Why You Believe Your Negative Thoughts

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  • čas přidán 5. 08. 2024
  • Lets see why is it that you believe negative thoughts while you know they are not credible and irrelevant to you.
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Komentáře • 34

  • @daveclifford7895
    @daveclifford7895 Před 2 měsíci

    Great explanation ! Thanks Mehran 🙏

  • @blaze_dynamo
    @blaze_dynamo Před měsícem

    Golden channel.

  • @civic_spokes07
    @civic_spokes07 Před 3 měsíci

    Hey , Man 👋🏻 it's been 2 year since i last watched u. I've come a long way , Allah helped me a lot. that OCD wasn't even that bad i think we just took it so serious it never leaves , we just learn how to deal with it. Thank you

  • @kaputtesTomTom
    @kaputtesTomTom Před 3 měsíci

    Very helpful, thank you! 🙏

  • @ohgiem
    @ohgiem Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you master, is this a new camera? Looks amazing

  • @matselva7001
    @matselva7001 Před 3 měsíci

    Star Wars theory's dad!

  • @Penguin472
    @Penguin472 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Mehran sir my hocd is coming and going. My mind keeps telling me to do research like "search this search that" and it doesnt stop bugging me i feel anxious, i end up giving up to search it to get reassurance. I REALLY HATE IT! What do i do?! How can I ignore what my mind tells me to force me to do something I don't even want to?!😭😭😭

  • @user-zl2pz5zh7d
    @user-zl2pz5zh7d Před 3 měsíci

    Hey mehran sir ,
    Please answer my question ! Your videos have been soo helpful
    ive been having hocd for the past 2 months ! Everything that you say is exactly how i feel ! But when i looked up for difference between hocd and denial i found both of them relatable , googling things made my hocd hard , i just did it for my temporary peace ! Im a female , i always found the female body interestin since small age ,whenever i see some cleavage id just look at it , not stare but id not hesitate to look! men attract me ! In my teenage id cry for male attention but i never had the interest in their private parts i only look at personality , voice and looks ! But i read i a google post " denial: i remember going back to the old channel to see attractive male body(im gay) " ever since seeing that yesterday night i couldnt sleep ! Is this denial? But i was always disgusted by homosexual people but now pictures and thougts appear and feel soo real ! Im scared to comment this thinking youll say i am a lesbian and im in denial ! But i want you to be honest ! I never have been sexually and emotional in love w a female , but after hocd im viewing motherly love , sisterly love , friendship wrongly and thinking im gay!

    • @Karim_55885
      @Karim_55885 Před 3 měsíci +1

      That is 100% Hocd. You don't need to be afraid, the thought of being a lesbian scares you and you try everything in your power to get rid of it and whenever that thought comes you can't think of anything except that and images come to mind. That's not the case with homosexual people. Firstly, they don't feel bothered by the thought of coming out and if they even deny it, it's not like an obsessive compulsive disorder that makes them look for videos on the internet about thoughts they don't want to or become so afraid of these thoughts. And as for the intimate area, as a boy I can tell you that a straight man is not a man in the world who necessarily celebrates a woman's intimate area but rather other characteristics like character or other body parts. That is Hocd and if you respond to it it will always give you a new trigger thought. Believe me, Hocd is crap but everyone, really everyone who has it or had it ends up continuing their heterosexual relationship anyway, so don't search on the internet.

    • @user-zl2pz5zh7d
      @user-zl2pz5zh7d Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@Karim_55885thank you soo much! This really means allot!
      But when you said its about a person's charecter now my brain says you love girls charecter tooo.. my brain keeps making new thoughts but I don't know how to get rid of this

  • @user-zl2pz5zh7d
    @user-zl2pz5zh7d Před 3 měsíci

    Hey sir , ive been suffering from hocd for past two months , yoqur qvideos have been really helpful
    please answer my question
    I read somewhere that if im in denial i will enjoy these thoughts and suddenly I feel its intentional and that I enjoy it , I started getting controlled and not letting this affect my whole day , but now im scared these thoughts dont give me anxiety like before so i am gay or bi , I always used to make scenarios with a guy to help me go to sleep I've always wanted that warmth from a guy but now my hocd isn't letting me sleep , I'm scared if I am gay ,!

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Stop reading every shit that you find, they don't know what they are talking about and are talking about their own interpretation or case. Get an appointment for us to talk one on one on Skype if you like www.mindthatseekstruth.com

    • @user-zl2pz5zh7d
      @user-zl2pz5zh7d Před 3 měsíci

      @MehranDadbeh thank you sir , I really want to join your live stream but my parents won't be supportive , they think im just spoiled ! I'll try convincing them

  • @liamedmonds5763
    @liamedmonds5763 Před 2 měsíci

    Hi merhen my hocd mind keeps saying I like my friend hopefully you get this

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 2 měsíci +1

      As you said your HOCD brain says...... So what does it have to do with you? its just so happens that the screen of your head is being used by the HOCD glitch to broadcast what it spits out but does not mean that what the screen projects is your beliefs, preferences or choices. Separate brain from you, thoughts from you and then you understand that there is a malfunction in the brain and you being above and separate from the brain ( you are not the brain, brain is not you) help the brain to get back, rewire it and back to its default setting.

    • @liamedmonds5763
      @liamedmonds5763 Před měsícem

      Sorry for the late reply but I constantly get thoughts that I want to give bj and it's very annoying

    • @liamedmonds5763
      @liamedmonds5763 Před měsícem

      Sorry for the late reply but I keep getting thoughts of giving a bj

    • @liamedmonds5763
      @liamedmonds5763 Před měsícem

      I keep getting thoughts of giving a bj

    • @liamedmonds5763
      @liamedmonds5763 Před měsícem

      Sorry for the late reply I keep getting giving bj and it's very annoying

  • @user-zl2pz5zh7d
    @user-zl2pz5zh7d Před 3 měsíci

    Hey sir , 15 female
    I've been suffering with hocd for the past 2 months
    Can someone get hocd without getting ocd before ?
    Idk if I have gotten ocd before and now tht everyone says people would hocd wld have had ocd already im scared i might be I denial!
    I can't even touch myself thinking ill enjoy touching same gender , this has been killing me ! I get this burning feeling in my chest and head when I think about this . I've always been insecure of myself, I've always thought any guy is too good for me , I'm a bit tall than other girls soo I alwayss feel like the guy in a group! All this is Killin me , if I let my hocd thoughts go away my brain says OOHH SO YOU ARE FINE WITHH BEING GAY! Please help me ! Am i in denial?

    • @Karim_55885
      @Karim_55885 Před 3 měsíci +1

      That is also 100% Hocd. You have to understand something because someone can tell you what they want. If you are afraid of these thoughts and do everything in your power to make them go away, it is not denial but an obsessive-compulsive disorder. Because you are struggling with it and are happy with your real sexuality, i.e. heterosexuality, and you always like to live it out, it is only these Hocd thoughts that bother you. Denial is fear that other people will find out, but the thoughts do not bother you, they make you happy. Your compulsion will probably tell you straight away, but maybe the thoughts will make me happy, etc. But then you will get scared again and become hopeless and that is exactly what an obsessive-compulsive disorder is. Carry on with your life, nothing will happen to you. You do not have to have had any other obsessive-compulsive disorder before and you do not have to be diagnosed with one. You know your values and you decide which life you want to live. Not your thoughts.

    • @user-zl2pz5zh7d
      @user-zl2pz5zh7d Před 3 měsíci

      @Bilal61315 reading this gave me a peace of mind without reassurance ! Thank you sooo much

    • @Karim_55885
      @Karim_55885 Před 3 měsíci

      @@user-zl2pz5zh7d Look, when I first suffered from Hocd I was about 16 and now I'm 23. At your age I didn't even dare to look it up on the internet. I never knew what I had, I just knew the thoughts were tormenting me. I'll give you a tip for the next few years. DON'T GOOGLE. Don't dwell on the thoughts and don't watch any more videos. Accept the insecurity, not the content of the thoughts, but accept that such thoughts can come, that it's normal and no matter what your compulsion tells you, it will only stop if you ignore it for a long time and carry on with your daily routine as before. I was and will always remain heterosexual like everyone else who suffers from Hocd, so don't worry, don't read forums because some people don't suffer from it at all and want to force an identity crisis on people. Believe me, resolve from now on not to dwell on it anymore and I know how difficult that can be for some people, but no matter, it's just the emotions you give to these thoughts that turn them into monsters. May God help everyone.

    • @Sas-j7t
      @Sas-j7t Před 3 měsíci

      Hello I’m problem of hocd
      My question is
      When I meet any random male sometime my mind force me to attract and kiss him and make love
      And it’s feel so strong and almost real ?
      2 question is
      When I feel emotion Mercy to any male my mind and my emotion say I want to attract him kiss him or make love him and I feel attraction and all this etc etc etc
      And I feel like I really want this thought and emotions
      And all this it feel so dam real
      In short can hocd cause this ?

    • @user-zl2pz5zh7d
      @user-zl2pz5zh7d Před 3 měsíci

      @@Sas-j7t in total hocd will make you feel like you wanna do all his !
      People who have hocd never are sure that these thoughts are just intrusive

  • @irmantastthg3812
    @irmantastthg3812 Před 3 měsíci

    Ačiū!

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Unfortunately I do not understand this word! 😀

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 3 měsíci +2

      Oh I think it means “thank you” in Lithuanian, right? 😊☕️🙏

    • @irmantastthg3812
      @irmantastthg3812 Před 3 měsíci

      Yes😊