Entitled Parents Opened Their Marriage and Neglected Me for My Entire Life. Now, They're Wonderin...
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- čas přidán 17. 06. 2024
- 00:00 1st story:
Me 25M grew up with parents 48F and 52M who had an open marriage it sort of messed me up and my parents wants to know why I had not spoken to them in almost four years. (u/ThrowRA29329323 in r/relationship_advice)
06:39 2nd story:
AITA being pissed at what my wife said to our niece - Wife responds 10 months later (u/aitata8482828**(Husband) and** u/No_Card9780**(Wife)** in r/AmItheAsshole and r/AITAH)
22:22 3rd story:
AITAH for not helping my ex wife who cheated on me? (u/BedNormals in r/AITAH)
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Story 2: Yeah, that's not his niece. That's his Daughter.
Sorry 1 I hope op goes NC with that parents. They don't deserve him to be back on his life. Story 3 the moment she cheated she stopped being his concern and problem
I remember 15 years ago, when I was in high school and people found out that one of my classmates parents are swingers, THe kid did not have a lot of fun that year, he could not even receive praise from the teacher without someone making a remark about his mom sleeping with the teacher (I dont think she did, but the bullies did not care)
What happened to him and his parents?
@@GODdank I don't know. It has been long time since I have heard anything. My high school also had over 2300 students, so I have not seen him much during my final years
Uh What The Sigma?! See story one.
Kids will use anything to pick on each other. It sucks.
Story 2: Classic case of 'you shouldn't believe just one side of the story'.
Story 2 is clearly a completely different family Reddit has this very big problem of going around and linking stories together because they have similarities and were posted around similar times
Yeah but most likely there two different stories, also even if there not, which side are you believing, you have to pick a side anyways so who do you think is more right
There have also been so many cases of people making up stories that go along with other stories 4 karma the only way she could have known that the other posture would have been her husband would have been to have gotten onto his phone gotten into his Reddit and figured out what the username was or for him to contact her directly calling somebody out like that is usually a clear indicator that they aren't really related to op at all
Came here to say literally all four of these comments lol
@@Kevin-og1zxalso there’s a thing people do where they will write a “sequel” story to something else to get the upvotes. You should be insanely skeptical of anyone piggy backing off a story that’s gotten famous with a “from the other side” post because it’s usually just fan fic
All of the stories from the adult kids of swingers, swapers, etc., are all exactly this.
It seems like they never want a Kid, but have one just to cover up what they do.
There's a lot of "alternative love" people out there, they always have two things in common: they are happy and that's work for them; and their kids grew up messed and hate them.
False. Bad parents are bad parents whether they're open or monogamous . @@isasantos8577
People who had healthy childhoods don't post on Reddit asking for advice.
Monogamous people screw their kids up plenty.
Opening up the marriage is one thing (that's their choice) but to completely neglect their child to do so is cruel and horrible, a child should always be a top priority and the parents chose their urges and ruined their child's life, horrible parents.
Story 1: I think the parents will disappoint him again.
The first story could have been written by my father in law’s three sets of kids with different women (all open or poly relationships). None of them speak to him anymore. Or to his ex wives. And none of them went non monogamous in their own personal relationships.
Good on those kids.
That's just a shit situation. Bastard should have worn protection.
Story 2. Ok, the husband had me for a sec, but the wife cleared up my questions. The wife definately needs to divorce and protect her son. The husband is selfish. Let him deal with Kelly.
He’ll, I have an ex named Kelly. The way this one acted was similar to how my ex suddenly started acting.
There sides 3 sides to every story yours mine and the truth. Both sound fabricated.
I do t believe those are the same story. The details aren’t similar at all, if the husband just changed some details then it should at least be the same basic story. Either the OP of the 2nd post is confused or she’s outright lying about the 1st poster being her husband
I really don't think these are the same situations in story 2.
Fr I don't think they are the same story in the husband's post he said his brother was not dead
This is why situations like in the story 1 never turn out well. Whatever they had wasn't a real relationship, sorry not sorry, and it ended like it always did by messing up the kid caught in the middle of their gross lifestyle never caring about the consequences.
2nd story. OP please divorce your wife, she is a horrid parental figure and does not deserve a child of her own.
2nd story, your wife was not inappropriate, she was abusive. Your wife hates your niece and resents having her in your home
Pretty impressive pulling off livid and begging at the same time
2nd story is completely different families 😂
Story 1, bruh if you can not balance your poly/swinger lifestyle while making sure your child is not physical and emotionally neglected,
You have no business having that lifestyle sorry not sorry, it's ridiculous op and kids like op had to suffer alone while their parents were prioritize their swinging partners etc,
like no mofo your 11 to possibly younger child, should not be alone especially on holidays like Christmas, and shouldn't be bullied with no support from their parents, because they choose being intimate with other people over their own child,
And your child shouldn't feel abandoned like this period at any time of their life under any circumstances,
You can have fun but whatever that sht is should not take priority over your child, because if it does you have no right to call yourselves parents, and you have no right to be upset when your child resent you and want nothing to do with either of you, for neglecting them the way y'all did,
seriously balance your lifestyle or don't do it at all.
It's funny because I've heard of a family of swingers in my area. They put their fun on hold till all their kids were in college. Waited some years til the youngest went to his dorm. Guess some people just don't know how to prioritize properly.
@@southernflight5078it's not that they don't know how to but rather they chose their fun over the kid. They never even thought to check if their kid was okay
@@jestersreign7530Please. Good parents know how to balance being parents and their own fun. Op would have been neglected even if they were monogamous, simply because they're selfish
Story 1 op does not have to let parents in his life without hesitation keep nc your mental health will not only appreciate you and your life will be settled in peace 😊
He also doesn’t have to blame his love life on them
The fact that Chloe made it so Charlotte went back to a sort of normalish relationship with rather quickly might just show how much more mature she is than her mother. Something tells me that they were having just a petty sisterly squabble that no one should've bothered interjecting. How many times have bio-siblings told the other that they need to be better in a joking manner when it comes to doing chores or helping around the house? The wife probably made it sound more hostile than it was when she told him.
Watch until the end then comment again.
@@NessieNice no proof its the same story, reddit loves making magical connections that don't exist
They're two seperate storys right?
@@NessieNicewatching until the end didn’t really change my mind, I still think the wife was being a major AH
Story 3. The wife made her choice. Go NC. She is not your problem anymore. He's already told her what to do. She chooses not to listen.
There are a few versions to this one.
For S1, I heard that story where the op is this op's dad even after their son layed every reasons and traumas he had as a kid how he suffered as a teen as well to his parents perfectly they still couldn't understand why their son was making such a big deal over something petty and apologized to him only to save their relationship with him and after that they slowly remembered how they treated him when he was a child like when he was 3 he had nightmares and terrified because of that ran to his parent's and knocked it for a while and cried out aloud but they didn't opened it nor do they respond just becoz they were in the middle of s*x , only his mother remembered these things and regretted for this but still his dad in the end thinks that "only our spouse will remain till the end so we should only prioritise them first and everything as next" even after redditors pointed out their mistakes and failures as parents still his dad firmly stood on his ideology 🙄😤🤦🏻♀️
story 3: i don't have a problem with him not wanting to help her but for the love of God I'd wish he'd stfu about "I can't save everyone, i wish I could but..."
like bro "everyone" isn't asking for your help, it's just one person. you don't have to justify cutting her off or not helping her with that weird shit lol
S2 how does a parent treat a child like that if she'd ever wanted to adopt why did she agree only to become such a parent in the end.thst child has issues but no excuse to mean after knowing what said child has gone through. Wtf 😳 maybe a separation isn't bad at this point...
Whoever says Open relationships help strengthen bonds are delusional
What is with this super close relationship between your husband and Kelly, far closer it seems than with his own daughter. Might be worth a look.
The wife’s perspective on Story 2 doesn’t feel like the same scenario. I’ll grant that there are similarities, but if it’s not a different family altogether, it’s some other writer coming along to deliberately construct drama on the framework of the first writer’s story because they felt the ending wasn’t sufficiently cathartic.
Story 2: being a victim doesn't give you a free pass to be a POS. The fact that anyone has to point this out is seriously disappointing.
In all honwaty but stoty 2 is way abouve Reddits pay grade.
My hearr breaks for the kids.
Story 2, I don’t think they are the same story. Not at all
Is there any real evidence to say the last two stories are the same from different perspectives? I don't get why you'd say they are.
CLEARLY different story, different familys, precise details are different goof goofy goofer
Story 2: am I the only one who still think the wife was a major AH? Like obviously Kelly’s actions were not acceptable, but she is also a kid who is traumatized with abandonment issues. She’s literally saying “not my problem” to some who IS still her family, a niece, and not even trying to be understanding of the situation.
Story 2: that's fake as fuck
S3 nta.shes the ex for a reason like walk away stop taking the phone calls and stop wanting to help her. Ya the situation sucks but it seems she won't listen and you have to stop talking to her.nc yes.trying to fix her no
Story 1: My parents were very happy, but I was determined not to be. I am a hateful person who revels in shame and scorn. Couldn't get 2 minutes into this video.