Don't Fear Being Alone: You NEED to Be | Here's Why

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  • čas přidán 10. 10. 2023
  • When you embrace your aloneness, you find your true companionship.
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    In today's video, we explore the transformative power of aloneness-a sanctuary where you shed the old layers of ego and meet your true self. This is not a phase to be rushed or avoided but a sacred space where deep self-discovery takes place. The more you let go of external validations, the clearer your own voice becomes. You'll come to realize that this period is not about emptiness but about making room for what truly matters.
    Some view solitude as a lifeless pit, a place devoid of social life or fun. However, this video challenges that perception, urging you to view your time alone as a golden opportunity for self-discovery and growth. Your aloneness isn't a void to be filled by distractions, but a fertile ground for you to plant seeds for your future. While the path might seem dark now, this process promises to bring you into the light where your relationship with life and yourself turns crystal clear.
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Komentáře • 521

  • @swarasreebhattacharyya2664
    @swarasreebhattacharyya2664 Před 7 měsíci +312

    Solitude is very addictive. Although there would be moments you feel lonely but going back to the social life makes you feel that solitude was way better than those meaningless conversations.

    • @tatie7604
      @tatie7604 Před 6 měsíci +18

      We need friends but who needs the insults that come? No one. The older you get the more the insults hurt. Jesus loves us and give us rest. No insults. Why do people do it to you? It makes no sense.

    • @knowsmebyname
      @knowsmebyname Před 6 měsíci +10

      @@tatie7604 some people are insecure and need it to build themselves. Some people do it to keep others at arms length....they feel shame and don't want others to close. When people are in groups they do it hoping the attention is deflected and not pointed at them. Others do it, mostly guys, as a bonding thing. Its almost never because they want to impact the person they are insulting so try not to take it personal.

    • @knowsmebyname
      @knowsmebyname Před 6 měsíci +8

      Yes! I recall reading the book Heavier Than Heaven. Biography about Kurt Cobain. The author was comentting on "how Kurt never mastered the art of small talk". I was thinking thats not it. He knew about small talk. He was in the small percentage of people who knew it was useless and COULDN'T STAND IT!

    • @ericenvironmentalist9429
      @ericenvironmentalist9429 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Addictive sounds harsh, but I think I get what you’re saying.

    • @boogyjuggy
      @boogyjuggy Před 6 měsíci +2

      agree

  • @victor493
    @victor493 Před 6 měsíci +45

    I am 61 when I was young I was a loner everyone thought I was strange, so I started to socialize, then I had nothing but problems with my new friends, last 4 years I went back to being alone, now I am happy again. 😊

    • @markfox3083
      @markfox3083 Před měsícem

      My “friends” more problems

  • @johnconcerto8721
    @johnconcerto8721 Před 6 měsíci +70

    Greetings to my fellow lone wolves on their deeply personal spiritual journeys.

  • @danoalex2977
    @danoalex2977 Před 6 měsíci +52

    Being alone is easy, just being around people I experienced all the problems and pain, robbed, used, deceived, betrayed, abused.Now on my 300 acre ranch I live in bliss, I am not alone and having many species around me like rabbits, deer, birds that I observe and feel connected to.Mother nature is my friend and companion.

  • @steve4524
    @steve4524 Před 5 měsíci +14

    At 51 I’ve given up on society and trying to fit in to the social norms. It took a traumatic event that lead me here. I’m walking a new path in life from now on, aloneness and solitude, a lone wolf. Wish me luck, and ❤️ to you all

  • @Empowerment_Evolution777
    @Empowerment_Evolution777 Před 7 měsíci +298

    Crazy thing is.. I've ALWAYS felt alone, I felt alone with others..I felt alone in relationships and now since awakening I feel even more alone... in this time of solititude and deep internal growth...I still get lonely... but I know that this time IS here so that I can emerge with the truth that I am not alone at all❤

  • @walthouse1945
    @walthouse1945 Před 7 měsíci +113

    Actually, I am never alone, I am always surrounded by angels, my higher self and my guides s to help me. And you too

    • @shirleysmith9421
      @shirleysmith9421 Před 7 měsíci +7

      AMEN You expressed the Truth perfectly We are never alone just that we are not aware of Our Heavenly Father Jesus Our Loved Ones and all the Beings who are in Paradise waiting for us to join them Eternally in Joy and Happiness!❤❤❤❤❤😂😊😂😊😂😊😂😊😂😊❤❤❤❤❤

    • @veronicamoss2597
      @veronicamoss2597 Před 6 měsíci +2

      True ❤️🙏

    • @dalehamon4295
      @dalehamon4295 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I’m #46 that is a 1. 4+6=10

    • @Oldgirl-yy4xy
      @Oldgirl-yy4xy Před 6 měsíci +2

      And me my spirit is the truth

  • @robnicable
    @robnicable Před 6 měsíci +36

    Try having conscious contact with your Higher Power, and you will realize you are never alone.

    • @georgiafrancis9059
      @georgiafrancis9059 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Everyone is saying that there are no other human people around you at the time. We ALL know God is always with us.

    • @powerbeard5653
      @powerbeard5653 Před 4 měsíci

      thats kind of like telling a poor person to "just try having money bro"

  • @georgiafrancis9059
    @georgiafrancis9059 Před 5 měsíci +16

    All is well, dear people, all is well. It may seem as if things are coming apart, but, in reality, things are coming together. You can only control yourself and your actions. Everyone else is on their own. If they do the wrong thing, then that's on them, not you. Go forward in grace and faith. You will prevail even tho it doesen't seem like it. God bless you, now and forever.

  • @brucewalters8635
    @brucewalters8635 Před 7 měsíci +127

    I lived alone 16 years. And I'm better for it today at 69 years old. When I reached 60 years of age I needed to be close to my daughters and granddaughter. It was a shift in me that was almost immediate. My time of solitude was over. I was living in Mt. Shasta N Cali and oddly enough I departed on the same date I first arrived. The love I feel living with my daughter, granddaughter and our cat Punky was just what I needed at that point in my life. Life is a trip!
    Peace

    • @georgiafrancis9059
      @georgiafrancis9059 Před 5 měsíci +3

      I have found that traveling alone is the best way to travel. I've been to over 50 countries, some more than 2 times and I always went alone. It was wonderful. I never felt fear, nor sad to be alone. Try it, you'll like it. You will become stronger.

  • @victoriousmaximus1659
    @victoriousmaximus1659 Před 6 měsíci +39

    Once I discovered the inner peace being alone with nature brings, I found peace within me.

  • @bumblebee9019
    @bumblebee9019 Před 6 měsíci +7

    There is no better companion than solitude.

  • @PrincessKickingButt
    @PrincessKickingButt Před 6 měsíci +10

    My best friends are the voices in my head. I'm never alone^^

    • @petethetaper
      @petethetaper Před 6 měsíci +2

      and I enjoy it too. but am careful to not respond to those who aren't my friend. anger can fester so don't practise it.

  • @florinamihaela6711
    @florinamihaela6711 Před 7 měsíci +56

    I m on this phase of solitude and isolation for years now... It is though, but now i like staying in my company, i love to travel alone and be!!!!

  • @sharoncowles5629
    @sharoncowles5629 Před 7 měsíci +69

    After screaming in the hallway. I Am so Freaking GLAD to be alone. ARE you kidding??!!! THEY ONLY Hurt ME. Good ALONE. I AM CHOSEN. YOU explained it ALL

    • @krimzondoc6342
      @krimzondoc6342 Před 7 měsíci +3

      School hallway?

    • @randyvermillion8799
      @randyvermillion8799 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Very well said this is me 100% and I love it I wouldn't trade it for nothing

    • @taylorhoch2708
      @taylorhoch2708 Před 7 měsíci +2

      I like what you did there

    • @walthouse1945
      @walthouse1945 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Yeah, that was like poetry 😊

    • @brandonlee3026
      @brandonlee3026 Před 7 měsíci

      I AM CHOSEN NOW TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOK

  • @lauraleesoder3803
    @lauraleesoder3803 Před 7 měsíci +7

    EVEN when around People i feel ALONE❤❤❤

  • @Thepainwall
    @Thepainwall Před 7 měsíci +45

    I’m not craving solitude. I’m craving people and love.

    • @bengal-dan9000
      @bengal-dan9000 Před 7 měsíci +8

      Me too

    • @bernadettebradley7951
      @bernadettebradley7951 Před 6 měsíci +8

      Solitude craves me and won’t let me go😀💚🙏🫶

    • @ssnerd583
      @ssnerd583 Před 6 měsíci +7

      i have felt this way for 30+ years.......i am living my worst possible nightmare......growing old, lonely and alone.....my worst nightmare.
      What so MANY take for granted every single moment of every day, I would literally KILL for.
      That which I need the most, I have he least.
      It is impossible for 99% to understand what it is like to be, truly, all alone in this world.
      We were never meant to BE ALL ALONE IN THIS WORLD!!!!!!!!!!! ITS A BLOODY CURSE. A BLOODY CURSE IT IS!!!

    • @Fred-ss3en
      @Fred-ss3en Před 6 měsíci

      @@ssnerd583 rr a ☠ 🏴‍☠️ 🦜 bloody curse!!!

    • @cduby1424
      @cduby1424 Před 6 měsíci +4

      When i started my benzo withdrawl i became alone.

  • @jillshinn8515
    @jillshinn8515 Před 6 měsíci +41

    I believe if you love who you are, it’s easy to be alone.. I know we need people in our lives, but I choose the people in my life very carefully.. I love my alone time..🌹

  • @codyhenrichs9699
    @codyhenrichs9699 Před 6 měsíci +35

    I am a loner. Being alone is invigorating to me. However, I may not be around other humans but I don't ever feel alone because I feel the non physical energy which is all around us.

  • @johnhodgkinson9674
    @johnhodgkinson9674 Před 6 měsíci +44

    I’ve lived trauma for years I’m 37 now and recently did something life changing in a spiritual way .
    I got rid of my demons I tried to rebuild a relationship with the mum of my two kids . That failed but I see my kids and I’m doing my best from today to move on .
    Much love to all suffering out there it gets better just be positive and focus on self healing . Any suicidal thoughts get out your head straight away . We are all battling but be strong xx

    • @boogyjuggy
      @boogyjuggy Před 6 měsíci +6

      well said

    • @leepreece922
      @leepreece922 Před 6 měsíci +2

      You're short story would be reminiscent of many!!!! Including myself.. lm right alongside you 😊 a journey to unfold, God bless 🙌 xxx

    • @johnhodgkinson9674
      @johnhodgkinson9674 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@leepreece922 you too my friend 💙

    • @johnny-yj3zd
      @johnny-yj3zd Před 6 měsíci +3

      Thank you

    • @johnhodgkinson9674
      @johnhodgkinson9674 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@johnny-yj3zd no problem luck after no 1 that’s you

  • @jesserenew
    @jesserenew Před 6 měsíci +7

    Hallelujah. I am not a fan of human beings I am not a fan of this World. I believe that 99% of the people around me are demons. I mostly find comfort in meditating and centering my consciousness.

  • @ZeonTwilight
    @ZeonTwilight Před 7 měsíci +69

    Having recently lost several of my closest friends in a rather uncomfortable series of events, I have felt very alone, and my ego has certainly been bruised by the way things went down. I will reflect upon this video, and try and re-contextualize this moment in time as an oportunity and not a punishment. Thank you for your words.

    • @Keep_Focus_UK
      @Keep_Focus_UK Před 7 měsíci +4

    • @TexastheeBestest
      @TexastheeBestest Před 7 měsíci +2

      🥹❤️‍🩹 prayers, love & peace to you, best regards to a speedy healing journey & recovery

    • @karmasutra4774
      @karmasutra4774 Před 7 měsíci +5

      You live and learn. Friends come and go.. be kind to yourself and meet new people

    • @alisham4902
      @alisham4902 Před 6 měsíci +5

      I can relate. I looked up and all my friends were gone. Not necessarily from any fallout, but one by one removed out of my life. I now understand that it is for a purpose and when I’ve evolved then they will re-emerge in my life or new bonds will develop. It’s been a painful process.

  • @lukeanthony8310
    @lukeanthony8310 Před 7 měsíci +35

    This is the best video I have ever watched out of the 1000s of videos I have watched. I saved it and replay it daily in my solitude. Thank you for saving my life and giving me so much hope.

  • @aanalshah2131
    @aanalshah2131 Před 7 měsíci +34

    Solitude is not alone . its being with self , and nurturing self accompanying self .
    Being owns bestie . Loved the video message . Thanks

    • @SelfMussing
      @SelfMussing Před 6 měsíci +2

      Right and it’s a blessing to be able be alone 😊

  • @dianeberrios2988
    @dianeberrios2988 Před 7 měsíci +28

    It was 5:55 this morning and I woke up from two very sad dreams. One dream was about losing my cat and the other one where my ex-boyfriend came to visit me today to tell me that he found love in another partner. This was the first video that I saw upon waking up. I feel like I'm on this spiritual journey right now. I haven't been around a lot of people and after seeing Matt Kahn this past weekend listening to the messages, I am slowly starting to accept this journey. There are times that I do cry and I slowly lost the urge to do things that I felt so much passion for. Put walking into my home yesterday, I felt so much peace and I'm learning to slowly accept the process and just allow each day to unfold with new magical experiences. Thank you for this message.

  • @rajeshtandon7611
    @rajeshtandon7611 Před 6 měsíci +12

    Aloneness is complete when you find The Self within

  • @robertstoner8244
    @robertstoner8244 Před 6 měsíci +5

    It's nice to have balance in your life . I enjoy alone time. So I understand

  • @JETTENTTV
    @JETTENTTV Před 7 měsíci +3

    Angels and spirit guides are always present

  • @madeirafonseca6383
    @madeirafonseca6383 Před 7 měsíci +38

    This was exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for the time you spent making this message.

  • @steviestato713
    @steviestato713 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Its actually very addicting being alone...i absolutely love it... 😊

  • @user-wc4fs8fn6l
    @user-wc4fs8fn6l Před 7 měsíci +10

    We ARE the prayers of our Ancestors, embodied...

  • @thomascorbett2936
    @thomascorbett2936 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Being alone has always seemed natural to me but my sense of right and wrong has never changed , I had friends but that always seemed distracting and tirering to me, I now enjoy listening to old time Christian sermons on You Tube especially Charles Spergeun and Charles Stanley .

  • @user-tv5hg4zh3p
    @user-tv5hg4zh3p Před 6 měsíci +2

    I'm by myself most of the time . But I'm never alone.

  • @richard-em6zi
    @richard-em6zi Před 7 měsíci +22

    The fear of being alone was never really there, having spent much of my life by myself. It gets easier to not worry about it once you get used to it

    • @nvmffs
      @nvmffs Před 5 měsíci +3

      Easier when you're young, not sure how you'll feel about it when you're 80

  • @AlphaGeminorum1
    @AlphaGeminorum1 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I'm in a 35 year relationship. But my spiritual path is entirely mine. I'm on it by myself with NO ONE else along for the ride. It's the best thing ever, actually. I've explored every aspect of my shadow self as a result, broadening my horizons along the way, traveling the entire world with my husband... but no one else is privy to my spiritual path. NO ONE. It's the weirdest thing ever to be traveling this parallel pathway with someone else who knows literally nothing about my deeply personal inner spiritual world. He's a strict materialist who has no knowledge that consciousness is fundamental, not spacetime.

  • @davespears2241
    @davespears2241 Před 7 měsíci +6

    You can be alone, but not lonely there are 8 billion people on this planet all you have to do is catch a stranger's eye and smile, you may get a smile back you might not but your smile is not wasted.

  • @mdrouin6306
    @mdrouin6306 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Mike from Elk Grove Crunch Fitness CA, I went through divorced in 2003, i ended up being a single parent, its been 23 years and noone ever taking interest in me since then. Yes, even today I still occasionally ask "why me", but now found inner peace, in the early mornings and 30 minutes before the sun 🌞 goes down, I find great inner Peace 🕊️, I found to accept my aloneness, it is a blessing in disguise.

  • @soundhealingbygene
    @soundhealingbygene Před 7 měsíci +7

    I have been alone without friendships and romantic relationships ever since 2008 and there has been a lot of catharsis. Catharsis is a powerful emotional release that, when successful, is accompanied by mental insight and positive change. Catharsis is also part of the soul's ongoing rise to wisdom. It is a means to go beyond the senses and accept the pure world of logic.

  • @Lue_Ghosted
    @Lue_Ghosted Před 4 měsíci +1

    I've existed as a solitary creature within the forces of Nature. Always seeking solitude has been my serenity.

  • @jamesheath7596
    @jamesheath7596 Před 6 měsíci +8

    As time goes by I feel more alone. I didn’t have many close people to start with but people are dying. I feel like I’m being hemmed in to a corner. I think I’ll be ok with solitude, it’s just going to be a bit more solitude that I’ve had all my life so I see it as a new challenge. “Amour fati “

  • @she_wizzdom4410
    @she_wizzdom4410 Před 6 měsíci +7

    I feel so alone , I am close to bursting into tears constantly , am I weak ? Perhaps I am. A close friend of mine just told me that she is no longer putting up with my emotional issues and I understood where she came from. I am devastated. It hurts so much.

    • @elliewegman1846
      @elliewegman1846 Před 6 měsíci +4

      Hi hon. I'm an old girl, and for two years I couldn't stop crying. Those hot tears you cannot stop, they just kept leaking out. I believe it is profound sadness. Maybe you've tried everything to stop/rationalise this. I think realising the sadness is the start to heal. Maybe you have lived a life of integrity and are showed by the cavalier treatment how callous and judgemental people can be. You are worth so much more. You actually cannot expect people to recognise who you are because it is their nature to scorn and trample on your finer feelings. Quite simply they are jealous. They hate you for what you are, because they could never be like you. People love to hate. Please don't feel alone. If there is just one person on the planet who can relate to you, take comfort in that. It can be lonely, it can be devastating. But stand strong, there is nothing wrong with you.. you are a special person on God's beautiful planet. Big hugs.

  • @karenmichaeloff451
    @karenmichaeloff451 Před 7 měsíci +28

    The best is yet to come for all of us. 😊 thank you for this message.

  • @bradchristy5002
    @bradchristy5002 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I prefer to be alone to gain focus and better clarity. I appreciate the times I “suddenly realize” an insight elusive when in crowds of chatter.

  • @shallah7777
    @shallah7777 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Alone = All One
    with
    higher self
    Being whole within your being
    🔥❤️💚🌹😇😍😎✨🦋😉

  • @datgirlindawoods
    @datgirlindawoods Před 7 měsíci +6

    I've done nothing but yearn for solitude over the past few years due to chaotic environments, now that I have it I realize what I'm going through I think.

  • @pip915
    @pip915 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Were are all still subconsciously automatically working together like ants in this world. Alone at times but never fully alone.

    • @pip915
      @pip915 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Independent to be stronger together ❤

    • @Zeitgeistmusic997
      @Zeitgeistmusic997 Před 6 měsíci

      Ignore the comment in your notifications

  • @markmahaney7348
    @markmahaney7348 Před 7 měsíci +4

    This is me alone

  • @alejandrae5605
    @alejandrae5605 Před 7 měsíci +8

    Since I was little I truly enjoyed being alone. I don’t know why, I felt happy in silence, reading, planning my future, coming and going as a pleased.
    I never enjoy the pop culture, I never fallowed a trend, I’ve always been my one boss.
    I only have three friends, I’ve known them since kindergarten…that’s it, that’s all I need.
    My journey has been so magnificent, I assume it was in part because of my being alone and having a great partner who never tried to cut my wings!
    At sixty five I’m still growing, discovering new paths and meeting people who I always socialize with lots of caution and keeping my distance. I find the company of my dogs and my husband to be the only company I need…and my books of course! ❤

    • @johnjennings9693
      @johnjennings9693 Před 6 měsíci

      At least you have a husband some of us don't even have a wife thanks,

  • @Hazelhiker
    @Hazelhiker Před 7 měsíci +3

    You get used to being alone then you would rather be alone because it’s easier in many ways. I love my people but definitely need time alone to recharge and get my head right.

  • @Mick.truth.seeker
    @Mick.truth.seeker Před 7 měsíci +4

    I lived in London and now moved to North and i live in a rural village 4 years ago and now i am loving it

  • @Betterversion09
    @Betterversion09 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Hey guys, I just wanted to stop by to send some positive energy to all of you! These past years been very tough to me. Ive been challenged mentally, emotionally and certainly spiritually. I feel like i’m finally finding myself and who I was once before when I had peace. I am thankful to come across a channel like this one that shows me that we are really all one in the same. We all have these daily struggles that we deal with that can keep us up late at night but just know that you are not alone. Knowing that I can come here and openly express myself and see others doing the same gives me hope that the world will indeed be a better place but it starts with us. We have to set an example for others and I know we can do it. Peace and Love to ALL OF YOU BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE.

    • @maddelainysmall2573
      @maddelainysmall2573 Před 6 měsíci

      Lovely!! Thank you for that! Nice share. Reminded me I'm not alone others know how hard it can be going inward...and also something else bigger than us is holding us!

    • @kathtownsend3099
      @kathtownsend3099 Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you for sending positive energy to all Love n Light 🕯️🕯️🕯️

  • @user-qs6pi9xz8z
    @user-qs6pi9xz8z Před 7 měsíci +4

    After yrs of it, no it’s not fun no more. My thoughts

  • @jacquelineprince6548
    @jacquelineprince6548 Před 7 měsíci +13

    This video…talking about the solitary life…was brilliant. The information opened in me such a greater understanding of what is going on with me. After listening…I truly want to embrace this phase of my journey and honor it as a sacred sanctuary. Thank you 🙏 simply radiant , excellent…full of wisdom. Full, the wholeness of truth. My heavens. I’m in my cocoon and humbled to have been chosen for this. Don’t get me wrong…it is really hard…but will be easier now as I surrender and go deep within.

  • @DedeHamady
    @DedeHamady Před 6 měsíci +2

    As I spiritually ascended it became imperative for me to be alone, since I see through evil I can easily notice when unclean Spirit is using someone against me. I talk to people I know I can inspire

  • @forwardever84
    @forwardever84 Před 7 měsíci +14

    Its absolutely amazing how i stumbled across this and it was exactly what i needed to hear... Life can be so magnificently strange & wonderful all at once ❤ Stay strong all of you.

  • @Thepunisher-zr8ss
    @Thepunisher-zr8ss Před 7 měsíci +3

    I am so happy being alone i literally dont need anyone im grateful and happy i am blessed

  • @michaelsheehan7491
    @michaelsheehan7491 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Everything you say is incredible and true .. it's been years now .. and I am definitely not alone ..❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @rikard4711
    @rikard4711 Před 7 měsíci +14

    Been spending large chunks of time in solitude and it's made me the person I am today. Not better than anyone else, but one who to a large degree has found himself, wanting to be of service, much enjoying my own company, always trying to better myself, reflecting a lot and loving the quiet peace that I experience when on my own. I think I've become immune to being bored as I have far to many spiritual thoughts and 'concepts' to ponder.

  • @haliec496
    @haliec496 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is my 1st path of solitude. It has been 2 years now, i am now enjoying it fully. It may change however right now i am content.

  • @jonkas4542
    @jonkas4542 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Oh God. I'm so glad that the algorithms of the universe presented this video. I'm 52 years old. 31 years ago, I got killed. But doctors kept my body alive. It took a half hour to read a paragraph and understand it. Five years later, it got down to 10-15 minutes to read a page. Progress. 15 years later, the psoriasis that covered my body, finally went away.
    And as I struggled in a career full of ugliness as people would get in my face and scream at me when I asked them to repeat themselves three times. I had a hard time processing information.
    But now, people come to me and ask questions. I'm finally at ease. I missed the boat of marriage and children. But as this world gets far more bizarre as time goes by, I feel lucky to be distant and be able to take deep, comforting breaths as there seems chaos around the world.
    Standing amidst heaven and earth
    Connected to all things with ki (spirit)
    My mind is set on the path of echoing all things
    Morihei O'Sheiba
    Most noble is that which is justest
    And best is health
    But pleasantest is it to win what we love
    Aristotle
    Because when I'm chill, I'm chilly-chill
    Beastie Boys

  • @FrediaHale-el5qp
    @FrediaHale-el5qp Před 7 měsíci +6

    Thank you so much. You have made me understand more. I live alone. I felt like I was in prison. Now I know why. Thank you so much❤

  • @keithfernandez8965
    @keithfernandez8965 Před 7 měsíci +8

    I feel these things...True Lessons...True Teachings....LOVE AND LIGHT !! Full Blast to All .....

  • @carlosirizarry2031
    @carlosirizarry2031 Před 6 měsíci +3

    This has been me for a long time and my soul has been screaming at me and put me in the hospital with panic attacks and going against my soul.

  • @loristrachan8633
    @loristrachan8633 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I have always been a loner. Hated that fact when I was younger but absolutely love my own company. I have become even more reclusive since I became sick with a virus .. Now I am going through a healing phase of my life and through that I am daily practising living in the present, somatic movement and just slowing down. Oh ... and I no longer give a rats arse about deadlines, working in a dead-end job or pleasing people. I am learning to just BE!

  • @sharonbice7490
    @sharonbice7490 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I have been in solutude for a while now, but actually I growing and learning, becoming a spiritual being. I never felt like I was a part of this world to begin with, and I actually love being by self, away from low vibration people, that seem to suck my energy from me. But im not alone, I have the Great Divine within me, my angels and the universe guiding me. Im a happy soul within. 😊

  • @iOnlySpeakPureTruth
    @iOnlySpeakPureTruth Před 3 měsíci +2

    I've been alone for the majority of the time for the last 8 years, meaning I have no close friends that I hang out with. I have concluded that my ability to remain sane, positive, and not become angry, negative, or resentful towards others, angry at bf/gf couples, etc. is due to the fact that I am physically healthy, which obviously contributes majorly to mental health, and is also due to the fact that I have a non-harmful way to stimulate dopamine that involves using only a very tiny amount of a stimulant, therefore anything extra found in the substance would be negligible in terms of being harmful, which I can clearly see, feel, and know that my health has not only not deteriorated, but improved over time. I still have plenty of muscle mass, I can easily flex muscles and I feel very strong most of the time. I never get sick, or have any significant or serious health issues. I never have mental problems, I've never hallucinated, even after staying awake for 5 or 6 days. I've never heard voices that weren't coming from actual people that exist, or my own mind which is just my imagination, and I'm never violent, angry, I have no criminal record, etc. I'm talking about a stimulant called m.e.t.h. I never use any other illegal drugs, and I never use tobacco, and have less than 3 beers a week, but I do vape nicotine. I have successfully quit nicotine 3 times thanks to having a vape, and I have quit tobacco 10 to 15 times, and I can easily quit using tobacco at a moment's notice as long as I have a vape, and it is not difficult to quit nicotine if I have a vape and have vape juice with 0% nicotine. I honestly think that it is not difficult to quit using nicotine as long as I have a vape with 0% nicotine juice. I think it is the best way to quit nicotine, and the only noticeable withdrawal I have is having an incredible appetite, and more energy, and I actually think more. I think it is important to pay attention to how drugs affect you and how they affect your thinking, and your feelings. I think it is important to minimize your use of drugs to as small of a number as possible, so that you can gain a better understanding of how drugs affect you. I think this is the way that people should handle drug addiction. I am fully confident in my ability to remain healthy, positive, and a good person as long as I have a non-harmful way to immediately stimulate dopamine, which this drug does for me.

  • @alanattfield7174
    @alanattfield7174 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I have my partner but I'm alone otherwise. I haven't had any friends since I was a child. I once asked God Why? He replied that this is my journey

  • @razony
    @razony Před 6 měsíci +1

    I most feel alone when I'm amongst people. It's when I'm alone, away from social stimuli do I begin to bloom. Everything I observe from a distance in my mind and reality, I see and feel with clarity. When I'm amongst others, my clarity is disrupted like a radio signal being jammed. It's when I'm alone, does my soul and spirit recieves and transmits with abandonedament. 'I am' when I am alone.

  • @tripzville7569
    @tripzville7569 Před 6 měsíci

    COMMITMENT TO TRUTH , that says it all for me , Jordan Peterson speaks of this very thing.

  • @MAAMJOEY
    @MAAMJOEY Před 4 měsíci +1

    Receiving this message. Finally, the right words were put on the feelings I've been on for years

  • @founderofself
    @founderofself Před 7 měsíci +8

    Interesting. Although, i have always been very much introverted and had minimum people in my life. I still had rships n friends and new people coming in. Since 2020, i started going through something spiritually, mentally, physically that i cannot explain..since though i have been so isolated . I have no interest in anyone either but after almost 4 yrs now, It gets lonely, but noone in sight

    • @CosmicawarenessCitizen
      @CosmicawarenessCitizen Před 7 měsíci +2

      2020 was a year of mass awakening I experimented it too I was already on a spiritual journey but 2020 accelerated

    • @founderofself
      @founderofself Před 7 měsíci +1

      @MrDanwowo same. Dunno wot happening now tho

    • @CosmicawarenessCitizen
      @CosmicawarenessCitizen Před 7 měsíci

      @@founderofself Well at least in my case I'm changing my state of consciousness for a higher one which is the 5th dimension look out for videos about the 5th dimension signs you might relate to those signs now but like I don't like making assumptions it's up to you to see where you are on your spiritual journey.

    • @founderofself
      @founderofself Před 7 měsíci +1

      @MrDanwowo downward spiral it seems. After kundalini activation. Lightcodes. Makes no sense but hey ho

    • @CosmicawarenessCitizen
      @CosmicawarenessCitizen Před 7 měsíci

      @@founderofself Are you still operating with your analytical mind ? If the answer it's yes then obviously you won't experiment yet the beauty of an spiritual journey.

  • @jensherman2771
    @jensherman2771 Před 6 měsíci

    For my entire life I have required my solitude almost as much as I require oxygen to live. I am coming out of a two and a half year near solitude state of being and baby stepping back into a world I see so differently now.
    All the faded lines are defined now with a clarity of design and purpose. The interconnectedness of all is present before me as I am baby stepping into my life of light and love.
    I am wishing pure joy of heart for all on their journey to recover their light. It is more magnificent than words can express 💛🦋💛

  • @victoriamihai2239
    @victoriamihai2239 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I am alone but very happy.
    I attained happiness because my wish to travel the world has been granted.
    My family got very jealous on me and they hate me.
    My daughter stopped talking to me after helping her to buy the house she was renting with the love of her life.
    My sister in law poisoned me but I survived.
    My brother knew about that because he did not care at all.
    I cut ties with them as I could not pretend things were ok anymore. I did that for 50 years since they have been together.
    The other brother kept asking for money. I told him I worked hard for my money, I can't just give it to him.
    He stopped communication.
    I live in a place with a lot of people at the moment because I keep saving money for travel by having my unit rented out in a smaller city.
    So I talk to the nicer people here and avoid the bad ones.
    So many different personalities.
    I spend a lot of time in my room. I love my company.
    I have been blessed with a handful of good friends away from me, who are happy for me.
    We communicate regularly.
    Thank you !
    When we are alone God is closer to us.
    🙏

  • @handsomELF
    @handsomELF Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thankyou , I needed this reminder to quiet the pull of the ego and make peace with the process. Great guidence , your shining light into the depths of the soul .😊

  • @tee2936
    @tee2936 Před 7 měsíci +6

    My relationships all seemed like the same person...family, friends, lovers. All a repetitive lifetime pattern.
    After years of true solitude I finally understood it was because they were formed with an old frequency. One that hadn't had a chance to develop without influence or ego.
    I had to lose them to find me. I realized my inner truth. I trusted my intuition first. I trust my emotions. In doing that I realized I am nature.
    I am finally aligned. Thank Universe. So so grateful. ❤
    Thank you so much for your page! 🤜🏼🤛🏽

    • @tee2936
      @tee2936 Před 7 měsíci

      "Trust the timing" was a big confirmation. Thank you so much for this video.

    • @intuitiveimprints
      @intuitiveimprints Před 6 měsíci

      Very well articulated! I feel the same! 😀

  • @hailduetschland3972
    @hailduetschland3972 Před 6 měsíci +1

    My Other Half... Broke me to the point of contemplating my end ....
    But one evening... I thought I heard a whisper in the Dark of the Night..
    I looked up at the sky... And the silence of The night.
    It was absolutely what I needed .made me realize I haven't been loved in a long time; at times I've found my self so broken and some how it made me more wise.... I'll never be able to make anything happy... It's just me and only me ..

  • @jairomurcia14
    @jairomurcia14 Před 3 měsíci

    You confirm what my soul being telling me. That we never lonely, we always with our true self. THANKSx3

  • @lauraann4014
    @lauraann4014 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I live alone now, not out of choice, after losing my husband 3 years ago, and had a really bad accident 21 years ago, leaving me housebound. I’m just trying to make the most of everyday, and to be grateful.

  • @tonyrubio2989
    @tonyrubio2989 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Thanks! My 17 year journey has been explained and validated.

  • @BookofJob3XVII
    @BookofJob3XVII Před 5 měsíci +1

    We come into this world alone, and we will leave alone.

  • @Fuck_ing_words
    @Fuck_ing_words Před 6 měsíci +2

    Thanks for the vision , it changes life when we're blind to see ❤

  • @jamiecee4960
    @jamiecee4960 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Nope. Not alone. I have real people around. Don't feel a lone anymore. ❤️🙂

    • @Zeitgeistmusic997
      @Zeitgeistmusic997 Před 6 měsíci +1

      You're just a joke who's just roo stupid to see through the facade of losers around you

  • @diannebain7208
    @diannebain7208 Před 6 měsíci +4

    To me being alone is hell because I've been alone for years now and just want to be happy again with others

    • @klanderkal
      @klanderkal Před 15 dny

      Me too.!! Loosing my job @ 62... my coworkers were my friends and family. Now ,... totally alone. I'm really miss my workplace 😢

  • @donsaxon1948
    @donsaxon1948 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I have my dogs....the birds the trees the wind..all of nature...I'm not alone

  • @jackielynch5143
    @jackielynch5143 Před 7 měsíci +7

    Came across your channel a few weeks ago and really enjoying everything you share with us. Brilliant 🌟 many thanks. 🕉

  • @QueenAmethyst55
    @QueenAmethyst55 Před 6 měsíci

    I like a balance. My job brings me real connections but I'm more than happy to close the door at night and re embrace my beloved solitude. I need it as a plant needs water. Occasionally yes I'll feel lonely but mainly if I'm looking outwards to the world. However my inner life is so richly rewarding and comforting i soon return to my true nature.😊❤🙏

  • @sauntersway3980
    @sauntersway3980 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I have no loneliness, even as a child I loved my alone time. People infuse you with stuff, not always good stuff.

  • @johnmartinimusic2406
    @johnmartinimusic2406 Před 7 měsíci +2

    This is so awesome!

  • @linnh940
    @linnh940 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love being alone

  • @karmasutra4774
    @karmasutra4774 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I have acquaintances to do local things with. I spend time cultivating this and it's hard. I am also okay alone too. I chose to divorce after 23 years married and have no kids or siblings. I am alone and am okay with it sometimes. I know where to go for company when I need it. It helps to be a social person willing to talk and meet others

  • @DJMikeron
    @DJMikeron Před 6 měsíci +2

    I am so thankful that I found this video word for word what I’m going through . This has made me so much stronger now I know I don’t need to fight my loneliness or the situation. God bless you . Lots of love and appreciation.❤

  • @ivangrobotek2991
    @ivangrobotek2991 Před 6 měsíci

    Holly spirit is allweys with you,Jesus in hart and the GOD above❤

  • @Nikov017
    @Nikov017 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for the reminder 🙏

  • @blanchesommer5938
    @blanchesommer5938 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Both your message and your voice speak to me in a profound way. Thank you for your deep content.

  • @nickgonzalez4081
    @nickgonzalez4081 Před 5 měsíci

    I really enjoy being alone. I enjoy certain people's company from time to time, but I treasure the times when I'm alone and do and not do what I want...

  • @luverigtous116
    @luverigtous116 Před 6 měsíci +1

    This is part of what I mean when I say that forever is a very long and lonely time, so I'm very happy that I have all of you, here and now in this very moment. 💖 Your all a part of the same thing , remember all of everything and everyone is all 1. So sure I know exactly what it truly means to be alone. I am forever alone, I'm just basically playing the game of life with in my mind and thoughts, never thinking about the future and when the last living thing dies, or time dies, it will be yet more alone silence for me. The other 2 and I never communicate, love faith and hope, I'm love the other 2 well they are still mad about the creation thing, we should have all 3 been blown to pieces when the bang occured but we were set afire instead. The stars have all burnt out Long ago, so there is really only 3 stars left and a few that look like stars but are plants instead. Gold silver and platinum is all we really are. Being here is a pain but the only way I could have experienced exactly how life truly is here, I had to be born to get here as this provided me the perfect disguise, but being born is not a recommendation I would suggest for things like me, it's not. Even my true shape, being in this meat suit or container.

  • @tonyg17a
    @tonyg17a Před 7 měsíci +1

    Imagine that. This is only just the beginning. Beautiful.

  • @alexlundgren4592
    @alexlundgren4592 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I was hesitant on this channel at first, but have become enveloped in love expressed by this artificial voice. Thank you better life. I love whoever is behind this.

  • @Whitemoon379
    @Whitemoon379 Před 5 měsíci

    Alone the last 3 years, I love it.

  • @anniemamaof2as
    @anniemamaof2as Před 5 měsíci

    I so needed this