I really needed to hear this. You are 100% spot on. We need to stop falling in love with people's potential. Everyone has potential. We need to be with someone who has already realized their potential and wants to share that with us.
This is very true and Thank you 🙏🏼 for this. Another perspective has been brought to the forefront on why it’s so important to not make ppl feel obligated to make you happy. Accept them for who they are and either stay or move on. Goes both ways, if one decides to leave, let them go. Don’t keep calling, texting, etc trying to get what you want out of that person especially if you have no intentions on giving them what they want!
Well I got ghosted and bread crumb. The point is I saw this happening and I just knew he would change. That's what I wanted to happen. He took what I gave him and brought for another woman. Well a hard lesson learned because now I have peace in my life and I'm loving it.
YESSS DERRICK.. IM LOVING THIS VIDEO YOU HIT NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH.. ONCE WE REALLY LOVE OURSELVES THEN THAT ISSUE WILL BEGIN TO FADE... I SEE ME AS A QUEEN AND IM NOT SETTLING FOR LESS.. THANK YOU CHAMP.. FIR FOR THIS VIDEO YOU NAILED IT
awesome!! i sure used to say the exact same thing..what's wrong with me, what she got that i dont have and it was the lack of swlf love because he didnt have it...
Derek's channel is about avoiding toxic relationships.... Kinda essential, only the problem it pedastalizes women and tells them what they need to hear instead what they need to hear.
Like why when you hold the fellas that act like they are evolved and ready to communicate as evolved still can't comprehend that I have to hold them accountable, or that doing so is strong communication. Like they want communication but when you speak your peace, all of a sudden your masculine...
Your vision of him is not the same vision he has of himself. I learned the hard way, but I get it now. Nice video.
Don't allow the person who didn't love you, keep you from the one who will.
💙CZcamsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
I really needed to hear this. You are 100% spot on. We need to stop falling in love with people's potential. Everyone has potential. We need to be with someone who has already realized their potential and wants to share that with us.
I needed this to remind me again … had a horrible weekend overthinking and this made me come back to my senses, thank you !
*I have boundaries and standards.*
You except the person the way they are, don't try to change them.
Agreed
Yes
It is accept...
I think you meant accept; not except!!!
Sounds like these dudes are choosing enablers.
Yess exactly.
Totally!
I like that term Evolved Masculine. They had to make mistakes to know how to be one with accountability. They value, opportunities of growth.
This is very true and Thank you 🙏🏼 for this. Another perspective has been brought to the forefront on why it’s so important to not make ppl feel obligated to make you happy. Accept them for who they are and either stay or move on. Goes both ways, if one decides to leave, let them go. Don’t keep calling, texting, etc trying to get what you want out of that person especially if you have no intentions on giving them what they want!
This has really helped me see a whole other perspective in a very positive light. Right on time, Thank you Derrick
Path! Yes! You want a life partner? Does you two goals align? it is just that simple. no need to play games.
By far one of the most powerful videos you have done in my opinion….
Knowledge is definitely a Power‼️Thanks Mr. JAXN❤️
Well I got ghosted and bread crumb. The point is I saw this happening and I just knew he would change. That's what I wanted to happen. He took what I gave him and brought for another woman. Well a hard lesson learned because now I have peace in my life and I'm loving it.
I can relate
Thank you Dee for a clear understanding, the picture is so clear!
THANK YOU MR.JAXN I NEEDED THIS ,MY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
YESSS DERRICK.. IM LOVING THIS VIDEO YOU HIT NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH.. ONCE WE REALLY LOVE OURSELVES THEN THAT ISSUE WILL BEGIN TO FADE... I SEE ME AS A QUEEN AND IM NOT SETTLING FOR LESS.. THANK YOU CHAMP.. FIR FOR THIS VIDEO YOU NAILED IT
How tall are you?
Have any kids?
Dress size?
My husband always called me his nubin queen much ❤️ to the believer's kelelah
Makes perfect sense. Thank you 🙏🏼
Thank YOU 😁 this was very helpful. I appreciate your messages and transparency more than words can express.
I’m feeling this message!!! 🧡🙏🏾
So true Derrick, this makes so much sense, thanks❤
This was truly helpful, took so much weight off my heart. Thank you so much 😭
Thank you I needed to hear that.
This is a gem. Thank you.
Thank you for this. It really helps me to understand what just happened in my life with someone who promme forever, but moved on to someone else.
Thank you for this , it’s really helpful for all ladies, especially this new generation.
U clocked it brother, thank you💗
Ohhh this is good staff. Thanks big brother!
This video dropped just in time!
Thank you for this message 🙏
Love the moral at the end here ... so true ❤
I am very glad i found
You
You tell it like
It is
Really
Hits Home
Thank You
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Major Facts in this message
So true about relationships in life.
This was super helpful
Extremely helpful
Great video, thanks Derrick
Spot on.
love a person for who they are
Good teaching!
awesome!!
i sure used to say the exact same thing..what's wrong with me, what she got that i dont have and it was the lack of swlf love because he didnt have it...
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
LOVING ME💯‼
WON'T SETTLE 😁
Thanks for sharing
Holy cow this is exactly what my situation was. You're speaking the truth!
These men love them. Some cows
You haven't done anything wrong, people just do what they want to do
I dodnt know what to expect woth this video bit it took a surprising turn
Yeeeessss!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
😄 am I cute enough. Yes our people are big on looks and that's why it's easy to get played.
Thx
My life right now 😭😭😭😭😭
So true
Thank you 😊
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Derek's channel is about avoiding toxic relationships.... Kinda essential, only the problem it pedastalizes women and tells them what they need to hear instead what they need to hear.
Yes Yes Yes
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
100%. Too many playing games.
chose someone who would forsake her business and vision to help me build my business and work under me using her resources
How can you properly discern what path he's on and how he sees himself?
Like why when you hold the fellas that act like they are evolved and ready to communicate as evolved still can't comprehend that I have to hold them accountable, or that doing so is strong communication. Like they want communication but when you speak your peace, all of a sudden your masculine...
Wait? Does this work the other way around. Cuz if so.
Keep gone you good 4 each other
Derrick love you and wish youand your family well.
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Std 😅😅😅
Will he realize he left me who loved him to get with a girl who just gave him the lust I kinda deprived him from?
You deserve love and respect. Let him go.
How y’all feel now
Great! How do you feel?
Women do not do the
Choosing
Sounds like he's only talking to black women