After marriage Bhai , behen rishteydar ban jatey hai , woh bhi kisi ke kaam ke nahi hote, woh bhi jalne aur competition karne lagte hai, trust yourself only
It is true that once school life ends, you can't find true friends. But family relations are also over-rated. Majority of abuse and cheating is done by parents, siblings and relatives, NOT friends. Also the property disputes, domestic violence, child sexual abuse, dowry happens because of family relations.
So called school true friends also betray us when we face downfall or start prosperous in academics,financially, girls bhi main reasons hoti hai. Options are always available there for them
@@ArreSidu i had one childhood friend who lived in my street,we both gone same school nursery to 5th class & 2nd school 6th to 10th class those days i spend best time ever,kai our dost bhi Bane per jab academically+ financially may down hota gya toh usne bhi chod diya, 2nd friend was with me just because he didn't own had any identity he was using my name or live with me because i was nice guy many teachers & girls knew me, i was very good in science, SST, English, drawing just because of math fobiya i feel insecure it seems like i don't know anything in math,that silently killing me inside i change tution, but I don't know what happened with me and i downfall 👎 other subjects academically, they have car cycle bike, i used to go 2km by walk for tution math, English that time my so called true friends backside me and laugh at myself,start bulling me Now they are nothing I
Bitter but 100 % Friendship is really over rated relationship and reason for suffering and Kalesh in personal relationship.This is an eye opener episode. Thank you so much Sir
Sir ur 1000% correct my husband spent all his life outside home going on with friends and giving them first preference and use to spend hours ,on working days and all his awaking hr on holidays ,never use to help in the house thoughI was a working women, now he is 67 I and the children don’t have any love or respect for him. The day he is bedridden he will be lying down there looking up the walls
Most of these friends who is take up spouse's time irrationally are the ones who themselves also have a bad married life... Don't know how many will agree but just my observation..
I agree but I have experienced my friends giving me strength when I was. Very down. My whole office took care of me when I was pregnant, even bringing food because I couldn't cook as I was puking with every smell. And my mother in law forget it.
On one side you are right that friends are just like time pass or time waste and never give us true happiness. Family is priority. But on the other side, truth is after marriage family equations get change Man is sandwiched between mother and wife and dont talk or communicate with his wife because of his parent's insecurity. Ladies makes their own kitty friends because there is no value of her at home and treated like a maid specially housewives. no one is their to listen them at home . Parents will either interfere because they have no work so either they will judge or interfere in home or they have to make their own social group. So friends are also important to keep peace at home. But as you said we should choose friends wisely and not like who ruin our relationships but work as a mentor and create more happiness and peace in our life and also they should be very minimum. Also we should not run away from our family's responsibility.
Friendship is over-rated is probably an accurate statement. But friends also show their value in taking someone to the hospital or bringing someone from the station in one's absence. Such help is done without any financial expectation. The video is an eye-opener in the sense that we should be watchful of people who are agreeing to everything that we are saying. They can be a so called friend or a cunning family member.
Sir, you are a gem. You should have started to create such a Video long before... 🙂 but anyways ...just want to tell .... you are doing true service to Society .. Thankyou so much!
Absolutely correct right from the word go...as wife/husband, and Father will make you realise ground reality hence you keep them away and go into an imaginary world with friends....
Very well said. Very few people are true friends who stand by you in difficult times. Also there are always selfish interests of many people… so one must be wise making friends…
Pehle toh aap female frndship pe statement na de toh behtar hoga rahi baat male frndship ki toh mera bada bhai 4th year iitian h usne apne saare frnds ko sideline krdiye apne mental peace ke liye. Male frnds just talk rubbish about opposite gender teach other member smoking and drinking which is why he distanced himself. Uppar se male frndship is all about money udhar lelete h aur waps tk nhi krte ye bolke bhai se bhi koi paise Mangta h yaar. Jis wajah se mere bhai ne papa se maar khaya tha and decided to distance himself and work hard to get a job with good package. And he already had a very good package job offer and all his frnds are jealous. Rahi baat female frndship toh woh log ladke bazi nhi sikhati na hi smoking drinking. Aur rahi baat paiso ki ladkiya equal contribution krti h ye nhi ki 4 logo ka bill ek ne bhara.
Friends are important in school and college to hang out with and have fun, go to movies, eat out etc. It's a phase. They are helpful to fill space when one is single. Once you are married priorities do change and family, spouse especially kids take over. And that is a good thing. To prioritize friendships over family is not practical and I agree with Sir 100%.
absolutely right sir…when one of the spouse starts giving more time to their friends…the other one initially feels neglected…and with time learns to live without them….this creates uneasiness and tension in their relationship…sad part is that people don’t realise where they are going wrong…
Sir I respectfully Disagree, Dost vaise hone chahiye jo apko apki galat harkato pe call out kare, time to time apka support kare. There are limitations to every relationships, kuch baate spouse ke saath nahi ho sakti you have to agree on that. instead of calling people to not be interested in friends, teach them to find better friends. Not having friends puts pressure on your spouse to fill a friends role, which is frankly impossible. Teach people a template on how to find better friends because there is one. friends that put you down when you succeed and even worse friends that downplay your loss or pain, get away from them. Don't surround yourself around yes men and have people that can call you out on your BS. Not all friends are bad. Some of my fathers friends treated us better than our own family.
Yes I agree with you.. For instance in this video he has given example of friend forcing you to drink.. How can you call sick a friend your real friend?
Kuch frnds acche hote hai .. they open our eyes and pyar se samjate hai One of my frnd used to smoke .. I didn’t like it and uska adat break kar di because I cared ..
Y true h mere ghar m y hi chl ra h m bol bi na sakti chup rhne ka order h khaya karusuch sun na sakta / sakti under man Mar k batee hu y video bhej dungi pta n dekha h ya n prebhej di m t maa hu bhut badiya samjha kar Bola h apne thank you
Where will be without friends if our partner dies ? Or we get divorced? In later life friends are our mainstay. Now a days so many people are single in older age. How do we live if we don’t have a support system of friends. You are too tightly ensconced in family. Families don’t last forever. After the “empty nest” where do we find support?
Seems like you are already preparing for their death or divorce. Make friends then when the situation arises or the situation may arise. Most of the friends these days want you to do well, but not better than themselves.
Very amazing observations !😂 and still laughing at ur examples. Really liked d differences u stated between friend , business acquaintance , spouse , sibling and why everyones reaction is different to ur statements.. How much what matters to u matters to them , will matter what they will say about matters that will matter u most in ur life.🙏🙏😀💐 Great takeaway .. Teenagers should see thee videos so that they will be aved from trouble beforehand to certain extent.
आपके वीडियो साझा करने का मन नहीं करता, बल्कि दिल चाहता है कि इस ख़ज़ाने को किसी से न बांटा जाए। 😍 लेकिन अब कोई आपको रोक नहीं सकता। आप जल्द ही यूट्यूब पर नंबर 1 बनेंगे। 🥰
🎉🎉 No Word. Husband=Cheat Me 40 Yea's. Cold Life journey. But Enough🙏. I Accept🏆💪 Spiritual Life Way👍 Live with🛡️ Peace ful Life. U. S. Se Bat Nahin Karti Beti. Because I don't Want Send Her U. S. Thanks🙏 Sir.
There is a lot of jealousy in girls. If you do better, some girl friends will do everything to pull you down I experienced this first hand. Very disappointed, Sir is 100% right. It takes guts to make such a bold statement that friendship is over rated.
Sir, I sidelined everyone, my every friend from time to time just to give time to my other relatives But sometimes I feel lonely when they shy away from me
I partly agree ....partly I don't agree ...my friends were my support in my tough times .. I agree there are people who take shelter under the name of " dosti" ..but that doesn' t mean you demean the whole concept of dosti...I know who your "target audience " are ....but I'm sure I'm not one of them ....
After marriage Bhai , behen rishteydar ban jatey hai , woh bhi kisi ke kaam ke nahi hote, woh bhi jalne aur competition karne lagte hai, trust yourself only
Fact
Meko bhi ye kuch din phle hi smajh aaya
It is true that once school life ends, you can't find true friends.
But family relations are also over-rated. Majority of abuse and cheating is done by parents, siblings and relatives, NOT friends.
Also the property disputes, domestic violence, child sexual abuse, dowry happens because of family relations.
So called school true friends also betray us when we face downfall or start prosperous in academics,financially, girls bhi main reasons hoti hai. Options are always available there for them
@@freedom4813 you haven't find true friends.
@@ArreSidu i had one childhood friend who lived in my street,we both gone same school nursery to 5th class & 2nd school 6th to 10th class those days i spend best time ever,kai our dost bhi Bane per jab academically+ financially may down hota gya toh usne bhi chod diya, 2nd friend was with me just because he didn't own had any identity he was using my name or live with me because i was nice guy many teachers & girls knew me, i was very good in science, SST, English, drawing just because of math fobiya i feel insecure it seems like i don't know anything in math,that silently killing me inside i change tution, but I don't know what happened with me and i downfall 👎 other subjects academically, they have car cycle bike, i used to go 2km by walk for tution math, English that time my so called true friends backside me and laugh at myself,start bulling me
Now they are nothing
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Bitter but 100 % Friendship is really over rated relationship and reason for suffering and Kalesh in personal relationship.This is an eye opener episode. Thank you so much Sir
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Make a video on this scenario : where husband and wife both work from home and social interaction is very less.
Sir ur 1000% correct my husband spent all his life outside home going on with friends and giving them first preference and use to spend hours ,on working days and all his awaking hr on holidays ,never use to help in the house thoughI was a working women, now he is 67 I and the children don’t have any love or respect for him. The day he is bedridden he will be lying down there looking up the walls
True 🤣
Most of these friends who is take up spouse's time irrationally are the ones who themselves also have a bad married life...
Don't know how many will agree but just my observation..
Agreed keep genuine 4-5 friends is more than enough networking is not freunds .Family first 👍
I agree but I have experienced my friends giving me strength when I was. Very down. My whole office took care of me when I was pregnant, even bringing food because I couldn't cook as I was puking with every smell. And my mother in law forget it.
These are such difficult topics and you are covering them in such a humorous way.
Achieve great in life n 99.99% friends will get vanished in your life
Sacchi baat Guruji🙏🏻
Very true
Same concern I am facing in my home too
Thanks for picking this topic 🙏🙏
बहुत सही समझाते हो सर
भगवान आपको खुश रखे
शादी के बाद पति को दोस्त माना
ना तो दोस्त बना ना ही पति
गलत किया।पति ही मानना था,दोस्त नहीं।
Absolutely, 100 Percentage Guruji. Thanks🙏 God Bless You, Me And The Whole World🕯😊People Amen🙌⭐🎉...
On one side you are right that friends are just like time pass or time waste and never give us true happiness. Family is priority. But on the other side, truth is after marriage family equations get change Man is sandwiched between mother and wife and dont talk or communicate with his wife because of his parent's insecurity. Ladies makes their own kitty friends because there is no value of her at home and treated like a maid specially housewives. no one is their to listen them at home . Parents will either interfere because they have no work so either they will judge or interfere in home or they have to make their own social group. So friends are also important to keep peace at home. But as you said we should choose friends wisely and not like who ruin our relationships but work as a mentor and create more happiness and peace in our life and also they should be very minimum. Also we should not run away from our family's responsibility.
Friendship is over-rated is probably an accurate statement. But friends also show their value in taking someone to the hospital or bringing someone from the station in one's absence. Such help is done without any financial expectation. The video is an eye-opener in the sense that we should be watchful of people who are agreeing to everything that we are saying. They can be a so called friend or a cunning family member.
Super sir
What you are saying, I am following from long time.
You are a real mentor for all
Sir, you are a gem. You should have started to create such a Video long before... 🙂 but anyways ...just want to tell .... you are doing true service to Society .. Thankyou so much!
Absolutely correct right from the word go...as wife/husband, and Father will make you realise ground reality hence you keep them away and go into an imaginary world with friends....
Awesome topic sir..
Started agreeing on first sentence only
Very well said. Very few people are true friends who stand by you in difficult times. Also there are always selfish interests of many people… so one must be wise making friends…
There is lot of jeaolosy in female friendship...this is not a case with male friends..but yeah exceptions are there
Actually men don’t show but they too are jealous. It’s human nature .
Pehle toh aap female frndship pe statement na de toh behtar hoga rahi baat male frndship ki toh mera bada bhai 4th year iitian h usne apne saare frnds ko sideline krdiye apne mental peace ke liye.
Male frnds just talk rubbish about opposite gender teach other member smoking and drinking which is why he distanced himself.
Uppar se male frndship is all about money udhar lelete h aur waps tk nhi krte ye bolke bhai se bhi koi paise Mangta h yaar. Jis wajah se mere bhai ne papa se maar khaya tha and decided to distance himself and work hard to get a job with good package.
And he already had a very good package job offer and all his frnds are jealous.
Rahi baat female frndship toh woh log ladke bazi nhi sikhati na hi smoking drinking. Aur rahi baat paiso ki ladkiya equal contribution krti h ye nhi ki 4 logo ka bill ek ne bhara.
Sir, so true. U have been honest in ur expression. Thanks for being the guiding light. Warm Regards
Great Sir
Difficult topic, handled beautifully. Truly eye opener
Thanks and regards
Friends are important in school and college to hang out with and have fun, go to movies, eat out etc. It's a phase. They are helpful to fill space when one is single. Once you are married priorities do change and family, spouse especially kids take over. And that is a good thing. To prioritize friendships over family is not practical and I agree with Sir 100%.
Amazing and realistic picture, well done sir
One of the Best Channels on CZcams!
Bilkul sach kah rahe hai sir, maine apne ghar main hi sb dekha hai.
absolutely right sir…when one of the spouse starts giving more time to their friends…the other one initially feels neglected…and with time learns to live without them….this creates uneasiness and tension in their relationship…sad part is that people don’t realise where they are going wrong…
दिल की बात बेहूदा होती है... Punch line.
Jaago Mohan pyare....
I can’t believe how I could relate to this video so accurately…
Great Content with super cool messages. . Thanks so much
No one ever dared that to tell . Such a beautiful n logical analysis
सही कहा आपने.
जा रहा हूँ बीवी के साथ व्हिस्की की चुस्की लेने...
Most valuable topic..true fact of present scenario.facebook , Instagram Sab time le jate hai.. family ke liye kam hi time mil ta hai..
आपके दिल की बात बहुत बेहूदि है जी 🤣🤣🤣🤣 it's splitting me🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sir I respectfully Disagree,
Dost vaise hone chahiye jo apko apki galat harkato pe call out kare, time to time apka support kare.
There are limitations to every relationships, kuch baate spouse ke saath nahi ho sakti you have to agree on that. instead of calling people to not be interested in friends, teach them to find better friends.
Not having friends puts pressure on your spouse to fill a friends role, which is frankly impossible.
Teach people a template on how to find better friends because there is one.
friends that put you down when you succeed and even worse friends that downplay your loss or pain, get away from them. Don't surround yourself around yes men and have people that can call you out on your BS.
Not all friends are bad. Some of my fathers friends treated us better than our own family.
Yes I agree with you.. For instance in this video he has given example of friend forcing you to drink.. How can you call sick a friend your real friend?
Dost hoon zarir but family comes first
rare h ese dost .
Kuch frnds acche hote hai .. they open our eyes and pyar se samjate hai
One of my frnd used to smoke .. I didn’t like it and uska adat break kar di because I cared ..
Wow, I so respect you to bring out this topic.I so understand this playing out in real lives of people around me
Hats off ! You are a Blessing man !
Just love for this video…… i feel the same ab lga ki i m not wrong 😂 why can’t we change perspective❤️❤️
Huge respect sir
Thank u sir❤️🙏🏻😇💕
Networking ko dosti ka maukhauta mt pehnaao 😂😂😂 i loved it😍😍😍😍😍
True said bivi ki trha dost ko treat kr k daikho👍
Y true h mere ghar m y hi chl ra h m bol bi na sakti chup rhne ka order h khaya karusuch sun na sakta / sakti under man Mar k batee hu y video bhej dungi pta n dekha h ya n prebhej di m t maa hu bhut badiya samjha kar Bola h apne thank you
Where will be without friends if our partner dies ? Or we get divorced? In later life friends are our mainstay. Now a days so many people are single in older age. How do we live if we don’t have a support system of friends. You are too tightly ensconced in family. Families don’t last forever. After the “empty nest” where do we find support?
Move up in life and see how your friends disappear
Correct @@doncorleone3901
Seems like you are already preparing for their death or divorce. Make friends then when the situation arises or the situation may arise. Most of the friends these days want you to do well, but not better than themselves.
@@doncorleone3901I am upper class person and rich. But alone. What do I do?
Wise advice in humourous way.
This is really an eye opener. Liked your thought process from the bottom of my heart. You are doing an amazing work. Keep it up
You should make a video on fake friends and real friends now that you have spoiled this relationship
Very amazing observations !😂 and still laughing at ur examples.
Really liked d differences u stated between friend , business acquaintance , spouse , sibling and why everyones reaction is different to ur statements..
How much
what matters to u matters to them ,
will matter what they will say
about matters that will matter u most in ur life.🙏🙏😀💐
Great takeaway ..
Teenagers should see thee videos so that they will be aved from trouble beforehand to certain extent.
हां में हां मिलाओ और शांति से सामने वाली की सभी बात सुनो इसी का नाम दोस्ती है।
Wife is supposed to be a friend... But what happens when your spouse doesn't want to accompany your interests!!?
सत्य वचन गुरूजी ❤❤
Sab se badi point hai - dost ko aap ka family emotion dimag me nahi rakhna parta
Dil ki baat is one reason. Second one is "bahut purana pakka dost hai". All that Sango said also needs to be applied on old friendship boundation
Self...Work...friends...family... The wife comes last.
I agree with you sir
आपके वीडियो साझा करने का मन नहीं करता, बल्कि दिल चाहता है कि इस ख़ज़ाने को किसी से न बांटा जाए। 😍
लेकिन अब कोई आपको रोक नहीं सकता। आप जल्द ही यूट्यूब पर नंबर 1 बनेंगे। 🥰
निशब्द🙌🏻🙌🏻😊
Aapki yeh video abhi tak ki sabse badiya n sacha content hain
You are absolutely right sir an eye opener video
Sir aapne Jo husband wife ke permanent relationship vaat ki h.. actually isiliye husbands apni wives ko for granted lete h....
Sir i respect u for that.
Lord Krishna is our best friend 🙏
Very practical
Excellent and new and never heard thoughts
Superb! Exceptionally Good Content Sir. True Enlightenment.. 👍
Dil ki baat behudi...😂 very well said.
Family first great understanding spouse bht jaruri h otherwise life is hell till grave
Really appreciate 🙏
This is a wonderful video sir....
Amazing explanation ,
Great regards from dr Heera Lal dayma MBBS dausa raj 🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍
Strongly Agree with each word.
Very good analysis ❤️
Your topics are different and practical.
🎉🎉 No Word. Husband=Cheat Me 40 Yea's. Cold Life journey. But Enough🙏. I Accept🏆💪 Spiritual Life Way👍 Live with🛡️ Peace ful Life. U. S. Se Bat Nahin Karti Beti. Because I don't Want Send Her U. S. Thanks🙏 Sir.
Too good
Shat pratishat sateek aur sach
1000 percent correct sir
There is a lot of jealousy in girls. If you do better, some girl friends will do everything to pull you down
I experienced this first hand. Very disappointed, Sir is 100% right. It takes guts to make such a bold statement that friendship is over rated.
Sir, kisi situation ko past life karma aur kisi situation reaction expected he ya nahi ye kese differentiate kare ?
sar je jo batt kahi h door tak jaege blkul tek h ye bemari har jaghe fALL GEYI H
What a video sir ji !!!!👍
Superb Amitji👌👌
Aapne dosti me darar daal diya!! 😄😄😄😄😄
great video Sir.
9:37 "apke dil ki baat hi behudi hai Ji" 😂😂
Excellent
Very true
Yes, U. S. Rehne Vali Beti Love Her Dog more than Maa. Fault maine Rok ne Kaa Prayaas Kiya tha. No Content with Me. It's Ok, But Mein🙏 Sahi thi.
Sir, I sidelined everyone, my every friend from time to time just to give time to my other relatives
But sometimes I feel lonely when they shy away from me
Left my husband so he can spend the rest of his life with his friends and mummy
Amit ji, how can your husband be your best friend? You need good friends who give you correct advice and understand your perspective.
🙏
Great 👍👌
Awesome
Good Morning ji
I partly agree ....partly I don't agree ...my friends were my support in my tough times ..
I agree there are people who take shelter under the name of " dosti" ..but that doesn' t mean you demean the whole concept of dosti...I know who your "target audience " are ....but I'm sure I'm not one of them ....
Amazing
Very nice video