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Bro love your videos would really appreciate if you could make more videos on isfp s though,feel like this type is not talked about as much as the other types.peace :)
That's a good point of vew on INTPs hahah
which type is the best at skateboarding, ... lying? most likely to get a tattoo? most likely to be misunderstood? most likely to brainstorm? most likely to win an argument? ... just some ideas thanks for the videos
I really liked that you put the roald dahl quote in the INFP part !! He’s my fav author !!
ISTJ 0:12
ESTJ 0:56
ESTP 1:46
ISTP 2:38
INFJ 3:24
ENFJ 4:11
ENTP 4:50
INTP 6:03
ISFJ 6:58
ESFJ 7:28
ENTJ 7:59
INTJ 8:43
Thanks :>
Thank you for the arrow
thanks for the arrow omg i got jumpscared that someone had my type in their list
That arrow. Feeling called out.
ENTP quote I quite like:
"Uncertainty is an uncomfortable position. But certainty is an absurd one."
-Voltaire
I love this, ENFP. It's kind of like peace isn't really peace, because peace implies stability, stagnance. Stagnance is a lack of change, and a lack of change is going to cause restlessness, conflict, and eventual violence. Peace=violence.
Peace in reality is a slight lack of peace.
@@dominoot2652 That reminds me of something I had a conversation about a while back. The synopsis is: "Out of order comes chaos, and out of chaos comes order". Not sure how much that statement stands true, but it can be an interesting thing to think about.
@@gotchathespider7850 sounds like something from that rick riordan series about egypt. Though that's almost definitely not where the sentiment originated, I think that was just part of the theming of those books.
Or maybe the legend of korra? Season 2 maybe?
@@dominoot2652 We were talking about Conformal Cyclic Cosmology, how it seems that inside a blackhole would have to be very orderly underthat pressure, but how under the CCC theory that out of that order would come the eventual start of a universe and the chaos of entropy, and there was a little talk of the quote "As above so below" discussing what we see at smaller scales as something of a microchosm of the order breeding chaos breeding order that you'd see under CCC.
Like I said, not really too sure how true the statement is, but it can be an interesting thing to think about.
@@gotchathespider7850 so, you’re saying that black holes are a paradox, because for them to exist, they need to be very structured, but with the immense power of a black hole, that’s unlikely to stay that way. So it’s a case to look at the chaos-order loop?
As an INFP, Imagine my shock when the first INFP motto on screen is exactly what I wrote on my dorm wall in my first year in medschool. 🤯
ENTP here and yeah, the number of times I've embarrassed myself it's HUGE but that's ok I think I'm funny too
Yepp. It's like "I failed. Ooooh, noooo! Big deal! Hahaha... Okay, what's next?"
I mean, it does hurt to fail, but it's on us how long we dwell on it and how much we allow it to weigh us down. (That excludes anything to do with depression or deep rooted anxieties and stuff, of course. There's no shame in neeeing help!)
What weirds me out to no end is how sometimes others seem to be unable to accept how easily we can just accept failure or embarrassment and move on. They then make a bigger deal out of it, then we do and think we must be arrogant or emotionless for it, when we're just okay with the consequences of our actions. At least that's what I see in healthy, developed ENTPs.
But be honest. You had to learn how to do that. That isn’t a tool that comes with the set.
@@richsackett3423 I think it's more like we can't not try, we're super curious after all. And thus we fail a lot and embarrassment just loses it's horror somewhere on the way. We didn't die, the world didn't end, most people have forgotten about it as soon as they stopped looking at us. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@julyol119 I agree !! I also think we don't care about the embarrassment that much because eventually it gets easier to realize that people probably won't remember it in the future, just like us. We don't remember all the times someone did something embarrassing in front of us in the past or we just don't mind anymore, right?
The same goes for them, they'll probably forget too, so... there's many other things to worry and think about rather than get stuck in the embarrassment (of course there could be exceptions) but i would say that's part our Ne, acting unconsciously again.
@@onhan3803 Haha, yeah that does seem very Ne xD
ENFP quote that I think captures our wonder and our darkness:
"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place." - Kurt Vonnegut
Motivates the shit outta me. Whenever it sucks, i just pull through, and I always do.
“Never give up” - Micheal Scott
This is a nice one
So accurate. Thank you for that it's exactly what I hoped to read
@@define2675 "Through our strength
We'll make a better day
Tomorrow
We shall never surrender" (c)
YES YES AND YES, this is exactly what i say to myself daily. i didn't know Kurt Vonnegut felt the same way too T__T
You know, as an INFP, I always lived by 2 rules: treat others how you wish to be treated, and don't do to others what you don't like. Pretty good rules imo 👌🏾
It doesn’t mean anything: I’m an INTJ but I have these rules too and anyway they are the same rule said in a different way :/
Well, that's the golden rule of moralty, that's the basis of all human ethics, signifying the equalty of Me and all other people. That's common for majority of people :)
There is Knowing and
there is doing
And those dont concur as much as we think
But what if they like it? XD
That's not a good way to live if people can't handle the way you would like to be treated and don't do to others what they wouldn't like. I live by, seek, and hold myself to such greater, intense, complex and sometimes even contradicting ways that requires myself to go through uncommon experiences, having the complete opposite perspective and beliefs than others, i want life to be difficult and full of suffering for what it produces and much more. Most people don't want to be treated or go through what i do. Most people love what i hate and hate what i love. Most people want what i see as garbage and they see as something to cherish. Honestly, i haven't met anyone who would even agree with even a quarter of what i want, believe, value, don't want, etc.
So actually, there was a time i did what you say you go by, and that caused many problems. I thought as a child we're all humans, we all eat and do many similar activities, so surely we must think and feel the same, but no.
I realized they need to be treated the way i don't want to be and they need to not be treated the way i do. This has helped me keep peace and get along with others. They're only going to come to even one of the ways i want to be treated once they experience a difficult life full of intense suffering that they would even be capable of truly understanding why i have such an uncommon way of living and being.
For example, something as simple as saying you had a female manager who commanded you to clean the floor in the store and you say, "yes, ma'am!" But there's actually women out there who hate being treated that way. There are some who demand you call them by their name or just not even treat them with high respect. There's some who will become furious if you even clean the floor and respond saying "yes" but you don't say "ma'am."
So if you were someone who wanted that respect, some others would dislike it much that you treat them the way you want to be treated.
My spouse is an INFP, and she's realized i don't like to be treated the way she does, and what helps her actually damages myself most the time. If we treat everyone based on ourselves, we clearly don't get that not everyone lived, grew up or went through the same things. Experiences do take a high impact on how we will think, feel, want, hate, believe, etc. If one person has loving parents and lives in a rich house with a successful family who highly respects each other, but another person has hateful abusive parents doing meth and has nothing else going for them, these 2 people as children arent going to grow up wanting the same thing, at least not for quite awhile. In fact it could be the opposite.
After all, there's 16 personalities here, do we all want the same thing and feel the same way and want to be treated the same? No.
Like i remember a meme,
ESFP: How can you be okay always being alone?
INFP: How can you be okay always being with a lot of people?
INTP here, and some have heard me quote (more than once) Flannery O'Connor: "The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it."
I used to say: Universe does not care about your opinion.
INTP here, my favorite quote is "I literally don't care about your feelings, this is the facts so get on with it"
as INFJ I always admired INTPs sense of curiosity and ability to stick to facts
i thinks its absurd that people actually make decisions based solely on emotions
@@tink6225 i agree, i think you need both rationality and consider your emotions because in the end you are a human being. You wont make a decision that is right if you solely make decision based on your emotions and at least, i want to make a decisions i wont regret and a decision that makes me feel reassure that it is right.
“Fear is the price of imagination” oh boy yes
Ive gotten to the point where my own mind is terrifying to me because of the amount of people ive gotten inside. I feel like i lose at least one aspect of myself whenever i empathise with someone.
That quote also comes from Red Dragon which kinda disturbingly has one of the most personally relatable characters to me, Will Graham, who is almost certainly an INFJ and does that exact thing too.
INTP: "Work smarter, not harder. Or just don't work. Like if not working is an option, just do that."
This. 100% - fellow intp
"I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." ~ Kurt Cobain
INFP here! Years back, I used to say something similar to this to my friends. At that time I didn't know about personality types and was extremely surprised when I came across Kurt's quote. Now that I know he was also an INFP, I am not surprised at all.
I love this quote and I relate to it so much.
@@NoopyP yes! So relatable!
Ayn Rand, INTJ: "The question isn't, 'who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." Always resonated with that one. Great video brother!
As an istp I can most assuredly tell you my life motto is "it is what it is"
Hahaha! I use that one quite a bit too. 👍😁
Sometimes I say, “Face it (the truth) now or face it later but you’re gonna face it.”
(ISTP)
100%
I'm an INTP, and I think my favourite quote is "When you're gone, will anybody remember your story?", quoted by an Unknown author.
"If you don't want to be forgotten as soon as you're dead and rotten, either write things worth doing, or do things worth writing."
- Benjamin Franklin
that quote really makes me think, i like that. I think yes, i will remember my own story when im gone. A few people would remember my story that they have with me, memories fade and its impossible to remember fully your own story. But will anyone remember my story when im gone? im sure there is.
My life goal is as follows:-
"Hope for the best,yet be prepared for the worst".~INTP
Yup! - fellow intp
Well if there was any doubt that I'm an ENFP, tearing up a little thinking about the wonder of the world, wishing everyone could just marvel at it, and feeling deep sadness for those that don't, probably confirms it
Wow YES. I’ve often found myself thinking about people who I know are not phased or could care less of the wonders of nature or different music, skills, people and Im genuinely bemused on how they go through life without being appreciative and reflective of the wonders of living
“The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you’ll be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.”
-Rudyard Kipling
(INTP)
INFP here - as I get older, the more willing I am to take paths that deviate from the norm. I used to be highly conscious about how my actions would be perceived; now I just live life for myself and don't seek to be understood by everyone.
My current motto as of 2020 is "it is what it is". It helps me stay grounded to the current reality and make the most of it instead of drifting off to Narnia haha.
So many of these quotes are so fitting! I can hear my ISTJ dad basically saying your words (learn from your mistakes, don't repeat them, use "common" sense, etc). And the ESTJ quotes were basically my former workaholic ESTJ boss in a nutshell (streamlined efficiency, doing the work that other people don't want to do).
Oh! I have a similar saying that I regularly use when in a problematic situation - "One way or the other, the problem will be solved"
(also an INFP)
@@natasagajic1061 Yes, if we can't do anything about a situation, then why worry? Helps me worry less and trust in my own abilities more to tackle a problem. Eventually, one way or another, things move on. (Hi fellow INFP!)
@@jessiz- Yes, exactly! (Hi to you too! 😄)
I'm INFJ and I agree with your assessment of the INFJ empathy; I think Introverted Intuition is good at imagining abstract things like thought patterns, and with Fe we can extrapolate the feelings and thoughts of others through the thought process.
Also I really like the quote "a ship in port is safe; but that's not what ships are built for".
Not because it represents me, but maybe my ESTP mirror/shadow; the person I wish I could be sometimes.
Definitely resonate with "the person I could be sometimes".
You have ESTP subconscious.....train it. Put yourself in situations where the ESTP will shine and the INFJ won’t. You’ve gotta realise that INxJs have the easiest 4th function to develop. It’s literally just being aware/being able to act of the environment in a more timely fashion. When you go into these modes you’ll notice when you’re heavily focused on something in the physical and you get that little whisper that guides you and you just do it without hesitation....that’s Ni inferior slot setting the small target for the extraverted sensing hero.
Aka YOU in your ESTP subconscious.
As an INTJ, this quote from Batman Begins is one that I live by because it resonates with me extremely deeply:
"A vigilante is only a man lost in the scramble for his own gratification, he can be destroyed or locked up. But if you make yourself more than just a man, if you devote yourself to an ideal, and if they can't stop you... Then you become something else entirely - legend, Mr. Wayne."
- Ra's al Ghul
++++++ exactly, precisely!)
Wow powerful words. A mindset based version of this idea is: "A person with good intentions looks to change the world. A person of good character looks within."
I know it’s not the most sophisticated reference, but Batman’s quote in The Dark Knight film, where he says to the Joker, “the world only makes sense if you force it to,” hit me pretty hard, as well. Not that it is an ideal, but tempting to adopt that mindset. Batman is the INTJ brother in arms, lol.
The ISTP mottos are accurate because I tend to look at the actions in the moment. People talk the talk all the time, but when the moment strikes, what are you actually going to do IN THE MOMENT?
Ye it tends to be quite annoying when someone says I'm gonna do this and then does something entirely different, almost as if they are just not doing it just to be annoying, bragging has no value to me, and the ones doing it continually aren't worthy of my time, I'm an ISTP as well.
@Ryan KHENAK If you tell me you are going to do something and then you don't I see that as weakness, we tend to not say that we are going to do something unless we already thought it through a lot and made that decision, I don't just do it because I want to, I have a strong sense of morality and we ISTP's are confident in our abilities, and what you are refering to isn't something that really applies to ISTP's, just you telling us that you don't think it's a good idea holds very little to no value, you can't invade our thinking process you are outside of it and if you want to know something just ask.
@Ryan KHENAK @Ryan KHENAK You can't disagree with a fact, the grass is green it only has 2 exceptions which are when emotionally immature or under influence of substances.
If you do not follow that rule every ISTP you will ever meet is going to think of you as unworthy of respect.
My definition of immoral is cp/burglary/theft/bestiality/neglect/cybertheft/rape/violence/holding people at gunpoint/depriving someone of sleep/lying.
Basically, most of those things are crimes and there are exceptions such as self-defense or saving someone's life.
I may have forgotten some, but do not assume because I don't take kindly to that if you have to do any of those things to save someone's life you are in a pretty bad scenario.
@Ryan KHENAK ISTP aren’t necessarily moral, it depends on the individual. Coming from an ISTP
An ENFP quote I love to live by is "It is important to draw wisdom from many different places." I found many of the other's types quotes infinitely more interesting than the one for ENFP, because I love to see the wisdom of others. Combine them. Use them as lenses. Look at the world through each one, see what cool effects there are. Look at the world and overlap the lenses, and see how those effects compound on each other.
In other words, meta analysis in every facet of life.
Edit: quote is by Iroh from ATLA.
ah this comment made me feel validated
i think like that all the time, always wondering observing how people work and how everything came to be as it is right now. but unfortunately i don't have any friends as passionate as me about those topics. and ive always felt like a weirdo for it
glad to know there's ppl who have the same interests and get as curious as I do
Respect for Uncle Iroh reference
You put my thoughts when watching this video in words so accurately that I feel exposed lol, in a good way. Thanks!
In addition, I think not only that I find other quotes more interesting, I actually relate to all the quotes except the intp one 🤔
@@cadence649 You will find them!! I think some people are interested in those topics but feel shy talking about them. (Don't wanna creep people out?) and some of them hold their observations really close to themselves lol... It may take some digging for them to share haha. But those observations tend to be gold!!! It is great that you brought up those topics with them!! As long as we keep being ourselves and talk about what we are passionate about, we will find our people! You got it! 🤜
@@Youshouldchill I swear, a majority of INFJs, INTJs, INFPs or INTPs might be interested in that kind of stuff while simultaneously believing it's too weird so they would never bring it up.
'Reason is the first victim of strong emotion'
I know -we know- what he speaks about, and I absolutely love it!
intp
"A goal without a plan is a delusion. You need a plan in order to achieve your goals"
9:01 is so incredibly accurate for me as an INTJ. I tend to make others angry all the time without ever expecting it. I just don't understand how people can get so furious. I've also recognized that a lot of people care so much about revenge, sometimes even going out of their way to mess with others. When you think about it though, what does revenge do? I'm pretty sure it's just what people do to cope with their anger. So yeah this quote is pretty accurate to me because I've never cared about revenge or that kind of stuff.
What revenge does is provide satisfaction, and sometimes you also get to give an asshole what they deserve. Sometimes you're the asshole. It doesn't matter in either case, there's no karma. People only get what they deserve in the sense of how well they play the game. So, revenge is as valid a goal as any. How far you take it is entirely up to you. For me (also INTJ) it usually dissipates pretty quickly. But there are a few cases where eroding someone's happiness, even if your only option is to do it bit by tiny bit, just becomes part of your everyday routine. Is it the most productive use of one's time? No, of course not. So what?
Hard nodding and applause to "It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it" ~ Aristotle
I voiced eerily similar just last night after a heated discussion of why I entertain concepts and my partner does not.
Sometimes you need to try on the different hats to better refute and refine your own understanding.
INTP... I don't know if this would be stereotypical or maybe the influence of F into play (I'm near the 50-50 line of T vs. F) but mine's "Be true to yourself and life will do the rest for you."
That sounds like an Fi dominant quote
As an INTP, i agree with that quote
It doesn't sound like F influence. More like a "don't lie to yourself. Don't be someone you're not. Lies are what cause the problems in the first place. Telling the truth is a step forward" kinda thing.
That does sound like Fi-dominant, but maybe i'm just biased cuz i myself am very certainly INFP.
Hmmm "be true to yourself" as mentioned by few people above, it does sound like Fi dominant! Or as an INFP, I am seeing it that way!
I'm in full agreement with these quotes for ENFJs. We're always thinking that way but we don't often say it since our intuition is introverted. My personal life motto that I live by is "it will work out because it has to." I find it strangely comforting to know that I simply won't allow things to not work out, and if they don't it just means that the story isn't over yet.
Infp here, really appreciated this as I feel like I should follow the example of more of the action based types so I can truly live the extraordinary life I've always knew I could have. It's going to be really tough for me but I will do my best!!!
As an infj, personally life motto means a quote that motivates me instead of something true about myself, so while the quotes here are something I can resonate a lot to, I wouldn't say it's my life motto.
I've seen other infjs commenting similar life mottos of theirs to mine, and they are something along the line of "if they can do it, I can too." / "fake it til you make it." I find it funny how our life motto is to just go out there and do it because we know that our grand scheme won't succeed otherwise lol.
I'm an INTJ and I actually relate to Isaac Newton.
Sometimes I can't totally understand people's behavoir and feelings, and honestly I don't care that much about it.
I simply prefer to stay on my own and do the stuff that I must do alone.
But don't misunderstand, that's not a narcisistic tendency I care of people's feelings, but just of the ones of my family and close friends.
Isaac Newton actually was an INTJ, considering that he literally didn't have Extraverted Feeling, but that's not an excuse for toxic INTJ behavoir, such as arrogance.
As an INTJ, I have been treating people's emotions as something interesting to study lately, but also lately I have come to realize the methods I have of understanding other's emotions better is flawed. If an emotion doesn't like up with a particular predictable pattern of reasoning, it confuses the heck out of me. xD
I often have to come up with "theory patterns" of how emotions play out by treating emotional problems through emotional reassurances. Then I test these theories through trial and error. It's a very delicate experiment . . . cause there's just no way of experimenting this in some form of simulation or something in order to see which action creates more problems than others. If only . . . if only . . .
@@BuizelCream I basically do the same thing, but with conversation and interaction with others.
I always had a pattern of sentences like "good morning, am I bothering you?" or "good bye, see you later". But I stopped doing that when someone said that I was "so robotic and cold".
Wanted to watch this for the ISTJ part as I had one sitting right next to me... you should have seen his chest puff out and his face beam at the words "unstoppable," lmao!
Love that for him! I wish my ISTJ cousin could understand English, he'd like the quotes chosen for the video.
@@robboss1663 my cousin doesn't like to seek help in this from me because he wants to understand English by himself, but also because Asian age-hierarchy in families.
@@self7341 maybe present it like a friendly challenge? Like “hey, try translating this” or something
Mine is "live and let live". It is simple but covers all my core values of individualism, authenticity, freedom, independence as an isfp
This ENTJ agrees with the analysis. Love the Hannibal quote.
agreed.
6:29 100 percent Truth.
As a Christian, majority incorrectly assume "istj, estj" etc. When I discovered I was intp well before I became Christian. I absolutely love the way you articulated it Brother. 🏆💯
Honestly, ESFPs are powerful, teach them something and they'll actually use it.
My younger sister's an ESFP. When she internalizes something, she uses it as a strength.
As an INTP, my favorite quote is this one from Hegel; "Everything depends on grasping and expressing the ultimate truth not as Substance but as Subject as well."
This just shows that there’s something to learn from each type
and thats what i love! learning new things that i have never and would probably can never think of.
With practice comes mastery.
With mastery comes knowledge.
With knowledge comes strength. - ISTP
INTJ here and that Nietzsche quote is one of my favorites.
I'm INFP but I agree with the ISFP's the most.
Yes, I also related to that one a lot as an INFP.
"Pretend to be somebody until that somebody turns into you" -Steve Tyler
INFJ quote that I live by. It's helped me get through life. I sort of become whoever I need to be and whatever the situation requires of me to survive.👍
Isn’t that the paraphrased version of “fake it till you make it”?
As a person who have ESFP and ESFJ siblings, I can say that your analysis about these types are extremely accurate. Well, you're great at explaining every single type but I especially like it when you talk about these two types since I rarely see anyone talking about them. So many people underestimate the capabilities and strong sides of these types and I don't know why.
I agree, as somebody with ESFJ mom and ESFP bro.
As an INTJ that Nietzsche reference made me smile. Literally had that as my life motto whenever life gets difficult. That Newton one is also something I ponder everytime I observe something unusual or illogical about people.
I’m always waiting for any moment to mention that the phrase “nothing is impossible” is a paradox. I’d say it’s relevant enough to the video
- entp, if anyone wanted to know
I'm an isfj and I usually am good at learning from my mistakes, lol. Hate seeing people playing games too. Fake people make me so uncomfortable.
Isfp here and without watching the video one of my mottos would be: "A private life is a happy life" or "balance is key"
Now I have found a new good motto ✨
Love all the quotes, they are like the epitome, the essence of each type, represent them and their view about life, every type/person all has greatest qualities.
Well, as an ISTJ, who stuck in Si-Fi loop and Ne grip in years and figured it out how to get up, "Mistakes are often the greatest teachers" is true for my past mistakes, faults, flaws that teaches me, grow me up. And now I healed, "The grass is greener where you water it" is about my future, my engineering major, how i have to start from scratch my own, to work restlessly, I want to be in that state of work and flow, where I can see results and meaning of my work.
This is essentially my life's story/motto: "The gap between what is and what "should be" is an ocean of distress." - Christina Feldman.
ISFP here. You’re on point
Those ENFJ quotes are so true! I‘m always trying to be the kind of person to others that I wish I would have had when I was younger.
Even though I don't believe in God, my motto would be "Strive for the truth unto death, and the Lord shall fight for thee." (Sirach 4,28) -INTP
INTJ here (maybe a bit INTP, but still).
Strongly agreed with the Nietzshe's quote - emptiness inside really demotivates, and the problem is how to fill this hole, how to find something proper, something worth dedicating your life to, when the life has so many occupations, with some of them beneficial and some of them not really.
But the Newton's quote resonates with me weaker, as I presume THERE ARE methods to understand people and even to predict their behaviour, BUT that's not what I, as INTJ, would count as worth wasting my time for. People are dirty species, you know. Best to get rid of them. (That's a joke, ofc, but every joke has a part of joke.)
That is what an INFJ would love to do, thus becoming a politician
But people rule our human world
I mean, I dont disagree (as an INTP) but I also do not have a human related goal.
@@christophjanssen9324 well, I've said already it was a joke)) the point was that me, as INTJ, see little good in people, so I'm trying to avoid cooperation as much as it's possible (I know that full avoidance of human society is impossible for now). No murder, no genocide :D
@@mirriyastia7041 Oh, that makes sense!
So your goals aren't human/society related?
I meant it sort of like that I can understand and relate to your point but I also wanted to share some thoughts/opinion on it since it is all so complicated- Success/power etc. is/are often interwined with networking and other people ://
(Good to know that no murder nor genocide will be taking place :'D)
@@christophjanssen9324 you see... it's hard for me to disagree with you on that point. Fair enough (though unfortunately), we live in the world of people, and to succeed in it means to succeed among the people.
The problem is that to accept this unpleasant truth mentally, I have to become an ENTJ :DDD and I'm not sure whether I'm able to converse and even want to.
Its amazing how you know these things so well. Infj description is so accurate. My empathy often scare me. English class was torture, becasue he had us delve into all these disturbing classes, analysing and making deep assignments. Really made me question myself at times because of how easily i understand such wicked people. The other videos have also been so relate able
Amazing, I really enjoyed this, so true, so many insights. I especially enjoyed the part about ISFJs seeing through peoples actions and not thinking it worthwhile.
I just loved listening to the ESTJ quotes. That's probably why I like working with them, they're absolutely no-nonsense people.
However the first INFJ one doesn't ring so much true for me, I guess I'm just not that much of a super-empath, I very well empathise with someone else's feelings and thoughts but I also know which ones are mine and which are someone's. But the blurring of one's own and foreign feelings into one is something super-empaths are capable of.
I agree with fear being the price of imagination - because we see the consequences far into the future, we can get scared of them, contrary to people who cannot foresee certain things (literally don't see it coming). But I don't think we're scared of our own thoughts, at least I am not. I think it has something to do with the detachment INFJs can display. We're scared of the negative things we foresee for the future (and unfortunately we're mostly right), not of that we have thought about it.
I try to apply the wisdom of each quote to my life, so far I could find value in all of them, thank you very much for this video!
Me An INTP: “No one knows the universe be like it is.. but it do.”
Autistic INFP here. The quote is so relatable to me! Not many people can understand where I'm coming from most of the time, as if my thought process or things I like to do are alien to them.
It's refreshing to know that just because something isn't understood, it doesn't mean it's got lesser validity.
I think it was Marie Curie who quoted (roughly) "Nothing is to be feared, it is only to be understood.". Any other INFPs or Autists related to this quote too?
As an INFP that did compromise my individuality to try to blend in with others, Nathans right, it was a mistake. Suffering from an identity crisis around the same time as my quarter life crisis was pure hell. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. It's no wonder I became extra sensitive to criticism or "helpful life advice". I also developed a deep routed hatred for the phrase "I'm sorry you feel that way." My feelings were perfectly valid considering where my head was and what certain people were trying to fill it with. I spent so much time pushing my feelings aside to please others, just once, it was my turn to feel what was best for me.
Hey so whenever I think about this sort of stuff, I start crying. Should I be worried about that? It's seriously not fun and can be really embarrassing if it happens during the day.
INFJ: Minimize movement through a correct understanding
Sure, we are empaths, but the group often stresses us out, just as much as it stimulates. Empathy is worthless if the resources are scarce. Therefore managing and mastering the reality becomes a much higher priority than "just" feeling with others, which is where we are weak. If there is no problem, there is no problem to feel bad about.
Wow, I like the richness of these quotes. Great selection!
INFP here. I always say to myself “If you understand yourself, don’t worry if others don’t understand you.” Being misunderstood by yourself is the worst thing that can happen to you.
Mine is kinda similar. "No one cares about me and i don't care about anyone." This have a negative sad lonely sound to it but that's not it. It just means, for example: no one cares about the way i dress myself and i don't care about the way other dress themselves.
Everyone is so busy thinking about what others think of them, that no one is actually thinking about anyone but themselves.
ESFJ! Lol.
Listening to this made me realize I definitely have a switch when it comes to work.
I act like an ESTJ. It's all about efficiency.
Feelings don't help in a work environment.
Thanks for the wonderful video Nathan!
~Saiyren
Hello Nathan, I just wanted to point out that the "Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future" quote was originally penned by St. Augustine long before Oscar Wilde. Common misquote!
Now, on to the rest of the video...
Edit: great one! Loved the Tolkien quote :)
As an INTJ, I hate routine and repetitive life. Doing the same thing everyday like waking up to eat breakfast, go to school, do homework, go to sleep makes me really depressed. The only time I find joy is when something captivates my interests like reading philosophical topics and biographies of great people
Fuck yes, this video is awesome!
PS - idiosyncratic, eccentric and iconoclastic are praises to my ears. We love you too!
Be who you are. It's always enough. ~Infj ♡
Every INTJ: Action without thought and purpose is just flailing your arms around
As an INTP, something that I taught myself when I was feeling out of control was "life isn't an algorithm. We can't predict our future actions based on our past actions BECAUSE humans are unpredictable. We can and do change. We decide the outcome." And in the end we feel out of control because we can see ourselves doing the worst. We're all afraid of ourselves because we've given ourselves reason to be. But we aren't on loop.
The thought of it just gives me more anxiety. I just try to distract myself long enough for me to actually forget otherwise I’d go into a depressive cycle and I’d rather not go down that hole. I realize that’s not healthy but I’ve never been a very optimistic person and pessimism is my default state.I’m just trying not to go off the deep end here.😅
I do think that life has an algorithm. But as Alan Turing demonstrated, a machine within a machine cannot predict the total outcome. We are participants in the cosmic play, not detached observers (and indeed when you observe something you immediately have a relation to that thing), and so our actions do shape the development of the play. But that does not mean that the play does not have a script or variations of scripts - an INTP
@@BL00DYR0S31 Same here
man…..ur always so good with these videos….
“Leave the roads, Take the trails.” 😍
I relate so much as an ENTP to being "philosophically attached to uncertainty." As well as having the overwhelming urge to challenge anyone who states something with absolute certainty. I view open ended and/or paradoxical philosophical questions and paradigms as incredibly stimulating and part of what makes life so enjoyable for me.
ESTP here and I have the *exact* ship quote written on the cover of my notebook!
ENTP here.. our power to charm people, be quick witted, usage of certain words n our voice is definitely powerful..
You nailed it for ENFJ’s!😎👍
I LOVE the ISTJ quote! "The grass is green where you water it" Simple, deep and beautiful! (ENFP)
Vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare.
Interesting. The INFJ and ENFP quotes ring truer for what's at my root motives than the ENFJ ones do, although I can see that they definitely fit my type as perceived. - an ENFJ
INFP on point!
When I hear someone state something with absolute authority, that is my call to action. THE CREATURE MUST BE VANQUISHED.
On ESFJ, I too have realized that the best way to cheer myself up is to cheer others up. I have acquired many a surprise gift from strangers that way...
I enjoy your videos more than any other Myers-Briggs personality-focused channel. You have a great grasp on the essential qualities of each personality and their cognitive functions... After watching many of your videos, I am convinced I am more of an ENTJ, rather than the type I usually test as, which is INTJ... I just enjoy your in-depth, logical, yet sensitive approach. You seem to have great insights into all types and present it in a way that is concise, understandable, and useful.
I LOVEEE this concept. I need more videos about quotes and mottos(: -enfp
"The perfect Man employs their mind as a mirror ; it grasps nothing, it keeps nothing, it receives, but does not keep."
~Chuang Tzu
you have a phenomenal grasp of all the types and i appreciate that
Before the video. my quote is “just do it!” -ESFP
The Wayne Gretzky quote is one I have always loved! Pretty close to the Nike slogan. Glad you see that in us, Nathan ❤️
As an ENTP i agree with almost every statement because i just see why it makes sense
Ne and Ti are just a stupid combo
same as an ENFP lol. Ne go brrrrrrrrrrr
Be happy that at least you aren't a cyborg like the fellow Ni Te users. "Brrr... must complete task... brrr... if humans get into my way = eliminate".
@@end4567 Get out of my way then xd
Please do next 16 types Core Values/ Priorities / selfconcept.
Excuse me ladies and gentlemen...
I'm infj and a quote i always remembered for life is "everyone in this world is human, if they can do it so can you"...
That quote got me so far in life i didnt even know why lmao...
Woah, I'm INFJ too, and mine is "if they can do it, I can too". It's insane how this also gets me far in life.
Interestingly, I'm an ENFJ, and my whole teaching motto for years was basically 'if I can do it, so can you'.
I'm trying to become more realistic, but that statement is still something I carry with me.
Make sure your thoughts don't turn into bad action. But remember them incase you have to.
ENTP here. This is accurate.
I also once again relate just as much to your ENFP description especially the never-ending wonder and having an idiosyncratic and iconoclastic personality that opposes the mainstream and forges my own path.
Best video yet. I got a lot out of all of it.
Quote for INFPs that I love, “All that is gold does not glitter,
Not all those who wander are lost;
The old that is strong does not wither,
Deep roots are not reached by the frost.
From the ashes a fire shall be woken,
A light from the shadows shall spring;
Renewed shall be blade that was broken,
The crownless again shall be king.”
― J.R.R. Tolkien, The Fellowship of the Ring
Before I see what he says, I wanna say what I think to see if they compare.
I’m INFP and I would say, probably my core life motto that I unconsciously live by is “everything is subjective.” That is to say, your life is your own, your perception is not as cut and dry as you may believe. Expect to be surprised, expect to be wrong, and expect to find that “wrong” does not concretely exist. Everyone gets to decide what that is for themselves.
INFP
"Told you so"
.....2nd verse, same as the first. Told ya, told ya,
told ya so
as infj a quote i live by is the one i got from my late father; "if you choose to do something or act a certain way, you are responsible to bear the consequences or see it through. you don't get to complain mid-way."
this kinda switch-on my "went all-in or nothing at all" kind of mindset. sometimes it's not good to be that way and i still struggle to find balance. but idk, i still hold on to that words. at least on the social 'playground' it's useful in a way that i do not act or say stuff willy-nilly.
Particularly brilliant video. Well done!
ugh, i love your content and i listen to it every time i study or just need something to pass time. you should really start a podcast
I am an INFJ and I can tell from a glance that INFJ life mottos of this video is unexpectedly relatable. I guess other typpes would find their life mottos relatable too.Thanks.