Side-dating the Deacon | Talks with Tony
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- Thank you for watching! My videos focus on life, love, and business. I believe in living a balanced and full life. I answer questions from my viewers in the “Talks with Tony” series. Then on Fridays, I speak to the men in the “Man 2 Man” series. On Saturdays, I focus on business and entrepreneurial lessons in the “Small Business Saturdays” series. Then on Sundays, you can catch a motivational message in the “Sunday Sermon” series.
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My son thinks I’m listening to a comedy show because I’m in here hollering
Yasssss😂
Girl yes I be hollering in here. 🤣🤣🤣
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Sis lawd have mercy!!! Chile had to go back and watch again when I seen those sneakers up 🤣🤣
@@naturallyfree01krj50 I wasn’t ready for that🙈!!!
Tony I’m ON THE FLOOR!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 NOT THE LEGS IN THE AIR! “DEACON & LAWYER!!!”😂😂🤣🤣 I’m done!
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 he is hilarious! Really shows us what he means 🤣😂🤣😂
Hollered 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same here! It took me out!!!😂😂😂😂
She gave up her 5 1/2 years of faithfulness to a man with a gf. That’s desperation.. He told you he was dating and you still got on your back. Ladies please don't give up on doing it gods way. The reward will be greater.
My heart hurt for her. After all that time
“If you take your grace for granted, eventually, grace won’t be granted.” TG
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WOW❗
Sis, you were abstinate for 5-1/2 years, but gave your cookie 🍪 to a man that NEVER EVER had ANY INTENTION of MARRYING YOU! He's already with another woman. Why are you asking if you should continue contact with this man? This makes no sense. Then you pretend to want to honor God, but ohhh, by the way, I made a XXX video while I was deployed overseas.
Sis, GONE ABOUT YOUR BIZ! FORGET this GROWN BOY and work on building a REAL RELATIONSHIP with God and on your self-esteem and self-respect and NO MORE XXX-RATED MOVIES please!
@@ysmithriley lord have mercy..
Wow that's heavy
"Abstaining from sex is not a game. It's a covenant. It's a commitment to God"🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Stay committed ladies!
Hour by hour and day by day. God will honor our sacrifices🤍
Tony, we get it💯
HalleluYah
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Amen! Stay strong.
Very true it’s not just something u do try to get a husband. It’s a commit to God
Amen
“Don’t ever present yourself as option less!” -TG
No he did not put his shoes in the air 😭😂😂😂😂😂 I can’t 😂😂😂
Tony killed me with those legs up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣deacon and lawyer 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
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Plus with the "Whatcha thin U doin, MAAM? Please".Noy just his words or messages but also the TONE is hillarious and sooo relevant :D
Right 😂😂😂😆😆
“If a man make enough money, all your common sense go out the window.” TG
“Steak and Shake”…..
Tayden has your whole face Tony. Little fella is so well mannered and handsome.
I’m
I had a friend I ended up cutting off completely for continuing to sleep with a man, who was married and had a young daughter. I have zero tolerance when it comes to that.
I can relate, I had a friend who did this too. I just can't trust her anymore and created some distance. The first thought that came to mind was to never introduce her to my future boyfriend..
But don't you think that's her choice? One of my best, dearest friends I have been together with since the 2nd grade has been with men who have had relationships - she has been the side chick. I totally disapprove of that, have never been a side chick, never will be. She has confessed these things to me and I was like "Really? Wow, man." I can't judge her - we are not friends for that. She was not asking for my opinion, so I didn't give it. I have, however, openly expressed my views on the men she has dated and she knows I have generally disapproved of their treatment as it pertains to her. So I guess she knows I hate love triangles, but that's not the point. I would never cut her off because I see she does stuff I don't agree with. Instead, I would talk to her about it.
@@VeliProduction So you don’t see your friend engaging with men who are married as a fatal character flaw? Would you be comfortable bringing any man you’re possibly dating around her? Because from the sounds of it, she likely wouldn’t mind getting with and being a side chick to your relationship either if it means she gets out of it what she wants. Also, you do know staying friends with this kind of person makes you seem like you aren’t of character either right? Having standards for your friendships is just as important as the standards you have for your romantic relationships. If a man cheated on you, you’d say they can’t be faithful and you wouldn’t trust them again. How is it not the same with this friend who engages with men who are in relationships?
Tony, ur baby boy is sooo freakn cute. He just melts my heart. How can u not just kiss him constantly. 🥰
Exactly!!!
“Do they even let single men be a deacon in the church??” - TG I just hollered!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
They shouldnt
The qualifications of a deacon according to the word of God: "Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well." I Timothy 3:12
That’s what I thought.
😂😂😂😂😂😂...I just woke up the entire neighborhood laughing. Mr Tony is a full package. It's your acting, hand movements, facial expressions and the way you bring across the message. Thanks for the message and laugh. Now I have to rewind because I missed a few. It's Tony's spirit for me😂😂.. Be blessed.
He’s a legit comedian. My side aches from laughing on most of his videos!!!
@@mymakersdaughter6041 oh yes. I cry from the laughter. I sometimes remember some of his acting and jokes and just burst a laugh. It's not jokes but it's jokes at the same time because he's funny.
REV E NUE 😂😂😂😂 Deacon /Lawyer. Maaaaannnnn you are so funny 😂😂😂
Tony with the shoes in the air. Omg. 😂
I was rolling when I seen him do that 🤣
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Gurl! I was not ready for that🙈!!!!
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It took me out 💀😭😭🤣🤣
“when you know better the price you pay is greater” this is good
Yep, been there done that.
“What good is it to you to be abstinent for any period of time and then bust it open and get pregnant/an std”. Truth! Self-control and Godly wisdom is the way!
I so agree with you when you say folks bringing God in their mess. 🙄🙄
Tony needs to be in a Tyler Perry movie. He’s hilarious!!!
Those 👟👟👟👟 up shaking 🤣🤣
He is too good for a Tyler Perry’s anything! Tony can do better lol
Praise God. He has given you patience to teach others who need it.
Bring it home then Brother Tony! Somebody needed that “deacon and lawyer” illustration!
That was funny😂🤣😂🤣 and I think we all got the point. 👍🏼
This video is going down in history as my all time favorite!!!! Not only did he get the purse, he got on the floor with legs 🦵🏽 in the air!!! Also, the “ma’am ma’am” gets me every time!! I’m hollerin 😆😆😆
That's not celibacy when you give it up to any old man - that was "abstaining". Tony hit on everything I was thinking when he read that letter. Sorry sister, but really?? I see why Tony was so frustrated!!😠😠
"Wearing the thang out" 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭bury me !
"Steak & Shake..you think Im finna shake something for you" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😁😁
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The way Tony's face just lights up when his wife or one of his sons enter the room...it's just soooo awesome to see.
I'm sittin here coughn up a lung. I cant believe she messn with a Deacon. I can't. 😝🤦🏽♀️
It’s always complicated for men in their so called “relationships”. It’s a mess and messy. She did all the things that Tony stays not too. Please listen to Tony don’t just watch the videos. He’s probably married!
I feel a lot of us women deal with abandonment issues from childhood when it comes to having no Father figure in our lives. It's no excuse but we have to do the work to stop trying to be a people pleaser and overcome our loneliness. I have been doing Shadow work to see why I do the things that I do and it's really enlightening me to who I am and how I'm going to stop and become a better woman. We still have that little girl that is yearning in US for a man to validate us and make us feel important
@ayokilaza Shadow work is going back and analyzing your life beginning in childhood to see why you allow certain things. You have to be very honest and transparent with yourself as to how you were raised. A lot of the things we do in adulthood and what we allow for men come back from what was shown to US during our early stages of life. I learned I was a "pick me" woman because I was never picked by my father. So when I encounter a man I wanted to be chosen because of that lack of being chosen by the most important man that should have been in my life
"They believe every woman is a H-O". Damn right! Earlier this year I got propositioned by a guy at my gym without so much as him asking me out for coffee. I won't lie, the chemistry was there and on some level it was flattering and tempting... But I know only too well what ugly aftermath awaits such a scenario (I've learned the hard way too!) and this reality wins every time. I said No and have since put distance between us. I daresay he was a tad surprised and taken aback, somewhere along the line this guy has formed impression it really IS that easy with women.
Tony keeps poking us in the eye with that “THANG”😂😅😅
Hi Mr Gaskins, I really enjoyed listening to your message tonight, but to be real sir, when you were giving your message to everyone, an I saw those 👟 tennis shoes go up in the air, I bought lost it, 😂 😂😂 lol, but I thank you for being so real, "the truth will set you free," You can be so funny at times, but you always keep it real. I know God is working through you,. Keep speaking the, that's what the world 🌎 needs, the truth. May the Lord continue to Bless you Pastor an the the Queen 👑 an the those young men of God, 🙏 continue to be safe an well, I speak Gods🙏 Blessings to the entire family.
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Tony.....Im done LOL!!! When you got on the floor with your feet in the air....I was cracking up 😁😁😁😁
Chiiilee I’m screamin 🤣😂🤣😂
I was so done🤣😂😂
@@nikkinanette8807 he is just too funny
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@@mymakersdaughter6041 I wasn't even expecting that, but the laugh it gave me made my day
“don’t ever present yourself as option less!” btw, you are hilarious! 🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tony is on one tonight!!!!!!
A lesson that no matter how much you like a man, how many sweet words you hear, how lonely and desperate for love you feel, you have to keep holding on to your values and standards and not jump, make plans, develop feelings without proven commitment and care from his side.
I’m sorry but I lost it when those shoes went in the air. 😭
When he said boy y’all just playing with God. I felt that I’m not judging because before I woke up and smelt the coffee I was too but listening now I’m like girl you was just fiddling with the devil wasn’t you. Thank for growth
Tony and his son are twins! They loook exactly alike lol
That man will be in a whole relationship an lie about it... Women should really ask themselves why that man never let them come to their house because he got something to hide... like Tony say he's a grown boy...
Tony is right when he says you pay a greater price when you willfully sin. I received blessings in my life even when I was doing things that God doesn’t approve of BUT I wasn’t aware that the things I was participating in were sins. I actually learned that some of the things I was doing were not of God through Tony’s channel. It was the first time that I was made aware of certain sins. I then did further research and realized how it was wrong. When I became aware of it I stopped doing it and I haven’t done certain things since.
🤦🏾♀️ Lawd! These episodes getting good. I’ll be here for the mess and message Tony.
Right
INDEED!!
I am 29 yrs old. I got introduced to T.G by this woman and i thank God for meeting her in order to get these gems from T.G. Thank you T.G for being an inspiration for real men that want to change their lives
When Tony fell out the chair with his legs up in the air.....I peed myself 😂😂😂
😂😂😂...not Eric Snowden. I actually LOL'd @ that 🤦
I hollered 🤣🤣🤣
As soon as I saw the word "Deacon"... I said, oh yea, I'm watching this 😬😬. Always exceeds my expectations! I'm so glad Tony has remained consistent.
👍🏽👏🏾😂”SPREAD EAGLE”😂
Tony always brightens up my day
Tony you are correct, 5 years and gave it up to a man that's in a relationship!! You shouldn't even continue talking to him once he mentioned that he's in a relationship.
When you are serious about never getting played again the path is narrow and Tony is right it should be about his heart his character his value his integrity may we continue to do the work by loving ourselves stay strong
Yeah, them feets in the air...
Tony off the hinges. Lol!!🤣
Straight up😂🤣😅
I know it's supposed to be a serious topic but i just can't stop laughing. that “deacon and lawyer” on the floor got me hollering!!! Tayden is such a handsome and well-mannered young gentleman, just look at his butterfly tie! You're great parents!
Deacon and lawyer 😂😂😂
Tony, I ain’t NEVER willingly getting played or playing with GOD again! Believe that! And it is a huge part because of you.
Tayden always melts my heart 🥰. What a well mannered and sweet boy.
Yooooo I’m crying. Tony is hilarious. “Deacon and lawyer” *legs in the air*
Tell us bout ourself Tony 😪 truth to power!
God bless my soul♥️🙏🏿
I'm trippn already. I knew this one was going to be good. She makn videos playn wit herself and then goin say my God. Tony, u and I both busted out n2 laughter at the same time. Ppl really are playing with God.
Done! 😂🤣😭 feet in the air...deacon and lawyer, "you can get it!" Flatlined...
Character must always be his currency!, teach Tony!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💪🏾💪🏾
When his son came into the room and see tony so happy and involve in his sons life, put a smile on my face. Tony your a real man!
Y’all this is 2024 and I am just now getting to this video…. when I tell you I can’t breatheeeee😂😂 My stomach and head hurt from laughing so hard! This man is crazyyyy!!!
When Tony threw his legs in the air at around 34 min! Whew, I about fell out my chair 😂 I learned a lot from this vid tho, many great nuggets to come away with 💯
Girl me too🤣🤣🤣
Deacon & lawyer (title) got the the panties gone, on your back, & legs trembling in the air. The improv was teaching through humor. Have mercy!😆😂🤣😭😭😭💀
Thanks Tony . used to be like that. But then got back to my God. And now am engaged and we both keep all that out of our relationship. Until marriage
Minute 65: "Pick up the lessons from everywhere". - TG
Lord Jesus Christ 🤣🤣🤣 Bro Tony this video with the deacon took me out with you demonstrating what the lady was doing. You are too funny 😂😂 But, God bless this lady though.
But if you're watching Tony's videos why are you asking him if you should stop being a side chick in the house of the LORD? Clearly there is a disconnect somewhere and clearly this man is a problem.
After seeing how this man is treating his woman, would you really want to be his woman and take on the problem? The women may change but the man will not.
Let’s get some understanding:
1. How you abstaining if you having sex w/ yourself 🤦🏽♀️
2. He didn’t even feel she was worth lying to, I got a woman but it’s complicated meaning: she comes 1st you get in where you fit in.
Here’s another point due to her career that possibly stressful & a drink to take the edge off, can have an adverse effect w/ her being horny. Sometimes people feel they will compete for a person bc the relationship is not official.
Word of the wise: Nobody is going care about you more than you do.
Tony is AWESOME!!!! I'm Loving his ability to give advice with truth and HUMOR!! May GOD continue to Bless him with the Knowledge to share with others!! Thank you Tony!!😇
When tony legs hit that air babbbbby i lost it🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ok sooo when Tony got up and then got on the floor I was thinking.. I know he ain’t about to put his legs up and then boom I saw the bottom of his shoe🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tony why you shoes was in the air like that 😫😫😫😫🤦♀️🤦♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤭🤭thank you for all you do sometimes is women need to hear the raw deal from a man so we can know foolish we can be !! I thank all the women that write and are being honest ,u are truly appreciated and most can relate God bless you all.
Girl, you better cut that situation OFF with that man. If you give the devil and inch, he'll take a whole marathon. You know what to do, just do it.
Rev -e -new lmaoo 🤣😂💀
I cannot with you Tony!!! This is the best christian comedy show i see. Then coupled with good Godly advice what else do we need. Keep being real. Speak God’s word PERIOD. And continue to be funny. God bless you and your family.
Tony said y’all be playing with God! 😂😂😂 when he picked up the gum pack and demonstrated 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Girl I was on the floor when he did that 😂😂😂😂😂😂that was so funny
@@denisegreen6878 hilarious 😂
@@lisasmilez Girl yessss😂😂😂😂😂
The legs in the air took me out 🤣🤣💀💀
I'm done! I am rolling!!!! Rolling in the truth!!!! Thank you! Thank you! Needed this good laugh!!! Let the congregation say, "Boom Shaka Laka!!!
The greatest mistake I have made in my spiritual journey is thinking that some things are common sense and I will obviously, without stress not be a part of them. But I have been caught unawares and struck in angles I did not expect. And even when I was aware, only God helped me through. I hope she learns how to call God into each and every situation before becoming a part of it because temptation is real. Falling is real.
Absolutely, well said.
So true. I concluded it has conceit and pride at the root. Possibly because of how we were raised..sheltered and critical of others.
Is his name Tayden? He is too cute handsome and precious, and that SMILE!! Got me over here laughing in delight. Good to see him.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Tony you are hilarious! The women that are degrading their selves need to hear this🤦🏾♀️! Some of us may not be doing it at this level, but nonetheless it still keeps us down! No battery packs🔋 ⛔️for these no good sorry men! The character of a man is what we need to look for, and if they show us they’re no good for us...I gotta go!! Each one teach one! We need to take your message to the skreets! Bless you & your family Tony! You are doing a splendid job of giving away the game! Thank you!🙏🏾😎
My heart is heavy, hearing how this young lady was sucked under this spell… Thank God for your ministry! So many of us at all ages have these horrible human games played on us. ENJOY YOUR VACATION’❤️🌹
Your son is beautiful and mannersable ..and yes.. your children are your main priority after God 🙏🙏
I have seen this video about 3 times. “Deacon a Lawyer” kills me every time. This guy should be on comedy stage.
AWWW!!!!! TAYDEN IS SOOO CUTE!!!! AND HANDSOME!!!!! 🙂🙂 LOVE HIS OUTFIT. MAY GOD BLESS AND PROTECT YOUR KIDS, LOVE YOUR FACE WHEN YOU SEE YOUR SON COMING TO YOU, HOW IT LIGHTS UP. YOU GOT THE MATH PROBLEM WRONG 2+2 = 4 . NOT 2+2=5.
After Glamrocs brought this video up from today’s Live, I had to come back to watch this again!! I’m ready for more laughs!! Thanks Mr. Gaskins!! Laughter is good for the soul!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
SoSo, rewatching. 👀 😆😆
i was done when tony got down on the floor and busted it wide open…. watch his back go start hurting 🙌🙌🙌🤣🤣🤣🤣
Here we go yall Team Tony !!!
Go Team 😂
This is pure comedy🤣🤣🤣 I'm sorry, I know this is a serious situation so I'm sorry for the woman who contacted you. You are right, we are fools for men. Tony, you are telling the absolute truth. You add humor and it helps this medicine (truth) go down easier. Please keep telling the truth.
Tayden looks sharp 🔥🔥
Tony this is so good, my pastor right now is teaching on church scandal because a minister of our church was caught in an outside relationship with another woman.
More ministers are willfully sinning.
Teach us Tony!!
Yes teach them. 🤦♀️
Tony you’re hilarious 🤣🤣🤣 sometimes we need these laughs
Sadly this is so common 😞 SMH
when i see tony sons come into the room with him . It really inspire me to wait on what God has for me . I want a family with boys ..
Its the feet in the air for me Tony. I love it.
Tony!! Lmaaaoo! I had paused the video to attend to something then immediately when I play back the legs are in the air 😭😭🤣🤣🤣. God bless you, the truth is painful to hear but your humor makes light of the situation, at least for me. Message received as always. I got a reality check from the video and I'll definitely do better and keep my standards intact 🙏🏾🙌🏾😊.
This is too funny. Your facial expressions and body language. Im screaming.
I am DONE 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 TONY ON THE FLOOR 😂😂😂😂