard3222
      @tialaboard3222 Před 3 lety +6

      Yeah it’s a form of gaslighting...when I see this I run. People with major insecurities do this and some people are so broken down by life and have superior complexes that there not even aware that there doing it because they literally believe that their thoughts are always supreme and everyone else is beneath them... this is how they make themselves feel good about themselves by lowering others. Men as well as woman suffer from this and they are not safe people.

    • @RachelGerrard
      @RachelGerrard Před 3 lety

      Yup. That's what a three year old does.

  • @LoveAlways1002
    @LoveAlways1002 Před 3 lety +25

    Maaaaan I left him after a year, i was still a virgin,....long story short...I came back, lost my virginity, and Lord knows....the next 5 years of my life was built creating soul ties that took me another 10 years to break!!!!!
    If you walk away, stay away!!!!🗣🗣🗣🗣💕💕💕💕💎💎💎💎

    • @fendibondie2545
      @fendibondie2545 Před 2 lety +1

      I’m glad you got over it!!

    • @LoveAlways1002
      @LoveAlways1002 Před 2 lety +1

      I would be a liar if I accepted this credit. This year is the first year I've gone an entire year without speaking to him, since meeting him in 2006. Definitely not over it but I'm not where I used to be 🙌🏾🙏🏽💯❤️

  • @theebastet7216
    @theebastet7216 Před 3 lety +44

    8 out of 10 men you meet are grown boys.

  • @sherryj738
    @sherryj738 Před 3 lety +27

    It takes a strong woman to take care of her business, her life, child's life, a job, paying all her own bills.....living a good life for her and her child, or children.
    Dont ever settle for less than you can do alone. There are so many men out there that are players and you are wise, and you know the difference and don't settle for less.
    Dont succumb to a grown boy. Trust your intuition, always.
    A grown boy cant accelerate to the level you are at, no matter how much they try. Walk on by girlfriend.
    You deserve so much better! Love yourself wholeheartedly

  • @DawnOfKelly
    @DawnOfKelly Před 3 lety +86

    This is so entertaining but soooooo important!!! So nice to hear a man validate my suspicion about men paying you back and endlessly getting revenge.

  • @grlwnder1317
    @grlwnder1317 Před 3 lety +67

    2021 is my year! I enrolled.

  • @rose-annwoodsley1252
    @rose-annwoodsley1252 Před 3 lety +126

    It's a couple more days until a New Year. I'll take heed to Tony G's advice. I have made many mistakes and have been deceived and mislead by 'grown boys'. It seems that these feminine, immature men are in the majority.
    I'm starting by working on my body, brain and brand. I've wasted too many good years entertaining and supporting losers. I'm loosing the extra weight, shaping my body, learning a new language, and having a new source of income from an Etsy store.
    I'm not looking back at trash or putting hope in the potential of a grown boy. Thanks Tony G. Merry Christmas to the wonderful ladies in the channel too.

    • @peaceful_and_blessed2879
      @peaceful_and_blessed2879 Před 3 lety +10

      Merry Christmas and Happy New year to you! 🙌🙏🏻🎄

    • @kimsmith819
      @kimsmith819 Před 3 lety +5

      So happy for you taking care of yourself. We all need to do that, but you're doing it

    • @lisah7761
      @lisah7761 Před 3 lety +7

      Happy Holidays! What is the name of your store on Etsy?

    • @Iamdeedii
      @Iamdeedii Před 3 lety +4

      Amen sis ! And the best of luck to you ❤️

    • @maryphillips3686
      @maryphillips3686 Před 3 lety

      Yesss ❤️ your message. Merry Christmas to you too.

  • @Makeda830
    @Makeda830 Před 3 lety +43

    Yes, his ego was insulted.

  • @nadeidgedorcelus9607
    @nadeidgedorcelus9607 Před 3 lety +32

    He did not ask you sis, YOU asked him SEVERAL times. Thank you for sharing, now that we know better, we will do better.

  • @tonitaquetaparks3304
    @tonitaquetaparks3304 Před 3 lety +43

    Yes I agree we as women need to make a change and stop putting up with bad behavior. We have to stop wasting time on people who dont love us and work on ourselves.

  • @sarcasm176
    @sarcasm176 Před 3 lety +45

    tony enamored by the grammar skills lmao

    • @blacksongbird100
      @blacksongbird100 Před 3 lety +8

      I mean really!! 😂😂 And he read the punctuation aloud! 😂😆 Hilarious! 😂

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 Před 3 lety +4

      It tickled me😂🤣🤣!!

    • @neya292
      @neya292 Před 3 lety +1

      I swear, he has me cracking up!

  • @cemplygloria6261
    @cemplygloria6261 Před 3 lety +61

    While I totally understand and agree with everything Tony is saying, I bet you some time later he reach out to her again. That's just how grown boys are. Always on the comeback trail.

  • @blacksongbird100
    @blacksongbird100 Před 3 lety +30

    😂😂😂😂😂 When Tony gives his vocabulary lessons. Oooh... the way I holler every time!!!

  • @tiffanyd.8660
    @tiffanyd.8660 Před 3 lety +35

    Tony be killing me with the weave jokes 😂

  • @zinaa3450
    @zinaa3450 Před 3 lety +12

    Wow Tony, you said it how it I.S ISSS! Left my ex husband while i was pregnant in januari 2020, and next monday he is getting married. He even proposed to his gf while i was pregnant. And now our baby is 3months old and he getting married next week. He aint got his life together. Not paying childsuport, waiting on the judge to decide the visitation rights etc.. so it makes 100% sense that this is a revenge act. Cause he out and about in the luxury stores buying all the stuff for his new wife but wont even buy a box of milk for our 2nd daughter.. good riddens🗣😫

    • @eupiaeupia2647
      @eupiaeupia2647 Před 3 lety +9

      Wow! This is crazy. I don’t understand woman like that. You have to be crazy and desperate to marry a man after days/month. Your ex husband is using her as rebound, and he is a loser. Thank god you dumped him!

    • @nataliet.3023
      @nataliet.3023 Před 3 lety +2

      Lol girl, sounds like my children's father. But it is what it is. Y'all be blessed with that petty marriage 😂😂

    • @kristinakellogg1732
      @kristinakellogg1732 Před 3 lety +1

      @@eupiaeupia2647 Not just that but how can a woman want to marry a man seeing and knowing how he treated her ? Unless she totally in the dark someway about his situation with her. What he did to her he will do to his current gf. A pattern..

  • @rose-annwoodsley1252
    @rose-annwoodsley1252 Před 3 lety +63

    When Tony G. talks about men, I think of an old, children's fable called a "Dog and the bone". The dog had the bone in it's mouth, but looking down at the water. The dog kept salivating and wishing for the other dog (it's own reflection) bone. I'm not a man. I will never understand men, but listening to Tony G and having that fable in mind helps me to understand them better.
    It seems that most men are on a constant search for something that's better. They're never satisfied with securing what they already have, or how best they are going to make use of their resources. I need to approach a man with that concept and the term "grown boy" until he proves different.

    • @MegaLadylove2012
      @MegaLadylove2012 Před 3 lety +4

      Right. Instead of becoming something better. This was a good analogy

    • @travelchannel304
      @travelchannel304 Před 3 lety +5

      Oh! Oh! That hurts! And ive know these things about most of the men Ive encountered, even the one or True loves. Myfather tried to tell me. "Do not trust anyone. Not even me." He said 3 months before he past. Even the Good ones, must be denied The Golden Rule until is Proven. If Christ had not been a man,Lord Lird!! Your Mercy! Please.

    • @tamroc7847
      @tamroc7847 Před 3 lety

      🎙🎙🎙

    • @tialaboard3222
      @tialaboard3222 Před 3 lety +4

      @ Rose-Ann Woodsley That’s deep...I remember that fable and the moral of the story was if you are greedy you may lose everything!!!...I love your mind sis!!!😇

  • @MichElle-py8lk
    @MichElle-py8lk Před 3 lety +130

    I know Tony is joking, but there are some of us ladies who have University Degrees, good at grammar and who knows some Latin words 😭😭😂😂

    • @roja_xo5527
      @roja_xo5527 Před 3 lety +6

      Thank you for paying homage to my latin culture because ion know a lick of latin.😂

    • @noorbokore2802
      @noorbokore2802 Před 3 lety +5

      🤣 True! He is too funny and his antics tickle me! When you said we know some Latin, I hollered! Tell it!

    • @alego8072
      @alego8072 Před 3 lety +7

      Great advice overall but aren't the extra waxy vocabulary breakdowns a tad condescending much?? It's truly distracting from the reality of these grown boy lessons.

    • @roja_xo5527
      @roja_xo5527 Před 3 lety +14

      @@alego8072 we're all human and sometimes we can say something that might come off the wrong way depending on the audience. But I highly doubt he did it from a place of bad intention. If I were you I would use what applies to me let the rest fly. If he was truly condescending he wouldn't being try to help. A truly condescending person is arrogant.

    • @travelchannel304
      @travelchannel304 Před 3 lety

      @@roja_xo5527 ahaha!! 😆😂

  • @stephanierose9042
    @stephanierose9042 Před 3 lety +11

    “He’s butt hurt and don’t got no preparation H”lmfaooo alright I’m done !! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sherryj738
    @sherryj738 Před 3 lety +23

    I can't believe the amount of grown boys in the world. I am with a "man" who is 55 and I'm 62 and he is fascinating! The maturity of this man astonishes me.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 Před 3 lety +5

      guys in the age range love to play games too and you are almost at retirement age he trying to get locked in ...so watch him

    • @LoveAlways1002
      @LoveAlways1002 Před 3 lety +3

      @YV-HE W 🤣🤣 you weren't playing with your response!!!!

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 Před 3 lety +2

      @@LoveAlways1002 listen lol..I have been around older people that put me on to game lol ..dont assume because someone is older they are blessed the devil gives blessings too...always listen to intuition if you do you can never play myself..doing this had helped me avoid a lot in my 35 yrs of life and having boundaries with people that I dont change..

  • @Destinee36
    @Destinee36 Před 3 lety +26

    Tony giving us Miriam-Webster tonight 😂😂😂🙌🏾

  • @bersabeht4896
    @bersabeht4896 Před 3 lety +24

    Word of the night: Comma 😂😂😂😂

  • @stargoldqueen5894
    @stargoldqueen5894 Před 3 lety +22

    Getting that last lick is right, such nefarious energy. Just recently learned that.

  • @patriciawilliams5519
    @patriciawilliams5519 Před 3 lety +14

    My experience with my grown boy/spouse was very intimidated by me expressing myself as the woman you're speaking about. I recognized the attitude and felt him pulling away!! He wanted to be the bible on every subject! Debated everything!! Needed constant validation and attention. Said you think you a boss! Never celebrated my accomplishments; But immediately when it's about him! Fireworks, it's a national holiday! All eyes on him!! Grown boy bye! I put him out and he's being the same liar asking can he come back!! Haven't done any work; nor consistent about reaching out or proving himself he's worthy of anymore of time!!!!

  • @topazgraham2643
    @topazgraham2643 Před 3 lety +8

    Hey Ladies...What Tony said is true about a man coming back to you for revenge. I’ve heard my uncles talk about this, so I know Tony is on point about this. Once gone...Stay gone.🏃🏿‍♀️

  • @iamsadeashley
    @iamsadeashley Před 3 lety +8

    Every time Tony says "comma" "semicolon" "period," this is me 🤣🤣🤣 periodt

  • @mmxw2294
    @mmxw2294 Před 3 lety +29

    Please listen to Tony because this happened to me. I left this thing the first time because all we did was argue then I took him back and it was 10x worst he even stole from me and I knew it was revenge for leaving even after I told him that I went to counseling to work on myself please guard your heart and get to know people well before and stay off your back lol vet these wolves in sheep clothing

  • @indyTyson
    @indyTyson Před 3 lety +10

    "When you have the RIGHT mind to leave a man, don't let your LEFT mind bring you back!" - TG ⚠️

  • @sibel3795
    @sibel3795 Před 3 lety +46

    I’m here in the uk 🇬🇧 waiting up at 1am in the morning 🙌

    • @MichElle-py8lk
      @MichElle-py8lk Před 3 lety +3

      Me too!! 😃🇬🇧

    • @Glamrocs
      @Glamrocs Před 3 lety +3

      Thank you 🙏🏾 ladies for supporting.

    • @MichElle-py8lk
      @MichElle-py8lk Před 3 lety +1

      @@Glamrocs thanks gorgeous 😃💖

    • @Glamrocs
      @Glamrocs Před 3 lety +3

      @@MichElle-py8lk I will forever love your hair 😍 and your welcome!

    • @394saci
      @394saci Před 3 lety

      @@Glamrocs I subscribed to your channel and I look forward to your make up tips.

  • @fah232
    @fah232 Před 3 lety +20

    I always say, it's like putting a box of stale cereal on top of the refrigerator and thinking they'll be fresh next week.

  • @ishanasweetncool
    @ishanasweetncool Před 3 lety +13

    1)Showed me his research papers ,telling me that he 'skipped a grade' because he was too smart, and telling me that his old boss is always begging him to come back , on the third date.
    2) Told me his salary without me even asking for it ( or anything related to it on the fourth date)
    3) trying to be cool by sharing the most irrelevant news and captioning it with being 'ashamed of his nationality' .
    4) saying- 'you will earn more money than me' cynically on the 5th date
    5) repeatedly saying 'WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU AND YOU MUST BE SO SAD' when I dumped him , when he tried to bench me to the side hoe position.
    OMG!!!!! I DODGED A HUGE BULLET

    • @indyTyson
      @indyTyson Před 3 lety +1

      What in the world?!? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ishanasweetncool
      @ishanasweetncool Před 3 lety

      @@indyTyson He also shamed me for my language skills. According to him, conversation with me would 'worsen' his English -_____- . ( He is NOT a native english speaker, and no one except him speaks english in his family, and he spells STUFF as 'STUFFS')

    • @indyTyson
      @indyTyson Před 3 lety +2

      @@ishanasweetncool Wow!! 🤣🤣🤣 Definitely dodged a bullet on that one cuz he sounds delusional girl!!

  • @lisel.133
    @lisel.133 Před 3 lety +19

    When he said every now n then I can tell your track showing. I almost fell out my seat...Toni wild..

  • @Mirror_My_Ambition
    @Mirror_My_Ambition Před 3 lety +28

    Straight revengeful action by a grown boy.

  • @khocolateable
    @khocolateable Před 3 lety +15

    I just joined the Blessed Tribe 🥰

  • @beefaye6861
    @beefaye6861 Před 3 lety +6

    Tony know his stuff.....I was married and being treated worse than a dog...I left for a year....allowed my Church to guilt me into trying again and he was 10x's worse.....don't everrrrrr go back....its a song about this "🎶We are never ever getting back together" 🎶 Taylor Swift 😁

  • @charlinecharlostin3188
    @charlinecharlostin3188 Před 3 lety +12

    Omg this is crazy my ex loved to debate about everything . I don’t think he ever got over his ex. Thank you lord for Tony !

  • @tameekaharris6425
    @tameekaharris6425 Před 3 lety +20

    I just love it when someone think I suppose to have insecurities, particularly ( my weight) being that is such a big stigma on not being skin and bones. Also I'm getting older I'll be 45 soon, so now you got ( some men) that think you should be desperate about that also. But surprisingly they found out quick I'm not the one, the two or the three lol. I know I'm not perfect but I also love myself. Tony I been watching you for years and you have been my little big brother lol with all your great wisdom. 💖💖💖

  • @deeenthusiast3743
    @deeenthusiast3743 Před 3 lety +5

    When he took his book out, I lost it 🤣😂🤣😂 Tony you is too funny with the side acting. We need more teachers like this.👍

  • @angelinacarney316
    @angelinacarney316 Před 10 měsíci +1

    You crack me up with the ‘look at you w my good eye’ 😂😂😂 “every now and then you got a lil track showing” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 a mess 😂😂

  • @lynnmorris8659
    @lynnmorris8659 Před 3 lety +31

    Something similar just happened to me. The only difference is, the break-up was mutual and I walked away and didn’t look back after this last time. It had been close to a year into the breakup, and all of a sudden one day, I receive a friend request from him on fb, which I know now I should’ve declined. Well to make a long story short, that’s how I found out that he was engaged. Recent pics and all of him down on one knee proposing to this girl. Super petty of him, especially since I had gone on with my life, and not reached out to him at all. Oh well, that’s how the cookie crumbles, and life goes on.💔

  • @jroyal2229
    @jroyal2229 Před 3 lety +7

    I admit that I got caught up in a similar situationship & now, I’m single again. But, it’s okay, I take that as a learning lesson & moved on.

  • @SCain-pz2ck
    @SCain-pz2ck Před 3 lety +25

    This video was on point! I definitely agree that 8 out of 10 men are grown boys because I’ve dealt with too many of them! Loving your videos, Tony.

  • @akeliadouglas9546
    @akeliadouglas9546 Před 2 lety +2

    🤣 never in my life did I find a channel that gives me so much knowledge to win at life and entertain me at the same time! I got to the end of the video (and I learnt alot) so lemme say Be Blessed.

  • @daniellem578
    @daniellem578 Před 3 lety +12

    This was a good video! Sadly I’m dealing with a grown boy. Such a headache.

    • @JamaicanBeauttiiiii
      @JamaicanBeauttiiiii Před 3 lety +7

      Don’t waste your youth on a man who isn’t showing genuine love and adoration. It will get worse as you age.

  • @reginaleftwich6898
    @reginaleftwich6898 Před 3 lety +9

    Don't believe I'm leaving? COUNT the days I'm gone.
    Larry Graham's song,
    "You Don,'t Miss Your Water Until Your Well Runs Dry."

  • @antoinettesherrod1895
    @antoinettesherrod1895 Před 3 lety +14

    Tony is on point with this one. I was in a relationship just like this, but didn't have a child and going to school for my degree. It's when I decided to further my education is when I saw the change in behavior, and his neediness to debate and pick at everything I do.

  • @cededrawhite4650
    @cededrawhite4650 Před 3 lety +9

    One thing for certain , we gone get a laugh and good knowledge every video !

  • @aminastoned5687
    @aminastoned5687 Před 3 lety +7

    I’m cracking up about the lady having a broad vernacular and proper grammar!This is so me, if I were to write in.🤣 My friends say I think I’m an English teacher. Hahaha

  • @flygirl1942
    @flygirl1942 Před 3 lety +11

    Tony you have NO idea how much entertainment you provide😂 I literally look forward to your daily videos like I did watching the “I Love Lucy show” but unlike Lucy, watching you, we are Blessed with wisdom AND knowledge as well. You are undeniably operating in your purpose and you truly give me so much joy as I am learning!💕

  • @laphawnewatt4830
    @laphawnewatt4830 Před 3 lety +18

    Good evening family from Las Vegas ❤️💖 Happy Holidays to all .

  • @georgiasnell4342
    @georgiasnell4342 Před 3 lety +24

    Sis with all due respect, sounds like your desperate. The man your dealing with know it. You want to go back to him and dumb down to keep him. Sis please buy and read A WOMAN'S INFLUENCE. Sis this man does not determine your worth. God Bless you!!!

  • @beachlover9705
    @beachlover9705 Před rokem +1

    I've been single for years because there are too many grown boys out here . I see the signs early now but sometimes I wonder if I'm too alert and it's keeping me from giving anyone a chance. Then I listen to Tony and know I'm on the right track

  • @juliasanders4092
    @juliasanders4092 Před 3 lety +7

    I’m amazed at how you describe these men down to a T without personally knowing them. It blows my mind every time at how good you are at this. It’s incredible. ⚡️

  • @astridastrid3780
    @astridastrid3780 Před 3 lety

    Your messages come in at the right time, always! Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @brianicole181
    @brianicole181 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for this video, Tony. It was much needed.

  • @brevarnado7970
    @brevarnado7970 Před 3 lety +18

    Not she was the bachelor party 😭

  • @CoachHC
    @CoachHC Před 3 lety +4

    Ready for you Brother Tony!! Be Blessed!

  • @vdes78
    @vdes78 Před rokem +2

    Tony is naturally hilarious 😂

  • @AllEyezOnMeTMC
    @AllEyezOnMeTMC Před 3 lety +1

    Got me hollering over here!! Thank you for the laughs AND great advice.

  • @valerimarcusjohnson2747
    @valerimarcusjohnson2747 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you Tony!! It was real refreshing to hear these advices, we all need support! Thank you again❤

  • @MinaMina-nb5tl
    @MinaMina-nb5tl Před 3 lety

    Thanks again, Tony! May God continue to bless ur wife n kids. 🙏🏽

  • @janicecongress86
    @janicecongress86 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Mr. Tony. Excellent video!

  • @lifecoachdr.marye.proctor2207

    Thank you so much for sharing, be blessed!

  • @MegaMiller2012
    @MegaMiller2012 Před 3 lety +12

    Thank you Tony, I always enjoy your Talks. You are such a blessing. May you and your family have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

  • @itshami1913
    @itshami1913 Před 3 lety +1

    This was so entertaining and instructive at the same time! Made my day!

  • @blah843
    @blah843 Před 3 lety +2

    So excited to actually catch a live!

  • @kimberlystrawter1908
    @kimberlystrawter1908 Před 3 lety +5

    Teach it Tony!!. I almost miss this episode tonight!!. LOL. THE track showing. I am hollering!! 😂😂😂

  • @myishacooper5838
    @myishacooper5838 Před 2 lety +1

    It wasn't a Loss but a Lesson...... Let that sink in..... Thank you Mr. Tony Gaskins!!

  • @candaceclark9266
    @candaceclark9266 Před 3 lety +3

    😂😂😂 this is why I have no problem watching your videos till the end! Comical!

  • @alysiaanderson5370
    @alysiaanderson5370 Před 3 lety +2

    I really needed this video, thank you.

  • @ashleyhenderson3856
    @ashleyhenderson3856 Před 3 lety +1

    Enjoy the lesson as usual thanks Tony!!!!

  • @toriyt2714
    @toriyt2714 Před 3 lety +4

    Excellent break down as usual Tony! This, like so many other videos, really resonated with me.

  • @laneshamanning
    @laneshamanning Před 3 lety +4

    Tony, sincerely, thank you for existing!!!

  • @sadecheri90Gs
    @sadecheri90Gs Před 3 lety

    Damn, this one hit home, thankyou Tony.
    Story of my life, too.