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The Reason He Left for Another Woman | Relationship Advice
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Have you experienced the heartbreak of a man leaving you for another women? What advice would you give someone who is dealing with this now? Share your response in the comments.
You should be ashamed of yourself. Justifying adultery 🙄
I'm wondering why he didn't stay and fight for us. Why our relationship wasn't worth that??
Why should he fight AT ALL? We men are simple but some of you women complicates the simplicity so much, yall think we need to "fight" for a relationship to make it work, totally false
Some of This is a lie .men aren’t even capable of unconditional love .it takes a lot for a man to even be vulnerable enough to love deeply and with intention .it all just depends on the man and if he indeed is a man at all and could be a good man . The only thing that’s truth is that humans crave attentive care & affection , & men are taught to date to their desires . Not standards or even attraction . It’s just about what the guy wants at the moment in his life . Period . So if he chose up, you now get the chance as an experienced woman to choose better .
No one is capable of 😮unconditional love when it comes to romantic love. Romantic love is very much about loving how much someone loves you, loving how they make you feel, loving who you are when you’re around then. Romantic love is steeped in having your own needs met and meeting that other persons needs in return to ensure they continue to meet yours. Sad, but true.
I treated him like a KING where he didn’t even deserve it.. he definitely left me for looks. She will never love him the way I loved him
I was told if a man desires respect over love to run because with love comes respect.....best advice ever given
Mine was abusove,jealous,possesive and controlling. Now he calls me while he has her pregnant. Is it all my fault cause i didnt admire and validate him? Cause i couldn't
It's not your fault that he left you for someone else, he in fact did you a favor because he sounds like he's trash. Block him and don't entertain him.
I did all of that though. We just had our 4th baby and postpartum hit me hard and despite that, i still tried helping him and giving him advice. He left me for this little girl and refuses to even talk to our oldest because she wont accept her. I am at a loss and confused
He’s refusing to talk to your child? Please understand he wasn’t good for you nor your family… it was a blessing for you. What type of man ditches his responsibilities of father for another woman? Not a good man.
Ur blessed that he left you. The trash threw itself out. He went for someone perhaps more on his level.
For all the women who are complaining about their RUNAWAY HUSBANDS: I get triggered when adult children just throw away their mothers or their own flesh and blood family members claiming they are toxic...but these same women will stay and fight for a toxic, no good, lying and cheating man. This conversation is about loyalty and integrity and how can someone not care about how they hurt others. This is my exact same question I pose to women who can hurt their mothers and family members and not give a damn. I know so many mothers who cry everyday because their daughters won't have anything to do with them because they feel they find something better in a MAN. If it's one thing that upsets me and rattles my chain is someone who lacks LOYALTY and INTERGRITY to their own flesh and blood (real family members). Men walk off and leave women pregnant or leave her struggling to raise kids alone, but isn't that the same thing women do when they turn their backs on their mothers because they feel a man is the be all that ends all or when they feel they don't need her anymore? I understand where this lady is coming from...she wants to know how can anyone call themselves a decent human being and have no problem HURTING others. I have the same question....Especially, how can you do it to your MOTHER who is the reason you are even BREATHING...How can you do it? I guess the same way men can walk off leaving women pregnant and struggling. I think this is called REAPING what you have SOWN.
From a guys point of view, this is so true. A Husband/Provider wants to feel appreciated and loved, and at least feel some kind of importance. It's 2 sided I realize that. So, it's probably true for the wife and husband.
I would venture to say it could be because they are constantly, and I do mean constantly told and reinforced that they are:
1. Not wanted
2. Not desired
3. Not adequate (nothing they do or say is ever right, or needs correction)
4. They are sexually rejected consistently
5. They are expected to just do and shut up at all other times
6. They are the constant brunt of the jokes from the Wife and kids (because she trained them to disrespect their father)
7. Their needs come last if at all
I have 4 babies by this guy and we been together 8 years almost 9 and he left me too 😭 for someone eles is been 3 months we been broke up and I still thinks about him and he in live with someone else's I know we may have problems but it wasn't that serious for him to leave me 💔 this my first heart brake frfr 💯🥺 I'm learning to get over it but it hurts still
I hope it gets better with time
I am on my 4th month after a 24 year relationship with the father of my sons. I loved him very much, still do, and likely, always will. He also feels the same. But, we were definitely the couple that became comfortable and complacent in the relationship. We both wanted more without really speaking about it. I know from my end, I became bored, unhappy, and finally, quite miserable. I can only assume that he felt the same way. When he confessed to not wanting to be with me anymore, and he was leaving me for another woman, I was devastated! This was my first heartbreak, and I wanted to blame myself for it not working out. This devastation has been a blessing for us both. I didn't have the heart to end it, but this other woman was what needed to happen in order for the relationship to end. As you said, it's an opportunity for both of us to grow and move forward. For that, I'm grateful that he left me for another woman.
Women feel the same way about desire …..if the man is not into desiring me …..I am not chasing him ….i do not tolerate any man to disrespect me either.
I was the one who built him up, i did all that and he still chose her but doesnt want to let me go.
A lot of these things really resonated with me. My ex and I were together almost 7 years and 3 weeks after our breakup I find out he’s already dealing with another woman…. I even tried to patch things up with us and he told me verbatim “things are going so good with me and her so I’m gonna tell you no but that doesn’t mean I’ll say no in the future” …. I’m so confused I’m so lost. I def kno some of these reasons were problems both ways in our relationship. Im just so confused as to how he found someone so perfect so fast and im still struggling & lonely 2 months later … it’s been hard it really hurts…
Hey Charlisa, thanks for sharing and watching. I appreciate your transparency. Please don't be so hard on yourself in thinking he has someone perfect. Embrace the lessons and focus more on your healing. I would love to connect with you in a 1-on-1 session. Check out my free masterclass to get started here www.lovecoachprogram.com
Im experincing the same thing...it is crushing...how could he find someone so quickly, move on so fast with no regards to what we shared for 7 years. I thought he was the one and he still is in my heart.
Girl I'm in the same situation just hold on boo if it was meant to be it would be!!!
It's happening to me .
In less than two months . It’s really stupid he just not a mature men
It is personal if i could be rhis person for him. He was all into me then all of a sudden hes not connected anymore. 😭
Hello, thanks for the video. Mine he was very possesisive,jealous and abusive. I could not admire or validate that. Is it my fault???
GURL BYE
Ok why in the hell he trying to come back sent 1982 what the answer for that
With all due respect, I don't think this video is helpful, because rather than addressing the proclivities around people, not just men cheating, this video seems to suggest that it's for women to adjust themselves so that men don't cheat.
I strongly disagree. Take the narcissists, toxic men, serial cheaters, abusers etc and put them to one side. Now… the decent men who are left … these reasons as to why they leave for another woman… they’re true. If you don’t feel these things for your man… you’re with the wrong man. Find one you do feel those things for. They leave because they meet a woman who does feel those things for them and shows them. Again I’m not talking about aerial cheaters abusers etc. this video is genuinley the truth even though it’s unpleasant to hear. And speaking as a woman who has been through it. I was left because I didn’t show my husband any of this … because I didn’t feel it. He met someone who did feel that way about him. I met, a few years later a man that I feel this way about and I show him and we’re happy. It’s about picking the right guy… again taking the narcissists/cheaters/abusers out of the equation ❤
She validated him and admire him he needs to be seen , he felt disrespected with you trying to change him , he needs to feel desired
So hr gets to get the quality woman and be a cheater to get it?
If you were a good women and done all of this stuff, don’t listen to this. This is for a good man and not most of the toxic, broken men that are around now.