After We Helped My Neglectful Wife Get out of Self-Harming and Depression, She Just Abandoned Me ...
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- čas přidán 12. 05. 2024
- 00:0 1st story:
My(f21) fiancé's(m22) parents outed their daughter(f15) on Facebook and are making her receive prayer/apologize during church (u/throwraalerting in r/atheism)
12:50 2nd story:
Wife has almost completely stopped taking care of our two toddlers. (u/Dadatwhitsend in r/Parenting)
19:41 2nd story:
AITA For Not Wanting To Pretend To Be My Twin On Her Wedding Day? (u/external_love_7071 in r/AmItheAsshole)
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OP's Ex went straight up villain mode near the end. No one helped him when he was her age, so he's gonna let her suffer? What is this? A classic villain backstory? The man needs help, don't take your pain out on others it does not make for a good life.
There's no way she should stay with him if he sticks to that, can you imagine how callous he'd be if they had kids and his parents harassed their children if they were LGBT, if this is how he acts about his sister being in that situation??
Red flags out the ears, I hope either he gets over himself or she gets the fuck outta there, same for the sister
@@munchihun6792altough it would be pretty funny once thd kids cut contact like "you never love me, your own son because of some stupid homophobia and church!!!" And he answers like "actually im atheist and avis ally of the lgbtq i just wanted to fuck you over specifically, why? Well when i was a kid... [insert villain backstory]
#2: "So, you're just going to leave me and our kids after everything we did for you? Well then. Sign over custody and go."
Wait. Wait. I can get over the mother ditching her husband and kids. Get angry and take her ass to court!
Wait didn't OP say her ex was the golden child? Like he was allowed to skip church? Now he was abused? He was always on his parent's side smh
Wouldn't be surprised if the "trauma" was a manipulative tactic in that case. But something tells me that the whole family messed up and their church isn't one of the goods ones.
It’s a manipulation tactic golden children typically use for sympathy points, he never specified why he was “abused” but kept bringing up whatever “traumatized” him which made me doubt he was even abused in the first place.
Golden Child is sometimes a conditional spot
I reckon that the "golden child" treatment wasn't about him being the favourite, but more about him being a boy (re: he mentions how he had more freedom, that his sister had purity training or whatever and he didn't). We don't know what happened to him or what kind of stuff he might have buried. It definitely sounds like the whole ordeal triggered him something awful, and that he's spiralling and lashing out in response. It's very common. Awful situation all around, I hope all parties (OP and the siblings) find peace and healing in the future. Organised religion is a social disease.
Dang because no one held him ex is downright crazy for golden boy
The first story sounds like Op fiance was gay/bi repressed and got abused worse than his sister to change dyring childhood to confirm to his parents beliefs
OPs ex DESPERATELY needs therapy because this is genuinely a deep seeded issue.
1# Something bad must have happened to OP's ex fiance at that church. Yet to the point of wishing the same trauma onto his younger sister is vile.
Story 1: Okay, so the only moment I think OP was the AH was when her ex said he wanted to leave and OP didnt support him. Aside from that, not the AH. At all. Hope Ex gets help and hope sister gets help too.
Story 2: Ah yes, the usual 'I married an emotional and fanancial leech and later they left to suck on someone else'. Honestly, we gotta stop marrying based on feelings and start marrying based on actions and Facts. No matter how much you love someone, there are always signs that they might not be the best or not want the best for you.
or just don't marry
@@HeoBaby24 The B4 moviment preaches this. Its not my personal choice, but I support those who are on board with It.
@@MyBlackPumpkinSoup like if you can't be with someone that you don't actually love then just don't get in a relationship.
a relationship needs to be built on love not "actions and facts"
not to day tou shouldn't look for red flags but come on now
Final story... what did mom mean they couldn't afford photoshop? It's not that expensive... most professional photographers actually include touch ups free or low cost. When my nephew scratched up his face in a bike accident, the photog at his 8th grade graduation did PERFECT photoshop to make it look like it didn't happen at no charge.
That Mom just has a twin fetish
I think Mom never discussed her little plan with the actual couple before approaching OP. If Jess was already going through trauma over her scars, can you imagine how she would feel seeing her perfect copy sister wearing HER wedding dress at HER wedding? No way Jess would want that.
This is why it is so so SO important to pick a quality partner with good habits and dependability straight out the gate, and not just go for whatever is easiest and hottest and most attractive to you at the time. That stuff can fade so fast, get old so fast, and be gone so fast when the relationship based on nothing but heat and attraction fades. The bones of the relationship must be good, the foundation strong. You pick a quality partner instead of falling into something “good enough” at the moment. Kids inevitably happen on accident and you’re stuck with a crap partner and it ends like this story. I was 17 when I figured this out and I am so glad that I used my head instead of just hormones. Hormones picked a guy who ended up eventually running out on three different baby mamas. I dumped him because I could see the writing on the wall-knew what it was like to have a hot but junky terrible father, didn’t want to repeat my mother’s mistakes because I knew what it did to our lives, and I went for a good decent man instead. Run on sentence but you get the point 😂. I wanted a safe stable happy home for my kids and they’ve absolutely had that. And this guy I married? He’s been the making of and the love of my life. What I thought that I felt for that other guy felt so intense at the time. Now I realize that it was absolutely NOTHING in comparison to this. A shadow of feeling, all raging hormones and physical attraction-nothing more. Yesterday my husband and I worked in the garden, drank tiki mixed drinks in crazy tiki cups, played music, carried around fuzzy little kittens to see what outside looked like-just had the best day together doing simple homey things that made us happy and feel grounded. Then our adult daughter got home from work (she’s going to be leaving soon to go live with her boyfriend in her university town where he teaches at the uni) and we all had a lovely dinner together of grilled foods over the fire pit. We fed the fish in our pond and sat together as the solar lights came on one by one illuminating the garden everywhere. It felt magical. I never would have had anything like this with that junky dude if I hadn’t gotten rid of him. I would have been a broke miserable single mother just like mine struggling and had unhappy kids because I wasn’t happy or there for them due to working my tail off all the time to keep food on the table. Instead my kids had upscale vacations and we paid for their friends to go to make it even more fun. They had music lessons, sporting events, water park adventures, huge happy birthday parties at cool party places etc. The works. Holidays were done in very special ways. We have a million bright sparkling memories of happy times together and it’s only because I loved the right man instead of a wrong one. We’ve been married for 27 years now, together for 29. Best decision ever. I love him so much that sometimes it scares me. I think I might very well die the day he dies of a broken heart. I told him to come get me if he goes first. Whatever there is on the other side, I could never be happy or ok without him.
#3: "Absolutely not. That is highly disturbing. This is why Photoshop exists. I'll pay for a good editor."
What trauma did he suffer?
He was probably bi maybe and had the same thing happen to him
@@rosarioacuna24 so he has a pass to be a tool to his sister?
@@georgeprchal3924no I think it's the opposite. I always wonder why people who go through struggles like look at the people coming up after them and are like if I had to do it so do they. Like wouldn't you have preferred someone before you make it easier for you? Why continue the cycle?
@@rosarioacuna24 "But how does this affect me?" seems to be his mindset.
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Op ex was completely right not to go to the parents who abused him. Now they are abusing his sister. You are the AH. Dear God, my heart breaks for that girl. That is why I am not religious or like Christianity, or any religion whatsoever. I hope she can get out there and for OP, you are an idiot for trying to stop your ex from leaving.
Wishing trauma onto others just because you have your own makes you an AH in my book. Hope sis gets away and blocks everyone, including her selfish brother.
@@southernflight5078 I only feel for the girl. Everyone else can kick rocks Because they are PLAIN F CRAZY
@@ivaveljovic9386 truth. I understand not wanting rewaken trauma, but using the fact that no one was there to help him at that age as an excuse to not do something? What will happen when he has kids? That man is a risk. He obviously needs a lot more therapy. He would've continued the cycle with OP's kids coming up with that lame reasoning.
Not all religions/churches are like there. There are just those who use their religion as an excuse, the reason you never hear about religions doing anything good is because the good ones out there just don't fight back and let all the bad things happening because "God will take care of them".