Looks aren't everything. Believe me, I'm a model. | Cameron Russell | TED

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    Cameron Russell admits she won "a genetic lottery": she's tall, pretty and an underwear model. But don't judge her by her looks. In this fearless talk, she takes a wry look at the industry that had her looking highly seductive at barely 16-years-old.
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  • @myfestivus4336
    @myfestivus4336 Před 6 lety +79571

    Looks might not be everything but good looking people are generally treated better than ugly people in just about every situation.

    • @hallelulee6034
      @hallelulee6034 Před 6 lety +4464

      MyFestivus that’s what she is trying to say the world is so caught up on appearance they don’t ever see you for who you are. She is trying to get people to be aware of that and fix the situation by saying looks aren’t everything there is in life

    • @acommenter8603
      @acommenter8603 Před 6 lety +985

      hallelu lee But looks play a HUGE factor. You can probably talk to a pretty girl and get her number but it is VERY difficult, that is why you are better off working on looks, plus since when do you see an ugly man walk with a pretty woman? Unless they were already friends before.

    • @mcterb7142
      @mcterb7142 Před 6 lety +903

      Of course attractive people have some issues in life cos of their looks (i think especially females), but the advantages weigh out the disadvantages by far in my opinion. Everybody in the range from "really ugly" to "incredibly beautiful" has reasons to complain somehow, but i think almost everybody knows where he/she wants to place himself if he/she could choose his/her looks. No where even near average ;)

    • @estanneque
      @estanneque Před 6 lety +80

      True! I can tell that!

    • @Dunyaelsayed88
      @Dunyaelsayed88 Před 6 lety +24

      Jason Eisenhauer true so trheee

  • @giovannaroma9527
    @giovannaroma9527 Před 4 lety +21209

    truth is
    looks will give your personality a chance..

    • @morganderrick6912
      @morganderrick6912 Před 4 lety +110

      giovanna Roma 👍🏻

    • @emotophobiccdd8006
      @emotophobiccdd8006 Před 4 lety +75

      Yeah, a chance to be seen as something unrelated to who you authentically are!

    • @giovannaroma9527
      @giovannaroma9527 Před 4 lety +310

      @@emotophobiccdd8006 But unattractive people don't get a chance at all ..

    • @emotophobiccdd8006
      @emotophobiccdd8006 Před 4 lety +113

      @@giovannaroma9527 unattractive people get every chance.... Too often they're just too caught up in the pretentious superficialities of a tacky consumerist society, looking in all the wrong places for all the wrong things to even entertain the idea.

    • @violettababenko4847
      @violettababenko4847 Před 4 lety +107

      That is such a myth and a lie. on the contrary good looks makes people believe you're just a doll. No one cares about your personality.

  • @lifeliver469
    @lifeliver469 Před rokem +2371

    Only a rich person will tell you money doesn’t matter.. Respect to her for being honest about her life

    • @thegameshows1
      @thegameshows1 Před rokem +112

      Every single rich person on earth will literally tell you MONEY MATTERS. Its poor people who say money doesnt matter, money cant buy happiness etc.

    • @Clickbait_Wisdom
      @Clickbait_Wisdom Před rokem +25

      @@thegameshows1 Freedom is the currency to buy happiness. Money can not provide freedom every time. It depends on which is the reason to be happy for an individual.

    • @Leo-qe3gl
      @Leo-qe3gl Před rokem +2

      @@thegameshows1 this!

    • @bikebudha01
      @bikebudha01 Před rokem +28

      Money doesn't matter. Health matters way more. Love matters way more. How do I know? Look at what rich people spend their money on... staying heathy and buying friends...

    • @krejziks3398
      @krejziks3398 Před rokem

      @@Clickbait_Wisdom money is not freedom, lack of need of it is, you can still move to mountains and herd goats and live off their milk and meat.

  • @ameliarose4531
    @ameliarose4531 Před rokem +705

    I love this talk but I feel like they gave it the complete wrong title, because her whole point is how important looks are in our society

    • @shinboutarou
      @shinboutarou Před rokem +10

      Irony

    • @PokeySoggybottom
      @PokeySoggybottom Před rokem +25

      I think the title conveys the message well. When someone says that something "isn't everything", the implication is "although it's big, it's not everything". And she went on to say that society places too much importance on something that is actually very superficial. Moreover, good looks don't shield you from insecurities.

    • @NeroAngelo616
      @NeroAngelo616 Před 9 měsíci +2

      meanwhile it's told to you by a model and not a subhuman

    • @asmitaghorai7332
      @asmitaghorai7332 Před měsícem

      As if like, "Looks aren't _everything._
      It's the _only_ thing."
      I think that's the idea they're trying to give away.

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 Před měsícem +2

      The title is not wrong, it's satire.

  • @187onaPigeon
    @187onaPigeon Před 8 lety +17136

    Looks aren't everything but it makes everything easier.

    • @hanjititan18
      @hanjititan18 Před 8 lety +131

      +187onaPigeon You just freaking inspired me

    • @ifindev
      @ifindev Před 8 lety +76

      +187onaPigeon You are very true Bro, Hahaha.

    • @johnnyhabs3159
      @johnnyhabs3159 Před 8 lety +45

      True...

    • @493HZ
      @493HZ Před 8 lety +24

      +187onaPigeon TRUST ME, when you go from that Lizzy girl to this video you're just like :|

    • @easttomax3970
      @easttomax3970 Před 8 lety +8

      she is a boaster

  • @mar-k7104
    @mar-k7104 Před 4 lety +11856

    I feel like her jokes were very unappreciated, she’s got a good sense of humor and you could tell she was nervous to be there

  • @louised9125
    @louised9125 Před 6 měsíci +131

    I love that she is really open about the modeling industry. Lots of young girls look up to all the models they see in magazines; it's important to teach them that most of these pictures are altered and almost completely reconstructed.

  • @DaveRossignol
    @DaveRossignol Před 3 měsíci +36

    Brave of her to speak the truth about her experience. She used her first outfit to great effect. Her talk was so powerful because it’s easy for a person blessed with good looks to think they are just better. Kudos to her.

  • @todanrg3
    @todanrg3 Před 3 lety +5134

    As someone said: "Looking good is like playing life on easy setting"

    • @keepdreaming1857
      @keepdreaming1857 Před 3 lety +103

      But I want an easy life :(

    • @ralphpinkins5619
      @ralphpinkins5619 Před 3 lety +253

      Bullshit.... life gives no short cuts or easy paths to ANYONE...Good looking or not..... life gives us different sets of problems/obstacles to overcome, that's it.

    • @leov6496
      @leov6496 Před 3 lety +102

      I come from a smallest village in eastern europe and poor abusive family that raised me into an unsociable introvert with issues. The main thing that made me break thru is my looks. People actually perceive cute ones as better in everything (including smarts) than they really are. Psycollogists agree with my experience on this.

    • @todanrg3
      @todanrg3 Před 3 lety +184

      @@ralphpinkins5619 Oh, but it does. Everyone has problems and hardships of course but good looking people always get more attention, support, people are biased towards them, etc. Even on CZcams i see it sometimes: there is a handsome guy or beautiful girl and their channel instantly gets many more subscribers than others with sometimes much better content.
      They just get more opportunities in life usually. How they use it it's another thing.

    • @ralphpinkins5619
      @ralphpinkins5619 Před 3 lety +20

      @@todanrg3 you're proving my point. God gave these individuals good looks. But that's their obstacle to overcome as well as their advantage. You may not be as good looking as them but smarter then them , let's say for example , if we were to compare the two. Would life be easier for you because compared to a good looking person you're smarter than them? No ofc not. Because your ugly and looks matter too. Get my point. You cant compare apples and oranges and then say life is easier. That's like comparing struggles.

  • @rio9083
    @rio9083 Před 4 lety +8755

    I don’t think most people in the comments understand the point she is trying to make. She’s not saying that looks don’t matter. She says that no matter how beautiful other people perceive you at the end of the day you can still be very insecure and unhappy with your looks.

    • @rio9083
      @rio9083 Před 4 lety +50

      galaxyandromeda yeah I think a lot did that

    • @GodsCrazySon
      @GodsCrazySon Před 4 lety +16

      Bullshit!!!!!!

    • @rio9083
      @rio9083 Před 4 lety +25

      Saman Hasani what do you mean? Do you not agree with the statement she made or do you think she meant something different?

    • @stefanmuller2924
      @stefanmuller2924 Před 4 lety +51

      Thank you finally someone got it!

    • @lyxe7458
      @lyxe7458 Před 4 lety +29

      ted ed should pin this comment

  • @26shao
    @26shao Před 2 lety +197

    I really relate to her experience , as someone who has been through looking "ugly" (at this time I got ignored a lot and feel invisible to others ) and then glowing up to somewhat good looking. the surprising thing is that I don't feel any less insecure . you just find new things to hate about yourself but now all your accomplishments and personalities become invisible instead. I don't think it's as huge of a benefit as people think it is.

    • @oaklandsoldier8520
      @oaklandsoldier8520 Před rokem +10

      You know what it feels like to be an average man. We are seen as invisible everyday.

    • @26shao
      @26shao Před rokem +13

      @@oaklandsoldier8520 if I'm being honest I can't really know how it heels like to be a guy and probably will never find out. but that doesn't prevent me from sympathizing.

    • @Shafeek258
      @Shafeek258 Před rokem +1

      @@oaklandsoldier8520 true man , iam 19 and I am invisible because of my looks

    • @mts7274
      @mts7274 Před rokem

      You are not good looking at all, so stop trying to flatter yourself.

    • @paulogaspar8295
      @paulogaspar8295 Před 5 měsíci

      you are so unaware it's insane. it's like when rich people complain and say money isn't everything when they get a disease. yes money isn't everything, but there's people that don't have health and don't have money and they are worst than you. the same goes to you. sure you may still have problems about your appearance in your own mind, but people treat you better, you are praised and encouraged to have confidence, you get better jobs and you are payed more just because you look better. stop whining for once and listen to the people that you acknowledged have less than you.

  • @cpa0510
    @cpa0510 Před rokem +54

    First time I have seen something like this. A person who were a model talked about the outlook is not everything, my favorite topic! Can we just appreciate her honest and how professional she were in this talk… This channel needs more talking video like this!

  • @KanitahKay
    @KanitahKay Před 9 lety +2396

    Why are people still ignoring the point of this talk? She's literally admitting her privilege and pointing out both the biases and superficiality of the fashion industry (which can severely affect the body and beauty image of young girls everywhere) and the way people judge others based solely on physical appearance (RACE, gender, weight, hair color etc). The first part to fixing a problem is letting it be known. But if you ignore her message because you're actually just jealous she was lucky enough to be born physically attractive, you're LITERALLY contributing to the problem. This is an important message.

    • @hannahpatience8147
      @hannahpatience8147 Před 9 lety +39

      I can not even agree more.

    • @user-cv5rb5cj1y
      @user-cv5rb5cj1y Před 9 lety +39

      That was actual perfection

    • @KanitahKay
      @KanitahKay Před 9 lety +21

      TheAlphadog I understand your points, it really all boils down to personal opinion and how the individual perceives these issues. The most significant part for me, though, is concerning young girls. I do disagree with you on that, only because girls in these newer generations (due to the accessibility of social media and the presence of advertisements everywhere) are almost always surrounded by what society considers the ideal body type/beauty. Usually the ideal is portrayed as a beautiful woman with lovely skin and a fit body, perfect hair teeth and nails, etc. If the girl doesn't have a strong enough body image of herself (you know, the low self esteem middle school years are super common) nor is she taught to realize that the people presented to her in ads/social media aren't necessarily 'attainable' (not sure how to word this part my apologies) she might become desperate to achieve these ideals and do something dangerous like starve herself or even become depressed. It's the same for boys too, I'm sure many have gone through periods of low self esteem and depression due to not being 'ideal' (ofc I don't know for sure, I wouldn't know what it's like to grow up as a boy in this age). Mostly I just support the fashion industry introducing images of health rather than unattainable beauty, ethnic diversity for poc representation (a young latina girl may not feel beautiful if the only beautiful women she knows about are all white, for example) that sort of thing. Education in general needs a lot of work, but we can't forget that children retain a lot of information from social media/advertising. It's like another educational outlet, so we gotta make sure they're not contributing anything potentially harmful. xx

    • @TheAlphadog102
      @TheAlphadog102 Před 9 lety +11

      Glory Knights "I do disagree with you on that, only because girls in these newer generations (due to the accessibility of social media and the presence of advertisements everywhere) are almost always surrounded by what society considers the ideal body type/beauty. Usually the ideal is portrayed as a beautiful woman with lovely skin and a fit body, perfect hair teeth and nails, etc."
      You're wrong. Society doesn't "tell" people what is beautiful, that's just ridiculous. Have you ever had a friend who thought someone was super attractive, but you didn't find them that way yourself? Attraction has everything to do with biology and you perception of healthy. All those things you listed are signals of a healthy person that our subconscious picks up on so we can attempt to reproduce with them. Has nothing to do with the media.
      I agree with you on body image though, but seeing as how the average weight has started to go up and obesity has increased, heart diseases also. There should be a limit to what we actually tell young girls and boys. There are more benefits for a person to being fit, eating healthy and exercising than there is to eat bad foods and being told to love yourself anyway. That is completely backwards.
      Everything else though I completely agree, but unfortunately, you live in a free market society. So magazines can publish what they want depending on the demand.

    • @KanitahKay
      @KanitahKay Před 9 lety +13

      TheAlphadog It's not blatant, I just personally believe having a majority unattainable image is subtle enough to cause harm to any young person who may not know better. A shift towards healthy bodies is definitely the move. If ads only include vv beautiful and the vv skinny, kids won't know that not everybody can obtain that body healthily. But you're right, it depends on demand. Money over all :(

  • @Casey-dy2oo
    @Casey-dy2oo Před 4 lety +4189

    That moment when you realize that all the negative comments are from people who didn’t watch the video and just got triggered by the title.

    • @connorbleakley5241
      @connorbleakley5241 Před 4 lety +27

      That moment when you realise people are just having a laugh learn to have a sense of humour snowflake

    • @AM-py3yo
      @AM-py3yo Před 4 lety +15

      So if the title doesn't correspond the content of the speech totally the title itself is incorrect but not the impression of the readers.

    • @Casey-dy2oo
      @Casey-dy2oo Před 4 lety +27

      intpop Their impression may be correct. I just thought everyone was criticizing the video until I watched it and found out it had nothing to do with what they were complaining about.

    • @arikakarin2323
      @arikakarin2323 Před 4 lety +8

      Well I took it as a joke why can't you?
      The tittle didn't even come from her.

    • @massimooneill2784
      @massimooneill2784 Před 4 lety +7

      Nope, ur just salty

  • @loveme-up8ze
    @loveme-up8ze Před rokem +90

    I really like the idea she is trying to portray. She is trying to tell us that despite how we look our personality and character is what matters most and if we choose to define ourselves by our looks we aren't going to go as far. I love the open honesty she gives the audience about the benefit she has as a white woman who fits into the standards in a luxury industry such as modeling and how she uses that to her advantage. I'd rather have people acknowledge their privilege than hide behind it. Cameron Russell is a successful model who has walked for luxury fashion houses such as Chanel and Versace.

  • @SexyBizBabe
    @SexyBizBabe Před rokem +13

    This is an amazing talk and example of how we judge people instantly based on looks. Great job! It challenges our instant judgment. It's so true my prettiest friends are the MOST insecure!

  • @sarahmarshall9699
    @sarahmarshall9699 Před 4 lety +5592

    Why are people hating on her? She’s trying to be honest about why she is successful and that she isn’t perfect. What else do you want from her?

    • @treemannick2969
      @treemannick2969 Před 4 lety +114

      let's just say there's a lot of strange and perverse people in the world.

    • @steakenjoyer9012
      @steakenjoyer9012 Před 4 lety +143

      Money isn’t everything
      - Billionaires
      Looks aren’t everything
      - Model
      there is a connection here

    • @jennyberntsen6753
      @jennyberntsen6753 Před 4 lety +284

      People like to think that if they were more beautiful, skinnier etc they would not be insecure, they would be happy and basically all their problems would go away. They get mad and jealous when beautiful people talk about being insecure. They probably feel like beautiful people don’t have the right to be insecure. But being insecure in reality has nothing to do with how you look. You can always find someone more beautiful than yourself. And like she says the more you focus on the way you look, regardless of how you actually look, the more insecure you are. Cause the more you focus on it the more flaws you find. The best way to learn how to be confident in your looks is to find a way to accept that you don’t look perfect and that you might not even be especially beautiful at all and try your best to not put your worth in your appearance. I’m not saying this is easy. But it is easier and better than changing your looks only to find that you still feel insecure.

    • @Casey-dy2oo
      @Casey-dy2oo Před 4 lety +77

      Sarah Marshall because most of these people people didn’t watch the video and just got triggered by the title.

    • @vitekprchal8608
      @vitekprchal8608 Před 4 lety +26

      It same like flexing with money. People dont want to hear that others are doing so much better than themselves. (especially when its not anyhow "deserved" or worked for)

  • @celesbianmegastar
    @celesbianmegastar Před 3 lety +5193

    She isn’t saying “looks aren’t everything to say “looks don’t matter”. She’s saying “looks don’t define your character and they SHOULDN’T matter so much.”

  • @valayagaudet7182
    @valayagaudet7182 Před 2 lety +11

    She was so candid about the whole. She has beauty, brains, and compassion.

  • @siweizhao7499
    @siweizhao7499 Před 2 lety +25

    Thanks for her honest and it let me know that everyone has their own difficulties in life. Looks does influence us in our daily life, how people treat you or if they respect you. That kind of people are superficial so we don't have to care about what others think of us. Just be yourself!!

  • @icekn5653
    @icekn5653 Před 4 lety +1968

    Biggest paradox ever: Looks aren't important but they can give you a job.

    • @karendarling1
      @karendarling1 Před 4 lety +21

      Totally agree !!

    • @chickennuggets9784
      @chickennuggets9784 Před 4 lety +23

      Appearently it does like the handsome mugshot guy Jeremy meeks

    • @evabianca1771
      @evabianca1771 Před 4 lety +9

      So sad but that's today's world I guess...

    • @dzmp2534
      @dzmp2534 Před 4 lety

      U talkin about prostituting!
      Are you saying there should be more of them prostitutes

    • @happyhorse1028
      @happyhorse1028 Před 4 lety +3

      Icek N exactly. Let’s see her earn minimum wage cleaning toilets.

  • @heymilli
    @heymilli Před 4 lety +3342

    She made a very important point: she won the genetic lottery.
    That’s not something you can strive for, and yet our society places so much importance on physical appearance.
    I wish her speech was longer, I can tell she has much more to say.

    • @Occult_Gibbet
      @Occult_Gibbet Před 4 lety +4

      Genetic* (???)

    • @heymilli
      @heymilli Před 4 lety +21

      @@Occult_Gibbet Of course. Thanks.

    • @pericyerima2466
      @pericyerima2466 Před 4 lety +11

      That whole genetic lottery thing is a myth any one can get skinny

    • @justinnaarden9290
      @justinnaarden9290 Před 4 lety +41

      Why are you guys so fucking stupid... It's cause human look for the better endowed people... It's in our DNA it's very simple biology.... Life isn't fair, stop trying to equalize everything.... Cause there is no equal in basic biology.

    • @Walking-MY-Path
      @Walking-MY-Path Před 4 lety +134

      @@pericyerima2466 While anyone can get slimmer which is true, you simply cannot change your facial bone structure. Which is in fact a genetic lottery and not something that you can work hard to obtain. Just being real here.

  • @irenefang246
    @irenefang246 Před rokem +56

    I came to this talk many times and reconsidered about the message that she wanted to transfer.
    It's true that being beautiful is the advantage that we could get to be treated better in life. However, it's just a factor and it's important that we should not be obsessed about how we look. Social standards of beauty affects the society at large, even with the people like models are still insecure about their appearance.
    I truly appreciate that she came up stage and discussed that images of models are the results of the entire beauty industry and the real person can be totally different than we've imagined.

  • @bunnyrabbitsrfun
    @bunnyrabbitsrfun Před rokem +8

    My favorite ted talk ever. Personally I want to become a male model and hearing this really reminds me that if or after I have a successful career I must apply myself in something that validates my person beyond my image.

  • @mzahedy
    @mzahedy Před 4 lety +4982

    And rich people: "Money isn't everything."

    • @meruem6498
      @meruem6498 Před 4 lety +209

      Homeless poor guy:"Nothing is not everything".

    • @blablacu
      @blablacu Před 4 lety +10

      YES !

    • @worldcurator37
      @worldcurator37 Před 4 lety +3

      Mohammad Zahedy truth

    • @toniocartonio572
      @toniocartonio572 Před 4 lety +37

      I guess it means " money is important, but it isn't everything"

    • @peternyps8895
      @peternyps8895 Před 4 lety +3

      What means „and Rich People“ in this context with „beautiful white women“ for you Mohammad? This is fishing for applause.

  • @soundseeker63
    @soundseeker63 Před 7 lety +3620

    I can't believe some of the comments here!!? She is NOT saying "looks don't matter"....or anything of that nature!
    She is saying that as somebody who inherited good looks and made a career based on that, it doesn't mean that her life is always fabulous or that she is constantly happy and self contented. In fact she is MORE insecure than the average person because she knows she only has a career because of how she looks, not because she did anything to deserve it.

    • @sirensxendneverland4706
      @sirensxendneverland4706 Před 7 lety +68

      thank you

    • @emelpuck5437
      @emelpuck5437 Před 7 lety +140

      More : she's saying that the standards of beauty are socially and economically constructed. And that what we see is not the reality.

    • @soundseeker63
      @soundseeker63 Před 7 lety +28

      JohnTheBaptist
      Yes thats also true. The western standard of physical beauty is rather narrow and geared strongly toward white people, and thats no coincidence.

    • @saniyauzumaki
      @saniyauzumaki Před 7 lety +14

      how can you say she didn't deserved it? she is a model bc she took care of her physical appearance more and that's an effort. I don't like the way you put the sentence. looks is very subjective it's a matter of being self confident and content with oneself. modelling industry is more than look having what you say "genetic lottery"

    • @soundseeker63
      @soundseeker63 Před 7 lety +76

      saniyauzumaki
      I didn't say she "didn't deserve it". I said being tall, white, with fair skin and a pretty face are not something a person "deserves" through having done anything to earn them. You either get lucky in the gene pool or you don't.
      It's not like you can go to college and learn how to be tall, slim and pretty like you can go there to earn a degree and get a career that way.
      Therefore it is not something that is "deserved" or not deserved it is mostly just luck of the draw.
      Yes I am sure she eats well and exercises....which are things everybody should do, not just models. That doesn't mean anything.

  • @ryu_street_fighter561
    @ryu_street_fighter561 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Online dating statistics have absolutely shattered this entire talk...

    • @Alteronx
      @Alteronx Před 3 měsíci

      a talk of 10 years ago to now? Wow big surprise.. who could have seen that coming

  • @Ash-cb2li
    @Ash-cb2li Před 6 lety +4842

    Should I be offended that CZcams won't stop recommending me this video

    • @jackbotman
      @jackbotman Před 6 lety +67

      Yah, cause it's click bait , the argument made in this video has nothing to do with the title

    • @thankunext1625
      @thankunext1625 Před 6 lety +5

      omg lol

    • @sedahmontix6006
      @sedahmontix6006 Před 6 lety +30

      On top of my recommendations is: 'Why thinking you are ugly is bad for you' -.-

    • @lexirysbar
      @lexirysbar Před 6 lety +1

      X1 Z1 same

    • @uabir8338
      @uabir8338 Před 5 lety +1

      X1 Z1 same here friend

  • @theodre0896
    @theodre0896 Před 4 lety +3606

    Looks arent everything, said a beautiful person...
    Money isn't everything, said a rich person....
    Fame isn't everything, said a famous person.....
    Our desires will never be satisfied said a guy who realized....

    • @Well_possibly
      @Well_possibly Před 4 lety +140

      @Jeff Jedi, looks are not everything, nor required to be accepted. Confidence and treating others as respectable is sexy. Haven't you ever seen an average looking guy with a sexy woman? I have.

    • @cosodesign8953
      @cosodesign8953 Před 4 lety +163

      Ugly people just use their looks as an excuse not to better themselves. If you’re funny, kind and confident then so many doors open up. Looks are the first thing people notice, but who you are is what stays with people.

    • @ghoot
      @ghoot Před 4 lety +83

      Well possibly yes but as a woman being confident doesn't matter. I'm confident about myself even tho I'm ugly (Im just being realistic). You can see average looking guys with pretty girls but you'll never see good looking guys with average looking woman.

    • @peternyps8895
      @peternyps8895 Před 4 lety +21

      me neither Oh no darling. thats not true at all. I know a bunch of handsome guys and whenever I met their women or girlfriends I often asked myself, why they were not more attractive compared to their partner. (In my subjektive opinion of course)

    • @laprechaun12
      @laprechaun12 Před 4 lety +2

      me neither That reminds me of that kid from Target. He is good looking, and I think he was or is with a girl who’s not very pretty.

  • @parsleyeugene
    @parsleyeugene Před 8 měsíci +9

    I love everything about this talk. Perfect mode of delivery and great sense of humour.

  • @TheProsperity3
    @TheProsperity3 Před 2 lety +30

    I love your sincerity Cameron. Thank you for this TED TALK. It was very brave of you to be so honest about the industry because it looks so glamorous. You've truly shown that you are a person at the end of the day.

  • @groberti
    @groberti Před 3 lety +3276

    It is like saying: "Money isn't everything. Believe me, I'm rich."

    • @samalj313
      @samalj313 Před 3 lety +213

      Money ISN´T everything, unless you don´t have any money, in that case, money is everything.

    • @elastronaute1198
      @elastronaute1198 Před 3 lety +59

      it isn't like that at all... you're still not getting the point of this. People that rely solely on their looks are bound to be extremely insecure. Looks fade, dumb is forever...

    • @CodHumors
      @CodHumors Před 3 lety +68

      @@elastronaute1198 We get that... I'm pretty sure 99% of people know what her main points were ahead of time. The irony is you don't get to say, "Trust me, because I am [insert topic]" because the people who don't benefit from that know what it's like to be on the other side of the fence and can see the privilege received. A great example is in dating. A young beautiful female or male has a significant advantage of finding a partner, especially male, if they are scaled 8+. That's because 80% of the women tend to be attracted to 20% of the men. So the other 80% of the men are having to fight tooth and nail for female attention, while the 20% look down and say, "ayy don't worry, it's not all that great". The issue is people say and want to do something positive, but on the other hand their actions say otherwise.

    • @GroundbreakGames
      @GroundbreakGames Před 3 lety +1

      @@CodHumors Ya, but she never said that. Lol

    • @CodHumors
      @CodHumors Před 3 lety +9

      @@GroundbreakGames she didn't say it... she didn't have to because it was implied

  • @mazsax999
    @mazsax999 Před 3 lety +5175

    People mad in these comments missing the whole points. She was soooo honest, most people don't wanna admit they got where they are through lottery/legacy.

    • @zarahj1295
      @zarahj1295 Před 3 lety +19

      well said

    • @user-ps2mi9ze5v
      @user-ps2mi9ze5v Před 3 lety +8

      Agreed

    • @parisortiz8731
      @parisortiz8731 Před 2 lety +80

      Yea I wasn’t expecting these comments to be so negative lowkey ruined the video

    • @gufestus4106
      @gufestus4106 Před 2 lety +47

      She says it doesn't matter. That's super dishonest

    • @joelprince4170
      @joelprince4170 Před 2 lety +18

      @@gufestus4106 i have changed my mind. Looks do matter and I understand her message but the fact that she was able to get in get jobs and also get on the cover of the most pretisuges magazines covers just because she was accactive. Her looks help her out a great deal

  • @TipsyFGC
    @TipsyFGC Před 3 měsíci +6

    "looks arent everything" from a pretty person is the same as "money isnt everything" from a rich person LMAO

    • @wcrjmoscow
      @wcrjmoscow Před 3 měsíci

      And it's also true that you don't have to be a model to be insecure about your look

  • @RonniesRambles
    @RonniesRambles Před 3 měsíci +4

    I found this quite moving, and brilliant delivery of more than one learning opportunities with meaningful examples.

  • @ccbaer7800
    @ccbaer7800 Před 4 lety +4339

    She recognizes her privilege, multiple times throughout the speech so that we don't forget that she recognizes it. I don't think any of the negative comments are justified. If anything it proves her point that she cannot be anything more than a pretty face.

    • @blastedontape
      @blastedontape Před 4 lety +22

      @v b very true, ugly and beautiful people want to be more than just another pretty and/or ugly
      face.

    • @getsideways7257
      @getsideways7257 Před 3 lety +15

      @@blastedontape People in general tend to wish for too much and then wish even more after the wishes were granted.

    • @nicoleibundgut534
      @nicoleibundgut534 Před 3 lety +3

      Maybe she is no more than that but...she clearly showed us an point of models most uf us would never thinked about. An Model insecur about her looks? Would have never guessed that, for real .

    • @juanmanuelc6644
      @juanmanuelc6644 Před 3 lety +4

      There are so many things you can do to improve your image or appeareance. It's just a matter of doing it.

    • @Icewind007
      @Icewind007 Před 3 lety +4

      All she needs is a pretty face. Sucks for the majority without it and even more for men.

  • @jemangedessaucisses206
    @jemangedessaucisses206 Před 8 lety +228

    I'm so tired of beautiful people saying that beauty isn't important, rich people saying that money isn't important, etc.

    • @claudeyaz
      @claudeyaz Před 8 lety +37

      +Black Witch Moth She didn't say that.

    • @danyhermawan7654
      @danyhermawan7654 Před 8 lety

      +Black Witch Moth I bet u r not either beautiful or rich then

    • @valedro
      @valedro Před 8 lety +5

      +Black Witch Moth It's true though. External things don't make people happy. You think they will but when you get them, turns out they don't. Therefore you think that something is important as long as you don't have it, but when you get it, you realize that it's not. I have gotten pretty much everything that I have wanted (materially) and none of it matters. It's empty stuff. It doesn't make you happy and therefore it's not really important.

    • @kool2btrue
      @kool2btrue Před 8 lety +3

      +Black Witch Moth She didn't say that at all. In fact she made the complete opposite point and wanted us to acknowledge that is indeed important regardless of how much we would want it to be another way.

    • @kumarvijayan8367
      @kumarvijayan8367 Před 8 lety

      *****

  • @6amburglar9
    @6amburglar9 Před 2 lety +86

    She's so eloquent and down to earth I love this ❤️

  • @JohnKooz
    @JohnKooz Před rokem +7

    Wow! Superb speech! I am genuinely impressed with and enlightened by Cameron's psychological and societal comprehension of her professional industry.

  • @msjkramey
    @msjkramey Před 7 lety +1857

    She was absolutely terrified up there. Poor thing. I'm glad that she held it together. Those were super sensitive topics

    • @originnone
      @originnone Před 6 lety +26

      Actually, it was pretty lame. She didn't address any of the counterargument. Anyone can pontificate. Unless you're completely PC, you recognize that people like her are the reason TEDex is doing so poorly.

    • @brandonknable7890
      @brandonknable7890 Před 6 lety

      Colton Yems wdym he?

    • @applebee6455
      @applebee6455 Před 6 lety +77

      +J Girl
      _"Poor thing. I'm glad that she held it together."_
      She's not a a baby. Many people get nervous. You only feel for her because she's pretty, thus proving her point in the video.

    • @hanasheeva7563
      @hanasheeva7563 Před 6 lety +7

      Apple Bee dangggg

    • @Udontknowmi
      @Udontknowmi Před 6 lety +35

      Apple Bee
      As a shy, insecure person, I feel for everyone who don't look at least 99% confident in their talk.

  • @davenesbitt6346
    @davenesbitt6346 Před 7 lety +1913

    I love what she says about those pictures being constructions. They are not real. Models like Cameron are the raw materials that beauty illusionists use to create a faux view of women and beauty.
    These are painful illusions.

    • @galaxiatabseven9532
      @galaxiatabseven9532 Před 7 lety +11

      Yes, it's a little bit like they pointed it out on unREAL, a tv show aired by Lifetime, that depicts the production of a show like the bachelor or the bachelorette. They call the lead and the contestants meat puppets. This would also apply to models and the beauty industry ...

    • @davenesbitt6346
      @davenesbitt6346 Před 7 lety +12

      Samantha Derrick I find some models, like this one, to be absolutely gorgeous. I don't like the gaunt variety however.

    • @HenryDube72
      @HenryDube72 Před 7 lety +1

      Dave Nesbitt true they try so hard to shape our perception of beauty

    • @mynameisgladiator1933
      @mynameisgladiator1933 Před 7 lety +1

      I'm sure that might mean something to you. To the rest of the world, not so much.

    • @nishumyworld123
      @nishumyworld123 Před 6 lety +8

      ya man.. you convince your ugly face by that.. she is beautiful even without any makeup.. what is wrong with a little bit of brushing in photos.. painful illusion.. dude you need to get laid..

  • @sdiponioXx
    @sdiponioXx Před 2 lety +72

    Love her personality and love her brutal honesty! Don’t believe the pictures you see in magazines 👏🏻💓

    • @user-of3qy3dg3k
      @user-of3qy3dg3k Před 8 měsíci

      Absolutely! That was a real message of her talk. And, one more thing, don't think that any job is a piece of cake, because you may get into a trap you won't be able to get out.

    • @user-of3qy3dg3k
      @user-of3qy3dg3k Před 8 měsíci

      Beautiful, honest, clever and fearless - smashingly attractive woman!❤

  • @O.H.H.Y.
    @O.H.H.Y. Před rokem +1

    I thought I knew enough about myself, but after seeing your presentation, I realized it wasn't enough. Thank you for letting me know myself further.

  • @QoraxAudio
    @QoraxAudio Před 3 lety +689

    If you're good looking, people socialize with you.
    If you're bad looking, you socialize with people.

  • @hunterfunnyguy
    @hunterfunnyguy Před 7 lety +1595

    I don't think anyone actually listened to what she said. "looks DO matter!!! shes so wrong LOL" You didn't listen. She talked about how she's treated differently because she's physically attractive, and how it's unfair. She's arguing the same point you are.

    • @robertturnip7850
      @robertturnip7850 Před 7 lety +78

      I understand her point, but so what? Acknowledging that you are privileged is not going to change anything. She still benefited from her looks. It's unfair but that's life, we are all born with different abilities. Somebody who is naturally athletic has more chance of becoming a sports pro.
      Is she going to give back all the money she has made or give it away to less fortunate looking people? I don't think so.

    • @dalamaderecords7198
      @dalamaderecords7198 Před 7 lety +73

      Thats literally her point. You're arguing about agreeing with her. People like you are the reason we can't enjoy nice things... smh

    • @simplythebest2k
      @simplythebest2k Před 7 lety +36

      Haha ok so looks don't matter just as much as money doesn't matter but I rather be rich and unhappy over poor and unhappy.

    • @sleymateus6018
      @sleymateus6018 Před 7 lety +1

      Is it Yuri on your profile picture? xD nice

    • @ruem5838
      @ruem5838 Před 7 lety

      John christopher i

  • @sarabaumgartner6758
    @sarabaumgartner6758 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your heart and story - what a true blessing to many!!

  • @student40008
    @student40008 Před 2 měsíci +4

    People are literally only mad in these comments because shes attractive, and doing well in life. Thats it. I say that as a man. Shes smart, nice, and non materialistic/vain, and yet yall still hate. That shows that people will literally hate on you just for being a winner, and that's sad. Vice versa its sad when the ''winners'' look down on people who aren't winning simply because their not winning.

  • @pinsandneedles5850
    @pinsandneedles5850 Před 5 lety +2240

    I think I know where she's getting at. At first, I noticed she was really nervous from the way she laughs and breathes, and the look she's giving to everyone. She really showed that insecurity and for her to admit that even though she's a model is quite amazing. She may be a model but that doesn't mean she has the greatest life ever. She showed humility and care from people she doesn't even know. I'll give her 10/10 for that.

    • @Bling92
      @Bling92 Před 5 lety +11

      She doesnt even have to admit that its so obvious with everything she did and does

    • @crazylikethatglue6882
      @crazylikethatglue6882 Před 5 lety +15

      GTFO. you give her 10/10 because she s pretty. Halo effect.

    • @lalayatem3758
      @lalayatem3758 Před 5 lety +2

      God Bless her, she spoke so openly and genuinely, it was wonderful

    • @BeOutstanding
      @BeOutstanding Před 5 lety +4

      Of course, she's nervous. She's not a public speaker. She does not even have to speak much/communicate a lot in her career if she chooses not to.

    • @icewater4725
      @icewater4725 Před 5 lety +2

      Because no one was going to take her seriously so i totally get it...im glad she was brave enough to speak on it. Because she could be blacklisted. Bravo to her

  • @x2RAWevicted
    @x2RAWevicted Před 7 lety +4860

    Hot person "looks aren't everything"
    "Easy for you to say! You've never had to worry about your looks!l
    Ugly person:"looks aren't everything"
    "You're just trying to comfort yourself of your ugliness!"
    I guess nobody wins

    • @alvislee1095
      @alvislee1095 Před 7 lety +43

      Cynical Ash I am the person who wearing the spectacles is look ugly but if wearing contact lens I'm look good,my feeling is looks is fucking important

    • @ringoaikocascade
      @ringoaikocascade Před 7 lety +56

      Ironically, looks Are everything for perfect looking people; people look them only by their looks, not by other characteristics of them, and fail to see them as fellow human, because they are so shiny and inhumanely well organized physically. But I guess that's the reason why they complain 'looks aren't everything'; they want to be look as a human.

    • @alvislee1095
      @alvislee1095 Před 7 lety +1

      ringoaikocascade Well,different ppl different mind,but I don't agree what she said

    • @flARTlife
      @flARTlife Před 7 lety +64

      L CC she didn't say it's a problem. She pointed out that life isn't fair and society isn't fair. It favors the pretty ones and you have no control whether or not you will get that gene, so don't weight your happiness on your look because you will end up unhappy. Don't over look all the things you could be doing that don't require winning genetic lotteries. Even if you have the gene to look beautiful you might still be the most insecure woman and people won't take you seriously because you were once an underwear model.

    • @xiaojie8279
      @xiaojie8279 Před 7 lety +3

      L CC That was not her point, you relly missed out.

  • @fionataylor4269
    @fionataylor4269 Před rokem +3

    Love this. Superficiality and the issues it brings is something that is not often discussed !

  • @val-schaeffer1117
    @val-schaeffer1117 Před rokem +10

    Your counterparts in every interaction in life, almost always have much higher empathy for you when you are good looking, irrespective of their gender or orientation.

  • @tiffanyphaneuf6110
    @tiffanyphaneuf6110 Před 4 lety +3999

    She's actually saying looks are everything and she's ashamed that she's benefited so much from this truism

    • @mar-k7104
      @mar-k7104 Před 4 lety +118

      Lots of other comments seem to miss this

    • @raycarden7941
      @raycarden7941 Před 4 lety +172

      She said she still is insecure, probably more insecure than the average person

    • @sterlingsilver5937
      @sterlingsilver5937 Před 4 lety +51

      @@raycarden7941 I can understand being insecure but I don't know about being more insecure than the average person.

    • @Real_MisterSir
      @Real_MisterSir Před 4 lety +78

      She said that, and with the point being that looks rule a lot of things that it shouldn't be able to. Looks are not what there is to a person, yet society is built to value looks above all else. That's the real point. You can look good and receive benefits but be miserable at the same time for entirely different reasons, or you can look a certain "bad" way and life will treat you poorly despite your personality having nothing to do with how society judges you. The key thing is, that it's always harder to speak up when you are in the segment that in the majority's eyes is benefitting from what you are talking about. A millionaire says money isn't everything? Nobody cares. A model saying looks aren't everything? People rarely care.
      I think she struck a good balance between highlighting the ups and downs not just for her, but for everyone, which is difficult when coming from a position where people are less likely to value your words.

    • @RubyTwilite
      @RubyTwilite Před 4 lety +7

      @@Real_MisterSir I disagree. I know what she is trying to say but I disagree with her perspective. This entire viewpoint (intentionally in a larger/societal sense, unintentionally on the individual level) induces guilt in women for the crime of having good genes.

  • @dannyhantx
    @dannyhantx Před 4 lety +4510

    "Money ain't everything, trust me I'm a billionaire."

  • @fatimakhalid2291
    @fatimakhalid2291 Před 2 lety +2

    One of the most believable and genuine Ted talks that I have ever seen .

  • @MikeCrawch
    @MikeCrawch Před 5 lety +1321

    Bill Gate: “money isn’t everything”.
    Me: 🤨

    • @armyshope
      @armyshope Před 5 lety +10

      Let me steal his money

    • @4rang
      @4rang Před 4 lety +18

      Facts, money isn’t everything. However, I must admit that I would rather prefer crying on a yatch than in canned tuna like public transport.

    • @dream1430
      @dream1430 Před 4 lety +4

      Tony Cole well yes , but being rich does give you access to the best medical tech . So Steve just got really unlucky .

    • @a.d.c7941
      @a.d.c7941 Před 4 lety

      LoserJ7 lol

    • @k.ambriz9789
      @k.ambriz9789 Před 4 lety +1

      That's why he and his wife are on a mission to give away half their wealth. If money was everything they'd hoard it, right?

  • @user-kz3gk1tp7z
    @user-kz3gk1tp7z Před 7 lety +1124

    Looks unfortunately are everything... To get the job that you want, the boyfriend or girlfriend you want, even friends. Beauty counts... big time

    • @borgestheborg
      @borgestheborg Před 7 lety +31

      Yep, that is the sad truth.

    • @Tom-cc6qo
      @Tom-cc6qo Před 7 lety +11

      Su that statement couldn't be more wrong, look at the richest people and the most admired in the world. are they sexy? ur welcome

    • @borgestheborg
      @borgestheborg Před 7 lety +44

      tom, I think Su is talking about most normal circumstances. The richest and most admired people in the world will always be loved regardless of their looks because they are self-made people, they either had a privileged upbringing, terrific luck or sheer tenacity that paid off in the end. However, for every millionaire and every visionary there are thousands who are not so fortunate that have to constantly struggle against a system that discriminates based upon looks every single day.

    • @user-kz3gk1tp7z
      @user-kz3gk1tp7z Před 7 lety

      Amen. I couldn´t have explained it better myself

    • @PlumpMcGallagher
      @PlumpMcGallagher Před 7 lety +24

      that only happens in high school. after that, beauty from the inside counts big time. yes pretty face could give u advantage, but that doesnt always last for a long time. being pretty dont always take u anywhere in life. i've met some pretty girls without character, they are only famous on the social media, and that wont always make u happy or success whatsoever. be pretty inside and outside (being pretty on the outside dont always mean pretty face. u could have average beauty but as long as u clean urself up, u're good to go), have character. thats what matters after u grow up.
      and what job are u talking about? entertainment, sales and model industry? yes, that kind of job requires u being pretty. but a lot of job prefer brain and skill than pretty face too.

  • @zoinks2607
    @zoinks2607 Před 9 dny

    I did not appreciate this talk nearly as much when I first saw it (in my early 20s) then I do now in my 30s. She is very wise and I appreciate her sharing her experiences and insights.

  • @srsw7113
    @srsw7113 Před 11 měsíci +3

    She won the gene lottery.→okay
    How you look is very important.→okay
    But models, who seems to be perfect in their looks, have huge Anxiety in their looks.→okay
    So, the image is so important.→Do you conclude this speech after all so? Then 20 seconds ware enough for your speech and she just added a boring bragging to her speech with no content.

  • @alexshrestha3080
    @alexshrestha3080 Před 3 lety +5335

    Models : Looks doesn't matter.
    Rich people : Money doesn't matters.
    Toppers : Marks doesn't matters.
    Me : Everything matters.

    • @anshikarana5252
      @anshikarana5252 Před 3 lety +104

      It's so true.

    • @leviosa5580
      @leviosa5580 Před 3 lety +357

      It's bcoz they don't know the value of those things as they already achieved it...

    • @meou_meou
      @meou_meou Před 3 lety +60

      Its not that since they have it they don't care....maybe their's too much imp put on this just like diamonds are valued so much but at the end of the day its just a stone when u look at it without prejudice it won't make u any happy to even if u have it.

    • @alexshrestha3080
      @alexshrestha3080 Před 3 lety +23

      @Elisson Dormezil First of all, my intent was like to write something like meme anyways(i hope i would get lol, haha or 🤣) but it also radiate the reality where they may say and show that those things aren't everything to them but they tend to forget or rather unsee the fact that they are and known mainly because of the things they said don't matter, as you said at first they are not born rich or beautiful and all, but initially they do crave or want to achieve it, once goal is reached they tend to show less interest consciously (though subconsciously they always want to retain and also increase it) , and this is also a psychological fact, they do talk about immaterial things of important and morals, but they tend to keep double standards between said and done (plz don't give exceptions cuz i know some) and as you talked of realistic you might know the REALITY or TRUTH of things that matter in every day world.[By the way, since in Asia(i am from india) parents are very strict about academic result and the one who do get extraordinary high score or marks are called toppers means to top in EVERYTHING, and they are very respected and looked by other]

    • @farahdiba9796
      @farahdiba9796 Před 3 lety +12

      GENETIC it's more important

  • @MrGregggleziii
    @MrGregggleziii Před 3 lety +3123

    Looks aren't everything. They're only 97% of everything.

    • @ovencake523
      @ovencake523 Před 3 lety +6

      I would comment and ask but r/woooosh

    • @uduakobongessien969
      @uduakobongessien969 Před 3 lety +19

      try 98

    • @jeezus1677
      @jeezus1677 Před 3 lety +3

      😹👌

    • @larrymonks1685
      @larrymonks1685 Před 3 lety +37

      I was going to say 99.9%, but I think you may have a great point at a lower 97%. So true in business or anything. Unfortunately, looks do make a difference.

    • @evygrany8592
      @evygrany8592 Před 3 lety +13

      @ldyson22 in reality, since you will have to experience wealth and poverty, health and illness, beauty and ugliness, being a woman and a man, being white and being black. The important thing is: how you behaved as poor, and how you behaved as rich. I think anyone can answer that question honestly.

  • @logicup2375
    @logicup2375 Před 2 lety

    Wow...very insightful. This internal quality is what lasts because it's substance that must be earned (she has to read up and think about it).
    Respect!

  • @DimaRakesah
    @DimaRakesah Před rokem +1

    I really appreciate such an honest and open discussion of beauty privilege.

  • @darrinsiberia
    @darrinsiberia Před 4 lety +1933

    This girl needs an hour to give this topic the air it needs.

    • @lawrencelord9777
      @lawrencelord9777 Před 4 lety +6

      Darrin Nelson agreed

    • @Gnfuckelosa
      @Gnfuckelosa Před 4 lety +4

      PREACH IT

    • @laurenb916
      @laurenb916 Před 4 lety +3

      no

    • @JSROOKS
      @JSROOKS Před 4 lety +2

      I agree completely. I think her writing and editing for the timeslot reduced the potential of her sincere thoughts almost to quips. I think a great forum would be for her to chat, in comfortable clothes, about her experiences as a model, and what it does for you, and what it can never do for you. I'm sure she's got some great stories! It would be pretty damn interesting to hear from someone in the modeling trenches, and someone who also appears to be thoughtful about the parts of herself that are not a model. Hey Netflix, are you listening???

    • @midnightsun978
      @midnightsun978 Před 3 lety +1

      Yeah, 1 hour of tautologies. I can't wait

  • @kaylabrand7403
    @kaylabrand7403 Před 4 lety +1698

    That was brave. In my opinion, she didn't say looks are nothing; she said that looks are not the end of who you are and should not be the end of your identity.

    • @gregoriodia
      @gregoriodia Před 4 lety +29

      That is what you understood. What me - an ugly cis male understood is: She was handed everything on a silver platter, yet still it is not enough.
      I have had to work extremely hard to get where I am, maybe this is why I appreciate what I have achieved unlike her who got it all because she's pretty?
      Here is a good response for her: "You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, well, you might find you get what you need".

    • @nutzlos5198
      @nutzlos5198 Před 4 lety +7

      just like fashion and the clothes you wear is not your identity. she chose the wrong profession and is now bitching about it.

    • @Davide-xk4bg
      @Davide-xk4bg Před 4 lety +4

      @@nutzlos5198 There is no separation between you and the body

    • @nutzlos5198
      @nutzlos5198 Před 4 lety

      @@Davide-xk4bg my point is that fashion is superficial from the very start no matter how you look at it.
      she paints a picture that fashion is racist and that this is bad. but fashion is SUPERFICIAL how can something that is so shallow and surface oriented be racist? is a person who is not attracted to certain people for example aborigines a racist?

    • @captainamerica647
      @captainamerica647 Před 4 lety +8

      If she thinks modeling restricts your identity, why doesn't she quit and get a different job? Maybe because she just wants to sound "noble" but still make money from her modeling.

  • @alexgireff2180
    @alexgireff2180 Před 2 lety

    Wisely. Honestly. Courageously. Thank you so much. You told very important words for many people who live in the prisons of their illusions.

  • @Joe_J-MT_Boy
    @Joe_J-MT_Boy Před 2 lety +3

    She certainly seems to have a very healthy mental attitude for her situation in life. It's nice to know that some professional models do not think that it's the All About Me Show as far as their career and life off the runway are concerned.

  • @dindaseptiara5393
    @dindaseptiara5393 Před 3 lety +3668

    she got a really good sense of humour and how she spoke with sarcasm speaks much about her intellectuality. I'm impressed by her speech!!

    • @damanpreetsingh433
      @damanpreetsingh433 Před 3 lety +19

      Nd i'm impressed with your comment.

    • @sadhgurusfunniestandwittie3620
      @sadhgurusfunniestandwittie3620 Před 3 lety +37

      Its intellect, not intellectuality

    • @grandmajojo5211
      @grandmajojo5211 Před 3 lety +24

      Looks don’t define intelligence.

    • @Samo_19
      @Samo_19 Před 3 lety +5

      Are you a Chinese using a vpn or what

    • @dindaseptiara5393
      @dindaseptiara5393 Před 3 lety +18

      @@sadhgurusfunniestandwittie3620 intellect is subjective while intellectuality is noun. and I was using the latter because I was concerned about the way she made opinions and stated her thoughts through speech, but thanks for trying to correcting me. :)

  • @MissDistarr60
    @MissDistarr60 Před 9 lety +9354

    I find it amazing how so many people can watch the same thing and get two completely different messages out of it. She clearly stated that what we see on the magazine covers/pages, isn't her. It's a "Construction" of her. How much clearer can she be. That one sentence speaks volumes. Maybe if she pointed out how short term a model's career is or how her looks will fade with time and gravity, some of you wouldn't be so negative. Society pays far to much attention on the packaging instead of the contents. You can be beautiful on the outside but when gravity and age have taken their toll, all you are left with is who you truly are. And that can only be found on the inside. That is what we need to pay attention too. And I don't know about any of you, but I would much rather be beautiful on the inside because that's the person you live with 24 hours a day. And no amount of money would be worth a temporary superficial beauty and a hateful and miserable soul that you have to live with your entire life. And there are many people in this world that fit that description. They have my sympathy. Simply my humble opinion.

    • @emmaxxx2451
      @emmaxxx2451 Před 9 lety +59

      MissDistarr60 well said Miss Distarr60

    • @treylandtreyland9198
      @treylandtreyland9198 Před 9 lety +140

      MissDistarr60 i logged into my youtube account just to like that comment. They're such wise words which carried a great message. Thanksyou

    • @MissDistarr60
      @MissDistarr60 Před 9 lety +64

      Taylor Reyland I thank you so much for taking the time to share your kind words with me. It's so good to know there are others out there who have the same perception on certain things in life that I do. I sometimes wondered if it was just me who looked at things differently.

    • @MissDistarr60
      @MissDistarr60 Před 9 lety +37

      ***** And she is absolutely right. Self image comes from within. The best looks in the world aren't going to change that.

    • @DamieOjoquotes
      @DamieOjoquotes Před 9 lety +46

      Wonderful words of inspiration right there...I once wanted to be a model when I was 16 and now? Whats changed? I have learnt to be my own model, my own image, a self that the world would look at and say God bless you, I use my beauty meticulously using it to attract men and women so that they could see my words of wisdom, with every perfect picture I upload, I attach a life inspiring quote to it, so when people see me, all they would want to do is believe in themselves and be inspired. Am glad I did not become 'the' model because I could have lost myself to this self 'constructed' look. Plus I also think models should be appreciated more, since theh give away themselves to show off the art of others that are passionate of their work be it hair, clothes, makeup, campaign or shoes. Bless y'all

  • @stevetrevino5346
    @stevetrevino5346 Před 2 lety +2

    It's long way to say don't judge a book by it's cover. However after watching this I'm going to add that we never know the life experiences , or characters that help author the chapters of our lives. Good talk.

  • @teatime3318
    @teatime3318 Před 2 lety

    "Everybody (else) is perfect" by Gabrielle Korn is a wonderful read on this very topic. Highlights how social media perpetuates this ongoing illusion. Thank again Al(gorithm).

  • @quilliamattari2772
    @quilliamattari2772 Před 8 lety +2591

    ''Looks don't matter, it's personality'' - good looking people.

    • @nicudrosu4314
      @nicudrosu4314 Před 8 lety +43

      +Belletaina Lol, for fuck's sake. Looks only matter to superficial people to begin with and for superficial reasons at that. If you care about that, then that's sad in and of itself. True love isn't about looks at all, for one. Neither is friendship.

    • @jcincorporated6207
      @jcincorporated6207 Před 8 lety +88

      "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"... Gorgeous people

    • @quilliamattari2772
      @quilliamattari2772 Před 8 lety +14

      Nicu Drosu IDK about you man but it effects me pretty much every day of my life and it really sucks. Some times I just sit and think why it had to happen to me haha you don't know the struggle if you haven't been in these shoes lol which is why when people with good looks say crap like this.

    • @guydudeleo9770
      @guydudeleo9770 Před 8 lety +10

      I say the same thing and I look like a turd on a stick.

    • @mayatharian9527
      @mayatharian9527 Před 8 lety +39

      but what she is saying is that looks matter a lot in our society and that that sucks a lot.

  • @tozomona
    @tozomona Před 4 lety +1806

    I like how she is aware of her privilege, and also that she brought up racial injustice. Not just a pretty face. Thoughtful. What she said about models being very insecure is true.

    • @Icewind007
      @Icewind007 Před 3 lety +3

      @Fnord Fnordington So being oppressed means having more privileges? Interesting.

    • @Talisman09
      @Talisman09 Před 3 lety +10

      @My Subliminal Results Being White is great, I feel sorry for you

    • @daviddriscoll330
      @daviddriscoll330 Před 3 lety +9

      I can train a parrot to bring up privilege and race; it means nothing as far as intelligence, wisdom, or insight when all it is doing is squawking back at you what its heard from somewhere else.

    • @Alex-zi4ll
      @Alex-zi4ll Před 3 lety +7

      @Fnord Fnordington white people are privelleged because you dont see white people being killed for being white and "fiting the image" and white people dont need to worry about their safety around police officers and they dont need to worry about their families and their wellbeing its unfair for black people because they always "fit the image" and they are always being killed have you ever seen the news about protest and have you ever been to one (ever been to a protest) black people dont get the privellege and freedom that white people do.

    • @jamestownvander4240
      @jamestownvander4240 Před rokem

      @@Alex-zi4ll this is false more white people get shot by police and white People do get racialy attacked by blacks although there is no outrage when white people get killed

  • @MarvinPowell1
    @MarvinPowell1 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Everyone knows looks aren't everything. The problem is, the people who say this are allowed to do so BECAUSE of their advantages in life they've gained through looks, or have the money to improve their looks.

  • @mikekeating
    @mikekeating Před 4 lety +5565

    How can you say looks aren't everything when everything you have is because of your looks ....

    • @TuffBurnOutTeam
      @TuffBurnOutTeam Před 4 lety +308

      That's well said

    • @yash3699
      @yash3699 Před 4 lety +93

      Wow level sarcasm Bro and that one line is enough 🔥👌

    • @ivanalexy1655
      @ivanalexy1655 Před 4 lety +214

      There are lots of models, she obviously worked hard too to get here and looks aren't everything.
      Thinking like that fucks people up.

    • @MaRiAm936
      @MaRiAm936 Před 4 lety +5

      👏👏👏👏

    • @ivanalexy1655
      @ivanalexy1655 Před 4 lety +112

      @CZcams Player It's not a lie, why is everyone judging her so harshly.
      Looks aren't everything, there are other things that matter other than looks. It's unfair to disregard someone just because they are beautiful.

  • @courtneybrockmeyer6539
    @courtneybrockmeyer6539 Před 8 lety +1589

    There are a lot of comments on here about how she is a hypocrite for being beautiful/rich/fill-in-the-blank and saying that all of that stuff isn't important. You are all missing the point. She is saying that it IS important, but that it SHOULDN'T BE. She is being so brave and vulnerable by standing up on stage and admitting that the world she benefits from is the same world others get hurt by. You can't criticize a model for being blind to her privileges and then criticize her for seeing and standing up against those same privileges. She can't change the way she looks and how the world favors her, so I commend her for doing SOMETHING to combat this issue.

  • @eleonorascaglione2537
    @eleonorascaglione2537 Před 2 lety +9

    I think what this video is trying to say is that happiness is relative. That mostly people who wanna be models at all costs are sometimes just seeking approval. I can say that because at age 15 I really wanted to be a model and became so obsessed I started eating less and I almost feel into the hole of anorexia. I sometimes think I was just looking for ways for the world to say "I love you back" And accept me for who I am. Now at 21 I understand that I don't need the world to accept me because I love myself. And it start with my personality. As a funny coincidence I ended up growing and becoming really good looking at age 20 and also today. I just hope people realize they have a right to be themselves and that nobody con tell you who you "should" be.

    • @coconuts1145
      @coconuts1145 Před rokem

      very nice comment!

    • @hanchristine1606
      @hanchristine1606 Před rokem +2

      Thank you so much! I was almost getting angry as I couldn't find what is the main idea and the logic of this video, and how the content of the speech related to the title of it but I have to write an analysis essay of the video for my assignment. Your explanation makes a lot of sense to me. "Happiness is relative" would be better than "looks aren't everything". Looking through a lot of comments - they were so confusing.

  • @winbin6418
    @winbin6418 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for your honesty. This is how we can further change.

  • @Randomuseritsasecret
    @Randomuseritsasecret Před 5 lety +3130

    Looks are everything. Believe me, I am not a model.

    • @michelleharley99
      @michelleharley99 Před 5 lety +126

      if you are stupid, have no skill or will to work hard, yeah than all you can depend on is your looks, until you get old though!

    • @dumbpotato8947
      @dumbpotato8947 Před 5 lety +38

      Guys this person is being sarcastic,jokes still exist ya know

    • @knight6800
      @knight6800 Před 5 lety +13

      Looks can't win you a Nobel Prize.

    • @Randomuseritsasecret
      @Randomuseritsasecret Před 5 lety +11

      I was just being sarcastic if anyone is confused. Looks of course don't mean everything.

    • @tbh7244
      @tbh7244 Před 5 lety +12

      You are stupid. Believe me, I am not an idiot

  • @Ahmed-zv5gz
    @Ahmed-zv5gz Před 4 lety +2407

    It’s sad that a lot of people miss the points she is trying to make. Goes to show how bad the problem actually is.

    • @ahhhhyes
      @ahhhhyes Před 4 lety +51

      @The Most Interesting Man On CZcams I'm pretty ugly and not even slightly insecure so you're wrong

    • @My_Spiritual_Journey.
      @My_Spiritual_Journey. Před 4 lety

      Yeah..

    • @Jerusalem23
      @Jerusalem23 Před 4 lety +4

      Seyyid Kkt Exactly. Like she made it quite simple.

    • @jeffreywang1824
      @jeffreywang1824 Před 4 lety +106

      @Danji ASMR Český She not arrogant so much as self aware. She's attractive and she knows she is, because she'd have been told that her whole life and she makes a living out of it. She doesn't make it out that she's better than everyone else though and she says herself that she just got lucky.

    • @Spaceman68ok
      @Spaceman68ok Před 4 lety +2

      Ok boomer

  • @jonzhang6463
    @jonzhang6463 Před 2 lety

    I think she presents a good points, as model herself just the brick of whole construction, and she doesn't have much to say over it. Appreciate the complete honesty

  • @user-jh6eo9hj3f
    @user-jh6eo9hj3f Před 2 měsíci +3

    "looks arent everything. Belive me, im a model" , "money isnt everything. Trust me, im rich"

    • @nihilisticboi3520
      @nihilisticboi3520 Před 2 měsíci

      goes to show you didn't even get the point of the video? Do you have a smooth brain?

  • @shurik3nz346
    @shurik3nz346 Před 4 lety +1059

    Just because something isn’t everything, it doesn’t mean that it is nothing.

  • @jack_daddy_mack
    @jack_daddy_mack Před 7 lety +1830

    Sure, beauty isn't everything; BUT it sure helps.

    • @vayonan2995
      @vayonan2995 Před 7 lety +6

      YoshiPeach Mario
      That's not a good thing stupid. Most of the video is how she's not happy about her job and she doesn't like it.
      It's gotten her to where she is now and it's bad.

    • @vayonan2995
      @vayonan2995 Před 7 lety +1

      YoshiPeach Mario
      As far as i know she is the ONLY model to do a ted talk. Or are all the other speakers suddenly models? How come all those other speakers got to do a talk without good looks?? Dumbass

    • @ahmedhesham4281
      @ahmedhesham4281 Před 7 lety +5

      YoshiPeach Mario if she wasn't a model she wouldn't be talking about how we preserve image and the insecurities of a model would she ?

    • @widb8evd8wg38dhsu
      @widb8evd8wg38dhsu Před 7 lety +2

      yep 99.999999% isn't everything

    • @Literally_1984_owl
      @Literally_1984_owl Před 7 lety +1

      666 likes

  • @hrizovlaznek837
    @hrizovlaznek837 Před 4 měsíci +3

    it‘s like rich people saying “money is not important“. ridiculous

  • @yadanarkyaw284
    @yadanarkyaw284 Před 2 lety +2

    Thanks a lot for your sharing. Youngers take care superficial and don't care their mind. We love K-pop idols, actors, models. We want to be their beauty. But they are normal look without fashion, make up and stylists.We should love their natural beauty. We should love ourselves.

  • @_day_n_night_
    @_day_n_night_ Před 4 lety +1439

    looks are like a first door to a person. if you’re beautiful then that door is opened and people will go to the second door which is personality, who you really are, etc. if you’re not attractive then the first door remains closed and people won’t even bother trying to get to know you. Beautiful people say looks don’t matter simply because it’s something they don’t struggle with (so eventually personality will become their main focus) You can be unhappy for various reasons, but it’s unfair to say something doesn’t matter because /you/ don’t struggle with it. Ideally we all should focus on what’s inside but the vast majority of people will never bother that much if they’re not impressed after a first, superficial glance towards someone.

    • @wajmazahir8798
      @wajmazahir8798 Před 4 lety +7

      helô oliveira beauty’s in the eye of the beholder

    • @christyieong2327
      @christyieong2327 Před 4 lety +26

      So damn right:((((
      Just because that’s sth you don’t struggle with doesn’t mean that it isn’t a struggle for others

    • @wv_rosales
      @wv_rosales Před 4 lety +26

      The problem is when you cannot go to the second door because you're Latino or dark-skinned... Those are things we must work on to change in modern societies. Less worse that how do you look physically is not the only component of the first door, but also, how are you dressed, how do you talk, how do you behave and even your body expressions.

    • @user-cx1xk4jg6f
      @user-cx1xk4jg6f Před 4 lety

      Christy Ieong This topic is looks. Forcus on advantage by the difference.
      Do you understand?

    • @arpitagill5718
      @arpitagill5718 Před 4 lety +3

      well said

  • @Dance1617
    @Dance1617 Před 4 lety +822

    Looks aren't everything DOES NOT EQUAL looks don't matter.
    WORDS HAVE SPECIFIC MEANING

    • @talkswithsinead6130
      @talkswithsinead6130 Před 4 lety +5

      True!

    • @haechanverse
      @haechanverse Před 4 lety +46

      Exactly! She's not saying looks don't matter. She's given multiple examples that it DOES matter and that she privileges from this fact. That's why she made this TED Talk. The people in this comment section really don't understand the point.

    • @RI.........
      @RI......... Před 4 lety +3

      Preach 🗣️

    • @juliagilewska8354
      @juliagilewska8354 Před 4 lety +1

      exacly jeez

    • @B..P..
      @B..P.. Před 4 lety

      @Matt Frazier You are insecure man.
      I can tell just by that comment.That means you have bigger issues.

  • @lilylaboche2191
    @lilylaboche2191 Před 2 lety +5

    I've been on both sides .. I used to have acne on my face and everyone were rude to me even shop assistants.. but then after my acne cleared up suddenly everyone are nice and respectful to me .. it pisses me off to think about
    And btw for those wondering why women put on makeup.. this is why.. because they know life is easier that way

  • @slimyelow
    @slimyelow Před rokem +1

    "The photos are constructions" is a statement that really hit me. I had never made that obvious connection consciously.

  • @StudioAnnLe
    @StudioAnnLe Před 10 lety +5994

    Fascinating talk. It's not surprising that looks can get someone ahead in life, but that's only part of the equation of success. I found it refreshing that she said that models are the most insecure about themselves physically.

    • @DerredmaxTRIAX
      @DerredmaxTRIAX Před 10 lety +17

      Do you think she was being truthful, Hmm maybe she was. What surprised me was she could walk normal not the usual stepping over invisible things. when I see them walking like that I have an uncontrollable urge to sand off my finger prints. So I can prove I have no relation to the human race.... The only bright side to sanding off your finger prints, Your now the GI Joe action figure with the KungFu GRIP!!!

    • @jaipo2031
      @jaipo2031 Před 6 lety +2

      I love you

    • @scj3188
      @scj3188 Před 6 lety +23

      that's a HUGE part of the equation.

    • @PopeSalty1
      @PopeSalty1 Před 6 lety +116

      I worked for a short time in a strip club - not my proudest moment - and I noticed the same insecurity in the women there. And it makes sense - when your entire life, your entire sense of self-worth, is built strictly around your looks, it seems only natural to be insecure about it, attractive or not.

    • @PR0Z0MBIE9877
      @PR0Z0MBIE9877 Před 6 lety +26

      Ann Le {Anneorshine} but people will find methods of being insecure about themselves in every other way.

  • @RomanyGypsy92
    @RomanyGypsy92 Před 6 lety +1963

    She graduated from Columbia with a double major in Economics and Poli Sci. She's hella smart.

    • @MrThe1234guy
      @MrThe1234guy Před 6 lety +56

      RomanyGypsy92 The A's were all gifts so was the tuition.

    • @seanmcmanus2777
      @seanmcmanus2777 Před 6 lety +86

      Please never use the word 'hella' again

    • @nutellaeatingpanda
      @nutellaeatingpanda Před 6 lety +5

      RomanyGypsy92 ugh i probably won't be able to even get waitlisted :(

    • @seacliff1213
      @seacliff1213 Před 6 lety +15

      RomanyGypsy92 So she hit the genetic jackpot. Woopdedo.

    • @kirbyhatesincels917
      @kirbyhatesincels917 Před 6 lety +79

      Mm.
      Graduating with good grades doesn't necessarily qualify you as intelligent.

  • @blackpilledchad1927
    @blackpilledchad1927 Před rokem +3

    Lots of "If" and "Shouldn't". But i used to be a fat tall guy and life was pretty heavy (no self pun intended) in most things and harder when it came to relationships... but when i got skinny fit and my jawline appeared, my life completely changed. Waaaaay easier

  • @michaelteegarden4116
    @michaelteegarden4116 Před 6 měsíci

    My only wish for this video would be a series on it. I very much want to show an entire series of these honest discussions with a model, to my daughters, to my middle and high school students.

  • @camillebanks620
    @camillebanks620 Před 4 lety +703

    I used to be morbidly obese, I lost weight. The contrast to how im treated now compared to then is revealing about society. People can be really shallow and often don't even realize it.

    • @manictiger
      @manictiger Před 4 lety +70

      Well, it's a reflection of character. Obesity looks like: irresponsible, doesn't care about self, no discipline.
      It's mean, but we want friends that are like us to some degree.
      If I'm successful, wealthy, good-looking and in relatively good health, I'm going to want similar people around me.
      Everyone else is just part of the hi-bye culture. It's how we navigate a population of 326 million people. It's human nature.
      At least we don't cannibalize opponent tribes anymore.

    • @camillebanks620
      @camillebanks620 Před 4 lety +12

      @@manictiger thank you for this perspective, it makes sense.

    • @aprioriontoast704
      @aprioriontoast704 Před 4 lety +25

      Yea being overweight is rough , it's important not to dehumanise people based on their weight especially because some weight issues both being overweight and underweight are linked to mental health issues , the fact is you don't know if somebody is just lazy or is in fact severely depressed and being self-destructive. They could have been trough god knows what and use food to escape , they may lie in their beds all day because they have no self-worth are super depressed. Those who are overweight are people too and deserve to be treated as people. You don't have to encourage obesity to show kindness and tolerance towards these kinds of struggles , what we need is to be supportive to make people who are overweight feel that they aren't horrible people and that the importance of losing weight is for them ; for their health and mobility not for them to become passable as human beings just to become healthier and freezer ! Well done for losing the weight btw (= I'm sorry you felt people treated you as a lesser person because of your weight that's not right.

    • @aprioriontoast704
      @aprioriontoast704 Před 4 lety +8

      @@manictiger It is mean. Humans are above are primitive intuitions and able to intellectualise the true nature of a person no matter what their weight is Honestly I'd be friends with people of all sizes , somebody with self-harm scars , I'd be friends with somebody with depression or who struggles with addiction and the fact is sometimes our friends go through bad times , they are human beings and can't be perfect all the time. As long as they are good people I'll be their friend and I don't see fat people as bad people , fat people can be loving , caring , giving , funny and smart and that's what I care about. Don't get me wrong though I wouldn't encourage them to be fat , but I would love them despite it and if I could help them lose weight I would want to , but not because them being slim makes them a better friend but because I care for them I would want them to be in good health.

    • @manictiger
      @manictiger Před 4 lety +2

      ​@@aprioriontoast704
      The only goddamn reason you can "intellectualize" (not a real word) at all, is because we ate meat for millions of years. So yeah. You're delusional on every possible level. But hey, you do you.

  • @JonathanHartwig
    @JonathanHartwig Před 9 lety +1244

    To everyone hating on this talk, consider this- she probably just eight-balled herself by giving this talk, i.e. she likely pissed off a lot of potential employers for her. This took guts, both in terms of coming to grips with the only personal reality she's ever known, and in terms of calling it how it is in the face of impending professional backlash. Did she cure cancer? No. But you have to appreciate her candidness and honesty in spite of an industry largely shrouded in a mum's-the-word approach to results transparency.

    • @TheJoelef
      @TheJoelef Před 9 lety +19

      or she reliezed like Anita Sarkesian that you make money off of being a SJW / Victim.

    • @JessiCocoa
      @JessiCocoa Před 9 lety +57

      Joseph LeForte
      I'm pretty sure I missed that part of the speech.

    • @howardkoor2796
      @howardkoor2796 Před 9 lety +34

      I think it was courageous of her. Lovely vulnerability about her. We all grow and change. She obviously did.

    • @vixxcelacea2778
      @vixxcelacea2778 Před 9 lety +39

      ***** If more people like her would do exactly what she just did, they would inspire the current and next generation to stop hating themselves and hating what they can't have.
      It may not fix cancer, but it certainly helps to fix the mass mental illness of today's society that we are all subject to or directly take part in.

    • @joyhana3542
      @joyhana3542 Před 9 lety +10

      ***** Not really. I've seen a few behind the scenes of a fashion runaway. And a few of the make-up artists, stylist and designers have vocalized their preference for aware/ smart models. They're not all stuck-up and unaware; or even unconcerned about the trappings of superficiality of their business. In fact, they're more aware of it than most, arguably. And people like Cameron Russell may indeed find like minded people in her business; sympathetic and understand the pros and cons of a constructed image-emphasized work environment.
      And it's not like she did a Katherine Heigl, wherein she outright dismissed the industry. Cameron Russell actually inspired her would-be predecessors to aim higher than a model. 'BE HER BOSS' - if they want to be in this type of work.
      Anyways, she also said she "was" a model, meaning she might have retired. I don't know, I've only just heard of her after seeing this video.
      Ah, this comment is to the 'she probably just eight-balled herself by this talk.'

  • @slimyelow
    @slimyelow Před rokem

    The end was too rushed. I would love to hear more. Cameron is truly fascinating.

  • @tubatuba6592
    @tubatuba6592 Před 9 měsíci +1

    An honest,powerful speech

  • @asmimaden6396
    @asmimaden6396 Před 8 lety +2592

    I wish looks didn't matter

    • @jayantkalyan9215
      @jayantkalyan9215 Před 8 lety +70

      looks are important to evolution

    • @StillTrustNo1
      @StillTrustNo1 Před 7 lety +48

      They only do if you let them

    • @DankBudwoi
      @DankBudwoi Před 7 lety +81

      +StillTrustNo1 Bullshit

    • @StillTrustNo1
      @StillTrustNo1 Před 7 lety +20

      DankBudwoi Being a slave(to whatever) is a mental choise. Maybe some day you will get there to

    • @mern461
      @mern461 Před 7 lety +15

      its conditioning mainly as she said symmetry health and age ..everything esle is cultural.

  • @icandy630
    @icandy630 Před 4 lety +1082

    Even hollywood actors admit to having insecurity, cause there's always someone who is younger, smarter, more talented or more gorgeous than you. You must realize your self-worth. There is no one like you.

    • @rascal211
      @rascal211 Před 3 lety +9

      They are not as insecure as someone who can't even get up and speak in front of a large audience because they get so nervous doing it.

    • @dtosmanm4743
      @dtosmanm4743 Před 3 lety +6

      Not everyone is worth something. Stupid virtue signalling

    • @ALEXA-mu3oy
      @ALEXA-mu3oy Před 3 lety +1

      yes exactly! self worth know your worth

    • @phantomstranger1125
      @phantomstranger1125 Před 3 lety +8

      aspi rine That's bullshit. It's what stupid and broke people tell themselves to make themselves feel better. Almost every Hollywood celebrity is a self-made millionaire. You have to be pretty intelligent to go from nothing to millions.

    • @kanishkasinghal3643
      @kanishkasinghal3643 Před 3 lety

      no hate but just realise the truth behind it ...she is beautiful and is earning so much if money by her looks and getting paid for sayung looks dont matter ....how cheap is this ..even she is trying to earn money ..i bet she is of those students or girls bullying the beautiful soules ...she dosent have any personality but only looks and still earning ...

  • @josiecat8080
    @josiecat8080 Před 11 měsíci

    “How you look and not who you ARE”💖✨
    These topics are important.