Men Aren’t Meant to Go At It Alone
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- čas přidán 30. 05. 2024
- In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 4 different reasons why every man needs men in his corner. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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4 Reasons why a man needs other men in his corner
1. You need a sounding board
2. You need some accountability
3. Look for opportunities from other men
4. Friendship and fellowship
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When I die, I will have to be cremated because I don't have enough friends to carry my casket! Lol😂
I’m a Lone Wolf I’m with someone who I can trust
You just inspired me to create a Men's Accountability group on FB. Thank you Brother!
I do better by myself. I would rather work alone. I go weeks without talking to anyone other than the guys I work with about work.
Maybe that's a good thing. But, maybe you're leaving value on the table.
Spot on. I believe with Tolkien that friendship (in particular men with other men) is what will save the world.
So hard to find the right bros to put in your corner as you get older and more removed from the social settings that facilitate these bonds and relationships...when you are trying to hold a fulltime job down,upgrade employment skills, be husband, new dad, look after your own physical health and fitness, be there for aging family, etc. The good potential bros are harder and harder to find. Alpha's often don't just compliment people's lives, and as you get older it really is harder to build these relationships as anything meaningful requires meaningful investment. The pursuit of our own priorities and purpose is what separates an alpha, and why it can be more of a challenge to bring the right mix of alpha bros together in the right way to serve our individual selves and society for the better. We can't always have it all in life.
Walking in the woods and looking at the gnarly branches along the way as seasons change grounds our focus to the steady growth and reach arounds to find processes supplied feels like a comforting salve and develop purposeful patterns to carry on together.
Man, this week's field notes hit differently! Keep leading from the front brothers - we are OOM!
You’re right it feels good to be around like minded ppl. Working on building my tribe
After I found God my "party friends" no longer showed up because of the changes I made in my life. I now have amazing, loyal male friends from my church. Many of us meet each week to discuss our lives and the word of God. It is indispensable for me and others to meet like this. I still spend most of my time alone, or with my family, but meeting with these men and bouncing ideas off of them and getting correction at times is priceless.
I cant find men with the same qualities and interests like mine. Plus, vast majority of men I know are on their own.
It is a pain. I am a follower of Christ, love to talk about the Word. Most of the men around me even Christian men can’t carry a conversation about Christ for more than 5 min.
Actually we are.
You make some great points. I'd never considered that before.
Nah I’d rather be depressed being alone vs painstakingly going through the effort of trying to find like minded individuals that aren’t acting mocho-man alpha or the complete opposite of guys just trying to bring you down to their level the moment you show signs of succeeding in life. Those perfect friend groups are only found during elementary school and you’re lucky if you stay connected in your adult life or from movies that make everything look perfect. Real world…very small amount of people find close connections that stay close.
Rough take.