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- 🌟 Ever wondered what lies beyond the silence? 🌟 Dive into "Things They Don't Tell You About Living Alone" 🏠✨ and unlock the secrets to embracing solitude with wisdom and joy! Our latest video on 'Wisdom in Real Life' illuminates the untold facets of solo living through a Buddhist lens. 🌿
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Chapters-:
00:00 Don't Skip
02:15 1. Embracing the Challenge
06:09 2. Confronting Loneliness
10:14 3. The Art of Self-Sufficiency
14:15 4. Discovering Inner Peace
18:11 5. Growth Through Adaptatio
22:09 6. Nurturing Social Connections
25:26 7. Embracing Personal Freedom
29:02 8. Cultivating Contentment
32:39 9. Spiritual Exploration and Enlightenment
36:03:00 10. Achieving Independence and Empowerment
39:13 Conclusion
Is it normal to want to live alone? Is it weird to cherish your own company? 🤔 Discover why and how embracing alone time is not only normal but can lead to profound personal growth and enlightenment. From the Zen tales of solitude to practical advice for those stepping into living alone for the first time, we’ve covered it all! 🧘♂️💡
Learn to navigate the challenges and joys of solo living with ease. We explore the truth about living alone, including the pros and cons, and offer guidance for those wondering how to be alone and happy. Whether you're living alone as a woman, seeking being alone motivation, or curious about how to love being single, this video has something for everyone. 🌺📚
Discover how to transform your living space into a sanctuary of peace and self-discovery. Understand the importance of creating routines that foster independence and self-care, and how to balance solitude with meaningful social connections. 🕊️💖
Join us as we delve into stories and teachings that reveal how to be alone without feeling lonely, learn to love being alone, and find empowerment in solitude. This is your guide to mastering the art of living alone, inspired by timeless Buddhist wisdom. 🙏✨
Whether you're contemplating living alone for the first time or looking to deepen your appreciation of solitude, let this video be your compass. Remember, being alone doesn’t mean being lonely. It’s an opportunity to explore, grow, and connect with your inner self like never before. 🚀💫
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I change my life now 10 years ago and choose to live my life alone and have no tv, social media, deeply friends or family .....no relationship, all alone.
People are programmed robot slaves of the system thinking happyness depend on extern factors like status, money, material things that means nothing and its relativ and an illusion create by society.
If your happyness depend on extern factors you will never be because extern factors are endless.
Happyness starts inside you.
The more people around you, the more expectations, talk about others, lying, frustrations, negativity, jealousy, double standards, hate, own benefits, judging, comparing etc......reflection of their broken souls.
Alone or in solitude you have more strength, peace, power, happyness, freedom and time.
No, dont feel better or superior then others but more be carefully and awake.
Be the light in your life.
Thank you for sharing your profound journey and reflections. It's clear that you've embarked on a path that has led you to discover profound truths about happiness, self-reliance, and the essence of living a life that's truly yours. Your decision to live alone, devoid of the distractions and societal expectations that often cloud our judgment, is a testament to your courage and commitment to finding genuine contentment from within.
Your insights echo a core belief that happiness is an internal state, not something that can be acquired from external sources. This is a powerful reminder that the pursuit of material wealth, social status, or external validation often leads us away from the true essence of happiness. It's a journey inward, to the heart of our being, where we find peace and fulfillment in our own company and in the simplicity of life.
The challenges you mentioned about expectations, negativity, and the social dynamics that can drain our energy and detract from our personal peace are all too common. Your experience serves as an invaluable perspective for those of us navigating our paths, reminding us to be mindful of the environments we choose and the company we keep. It's a call to prioritize our inner peace and happiness above societal norms and expectations.
Your choice to live in solitude, embracing the strength, peace, power, and freedom it brings, is a powerful example of what it means to be truly awake and aware in one's life. It's a choice that not everyone may understand, but it's one that clearly resonates with the essence of what many seek: a life of authenticity and genuine happiness.
"Be the light in your life," as you aptly put it, is a beautiful mantra. It encourages us all to be the source of our happiness, to cultivate our inner peace, and to live in a way that is true to our deepest selves. Your journey is a beacon of inspiration for those who might be considering a similar path but are unsure of where it might lead.
At 'Wisdom in Real Life,' we believe in exploring and sharing diverse paths to wisdom and fulfillment. Your story is a valuable part of this tapestry, reminding us all of the power of solitude, the beauty of simplicity, and the endless capacity for happiness that resides within us. Thank you for being a part of our community and for sharing your light with us.
Agreed...
@@wisdominreallife I am another one who is walking the path of the lone wolf. Shedding off all bonds, ties, relationships, acquaintences, etc. and striving for complete and utter solitude which is hard when you need people to assist you in certain areas but waiting for the days that I will need people less and less and minimise interaction with other human beings so I can be with just me and God. Dont get me wrong, I do love people and want to live in society amongst my fellow brothers and sisters and even accumulate material wealth but I just want to do it all alone. I tried to go to the Himalayan mountains and decided to live in a cave and meditate until I found my Spiritual resolve but alas after 4 months I came back, I belong to the world after all. I dont feel the emotion of loneliness ever. I am happiest alone and dont even require a companion or children or a pet. There is nothing wrong with me, I am not depressed nor troubled ONLY liberated .
I love living alone. I had a great, decades long marriage to a man I adored and was loved by from the first day we met. He died
In 2012. I surrounded myself with people as a way of avoiding “loneliness.” I have four best friends and we speak on the phone as a way of “visiting” because we all live far from each other. But I have learned to be very happy living alone. I’ve done thousands of works of art, written novels and essays, poetry and blogs. I’m a successful telephone psychic tarot reader. I have neighbors who pop in, but but have to restrict some of that because, in the long run, I love my solitude. It makes me creative and allows me to meditate and pray. I’m actually a very social person who loves people, but honestly, living alone has given me peace of mind and self-love I never knew I needed before this time by myself.
Zombies 😩
Once you master this , no one can bother you. I'm a living a proof. ❤
That's incredibly inspiring to hear! Mastering the ability to maintain your peace and resilience, regardless of external pressures, is a significant achievement. It's wonderful that you've reached a place where you feel unbothered by the actions or words of others and can maintain your inner calm. Your experience is a powerful testament to the strength and tranquility that come from truly understanding and mastering oneself.
Thank you for sharing your success with us-it's motivational and uplifting, especially for those who are still working on finding that level of peace in their own lives. Your story encourages others to continue their efforts and reinforces the idea that with dedication and self-awareness, anyone can achieve a state of serenity.
We appreciate you being a part of our 'Wisdom in Real Life' community and sharing the love and proof of your journey. Keep shining your light, and continue to be an example of what it means to live a life of empowerment and peace. ❤️
@@wisdominreallife I spent a year and a half to master this. It's hard.
Silence is golden, solitude is a gift.
Absolutely, your words capture the essence of what many of us come to realize on our journeys: that silence and solitude are not merely states to be endured, but treasures to be embraced. In a world that often prizes constant connectivity and noise, finding the value in silence and the gift in solitude is truly a form of wisdom.
"Silence is golden," indeed. It's in those quiet moments that we can hear our own thoughts more clearly, tap into our creativity, and find peace that is often elusive in the hustle and bustle of daily life. Silence gives us the space to reflect, to breathe, and to grow in ways that noise simply cannot accommodate.
Similarly, solitude offers us a unique gift: the chance to truly know ourselves. It's in solitude that we can confront our true feelings, challenge our thoughts, and discover our passions without the influence of external pressures. It's a state where we can cultivate self-reliance, resilience, and a deep sense of personal understanding and peace.
At 'Wisdom in Real Life', we aim to explore and share the myriad ways in which the challenges of life, including solitude and silence, can be transformed into opportunities for growth and enlightenment. Your comment is a beautiful reminder of the profound simplicity and truth in finding joy and value in these often overlooked aspects of life.
Thank you for sharing your insight and for being a part of our community. It's reflections like yours that enrich our collective journey, encouraging us to pause, to value the quiet, and to appreciate the richness of solitude. May you continue to find deep fulfillment and wisdom in the golden silence and the gifted solitude.
@@wisdominreallife I have been selfish, twenty eight years of what has gradually turned into spiritual indulgence.
It's yielded many gifts and I'm excited for what is to come.
Thank you for sharing your introspective journey with us! It's truly inspiring to hear how what began as a personal pursuit has evolved into a meaningful spiritual exploration for you. Labeling this as "selfish" might reflect the deep personal commitment it required, yet it’s clear that this path has brought you valuable insights and growth.
The term "spiritual indulgence" beautifully captures the essence of fully immersing oneself in the pursuit of deeper understanding and connection. It's encouraging to hear that this commitment has yielded many gifts and that you are looking forward to the future with excitement. This kind of enthusiasm and anticipation for continued growth is contagious and serves as a reminder to all of us at 'Wisdom in Real Life' of the endless possibilities that personal and spiritual exploration can bring.
Your journey is a wonderful example of how dedicating time and energy to oneself is not merely a personal benefit but a transformative experience that can lead to profound discoveries and rewards. We're excited for you and the new horizons that await as you continue on this path.
Thank you again for sharing your experience with our community. May your future explorations bring even more insight, joy, and fulfillment. Keep embracing the journey, and continue to share the gifts that come from your spiritual indulgence!
I live alone with 10 goats, 7 dogs, 5 chickens, 4 pigs, 3 Cats, & a horse.😅
Lol
What a lively and vibrant household you have! 😄 Your unique living situation brings to life the idea that solitude does not necessarily mean being alone, especially when surrounded by such a diverse array of animal companions. Each of these animals brings their own personality, challenges, and joys into your life, offering a different kind of company and a unique way to experience the world.
Living with 10 goats, 7 dogs, 5 chickens, 4 pigs, 3 cats, and a horse, you’re embracing a lifestyle that's deeply connected to nature and the care of other beings. This connection undoubtedly provides endless opportunities for learning, growth, and laughter. The responsibilities that come with caring for such a varied group of animals can teach us a lot about patience, compassion, and the rhythm of life beyond human societies.
Your comment highlights a beautiful aspect of living alone that we cherish at 'Wisdom in Real Life': the ability to create a fulfilling life in your own unique way. It’s a vivid example of how solitude can be filled with love, responsibility, and the kind of chaos that brings warmth to the heart.
Thank you for sharing a glimpse into your life. Your experience is a wonderful reminder that happiness and contentment come in many forms, and that companionship is not only limited to human interactions. May your days be filled with the joy and peace that comes from your animal family, and may your unique journey inspire others to find happiness in whatever form it takes for them. Keep enjoying the lively, loving company you’ve surrounded yourself with!
You don't have a goat 🐐 also 😂
Living alone is... GREAT!
Nobody to bother you, can go to the toilet and leave the door open, you do what you like and the way you prefer. I can study, contemplate, play, chat with my higher self. Never alone!
People? No thanks!
Animals are better.
It sounds like you’ve really embraced the joys and freedoms of living alone! It’s great to hear how this lifestyle choice has allowed you to celebrate your personal space and habits in ways that bring you happiness and comfort. The simple pleasures of solitude, like leaving the bathroom door open, are often underrated but truly embody the personal freedom that comes with living by oneself.
Your description of studying, contemplating, playing, and chatting with your higher self illustrates beautifully how solitude can be a rich, fulfilling experience, not just a state of being without others. Indeed, when we are alone, we are often in great company if we’re in tune with ourselves.
And your preference for animals strikes a chord with many who find the uncomplicated and loyal companionship of pets more straightforward and rewarding than the often complex dynamics of human relationships.
Thank you for sharing your perspective and adding to our conversation on 'Wisdom in Real Life.' Your enthusiasm for living alone and finding contentment in your own company is inspiring. It reminds us all of the profound peace and enjoyment that can come from embracing solitude and making the most of our personal space and time. Keep enjoying your great adventures in living alone, and may your days continue to be filled with joyful independence and serene companionship with your animal friends!
@wisdominreallife you said it beautifully! 😍
My animals are mostly the free and wild (some sample on my very short videos). I relate on being free n wild too. 😜
Life is short to make it complicated.
I love living alone . I can focus clearly on creativity, meditation and exercise . All people do is cause conflict, anxiety and hardship . Nice video
Thank you for sharing your positive experience and insights! It sounds like living alone has really allowed you to create a space where you can thrive, focusing on creativity, meditation, and exercise. These activities not only enhance personal well-being but also foster a deep sense of inner peace and fulfillment.
It’s great to hear that you’ve found such clarity and tranquility away from the conflicts and anxieties that can often accompany social interactions. Your journey is a wonderful example of how solitude can be skillfully used to enhance one’s quality of life and focus on personal growth.
We're thrilled that our video resonated with you and added some good vibes to your day! At 'Wisdom in Real Life,' we aim to explore and celebrate the diverse ways people find happiness and peace in their lives, whether it's through solitude or community. Your feedback is a valuable part of this ongoing conversation, reminding us of the power of embracing our individual needs and paths.
Thanks again for your comment and for being part of our community. May you continue to find joy and fulfillment in your creative pursuits and solitary moments. Here’s to more clarity, peace, and positive energy in your journey!
In complete agreement!
I have lived alone and single for 14yrs now i find the peace quiet and ability to do what i want when i want to which is important to me as i have some heath issues.sometimes i feel guilty that i find so much happiness in this and i know I am blessed to have the ability to not worry about harsh judgements of general society as i am different and have always known this i put my faith in the higher power and help when ican
❤ beautiful... Me, too. I'm finding Great joy in the many challenges. I'm alone only a little over 4 years. How my life has changed!
So nice.... but dont feel guilty for your happiness. We deserve it!
I do live alone at home but I am around people at work. I read all of the comments. There may be a difference between someone who feels content alone and another who feels like they still need people to develop. I feel like I’m in between accepting the solitude and not even though I have been alone for a little over 14 years now. I suppose I’m just one of those “work in progress” types.
Your journey and the contentment you've found in your solitude resonate deeply with the themes we explore here at 'Wisdom in Real Life.' Living alone and embracing singlehood, especially over such a significant period as 14 years, offers a profound perspective on what it means to find peace and happiness within one's own company and daily rhythms.
The peace, quiet, and freedom you describe are not just luxuries; for many, especially those navigating health challenges, they are essential to well-being. Your ability to cherish these moments, to live in a way that aligns with your needs and values, is truly commendable. It's a reminder that happiness is deeply personal, and what brings joy to one's life can vary greatly from one person to another.
Feeling guilty for finding happiness in your way of life, especially in a society that often values conformity over individuality, is understandable. Yet, your story is a powerful testament to the courage it takes to live authentically, guided by faith and a compassionate spirit. Helping others when you can, and living in a manner that reflects your values and acknowledges your needs, is a beautiful way of contributing to the world around you.
You're right in saying that you are blessed to be able to live this way, but it's also clear that this blessing is one you've cultivated through understanding yourself, embracing your differences, and putting faith in something greater than societal expectations. Your experience is a valuable example of how leading a life true to oneself, guided by faith and a commitment to doing good, can be a source of deep fulfillment and joy.
At 'Wisdom in Real Life,' we believe that sharing these personal journeys helps illuminate the diverse paths to happiness and fulfillment. Your story is a beacon for others who might feel isolated in their differences or struggles, showing them that there's not only peace in solitude but also a profound joy in living a life aligned with one's own truths and values.
Thank you for opening up about your life and the lessons you've learned along the way. May your journey continue to be filled with the peace and happiness you've found, and may your story inspire others to embrace their paths, no matter how different they may seem.
@@wisdominreallife doing to much dude!
I have been living this way for a while now i kinda like my space
It’s wonderful to hear from you, and thank you for sharing your experience with our Wisdom in Real Life community! Embracing and enjoying your own space is a significant step towards understanding and appreciating your needs, values, and boundaries. Living in a way that honors your personal space can lead to deeper self-awareness and fulfillment.
It sounds like you’ve found a harmonious balance that works for you, where you can reflect, grow, and nurture your well-being. This approach to life is not just about physical space but also about giving yourself the mental and emotional room to breathe, explore, and be authentically you.
If you’re open to it, we’d love to hear more about how this lifestyle choice has impacted your relationships, creativity, or overall well-being. Your journey could inspire others in our community who might be contemplating a similar path but are unsure of where it might lead.
Thank you for being a part of our conversation and for reminding us of the value of cherishing our own space. 🌟
This video is full of wisdom. Your voice is so
Crystal clear and the contents of the video is all so true. I lived my life
all alone with 3 children after my husband passed away. The children grew up and have their own lives. As for me living alone has taught me so many things. Life is exactly as this video. Thank you
this video tells me it is a blessing to live alone and struggle your
life.The resilience and the pearls you accumulate is immense
🙏
Thank you so much for your heartfelt response and for sharing a snippet of your personal journey. Your resilience and strength in facing life's challenges, especially in raising three children on your own after such a significant loss, are truly inspiring. It's uplifting to hear how living alone has not only been a challenge but also a profound teacher and source of growth for you.
We're deeply touched that our video resonated with your experiences and provided affirmation that solitude, despite its difficulties, can indeed be a blessing filled with valuable lessons and "pearls" of wisdom. Life teaches us in various ways, and the lessons we learn from navigating it on our own terms often lead to a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us.
Your appreciation for the content and the clarity of the presentation means a lot to us at 'Wisdom in Real Life.' We strive to create content that not only informs but also connects and validates the diverse experiences of our viewers, and it is rewarding to know that this video spoke to you.
Thank you once again for your kind words and for being part of our community. May you continue to find strength, wisdom, and peace in your journey of solitude. Your story is a beacon of resilience and hope for others who might find themselves on a similar path. 🙏
Finding the silver liner of living alone makes us feel less lonely. I've learned to amuse myself to avoid depression and loneliness. This video is very helpful. Thank you! Joy and peace to all.
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! It’s truly inspiring to hear how you’ve embraced the silver linings of living alone, transforming potential challenges into opportunities for joy and personal growth. Learning to find amusement and contentment in one's own company is a significant achievement, reflecting a deep understanding of the inner sources of happiness and peace.
Your approach to navigating solitude-by actively seeking joy and cultivating peace-resonates deeply with the messages we aim to share on 'Wisdom in Real Life.' It's a powerful reminder that while solitude might initially seem daunting, it can also serve as a fertile ground for self-discovery, creativity, and profound personal development.
Your words underscore a vital message: the importance of being proactive in our journey toward happiness and mental well-being. They serve as a beacon of encouragement for others who might be facing similar feelings of loneliness or depression, showing that it’s possible to find light in moments of solitude.
We're thrilled to know that our video has been helpful to you. Our goal is to offer insights and strategies that empower our viewers to find their own paths to peace and fulfillment, regardless of their circumstances. Your feedback is a wonderful affirmation that we're on the right track.
Joy and peace are indeed powerful states of being that we all can aspire to, and your message spreads that positivity even further. Let's continue to share our journeys and insights, supporting each other in the quest for a fulfilling and enlightened life.
So powerful video
I have lived alone almost 2 year’s
The most important is being happy with ur self and the little thing around you
An to be disciplined
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with living alone! It’s wonderful to hear that you’ve found happiness in solitude and have come to appreciate the small joys around you. Indeed, being content with oneself and finding pleasure in the little things are key aspects of enjoying a fulfilling life alone.
Discipline is also a crucial element, as it helps maintain structure and effectiveness in daily life, which can sometimes be more challenging without the external accountability that comes from living with others. Your approach to embracing and finding balance in solitude is inspiring.
We're glad that our video resonated with you and appreciate your positive feedback. It sounds like you’ve really captured the essence of what we aimed to convey: the power and beauty of living in harmony with oneself. Thank you for being part of our 'Wisdom in Real Life' community and for sharing your journey toward self-contentment and discipline. Keep embracing and celebrating every moment of your solo life journey!
I Live with me, myself and I, always busy.
It sounds like you've embraced a vibrant and self-sufficient lifestyle, which is fantastic! Living with "me, myself, and I" and staying busy can be a fulfilling way to explore personal interests, develop self-reliance, and maintain a dynamic routine that keeps life interesting and engaging.
It's great to hear that you're making the most out of your solitude by keeping active and involved. This kind of approach can really help to maximize the benefits of living alone, such as having the freedom to set your own schedule and pursue things at your own pace.
Thank you for sharing a glimpse into your life with our 'Wisdom in Real Life' community. Your experience is a wonderful reminder of how fulfilling it can be to cultivate a rich, self-directed life. May you continue to enjoy your adventures with me, myself, and I! Keep up the great energy and enthusiasm.
Freedom
"Freedom" - such a powerful word and an even more profound experience. It resonates deeply with the themes we explore here at 'Wisdom in Real Life.' Freedom, in its many forms, is at the heart of living a life filled with purpose, peace, and personal growth.
Absolutely 😊
Wish I had it more often really❤
It's great to hear that you've found value in the ideas presented in our video, and it sounds like you're yearning for more of that experience or insight in your life. Whether it's more solitude, peace, or personal growth, recognizing that desire is an important first step towards making it a more regular part of your life.
If you're looking to incorporate more of these elements into your daily routine, consider setting aside specific times for self-reflection, meditation, or whatever practices help you connect with yourself. Small, consistent actions can lead to significant changes over time.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us here at 'Wisdom in Real Life.' We're here to support you on your journey, providing content that inspires and guides. Keep reaching out, engaging with our content, and sharing your journey. We appreciate your heartfelt comment and are sending you love and encouragement to find more of what brings you joy and fulfillment.❤️
L❤VE this, so true to it all.
Thank you very much for being with our ‘Wisdom in Real Life’ family!🙏🙏🙏❤️
@@wisdominreallife Your very welcome and thank you for sharing.🙏👑
thank you for the video
Thank you very much for being with our ‘Wisdom in Real Life’ family!🙏🙏🙏❤️
Thank you so much I stay a lone thnx for the motivation 🙏🙏
Thank you very much for being with our ‘Wisdom in Real Life’ family!🙏🙏🙏❤️
I stay a lone also 🙏
I super like
I love the idea
We're so glad to hear that you love the idea! It's always encouraging to know that the concepts and perspectives we share resonate with our viewers. Whether it's embracing solitude, finding inner peace, or exploring personal growth, we aim to provide content that inspires and supports your journey.
Thank you for being part of the 'Wisdom in Real Life' community. If you have any specific topics or ideas you're particularly interested in or any stories from your own experiences you'd like to share, we'd love to hear more. Your engagement helps us to create more meaningful content that can benefit all our viewers.
Keep exploring, enjoying, and sharing your thoughts with us!
Thank you blessings always 🧚♂️😇🙏🙏
Thank you very much for being with our ‘Wisdom in Real Life’ family!🙏🙏🙏❤️
The power of silence
Absolutely, the power of silence is a profound theme that resonates deeply. Silence is more than just a lack of noise; it's a space for growth, reflection, and profound discovery. In the stillness, we can hear our own thoughts more clearly, connect with our deeper feelings, and find peace that the bustling world often drowns out.
At 'Wisdom in Real Life,' we appreciate the immense value that silence holds in our lives. It's a powerful tool that, when embraced, can help us better understand ourselves, make mindful decisions, and even enhance our creativity and problem-solving abilities. Silence is not just a physical state but a mental sanctuary that can lead to greater awareness and tranquility.
Thank you for highlighting this powerful aspect of solitude. Your comment adds a valuable layer to our ongoing exploration of how quiet moments can serve as gateways to deeper wisdom and inner peace. May you continue to find strength and insight in the silence, and may it bring you the clarity and peace we all seek.
@@wisdominreallife I'm trying to learn from you. If you think I'm great please help me reach your friends. Thank you
I tried for many years and found no such thing.
Thank you for sharing your honest experience. It's important to acknowledge that living alone and finding peace in solitude isn’t a universally positive experience for everyone, and it doesn’t always bring the benefits that it might for others. Your perspective is crucial in reminding us of the diversity of human experiences and the fact that what works for one person may not work for another.
It’s possible that the journey of solitude can sometimes feel isolating or challenging beyond the benefits it might offer. If living alone hasn't brought you the sense of peace or fulfillment you hoped for, exploring other avenues or making adjustments could be a worthwhile consideration. Whether it’s seeking more social interactions, finding community support, or exploring other living arrangements that might offer more comfort or happiness, it’s never too late to try new solutions.
At 'Wisdom in Real Life', we believe in exploring all aspects of life’s journeys, including the struggles that come with them. Your voice adds an important dimension to this conversation, reminding us to remain open and supportive to all experiences, not just the positive ones. Thank you for your candor, and may you find the path that best suits your needs and brings you fulfillment.
@@wisdominreallife Thanks for that. I've long since done what you suggested. Since it's a dialogue, This might help someone, I hope, if the need is there: Most religious faiths include a teaching about how God can be experienced in two ways. Within and without. I seem to feel connected to what some call the Divine when I'm around people. I just don't feel connected at all when alone. My guess is that I have an easier time finding God "without", that is externally, rather than internally.
Hell is other people.....
Jean Paul Satire
Jean-Paul Sartre’s famous line, “Hell is other people,” from his play No Exit, really does resonate with many who find social interactions challenging or draining. It's a profound reflection on the complexities of human relationships and how, at times, the presence of others can feel confining or burdensome.
In the context of living alone and finding solitude, this quote can take on a special significance. It highlights the peace and freedom some find in solitude, away from the pressures and conflicts that can arise in interactions with others.
Thank you for bringing this philosophical perspective into our discussion here at 'Wisdom in Real Life.' It adds depth to our exploration of how solitude can serve as a sanctuary where one can escape the metaphorical "hell" of social expectations and conflicts. Whether or not one fully agrees with Sartre, his thoughts encourage us to reflect on the nature of our relationships and the role they play in our sense of peace and well-being.
Your input enriches our conversation and reminds us of the diverse reasons why people may choose to live alone.
I simply find life, to be a flawed design. Abandoned by my mom at 7 has destroyed my life. Destroyed my nervous system. I just gave in to tolerating others. My springboard to my future my life, taught me pain. Being alone is painful. I wish I was never born.
You're not alone
@@raul4848 I hear that said often.
I know there are folks who also have a broken heart. But I am alone. And that’s the way it is. I know that is trauma talking.
It’s a time traveler, and I hate it. Thank you, for your support. I do hope you are not alone in life.
@@Lemoncare I am alone..so you are not alone ..and neither am I see?
@@raul4848 it’s one of the things I’ve always struggled with. I have disorganized attachment. My mom left when I was seven. My older brother was taken away at 12. That day primed me for terror. Then my two sisters died. My dad was all I had and he was no good. He died in 2020. I really hope one day I can feel the one love thing. I really do not think I will. I’m here and with me, myself and I. It can be very triggering. Thank you for your kind words Raul!
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and struggles with us. The adversities you’ve faced-losing your mom at a young age, your siblings' departures and passings, and the challenges with your father-paint a picture of profound difficulty and emotional turmoil. It’s truly understandable how these events have shaped your attachment style and your feelings towards relationships and love.
The journey towards healing and finding peace, especially after such significant losses and trauma, can indeed be triggering and complex. It’s important to acknowledge your strength in facing these challenges and continuing to push forward, despite these overwhelming experiences. You’re not alone in this, even though it might often feel that way.
The desire for a sense of 'one love,' a connection that feels secure and fulfilling, is something many aspire to, and though your path has been fraught with hardships, there remains hope. The fact that you are here, engaging with us and sharing your story, is a testament to your resilience.
If possible, connecting with a mental health professional who specializes in trauma and attachment issues could be a beneficial step. Therapy can often provide a safe space to explore these feelings, understand how your past experiences influence your present, and develop strategies to cultivate more secure attachments.
At 'Wisdom in Real Life,' we are committed to providing support and understanding to everyone in our community. Your experiences, while uniquely challenging, are incredibly valuable, and sharing them helps others feel less alone in their struggles.
Thank you again for your openness, and for trusting us with your story. We hope that each day brings you closer to the peace and connection you deserve. You are a part of our community, and we are here with you, supporting you in your journey.