MIXED SIGNALS From Girls | AVOID Misreading Signals!
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- čas přidán 16. 04. 2019
- Mixed signals from girls! This is literally the most confusing thing ever right? In this video, I speak about why a girl gives mixed signals and how to stop letting her control the outcome. The biggest thing that makes a woman attracted to you especially dealing with mixed signals is when you don't try to impress her and slowly let her come to you. In this video, I also talk about why girls give mixed signals.
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Unfortunately a lot of men are tired of women's nonsense and are choosing to be single. Less headache /stress /lies /mind games etc... Happiness is priceless!!!
Exactly
So true
Very true
Well said
Yes,i used to be like that but after a recent relationship that went bad after several years of not dating i decided, ive got a lot of love in my heart and love shouldnt be wasted. Problem is now im in one where the girl says shes interested but doesnt really show it. Im totally confused, i cant get her to open up emotionally at all hardly. Im just going to move on, not wasting my time on someone who cant express how she feels
Give women a taste of their own medicine mixed signals it drives them crazy when they can't figure you out. Never try to figure a women out it's not going to happen. Always Be willing to walk away and respect yourself.
I realized it too late I let her go. Remember the street is a two-way street.
It's exactly what I am planning to do to a girl in my classroom mixed signals beyond comprehension but no texting no phone calls only in real life gonna take the control of her mind because she wants the control over my mind, let's the game begins I am not going too loose
Couldn’t agree more, it has to be a natural and organic process, if it’s all over the place and you don’t know where you stand, you gotta show her the high road! Stay masculine .
I actually did that 😂 bitch got emotionally attached push and pull method…I got bored of her mix signals bout to walk away.
I tried to give mixed signals, it becomes chaotic because she also gives mixed signals and the situation becomes unhandleable. (with a normal woman maybe it works better, but with my ex things get too chaotic and stupid).
I just gave up on love... done!!! Putting my energy on my self. More rewarding !!
I've done exactly this. And I am happy 1000000000 times more than ever before. I went to the gym, do intermitent fasting to lose weight, learn ji jitsu and boxing, buying game consoles, do everything just to make myself feel good.
@@TheNormanduartetolle same here lost 40lbs and got spare money to spend..
You don't necessarily need to give up on love. Little by little you learn new social skills, women's psychology, their behavior, how to be respectful but deserving respect from others especially women, assertiveness, self confidence, etc.
Ms. Ponti 's site is an excellent place to start with
You came to the right place. 👍☺
u didn't give up on love, you're loving urself
And yet here you are commenting
Saying no to women not only attracts more of them, but allows you to be more precise with who you let in
Thank you for putting this issue in better perspective that I have known. Not to be sarcastic, women are notorious for giving mixed signals.
They think we are mind readers.
Ok yeah a friend of mine was dealing with that...He met a woman who gave him mixed signals and here is what I told him to do...I told him to stop being there for her and go date other women and finally when she would see him with other girls, she was getting jealous because I told my friend to stop giving her attention at all and stop being there for her cause due to the fact that she doesn't know what she wants, she keeps on using you emotionally...
But then when my friend started doing what I told him to do, she started respecting him...And they finally started dating...Either you want him or you don't want him at all...There is NO in between...Most of the time, it happens because they feel insecure, or they had had a bad relationship in the past and are scared to date someone so they just don't know what they want...But you need to know your value...You cannot let someone treat you like that...
But yeah when she started going out with my friend, she told him that she wants to take things very slow because she was hurt before that's why but she really liked him for sure...They are married now and have two beautiful girls...
Excellent video and perfectly timed(for myself).I see the hot and cold shown by her.Thanks for the clarification as to what she's experiencing and how to deal with it.Thanks again.
Again I agree reason being is when all the games,confusion resides the regret be the time you waisted & it's not cool or fair.Good video Thanks!👌
Very well stated! There shoud not be any uncertainties in a relationship. Both the man and the woman are in it as a whole or not at all. The goal is to build together as a whole, not a half.
Even my own mother admitted to this from her perspective. There's a girl at my job that gives me mixed signals just like how you described. I just freaking called it.
A girl at my work was doing the same thing, It’s exhausting and just not worth it.
Great video! I experienced this kind mix signal from my ex. Thank you so much for the explanation. Appreciate it!
Thank you I needed to hear that. I myself was wondering cuz I have ran in that situation. Now I got the answer I needed to hear . Thank you
Your channel has helped me improve and I thank you. I am now happily dating a lady that I previously would have considered pretty far out of my league. She is way up there in physical beauty...a 9 or 10. The one comment I would like to share is sometimes when you find someone special persistence pays. This lady I’m dating has a lot of interest from men (way too much actually) and I believe has developed a “hard to get” MO. It’s been like this her whole life from what I understand. She agreed to a couple of dates and then rejected me, but I kept after her and we eventually continued. An abundance mindset might have suggested to go silent, and move on, but you make exceptions for someone special. I’ve had a couple times with very beautiful women where persistence pays off. I think that is part of their test, when if they go out guys are falling over themselves to hit on them. Even still my policy is to keep validation to a minimum until you have a relationship. You will want to tell them they are the girl of your dreams, but you lose all power if you do. My two cents for what it is worth.
Where does the line go from being a fighter/ having persistence - to beeing a creep/stalker..........
Great video as always lady.. you always make sense 😌
This was very insightful, thank you.
Men need to understand that they are a “prize” just as much as their S/O. It’s shows value, strength and confidence when a man states what he needs/wants and when they express actions along with voicing their needs/wants to their S/O- i.e I will find someone else if we don’t get on the same page- it brings about inner value. It all boils down to self-worth and loving whom you are. This is something I’m still learning and it’s a process but vital to your happiness not just yourself but the relationship as a whole.
As always Apollonia gives great insight and is just simple, true and effect. Thank you so much for taking the time to help us watching your channel 😊
I agree. I like how you used the word "prize". Men do need to state that they have an option and that is the S/O consequence. Make a change or good bye.
Thank you for your support and comments. They are very much appreciated. I have included a blog I wrote for your reference: www.apolloniaponti.com/how-to-love-yourself-again/
Best,
Apollonia
That only really works if the women aren't delusional. Around here it doesn't much matter how great you are, the women aren't going to commit because they think they deserve more than what they have.
Reeses Pieces So right, that self love is important. Value your time, or others won’t value it.
Thank you again this content is right on point to know about mix signals
I.agree .let a woman do her own thing .don't be needy don't be feminine. A woman. Has to earn the privilege to be in a man's life instead of a man working hard like a construction worker just to have a woman by his side.
Totally Agree APOLONIA and thank you so much for clarifying my doubts. Am into this girl who is always hot and cold but never committed or shows any intent to move forward in our relationships. Thank you so much
You are so welcome!
Best,
Apollonia
Thank you for the advice and information.
That thumbnail is 🔥
Giuseppe Verdi knew about this when he has the Duke of Mantua sing “La Donna E Mobile” in Act I of Rigoletto. “Woman is changeable”, especially women who are born into privilege and who are used to having every whim catered to. My mother was not like that. My wife is like that. Over 44 years, I have contended with this and have learned how not to be driven crazy by it. It’s great you are covering this topic.
Thank you for you support!
Apollonia
thanks you for this video mrs. apollonia i really needed one like this
You're welcome Marlon!
It would be great if you did a video on your own experiences and how you became such an expert on relationships at such a young age.
See that thing called “LOVE” is frightening
Thank you coach!
My best advice, and I’m not expert, is to listen to your gut. If something seems off with you and the other person, then it is. She’s sending mixed signals for many reasons, but if she’s really interested you will know it. Sometimes the mixed signals are to see how you feel about them, or maybe they like you but are in a relationship and don’t know what to do. I wouldn’t sweat it, you can stay friends but move on to someone that genuinely wants to be with you.
Great video!
Great Advice!
I've done this about 2-3 times now, I stepped back twice. One time during the quarantine, she reached out and then the second time after I told her my feelings and distanced myself.
Not only that she is trying to decide which man she is going to date .....
WOW, Apollonia!! You did it again!! I don't know how, but you did!! Anyway, this is something that is talked about a lot, behind closed doors, but never address. I know, in my own personal life, girls are always giving me mix signals. Or, at least that's what I think they are doing. Not on purpose, of course!! lol Lets just say.... it's probably because.... No.1) They need/want attention No 2) They got burn in the past, and they don't want that to happen to them, again! No. 3) They dont know what they want!! Anyway, I find this to be especially true when it comes to younger girls!! Older girls tend to know what they want. Not always, but for the most part, they come across as being more confident, and more secure in their decision making. Another words, they (older girls) are more go getters, than someone who's much younger then they are! I mean, what do you think? Is this something that you find more and more in your practice these days or not? Also, I was wondering if you can please provide the link/video you described/talked about (Self-Love) above, below. lol I mean, I tried to look it up on CZcams, but wasn't able to locate it. I think it will HELP me and a lot of other men get their self confidence/worth back, after being played for so long!! Anyway, thank you, my love!! lol ;-)
Hi John,
Your comments are so much appreciated. Thank you for your support. I'm including a blog that I wrote on this topic for your reference:
www.apolloniaponti.com/how-to-love-yourself-again/
The video you are looking for is called "How to Find Your Purpose"
Best,
Apollonia
This was a good vid with sum great points on how to balance a relationship . cuz im doin this npw n my current relationship an its wrkn great great 👏 gotta set the tone an flow 👍😉
DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! WINNER, WINNER! CHICKEN DINNER!
THANK U SO VERY MUCH FOR MAKING A VIDEO ABOUT THIS!
*some girls don't want/like to acknowledge nor accept this! Immature imo.
Also, this is very overlooked b/c it's hard to pinpoint/discern; hardly anybody talks about this, b/c of that.. Once a girl does become a woman and takes care of her priorities/values, they're not out telling everyone "Hey! I kno what I want now; this is why I was driving u nuts" lol.
*toxic girls take advantage of this tho smh
XOXO AP
Great video.. Good Vibe. Good advice...
I wish I can afford a session with appollonia one day, cause lord knows I need it! Or maybe time will heal me haha
Great advice
You are the best!!
oh man I came on this video by accident and ... it was just what i needed to hear. I know a girl who gives mixed signals. She doesn't know what she wants. And if i am honest with myself, I know she has lots of issues. Lots!! I was her friend w/ a little bit more. She stopped talking to me recently over something minor that i did ( i lied about mailing out something). But she forgets the facts that I was always there for her. ALWAYS!! Anyways.. just wanted to say that. lol Maybe now, after seeing this video, i can make a decision as to whether or not to reach out to her again or just move on
You re the best my coach
Mix signals? Man: “Pulls out the fat wallet”.. Your signals are now WI-FI strong at 3000 mbps
but there are also millionaires who can't find a wife or real gf, so it doesn't really work that way
Its either a fat wallet or 14 inch personality. Either your rich or your dead broke and hung.
Great video
Treat them the way they treat you. Simple.
I love this
Mixed signals, keeps leading us on.
Thanks for this
You are welcome!
Apollonia
Thats why i always let my intentions be known. And stand firm. I do mixed signals. Either she wanna be with me or she doesnt
It's sad if you have to force someone to want to be with you. Either you are, you are not or they both have an understanding of what they are there for plain and simple. If someone has to go through all of that, then why want to be there anyway? Doesn't make a lot of sense.
Thank you Apollonia 🔥
You are so welcome!
Apollonia
100% true !
Never have met a woman who actually knows what she wants
Great content
Thank you so much!
Mixed signals to me means no direction,order,structure,rules,regulations & guidelines in the relationship .. Signals don't get mixed when those things are inserted & established into the beginning of the relationship ..
Man I was that stupid guy one time
I avoid reading signals at all cost. I ask women straight up if what I think is true. I don't have time for the games
Im gonna hire the former Astros manager to steal signs for me
maybe you should make a video as to why there is a dating coach, dating advice industry for women, such as Matthew Hussey, and others as well, because how or why do women even need to learn any dating skills or social skills, interaction or courtship skills, when women don't have to do any approaching on their part or initiate, escalate anything, take any action on their part, it looks like everything simply "just happens" for women, so I don't see what women need to know or learn when it comes to getting a date or getting a boyfriend.
Another good video.
According to Coach Corey Wayne women send mixed signals because you're not acting in a consistently masculine way towards them.
When you're acting in a strong masculine way towards them it causes them to be attracted to you and to be able to remain in their feminine energy whereas when you're not acting in a strong masculine way they lose that attraction.
So it's not actually their fault they're just responding in the way nature intended them to under those circumstances.
Which is why Apollonia recommends all these things in this video which are basically telling you to act in a stronger more masculine way.
Then she'll be attracted to you again.
It's basically all in your hands so quit blaming women and start acting more like a strong man and it won't be an issue any more.
PS Apologies for the lack of commas my phone is getting old and it's currently not letting me access commas apostrophes brackets and so on.
That maybe so , but also she may have other men in her life .....
this girl in my class keeps texting me everyday and she has a bf. one day i texted her i really like her smile then 2 days later she texted me that i shouldnt be saying that to her because the way it comes out makes her uncomfortable. i mean it was a compliment! like wtf!!! now she is started to distance herself im doing no contact rn
This is completely incorrect. They send mixed-signals a lot of times to first put out their interest in you, to see if you are interested, and because they have another guy in their life or possibly a ex they still have feelings for. It has nothing to do with a man being less masculine. Women are subtle, they play these games because they lack assertiveness.
She didn't seem interested at all and then one day sent me a message "If you don't come get me I'm going to be with all these other men."
ick.
I had no idea she even thought about me that way.
I had no idea how to reply.
I thought it was a trap to go to her work to get someone jealous or something. Maybe say I'm stalking her.
I wrote her "haaaa. You gave up first."
Hey Apollonia thank you for your wisdom and help but what I really want to get to is how do you as a man getting next to a woman without coming off as needy or pathetic cuz my thinking is if I'm approaching a woman trying to get next to her then I kind of feel obligated to do whatever it takes to make it worth her while to convince her that I'm what she should turn her Focus toward but in doing that I sometimes and up buying or doing things for women who don't even appreciate it or who reject me right there on the spot in the initial engagement I was trying to meet them what should I do
I think the woman you described knows what she wants and it’s not the man she’s with. She’s cheating. In the process of branching back and forth she goes from hot to cold and back. She’s playing two guys at the same time and she’s stressed out. I’m sorry. I believe things happen for a reason. And you’re right. The guy should take care of himself first. She won’t.
I appreciate it
Thank you!
I’m having this problem where this girl is giving me really mixed signals and so she told me that we can be just friends. Now that we are just friends it’s like she wants to know where I’m going and try’s to figure out who I’m hanging around . I just really don’t know how to handle it
If a woman gives mixed signals means they want more options besides u thus pushed u in a pecking order. leave the queue and do ur thing. Much better than thinking about her signals
Can you please explain what are boundaries in simple terms how to set with example and without any metaphor.
How appropriate is it to be assertive in the early stages? Say first few dates? In my situation, There is chemistry & she even initiated the initial contact that started this potential relationship but now she is being hesitant. Do I just back off and give space ? Or do I verbally express myself only if hot/cold continues on?
Back off. Let her come at her own pace to you. Strange creatures women are. The moment they sense things are moving too fast for them, they start pulling back or acting hesitant. Don't use logic to try and determine what's going on. Just give her space and let her come at her own pace. It's frustrating but that's just how they are lol
It's called mind games.
I had girl work colleague flirt and show interest with me and cried when I left my job. When I asked her out after I left, she ignored and forgot about me.
A girl I’m talking to gives me signs and talks about me to her friends which are obvious romantic signs but then she’s being cautious by being friendzoney with me and saying I’m “too sweet” like she’s so difficult to understand and the reason she’s cautious is because “im too good to be true” it just doesn’t add up
Girl:
-youd be such a good boyfriend
- are you into any girls?
-i wish i had a boyfriend
Also girl:
-im not really into anyone rn
-i mean i kinda like ben i guess
if she isn't respecting you and your values then dump her.
She may be just a big flirt... not into you but into the attention you give her.
I literally did the things in this video and it made the situation worse.
XD
Interesting🤔 U get a 👍👌
Going through this
She dumped me at church 4 months ago. I stopped showing up at church and stopped calling her. She’s called 5 times now and I even ignored one of her calls. She called again 6 weeks later and said maybe I will see her someday. I called her back and she says she will see me in a couple weeks.
Three weeks later she called again telling me she wants to get together and talk. I said sure and she says how about next week. She is playing a game with me, as soon as I start to feel better and move on with my life, she calls. I may have to ignore her next call, but it’s so difficult. I love and miss her so much. I nearly started crying when I spoke to her after 2 months of no contact. She says why can’t we just be friends without any intimacy. That’s when I told her there’s no way I could do that. She keeps calling though
Do not, I repeat, do not cry in front of her. Be stoic with women. Follow your gut. Problem with us guys is we don't follow our gut. When you get that feeling that something is not right or you're getting played follow it. Your girl sounds like she's an attention seeker or checking in with you every now to see if she still has you. Don't allow yourself to become her option. I'd tell her to leave you alone until she figured what she wanted but I wouldn't sit around waiting for her either. Don't let her waste time. I've been there before and missed so many great people I could have been meeting because I was stuck on this one girl.
stopped showing at church? on god he gon punish yo ass
painlesslife I hope you’re joking
❤️
Hey you have been of great help by the girl I love keeps texting and calling I have proposed her intially she rejected it but now she starts to be interested but not committing it she listens to what ever I say suggest me what do I do
how to HIT Apollonia Ponti on a subtle way ?😎
Going through this right now with my wife, we have Separated but she keeps asking me over at least twice a week to hangout. Then is distance for A few days then back to hot again.
Your videos need to have the outro music again, it doesn’t feel right without it
I agree! I will get to work on this. :)
They never mention how in some cases the man isn’t meeting her needs and desires. You want it to work but he fails in areas you need him to work on after bringing it to his attention. At some point it’ll come to just leaving but the but before that?
What is the name of the video you refer to in this?
My gf and me are going to the UK in 2 months time to study so she gives me the excuse that she's not texting me as much and only seeing me once a week because she wants to spend all her time with family and friends. However I think that texting shouldn't effect her spending her time with family and friends so I think this is an excuse. What do you guys think about this 'excuse'?
Update
Imma just end up giving up 😂
Once women give mixed signals I just walk away.
You are guilty of making a G..
You are loved too...
I always wish you were my elder sis
So I went out with this girl Saturday and she was really enthusiastic about going out. Said she was waiting for me to ask. After the date she said she’d had a great time and when I suggested doing it again she was totally down. The next day we actually went to lunch with some people we both knew. We even made plans to hangout at a social event with other people that we know on Tuesday and possibly meet up (just us) the next day as well. Well plans changed and she got tied up having to go out of town earlier than expected. The only time she’s texted me first was after the date(when she was enthusiastic about a second date). Should I be concerned?
She always responds to my texts enthusiastically and isn’t short and does not seem distant
She just won’t initiate it. I realize we’ve only been out one time alone, but we really clicked we sat over coffee for nearly 5 hours and told each other quite a lot of information. Personal information as well as the typical stiff
@@Hunter-ir4kp 2 years passed, Howd it go?
Great advices. I met this girl through a mutual friends she doesn't remember my name but she said she remembers who I am what does this mean?!
That she has a brain with memory?
Maybe she's trying to figure out if you are who you say you are.
Men: If Freud couldn't figure out women, what makes you think you can? Live in the ambiguity or give up!
dating a girl is like playing chess guys!
I am friends with a woman i work with. A couple of times in different conversations she would tell me "we are just friends. " i asked her if i ever did or said anything to make you think i am interested in you romantically? She said no. WTH did have say we are just friends?
She might be trying to see if you are interested in being more than friends by putting that out there. Or she’s trying to convince herself that you two are just friends when she may be having feelings.
Currently getting mixed signals rn😑😑😑
Sometimes this happens because the woman is not sure how you feel about her.
Yes, this can happen when she is not sure how she feels!
@@ApolloniaPonti no i mean in the begning she knows she likes him but the guy doesnt shows is into her, she basically doesnt know what to do.
Apollonia question has social media like Facebook Twitter Instagram messed up modern day dating .?? I learned that woman can post lots of pics of her self and get over 1 thousand likes from guys and it inflates her ego boosts her coconfidence to reject men at any given moment
My ex started texting me, we would text back and forth then she disappeared. She would call me we would have good conversations then she disappeared again. She gave me her address told me to come over then she acted like she was sick, when I showed up. What does this mean?
Bro..just walk away
She's testing you. Make her deserve your attention. Don't just give it to her when it's convenient for her.
What do I do if one of her closest friend.. I think likes me too??. I told her that i only liked her friend. Do girls talks about guys that they like with each other??? I just wanted to be cool with her. So her friends talk good things about me. Please i need to knows...
I forgot to mention we all work together. Is that a problem or should I worry about it???
Move on. Period.
and mess with her head.
She literally acts like she likes me and does everything a girl would do if they liked you then once I try to make a fuckin move she pulls back I’m sick of it I even tried the distant thing and she kept texting me and stuff like that and I don’t understand why she would pull back and say “no I’m just your friend” is there anything else I should do before I move on to the next girl?
Forget about her bro!