Clinginess, Independent Play, Selfless Motherhood
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I wake up before my kids .. about an hour earlier than they wake up .. and i go to sleep after my kids and I truly feel that is enough time alone.. I homeschool my children .. i cant imagine sending them to school for six hours ..
Same here! I actually love being around my children. It's heartbreaking to know the mindset of alot of parents in regards to sending them to public school, is just so they can get an all day break from their children.
I been thinking about this a lot lately as it’s almost time to send my daughter off to school I don’t want her to be gone all day I think often like my little baby who is clueless about the world has to go to a strange environment all by herself w a bunch of strangers like it just doesn’t sit right w me but at the same time I know I’m not enough for my daughter she needs more stimulation she’s super smart and just loves school and learning always has and she loves making friends and I’m just not enough like I am not equipped to homeschool and she needs to have more socialization but I’m the complete ppposite of social and we don’t have the money for homeschooling ugh I’m in a frenzy about this topic idk what todo most likely I’ll send her to public school bcuz private school or anything like that is too expensive idk I think it will be the best thing for her she will love it and she will strive I just know it’s better than keeping her home all day I feel like I make them bored I have a little newborn I breastfeed on demand so that’s what makes it hard to fulfill her day if not everything would be a lot easier but I’m also more on the lazier side too tbh like I’m only barely working on getting up earlier and earlier
The other day I was at mamies (We are 4 siblings 2 years apart) and I was telling her how I look forward to being like her. She’s an empty nester now we are all grown and she always has her house neat, her self care is on point and she just has it all together. She told me “Mamita, every step in life is different. She told me to enjoy my messiness and my kids because with a blink of an eye they are grown and gone it gets to quiet” when she told me that it opened my eyes. She misses our noise and our messiness lol I gave her a big hug. Time does go by fast. We need to enjoy every moment the good and the not so good. Sometimes motherhood is sooo frustrating. But it will get easy.
Gosh Jady, you make me always self reflect in a spiritually positive way. Thank you so much. I have watched you for 4 years and you have made such a powerful impact on my motherhood. Blessings
Same here, Jady is an amazing mother and a great role model ❤
Same here! She’s a powerful yet gentle woman of God. Such an inspiration ❤️
She is good mom
Jady, do you realize how much I appreciate you! ❤️
I'm African married to African American, I can tell you I have never heard women complaining about motherhood as much as I have heard in America. Also, I put my second and third child in my back when they were smaller. It is the most comforting place a crying baby can be on top of it, the mother has free hands.
I homeschool three children each day even though we don’t have nap anymore we have at least one hour of what we called quiet time. No matter whether I sleep or not or if I’m having a rough day I can look forward to that and it helps me push through. But you’re very very right about not seeking comfort because the more moments you have the more you’re gonna want and we do need to be serving our children during this precious time. Thank you so much
Such a good message! I come from a broken home and the Lord is teaching me how to be a Godly mother with a Christ-centered home. We need deep prayer in the morning in God's presence to fill our own cup, bear fruit and not react out of the flesh as we walk in the Spirit. We can rely on God's strength through the Holy Spirit to help us. We are always being refined as we walk in sanctification and have Christ formed in us! Pray specifically about struggles and He is faithful!
It’s so weird every time I’m struggling to find peace with something in my spirit you hit the topic right on. Thank you for being obedient to the Holly spirit guiding you to reach certain topics ❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
I just want to say all the kids that will benift from your advice indirectly, will thank you forever. You are changing a lot of mother's mindset to be the best that we can be to our babies.
I am from Ethiopia/ east Africa. When I moved to Australia to say that I was shocked how different parenting is would be an under statement.
Many thanks for all you do. Very much appreciated.
I wish I could have watched this while pregnant with my first. It prepares you far more than any book I ever read or was recommended for parenting preparation. Beautifully done Jady!
You are Holy Spirit filled. I really struggled the first 4 years of my 1st child’s life until God revealed this beautiful amazing simple yet refreshing wisdom. It was like the missing puzzle pieces from my life. I’m now realizing how we as humans complicate our own lives. God made us fearfully and wonderfully. Perfect in all his ways. Motherhood is such a blessing! Praise God 🙌🏼
💕🥰 Thank you so much for this message. I remember finding your channel when I was a stay at home mom with one child and you inspired me to want to homeschool. My husband passed away and I have to work now but I still watch your videos because even though I can’t do all that you do, you still inspire me and make me aware of challenges my kids may face. I absolutely love your parenting advice and educational videos. God bless you and your family 🥰 Thank you so much!
So sorry to hear about your husband 💔
@@kiarataylor8380 😔 thank you💜
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband 😔
I hope you’re doing well.
@@Muslimah393 ❤️❤️❤️ thank you
Your words are so comforting and inspirational. This video is going to be on repeat for me for a while because sometimes a kind reminder like this is all I need to appreciate the joys of being a mother and I love love love how you described it as a “season”. And seasons are short 🥺
Wonderfully Explained.
Your video made me cry it touched me so much the way you described children being a part of our lives rather than "what do we do with our children". So often they are treated as an inconvenience in society. I am home schooling my first year, my 6 year old. I have a crazy 2 year old with alot for emotions and tantrums and I am 38 weeks pregnant going through a difficult pregnancy with health problems. It has been such a hard year and sometimes I wish to give up. But it truly is such a short amount of time they have in childhood. Thank you Jady ❤️
Great -motherhood is a short period that every mother should enjoy experiencing to its fullest!
Thank you, Jady!
Thank you Jady🙂 it's always good to be reminded every day of why God chose us & trusted us to be their parents ❤
As a stay at home dad, I needed to hear this. Thank you. Keep putting out this great content. 👍
I remember my firstborn didn’t know what to do with his Thomas trains. He was sooo little. I pretended to talk and act out scenes from the shows. It helped him to realize HOW to play. He was so happy that I took time with him. My second born was very creative and she loved baby dolls. She even would “nurse” her baby dolls. So cute!!!!
I love you 😍 thank you ,you don't know how I was need these powerful words 😭 touched my heart makes me tearing🎀thank you Jady
I needed to hear this! I think I got caught up with selfishness.. just to hear you say it’s a season to serve your kids! Thank you! I needed to hear that!
I'm a first time Mom and stay at home Mom. I started to feel discontent being home this week but your words reminded me of why I wanted and am blessed to be home with him. He's almost 2 and a half and it's difficult for me to know what his needs are when he's fussy. I'll be more intentional with figuring it out rather than thinking he needs to go play in order for me to be "comfortable". I really feel convicted and glad I watched this video. I will embrace what comes with motherhood in this season.
Been watching you since Jade was 4 years old and u have become apart of my family. I AM a better mother because of your guidance and I know there are thousands of children who have benefited from all your love. I will always support and share your videos because THIS is what should be mainstream in the world. Yah bless 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I LOVE everything in this video! I needed to hear this, I’m still learning 🙌🏾
Thank you Jady. What a powerful and beautiful message that I wish EVERY mom could hear. This video was an answer to a prayer and a conversation my husband and I were having an hour or so before I saw your video. It can be easy to loose sight of the truth in this world with its ways. Thank you for shedding light on what really matters and for re-reminding me of why I started homeschooling and my goal as a mother. Peace and grace.
Never thought that being a Mother is actually about serving my children. Thank you for this beautiful message to embrace the season I'm in.
This video really resonated with me, as I have many of the same thoughts and ideas. I'm often made to feel as though I'm strange for enjoying being around my children most of the time, which makes me sad. Motherhood isn't always easy, but that's okay and part of life. I love simply living life with my children. I began watching your channel when my eldest was a baby and I was looking for sensory/Montessori activities (over 5 years ago), and you have truly inspired my journey into motherhood so much, for which I'm very grateful. I always had this idea of homeschooling which I believe God put upon my heart, and your videos really gave me the confidence and belief that I could do it. Home educating is such a blessing to our family, as we live a connected and slow life together. I don't often admire people I don't know in real life, but I admire you very much.
Jady thank you for inspiring me. I am a single mother and it's overwhelming to raise a child all alone without help
I love your videos, Jady! Thank you!
I find it so hard sometimes with my 15 month old twins. I wish I had more physical strength and more energy to hold them longer and keep up with them at this age. Sometimes I just feel so tired. But I don’t wish away any time in this precious season of my life because I know that it will not last forever and I will miss them being this young. Your videos always help me regain some strength, even when they are taking turns waking up at night. Haha! Thanks Jady!
You blessed me when you said that you don't seek comfort but that you are there to serve and love your children. You helped me in a huge way. Thank you! God bless you.
i agree so much! i home school my 2 kids 6 &10, we are 24 hours together! i sleep with both from day 1.
everything we do is in the Livingroom so we interact with each other all day. i never feel that i need a ME time i cherish every min i spent with them and i always try to better myself for them.
i must say, you are my fav mother! i share your videos with any mother i knew, i believe we all always have much to learn and improve.
This video was right on time for me! This connection is so important but sometimes it gets lost behind feeling overwhelmed or getting distracted by a ton of other things that are just not important! What a great reminder! Thanks Jady! ❤️
this is beautiful. i’m a first generation american my parents are from nicaragua and they have the same mentality you do. i’m so thankful i was raised that way because it’s how i am raising mine. i would always get comments from my husbands american family about how i cosleep and baby wear too much. him and i loved it though . i even baby wear my chihuahua sometimes 😂
I love that u are speaking about that.yes people feel that my child is too attached to me it's like it bothers them that I don't mind. He will grow out of it , they dont see that those are stages of a healthy child.
In experiencing the same... I have only one daughter, she's 3 now and still not comfortable around people. Often times she doesn't want to play/stay/hug her grandparents or cousins... I'm ok with it. It's so sweet seeing that she relays on my so much.. it means that I'm her self place. I love it.
Jady CZcams channel is like an answered prayer🙂
Thank you, Jady. Tearing up big time about the idea of an empty nest someday. 😭 This perspective is so beautiful and selfless. You are a true woman of Christ 🙏
filling up their cups is a must! totally agree. :)
Gunna need to put this video on my "watch every day" list. ❤️
Me too ! When I am to angry or exhausted !!
Your such a inspiration beautiful motherhood described so well. Thank u!!! I always remind myself I won't miss the mess when they leave the nest but I will miss the time I spent with loving them best!
You made me so good about myself. I’m a stay at home and my 2 year old is always with me. He is like my shadow.
This made me cry. This is how I feel about motherhood and and my children. I just wish some people in my life could also see it this way.
You are such a godly example. This talk really helped me to understand how you structure your day with 5 children once formal schooling is done. I always wondered about what the toddlers were up to after shelfwork or if they were clingy. My 29 month old can only do 10 minutes of his learning binder, then he's off to exploring the house or checking to see what I'm doing. I invite him to help me with chores, but when I'm overwhelmed, I don't want his involvement since it usually entails a messier outcome or a longer completion time.
This is such a benefit to me. I am a first time full time stay at home mom. I am trying to figure out how to best love her in my life. My husband just told me that we can include her in our day instead of balancing two separate lives. Thank you for your encouraging words! ❤️
I appreciate this so much. It is totally against our culture to think and live this way but totally what God wants. Thank you so much Jady A. for making these videos. For seeking to be an inspiration. You definitely are. I cant get enough of your videos. They have been so so helpful to me. What a blessing! Thank you thank you!
Omg I needed to hear that , thank you Judy love u so much, I’ve been following you for almost 5 years. Sometimes I forget to enjoy this season and cherish every moment
Thank you so much for sharing this. Your words always touch me so deeply and are so comforting and validating to how I feel. You are so right about these times being a season. They’ll only with us for a short while. Gosh I don’t know what I’ll do when they’re gone. I don’t even wanna think about it right now. Just enjoy these moments while I can
I have 2 daughters and I have changed a lot by seeing your videos thank you god bless you
I really needed that as a first time parent and now I know more about what I need to do to help my child. Thank you so much!
You are so right about other societies. I grew up going back and forth to Italy as my family is from there. Children are treated so differently there. Going out at night to restaurants, they are full of children of all ages!! People don’t leave them home with a babysitter to get away from them. Strangers catered to my kids, wanted them to be more comfortable, I even had a waitress turn off an AC in her ice cream shop, she was nervous it was too cold for my one year old! This was beautiful I love to hear this wonderful point of view on motherhood. Embrace it all💕
After a very early morning with a toddler that didn't want to sleep, I needed this video! Thank you for making me remember to slow down. I have to remember our little ones are only little for a short time, and not to get frustrated. It's not always easy but its always worth it!!❤ Thank you Jady ! God bless!!
Thank you, Jady. Abundant blessings to you and your lovely family always! 💕
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom to us! This definitely inspired me to see this new season in my life in a more positive light. I love my baby boy so much and I have always been understanding of his clinginess, but in the back of my mind I hear a voice telling me I am doing something wrong for holding him all the time, etc. It’s what’s been ingrained to us in our culture here in America. I did mourn my old self, that’s natural too, but I’ve mourned for long enough and now I want to fully embrace this new season for all that it is and your words have helped me! Thank you!
I just love your energy and positivity. It gives me so much knowledge, tips and tricks to teach my kids in a better way. I always find my time to watch your videos. Can you believe that I woke up so early and couldn't go to sleep and look am watching this video at 4am with my 2 toddlers sleeping right besides me. I find myself ways to watch your videos and get that positive vibes. You are amazing and bless your beautiful families.
Thank you for this wonderful reminder Jady! Sometimes it is easy to forget when we feel frustrated or overwhelmed that our children are this small or this age for a very little time. I have a 4 year old and a 9 month old. My 4 year old is not so clingy anymore, but does still want mama to play with him much of the time. I do find it easier when every morning he comes into my room and I immediately hug him and ask/ tell him “good morning mi amor how was your sleep? / te amo mucho!”. After this, his daily routine seems to run much more smoothly as he becomes more active and independent. I am also a firm believer in enjoying every bits of happiness and messiness because time does fly! Thank you again for sharing! God bless you and your family!
Yes i love it! I really need to hear this♥️ I was chosen to be the mother to my babies... Me... And I put too much weight on what I hear around me about it's important to put yourself first. When my season now is to serve not for comfort.
I really needed this Thank you so much!
Jady, thank you so much for sharing this. I’m so grateful that I’m not alone in my position..
Rich God’s blessings! 🙏
This gave me so much peace , it helped me understand my 2 yr Olds clingyness. Thank you so much ❤
Your videos always make me think and grow in great ways.
Loved totally what you said jady.... And that word it's baby season absolutely true... Love to see more and more of your video...
As a mother of 2 clingy children and a nursing 10mo, it gets overwhelming sometimes. I definitely needed to hear this. ❤️❤️❤️
As-Salaamu Alaikum sis!!
@@powerfulmuslimah Walaikum Asalaam wa Rahmantullilahi wa Barakatuhu ❤️
I loved this video. I think it is the perfect video with Mother's day coming up. ❤
Such a beautiful perspective. Thanks for sharing.
This video is so full of wisdom 🙏 thank you for the reminder that this is a short season 🥲
What a beautiful message...so much of wisdom..thank you ..
Thank you Jady! This is so warm and lovely
Your amazing!!! I love how you explain things so understanding and clear . I like your voice as-well, so calming
I always come away learning so so much from your videos. I have watched you and your content for so long. Thank you for all you do. We appreciate you so very much. Much love ❤️
Jady you have such a positive outlook I love to listen to your videos thanks so much for sharing this.
Beautiful words, i firmly believe in what you said but today I needed to hear it from someone else. This video comes in the most precious time for me! Thank you
👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽 People have always ask me how do/did I do it. I agree with everything you said. I’ve have had conversations with others saying, they would love to have the relationship that I have with my children. If you are putting them to the side, or say children must be seen and not heard. Then there’s less hope having this great bond/relationship as they get older. My daughter is 40, and my son passed last july. We are a very-very close family. Now I have grandchildren, who’s bond is just as great. As it has been said, childhood is very short. So let us embrace it to its fullness. It only take a moment to see and hear what they want, then you can continue with whatever you were doing. Furthermore, incorporate (if it is fusible), then into what ever you are doing. Thanks so much Jady on your thoughts of clinginess/motherhood. It is just our thoughts/way. Everyone has their own way of doing everything. Much love to you all❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🌼
Thank you so much for refreshing my purpose during this season. I knew this, but got away from it by heading other mothers complaining and gripping about motherhood.
Thank you Jady… I didn’t realise my 6 year old nephew needed more filling up of his cup as he is staying with me now….thanks for inspiring a correction of my behaviour
Thank you Jady this is what i wanted to hear. This is who i want to be.
This is a wonderful video and exactly what should happen in every house.
Absolutely inspiring Jady!
wow this is a very insightful and beautiful view of parenting - really love your approach and it shows how much you love being a mum
Hello Elizabeth
Thank you Jady! I purchased your books, they arrived about two weeks ago, and I use them with my theee year old every day now. Your new phonics book is amazing. I wish I could join your tribe but I can’t afford it, so I really thank you for continuing to post videos via this platform. May God continue to bless you above and beyond in Jesus Christ’s name amen 🙏! Thank you for all you have done and continue to do. It means so much to many of us.
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I totally agree with everything you just said! I love your view of life
This is such a beautifully pure vision for motherhood. Thank you Thank you for your passion. I hope to also spread the love for motherhood like you 😊
Thank you. I appreciate you, so much. Thank you for allowing God to use you in this way 💜
This is precious. Thank you
Brilliant thanks for this assurance. Yes we have our kids for a season let's treasure it. Often people keep suggesting to send my kids to nursery/kindergarten to play with other kids, my kids do play with other kids, the difference is, is that I'm there.
Oh my goodness. 💜 Thank you.
It was a reminding video for me, dear Jady! Thanks a lot!
Beautifully said.
You are really a blessing... Thank you for all the efforts you are taking
Quanta sabedoria e delicadeza. Obgda, Jady. Deus a abençoe.
Love is in the air🎉😍 There is love in every word you uttered sister 😍
Thank you for this Jady. Your an angel 😇
you are such a blessing
All appreciation for you and thank you for sharing your value experience 🌹
Hello thanaa
Thanks so much, ma'am.
Such a beautiful message 💗😊
Thanks Jady...outo 👍
Many things I learnt. Motherhood is everything. Warm reagards and stay bless for everyone
Thank you jady
I'm homeschooling my 5 yr old son and my baby daughter is 1. We recently pulled out our son from a learning center after 3 days of attendance because he would act up every time we would drop him off...after that he would aclimate but he wouldn't interact with other kids. We wanted to help him to socialize with other kids and get him ready for 1st grade but the response of the people at the learning center made me see their only interest is $$$. I know my son can be a handful, the separation anxiety got him he started kicking and screaming. This made me realize why am I doing this to my son? I'm planning to make our own field trips for this summer, we are going to the library today for example and making changes to our homeschool schedule. I won't give up but sometimes I feel defeated...God plz guide me 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Wow this means allot!!!
Thank you Thank you❤️
You're wonderful! 🥰
Thank you so much. This is educative. 🥰
Thank you so much for this