She Lost Interest | How To Re-Attract Her & Get RESULTS!
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- čas přidán 29. 06. 2024
- In this video, I talk about what to do when she loses interest and needs some time or space. This video is for you men that want to get her back but you might have lost some control in the relationship and wondering what you should do moving forward.
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Stop chasing her because if you treat her like a celebrity she’s going to treat you like a fan
Exactly 💯
AMS 🙏
This is beautiful!!!!!
How would u do that if u look shit
@@pogikoshet9351 look like gold. Build your inner world and outer appearance over time... Focus on you and allow her to chase you.
The best way to get back a woman is not to focus on her but to focus on you. 🙌🙌🙌🙏
100
Did it work?
I like that focus on me GOT IT
Create you chanel bro...You have a new follower pending.
Damn straight
My ex left me. We had a 4 years relationship. She said she doesn't want me. It was so hard for me to getover it. Just damn 4 years...
Then I moved on. It was so hard for me (Sometimes I thought about suicide. Then i thought about my parents)
I didn't contact her and did meditations to control my mind. I just focused on myself. I worked on me.
After 6 months later i heard she ask about me from her friends. Then she called me and said She misses me and still loves me.
But I wont go back..
I had enough pain..
I wont need her anymore.
Good for you! You deserve to feel good without anyone else’s validity.
That is triumphent. Sounds harsh but I like the you made your bed you lay in it lesson you dished out right there
I Salute U My Brother. She Didn't Deserved U Anyway. 👑
Been there done that
Don't ever go back
Go back
Don’t try to re-attract any double minded woman who thinks she should be constantly entertained and validated.
You got better things to do with your time, kings
Man you r too much. I liked your comments 200%
Thx man
Interesting you say this. When ever I say “I feel like I constantly have to entertain you”. The girl gets upset. My next statement usually is “when was the last time you planned a date for us”? Then there’s silence….
@@anthonyjohndemito faaaaacts.
Wow pretty insightful. Could have used this type advice a while ago. Not sure it’s too late now. She’s at a 80-20 power play. Not attractive when you are a 20%er.
I was told a long time ago that the person that cares the least has the most control of the relationship.
Indeed
Yeah but why would either party want a mediocre loveless relationship?
@@Don-pk2uy Because a lot of people aren't that genuine unfortunately. They probably get gratification from being on a pedastal or in position of power, more than a symbiotic loving relationship.
Yeah this is unhealthy
Sisco Farms my mum told me “love is a game whoever cares loses”
Other female dating experts: bring her flowers. Make her happy.
Apollonia: have self respect. Move on if she is not responding.
That's why you are gem. 🙂
Why can't you bring a woman flowers with bees in it? If she likes honey in her tea now she's got home made honey.
This woman tells it how it is.
Or use gaslighting to destroy her psyche 😜
True story
Ravi ThakoR flowers lol no. Worse thing you can buy a women.
"Your jumping fences for someone that isn't jumping fences for you" wow.... That it home...
forget getting her back, buy a motorcycle, nothing puts a smile on your face like a motorcycle. What freedom, stop the endless games, enjoy life. Free for 4 years after 42 years. It was hard till my trip on my new Triumph Tiger to the coast. GOD BLESS Triumph.
Rule no.1
Love yourself
Rule no.2
Focus on yourself
Rule no.3
You do not chase a woman, meet them half way and if they don't she's not right for you.
Perfect advice, all you need in a nutshell lol.
Absolutely right Bro 🤣
You know how hard it is to find a woman who’s single, fit, doesn’t smoke, looks gorgeous and showed interested in me? It’s like a once in a lifetime event to me to meet someone like that in a bar… of course my mind is going nuts ! Such woman are rare these days !
She loses interest in you and you walk away simple, you need to look at it as disrespectful if she loses interest in you even a tiny bit you're great and if she fails to see that then you don't need that negativity in you're life.
What if we fucking have a kid together...
Not if you’re the one that screwed up
@@blessaries The woman will always say that you are the one who screwed up, regardless.
Patrick Sachs They’re not wrong every time. We’re human and fuck up too, same as the next person.
@@mbk9998 you'll be always the father and she, the mother, so you don't have to force the relationship, move one.
Never chase her but attract her by becoming a better version of oneself day after day !
Just ignore her, when she sees you go about your business upgrading yourself and can see others wanting you, she'll want you back
Women needing space and time like they some sort of astrophysicists.
underrated comment 🤣🤣
Nice
LMAO
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 LMAO
Am going through this now..time too wear the pants
This is how to re-attract her, tell her you won the LOTTERY....
@Chien thang😂😂😂😂
Ha. Facts. It would work.
hahahahah
Unless you really did win the lottery, then let her know. And I bet you won’t need her back.
haha no bro she will think ohh he won a lottery with me , lets play game with him a do whatever i want and will treat you like a doll . I think is better to have a selfrespect and not always her ego beat you down so I think we should have some self respect and don't let them think that they are our first priority
The way you get back a woman is not by "focusing on her" but by focusing on "one's own self" 👌
What’s funny is I don’t even know how I ended up here.
By degrees. Little by little. Like the frog in the pot of water. How do you get back? Same way, by degrees.
When she texts you.
Tell her that you are busy.
She will get verry curious as to why you are not making her a priority anymore. Then she will start wanting and craving it. And when she does become re attracted, don't give into her wants again. Instead be like this
I don't need you. Or anybody but myself. And it's other people's decision to be apart of that.
*don't say that to her. Just have that mindset*
This will make me lose interest so fast. I think it’s more about fine tuning? A balance. If a guy is “acting” uninterested I wouldn’t know he’s acting, because I will think he’s genuinely not interested which will make me back off. Of course men and women shouldn’t be overbearing but still It’s a balance.
Bro if i say that she will just reply ”okayy” or someshit as if shes not bothered idk what to think at that point
@@deyondas8822 that is just what i tought, bro so listen if she says it , its the same like seeing her with another boy and you dont want to look like you are jealous that is just wat the girls like a man that is jealous what you are gonna do if she says something like okay you just think like that she felt it but she is teksting like it didnt do anything to her do you understand me?
@@superrinella26 True
That’s bollox
If you want her back ask her if she says no leave and get on with your life
Shit happens , rain fails , sun shines and people brake up
As a guy that took care of a girl with a broken heart. And gave her everything. You should not have to anything more. Still you get dumped. Rebound. Hurts.
Yeah that's what I did. First she is telling me she lost her virginity to a guy with my name. She has her boobs in my face, she was laughing and talking about my blue eyes We hung out at the pool for the next few weeks and then she went cold. She said I came on too strong??? I came on too strong? If I could figure out what I didn't do right I would start making these video's!
Same bro,It happened to me
Same for me... She was single avoiding all relationships because of a broken heart.... I fixed her heart... I cared for her... Now when her wounds are healed... She doesn't need me anymore.... Fucking hurts like a MF.....
Yeah uh I’m not sure why this isn’t common sense but your personal experiences doesn’t define every person
Learn from the women,use the same tactics and weapons she use.
Treat her worst then she treated you.
Some women love to be miss treated
I can go on and on but could be politicly incorrect language.
I agree. This is what we all know. But we choose the addiction over knowledge sometimes
Run from a women who is this much work , she is not worth your time
The only female dating coach I listen to
:) Thank you
I swear she's the realest
How many deal breakers do you need⛔♿✔🚽🔥💰💲
yea cuz she takes pauses when she talks.
@@ApolloniaPonti i just wanted to say i will go to your website and contact you. Thank you for the advice. Just to give you some context before i do. I came out of a 4 year realtionship. I knoticed i wanted to live my life with her so do finally what she wanted which was marriage. She wanted to marry she asked me will you marry me why havent you ask. Well i said look i hold her cute arms and said i actually do want to marry you. But if i marry u it will be out of love but not matteral goods. I told her that can you be patience and wait for me to finish my school work and get that master to get the job. Then to get you the home and provide for you the rest of my life. But she got feed up with me about me not giving it now to her. To understand i am a Taurus young 25 year old i have never had abundance but i have always given this Sagittarius girl that 4 years older then me what she wanted. Emotional and phsical sercity also. I love this girl with my soul and i want her for life. But she texted me 7 days ago i and told me it was over and that she liked that guy. I felt like a knife was thrown in my heart. But i havent conntacted her in these 7 days. I could go to her home and send her a letter. Is the only way of connacting her. Because she cut me off from all social media and blocked me on her phone. In Essence, when i was at school i didnt see her much and in that time i knoticed the hell with it. I made a mistake i want to marry her i will marry her and i will fix my ecomic situation as i go. Well i saw her in May we talked about a fucture togeter then i bought a ring but i never got the chance to tell her i was ready to comittee. 😪 this pains me the most i was ready! But she left me for an9ther man i am guessing because of the abcents of abundance.
I will work on my new image i am trying to wait 30 days or 35 before i contact her. In 7 days i found 2 jobs i start in 3 days. So i will have 3 incomes i started going to the jym. So i need help i will contact you soon. On your site. Thank you for reading this.
With much respect and love.
Sincerly: Aaron salentine
90+ days of no contact.. I think she is coming back around. Listen guys, from my experience (don't take my word on it) she will come back if you pushed her away, if she pushed you away because let's say an ex came back, good luck, she got what she wanted, you gone. Sometimes it's not your fault she left you. Want to know how you don't put a woman on a pedestal, stop assuming it's always your fault. Like everything in a relationship, it fucking takes two.
Reel nigga
Fuck girls that lie
sebseb seb i was awesome with her but she left, i tell her to comeback but she said it wasn’t the right relationship!
So we didn’t talk for 2 month until now
@@nimas3276 I was the best I ever was, I went to a psychologist, she too confirmed I did nothing wrong and it was all her, but some women are dumb or immature or both and can't appreciate something good, their excitement comes from drama, from emotional abuse and pain and that is not healthy. When I saw her she wanted me gone, I felt and never looked back, didn't ask for anything, didn't beg, nothing, I felt with my head held high and that was it. Right now I am dating in search for a connection which I can not find. People do dumb shit they regret when it's too late.
nima s ei bro what happen anyways? Still no contact until now? I scared to do this no contact relationship.
This 9 min video changed my life....like literally made me understand women more for sure
Thank you for being here!
No contact rule has definitely worked for me. She started texting and calling me after 3 weeks! ❤️
99 % of the time,if She Lost intrest in YOU,She Gained interest in Another Guy ,PERIOD.
She still can gain her interest back at some point just work on yourself for months
@@EJayyDreadHead what if you broke up with her ?
Cannot agree more!
My girl has a lot of shit at home , which she really does I’m not gonna say what on a CZcams comment section
@@EJayyDreadHead fuck her once shes gone deuces aint no coming back. lmao you accepting her back after her dogging you out like that is a no no
Don't be around the girl who's pilling away/leaving so often. Stop ringing and emailing her, give her a chance to miss you. Be thin on the ground, leave her wondering where you are and what you're doing. None of that will happen, if you keep bugging her all the time
should i stop posting immages also on my whatapp status, becuase she always look at it. well that make her miss me if i dont
@@blacmanonrise1 occasionally post something with u having crazy fun (not with other girls in a club or something it'll only push her away, but if the pics involves hot girls somehow in the background while ur there just having fun not giving a fuck.. it's the sweet spot you want) .. emphasis on the occasionally.. u have to make her looking forward to what's next and always guessing about your whereabouts.
Currently I am going through such a situation, and this video affirmed all that I am thinking and believe. It's tricky, because you have to show her what your worth and what you bring to the table, while also showing her that you don't NEED her. Focusing on your own growth, development, goals and work is generally a good thing to do. We aren't going to get time back. And we should use it wisely. Thank you very much for your advice and input. Greatly appreciate it!
So true. Thank you. You’ve answered many questions for me. I ve realised that after 3 years I was just being used by my ex. I loved her more than she did me.
Its easy just stop caring about them and they’ll start caring
How long does it usually take bc I’m doing the same
Also we’re in quarantine so it’s really hard
Pls help
Haha 69
@@nicoserez1019 it takes the time it needs to take, Im meeting up with my ex this saturday, its been 3 months since we dont see each other, give her space to miss you and she will eventually check you up (they always check you up) dont post anything on social media, just go ghost, be misterious and she will need to send you a message at some point, it can take 2 weeks, 1 month, 4 months, focus on you right now, remember if you text her you're just giving her even more power, and pushing her away caus you're showing her that shes the max you can get
Three word answer. Work on yourself.
A LOT!
@Robert Carswell Yeah, but we get the picture! Lol ^____^
@Robert Carswell Work is 1, On is 2, Yourself is 3... Which planet did you learn how to count on? Five?
Don't wanna touch that one✔
Well, it sure wasn't the same one you learned to count the first three words up to the the period...
Does it really matter how many words? Do you want a relationship with a woman or not? Get better so the next woman that comes along can get the best you that the others missed. Sometimes the best way to get revenge is to be successful. This may not only help you but her too. She may see you better and then realize she messed up with you and improve herself and come back and you guys can go strong or you do it with someone else or remain single and reap the benefits alone. The confidence this builds is enormous.
been struggling and thank you for this video. You’re truly a gem❤️
Apollonia, I really appreciate you and the great advice you continue to give so that we can work on building stronger relationships and to also work on ourselves to overcome our own fears and shortcomings. Even though this video is approx 3 yrs old the advice is spot on and relavent today. I am now going through this very same scenario in my life as we speak and I couln’t have come across this video at a better time because it’s one I needed to watch and hear and apply to my situation. Thank you so much for what you do
The best to get her interest back when she lost it is. Don't show attention, lost interest too, move on with your life, let her see you can live and happy without her. If she's made for you, she will definitely come back. If he chase her when she lost interest, she is gone forever.
Is that true bro?plz reply 😭💔
@@kavishjeeban5005 yes it’s true. Women care more than they show. They’re always wondering about you and what you’re up to. Just do you pretty much and if she comes back, do your best. If not, then that’s that ig.
If u truly love it set it free and if it comes back it was meant to be a woman will never truly respect u if u can’t show her that you’re willing to walk away
Darrick Brisco yes ...once they see you as a strong man walking away she will value you. Worked for me ...even if your heart is aching fellas ...hang in there..if she really loves you shell come back
That don't always work bro, I dropped a $20. Oh how I loved that twenty. It flew right into this old lady hands. She looked at me waved and said thanks sucker. I really should have gave foot chase on that one, but I get your point. Not everyone worth chasing.
@@CookieBagTv Very true !
That is the best advice! I've told many people that but they don't want to listen. Walk away! And when she comes back have real discussions about what happened. Don't just let her back into your life. Have some self-esteem and self respect!
So where do i drop my wife? Theres a dessert near by
I so wish I found this (all of it) before I got to where I'm at now in my relationship. Your wisdom is a true blessing to those who need help! Thank you!
You have no idea how much this helped me... I’ve beeeeeen unhappy with my relationship for so long now but now I know what to do
Ultimately, i live by that old poem:"If you love something, set it free....if f it comes back, it's yours if it doesn't, it never was" Grovelling, begging, pleading with a Girl to come back. Sitting around and moping about her leavin, never work. it really is that simple
"If you love something, set it free...if it comes back, then no one else wanted them." ....or....
"If you love something, set it free...if it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't, hunt it down and kill it."😳
@@QuiDocetDiscit set her free let her get played, when she comes back treat her like a side piece.
Just cry in private if you need to, grieve if you need to with one person you really trust. But let it go and look forward over time.
@@QuiDocetDiscit what poem is this? I want to read it whole.
Only problem, without that , theory ,They dont come back.
Paradoxically, the best way to win a Girl back, is to move on with your life, and show her that while you want to be with her, you don't NEED her. That need makes Guys beg, grovel, and plead with Women, which drives them further away....and only justifies her decision to leave in the first place.
Move on, get on with your life, and start living it. Stop asking dumb questions like:"How do I get a girl to date/come back to me?", and start asking:"How do I become the kind of guy that girl wants to date/come back to?".Staying the same Guy a Girl left, won't bring her back to you, simple as that. If being the same kind of Guy a Girl left would bring her back, she wouldn't have left in the first place.
Get busy living life, find a purpose to get out of bed everyday. Develop a firm understanding of who you are, define your life's purpose, and the philosophical basis for your life. (Whether they be religious or political). Then ask yourself this. If the Girl you want to date, or the one you're hoping will come back to you, followed you around everyday, observing your daily routine, what would she see? What is it about what she sees that would make her want to be a part of that life?
The question should actually be; "How do I make more money"..
Bro this opened my eyes on a wider perspective than I had before. This changed my perception in a matter of seconds. Thank you deeply
Kinda needed this. Thanks. I truly believe this is the right move.
I should hang these words on my bedroom wall 😂😂. Thank you very much
@@curtisotieno3292 You're right, that's what makes the mill run......
Wow! I've watched dozens of videos in this subject, and finally, this one showed me what mindset should I have to tackle my problem. Thanks 😊
This was right on point it’s good to know what I’m doing is not giving up on her but putting myself first very good to hear
your videos helped me conquer my depression and suicidal thoughts bless your soul!
They say disconnecting from an intense emotional relationship can be harder than kicking heroin. Know yourself.
oh god i believe it its like "if i dont try to be friends with them im a completely fake person" feel
I swear to god it feels like withdrawal when you cant eat, sleep, or think straight without her. So you gotta get clean to think clearly
It's TRUE.
I've done both and the relationship is absolutely harder to walk away from me.well use to be
sorry no i kicked heroin and believe me its much fooking harder then any women
I am going through these videos to relearn these things in which I learned during my tenure in college. I am super satisfied with Apollonia Ponti's information in this video. Thank you
Thank you so much. You’ve reinforced what I’ve been told and elaborated to a point where I know what I’m doing is right. I had a girl who rocked my world. She broke up with me because she’s afraid of the future and I’ve been the only long term guy in her life. I constantly catch myself displaying behaviors you’ve stated like wanting to get her back or being afraid that if I don’t talk to her, she’s gonna fall for another man. Im switching colleges next year as a part of my program and that’s a major reason why she broke up with me, but I know I’m right for her because our similarities and chemistry are something she won’t find here. Hell we were together on and off for two years (initial breakup after a year then we tried to get back together) and the spark never went away. She makes these decisions off of her brain not her heart which I can respect but it sucks because I get led on by this woman because she really likes me. Ughhhh. Gonna try to talk to other girls but this campus is 65% guys.
This woman is definitely one of the best coaches. I’ve heard dozens of them to compare her with.
I feel as if she walked out of your life don't try to get her back its usually not worth it cuz it's all a game to her, she's doing you a huge favor by leaving and showing you she wasn't right for you anyways and her true colors, fellas YOUR the prize at the end of the day not her, it's not worth the pain and agony just focus on yourself
But if she owes you money you may want that back..
Kurtis Miller Walk away.
That’s right this guy nobody’s talking about because if she really cares about you she will come back and then she doesn’t go well move on look for someone else that the sad truth.
+Tru- KD
Coolest comment.
And I'm in a situation where my girlfriend of 13 years decided to sabotage our relationship.
And she just upped and left me.
But this comment just helped a hurting brutha...
I'm gon' let her take her butt on.
One closed door opens another. 🖐️🚪👫🥂
Yeah true ! 👏👍😉
Thank you Apollonia for this video I’ve been depressed lately but this really helped me feel better today !!! One day you’ll be my coach
My pleasure!
This video helped me realizing somethings that really pushed me in the right direction for our relationship. Subscribed!
A man just needs self-control. With self-control the woman can set her hair on fire and the man remains unmoved. The man must at all times be in control especially of his breath as well as what he allows his mind to be attracted to or distracted by. In the relationship, which ever party makes the other to change their breathing pattern controls everything else. It's that simple. No need to analyze women or figure out their motives and devices, just have self control and she will acquiesce and fall in line or she will go into personal character attack to throw you off your center using chaos. So buckle seat belt and have some savings kept on the side that only you know about. Preparation is the first law of self-preservation.
Woman: *Sets hair on fire*
Guy: Are you done being dramatic?
8:49 - 8:59 was GOLD
Thank you, the end made me cry because i have to love my self first. It sucks when your just getting to know a girl and you act kind of crazy for them or get mad because they played hard to get and now they think your crazy but its just so much emotion that you do feel crazy over someone. Damn Patty
I needed to hear this from a women’s perspective.. I hurt the girl I love the most bc of insecurities, doubts etc. everything you said about how some men are during the time to try to get them back hit me because I truly regret everything I did. My thoughts consist of her everyday and I do not want to let go because she’s the only one who’s made me feel this way before. I truly would do anything for her 😞💔
Going through the same thing right now my guy and I’m trying to work on our relationship but I feel like we need space to miss eachother but it’s hard
Hehe she told me to move on haha. I got no choice but to leave her alone without contacting her
currently going thru this, threw me back into depression
That’s the exact type of shit you need to stop typing
Currently also going through this dint know how to walk away we have 1 beautiful daughter and she is so confused it makes everything much harder how has everything turned out for yall blessings for everyone in the comments and god give us strength
This is basically what The Red Pill is talking about. And yet it is classified as misogynistic cult. Its refreshing to see a smart and quality women like this talk about this. Keep it up.
The "no contract" is key. My ex-gf broke up with me. I moved on. About 4 months later, she wanted me to join her and her friends on a 3-day weekend trip. I told her thanks for the invite but I have plans with my buddies. The no contract period gave me time to reflect on the relationship. It was mostly about her and her games. That was an easy decision for me.
Great video. Thank you. I met a good woman with some past issues. I unfortunately thought that I could "show her the light". Yea, no. So with me doing that I lost myself, lost the person that I KNOW I am. I seriously thought that could never happen. But this relationship has been an awesome learning experience for me. Once I started to just chill which is my normal self. Things changed. Sometimes we get intimidated by a person and we feel like we need to match up with them or they're past and what they're used to. But along the lines we tend to forget that THIS person is with us for a reason. F@#k they're past and what they did or who they were with. They're with YOU. What I got from this video is maintain strength, it always wins.
Thank you. Thank you
for this . Apollonia, I'm signed up for your class , on Sunday Jan. 24th . I'm looking forward to getting some insight .
This is the only female dating coach I’ve came across on CZcams who talks sense, if you used strategies from other female dating coaches you would lose that girl in a blink of a second
Thanks so much Tyrese! I'm here for my men that's for sure. Appreciate this feedback.
The first few days might be hard, but if you keep yourself busy and focus on yourself and smash out some personal goals/achievements - you'll soon realise that she was not worth the heartbreak. Been through it myself and got to the 3 week stage of no contact where she admitted she fucked up but I was past it. Look out for number one fellas and people will respect you more.
truth
Yes that's true. I go through something similar, I didn't have control, got too attached and pushed too much. Maybe she lost interest forever and fucks up everything now.
I was barely able to change my focus of mind the last days, but you motivate and show me, others go through the same and I can as well. Thank you
@@TkevTV Exact same boat bro. I feel u. Been 3 weeks now since no contact and damn, it's still hard some days. But this video has some strong pointers for sure. Been focusing on myself more and growing and achieving personal goals. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, just casually start talking to other women. Get yourself out there and have that abundance mindset. She may eventually come back and she may not. It will hurt, sure. But the difference now is that you're OK with her never coming back. There's more women out there. Stay up bro. Good luck 🤞🏽I might hit mines up after like 45 days when my mind is ready and strong enough to risk permanent rejection. Almost....
Aye thanks king
@@SrananKing yeah bro, good luck to you too.
As an update, she and I broke up a week after my post. Through that I learned that, it's also good and ok to be down and to sulk.
Not that it should be permanent, but when you're down, it has a reason and you need to process something.
I was really down, almost destroyed myself, broke my hand and much more. Right now, after 2 weeks, I slowly get better. Focus on Uni again, work out more, train a positive and still realistic mindset, work on my restaurant and other business
And I still sulk over her sometimes, I allow myself to be sad for the good times and for that I wish for more.
But I also know, there are so many more, that deserve our love (NoHomo)
There are so many more that fit to me, there've been before as well.
So never giving up is truly key.
Distraction is also good, still, processing it is just as important. One can never fully run from his problems.
I wish you well brother, hope you do good and can forget her ✌🏽🙌🏽
Awesome positive vibes Apollonia. Thank you for solid direction.
I’m actually going through some similar situations and that’s exactly what I’m doing focusing on me and while living with her I’m doing things differently... I stop forgetting about me, started analyzing the wrong things I’ve been doing, I started taking the lead,complimenting her indirectly, listening to her and sharing things that happened through the day, when she comes home if she’s not i do the meal, when we’re going out she never know where we going all I say are you free if she says ok then i tell her to get dressed and surprise her. I’ve been practicing it’s a little hard but worth it if you want to save your family my wife said she loves me but she feel lost and wants to find herself so giving her time and on my side doing my part as a man without forgetting where I’m going has helped me a lot.
Same here man it hit me hard knowing I could lose her
This hit the nail in the head! Perfect timing. I’m going through this right NOW and this helped me so much. Thank you!
I’m glad to have found your channel, I’ve already watched 5 videos today. Women don’t often remove themselves from these kinds topics to give a genuinely unbiased opinion. Well done.
This is so on point for sure, thank you so much 💯🔥
Let go of the outcome and work on yourself ladies and gents. As she mentioned, know your self value and if they recognize the prize. They come.
You answered all my questions in my head that grows fear in me. I’m in this right now and thank you.
If you really want her gone call her everyday say you cant live without her..if you want her to stay ignore her..lmao3😂🤣
Already did, she said she doesn’t care. Lmao
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i did bro, and she say we have a great time together but i'm sure you will find someone who love you and take care of you lmao
Nailed it on the head, wish I watched this a month ago. Made everything alot more clear for me!
I feel like we're finally reaching a breakthrough in terms of clarity and identification
Great advice, what a powerful lesson. I discovered your channel a couple of hours ago and have have been binge watching videos ever since. You're absolutely right when you said it's not a game but human nature. I've thought for most of my adult life that men are supposed to play cat and mouse to win over a woman but to your point, it's about being natural and creating healthy boundaries. Thanks for all the great advice, congrats on your success and keep up the amazing work!
You're so intelligent, Apollonia! I'm gonna watch this video again and again.
Thank you this was some very inspiring advice in probably the darkest time of my life!
You are so welcome!
Liked this video so much I watched it back to back!
This video helped me out tremendously. Some days I do great with talking with high quality women and some days, I strike out.
I wish more women were open and honest like you, your videos are a gift. Whenever I failed I can find the reasons why and move on.
Keep up the great work.
This video makes me believe that relationships in this century are way different than in others. At some point in history you had to be like a brave knight who would storm a castle and battle a dragon to get the princess. Nowadays it's the thing that pushes her away because that's the ultimate way of being needy.
Focus on you and the women will too 😉
-Mystic
Best video yet... only a 9 minute video, but the most valuable 9 min of your day. Keep coming back it works...
Thank you so much for watching Ruben!
My number one attraction to women is,I keep a straight face and never lie to a woman.And I know my true ORIGINAL identity which I NEVER make my self cheap. This has given me 110% of powerful confidence. Thanks Appolonia for mentioning examples of listening to our mother's.
You answered all my questions!! thank you I needed that real talk.
I have been watching so many of your videos for the last three months. I wish I was more financially set, I would totally hire you to be my coach. 🙂
Thank you so much for this video. I saw myself in this and it gave me hope. Got ditched during my covid quarantine 6 days ago, and I'll give my best shot in showing no weakness :)
I try the stay away for a couple of months,and now she lost comlete feelings for me but say we can stay in the same house for the children sake but we can't be together again because everything she had for me is gone,we are married for 29 years now,the space had created a third party who she love but denies when I ask but I've seen the love messages sent to him,any advise I am broken to pieces.
Thank you Apollonia for all your help and support you help me strengthen myself and be me so my next relationship won't turn out like my last and I appreciate your videos and you...
Phenomenal video. Inner work in not always easy, and it's also worth it. Shows maturity, self-actualization, and personal responsibility which is always attractive in anyone.
You’re one of the few people doing this that really does a fantastic job and offers grounded and insightful advice. Thank you.
I have lost the attention of a woman I really am in love with. She increasingly ignored my texts more and more until it became obvious to me that my value in her eyes is pretty low. I finally walked away (but I can’t call her an ex by any means). She’s told me several times she misses me, but at this point I’m not contacting her. I see the value in this whole walk away thing, but this all HURTS, I ain’t gonna lie 😢
Thank you for your support. I know it hurt, but if you stay in it longer, it gets harder. Stay strong and positive.
Thank you Apollonia... You unlocked something in my mind that I didn't succeded to leave. Infact I use to put too much focus on her, while on the other side I work every day to become a better man, knowing new things. Greetings from Italy! ❤️
God I wish I had watched this video a couple of months ago. Thank you so much for your comforting and informative videos.
I am glad I watched this video. I found myself to be needy and trying to develop myself. What you said in the video is what I did.
Awesome video Apollonia, thank you so much!
Thumbs up Apollonia Ponti, great advice and mental coaching, Your such a blessing!
Best relationship video ever. Can be applied to relationships in general. 🙌
I'm so so happy listening this. I actually put 100% on this lady who never give back love. I think I will pull for 45days to see .
This was endlessly helpful. Thank you.
You are amazing! I’m going tru this right now. You are keeping me from texting her and calling. I do notice she’s one of the first once to see my snap. Just wanted to say thank you
You and I both
This is powerful,thank you Apollonia
These are the clips we should watch before every relationship... Not when its too late👌great content
Thank You Appolonia. You Always Speak Good Sense and Empowerment and Value to All Parties !
After watching your video, it encourages to value and love yourself. And put her in Check on your expectations. Loved the video. Thank you
Apollonia, u are spot on here. This is perfect advice! 👍🏻
God says do not let your heart be troubled. That’s how you get control
BOOM love this. was helpful :) and helped me align myself
Thank you for this. 🙏🏾. I’ll start doing this tomorrow.