Sibling Rivalry Solutions that Work: Children Getting Along

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  • čas přidán 17. 10. 2021
  • Are your children always fighting? Are you tired of trying to make them share? Here I share my tips on sharing, gift giving, and some common tips to help with sibling rivalry!
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Komentáře • 76

  • @teri03
    @teri03 Před 2 lety +43

    It’s like Tom and Jerry in my house constantly. I needed this video! 😂

    • @teresacorreia2417
      @teresacorreia2417 Před 2 lety +4

      Exhausting!

    • @teresacorreia2417
      @teresacorreia2417 Před 2 lety +4

      You said right!!! Tomorrow and Jerry is what I'm dealing with every single day. It's exhausting.!!!

    • @wildolive53
      @wildolive53 Před 2 lety +5

      Tom&Jerry 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Chamhfc
      @Chamhfc Před 2 lety +2

      Omg
      thats dam true 🤦‍♀️
      i have 3 and 4
      yesterday one push from the stairs 😰😰

  • @SimplyStacyL
    @SimplyStacyL Před 2 lety +17

    Really love the idea of discussing conflict at family meetings. Discussing these things when both parties are removed from the intense feelings of the moment would be far more productive than arguing when tensions are high.

  • @jayandthejourney
    @jayandthejourney Před 2 lety +12

    Yes please to the video on cooperative games! I have 3, 4 and under and your videos are such a blessing. Thank you 💛

  • @snone6700
    @snone6700 Před 2 lety +21

    I'm glad that you are posting videos a little more often. You, your children and your overall atmosphere in your home irradiate such peace, it is like a breath of fresh air in the middle of everything that is going on in the world. As always, your videos are very helpful. 🧡💙💛💚💜

  • @sweetdanielle427
    @sweetdanielle427 Před 2 lety +20

    I would love to see a video on card games and team building board games! Thank you for your videos!

    • @AK-bg8vd
      @AK-bg8vd Před 2 lety

      me too, especially for younger kids

  • @rosalindreloj7928
    @rosalindreloj7928 Před 2 lety +8

    Yes, please make a video on the games you play, particularly card games! Thank you so much. Also, you are looking AMAZING as always. I love your hair!

  • @AK-bg8vd
    @AK-bg8vd Před 2 lety +5

    Would you consider making a video specifically about sibling attachments (not necessarily rivalry or fighting) and what parents can do to make the sibling relationship stronger. You touched on it a little bit here but Id love to learn more.

  • @thejillykilly
    @thejillykilly Před 2 lety +10

    how do you differentiate between silly behavior vs serious ones?

  • @Just_Lurkin
    @Just_Lurkin Před 2 lety +1

    Using your Amazon link awhile back ago. I purchased the book Manners and Tips For Caring Kids. The way I use the book I take 2 spirits a week. Example Mon, Wed, Friday we read, talk about it and play about gentleness. Tues, Thurs, we read, and play self-control. I recommend this book.

  • @brendahowell5946
    @brendahowell5946 Před 2 lety +8

    How do you handle your rules when your at someone's else's house when they either don't have rules or their totally different

  • @MommyBee1589
    @MommyBee1589 Před 2 lety +9

    Thank you so much jady! I have four under four and I feel like you’re giving me the cheat sheets for how to help with things that are sure to come! My babies love each other so much bc they’re always together and playing and you’ve given me so many good ideas for how to keep that bond strong and work on any issues that may arise! Love every video you make!

  • @shanzakhan224
    @shanzakhan224 Před 2 lety +3

    Incredible mom❤️

  • @brendahowell5946
    @brendahowell5946 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks so much. I agree if they don't want to share something they don't have to. Most people disagree with this. They had it first they need be respected. Also I see favoritism so much in families this causes so much conflict and hurt.

  • @mamajedijaws4938
    @mamajedijaws4938 Před 8 měsíci

    Binge watching. Its now 12:12 am. Gotta be a better mom than yesterday by at least 50%

  • @teresacorreia2417
    @teresacorreia2417 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you so much for the reminder. I have to go back to these rules and make every week meetings. My household definitely need it. Thanks for the video. Que El SEÑOR continue bendiciendo ha ti y a tu familia.
    Saludos desde Alabama

  • @moretumi00
    @moretumi00 Před 2 lety +3

    More videos on the subject please. I find your videos very interesting. Also I am interested on the games you play as a family, thank you Jady.

  • @marisaturner6473
    @marisaturner6473 Před 2 lety +1

    Learned a lot from this video!
    My kids are 2,4,&6 and it’s been ROUGH. So I’m hoping to turn things around.

  • @lindaphilip3487
    @lindaphilip3487 Před 2 lety +1

    Needed this so much. Thank you Jady. I have 3 kids 6 and under amd some days they are always at each other. Making fun of each other, distupting each other, wanting what other has etc. Has made me an angry mom. These advices were amazing. Gone try putting them into practice.

  • @Lidia1312
    @Lidia1312 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Judy!!! I need to hear this constantly! God bless you!

  • @Marie-pb2zy
    @Marie-pb2zy Před 2 lety +1

    I absolutely love all the tips on this video

  • @beegenuine1478
    @beegenuine1478 Před 2 lety +2

    SO excited about the upcoming video on character!!!

  • @elliygxoxo
    @elliygxoxo Před 11 měsíci

    Oh Jady! You know JUST what to post! The timing i found this video is truly perfect!! ❤

  • @Lalabirdskids
    @Lalabirdskids Před 2 lety +4

    I CANNOT wait for the next video! I’m loving this! You’ve always been an inspiration but these videos where you go into details are so so helpful!!! Thank you Jady!

  • @aline_yuhsuan
    @aline_yuhsuan Před 2 lety

    Jady, can I be your child? 😆😆😆 you're the wise mom every child needs!!! 👏👏👏👏🥰🥰🥰

  • @jodidavis3445
    @jodidavis3445 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you! 👍 This is really important guidelines to have in our home.These are words of wisdom.

  • @alphateam2022
    @alphateam2022 Před 2 lety +2

    I like the way you explain your strategies 👍 to solve siblings conflicts ..

  • @yakelindaniel9809
    @yakelindaniel9809 Před 2 lety +3

    I love your videos. You were the first person I started watching when I started thinking about homeschooling. I am so happy to have found your channel. Hearing you talk about the sharing part reminded me of the conversation I had with my husband the other day (he said your exact words LOL). We're currently going through this challenge at home with our 3 (almost 4 year old daughter ) and 1 year old (almost 2 year old son). It's a little hard to get a conversation or understanding to them across the crying and yelling (I'm assuming because they are so small). Any other tips for them being so small?🙃

  • @suganrs3310
    @suganrs3310 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi Jady, you are a wonderful mom and I inspire you. Can you plz upload videos for the older kids as well because my eldest one is 9 years old and the youngest is 4 years old. I see more videos for Preschools in your channel. It will be more beneficial to see videos for bigger kids like fourth graders. Your kids are very lucky to have you. Good luck in your career

  • @kristie-leecorney7388
    @kristie-leecorney7388 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you 🌈
    This is a really helpful videoand I truly appreciate it extremely helpful although I would like to just let you know I noticed the younger child actually eats more than the child that's a year older in my situation. Thank you 🌈
    I really look forward to your next videos

  • @mamiasieduwaa3407
    @mamiasieduwaa3407 Před 4 měsíci

    i feel lucky to have come across this video.... thank you

  • @alejandraortega3681
    @alejandraortega3681 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for this video, lately all 3 of my kids have been constantly fighting. Family meeting it is.

  • @robinpearson9153
    @robinpearson9153 Před 2 lety +6

    Do you have any tips for bringing children into the home that are not yours? We recently (about 2 months ago) had two of our baby cousins move in with us, ages 7 and 9. My children are ages 5 and 9. I've noticed that a lot of power struggling is going on between 3 of them. My 5 year old seems okay with everything, but the older 3 are constantly fighting over little things. One of them goes to play a game, then all of a sudden the other wants to play it. They all have old phones to play little games on, but they are not satisfied with the ones they have, they each want the others. I am trying my best to make the transition fair for everyone and make my baby cousins feel as if they are my own while also trying to show my 2 that I don't love them any less but this constant power struggle between them all is getting very mentally draining on me.

  • @primaryadventuressnow
    @primaryadventuressnow Před 2 lety +2

    Would love to see a video on the co operative games! Looking forward to a lot of board games as our weather gets cooler here in MN.

  • @shaneicemoore7279
    @shaneicemoore7279 Před 2 lety +2

    Needed this, thank you.

  • @fatimoris
    @fatimoris Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Jady!

  • @ashleyirizarry-diaz6415

    Love the sibling bonding ideas that help encouraging a servant heart! Definitely going to implement those!

  • @ChacieWhat
    @ChacieWhat Před 2 lety +2

    This was a good video. Thank you for posting. It gave me some good ideas. Also please do post the video on games.

  • @katiebaker3340
    @katiebaker3340 Před 2 lety

    After our recent move, my whole family has been stressed. This has been coming out in different ways, including extra fighting. Thanks for the tips!

  • @Mari_bal
    @Mari_bal Před 2 lety +3

    Jady! I love your videos I have been a subscriber for a long time and thanks to you for the motivation I am a homeschool mom of 4!! Thanks soo much ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @patiencebassey429
    @patiencebassey429 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing this video . Your videos have been helpful.

  • @TheRadiance527
    @TheRadiance527 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you these are great ideas and sound advice. My 3 and 6 yr old will love play therapy.

  • @mariumk5206
    @mariumk5206 Před 2 lety +2

    Super amazing Jady love you for this ;-)

  • @Afj684
    @Afj684 Před 2 lety

    Great tips here! I was like an only child so I didn't have anyone to conflict with. Now that I have kids I could really use these tips for my 3 children thank you so much!

  • @katarzynasokolska9531

    Thank you so much for all your advice..I truly appreciate apriciate all your videos

  • @godeniran1
    @godeniran1 Před 2 lety

    I love and needed this!!!🥰

  • @narendranr3969
    @narendranr3969 Před 2 lety +1

    very useful information Thank you God Bless You and every one...

  • @Momma_Bee29
    @Momma_Bee29 Před 2 lety

    Love this much needed

  • @dowhatyoulove3216
    @dowhatyoulove3216 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Jady, you’re always so helpful! I would love to know some games which can help with sharing, arguing and bad manners! My kids are driving me mad right now!!! 😖😖😖

  • @FrecklezNCurlz1012
    @FrecklezNCurlz1012 Před 2 lety +1

    Love this because i stand firm on this sharing is about balance.... Love ur channel..

  • @deisyandfamily5351
    @deisyandfamily5351 Před 2 lety +2

    How do you handle the smallest child I have an 8,6 and 2 year old and the difference of age is challenging because the two oldest are more mature to play with certain things but then my 2 year old takes everything apart if they color he takes them away or climbs on the table they are playing and makes a mess. I tell him NO and try to entertain him with other stuff but he just want to do what the older kids are doing too.

  • @Rdela-nj1td
    @Rdela-nj1td Před 2 lety +1

    You're amazing

  • @jeavelynandbabylannz1921
    @jeavelynandbabylannz1921 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi ,thank you for sharing this, since I found you in YT, I am following watching u here, because I want to learn how to teach my 2 year old and 4months baby boy, It's really hard to catch his attention every time I teach him😁😅But thank you for your great techniques .God bless
    #IamFromPhilippines😊

  • @Momma_Bee29
    @Momma_Bee29 Před 2 lety

    My 3 year old is constantly finding ways to upset my 5 year old. I am going to change some rules thank you!

  • @adventuresaz8168
    @adventuresaz8168 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank You! Mom of 4!
    Jaydy can you share about dyslexia?

  • @angelicas.6391
    @angelicas.6391 Před 2 lety +3

    Excellent video! Thank you for all these tips. It is hard work for us parents, but it is our duty to help guide and mold our children into who God created them to be and that is a reflection of Christ❤️

  • @claudiatiperciuc2591
    @claudiatiperciuc2591 Před 2 lety +1

    Dear Jady, have you been thinking about doing a video on playing scenarios?

  • @irinapopa6671
    @irinapopa6671 Před 2 lety

    Hello and thank you dor the video.
    Would you please be able to make a video on card games?

  • @farhanarahman6630
    @farhanarahman6630 Před 2 lety +1

    Thumbs up, dear

  • @nidhisoni2037
    @nidhisoni2037 Před 2 lety

    Nice 👍

  • @arwenrosalie3031
    @arwenrosalie3031 Před 2 lety

    Wow!!! “ This is another human being wanting to play” teaching empathy as well awesome. Jady, I have a question how many hours of play do your children get every single day? I am very bad at that due to a hectic schedule. And also a puppy German Shepherd that is at our back door waiting for my children to finish school and ready to play. I feel bad for my children and our dog sometimes we do not get much or any outdoor play.

  • @ChacieWhat
    @ChacieWhat Před 2 lety +2

    Would you share book suggestions?

  • @lopezkeila82
    @lopezkeila82 Před 29 dny

    Any other book recommendations for kids and parents to read together to encourage morals and values?

  • @yom12345
    @yom12345 Před 2 lety

    Do you have a video on example consequences you use?

  • @savera1971
    @savera1971 Před 2 lety

    I love to hear you n watch your videos.Can u tell me from which age is time put effective?Can we do it with 17 months old?

  • @zashworld97
    @zashworld97 Před 2 lety

    Oh dear just found ur channel and love it Can u plz help me my little one go school everyday crying so any tip or trick

  • @jamiek91up
    @jamiek91up Před 11 měsíci

    What is your consequence for snaching?

  • @20britneyspears
    @20britneyspears Před 2 lety

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jorgerodriguez-ku4fw
    @jorgerodriguez-ku4fw Před 2 lety

    Thought this was for adults

  • @ashleyirizarry-diaz6415

    What are your go to consequences?