True, and I honestly think they should come with more frequent instructions to that effect at the start. Not a criticism but I worry I have missed so many good insights and humour on previous videos.
ENTP is now in too deep as the leader of a national flat earther association, after starting to pretend to be a flat earther during high school. The amount of wealth, power, media attention, and fun she gets out of it is too much to give up.
What'd they say!? Pause, laugh, play, rewind, pause, laugh, repeat! 🤣 The INFP deleting messages and rewriting them completely into something way less intimate is somewhat relatable!
As an ISTP I tried all kinds of bio from basic to funny to honest, from short to long. Not a single match in 1+ year. Then I realized it is most likely that my pictures are garbage (also honest), so even if anyone reads the text would sweep left anyway. Since I refuse to bother with "eye-catching picutres" I deleted the app and I'm not looking back. I also think if people are that superficial on these platforms it is not worth my time trying my luck there.
@@szabib8048 Yeah. I would love to meet someone (my parents keep saying I should meet someone now I'm 25). But I want to meet someone naturally. Unfortunately I also don't like the big social gatherings so it's near impossible in my opinion. No idea what to do. Edit: Fuck it. I'm adding myself after I get my hair cut at the weekend (assuming I remember). I always look bad in photos. Must be high chances if there are few ISTP's that want to join.
@@Jimmy_Jones As anothet ISTP, some advice: smile in at least one photo and don't take pics in the bathroom. Good lighting makes a lot of difference, avoid shadows on your face as much as possible.
The ISTP is quite accurate. I'm an ISTP woman and the 2 times I was on an app, I didn't put a profile picture and my bio was something like "Just here out of curiosity" or "Just here to see what's out there". Suffice to say, I did not like what was out there.
Oh my God- I'm INTP, that is EXACTLY my UMT profile 😱 "Listens to anything that catches their fancy, trilingual, learns national anthems for fun, afraid of slopes" and so on 😱 I'm genuinely shocked that this was 100% accurate.
INTJ that actually downloaded Ur My Type. My profile is as follows: “Has anyone else noticed that half of the NT types use an anime character or meme for their profile picture? Half of the NF types have bad angled photos that are “quirky” and the only consistent generic photos are from the rare ENFJ or ISFJ. Not saying that everyone does these things it’s just a weird observation I’ve noticed on this app. Thanks for coming to my Ted talk. I’m looking for some friends to have fun and/or deep and philosophical conversations with. I like to draw, read, debate and cook. I also play instruments if you like music.” I get a lot of likes from NT users commenting on my observation. Most F users usually start a message with “hello I want to be friends”
I'm also on Ur My Type. You do meet some interesting characters on there actually. On mine I put I'm not completely sure if I'm INTP (how the app types me) or ISTJ. How do you think that comes across?
Mine profile pic is indeed an anime one (ENTP). I've registered out of mild curiosity and scrolled for a bit (memes in global) and haven't open it since.
Really enjoyed the intp’s backstory. With her talent of making stories out of tin air, I legit think that Kristin should make a book at one point, it would be punny as God intended.
I(NTJ) actually tend to max out space on a profile because it's more efficient long-term. Yes, one has to spend time writing it out, editing, re-editing, etc. BUT... really taking the time to be alone in self-reflection while productively making a profile tends to save a lot more time in the long-run. By giving a representative multi-dimensional overview of yourself before the first message is even exchanged, you create a filter that saves you from wasting excessive time and social energy on matches with low-probability of lasting compatibility. Meanwhile, those that do like what they read wind up engaging with more enthusiasm and come equipped with multiple known topics of interest. Some caveats: - The first block of text should be short and introduce yourself generally and in as few words as possible (while still showing some personal style). For example, I tend to open with "Idiot, Intellect, INTJ". After that, you continue injecting more personal style/humor as you gradually ramp up in depth and breadth. (Within reason, of course. Though, what's "reasonable" is ultimately your call.) - By the end of the profile, you want to have given a good representative sample of your character, not the whole of your being, if that's even possible. - Always be sure to omit identifiable details, including dates, addresses, and names of orgs/institutions, family, associates, etc. Focus on helping the reader to flesh out an accurate image of you as a character study, not as a dossier. - This only works when trying to find something meaningful. Both you AND the person you seek should have an appreciation for intuitive depth and have above-average levels of curiosity. Otherwise, use different methods. Why do I share this? Because the world would be a better place with more-meaningful connections and fewer names to remember if more people wrote profiles with the aim of giving a good, truthful, realistically-multidimensional represention of themselves. Also, I'm kinda bored right now; NGL.
I have been doing the same and in general it has worked really well. My last carefully selected xNTJ ex turned up to be a covert narc though. But I will be wiser the next time (hopefully). ~ INTJ
as an entp, the captions for our part were super fun! they made me feel happiness ❤❤❤❤ oh, who am i kidding. can we really even define happiness? is happiness defined as an abundance of positive emotions, or as a lack of negative ones? where does "fun" land on that spectrum? the terms can even work against each other - sometimes doing fun things can lower our overall happiness, while things that are miserably boring can raise our happiness in the long run. therefore using those terms to describe anything is unclear at best. and what about the subjevtivity of- *gets shot by an SJ type*
Sorry ENTP, but the INTP is calling out your logic lol. Happiness has to be a presence of something, because an absence is insubstantial. Let's have a conversation about the nature of nonexistence. The absence of negative emotions is a lack of negative emotions, which means that no negative emotions are present within the system. An abundance of positive emotions is the presence of positive emotions, which means that positive emotions are indeed present within the system. You can't draw a conclusion from only negative premises. If there is only an absence, then one cannot say that the absence of something is necessarily the presence of something else. There may be other ways that that thing may be present. Or that thing might not be present at all. You can only say that something that is not there is not there. So happiness has to be the presence of positive emotions. It at least can't be the absence of negative ones.
I would point out, fellow NTP, that something that exists doesn't mean necessarily the presence of something. For example, shadow exists, but shadow is only the absence of light because light has been blocked by an object (at least partially). The same goes for cold, wich is the absence of heat. I think happiness in the life satisfaction sense can therefore be defined as the lack of constant negative emotions and the presence of (not necessarily abundant) positive emotions.
Since we’re discussing emotions here, let me speak as an INFP who has put a lot of thought into feelings. First off, I would say that happiness isn’t necessarily the absence of negative emotions. Even if you don’t feel sad, anxious, overwhelmed, etc, you might not be feeling happy. Happiness can sometimes, but not always be experienced in other feelings, such as excitement or gratitude. I think happiness can be defined in two ways: the emotion and overall happiness. For example, maybe I didn’t “feel” great today but my overall satisfaction with life is good. Or the opposite if I am happy in the moment but whatever I’m doing has negative consequences that lead me to feel unhappy later. As far as happiness relates to fun, I think its hard to have fun and not feel happy, but I can definitely remember times in my life that I was doing something fun but did not feel happy for whatever reason. tldr: Happiness is nuanced
I'm an ENFP, and learning to spell check is definitely something I've been learning over my life so far! But I don't use so many exclamation points when I'm talking about myself, or all those emojis, and I've learned to speak more succinctly so people don't leave from me taking too long...
As an INTP, I'm actually comfortable writing anything in my dating profile because the odds of anyone getting to the point of meeting me in person are incredibly low.
As an INTJ, I find the ISTJ’s direct approach relatable. I consider my actions in terms of getting closer to achieving my life goals, one of which is admittedly to raise a family. As for the INTJ part, I also find that quite relatable. My INTJ friend and I have conducted several surveys on various subjects related to dating, and have even used that data to construct a weighted formula that considers around 18 traits a person possesses, to determine on average how appealing a person is, as a potential partner, to the opposite sex (the weights being different for men and women). Of course, the whole process lacked the vigor of a proper academic study, but nonetheless proved a valuable and enjoyable experience. I have admittedly also considered in the past, simply grabbing a clipboard, and walking up to 100 girls, beginning with the premise that I am conducting a survey (which is true), asking them a few questions for grouping purposes (such as age, student/ employment status, etc), before simply asking them if they would like to go out with me. The expectation would be rejection, but the goal of the survey itself would have been a desensitization to rejection/ interactions of that nature. I have not carried this survey out, for a variety of reasons, including to an extent my better judgment, and the concern someone might actually say yes, at which point I would be uncertain how to proceed. Full disclaimer, I have never dated, and will likely never use online dating.
Just out of interest, what is the formula you constructed? I get your point about not being sure what to do when someone says yes, but it would still be an interesting social experiment.
@@Noone-sr3ks essentially, we conducted several targeted surveys online, asking men and women (separately) to rank the importance of around 18 traits on a discrete scale of 1 to 4 (we decided a continuous scale left things to wide open, as there is no objective difference between a 2, and a 2.5, and it made data analysis easier. We also decided against a larger scale for similar reasons). Based off of that data, we determined weight for each of the traits, ranging from 1 to 4. A person could either rate the self on the roughly 18 traits to derive a value, or instead give their own weights for the 18 traits, and use it to assess potential partners based off of their own self rating (or in theory, averages of ratings by others on the 18 traits). There was more to it than that, but all of this was over three years ago now.
@@aaliyahkishore246 That is a fair question. I will endeavor to answer it as best I can. Firstly, raising a family is one of the most fulfilling ventures I can possibly imagine. You are correct in all of your points about the hardships of raising children, the costs, and the risks. But in my mind, the benefits outweigh the costs. I admit I am fortunate to have had excellent parents, imperfect though they may be. Even through difficult times, crises, and tight budgets, we persevered. I could ask little more of them. My father especially was, and continuous to be incredible, and I admire him greatly (I am aware of the myriad reasons I would be biased in my admiration). So one might say my own father’s excellence has inspired me to want to be as good as a father as he has been. For reference, he was a highschool teacher for over 20 years, and ran an alternative program for students with drug issues, anger issues, or other factors that made them poor fits for the regular program. He never gave out homework, and could relate with the students, as he was much like them when he was younger. He was also homeless at 17, and as a result, has had huge impacts on various fundraisers to help the homeless across the years, even attempting to break the world record for a food drive, and in doing so filling up several 18 wheelers full of food, all over the course of a few weeks. Another point, young though I still may be, I have spent time working, spent time studying (quite a lot at this point). I have achieved success, being invited to present at conferences, winning competitions, completing creative projects (from published written work to award nominated short films), managing to save a sum of money I am proud of. But of all I have done, it is in my role as a teacher, mentor, and coach to adolescents and young adults that I have derived the most fulfillment. To watch a young persons self confidence improve, their skill increase, them to grow as a person, and know that I have aided in that, even sometimes being personally thanked by the kids themselves, and their parents, it simply means an incredible amount to me. No matter if I may have been exhausted from a long day, or stressed, every opportunity I have to teach, coach and mentor the young people I work with invigorates me, and leaves no question as to whether the travel time, the loss of leisure or productivity, was worthwhile. On the topic of opportunity cost, while it is a certainty that raising children will consume much time that may be spent on other things, whether it be leisure, or productivity. If someone is to have children, the children must be the priority. I do not however believe that there is a dichotome that must exist between having children, and career progression/ other achievements. In fact, having children is a strong motivator to work even harder, and be even more successful. Parenting works best with teamwork from two parents. Done correctly, sufficient time exists to cover the requirements of children, as well as sufficient work to provide for a family, although it will likely require creativity, and budgeting at times. This has admittedly only gotten more difficult financially in recent years, but I still believe it is possible with the steps I have taken, and the connections I have made thus far. Ultimately, I am not overly concerned about lacking money, or support. In summary, I can and will achieve my ambitions, while also raising a family, and I will have zero regrets about the decision to have a family “limiting” what I may otherwise have been able to achieve. On my deathbed, my children will likely be more important to me than even perhaps the most fulfilling career. Another reason is related to having a legacy. I am one human being who’s time on this earth is finite. From childhood, I have sought to leave a lasting positive impact on the world, and that has not changed. This can be achieved in a myriad of ways, and I intend to do so, but one chief way is through raising a family, giving my children as good of an upbringing as possible, passing on the knowledge and skills that I can, and hopefully passing on the desire to want to help others improve. Sure, one might be critical of my desire to pass on my genes, my own genetic code, and that of all my ancestors who have come before me, but it is nonetheless something I seek to do. In a sense, it is my only path to immortality (at least literally speaking), and one that I can be content with. So to summarize this imperfect expression of my thoughts, I want to raise a family because I can think of little else more fulfilling. I want put them first, give them the best upbringing possible, see them succeed and flourish, and take pride in all their accomplishments, big and small. I want to teach them what I can (hopefully critical thinking), and accept if they end up having different views and beliefs than my own. I want to pass on the desire to help others, and improve the world. I want my children to surpass me in every way imaginable, and in doing so, contribute more positive change to the world than I possibly could have on my own. I also need heirs for once I become supreme leader of the world.
What would I write? "Connection via apps is not impossible, merely difficult. Only choose me if you are willing to hear me ramble about my niche hobbies. In return, I will also listen to you ramble when you want to. Furthermore, do not choose me if you are not dating to get married. Thank you for your time spent in reading this." -INTP.
ENFP here. I have a 10 year old dating profile and it actually changed in style and content over the years: I started with answering all sections and adding a lot of different smileys. Then I cut from it hobbies that didn't last. Then I added a section about attachment style and reduced the amount of smileys to prevent confusion. And recently, I added mentioning my current depression and therapy to make people understand what they're getting into. P.S.: As counterintuitive as this may look, avoiding spelling mistakes has always been important to me. Must be my ISTJ subconscious. 🤷♂
We ENFPs tend to be very strong verbally and often are good writers. I’m meticulous about spelling and grammar, so the typos throughout the ENFP bit (I mean, I guessed it was ENFP pretty quickly 😆) bugged me to no end. But maybe the ENFPs in Kristen’s life aren’t as particular as I am in that area. 🤷♀️
@@KM-fd8bw Same, at least in my native language. Da heku, I teach Japanese and even sometimes I end correcting people's Spanish XD XD In my case, I think it could because of my autism though I'm an ENFP.
As an infj who's bio on one social media consisted of a variant of 'mystery is better' for years, yes. Classic infj lol. Although like the intj, the only way I'd be on a dating site would probably be for research purposes. But I'd probably not be stating that either. I love watching these videos! Been here forever and while I don't comment much I have to say these make my day. The UK captions are a riot to read! It makes the video twice as funny!!
The ENFP continues casually typing out an essay and then runs out of characters 😂- the struggle! Even my uni personal essay is standing 1000 characters over the limit (which I need to cut down). Thank goodness CZcams doesn’t have a character limit on the comments lol.
The ENTP one is so real. I pretended to think Australia was fake to a variety of people, and everyone was getting so frustrated of trying to convince me otherwise. I feel like it added 10 years to my life
Gathering data for a research project is indeed the only conceivable scenario in which I would engage with online dating platforms. Clearly some people use them for their intended purpose but I struggle to see how and why. Help.
My INTJ friend and I met as psych researchers and we legit discussed a hypothetical study design which would gather data from dating profiles. I died when that came up 😂 - ENFJ
I considered my dating profiles to be art forms. Every day first thing I would do when logging on was to revise the bio section of my profile. It worked. I got a wife that understands me and is a good match - 13 years married INFP & ISFJ
Is it just me or is Kristin getting so seriously attached to all her personality characters that even her completely roasting them feels like pure affection?🤣😍
(INFP) After deleting and rewriting my bio several times, it looked more like a creative writing exercise than a bio. It helped me find my INFJ though! Also, yes, all my swimming lessons were futile.
A dating profile I actually almost made once, “I’m just looking for an editor for my short film, I can’t let my grand vision be thwarted by my lack of attention to detail. Thanks :)” ~entp
I could actually answer INTJ! I'm no zumba instructor, but I do go to a zumba membership, and the reason why it's a job is simply because being that encouraging, happy and friendly is 1. actually impressive, and 2. honestly pretty comforting. It makes working out a lot more fun! It's like being a personal trainer but for several people, and instead of exercises you do dances.
INFJ here and in the past I have definitely written an entire long paragraph about myself only to delete it because “mystery is better” 😅 Can’t reveal too much. My ESFJ husband of 5 years is still discovering things he didn’t know about me, on the regular lol.
LOL this is a freaking masterpiece. You embodied each the types so well, even down to the emoji choices. For most of them, I was able to guess the type within seconds lol.
INTP is far too accurate. Even I'm a person with a fair amount of interests and hobbies but if you ask about me I'll just be like: "Ehm... I'm an homo sapiens sapiens."
Fantastic video as usual, Kristin, and completely spot-on. The captions are just the cherry on top. Can I also say the bio of the INFJ would actually intrigue me? You've caught my attention INFJ, for better or for worse haha! -ENTJ
These were gold! Great format for this too. My ESTP brother's old dating profile just had "Sun. Surf. Adventure. Moonlight. You." and attractive XSFJs threw themselves at him by the dozen.
That's exactly what I did, my first profile was very repellent, until I finally got a combination of pictures and words that got me more matches than I can care to talk to. - INTP
I thought as an INTP, I wouldn't be able to fill out a profile about myself. And your INTP didn't fill out the profile. But she did correct the darn autocorrect repeadedly. Even my "name" on CZcams is / because I wont offer superficial info about myself. Good job, Kristin! I can tell you research and get the advise of the types before you upload a video. Appreciated and respected!
I can relate a lot with trying to save but the app won't let you because you wrote to little lol. I am happy if I can even come up with a single sentece that doesn't missrepresent me :D -ISFP
The INTP's life long struggle against key boards in the captions was great! Also, my dating app bio would be nothing, because dating apps are a waste of time. (this is supposed to be a reference to a previous Kristin video.) But I might get desperate enough to get on a dating app some day, we'll see.
Even though I am an ENFP, I make little to no typos and I will correct other people's typos when I see them because this is where my perfectionism shines. However, I do realise that I make typos when I send a text in a rush, but I will correct myself immediately.
INTP - My friends have made fun of what I write in dating app profiles lol.. my Mom always says I pick a bad photo and look tired but, that's sadly the real me lol. I usually write: "I'm a psychologist. INTP if you know what that is.. I like rock music, horror movie.....dogs..." And I'm actually very confused about why I don't get matches hahah "What do you like in a person?: maturity" Then when I DO get a match I try to ask them about what they like but maybe it ends up looking like I'm interrogating them and... I always delete the app after 2 weeks 🤷♀️🤷♀️
I might be wrong but INFJs probably would never end editing the bio, because there's no such description that would ever satisfy them, especially when there's a word limit 😂
I’m definitely one of the wordy ones, and can be very judgey of potential or actual dates who reveal that they haven’t read the whole thing very carefully, and possibly taken notes… 🤓
My old dating profile said, “I don’t know how to describe myself, because different people perceive me differently. You’re better off meeting me, and not waste time. You’ll either like me or hate me. If I don’t like you I will tell you if I like you or not. I always pay for MY bill on a date with someone I don’t know… so you don’t need to feel obligated to pay for me, especially if we don’t connect. My expectations for you are: You have a job. You don’t choose some fast food joint. You show up on time. If you’re later than 20 minutes… I won’t stick around and don’t expect me to call you after that. “
I haven't resorted to dating apps yet. I've got mad texting anxiety, an incredible talent for ghosting, and an irrational fear that whatever messages I send can and will be used against me in a court of law. And seeing as I'm not hot enough to date anybody in real-life, I just don't see how romance is possible in this economy. :/ So, I've resigned myself to being pleasantly lonely until I evolve into Mad Madam Mim (minus magic). 👍 I love all your videos and watch them religiously, Kristen! Always funny and creative! Keep up the great work!!
ESTP here, but I honestly related to the ISTP and the ENTJ the most 😂 probably too proud to do it for any other reason than losing a bet. Actually as I was watching this I was secretly thinking it would be fun, but I’d have to think of some way to make a bet to get my friend to do it and then offer to “do it together.” Just for solidarity, of course. Not cause I wanted to or anything, don’t be silly… 🙄😂
Yeah...I downloaded the app...but haven't opened it yet because I don't want to fill out those boxes that say "Tell everyone about yourself." I have half a mind to write down "I collect Spores, Molds and Fungus." And if understood that reference, then congrats, you pass the first test. - An INTP *Also please buy a phone case, they are worth the money so that unless you drop your screen directly on a sharp rock your screen is not going to get chip or shatter. (Anything by Spigen )if you have that brand in Australia) I certainly endorse)
Another freaking dope video Kristin \m/ I'm an INTP who can't even go out socially on selected weekends lol and my girlfriend is an ENFP who writes on phone exactly like that, I immediately could recognise her type when featured lol
Waaait a minute. My eyes can't keep up with the captions while I'm reading the text, and my eyes can't keep up with the text while reading the captions. You're cruel!
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It feels like ESFJ is so perfectly describes how I see nice cool funny person But am I cool? Am I funny? Am I nice? Kristin, why are you not Christine?
(INTJ) I actually created a urmytype profile a couple of days ago, just to see what it was like. I simply wrote in the bio that I was just checking the app out. I put a snow mountain as my photo. I got a like from an ISFP.
In a bio I would be very attentive to any spelling mistakes, but my grocery list is always absolute chaos. Almost in code. Only I will understand how many snacks I'm planning to buy 😋 -ENFP
I'm an ISTP who voluntarily posted some profiles on a couple dating apps. (I'm at the point in life I know I'm lonely so I'd might as well try & do something about it, although I really don't want to). Anyway, I decided to make it a game & made a couple pop-culture references & said if you get these, then respond. No one did, lol. Profiles deleted. Y'all suck, lol . . . btw, Kristin, bold of you to assume we ISTPs would place a bet we could lose...yeah dog, no . . . lol
Waited to have my first cup of coffee before commenting. Entp here. Why do people feel the need to tell the whole world that they don’t usually resort to using an app for dating, or that they never would use one?
Seriously. It's like saying you'd never use a spreadsheet-based program like Excel. Okay, cool. Have fun paying for an accountant or doing calculations by hand. Dating apps are just tools to achieve a specific outcome. No one is special for refusing to use them.
Kristin, you never seize to amaze me. I do, in fact open the dating app, use it for couple of weeks, all my hopes for humanity (especially the male side) goes down, delete the app, say I won't bother, and after a while open it again when bored. Let's see. I opened new one this month, November. Last time I used was probably July. So.. about 5-6 months has to pass in order for me to make a new profile. You know me too well!
I would write an entire monologue about my obsessions and hopes and dreams, and then at the bottom, say, 'this is who I am. Take me or leave me.' -ENFP :D
As an INTJ, I will confirm the only reason I would get on a dating app is for research. Losing a bet is also a possibility too. My INFP husband hated the idea of online dating so he and I are pretty glad we found each other in person. Lol.
I don't particularly enjoy the idea of online dating. I would much rather prefer we meet somewhere organically. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. As such, I wouldn't really write a biography for that purpose. But if I were to do so, I would emphasize the need for open communication, trust and empathy in a relationship. I would be looking for a long-term relationship, preferably life-long. I would not be open to compromising on that front, I want a future family, not a body-pillow. I love my friends and family, and anyone who is willing to be a friend. I enjoy talking to people, whether they are known or unknown. You can't really make new friends without risking a talk with a stranger, now can you? I can get lost in my dreams from time to time, seeing what could be awaiting us. I can be stubborn, especially when it comes to my principles. Two examples. I will not shave my mustache, should I ask of you, whether you should shave your eyebrows? I can of course trim it to a style, same as when I or you pluck our eyebrows. Yes, I was that nerd that reminded the teacher to check the homework in school. Why? In essence, I seek to learn. Because it takes 5 minutes to do it, and it's for our own betterment, if you personally haven't done it, the only one who suffers is yourself, I personally would like feedback so I can continue to improve, instead of just coasting by. I seek to learn from my education, not to get through it. I love sweets, particularly baked goods and tea, it makes for an excellent companion to my reading, speaking of: I enjoy reading and playing strategic board-games. It's hard to boil down which is my favourite genre of reading, as I enjoy anything from technical books about wood-working to fantasy to historical prose or other historical works, currently I'm reading the works of Mencius, enjoyable so far! Boardgame-wise I enjoy anything from Scrabble to Ticket-to-ride, but my all time favourite has got to be Settlers of Catan. As of this moment I am but a humble student taking a masters degree within forestry, working as a farm-hand on the side. I worked previously as a farmhand at another farm, and as an assistant at a garden-center before I started my studies. I aim to own my own house, and with some help perhaps make it a home. I love a well kept garden! I hope to have my own rose-garden in the future, the more intense the rose-smell the better! I very much so, am fond of, and have grown up with, animals all around. As such I am very much open to taking care of any animal under the sun, whether that be farm- or non-productive animals. But I am most fond of sheep, such lovely creatures as they graze in the summer sun. It should be noted, I have no sheep as of this moment. Overall I have been told I have an old soul, I have heard jokingly from some of my friends that they're convinced I never was a child, and that I was simply born an adult. I view myself as a people-lover, who also loves peace and quiet. I am no expert traveler, far-away is good, but home is certainly best. Then again, I am not opposed to enjoying the ride if you love to travel, just don't expect me to be very used to planning trips and destinations. I hope to find someone who I can enjoy the smell of roses with, drinking tea overlooking our garden, reading some good books and having deep conversations with. Having guests over to play board-games or to join in the book-club. Having friends over for dinner, laughter echoing through the halls. I hope for that person to be out there. Perhaps you would like to join me? And look at that, an entire biographical novel. Ah well, it's good to have it down on paper somewhere. If I ever start online-dating I'll use this. I'm currently sick, so maybe the time I have afforded to me allows me to dream away unbounded more so than usual. Nice video Kristin, lovely change of pace.
@@feles_optimae_sunt Why thank you Abigail! I certainly hope so myself! Thouroughness is also an aspect I forgot to include ironically. I'd rather it be done properly than not. Even if I'll never date online, to write a biography in a half-assed manner is an insult to those who actually take the time to do so. I'm glad I come across as fascinating haha! Thank you very much for the compliment, my new friend! To get compliments from strangers always brings a smile to my face. To think someone I don't know took the time to appreciate something I did, it reminds me of the beauty of the internet and of society in general. I hope you have a wonderful day hence my friend!
I'm an ENFP... I am not a native english speaker. My native language is greek and I gotta say that my writing is great (IDEALLY when it comes to spelling, which on this video appears not to be on point for the ENFP). I'm studying electrical engineering. I pretty much had to develop my writing skills, since I was a perfectionist before. (Now I just try my best and accept that it's ok if things are not perfect, that's just too much pressure to put on someone... But that doesn't mean that you should stop trying. Always keep trying and you will improve) That comes to say that if you are an ENFP it doesn't really mean that you are bad at writing...
the infp was SO spot on. i've involuntarily made a hobby of writing meaningful things in the comment section but deleting it immediately so i don't make a fool of myself, which is weird because i make a fool of myself all the time. i think. frick i need to dele
2:53 'Loath to' not 'loathed to'. E.g. either 'our ISFP is loath to reveal things in public' or 'our XXXX is loathed for revealing things in public'. (Type in second phrase redacted; it was a grammar point not a type point.)
Just an ENTJ here trying to craft a bio to date some people, yet not be perceived too much. Spot on Kristin, spot on. Drop tips on writing a bio below if you've got em, thx!
Usually the INFJ is a dead ringer, but the ENFJ was too relatable (despite the bio size ugh i adore most ENFJs but very few people will sit through that my love). I haven’t made the mistake of downloading it again though! Never forget.
Wow, as an ESTJ and mechanical engineer (now Sr Engineering Manager), it's crazy how spot on it is. I'm always proof-reading everybody else's work. Profile is missing an oxford comma though... 😄
INTJ: Height, education, income (not happy I live in a shallow big city full of shallow ambitious professionals) pictures of food I've made, books and movies I like. Desire to move to Australia, would marry **any** Australian no questions asked.
Oh, the ENFP, lol. I will always write way too much. My height, the subjects I'm interested in, what I'm looking for and also ask an interesting question at the end, which I will switch out every second week because it gets too boring hearing the answers to the same questions.
play second fiddle to my cat 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 "What would you write on my dating profile?" I don't have a dating profile nor will get one, but if I was a female, I'd put disclaimers and personal characteristics (that my pics provided cannot describe) and my interests I personally don't go seeking, never ever as a guy. Maybe once in a few years I might talk to a woman I'm interested in I sadly relate to the INFP one as an INTJ, it happens just like that too, where I'd delete an entire message, I had typed out and start over, possibly several times too
"I'M NOT FOR EVERYBODY. I'm not some nature-loving outdoorsy type. Camping utterly bores me. But if you're a non-smoking single woman who likes the indoors to the outdoors, who loves a good book or movie or music or game (board or computer), then I might be for you. Contact me, and let's find out."
Once again, you can never get the full experience of Kristin's videos without looking at the captions 😂
That is some hidden track type stuff!
I literally have an ENTP friend who pretended to be a flat earther during high school
True, and I honestly think they should come with more frequent instructions to that effect at the start. Not a criticism but I worry I have missed so many good insights and humour on previous videos.
+@@timothyhopper4956 that's the point.
ENTP is now in too deep as the leader of a national flat earther association, after starting to pretend to be a flat earther during high school. The amount of wealth, power, media attention, and fun she gets out of it is too much to give up.
@Alexis Webb prolly right at her death or even at her funeral
@Alexis Webb fair enough, let the end be a spectacle of smoke and mirrors
What'd they say!? Pause, laugh, play, rewind, pause, laugh, repeat! 🤣
The INFP deleting messages and rewriting them completely into something way less intimate is somewhat relatable!
You didn’t originally say “somewhat” did you?
@@nickmerchant4588 🤣
Yep, ending up with a really vanilla profile that gets rejected by most, because it's too hard to be open and oneself for fear of rejection.
I see male INFP like bad guys in romance novel. They don't care but secretly care about you.
@Ed Wright
Way too relatable!
I'm almost proud of myself for only editing this short reply 4 times before posting 😅
Kristin roasted her own type hardest in this video
What a nice way to avoid talking while being sick, while promoting your sponsor 😎
Please go to bed earlier, Kristin! 😳
If that's true, I respect the ingenuity.
I love how unapologetically honest ISTP is in their profile. I can believe that they would only sign up due to a lost bet! 😂🤣
As an ISTP I tried all kinds of bio from basic to funny to honest, from short to long. Not a single match in 1+ year. Then I realized it is most likely that my pictures are garbage (also honest), so even if anyone reads the text would sweep left anyway. Since I refuse to bother with "eye-catching picutres" I deleted the app and I'm not looking back. I also think if people are that superficial on these platforms it is not worth my time trying my luck there.
ISTP would never lost
@@szabib8048 Yeah. I would love to meet someone (my parents keep saying I should meet someone now I'm 25). But I want to meet someone naturally. Unfortunately I also don't like the big social gatherings so it's near impossible in my opinion. No idea what to do.
Edit: Fuck it. I'm adding myself after I get my hair cut at the weekend (assuming I remember). I always look bad in photos. Must be high chances if there are few ISTP's that want to join.
@@Jimmy_Jones 😆😆🤣
@@Jimmy_Jones As anothet ISTP, some advice: smile in at least one photo and don't take pics in the bathroom. Good lighting makes a lot of difference, avoid shadows on your face as much as possible.
The whole deleting whole paragraphs rewriting this is too accurate. How do I know ? Because I’m on my 7th version of this comment.
-INFP
NO THE INFP ONE OMG. Literally so accurate, having to restrain yourself from pouring your heart out to random people 😭😭😭
The ISTP is quite accurate. I'm an ISTP woman and the 2 times I was on an app, I didn't put a profile picture and my bio was something like "Just here out of curiosity" or "Just here to see what's out there". Suffice to say, I did not like what was out there.
Oh my God- I'm INTP, that is EXACTLY my UMT profile 😱 "Listens to anything that catches their fancy, trilingual, learns national anthems for fun, afraid of slopes" and so on 😱 I'm genuinely shocked that this was 100% accurate.
same. Trying to not put anything at first, then ultimately resorting to pretty much just a bullet point list of hobbies is scary accurate.
“learns national anthems for fun”
what about patriotic songs/hymns
INTJ that actually downloaded Ur My Type. My profile is as follows:
“Has anyone else noticed that half of the NT types use an anime character or meme for their profile picture? Half of the NF types have bad angled photos that are “quirky” and the only consistent generic photos are from the rare ENFJ or ISFJ. Not saying that everyone does these things it’s just a weird observation I’ve noticed on this app. Thanks for coming to my Ted talk.
I’m looking for some friends to have fun and/or deep and philosophical conversations with.
I like to draw, read, debate and cook.
I also play instruments if you like music.”
I get a lot of likes from NT users commenting on my observation. Most F users usually start a message with “hello I want to be friends”
“hello I want to be friends”
You're not real INTP if you don't have anime girl as a profile picture.
I'm also on Ur My Type. You do meet some interesting characters on there actually. On mine I put I'm not completely sure if I'm INTP (how the app types me) or ISTJ. How do you think that comes across?
I would like to be your fwend...
-ENFP
Mine profile pic is indeed an anime one (ENTP). I've registered out of mild curiosity and scrolled for a bit (memes in global) and haven't open it since.
Really enjoyed the intp’s backstory. With her talent of making stories out of tin air, I legit think that Kristin should make a book at one point, it would be punny as God intended.
I(NTJ) actually tend to max out space on a profile because it's more efficient long-term.
Yes, one has to spend time writing it out, editing, re-editing, etc. BUT... really taking the time to be alone in self-reflection while productively making a profile tends to save a lot more time in the long-run. By giving a representative multi-dimensional overview of yourself before the first message is even exchanged, you create a filter that saves you from wasting excessive time and social energy on matches with low-probability of lasting compatibility. Meanwhile, those that do like what they read wind up engaging with more enthusiasm and come equipped with multiple known topics of interest.
Some caveats:
- The first block of text should be short and introduce yourself generally and in as few words as possible (while still showing some personal style). For example, I tend to open with "Idiot, Intellect, INTJ". After that, you continue injecting more personal style/humor as you gradually ramp up in depth and breadth. (Within reason, of course. Though, what's "reasonable" is ultimately your call.)
- By the end of the profile, you want to have given a good representative sample of your character, not the whole of your being, if that's even possible.
- Always be sure to omit identifiable details, including dates, addresses, and names of orgs/institutions, family, associates, etc. Focus on helping the reader to flesh out an accurate image of you as a character study, not as a dossier.
- This only works when trying to find something meaningful. Both you AND the person you seek should have an appreciation for intuitive depth and have above-average levels of curiosity. Otherwise, use different methods.
Why do I share this? Because the world would be a better place with more-meaningful connections and fewer names to remember if more people wrote profiles with the aim of giving a good, truthful, realistically-multidimensional represention of themselves.
Also, I'm kinda bored right now; NGL.
I have been doing the same and in general it has worked really well. My last carefully selected xNTJ ex turned up to be a covert narc though. But I will be wiser the next time (hopefully). ~ INTJ
Agreed with everything...
I think you misspelled orgies before institutions.
as an entp, the captions for our part were super fun! they made me feel happiness ❤❤❤❤
oh, who am i kidding. can we really even define happiness? is happiness defined as an abundance of positive emotions, or as a lack of negative ones? where does "fun" land on that spectrum? the terms can even work against each other - sometimes doing fun things can lower our overall happiness, while things that are miserably boring can raise our happiness in the long run. therefore using those terms to describe anything is unclear at best. and what about the subjevtivity of- *gets shot by an SJ type*
*glares in xSFJ*
Sorry ENTP, but the INTP is calling out your logic lol.
Happiness has to be a presence of something, because an absence is insubstantial. Let's have a conversation about the nature of nonexistence. The absence of negative emotions is a lack of negative emotions, which means that no negative emotions are present within the system. An abundance of positive emotions is the presence of positive emotions, which means that positive emotions are indeed present within the system. You can't draw a conclusion from only negative premises. If there is only an absence, then one cannot say that the absence of something is necessarily the presence of something else. There may be other ways that that thing may be present. Or that thing might not be present at all. You can only say that something that is not there is not there. So happiness has to be the presence of positive emotions. It at least can't be the absence of negative ones.
I would point out, fellow NTP, that something that exists doesn't mean necessarily the presence of something. For example, shadow exists, but shadow is only the absence of light because light has been blocked by an object (at least partially). The same goes for cold, wich is the absence of heat.
I think happiness in the life satisfaction sense can therefore be defined as the lack of constant negative emotions and the presence of (not necessarily abundant) positive emotions.
@@thehosptial6877 got to it before i did lol
Since we’re discussing emotions here, let me speak as an INFP who has put a lot of thought into feelings.
First off, I would say that happiness isn’t necessarily the absence of negative emotions. Even if you don’t feel sad, anxious, overwhelmed, etc, you might not be feeling happy. Happiness can sometimes, but not always be experienced in other feelings, such as excitement or gratitude. I think happiness can be defined in two ways: the emotion and overall happiness. For example, maybe I didn’t “feel” great today but my overall satisfaction with life is good. Or the opposite if I am happy in the moment but whatever I’m doing has negative consequences that lead me to feel unhappy later. As far as happiness relates to fun, I think its hard to have fun and not feel happy, but I can definitely remember times in my life that I was doing something fun but did not feel happy for whatever reason.
tldr: Happiness is nuanced
I'm an ENFP, and learning to spell check is definitely something I've been learning over my life so far! But I don't use so many exclamation points when I'm talking about myself, or all those emojis, and I've learned to speak more succinctly so people don't leave from me taking too long...
I’m an ENFP too and I hate making typos. I always re-read my messages before sending to avoid any mistakes.
As an INTP, I'm actually comfortable writing anything in my dating profile because the odds of anyone getting to the point of meeting me in person are incredibly low.
Lol I can relate
2:25 The realest thing here is that Enfps's phone recognizes "jabkng" as "having" right away
As an INTJ, I find the ISTJ’s direct approach relatable. I consider my actions in terms of getting closer to achieving my life goals, one of which is admittedly to raise a family.
As for the INTJ part, I also find that quite relatable. My INTJ friend and I have conducted several surveys on various subjects related to dating, and have even used that data to construct a weighted formula that considers around 18 traits a person possesses, to determine on average how appealing a person is, as a potential partner, to the opposite sex (the weights being different for men and women). Of course, the whole process lacked the vigor of a proper academic study, but nonetheless proved a valuable and enjoyable experience.
I have admittedly also considered in the past, simply grabbing a clipboard, and walking up to 100 girls, beginning with the premise that I am conducting a survey (which is true), asking them a few questions for grouping purposes (such as age, student/ employment status, etc), before simply asking them if they would like to go out with me. The expectation would be rejection, but the goal of the survey itself would have been a desensitization to rejection/ interactions of that nature. I have not carried this survey out, for a variety of reasons, including to an extent my better judgment, and the concern someone might actually say yes, at which point I would be uncertain how to proceed.
Full disclaimer, I have never dated, and will likely never use online dating.
Just out of interest, what is the formula you constructed?
I get your point about not being sure what to do when someone says yes, but it would still be an interesting social experiment.
@@Noone-sr3ks essentially, we conducted several targeted surveys online, asking men and women (separately) to rank the importance of around 18 traits on a discrete scale of 1 to 4 (we decided a continuous scale left things to wide open, as there is no objective difference between a 2, and a 2.5, and it made data analysis easier. We also decided against a larger scale for similar reasons). Based off of that data, we determined weight for each of the traits, ranging from 1 to 4.
A person could either rate the self on the roughly 18 traits to derive a value, or instead give their own weights for the 18 traits, and use it to assess potential partners based off of their own self rating (or in theory, averages of ratings by others on the 18 traits).
There was more to it than that, but all of this was over three years ago now.
Reading that was actually a turn on.
@@aaliyahkishore246 That is a fair question. I will endeavor to answer it as best I can.
Firstly, raising a family is one of the most fulfilling ventures I can possibly imagine. You are correct in all of your points about the hardships of raising children, the costs, and the risks. But in my mind, the benefits outweigh the costs.
I admit I am fortunate to have had excellent parents, imperfect though they may be. Even through difficult times, crises, and tight budgets, we persevered. I could ask little more of them. My father especially was, and continuous to be incredible, and I admire him greatly (I am aware of the myriad reasons I would be biased in my admiration). So one might say my own father’s excellence has inspired me to want to be as good as a father as he has been. For reference, he was a highschool teacher for over 20 years, and ran an alternative program for students with drug issues, anger issues, or other factors that made them poor fits for the regular program. He never gave out homework, and could relate with the students, as he was much like them when he was younger. He was also homeless at 17, and as a result, has had huge impacts on various fundraisers to help the homeless across the years, even attempting to break the world record for a food drive, and in doing so filling up several 18 wheelers full of food, all over the course of a few weeks.
Another point, young though I still may be, I have spent time working, spent time studying (quite a lot at this point). I have achieved success, being invited to present at conferences, winning competitions, completing creative projects (from published written work to award nominated short films), managing to save a sum of money I am proud of. But of all I have done, it is in my role as a teacher, mentor, and coach to adolescents and young adults that I have derived the most fulfillment. To watch a young persons self confidence improve, their skill increase, them to grow as a person, and know that I have aided in that, even sometimes being personally thanked by the kids themselves, and their parents, it simply means an incredible amount to me. No matter if I may have been exhausted from a long day, or stressed, every opportunity I have to teach, coach and mentor the young people I work with invigorates me, and leaves no question as to whether the travel time, the loss of leisure or productivity, was worthwhile.
On the topic of opportunity cost, while it is a certainty that raising children will consume much time that may be spent on other things, whether it be leisure, or productivity. If someone is to have children, the children must be the priority. I do not however believe that there is a dichotome that must exist between having children, and career progression/ other achievements. In fact, having children is a strong motivator to work even harder, and be even more successful. Parenting works best with teamwork from two parents. Done correctly, sufficient time exists to cover the requirements of children, as well as sufficient work to provide for a family, although it will likely require creativity, and budgeting at times. This has admittedly only gotten more difficult financially in recent years, but I still believe it is possible with the steps I have taken, and the connections I have made thus far. Ultimately, I am not overly concerned about lacking money, or support. In summary, I can and will achieve my ambitions, while also raising a family, and I will have zero regrets about the decision to have a family “limiting” what I may otherwise have been able to achieve. On my deathbed, my children will likely be more important to me than even perhaps the most fulfilling career.
Another reason is related to having a legacy. I am one human being who’s time on this earth is finite. From childhood, I have sought to leave a lasting positive impact on the world, and that has not changed. This can be achieved in a myriad of ways, and I intend to do so, but one chief way is through raising a family, giving my children as good of an upbringing as possible, passing on the knowledge and skills that I can, and hopefully passing on the desire to want to help others improve.
Sure, one might be critical of my desire to pass on my genes, my own genetic code, and that of all my ancestors who have come before me, but it is nonetheless something I seek to do. In a sense, it is my only path to immortality (at least literally speaking), and one that I can be content with.
So to summarize this imperfect expression of my thoughts, I want to raise a family because I can think of little else more fulfilling. I want put them first, give them the best upbringing possible, see them succeed and flourish, and take pride in all their accomplishments, big and small. I want to teach them what I can (hopefully critical thinking), and accept if they end up having different views and beliefs than my own. I want to pass on the desire to help others, and improve the world. I want my children to surpass me in every way imaginable, and in doing so, contribute more positive change to the world than I possibly could have on my own.
I also need heirs for once I become supreme leader of the world.
@@preciousypenguino might I inquire as to which parts were a turn on? I’m genuinely quite curious.
What would I write?
"Connection via apps is not impossible, merely difficult. Only choose me if you are willing to hear me ramble about my niche hobbies. In return, I will also listen to you ramble when you want to. Furthermore, do not choose me if you are not dating to get married. Thank you for your time spent in reading this." -INTP.
Sounds great to me and very relatable😁 ~ INTJ
Damn I need to get an INTJ or INTP 😆
-INFJ
@@elleelle2473 To psychoanalyze us? 'Cause I'm down for that if you're also willing to let me do the same to you.
ENFP here. I have a 10 year old dating profile and it actually changed in style and content over the years:
I started with answering all sections and adding a lot of different smileys.
Then I cut from it hobbies that didn't last.
Then I added a section about attachment style and reduced the amount of smileys to prevent confusion.
And recently, I added mentioning my current depression and therapy to make people understand what they're getting into.
P.S.: As counterintuitive as this may look, avoiding spelling mistakes has always been important to me. Must be my ISTJ subconscious. 🤷♂
We ENFPs tend to be very strong verbally and often are good writers. I’m meticulous about spelling and grammar, so the typos throughout the ENFP bit (I mean, I guessed it was ENFP pretty quickly 😆) bugged me to no end. But maybe the ENFPs in Kristen’s life aren’t as particular as I am in that area. 🤷♀️
@@KM-fd8bw Same, at least in my native language. Da heku, I teach Japanese and even sometimes I end correcting people's Spanish XD XD In my case, I think it could because of my autism though I'm an ENFP.
@@azarishiba2559 １２年間日本に住んでいましたよ～!なんと偶然ですね！
@@KM-fd8bw ええ！ 本当？ 凄い偶然だな！ 僕は2回だけ日本へ行った事があるんだけど。
@@azarishiba2559 2回だけなの？！それなら、どうそんな上手に日本語が喋れるになったんでしょうか？
As an infj who's bio on one social media consisted of a variant of 'mystery is better' for years, yes. Classic infj lol. Although like the intj, the only way I'd be on a dating site would probably be for research purposes. But I'd probably not be stating that either.
I love watching these videos! Been here forever and while I don't comment much I have to say these make my day.
The UK captions are a riot to read! It makes the video twice as funny!!
The ENFP continues casually typing out an essay and then runs out of characters 😂- the struggle!
Even my uni personal essay is standing 1000 characters over the limit (which I need to cut down). Thank goodness CZcams doesn’t have a character limit on the comments lol.
Most realistic part to me was her spotting that everything is basically one big typo and going 'oh what the heck?'
@@tenebict omg the way I didn’t even notice that 😂- I thought she ran out of characters
ISTP - I had something along the lines "I know how to change a tire".
Perfect partner!
The ENTP one is so real. I pretended to think Australia was fake to a variety of people, and everyone was getting so frustrated of trying to convince me otherwise. I feel like it added 10 years to my life
Gathering data for a research project is indeed the only conceivable scenario in which I would engage with online dating platforms. Clearly some people use them for their intended purpose but I struggle to see how and why. Help.
My INTJ friend and I met as psych researchers and we legit discussed a hypothetical study design which would gather data from dating profiles. I died when that came up 😂
- ENFJ
ISFP just wanting to write “Taylor Swift” is honestly relatable 😅
I guessed INFP immediately 😂the amount of times I’ve rewritten my bios on dating apps
ikr? it's like "do i want to share my deep thoughts? wait no people will laugh at me oh fck delete delete DELETE no one is allowed to know"
I guessed that one right away too and thought, "Oh she's going to delete all of that." 😂 I do this with CZcams comments. 😆
I considered my dating profiles to be art forms. Every day first thing I would do when logging on was to revise the bio section of my profile. It worked. I got a wife that understands me and is a good match - 13 years married INFP & ISFJ
Is it just me or is Kristin getting so seriously attached to all her personality characters that even her completely roasting them feels like pure affection?🤣😍
(INFP) After deleting and rewriting my bio several times, it looked more like a creative writing exercise than a bio. It helped me find my INFJ though!
Also, yes, all my swimming lessons were futile.
The ENFP accuracy 😆. I always ran out of characters! And the typos ... it'd take me forever everytime I updated it.
A dating profile I actually almost made once, “I’m just looking for an editor for my short film, I can’t let my grand vision be thwarted by my lack of attention to detail. Thanks :)” ~entp
I could actually answer INTJ! I'm no zumba instructor, but I do go to a zumba membership, and the reason why it's a job is simply because being that encouraging, happy and friendly is 1. actually impressive, and 2. honestly pretty comforting. It makes working out a lot more fun! It's like being a personal trainer but for several people, and instead of exercises you do dances.
INFJ here and in the past I have definitely written an entire long paragraph about myself only to delete it because “mystery is better” 😅 Can’t reveal too much. My ESFJ husband of 5 years is still discovering things he didn’t know about me, on the regular lol.
Its me, I'm the ISFP with nothing but a cactus emoji in my bio and Taylor Swift's songs stuck in my head. She didn't lie.
LOL this is a freaking masterpiece. You embodied each the types so well, even down to the emoji choices. For most of them, I was able to guess the type within seconds lol.
Ah yes, the bio, my worst enemy... - INTP
Omg you absolutely NAILED the enfp part 😭😭❤
INTP is far too accurate. Even I'm a person with a fair amount of interests and hobbies but if you ask about me I'll just be like: "Ehm... I'm an homo sapiens sapiens."
Fantastic video as usual, Kristin, and completely spot-on. The captions are just the cherry on top.
Can I also say the bio of the INFJ would actually intrigue me? You've caught my attention INFJ, for better or for worse haha!
-ENTJ
Same about INFJ. -Another ENTJ
These were gold! Great format for this too. My ESTP brother's old dating profile just had "Sun. Surf. Adventure. Moonlight. You." and attractive XSFJs threw themselves at him by the dozen.
One more thing on INTPs, once the first profile doesn't seem to be attracting anyone, the whole thing gets rewritten. Over and over. And over.
That's exactly what I did, my first profile was very repellent, until I finally got a combination of pictures and words that got me more matches than I can care to talk to. - INTP
I was about to roll my eyes at the long emotional Infp paragraph… but then you deleted it and yes. Yes that is quite accurate😂😂
I thought as an INTP, I wouldn't be able to fill out a profile about myself. And your INTP didn't fill out the profile. But she did correct the darn autocorrect repeadedly. Even my "name" on CZcams is / because I wont offer superficial info about myself. Good job, Kristin! I can tell you research and get the advise of the types before you upload a video. Appreciated and respected!
I can relate a lot with trying to save but the app won't let you because you wrote to little lol. I am happy if I can even come up with a single sentece that doesn't missrepresent me :D -ISFP
INTP here “I hate small talk. Get to the point immediately or swipe left”
One of my first online dating profiles had the following keywords: True Neutral, Ravenclaw, and "combination of Amy, Rosa and Kevin." -- INTP
The INTP's life long struggle against key boards in the captions was great! Also, my dating app bio would be nothing, because dating apps are a waste of time. (this is supposed to be a reference to a previous Kristin video.) But I might get desperate enough to get on a dating app some day, we'll see.
Even though I am an ENFP, I make little to no typos and I will correct other people's typos when I see them because this is where my perfectionism shines. However, I do realise that I make typos when I send a text in a rush, but I will correct myself immediately.
Oh the ISFP not knowing what to write and just mentioning something they like is too real lol I also end every thought with an emoji, oops.
INTP - My friends have made fun of what I write in dating app profiles lol.. my Mom always says I pick a bad photo and look tired but, that's sadly the real me lol. I usually write:
"I'm a psychologist. INTP if you know what that is..
I like rock music, horror movie.....dogs..."
And I'm actually very confused about why I don't get matches hahah
"What do you like in a person?: maturity"
Then when I DO get a match I try to ask them about what they like but maybe it ends up looking like I'm interrogating them and... I always delete the app after 2 weeks 🤷♀️🤷♀️
I once use the the app, i use it just want to talk to some ENTJ or ESTJ about business ideas. Got a lot of good insights from them 👌
I might be wrong but INFJs probably would never end editing the bio, because there's no such description that would ever satisfy them, especially when there's a word limit 😂
I’m definitely one of the wordy ones, and can be very judgey of potential or actual dates who reveal that they haven’t read the whole thing very carefully, and possibly taken notes… 🤓
Nice detail, CEO in Entj
My old dating profile said, “I don’t know how to describe myself, because different people perceive me differently. You’re better off meeting me, and not waste time. You’ll either like me or hate me. If I don’t like you I will tell you if I like you or not. I always pay for MY bill on a date with someone I don’t know… so you don’t need to feel obligated to pay for me, especially if we don’t connect.
My expectations for you are:
You have a job.
You don’t choose some fast food joint.
You show up on time. If you’re later than 20 minutes… I won’t stick around and don’t expect me to call you after that. “
As an ENFP whose bio says “this says to write about myself, but that feels weird, so here’s this chick emoji 🐤”….I feel so called out
I haven't resorted to dating apps yet. I've got mad texting anxiety, an incredible talent for ghosting, and an irrational fear that whatever messages I send can and will be used against me in a court of law. And seeing as I'm not hot enough to date anybody in real-life, I just don't see how romance is possible in this economy. :/
So, I've resigned myself to being pleasantly lonely until I evolve into Mad Madam Mim (minus magic). 👍
I love all your videos and watch them religiously, Kristen! Always funny and creative! Keep up the great work!!
ESTP here, but I honestly related to the ISTP and the ENTJ the most 😂 probably too proud to do it for any other reason than losing a bet.
Actually as I was watching this I was secretly thinking it would be fun, but I’d have to think of some way to make a bet to get my friend to do it and then offer to “do it together.” Just for solidarity, of course. Not cause I wanted to or anything, don’t be silly… 🙄😂
Yeah...I downloaded the app...but haven't opened it yet because I don't want to fill out those boxes that say "Tell everyone about yourself."
I have half a mind to write down "I collect Spores, Molds and Fungus." And if understood that reference, then congrats, you pass the first test. - An INTP
*Also please buy a phone case, they are worth the money so that unless you drop your screen directly on a sharp rock your screen is not going to get chip or shatter. (Anything by Spigen )if you have that brand in Australia) I certainly endorse)
Hello Egon.
Your commentary on the ENTP sent me to kingdom come, pure genius
And the INFP is WAY too real if you know one IRL
As an INFJ, I don't think I could ever summon up enough courage to use a dating app. It would make me feel so vulnerable.
Another freaking dope video Kristin \m/
I'm an INTP who can't even go out socially on selected weekends lol
and my girlfriend is an ENFP who writes on phone exactly like that, I immediately could recognise her type when featured lol
Waaait a minute. My eyes can't keep up with the captions while I'm reading the text, and my eyes can't keep up with the text while reading the captions. You're cruel!
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It feels like ESFJ is so perfectly describes how I see nice cool funny person
But am I cool?
Am I funny?
Am I nice?
Kristin, why are you not Christine?
I don't think I am mysterious or want to be perceived that way .. but people do..
and yes, i won't like to write anything on my bio 😄 - INFJ
(INTJ) I actually created a urmytype profile a couple of days ago, just to see what it was like. I simply wrote in the bio that I was just checking the app out. I put a snow mountain as my photo. I got a like from an ISFP.
Heeey the ISFP totally stole my bio 😂😂
~ INFJ
In a bio I would be very attentive to any spelling mistakes, but my grocery list is always absolute chaos. Almost in code. Only I will understand how many snacks I'm planning to buy 😋
-ENFP
Whenever I see you uploaded a video, it makes my day!
I'm an ISTP who voluntarily posted some profiles on a couple dating apps. (I'm at the point in life I know I'm lonely so I'd might as well try & do something about it, although I really don't want to). Anyway, I decided to make it a game & made a couple pop-culture references & said if you get these, then respond. No one did, lol. Profiles deleted. Y'all suck, lol . . . btw, Kristin, bold of you to assume we ISTPs would place a bet we could lose...yeah dog, no . . . lol
The INTP's subtitles always have like a movie plot on them! lmao!
Waited to have my first cup of coffee before commenting. Entp here. Why do people feel the need to tell the whole world that they don’t usually resort to using an app for dating, or that they never would use one?
The way I see it, it's just a way for people to connect... right?
Seriously. It's like saying you'd never use a spreadsheet-based program like Excel. Okay, cool. Have fun paying for an accountant or doing calculations by hand. Dating apps are just tools to achieve a specific outcome. No one is special for refusing to use them.
Have never, would never make a profile. But I did once just put a "." for an Instagram bio. 🤣🤣🤣 I knew that was me right away.
Kristin, you never seize to amaze me. I do, in fact open the dating app, use it for couple of weeks, all my hopes for humanity (especially the male side) goes down, delete the app, say I won't bother, and after a while open it again when bored. Let's see. I opened new one this month, November. Last time I used was probably July. So.. about 5-6 months has to pass in order for me to make a new profile. You know me too well!
I would write an entire monologue about my obsessions and hopes and dreams, and then at the bottom, say, 'this is who I am. Take me or leave me.' -ENFP :D
As an INTJ, I will confirm the only reason I would get on a dating app is for research. Losing a bet is also a possibility too. My INFP husband hated the idea of online dating so he and I are pretty glad we found each other in person. Lol.
nailed the perfect cut for the ENFJ part😌
I don't particularly enjoy the idea of online dating.
I would much rather prefer we meet somewhere organically. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
As such, I wouldn't really write a biography for that purpose.
But if I were to do so, I would emphasize the need for open communication, trust and empathy in a relationship.
I would be looking for a long-term relationship, preferably life-long. I would not be open to compromising on that front, I want a future family, not a body-pillow.
I love my friends and family, and anyone who is willing to be a friend. I enjoy talking to people, whether they are known or unknown.
You can't really make new friends without risking a talk with a stranger, now can you?
I can get lost in my dreams from time to time, seeing what could be awaiting us.
I can be stubborn, especially when it comes to my principles.
Two examples.
I will not shave my mustache, should I ask of you, whether you should shave your eyebrows?
I can of course trim it to a style, same as when I or you pluck our eyebrows.
Yes, I was that nerd that reminded the teacher to check the homework in school.
Why? In essence, I seek to learn.
Because it takes 5 minutes to do it, and it's for our own betterment, if you personally haven't done it, the only one who suffers is yourself, I personally would like feedback so I can continue to improve, instead of just coasting by. I seek to learn from my education, not to get through it.
I love sweets, particularly baked goods and tea, it makes for an excellent companion to my reading, speaking of:
I enjoy reading and playing strategic board-games. It's hard to boil down which is my favourite genre of reading, as I enjoy anything from technical books about wood-working to fantasy to historical prose or other historical works, currently I'm reading the works of Mencius, enjoyable so far! Boardgame-wise I enjoy anything from Scrabble to Ticket-to-ride, but my all time favourite has got to be Settlers of Catan.
As of this moment I am but a humble student taking a masters degree within forestry, working as a farm-hand on the side. I worked previously as a farmhand at another farm, and as an assistant at a garden-center before I started my studies. I aim to own my own house, and with some help perhaps make it a home.
I love a well kept garden! I hope to have my own rose-garden in the future, the more intense the rose-smell the better!
I very much so, am fond of, and have grown up with, animals all around. As such I am very much open to taking care of any animal under the sun, whether that be farm- or non-productive animals. But I am most fond of sheep, such lovely creatures as they graze in the summer sun.
It should be noted, I have no sheep as of this moment.
Overall I have been told I have an old soul, I have heard jokingly from some of my friends that they're convinced I never was a child, and that I was simply born an adult. I view myself as a people-lover, who also loves peace and quiet. I am no expert traveler, far-away is good, but home is certainly best. Then again, I am not opposed to enjoying the ride if you love to travel, just don't expect me to be very used to planning trips and destinations.
I hope to find someone who I can enjoy the smell of roses with, drinking tea overlooking our garden, reading some good books and having deep conversations with. Having guests over to play board-games or to join in the book-club. Having friends over for dinner, laughter echoing through the halls.
I hope for that person to be out there. Perhaps you would like to join me?
And look at that, an entire biographical novel. Ah well, it's good to have it down on paper somewhere. If I ever start online-dating I'll use this.
I'm currently sick, so maybe the time I have afforded to me allows me to dream away unbounded more so than usual.
Nice video Kristin, lovely change of pace.
Wow, what a thorough and fascinating bio! Hope you feel better soon.
@@feles_optimae_sunt Why thank you Abigail!
I certainly hope so myself!
Thouroughness is also an aspect I forgot to include ironically. I'd rather it be done properly than not. Even if I'll never date online, to write a biography in a half-assed manner is an insult to those who actually take the time to do so.
I'm glad I come across as fascinating haha! Thank you very much for the compliment, my new friend!
To get compliments from strangers always brings a smile to my face. To think someone I don't know took the time to appreciate something I did, it reminds me of the beauty of the internet and of society in general.
I hope you have a wonderful day hence my friend!
I'm an ENFP... I am not a native english speaker. My native language is greek and I gotta say that my writing is great (IDEALLY when it comes to spelling, which on this video appears not to be on point for the ENFP).
I'm studying electrical engineering. I pretty much had to develop my writing skills, since I was a perfectionist before. (Now I just try my best and accept that it's ok if things are not perfect, that's just too much pressure to put on someone... But that doesn't mean that you should stop trying. Always keep trying and you will improve)
That comes to say that if you are an ENFP it doesn't really mean that you are bad at writing...
the infp was SO spot on. i've involuntarily made a hobby of writing meaningful things in the comment section but deleting it immediately so i don't make a fool of myself, which is weird because i make a fool of myself all the time. i think. frick i need to dele
I'm INFJ, but i Highly related to INFP x)
But yeah, eventually I'd probably just write what the INFJ wrote, after about 200 "first drafts". x)
My Tinder profile just said "Might not reply immediately" and that was it. The amount of swipes I got was baffling, frankly. - INTP
2:53 'Loath to' not 'loathed to'.
E.g. either 'our ISFP is loath to reveal things in public' or 'our XXXX is loathed for revealing things in public'.
(Type in second phrase redacted; it was a grammar point not a type point.)
Just an ENTJ here trying to craft a bio to date some people, yet not be perceived too much. Spot on Kristin, spot on. Drop tips on writing a bio below if you've got em, thx!
Usually the INFJ is a dead ringer, but the ENFJ was too relatable (despite the bio size ugh i adore most ENFJs but very few people will sit through that my love). I haven’t made the mistake of downloading it again though! Never forget.
"Mystery is better" - yep, that's basically me. (infj)
"I'm not interested in dating or romance." -INFJ
Wow, as an ESTJ and mechanical engineer (now Sr Engineering Manager), it's crazy how spot on it is. I'm always proof-reading everybody else's work. Profile is missing an oxford comma though... 😄
INTJ: Height, education, income (not happy I live in a shallow big city full of shallow ambitious professionals) pictures of food I've made, books and movies I like. Desire to move to Australia, would marry **any** Australian no questions asked.
The ESFJ intrigued with natural medicine, but decides to be a teacher anyway.😅 Literally, me.-ESFJ
Oh geez, the ISTP one is accurate. I literally have in my profile “I just downloaded this bc I’m bored” and gave up after two days
As an intj, the intp one was the most accurate
As an INFP… yeah we learn that you have to save the soul bonding for later lmao
Oh, the ENFP, lol.
I will always write way too much. My height, the subjects I'm interested in, what I'm looking for and also ask an interesting question at the end, which I will switch out every second week because it gets too boring hearing the answers to the same questions.
play second fiddle to my cat 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"What would you write on my dating profile?"
I don't have a dating profile nor will get one, but if I was a female, I'd put disclaimers and personal characteristics (that my pics provided cannot describe) and my interests
I personally don't go seeking, never ever as a guy. Maybe once in a few years I might talk to a woman I'm interested in
I sadly relate to the INFP one as an INTJ, it happens just like that too, where I'd delete an entire message, I had typed out and start over, possibly several times too
Always love your videos kirstin love to see how the different personalities respond
I love love LPVE this. ;)
it all makes so much more sense now that i realized i am INFP. i couldn't understand why i was so different than the INFJ on here.
"I'M NOT FOR EVERYBODY.
I'm not some nature-loving outdoorsy type. Camping utterly bores me. But if you're a non-smoking single woman who likes the indoors to the outdoors, who loves a good book or movie or music or game (board or computer), then I might be for you. Contact me, and let's find out."