Why Dating in Spain is Shockingly Different to American

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  • čas přidán 23. 10. 2023
  • This week I sit down with Irina, from Barcelona Spain to chat about the biggest cultural differences when it comes to Canadian vs Spanish mentality: from going out, to daily work culture, to meeting people and dating in both countries. We break down the reason why Barcelona may be an exciting place to live in but may leave you feeling empty in the long run, and why Spaniards in Barcelona don't tend to commit early on in their life.
    Irina's Instagram: / irinajamois
    Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.
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Komentáře • 28

  • @user-ks3ol3lw3b
    @user-ks3ol3lw3b Před 3 měsíci +5

    I went to graduate school in the United States. We could never get the international students to come to parties before midnight. The host would prepare hot food, and they wouldn't be there to eat it. They know that they're in the US, and they know our time schedule, but they just couldn't imagine starting to party at 9 PM. So they sat at home doing nothing, waiting to leave for the party.

  • @TheElisabetcs
    @TheElisabetcs Před 7 měsíci +3

    finally someone from Barcelona sharing their experience! it's incredible how it can be so different 🙊❤️

  • @soljovs1839
    @soljovs1839 Před 7 měsíci

    Absolutely loved this video!! The best guest so far✨ Thank you for sharing these insights, it’s not just about dating it’s about understanding people and their cultures better. Great content, looking forward for more!🩷

    • @datingbeyondborderscast
      @datingbeyondborderscast  Před 7 měsíci

      Happy to hear! Most podcasts are actually majorly about cultures and mentality. That is what drives me to create these 😀

  • @josehugomartinez6661
    @josehugomartinez6661 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I loved the video, excellent points of view from her perspective, without generalizing it says a lot about what is and is not in different cultures

  • @user-en2ct8ql4g
    @user-en2ct8ql4g Před 3 měsíci +6

    Other than Money/Career USA has nothing else to offer. It is a horrible place to live, it is shallow there is no meaning other than consumerism and constantly buying the new gadget.

  • @CookieFridays
    @CookieFridays Před 3 měsíci +1

    I really enjoyed this video, and I’m glad that you all live in Canada, so I can get her perspective about my country (well I’m originally from Costa Rica). I’ve wanted to move to Spain but some things are not the most ideal for me and my personality because I don’t like to party or drink, and I definitely want commitment lol. Canada has its pros and cons for sure. I love Spain though, so so beautiful, and I would love living somewhere that speaks Spanish. But Canada, the employment and salary thing are great in comparison. The diversity, the safety, raising a family.
    Anyway, interesting video!

  • @shanewilson2484
    @shanewilson2484 Před 5 měsíci

    i would love to see a video on dating in Mecca and Medina

  • @KatlynMoss
    @KatlynMoss Před měsícem

    Loneliness epidemic seems to be a north american thing. When i listen to people from other countries talk about their social lives, im extremely envious because I live in Canada . People say loneliness epidemic is a worldwide thing, but it doesnt seem like it to me. People live so far away from each other, going out is so expensive and people find me strange when i start conversation.

  • @nabahettekeddi2165
    @nabahettekeddi2165 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I've been living in Barcelona for the past 12 years and I really don't feel like she is describing the same reality, whether it be for dating, open-mindness etc... It is really a biased view on the place and full of prejudices.

  • @m.m.1200
    @m.m.1200 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Madrid is also easy to meet people?

  • @hannofranz7973
    @hannofranz7973 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Her observations about Spain are a bit too simplified in my opinion, for example relating to bullfighting. For many people all over Spain bullfighting isn't a big thing and are rather against it. It's not only Catalonia. Her view is a bit annoying, I think, as if only Catalonia were a more progressive place.

  • @skullandbones1832
    @skullandbones1832 Před 7 měsíci

  • @JB0712
    @JB0712 Před 4 měsíci +11

    No immigrants in Barcelona? I don’t know what part of Barcelona you are from…

    • @asturiasceltic3183
      @asturiasceltic3183 Před 3 dny

      Something was weird about her. She doesn't even look anything like a Northern Spaniard, who look a lot like the man in my thumbnail. She looks mestiza from LATAM not Spaniard I have even met people who's all sets of parents were from Barcelona and I told them that they were a northern Spaniard and they said I was right. I can just tell and this lady just doesn't look like she's a Catalan. Look at John Casablancas that looks very Catalan.

  • @live--now
    @live--now Před 6 měsíci +5

    another huge generalizations video ...

  • @ishratjahan8627
    @ishratjahan8627 Před 15 dny

    So technically spanish men are for fun time not for long term commitment.
    Ok understood 👍

  • @live--now
    @live--now Před 6 měsíci +2

    i think califorina is much more like spain then ...... wtff canada...

  • @belakitajka5741
    @belakitajka5741 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Bro... If Barcelona wasnt open enough for her she just wanted to move to the most left leaning place in Earth. Which is fine but lets not make it as the golden standard how all places need to be.

  • @michelleg7
    @michelleg7 Před 5 měsíci +2

    God that is really sad to hear about Barcelona going down the hole like that. I personally don't want to visit it as a tourist right away. I really am in to genealogy so I have several ancestors that came from Spain to Mexico and I want to visit the places my ancestors lived first. she is right Mexican men are more romantic but also some are such butt heads in their machismo I can't stand that as a Mexican woman. I see it a lot in my own family that is why I know and just in my cultural generally. I think that it was a good experience to say that all the provinces are different with all kinds of culture. Navarre interests me a lot beause it pratically split between Catalans and the Basque.