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It's so hard because he is so great otherwise... but seeing the pain cross his face when thinking about her... knowing I will never take that place in his heart hurts... I am worth more than being someone's second choice...
I love my ex oceans wide but it's a dangerous voyage, no promise making it back to shore alive and in one peice/peace. Time means nothing, absolutely...
Yes I went through that with my ex husband. He told me flat out he loves his kids mother no matter what she does. I said really! Even at the expense of our marriage. I am glad I’m divorced he still had her name tattooed on her the whole entire marriage. Removed after we was divorced. I just laughed because if he would have did that sooner Maybe we would have still been married.
Mines kept old belongings from his ex, such as valentine day cards, jewelry, pictures and in his phone and video's. Also would try to encourage me to dress and look at certain way in a resembles of her.
Woah! That was real deeeep. Where do you find your words from? They hit one straight, bulls- eye, painfully clear shot at the area necessary, in a way one can no more choose to be in denial. I love it. It's raw, real and one ricochets from its impact.
My fiancé was looking at his ex’s nudes and old hookers nudes for nearly half of our relationship. He only stopped because I found them and deleted them. He told me he just looked at them once when he was getting rid of them, but I just found out the truth a few days ago.
He is soo open minded. I really like people like him who love to tell you the truth so you don’t make unnecessary mistakes in picking a partner. Keep up with the good work.
Been in this and was so hurt, till this day he still talk about what she did to him, they have kids together 10yr relationship he aint going no where he is all hers, and thats fine
My ex would yell and scream that he missed his ex and that he'd rather be spending time with his children than me! When I would question after when he was calmer He would later say he "didn't mean those things" Completely heartbreaking, wasted 7 years of my life!
I feel like my husband still loves me and is going through the grieving and nostalgic stage of our separation. He monkey branched to the coworker within 15wks of us separating. He is currently moving in with her but they are flaunting their relationship to try and making me jealous. She is insecure and they are playing games and taking actions to make me think this. He is also looking at music videos i used to listen to. Everything he is doing is out of character for him. She is along for the ride. Their relationship is moving fast but i think he regretting it and she is playing games to rub it in my face. She is putting him up to these actions because it's out of character for him that began after i left. It's only happening in his fb page because they know it will get back to me. Only insecure people do that because deep down she knows he is hung up on me. He hasn't processed or healed.
I feel this is my ex too. He also monkey branched to a coworker and moved in with her within days of the breakup. He hasn’t healed. He called me yesterday just to argue and finally admitted to being with her.
starting to doubt if he still has feelings for his ex or not. he brought up the other day during an argument that “if he wanted to be disrespected, he’d still be with his ex” it was very hurtful to hear. he likes instagram posts joking about his ex being an awful person. and the music he puts on his stories are related to ex relationship pain. i’m not sure how to feel, since he said he broke up with her, was pretty apathetic in the beginning. but he puts his relationship trauma on me at times so i am not sure what this means.
Mine calls ,texts and still buys gifts for his ex girlfriend. And she buys gifts for him AND his grown kids. Possibly even grandkids. His kids love her. They don’t like me. He and his ex girlfriend have no kids together. We’ve been together 6 years .2 years living together full time.
This thing called being and fallen in love ! Who can know it????!! Most people are with people they are not in love. With, but then knowing that the one you are in love with may not be in love with you , and that person, although you are in love with them may not be the best person for them Again who can know it “ Are you going to stay with the one who loves you are you going back to the one you love!!!!!!!????????!
My ex of 25yrs. Dumped me because he said he was not happy. End of discussion. 2wks later he is involved with another woman. He said he still loves me. There never was any indication that he was not happy. If l was the other woman I would question ❓❓ the relationship we have. Am I right or wrong. 25 years of the relationship and he is now involved with another woman. Could it be that he is happy with her. I could add more, but I wanted to express some of my heartbreak 💔
Yeah, I feel as tho when men still wanna talk to their ex's family it's just a way to keep the ex close, and a need to still talk to the ex. Sorry that would be a red flag for me
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Time doesn't heal, doing the work does. He's absolutely right.
What is the work that needs to be done?
Leave ladies never get treated like a doormat
I’m not going back 🙏
@@trice615How's it going?
It doesn’t matter if he does “make love” to you. He can still not love you
Huh? Nope
Woohw 🤯
if the ex is in the picture AT ALL except normal contact about kids - DON’T EVEN GIVE YOUR TIME OR YOUR HEART!!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
This hits hard ❤
Wĥat if she isn't in contact with him, but his best friend and family?
I just Cut him loose today “Thankfully” wished him & his ex good luck. I was SAVED… Ty great video
Congrats
Same here
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Good for you 👏🏾
I did yesterday!
It's so hard because he is so great otherwise... but seeing the pain cross his face when thinking about her... knowing I will never take that place in his heart hurts... I am worth more than being someone's second choice...
Time doesn't heal, ur right the work does
That is how I heal the work does I have moved on
I move tomorrow and this time I won't be found
What is the work that needs to be done?
@@knuckleheadreviews just have to take it one day at a time staying busy and focused
Once I find that out I’m out🖕🏾✌🏽 Never let nobody play you 💯
I’m crying so hard right now. . This is exactly what just happened to me and I just found out he went back to his ex baby mom. .
I hope you heal, focus on your healing
😔
@@rmel2843How do you heal?
I love my ex oceans wide but it's a dangerous voyage, no promise making it back to shore alive and in one peice/peace. Time means nothing, absolutely...
I love how you articulate this
Why don’t men divorce their ex before getting into a relationship with another woman??????
Exactly!!!!
Spot on.
My intuition said so from the beginning and I chose to pretend all was kosher while all the points mentioned were occurring. What a spiral.
Yes I went through that with my ex husband. He told me flat out he loves his kids mother no matter what she does. I said really! Even at the expense of our marriage. I am glad I’m divorced he still had her name tattooed on her the whole entire marriage. Removed after we was divorced. I just laughed because if he would have did that sooner Maybe we would have still been married.
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People may not like Derrick but that doesn't make him wrong. It's the "message" and not the "messenger."
Im in this situation now. Im dumping him.
I want to dump him too. But I'm too attached
Bro your message are so accurate I noticed a lot of people just want to ignore the truth
My husband of 5 years,
Looked up his ex and family and left the history on his phone .
I don’t feel safe . He says he was just being nosey
Nope!!! My ex from almost 10 years ago who is married just tried contacting on Facebook. Please be careful with that.
Mines kept old belongings from his ex, such as valentine day cards, jewelry, pictures and in his phone and video's. Also would try to encourage me to dress and look at certain way in a resembles of her.
update ladies
I dislike social media you can get in contact so fast and to search people just to look and refresh the memory of the person.
Found his secret instagram liking all his exs photos, except the ones with her fiancé 😅
His ex is still obsessed with him after 14 years. It strikes his ego and drives me nuts
The phone doesn’t keep ringing if no one ever answers.
He is ungrateful point blank period!!!
This video popped up right on time .
Sincerely appreciate it 🙏🏽
This describes him perfectly 😢
Woah! That was real deeeep. Where do you find your words from? They hit one straight, bulls- eye, painfully clear shot at the area necessary, in a way one can no more choose to be in denial. I love it. It's raw, real and one ricochets from its impact.
DERRICK NEVER FAILS,!!!!
Yes he does ijs 🤔
My fiancé was looking at his ex’s nudes and old hookers nudes for nearly half of our relationship. He only stopped because I found them and deleted them. He told me he just looked at them once when he was getting rid of them, but I just found out the truth a few days ago.
How did you find out?
Time means nothing for women too. When people say time heals. No it doesnt
The only thing that heals is getting the help you need! Heal your tramas so you don't wound others with them!
Yes it does it's at your own pace it takes some people longer to do things and analyze things
@@Branaymolly it doesn’t . Time doesn’t heal. It’s a myth.
@@staygold1285 it's a myth according to you
@@Branaymolly lot of people who wud agree to me so one less agreement doesn’t matter but thanks for trying
All those things you’ve mentioned have happened to me. I agree with you.
This is one of the most insightful videos on this topic I have ever seen. Thank you for the specific examples.
I got to move on
I just did. If you’re questioning it, you need to move on. ❤
This message is deep! Thanks for sharing!
Your exteriors screams "Emotionally Stable" ❤
This seems to apply to widows & deceased lovers too
Straight facts!!
I agree 💯 with everything you said.
I loved what you had to say in this video, very eye opening.
Derrick be preaching
Thank 👑You! 💪🏽
Thank you for this. Retrospectively I can see the signs.
Me too. It's happening right now....
Thank you for your honesty
Thank you again Derrick 😊
This is so scary😌
He is soo open minded. I really like people like him who love to tell you the truth so you don’t make unnecessary mistakes in picking a partner. Keep up with the good work.
Thank you you are so right I walked away
That may do much sense, thank you ❤
I learn so much from you thank you thank you thank you
Excellent video 👍🏻
On point!
Wow, thank you!
Wow....This hit me hard...
What about when he loves her but sat he is not in love with her? No matter what, I am not sharing. I walked away
I wish I’d have seen this video two years ago 🥲
So true sir
TRUTH!
Been in this and was so hurt, till this day he still talk about what she did to him, they have kids together 10yr relationship he aint going no where he is all hers, and thats fine
They will always be attached to their X
Not true
Ask yourself if theres someone else on tbis mans heart 💔
He was very attentive to me. We had that for sure. I can admit I wasn't ready for commitment
Thanks derrick
😢 So true. All of it
My ex would yell and scream that he missed his ex and that he'd rather be spending time with his children than me!
When I would question after when he was calmer He would later say he "didn't mean those things"
Completely heartbreaking, wasted 7 years of my life!
What a dirtbag!
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I NEVER would have stayed
Truth
This the one 😮💨
All facts.
I agree he's not available
Exactly.
Thanks
Ive heard all of this. . And Ive been there.
Theyre projects. Undatable .
Yes truth
This goes for women to
Not sure you have addressed this, great video. What about a deceased ex, everything applies...as in more than a decade ago. Appreciate your reply.
Yea..he is prolly on the DL....
Amen 😊
Facts
Thank you for keeping it💯REAL😉LOTS INFO NOW THAT IM SINGLE 👌
So true
True
I feel like my husband still loves me and is going through the grieving and nostalgic stage of our separation. He monkey branched to the coworker within 15wks of us separating. He is currently moving in with her but they are flaunting their relationship to try and making me jealous. She is insecure and they are playing games and taking actions to make me think this. He is also looking at music videos i used to listen to. Everything he is doing is out of character for him. She is along for the ride. Their relationship is moving fast but i think he regretting it and she is playing games to rub it in my face. She is putting him up to these actions because it's out of character for him that began after i left. It's only happening in his fb page because they know it will get back to me.
Only insecure people do that because deep down she knows he is hung up on me. He hasn't processed or healed.
I feel this is my ex too. He also monkey branched to a coworker and moved in with her within days of the breakup. He hasn’t healed. He called me yesterday just to argue and finally admitted to being with her.
Not only men women too.😢
Hi Derrick,
How do I dm you a question?
The real
starting to doubt if he still has feelings for his ex or not. he brought up the other day during an argument that “if he wanted to be disrespected, he’d still be with his ex” it was very hurtful to hear. he likes instagram posts joking about his ex being an awful person. and the music he puts on his stories are related to ex relationship pain. i’m not sure how to feel, since he said he broke up with her, was pretty apathetic in the beginning. but he puts his relationship trauma on me at times so i am not sure what this means.
leave him please for Your own sake 💛
You deserve better, he is a idiot 😒😬☺️
💯💯💯💯💯❤
I have heard that
This is a lot🙀
❤❤
He is vague about how they divorced and they have a good relationship as they co-parent- and he is best friends with her new husband.
BS
Mine calls ,texts and still buys gifts for his ex girlfriend. And she buys gifts for him AND his grown kids. Possibly even grandkids. His kids love her. They don’t like me. He and his ex girlfriend have no kids together. We’ve been together 6 years .2 years living together full time.
Time to leave and realize you’re disrespecting yourself by saying with him, leave, someone better is out there.
💯💯💯
What is the correct work that he needs to do?
❤❤❤
Thanks absolutely truth on poy Can't Have Cak And @Eat No
Smh...
Sounds like you talking about you? Your own experience
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This thing called being and fallen in love ! Who can know it????!! Most people are with people they are not in love. With, but then knowing that the one you are in love with may not be in love with you , and that person, although you are in love with them may not be the best person for them
Again who can know it
“ Are you going to stay with the one who loves you are you going back to the one you love!!!!!!!????????!
Speaking from experience?
Omg… ✔️
I just asked him...he told me to grow up. Got really deffencive and butter
My ex of 25yrs. Dumped me because he said he was not happy. End of discussion. 2wks later he is involved with another woman. He said he still loves me. There never was any indication that he was not happy. If l was the other woman I would question ❓❓ the relationship we have. Am I right or wrong. 25 years of the relationship and he is now involved with another woman. Could it be that he is happy with her. I could add more, but I wanted to express some of my heartbreak 💔
Mine has been talking to his ex’s sister and daughter. Hmmm…
Yeah, I feel as tho when men still wanna talk to their ex's family it's just a way to keep the ex close, and a need to still talk to the ex. Sorry that would be a red flag for me
Yikes 😬