Communicate with Purpose: Techniques to Enhance Every Relationship

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 9. 06. 2024
  • In this video, Chris and Mo share their personal experiences and professional insights on becoming masterful communicators.
    They discuss the importance of intention, tone, and adapting communication styles to connect genuinely with others.
    This episode is packed with real-world examples, personal anecdotes, and practical advice for anyone looking to enhance their communication skills.
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    Timestamps:
    00:00:00 - Intro
    00:03:25 - The Essence of Communication and its Impact
    00:15:40 - Exploring Tonality and Context in Speech
    00:30:55 - Challenges and Techniques of Adaptive Communication
    00:45:10 - The Impact of Empathetic Communication
    01:10:25 - Different Personal Communication Styles
    01:25:50 - The Importance of Continuous Learning in Communication
    01:34:10 - Outro
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Komentáƙe • 81

  • @BrandonVincentRealty
    @BrandonVincentRealty Pƙed 20 dny +5

    “Showing up as Everything & Nothing” That’s a wild parable, it’s so simple yet so complex

  • @leadgenjay
    @leadgenjay Pƙed 25 dny +3

    Chris and Mo really hit the nail on the head with the importance of adapting communication styles.

  • @FragranceCraft
    @FragranceCraft Pƙed 7 dny +1

    ❀ Great talk, thank you both 😊 🎉

  • @vladolareanu
    @vladolareanu Pƙed 27 dny +6

    Loved this video! Chris and Mo gave great tips on communication. The focus on intention, tone, and adapting styles was super helpful. The real-life examples and stories made it all so relatable. Can’t wait to use these tips! Thanks for an awesome episode! 🌟

  • @SFStacker
    @SFStacker Pƙed 26 dny +2

    I think this conversation hit the nail on the head. For me it boiled down to utilizing empathy to push your personal boundaries of communication as far as possible. The more you learn/observe, the better you can understand others, meaning the better the communication or connection.

  • @joshatkins96
    @joshatkins96 Pƙed 7 dny +1

    Love how real these guys are.

  • @anavujcuf
    @anavujcuf Pƙed 26 dny +15

    I really enjoyed this conversation :) I was fortunate enough to work with great fashion designers and artists over the years, and I had the opportunity to peer inside their minds. Short story: I was having a morning coffee with a fashion designer, Pat McDonagh, on the patio in front of her studio (Toronto, 2013). We were sitting in silence, and she was observing pigeons. At one moment, she asked me (I don't remember the exact words): "Do you see how the feathers change colours when the sun hits them? I can order a sequin fabric with similar colours for the next collection. Add some feathers to the shoes." At that moment, I was like, OMG!! I just witnessed the birth of her new collection! We get to see this on a runway - all coming from that moment of silence and observation.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  Pƙed 24 dny

      Amazing!

    • @FemarieRosario
      @FemarieRosario Pƙed 20 dny +1

      I just had an Eureka moment with this comment. Thank you!

  • @lucym5698
    @lucym5698 Pƙed 26 dny +3

    "I'm nothing and I'm everything at the same time" Yes, thats possible. It's all about mindset. We have all we need inside of each of us.

  • @fantasyarch
    @fantasyarch Pƙed 23 dny +1

    As an architect, I can say that they have really good insights when talking about tiles. If you are skilled in one design field, your knowledge and skills translate well to other design fields as well.

  • @khairt1731
    @khairt1731 Pƙed 26 dny +3

    I needed this video. Thank you guys. God bless you both

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  Pƙed 24 dny +1

      You’re very welcome

  • @lorivinson6845
    @lorivinson6845 Pƙed 27 dny +2

    I do enjoy listening to you. It helps me deal with my customers. I do custom memory items. I draw a lot from your videos. Thank you!

  • @FemarieRosario
    @FemarieRosario Pƙed 20 dny

    I came here to learn effective communication skills, and left with a deep dive in self reflection; professional, spiritual, mindfulness, etc., etc. And also took me like 3 hours of back and forward to watch the whole video. Love that and Thank you! Great content! 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌

  • @lizaorlina
    @lizaorlina Pƙed 26 dny +40

    Whoever is editing this please stop with the background music it’s taking away from the content 🙏

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  Pƙed 24 dny +7

      Thank you for the feedback

    • @Bstylaz
      @Bstylaz Pƙed 22 dny +2

      True

    • @RavenaciousTM
      @RavenaciousTM Pƙed 21 dnem +1

      I agree. Would be even more awesome to tune up on ur videos if I was able to focus 100%. Nice content though! 🎉

    • @Assyrian
      @Assyrian Pƙed 19 dny +2

      Agreed no BG music :)

    • @marshallosantos9035
      @marshallosantos9035 Pƙed 14 dny +1

      I concur

  • @EmbraceTheDarknessLLC
    @EmbraceTheDarknessLLC Pƙed 25 dny +1

    “I’m nothing and I’m everything at the same time.”
    I wish everyone had this level of understanding not only that they could be nothing and everything (their true selves) but also allowed others to be nothing and everything.

  • @emarshatai
    @emarshatai Pƙed 24 dny

    Really loved listening to you guys. I got so much out of this conversation. So many ideas to go out and implement with intention to be as fearless as Chris.

  • @huggies1110
    @huggies1110 Pƙed 25 dny +1

    Thank you for sharing all those stories.
    I liked the talks about fashion,
    I have a particular fashion style, mixing streetwear, techwear and gorpcore, when I started wearing those clothes a couple years ago, I could see people in the streets looking at me funny, some people would also compliment me on my style, so I never really cared about the “funny looks”.
    Throughout the years my style evolved, but I always felt good with what I used to wear.
    The thing is, I don’t see no one looking at me funny no more.
    I wonder if its because I own up my style better and truly am myself with the clothes I wear, or if I simply don’t give a F about the weird looks so much that I don’t see them at all anymore.
    I also feel like building your fashionstyle is the same as building you artstyle,
    You can’t copy someone else’s style and feel like yourself, you can start by doing so as a base to create your own, but I feel like Chris’ style is so in sinc with his personality that thats why his friend couldn’t “pull it off”.
    I can pull of weird ass looking boots and clothes with hundreds of pockets and zippers, but no way I can pullof big ass glasses and a snapback

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  Pƙed 24 dny +2

      I think your confidence grew into your fashion. When you’re at ease you put people at ease.

  • @ThePianoKeys
    @ThePianoKeys Pƙed 19 dny +1

    I want to go places with Chris just so he can point out all the ways the lack of attention to detail disappoints him.

  • @SelfCareIsWealthCare
    @SelfCareIsWealthCare Pƙed 26 dny +2

    Amazing conversation; I enjoyed the granular nature of this conversation.🏆

  • @fastfutureforwardbychristi9064

    Love you guys-thanks again for all your wisdom, insights and for being curious to be nothing and everything ❀❀❀

  • @RobinDavisStudio
    @RobinDavisStudio Pƙed 23 dny

    Such a great conversation and honest share! wow! Truly refreshing and magical! Thank you wholeheartedly for filming this conversation and sharing it!

  • @DrRussell
    @DrRussell Pƙed 27 dny +2

    Just had a communication breakdown and you post this. Thank you đŸ™đŸŒ

  • @aristotlemaniago8801
    @aristotlemaniago8801 Pƙed 20 dny

    Thank you so much .

  • @rakeshmakwana8893
    @rakeshmakwana8893 Pƙed 27 dny +1

    I can't wait to get stuck into this!

  • @crucialvision1
    @crucialvision1 Pƙed 27 dny +2

    Your content is always the best!

  • @KindnessInvokingNetwork
    @KindnessInvokingNetwork Pƙed 24 dny +1

    30:30 LaRussell is awesome 😁. Signed by another great rapper and big inspiration to me, RUSS

  • @SimracingArnout
    @SimracingArnout Pƙed 25 dny

    I feel that this conversation has more gold than people realize

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl Pƙed 27 dny +2

    👏 Understanding the importance of intentionality in communication is crucial for fostering meaningful connections! Adapting your communication style to suit different individuals can lead to more effective and empathetic interactions. Keep exploring and refining your communication skills to create impactful experiences through conversations! 🗣✹

  • @1229e8
    @1229e8 Pƙed 20 dny

    Chris - other than Seth Godin, who are you studying to expand your range in vocabulary and cadence? Fire episode. Thanks for letting us in.

  • @GISSuccess
    @GISSuccess Pƙed 24 dny

    Excellent topic and discussion. I bought my first skate deck Santa Cruz Slasher because of the graphics but eventually bought a HammerHead too because I wanted to skate like Christian Hosoi.

  • @umeshgallage9347
    @umeshgallage9347 Pƙed 21 dnem

    That's the level of attention to detail that got me switched from Android to iOS after noticing things like the fake blur vs the real-time blur happen behind notification/control center overlays. Very minor details, but after you notice, you can't unsee. And as a designer, I coudln't resist.

  • @Alexander-bp2ht
    @Alexander-bp2ht Pƙed 27 dny +1

    I've been a fan of Chris Do and Ryan Holiday for quite some time. I'm excited to watch Chris get into how Marcus A. warns himself about who he is going to encounter in the day in relationship to the cleint service advice he gives. The compliment each other nicely.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  Pƙed 24 dny +2

      I’ve been unwittingly practicing stoicism. Who knew?

  • @niranjanp65
    @niranjanp65 Pƙed 19 dny +1

    Who trains Mo to ask these beautiful questions like that?

  • @freshzestcarpetcare5455
    @freshzestcarpetcare5455 Pƙed 26 dny +1

    Spot on with the natural stone. An easy way to know what is printed and what is real is the pattern. Every tile should be unique if natural stone.
    If every tile is the same it's man made (ceramic or porcelain)
    Another way to tell is by pouring water on the surface. Natural stone is porous and will absorb the water. Ceramic and porcelain will not absorb the water

  • @geewiz8253
    @geewiz8253 Pƙed 18 dny +1

    The main lesson I get from this video is: have confidence in herself, in where you are, and be authentic. Thanks for this. @thefutur

  • @ericwangombe805
    @ericwangombe805 Pƙed 19 dny +1

    Edit and bg music is good though❀

  • @wannabecarguy
    @wannabecarguy Pƙed 27 dny +2

    I had a conversation with another business owner and he talked about the scar on his face. He had to be extra careful how he communicated because people would interpret his body language as anger.

  • @FilipeTeixeira_TennisCoach
    @FilipeTeixeira_TennisCoach Pƙed 25 dny +1

    Great talk ;)

  • @paulamccarthy479
    @paulamccarthy479 Pƙed 16 dny

    Do Mo Magic! ❀

  • @Willpowerstudios
    @Willpowerstudios Pƙed 26 dny +1

    the inner space !

  • @OmGadhiya
    @OmGadhiya Pƙed 27 dny +3

    *I want to travel with YOU CHRIS !!*
    Edit - ONE DAY I WILL TRAVEL WITH YOU 🎯

  • @user-rr1dn1no2l
    @user-rr1dn1no2l Pƙed 23 dny

    💙

  • @EchoElements.
    @EchoElements. Pƙed 15 dny

    Do and Mo. 😊

  • @sirenblog2583
    @sirenblog2583 Pƙed 21 dnem +1

    Lol, Charming razor blade 😂

  • @troydenson8694
    @troydenson8694 Pƙed 26 dny +1

    Chris. Did you buy the Gator Vision?

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  Pƙed 24 dny

      No. I couldn’t. Given Gator went to jail for murdering his GF.

  • @lorivinson6845
    @lorivinson6845 Pƙed 27 dny +2

    Completely understand the champagne taste. So don't have the money.

  • @mohanadramadan-zu9gv
    @mohanadramadan-zu9gv Pƙed 27 dny +3

    why you dont make road map for started
    business😅😅😅

  • @ridhoharryazhar
    @ridhoharryazhar Pƙed 27 dny +1

    First!

  • @dbo.vision
    @dbo.vision Pƙed 27 dny +1

    Why all the time watching The Futur / Chris Do it's like you got the guts to move on in life even if you fall you get up suck it up and fight. Nothing is precious than your mind and guts to say yes or no.

  • @Radiance230
    @Radiance230 Pƙed 21 dnem

    What is MO’s background? Perhaps socials?

  • @dfd4688
    @dfd4688 Pƙed 24 dny

    The ability to observe without evaluating, without judgment, is the highest form of human intelligence” sounds like the “Emperor’s new clothes.” Our fear of being judged as unintelligent might keep us from evaluating the statement. When observed what does intelligence look like, and without evaluating how might one determine one form as being higher than the other. I like the irony. Thanks again.. cheers

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  Pƙed 24 dny

      To observe without judgment. It’s difficult to do. That does not mean to not evaluate. It’s to resist the temptation of seeing what you want to see vs what’s really there.

    • @dfd4688
      @dfd4688 Pƙed 24 dny

      @@thefutur Observing with the clear intention to understand, not to agree or disagree
 I’m imagining there’s more to this
 I wonder what the outcome might be if this strategy was mastered. Thanks for responding 🙏

    • @FragranceCraft
      @FragranceCraft Pƙed 7 dny +1

      Judging means applying our value system onto another person.
      Do we have all the informations necessary for judging them: what they were going threw, and even if, do we know how their life feels to them in their skin, what natural energy level they have, did they choose their IQ, the culture and their parents who formed or may be even abused them ... ?

  • @emiliosibs
    @emiliosibs Pƙed 25 dny +1

    Guys need help! who is this Kentucky guy they were talking about on the last part??

  • @diegofrancofioravante97
    @diegofrancofioravante97 Pƙed 22 dny +1

    a flashy use of Krishnamurti just for the sake of it, doing the opposite on the next sentence .. the speaker has made a fool of hm slf

  • @angstrom1058
    @angstrom1058 Pƙed 23 dny

    Me need to speak gooder :)

  • @jk2973
    @jk2973 Pƙed 19 dny

    You communicate with your tumbnail Jordan Peterson
    You communicate about Jordan Peterson zero times
    You communicate very poorly
    Can anyone explain this with communication?

  • @laeniz
    @laeniz Pƙed 17 dny

    Mo is annoying. He must pay alot of money to keep popping up on your vids everywhere you go. I hope all this tutoring he receives is limiting his ego and resistance that is so obvious.

    • @thefutur
      @thefutur  Pƙed 17 dny

      Haha. I’m paying him. So he must be playing his cards right.

  • @josegarcia-pm5ls
    @josegarcia-pm5ls Pƙed 17 dny

    They way they make your mind begin to think of a process with just words. The build up to cause an action is how I felt amazing đŸ‘ŒđŸ‘ŒđŸ‘ŒđŸ«Ą