IS IT A SCAM OR TRUE LOVE IN THE PHIIPPINES
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So you see the girl now, since you live there? What do you say to her?
Loneliness makes people make foolish decisions When in doubt get a dog
I have 3 dog and still get lonely but I have Janet I am one of the lucky ones
Wow this is possibly one of the best comments I’ve seen on CZcams
best reply and 100% agree
It's so easy to find out if your online filipina is serious about a relationship with you. Just don't send her money until you've met in person. If she bails, then you know it was only about money.
Mike your a smart man.
Let's be frank, beautiful young women don't love old men anywhere in the world.
It's a business relationship. Hopefully you find a good one who treats you well & doesn't ask for to much. Would she be with you if no money?
Yes it's better than the West. But it's business.
You’re a smart and realistic man.
Would she be with a young man if no money?
@Aard-Vark there is a reason most of them already have children.
Yes they like handsome young phillipino guys.
They don't pay.
Well said.
@@paulsmith2552
So, she isn't in a relationship with the baby daddy, why?
I wasn't built to be alone. I am the one woman marrying kind. However, being 60, I'd like to think I'm older/wiser from life experience. A girl will need to check all the boxes as a life partner for me to settle.
Being alone sucks. Being with the wrong person sucks a lot more. Before you go picking a girl, you need to be at peace with yourself.
I did not want to live alone here in the Philippines. We have that in Common
For me i would not live in philipiines with out a wife im moving philippines because her hearts there not in states she hate high cost of living and kc cold
Facts 💯
Very few beautiful women in the Philippines. Most of these women are nothing special just older used Philappino women. Get the younger ones ages 19 to 24 the rest are old battleships.
thanks for watching
Very true,been here 6.5 yrs,very few!!!!
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder... there are hundreds of beautiful women over 30 in The Philippines and other countries too
GREAT content!!!! YOU are so right!!!. When in doubt DON'T!
Boom!
my advice is meet as many as you can and it won't take long to seperate the good ones from the scammers.
just be smart and keep your eyes open
Excellent video, Mike. One of your best that I've seen. Scam stories are the same all over the world... just started a new job and need money, granny is sick, brother needs helps... hundreds of them. My one hard and fast rule has been I will not send money at all until I meet them in person. And I make this very clear to any woman I am interested in. Also that I make no promises and no commitments until that time too, if I ever meet them. lol. As has been said here by others, if they are truly interested in you, they will not ask for money. I empathize with the situations some of them are in but I would be homeless and destitute myself if I sent money to all those who asked for money. The things we do for love...
There are many good ladies online looking.....just need to be safe 😊
take your time and slow down
Talking to a girl online is like being arrested. Anything you say can be used. She’ll ask “how are you”. Then of coarse you will ask her how she is and that’s when the asking begins. Also They’re also quick to fall for you! Re meeting at the airport: She’s locking you down from other Filipinas!
I call it putting her mark on you
😂
Hey Mike..thanks so much for the great advice..you are spot on ..
Weather in the Philippines or else where, always date someone you know in person. Don’t fall in love over the internet. Great advice!
Thank you Brandon
@@mikesphilippineretirement your welcome Mike!
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Guess I am one of the lucky ones. I fell in love online. Here it is 18 years later and she is still with me.😂
Thanks for sharing, great advice.
You're welcome
Such a cool video! Can't wait for more.
Thanks Noah
A handsome man = a man with plenty of money.
You have so many excellent videos Mike. This is at the top! If men listen, this can save their lives. Instead of wasting years of their lives trying to figure out if they are scammed, for me, I say if things don’t add up end it fast. I have seen so many in a state of confusion trying to figure out if they are being scammed and slowly they normalize the scamming and comply, acquiesce. Great message Mike
Happy weekend brother 😎 a few lady friends want to meet me at the airport on Wednesday morning but that is a big negative and a NO.
I want to acclimate and adjust for at least 48 hours or more.
But I definitely agree. It will be nice to have someone show me around after that. Getting the lay of the land 🐸🙌
Good idea. Meet the girls and have fun enjoy the Philippines
u know ur good when you can get a girl pregnant and u haven't even meet her yet
Wow that’s pretty good!
very long dong
Another great video Mike.
thanks John
Good explain Mike !!! See you !!! Regards Erwin
Thanks Erwin
Great advice Mike.
As an Australian that has been to the Philippines many times(30plus) over past 24 years i have seen and witness many expat being taken advantages of, probably me too to a certain extent in my younger years.
I did the 3 girl chat, monthly subscriptions.
Until i found what i believe the genuine one.
Yes i found her, i meet her and im very much inlove with her after spending time with her and her family lady Dec/ january.
I also got to soend some alone time with her, b4 we travelled to samar( my Australian good friends house) so they could get a feel amd see if she is what i feel.
I got the impression thst i did good, my friends wife, filpina, told me she was very impressed and likes my girlfriend.
Am i lucky, i dint think its luck, i believe its fate, we are on the same page, there is a monthly allowance and there has never been a situation that she need$ money.
Maybe i am lucky.
Thanks for vid Mike, regsrds to Janet.
Btw ill buy you a coffe in Duma this october.
Cheers 🍻 from Australia mate
Mike this is such good advice. Thanks
Hello I'm listen to your vlogs very carefully. Yea I'm chatting with one Filipina working outside of Philippines, so far she never aske for money, like 2-3 from Philippines asked me direct. Red light. Thanks to your vlogs which are very wise. I do not mind to help but when I see the person. Excuse me for my English.
Thanks for sharing your English is better than most. Hahaha
Thanks Mike, sound advice 👍🇦🇺
No problem 👍Thank you
This is how not to get scammed
1. Don’t be Desperate
2. NEVER start communication until you’re Desperate ass in in the country
3. respect your money the money you worked your ass off all your life so that you can retire and enjoy life
4. even 20, 30 40 whatever bucks if you start sending money before meeting them, they know they have you. You are now what we call a sucker.
5. learn from all the guys from Dumaguete that got scammed they all show it on their videos smarten up. You’re the one in control. You’re the one with the money.
6. don’t be an idiot and have them move in with you within three months or even a year. Would you do that back home? Hell no
7. enjoy your retirement that’s what you worked your ass off your whole life for don’t make the women the focus of your retirement or else you’re gonna go miserable or insane.
not being difficult just trying to smarten some of you dumbasses out that fall for the oh I don’t have a ………………
Thank you very much for your stories and thoughtful comments! :)
Welcome
Great content as always buddy, yeah, not a good idea to fall for the first one you meet
Tell me about it hahaha. Live stream at 7pm about scams 3 hours of me talking..hope to see you then
@@mikesphilippineretirement unfortunately I have work tonight. I’m off here on Sunday, Monday and Tuesday
Exactly so true so true I tried it 2 times but it is not only in The Philippines
but it is very bad it will affect the trust of the country who would belive anybody now not me
so truly I hope the police in the Philippines and everywhere else will deal with scammers have some put where they belong in Ptison
I met a Filipino online we video chat for about 3 months and she never ask for money I fell in love with her so I went to the Philippines and met her I had no worries at all when I was their so I married her and I came back to the USA we still video chat everyday and she understands me very well about me needing my time . Uscis has approved everything but we are now sending paperwork to the NVC I hope everything gets approved soon
Good evening Mike hope you three are doing well? Enjoy the new home...
Thank you, We are and tonight is a nice relaxed evening here at the homestead
The larger the age gap, the more chance it's purely transactional. 🌴😎
just be upfront and smart with your money. you should never send a penny to a person you have never met face to face. you meet a young woman out of your league, tell her you are not looking for commitment (or money obligations) at the moment. You can still date her, and others - until you are ready for commitment. if youre honest and upfront about it, she wont hold it against you, but rather try even harder
thanks for sharing
good advice
Glad you liked it
good food for thought. Luckily, being 74 and single for the last 15 years, I'm moving to Cebu in February and not looking for any female partner. I just want to live my remaining life in a nice, peaceful, loving country that I can enjoy. since there are lots of younger foreigners there, I should be safe from the so called lonely girls looking for an atm. however, I'll still keep my radar active just to be safe. I'm easy to talk to people, so I'll enjoy living in a country of friendly people. It's just too expensive here in texas anymore, and living with my son and family is awesome, but I just need my space. since they also want to move to the philippines in 5 yrs or so, I decided moving there now wouldn't be a shock to them that I wanted my own space now. I'll budget 1500 USD per month which includes savings, medical insurance, and entertainment.
thanks for sharing
Best advice right their in this video guys listen to Mike he's personally been thru it
thank you Gio
That's true mike, I sent money here a couple of times from the states, they would always ask if I knew this person, so it must be very common
Oh, no! I held my breath waiting for all the scientific statistical evidence.
copy and paste
Thanks!
Welcome
I met a girl online and dis similar as well Mike....but I told her in the beginning because I was in the Phillipines back in the 70's attached to the Navy and out ship came into Subic Bay Olongapo...magsaysay drive was not even paved then...lol. Marcos was in power and the country was under martial law. Anyways, I told her regardless if things worked out or not I would leave her in a better place then I found her. I kept my word. So, I can relate.
Thanks for sharing Sandman
@@user-vm1wb8xf6i I was on an aircraft carrier back then USS Midway CV-41 all of our security was Marine Corps (MARDET)
Thank you for your service!
You must first know what you want in a relationship,& needs,then what do i base the relationship on..trustworthiness,kind,truthfull,& so on my suggestion would be spend quality time alone with yourself,know you.Most arent willing to do this.I say this because their all important in relationships..Also look for compatability,young women are okay ,short term if your an older gent.Just play it smart
😂😂😂 the f bomb drops. Hahaha
I love it.
Mike, you are human after all 😂
4k for a tire? WOW
I'm in the mountain. I use off road tires on my bike (honda wave)
Fitted a new one last January. 600 peso including the tube.
Mike ,ive been hanging on every word of your videos ,im a super empath ,and i reckon you are too ,youve got a big heart .In London i like to smoke weed in the evening time ,i don’t drink.Mike have you got any experience of foreigners getting busted in the phillipines for small amounts of weed?I do like a smoke ,is it serious now?kind regards to you and your good wife Danny from London
yes drugs are a big no no. no matter how much or how little
I wont know until I get there, (My first visit will be in December.) But I don't believe the Fairy Tail of there's a Filipina on every street looking for an expat. LOL And online is a mine field, been chatting a girl 7 months now never asked for money and she even sent me a gift through Amazon so go figure but I wont know a real thing about her until we meet. I will spend a week or two in country then make my way to her area, who knows but even after the gifting I have my doubts. After my divorce (Fleecing.) I doubt every interaction of the feminine kind. 😂
Hi Mike, just an idea but a cool idea for a video for you to post would be how a foreigner like say someone from the U.S. could watch USA tv channels while living in the Philippines. Just curious if all the contacts you know might have a good solution for something like that? Thanks and take care
I've been sending one money for 4 years been over there twice I know she's scamming me but I just keep going along with it the guilt of stopping her better life
it is hard to stop after you send a few times
Does she send nude videos???? Just wondering,it was my experience.
I'm still a capable stud. I just choose to be wiser about my next partner. I have put foolish thoughts into the garbage and chose to think things through which makes life more tolerable. 😊
Still Capable that is good for you. Very good choice
We all been through the scams. I was sending money to a beautiful girl from Ghana ,only to find out wasn't a girl at all and the pictures I got from this person was all over a scam site. He/she Scammed hundreds of other men and used hundreds of different names! 😅I can laugh about it now,but it wasn't funny at the time!
Imagine going to the mall/bank, completing the entire sending process without coming to the realization...
I guess I found that 1 in a million. My wife(gf) during LDR never asked for money. In fact, she refused to accept any monies. Here we are 18 years later still doing great. I never cared for bar, party scenes. Good advice Mike.
Mike, I do not have any plans to talk to anyone before I arrive in the Philippines. I do not believe in long distance relationships, unless you know them before hand.
Wow, this is happens to me exactly 50k peso she took from me no she vanished. Really so sad who she plays with me heart. What kills me her family are covering her? I wonder if they not afraid from God? Really this is hurts the most. Also not all filipina like this but there is many and a lot of them. I hope karama gets her.
send an e mail to me
Its not a scam its a request for money. Do not suck yourself in.
Mike, everything you said in the vid is true. spot on. you might be surprised that most of us lonely old dudes in the states know this. however, sending a couple hundred bucks a month to a Filipina is a drop in the bucket compared to having a girlfriend here in the states. you know that. i know that. an American girl can cost $200 in one damn night out. dinner, drinks, movie and something she needs to buy at the mall. i consider the Filipino money thing "entertainment budget." its fun and actually quite cheap... in comparison. we all understand the game. and it is a fun game. Filipinas are a blast to play with. they deserve some money for their time and effort. the quicker the foriegn dude understands the game, the better everyone will be😁
Relax guys muffin cakes want to have fun too 😂
hahaha yes they do
Mike Mike Mike, I'm short fat and squatty I fall in love with every girl I see, at 71 can't be too choosy, being scammed out of a 1k peso is not a scam it's a learning lesson,
you and me both
Ahahahahaha!!
Mike please use your own thumbnails. I see 4 other CZcamss using same. I consider you one of the better channels so please be original it will get you further.
There must be 50 ways to leave your ...
Just make a new plan Sam and set yourself free
wow you guys are so original , losers
@@user-yv3bf5qo1q someone is grumpy today
That's like going to a strip bar if the girl smiles at you and you think she likes you your a fool that why i don't use dateing sites or go to bars to much BS
thanks for sharing
Please Mr. Mike Can you share my story in your vlogs?
I really have interesting story that start in Saudi arabia online, and never finished just vanished in a second?
Not even saying Goodbye nor explained reasons of leaving
Send me an e mail
Hey brother mike
How are your today Anthony
@@mikesphilippineretirement doing good Mike
This guy by far is the most honest,most practical,and interesting vlogger I’ve watched in 3 years, how do I get a consult
Maybe it’s best, to not have her move in & just date..just be friends no obligation so if things don’t work out you can move away to another town & start over..as soon as they ask for money, a red flag 🚩 should
Appear in your head, don’t be a walking 🏧 machine to try & solve all her & her family’s problems it’s not your responsibility or fault..🤑
Hey Mike my Filipina gf is working in Hong Kong what’s the best way to get her here in US?
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Everything you describe that this imaginary man is trying to get away from is what I want. I want that clingy. I don’t do socially with other people. I don’t go to bars. I don’t drink so the freedom you speak of that this guy is looking for. It’s not what I’m looking for. So just goes to show that we are all not looking for the same thing.
thanks for watching
Me too. I like a clingy as long as not violent sweet thing.
@@Eugenio-vk9qk I had one of those for 9 years. A pretty little American beauty. She was jealous of anyone that remotely looked at me. Including my family. She still to this day 5 years after our breakup won’t leave me alone.
I’m looking forward to a traditional Filipina beauty to be clingy. So far I’m liking the one I met. Time will tell the full story tho. To be continued. Hopefully better than these crazy American women who are nothing but destructive, self absorbed, entitled fools in a relationship.
From my experience, probably Not.
thanks Boris
😁❤😆
thank you as always Edgar
Damn youtube won't let us watch the vid.. commercial every minute, hope you're being compensated from them by youtube..
👍🏾🇵🇭 🇺🇸 ..
you tube controls the commercials
You must be following Mike lol😂 I just broke up with mine yesterday 😂 I've gorgeous women throughout my life, 90% were gorgeous on the outside and had issues on the inside. This Filipina was good just not good for me. She got mad at me because i told her to stop using filters, especially since we had been doing video chats and I knew what she looked like, i said i accept the real you but you don't, so since you don't thats a problem. I told her shes acting like other women she got pissed, I said you'll get over it. Its sad she was stuck in fake looks. I told her what if i said i had a lot of money and come to find out when we come together get married and you have to work every day because i dont have any money. Boy she went nuts. Oh well next.
they love using filters here
@@mikesphilippineretirement I'm noticing that it's crazy. She was in Tarlac and wanted me to retire there I had told her I was looking to move to Cebu she said its to expensive, then she said just move here and I will show you what to do. I was like🤯🤯 I told her I'm good because have been researching everything about the Philippines financially and the living a lot of it through you, and other expats. Plus I don't think she liked that I am learning Tagalog, so she couldn't talk behind my back lol. Thanks again Mike keep doing what you are doing.
Learning Tagalog won’t be of much help if you’re planning to live in Cebu
@@Gurkha9 it's always best to add to the person you are because you never know when it maybe useful. Always add because we have days where we will say I should've, unless we have to much pride. Be bless 🙌🏾
@@wewhagg o
Oh for sure I get your point, just pointing out that everyone will be speaking in Bisaya not Tagalog in Cebu
Mike, you offer wise and useful counseling. You answer with important realities.
Been in a relationship since January 28 with one. At first, she's asking money 2 or 3 times per month. Now, asking every 3 days.
She's now sent me a couple pictures from an abortion. She claims I got her pregnant. Never told me until day of the abortion, after it was done. Now asking for 21k to cover it. Any thoughts?
When in Doubt get out
Yeah don't pay. Scammer.
Heck no
hmmm ok
I need a philippinea who is a karaoke nut all I have met so far online are shy lol 1 out of 5 love to sing
seems every Filipina sings around my place
The happiness of a married man depends on the women he has not married.
---Oscar Wilde
hmmm interesting
Facts. I’m the guy who’s with your LDR in a hotel having a great evening with her. And they tell me about who you guys send money. From Britain, Australia, US. These online girls are crafty. She will let me know what months not to call her because you’re there. Stay alert, & don’t send money.
so on those months you go back to your Pakistani boyfriend
but if the first girl is the living, breathing embodiment of the AI girl in the thumbail, how can 99% of guys say no to that?
one of the girls is real
@@mikesphilippineretirement we know Mike, Janet is your real life AI girl
Because even girls that look like that can make your life miserable if they aren’t good inside.
Crazy how guys in advanced age who spent their lives in leadership positions, working hard and valuable jobs, experiencing all the big happy and horrible life events, will still turn into complete fools over a pretty young girl who has likely accomplished nothing in her life yet.
@@joeconrad3828 while not exactly on topic, when rick james said "cocaine's a hell of a drug" lol, that may be as good as any explaination to why any guy would do what you've said.
Can these Filipinas cook good besides lechon and adoobo. I am deciding whether to retire on the military visa or move to the aviano area of Italy the italian women seem to cook better and have curvier bodies
we do not cook Lechon we buy lechon
That’s why I’m talking with at least a dozen girls on line. I know they do it too
a player playing the players
@@mikesphilippineretirementwhat would you know about being a player you homely looking old pervert
Wow. You are so good at making up stories. What's wrong with you
Ive had two Filipinas the first one drained my bank account imet another & im getting the same why do Filipinas think we're millionaires ???
You have to be careful on meeting filipinas ,.mostly you have yo met online from.the privince
Mike is not qualified to speak about relationships , he is in a transactional relationship with janet who really has no choice because of her poverty and lack of education
Does Mike know that?
Ideally you should live in separate homes even with a wife or long term GF.
with a wife please explain your comment
OK, Mike, what if the first Filipina you dated was Janet--would you have moved on from her due to the advice of others not to "settle" for your first?
Also, if you did move on if Janet was your first, and later after 8 others realized that Janet was the one you wanted to be with, would Janet have accepted that knowing that she's not any different than the first time you dated her & resent you for not realizing that?
What a daft question, go there broke and try getting real love.
I had chuckle out of your accidental f bomb. Lol. I'm thinking Mike using the f bomb?? 🤣
We should report him to Janet! 😁🤣🤣
hahaha
Oh, no! I held my breath waiting for all the scientific statistical evidence.
no science here wrong channel