How To Make Her Miss You! 4 Tips: When It's Not Going Anywhere!

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  • How to make her miss you! Is something just not going the way you want it to with this woman you've been dating? Are you finding it hard to take things to the next level? Possibly because the attraction was diminished in some of the processes of dating her. So, that's why this video is important to listen to when you are trying to figure out how you can make her miss you more and make her miss you when you want to rebuild the attraction.
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  • @marley1968
    @marley1968 Před 4 lety +1832

    Whoever cares the least, controls the relationship!

  • @m.c.shiestyy
    @m.c.shiestyy Před 3 lety +947

    Anyone else thinking “Damn, it’s sad that we have to act this way to keep a woman.”

    • @castronator29
      @castronator29 Před 2 lety +82

      100%. I dont like playing games like this. But it works.

    • @jonatans.5080
      @jonatans.5080 Před 2 lety +88

      Its stupid , these games drain me mentaly emotionally .
      I rather stay single n normal

    • @yyyl7yl
      @yyyl7yl Před 2 lety +8

      Yes! I say this ALL THE TIME!!!🎯

    • @kennethmcclain3154
      @kennethmcclain3154 Před 2 lety +8

      Yup it’s sad!

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. Před 2 lety +33

      @@jonatans.5080 You do not have to play games. If a woman wants to be with you, she will do the work. She will adapt. Also know that you cannot negotiate attraction. A person's desire to be with you can end at any time, for any reason. Therefore, do not trash others, and put yourself first, always. People who play games are trying to 'game' the 'system.' It may work for a few months, but invariably it will become an burden to the player. Just become your best self. Be polite, honest, & direct. And make sure you will do what you say, even when it's difficult. Doing this will show all people you are a man of your word. This is the way to earn respect.

  • @PrimalKingTV
    @PrimalKingTV Před 4 lety +1305

    Never be needy around her and be always in control of your emotions.

    • @WRLDconquer
      @WRLDconquer Před 4 lety +55

      This is key. Women hate this shit but would never say it

    • @derekf425
      @derekf425 Před 3 lety +65

      Money over Bitches everytime all the time

    • @eric_hmarr5457
      @eric_hmarr5457 Před 3 lety +10

      True af

    • @jeremyvanb821
      @jeremyvanb821 Před 3 lety +120

      Care too much and they lose attraction. Care too little and they don't like that either. You can't win

    • @jeremyvanb821
      @jeremyvanb821 Před 3 lety +30

      Easier said than done to be in control of your emotions.

  • @robertonunez9822
    @robertonunez9822 Před 4 lety +412

    A line is “Once you treat her like a celebrity, she’ll treat you like a fan” it’s from a CZcams video that I watched.

  • @JackSparrow-ed9hp
    @JackSparrow-ed9hp Před 4 lety +1753

    If you love someone, let them go...
    If they come back, they're yours..
    If they don't, they never were..

  • @bahaatamer1245
    @bahaatamer1245 Před 5 lety +1868

    1. Follow your passion!
    2. Change your behaviours!
    3. MYSTERY, MYSTERY, MYSTERY!
    4. Limit your answers with her!

    • @pedrocabral3261
      @pedrocabral3261 Před 5 lety +24

      thanks

    • @go-goakins1489
      @go-goakins1489 Před 5 lety +65

      True. Be careful with your words cuz " loose lips sink 🚢 ships!"

    • @joshuarobinson5292
      @joshuarobinson5292 Před 5 lety +29

      All I can say that shit works and I ain't have to watch this video to know that

    • @levedia
      @levedia Před 5 lety +34

      blablabla try doing this after 2-3-8-15 years in a relationship.

    • @1969atam
      @1969atam Před 5 lety +68

      I don’t care what women think of me. I’m gonna do what I’m gonna do rain or shine. Act like a man!

  • @antcri730
    @antcri730 Před 3 lety +334

    "Go to Mexico, go to London, go to Australia" If I had money like that to do all that I wouldn't be watching videos like this.

  • @thegreatone9022
    @thegreatone9022 Před 3 lety +288

    Wanting someone to miss you, will only destroy you. Because seeking someone else's approval for your self worth, does not validate self importance. But is a clear indication that you are insecure. So when you text someone which in this case 'her' just text her because you want to text her and everything else should flow naturally. So remember to love yourself first; body, mind and spirit. Stay safe y'all, peace ✌.

    • @sjm7290
      @sjm7290 Před 3 lety +2

      ...So what if we havent spoken in a while..and I tell her I miss her want to see her..

    • @goldinero
      @goldinero Před 2 lety +2

      @@sjm7290 So long as you express what genuinely want and your happiness is independent of the outcome, you'll never be disappointed. To be in this place only requires that you love yourself.

    • @youngsav3758
      @youngsav3758 Před 2 lety

      Thats cause this video is based off a woman's advice and their insecure strategies

    • @travisandrews3909
      @travisandrews3909 Před rokem

      I haven't got her Instagram so i can text her

  • @vibeskeyzmusic934
    @vibeskeyzmusic934 Před 4 lety +1940

    It's so funny how people miss you when you're gone but when you're around they don't miss you .we live in an evil world where women want the guy who does not care about them which is actually really childish

    • @amvxxx8991
      @amvxxx8991 Před 4 lety +53

      VibesKeyz Music why are women like this ?!!

    • @SweetDaddyBarron78
      @SweetDaddyBarron78 Před 4 lety +14

      Not exactly “funny”

    • @temporayaccoun
      @temporayaccoun Před 4 lety +9

      Not ‘every’ single time..

    • @erikmacedo3723
      @erikmacedo3723 Před 4 lety +37

      Women nature you have to accept it

    • @8DarthGhost8
      @8DarthGhost8 Před 4 lety +105

      LOL. Exactly what happened with me and a girl who really loved me when i didn't give a damn about her. And now, karma has pulled an Uno reverse card on my ass: I like her and now she doesn't like me.

  • @17Shkurt2008Pavarsia
    @17Shkurt2008Pavarsia Před 4 lety +4232

    If your girlfriend wants to leave you, set her free. If she comes back nobody loves her, set her free again. 😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @trinodelpino1
    @trinodelpino1 Před 4 lety +577

    Why waste time with any female that wont just love you for you.

    • @antilaw9911
      @antilaw9911 Před 3 lety +23

      True. Shouldn't have to at games or be someone that your not just to be loved.

    • @b4nkrup710
      @b4nkrup710 Před 3 lety +2

      Even if she rather dump a good boy who knows and who they both talk about having strong bond even when she got two jobs only becusee she wants to move so bad becusee of mom problems that can easily be in controll why say she might break up with me if I don't move in iwth her say I dont want tocachive more when where u live now and have a job thats good why would u leave if ur good and that other person is having problems its a big move on me leaving my fam to go be with a girl who wants to move outbso bad but got a second job and say dont need u financially but now says she wants your love and sweetness lol but breaks up with u a week later so now shes all livin life lol with teo jobs tryn pay off her dept and get a house then what ur gonna find someone eles lol what about me what about the guy u dumped for no reason who was down to ride lol n now u cant call it a rebound cause by then it would be a yesr already and now prolly think how better they are and al lthis stuff while im over here like the relationship was unfinished like I got left dry and high what about that

    • @josemontana8251
      @josemontana8251 Před 3 lety +5

      That's what im saying

    • @KiingShooter24
      @KiingShooter24 Před 3 lety +17

      Does work that way man, women subconsciously play games even without knowing.

    • @robertomaldini3934
      @robertomaldini3934 Před 3 lety +8

      What a cruel world

  • @timotahowhitehawk3756
    @timotahowhitehawk3756 Před 2 lety +50

    1. Attraction was killed
    2. You have to become the man she desires
    3. Missing INHANCES the MYSTERY!
    4. Follow something you are Passion about, whatever; be busy and gone from her life.
    5. Book at trip and start posting stuff on social media - she will see it and wonder about you...
    6. Get rid of all NEEDINESS! Change the Attentiveness, constant talking to her, make yourself scary, & stop being attached to her.
    7. Change the Behaviors that Pushed her away. You need to deal with your weaknesses.
    8. She will start missing you, once you back off. Do not tell her full out what you are doing. Don't give details, Mystery, Mystery, Mystery!
    9 Calm your inner voices down, that you will lose her if you don't press in - NEVER CHASE her, unless you have really screwed up. Let her come to you.
    10. Let her try to figure out what you are doing.
    11. Always show her Respect, but do not give your Mystery or Power away to her.

  • @sogekingfromsniperisland7033

    We men need to learn how to read minds, period.

    • @grobbymuleya
      @grobbymuleya Před 5 lety +48

      Not really, just don't come off desperate. When I was in high school I used to be super nonchalant/laid back and that attracted a lot of girls. In college I had more of pressure from friends who were in relationships to get a girlfriend and that eventually gave me crippling anxiety around women I found attractive. This also killed off any attraction from girls who were initially interested in me. It's all about prioritizing yourself and not putting too much value in trying to get a girl. It goes both ways, I have also rejected girls who were too clingy and pushing a relationship with me in the past. Desperation is an unattractive trait regardless of gender, it simply makes people look unstable and crazy. Nobody wants to be in a fatal attraction situation lol.

    • @dovo66
      @dovo66 Před 5 lety +6

      That would be useful if, and only if, the woman in case has a clear, non conflicting process of thought. My guess is that women in general have a mind that is confusing and contradictory.

    • @romanistalazialle1081
      @romanistalazialle1081 Před 5 lety +8

      Not really even darth vador didn't manage to keep his GF ..

    • @anand_4196
      @anand_4196 Před 4 lety +5

      Change the 'we'... 'Why' should men need to learn how to play mind games just to get a fucking immatured woman... Think about it

    • @kennethniswonger3514
      @kennethniswonger3514 Před 4 lety

      That wouldn't work because they would change their mind before you even finished your sentence from the first mind reading.

  • @ALEX-cv5jj
    @ALEX-cv5jj Před 5 lety +803

    I’m not a client but she’s 100% right. A great line “Once she knows she fully has you, it’s all over.”

    • @thangquanteecom
      @thangquanteecom Před 4 lety +30

      and that's why 50% of marriages end in divorce after about 8 years. how can you not know someone fully after 8 years. the remaining 50% are sensible people :)

    • @chapinrey
      @chapinrey Před 4 lety +85

      @@MrDJROGERS Thats what irritates the hell out of me about women. Once I see that a woman is mine, thats when I give her everything I got. Women are the opposite.

    • @briana191
      @briana191 Před 4 lety +9

      @@chapinrey exactly!!!!!!

    • @halo12345678ful
      @halo12345678ful Před 3 lety +22

      Bro I just want to love her

    • @DJGary0910
      @DJGary0910 Před 3 lety +6

      Think like a woman act like she has you then do the complete opposite never show up again 🤣🤣 Ego Dead

  • @NaughtHouseX
    @NaughtHouseX Před rokem +51

    4 tips to make her miss you
    3:00 Focused to something else more than Your Girl
    5:00 Never be needy,never get attached
    6:10 ignoring is not pushing her away
    7:40 stop being 100% available,100%in, be decisive
    8:25 (you offer her something obviously)
    observe what she is offering if she is not,
    leave her,man.
    .......
    Ignore Ignore Ignore a lot
    Everyone else is giving her time
    whats the uniqueness you have
    ......

  • @theaspieman6126
    @theaspieman6126 Před 3 lety +57

    Some girls sadly are incapable of missing you, because they're far too independent, hell some of em are so cold they don't even know how to love because they've spent too much time on these "self healing" things that they feel they don't need anyone in their lives, so girls like that will never say they miss you or show you their feelings, they'll just watch you walk away and not care. It's about finding a happy balance, someone that shows the emotions to you and shows they want to be with you in actions and words and doesn't want to lose you out of how they feel for you, not out of if they can manage alone or not.

    • @GothboyKurt
      @GothboyKurt Před 2 lety +1

      You hit the nail on the head.

    • @tylerchatman67
      @tylerchatman67 Před 2 lety +1

      Well Girls like that are not for you, The right woman will come

    • @Xslices
      @Xslices Před 2 lety

      That's the majority of them. Why do you think there are so many male players.

    • @n_jv782
      @n_jv782 Před rokem

      Factual.

  • @kobecurley
    @kobecurley Před 5 lety +697

    If she don’t miss you after this. She don’t want you.

  • @SoberIrishman
    @SoberIrishman Před 5 lety +489

    Love is not a game, of someone loves you they love you...no games.

    • @-441-
      @-441- Před 4 lety +26

      I DONT, WANNA...
      *PLAY NO GAMES*

    • @KreolaBoy
      @KreolaBoy Před 4 lety +84

      The cold hard truth is that the Game never stops my friend. You men gotta get over the idea that women are sane and logical like us men. Women are agents of Chaos. They despise order and stability. They get bored easily. They need emotional turmoil to enjoy life. That's why you gotta create some form of turmoil to keep them on their toes.
      Never make a woman too comfortable around you. Dont shower her with gifts and compliments. Skip 2 or 3 weeks without calling her. Break patterns of behaviour. Dont bust when you have sex with her. Know how to make her cum real good. Fuck with her ego a little bit. And watch how her interest level skyrockets.

    • @themachine7557
      @themachine7557 Před 4 lety +6

      @@KreolaBoy thanks man.

    • @xchino0427
      @xchino0427 Před 4 lety +5

      My problem is finding a girl that Would love me haha

    • @jgstargazer
      @jgstargazer Před 4 lety +14

      Jason...women's minds are different from ours that's just the way it is...they love mystery like opening a box meant for them.

  • @DianasReport
    @DianasReport Před 3 lety +56

    Nicely put “you have to be the man she desires”. Honestly, this does not work on every woman. For instance, if I reach out to my guy after he returns from his trip away, and he shows indifference to me and doesn’t immediately want to see me upon his return. I would instantly think he was not considerate and/or interested in this relationship to work. I would cease and withdraw my interest completely. I’m not interested in “mind games“. Guys be honest with yourselves and follow your inner intuition.

    • @Alex-zi6ym
      @Alex-zi6ym Před 3 lety +13

      If only more women thought like you 😪

    • @jamainedingle5198
      @jamainedingle5198 Před 3 lety

      💯😘

    • @tun3tym3
      @tun3tym3 Před 3 lety +4

      Ez-zackly!!! Men, don’t let no female run their silly games on you. When it doesn’t make sense or you got that knot in your stomach (sixth sense) then it’s time to have a conversation. If she’s combative, passive aggressive
      or evasive - show her the door.
      Time is precious and I don’t have time for the bullshit.
      Guard your mind & self respect!

  • @hitlerlaishram8993
    @hitlerlaishram8993 Před rokem +12

    Remember legends
    If she leaves you
    There’s always her mother

  • @jlewsd
    @jlewsd Před 4 lety +475

    I'd rather be single than to be with someone that plays games all the time.

    • @JamesSmith-yw8ts
      @JamesSmith-yw8ts Před 4 lety +10

      Facts

    • @throwthejavelin368
      @throwthejavelin368 Před 3 lety +13

      I'm also thinking this the more I hear her talking.

    • @TTSCAM
      @TTSCAM Před 3 lety +1

      That’s just how it is bro

    • @vukvukovic5411
      @vukvukovic5411 Před 3 lety +6

      You just have to accept how things are.
      If you want to play, these are the rules to follow.
      If not....well, then go into the desert and be forever alone.

    • @justinnine4940
      @justinnine4940 Před 3 lety +4

      You totally missed the point. She’s telling guys to drop the needy/desperate behaviours.

  • @htetmyakhtun6914
    @htetmyakhtun6914 Před 4 lety +92

    The problem is that when she pulled away , we are so needy , we are so attached. And when we are stable in the life without her , when she come back , we don't want those girls again

    • @GLERiko
      @GLERiko Před 3 lety +2

      News flash Pimp , thass 90% of women . They love chaos 🤣 . Once a women sense she got you OTS OVA . Thats why I recommend a guy have atleast 6-7 females “friends” on the side that are Waaaayyy more attractive then her . This will place her in a scarcity mind state or a competitive one either way DONT CARE . If it comes down to it fuck one of the girls you call your “friend” and watch how your emotions change toward her . It sound harsh but its human nature bruh

    • @devonrogers211
      @devonrogers211 Před 2 lety +1

      @@GLERiko facto

    • @omarbernal2408
      @omarbernal2408 Před rokem

      Preach .

    • @michaelciocca216
      @michaelciocca216 Před 9 měsíci

      Yup so we get women we don’t actually want

    • @michaelciocca216
      @michaelciocca216 Před 9 měsíci

      Care but produce first shift gears like an F1 driver. Be your own man, care about others and have your own life but fuck her good. Be mysterious without being a cock but deliver the cock. Have your own shit she just becomes part of what you’re doing. Be a gentlemen. Take care of “us”

  • @simonhegermann619
    @simonhegermann619 Před 4 lety +238

    me: *gives her all the love and attention she needs*
    her: *Doesn´t want it/ thinks it´s needy*
    me: *focusing on myself/ not caring about her at all*
    her: Oh my god, I want to get his attention and be loved by him....

  • @davolu2002
    @davolu2002 Před 3 lety +6

    You'r giving me stuff more than what's needed for a lady to miss me. Thanks Ponti

  • @zacarito03
    @zacarito03 Před 5 lety +106

    Girl this stuff works!! Lol I tried exactly as you said and really dissed her for a couple of days and she was the one now calling me or texting me. I’ve learned to stop “being needy” thanks for the advice gurl!!!

  • @steveportillo1717
    @steveportillo1717 Před 5 lety +149

    Purpose trumps females. Follow your purpose and give your 100%. Abundance mindset and eventually they'll come to you, that's a fact fellas.

    • @King-qv1pd
      @King-qv1pd Před 5 lety

      Amen!

    • @nhaancenhaannce817
      @nhaancenhaannce817 Před 5 lety

      Bullshit that girl wud take u needy ,yow

    • @MrRags14
      @MrRags14 Před 5 lety +6

      An Alpha Male Strategies pupil.....did you plagiarize in school too? You should at least give him a reference......

    • @anthonys.7086
      @anthonys.7086 Před 5 lety +1

      Alpha Male Strategies💪

    • @ryanvtec3885
      @ryanvtec3885 Před 5 lety +1

      hell yeah i agree 100 percent. the only thing ive ever wanted from a woman is companioonship. but n. i dont want a weak woman. I want a woman who knows who she is and what she wants in life. I wont take her hand and lead. basically woman operate on emotion like little children.

  • @charlespinson6693
    @charlespinson6693 Před 3 lety +10

    I’m new to your channel...currently binge watching. You give a ton of great information that will really, truly help me in my new relationship. So I just want to take a moment to simply say, “Thank you,” for the work you’ve put into these post and the valuable information you give.

  • @Mr.Steve-O
    @Mr.Steve-O Před 2 lety +7

    Thanks Apollonia, I love hearing these words coming from an intelligent woman, it means so much more. @8:00 are the key points here, solid stuff right there. I am a man of mystery by nature, I just don't let anyone in my house, you have to earn it. Be kind, respectful, and generous with your time. If she is not reciprocating back and making the playing field fair or one-sided., then slowly pull back on the text messages, phone calls, and the attention. Then you will see her squirm and miss the attention that she once took for granted. No woman is going to open up to you and commit to you if you are clingy and needy. Be a gladiator, not a poodle

  • @vidarebornlonewolf
    @vidarebornlonewolf Před 5 lety +87

    This works. It's really true. Every relationship I've had, they would always start with women wanting to be around me all the time. When I give in, they start backing away.

    • @Rizkbill
      @Rizkbill Před 2 lety +2

      Me too

    • @ponggabor
      @ponggabor Před 2 lety +1

      Same man!

    • @KEVINMCSE
      @KEVINMCSE Před rokem +1

      What is your dating a lady for 1 year and she is loosing attraction? Is it still fine to say good morning everyday?

  • @rohitisalwayspositiv
    @rohitisalwayspositiv Před 5 lety +192

    I so wished relationships were as simple as 1+1=2
    Thanks again

  • @jackpitt5837
    @jackpitt5837 Před 3 lety +4

    By far the realist shit I’ve heard I instantly changed my outlook to my relationship

  • @ontimewreckchords1211
    @ontimewreckchords1211 Před 3 lety +3

    I’ve been so needy, I am happy I found you.

  • @jeremys4461
    @jeremys4461 Před 4 lety +67

    Really don't want her to miss me. I'm praying she forgets me.

  • @malcolm24568
    @malcolm24568 Před 5 lety +143

    Alot of guys say dont go to a fish to catch a fish, but this lady is pretty spot on. She not really saying how she feels like most women do. She actually says the facts, and I like that. 10/10

    • @TheDestroyer73
      @TheDestroyer73 Před 5 lety +3

      agreed shes different

    • @MegaAmazingc
      @MegaAmazingc Před 4 lety +4

      Agreed She is like a rare Jewel among rocks. When it comes to women. Why can't there be more like her in this mess up world?

  • @felonsgaming7062
    @felonsgaming7062 Před 4 lety +1

    Thank you so much for your videos. They have truly helped my hurt go away from my girl saying she needs to take a step back. I want her more than anything but as your videos say i need to want me to be happy overall!

  • @4toppingpizzayacaant72
    @4toppingpizzayacaant72 Před 4 lety +77

    I just realized that there is all these videos on how to keep the women, make her want you, kiss her, and all this other stuff. F that, the women should prove themselves to us men

    • @jeremyvanb821
      @jeremyvanb821 Před 3 lety +5

      Think two people should prove their worth to each other. When it starts with one side having to put in more effort then you already know it won't last.

    • @blairthandi7058
      @blairthandi7058 Před 3 lety

      Well said. I wrote a letter to my best friend who I have known for almost 3 years. She rejected the letter, so I am avoiding her to see if she can prove herself, or was she just playing games with me all these years.

  • @robert6833
    @robert6833 Před 5 lety +61

    This is true AP. Mystery is everything. Neediness is 150% a turnoff.

  • @unbiasedlogic5418
    @unbiasedlogic5418 Před 5 lety +77

    How to make her miss you 4 tips
    1. Do something your passionate about
    2. Don't accept all invitations
    3. Change behaviors
    4. Close ended answers. (Don't be completely available for her)

  • @Ivanamus
    @Ivanamus Před 3 lety +1

    This is so true Apollonia. Can’t give too much especially, when she only gives small percentage.

  • @thedeanrb3769
    @thedeanrb3769 Před 3 lety +2

    you are amazing Apollonia. Everything you taught is working.

  • @anlace3447
    @anlace3447 Před 5 lety +60

    If all if this is truly necessary to have a good relationship I think I'll opt out and be single thanks.

  • @TheWildernessEnthusiast
    @TheWildernessEnthusiast Před 5 lety +30

    AKA “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”

  • @milesgrayakamiroknight5574
    @milesgrayakamiroknight5574 Před 3 lety +18

    Also thank you for this. Everything in life is about focusing on myself first and then relationship. I have a girl who have same interests as I do. We been doing good but before graduation, my relationship almost fell apart by being desperate. Today and after today, I wait for her to come to me.

  • @jameshurley6021
    @jameshurley6021 Před 3 lety

    I have watched over a dozen videos and you have helped me grow. Thank you. I don't know if she will find her way back to loving me. But you have helped me find me. Thank you.

  • @Angel-vw1he
    @Angel-vw1he Před 4 lety +158

    🤣🤣🤣 this why relationships are not working. Women dating coaches are telling them to be hard to get, men dating coaches telling them to be hard to get. In the end both partners waiting on each other to reach out to the other because no one wants to seem weak. Damn I came here to see what kind of advice men receive, seems like the same advice we women get, let him text you,let him come to you, give him silence,give him space...meanwhile his dating coach telling him to do the same thing 💆

    • @kevinharing766
      @kevinharing766 Před 4 lety +4

      That's a really good point! Now I'm curious about what dating coaches for women say.

    • @MrTheomighty1
      @MrTheomighty1 Před 4 lety +5

      😂😂😂😂, Angel we are all screwed, can you imagine your ex ends it with you and you get advice to go do something like skiing or find a hobby chances are your ex is at the same ski resort or is doing the same hobby as she’s getting the same advice !!!!!, bring back the old mans pub where women aren’t allowed in that’s our only escape, even the women rubber doll has its own dating advice Channel

    • @jyranechjm5766
      @jyranechjm5766 Před 4 lety +6

      You literally put it in world, thank you. If both sides keep saying "no", then nothing good will happen.

    • @onethreesix
      @onethreesix Před 3 lety

      Hello

    • @jeromecastro3051
      @jeromecastro3051 Před 3 lety

      Which makes one think whats their real agenda?? They can play a part in this matrix as well, that was a thought 💪🏾💯💯💯

  • @joemancini2988
    @joemancini2988 Před 5 lety +46

    Boy I wish you’d been around 50 years ago when I needed advice! What a great dress, you always present yourself so well.

  • @FretBuzz_2009
    @FretBuzz_2009 Před 4 lety +20

    Apollonia, I love you! I know I would have to say this in private, but you deserve it in public! By few videos you managed to calm down my mind which was blown for the last few weeks, because I realize that I didn't do anything wrong and it is all about how psichologically things works. I'm getting now more confident where perhaps other 100 would have failled. Thanks Lady, you are more helpful and camarade than lots of men friends I have are :)

  • @alfonsomojica9636
    @alfonsomojica9636 Před 4 lety +8

    I couldn’t do it I completely fell for her soul for the little time I was with her she made me feel so happy :(

    • @sleep3r253
      @sleep3r253 Před 4 lety

      i miss her but she left me. she was the only person to ever make make happy :/

  • @pauliehaley103
    @pauliehaley103 Před 4 lety +15

    It's so true! Don't be always available guys...thank you for your work Apollonia, you are so appreciated 🙏☀️❤️

  • @toniywaya7696
    @toniywaya7696 Před 4 lety +26

    "if you want men to not support each other... tell them to support each other"-big saying

  • @ricardorivers7020
    @ricardorivers7020 Před 3 lety +1

    Apollonia, I've been listening to you now for quite some months and liken your videos. But this is my first comment, you really KNOW your stuff, as I can relate with everything you say. Thank you!. keep up the good work! IT WORKS, JUST AS YOU SAY!!!

  • @tony.johnson666
    @tony.johnson666 Před 2 lety +1

    Apollonia you nailed it, thanks for sharing with us ❤️

  • @cristiancastillo8313
    @cristiancastillo8313 Před 5 lety +19

    Yep going through this . Thanks for the advice AP

  • @ed9810
    @ed9810 Před 5 lety +16

    your videos are very refreshing to watch. I wish I had this stuff all figured out but ultimately I am feeling very positive about the idea of focusing on self actualisation and developing myself for me. Thanks Apollonia. Subscribed!

  • @PedroLMiguel
    @PedroLMiguel Před 3 lety +1

    Hi Apolonia! I'm from Brazil and I'm learning a lot with you! Thanks a lot!

  • @thecat9847
    @thecat9847 Před 4 lety

    This is what I needed right now! Thank you ma'am.

  • @princejoseph7141
    @princejoseph7141 Před 4 lety +5

    THANK YOU COACH I AM SMILE, YOUR COACHING MAKES ME GOOD, NOW I TRIED TO FEEL WITHOUT HER, AND MOVE ON LIVE ON MYSELF. THANKYOU

  • @uhhuhhuh100
    @uhhuhhuh100 Před 5 lety +16

    Apolonia, I've got to say keeping a woman in mystery works in the attraction process. You're right!

  • @kristopherryanwatson
    @kristopherryanwatson Před 4 lety +3

    Just subscribed to your channel.
    I am going through some weird stuff at the moment with a girl I really like and this is exactly what I needed to watch. Thanks Apollonia!

  • @matthewjames7732
    @matthewjames7732 Před 3 lety +1

    Really inspiring, I really like how explain it in depth. It makes sense, and I know what I must do, thanks friend.

  • @jamesiv407
    @jamesiv407 Před 5 lety +21

    Well said apollonia.. Thats the thing i am thinking right now.. Dont chase her and focus on other things gonna keep me busy..

    • @jessman2465
      @jessman2465 Před 4 lety +1

      So far so good
      You have my attention !!

  • @jaymic1
    @jaymic1 Před 4 lety +12

    Apollonia, you are so right on with everything. I wish I heard this when I was 22. It took me so long to figure it out on my own. What was I thinking? Thank you for sharing!

  • @marklynch3149
    @marklynch3149 Před 3 lety

    Apollonia, I wish women like you existed over here in the UK! I've only just found your channel. Keep up the good work

  • @vukasin191
    @vukasin191 Před 2 lety

    i love how you are going straight to the point and that is what i appreciate. this examples from the video are exactly what i needed. thanks! greetings from Serbia!

  • @manuelmedina8880
    @manuelmedina8880 Před 4 lety +34

    Great info, at the end of the day. If she doesnt end up reaching out. It was never meant to be.

  • @go-goakins1489
    @go-goakins1489 Před 5 lety +8

    Great segment ! I actually watched it s few times just to let your sage advice sink in👍

  • @t-win6488
    @t-win6488 Před 4 lety +4

    She has to offer something not just me as the man... Great one right there

  • @mattRRgraham1996
    @mattRRgraham1996 Před 3 lety +28

    "go play guitar"
    lmao, literally me rn as I'm holding my guitar and playing it while watching this video.

  • @phillipblessing1098
    @phillipblessing1098 Před 4 lety +60

    Honestly this is so helpful. I was struggling with too much availability, actually lost time for myself. I am sure this is a way to actually focus on bettering the things you had fears about

    • @omarbernal2408
      @omarbernal2408 Před rokem

      True... Its like all the sudden EVERYTHING IS ON PAUSE for her. Even FROM YOUR SELF. UNHEALTHY.

  • @ko0lGuy23
    @ko0lGuy23 Před 4 lety +14

    Ugh as much as I agree with your opinion, it’s super difficult not to want to be there with someone you are extremely attracted to, not only physically but mentally attracted. I have not felt this way in a long time about a woman and my head hurts from wanting to be with her. My chest hurts when I’m around her from the attraction. It’s harder when your a more mature man because you know how good love can be and it’s hard to wait for that to develop. When I was in my teens and twenties I had no problem giving a girl space, I was to busy only thinking about me. Now in my thirties I yearn for affection it’s ridiculous how my body starts to ache over this new found prospect that makes me feel good where it counts.

    • @garretthines5188
      @garretthines5188 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Right there with you Kool. Its worse at 51. And when your dating older people, they dont often have time or patience for games. Yeah, psychologically this stuff does work, but I think it works more on younger women then women in their mid 40's. I find things that worked for me when I was 25 dont work anymore. Crazy world we live in.

    • @ChrisLyon567
      @ChrisLyon567 Před 10 měsíci

      I understand how that is. I am in the same boat for someone.

  • @shreyasitis5575
    @shreyasitis5575 Před 2 lety +4

    The best part is i did all those things without even knowing this stuff and really its amazing

  • @kennethhenderson4006
    @kennethhenderson4006 Před 3 lety

    This was very insightful. Thank You!

  • @anthonyscott16
    @anthonyscott16 Před 5 lety +7

    I don't always agree with everything that you say Apollonia. However, I feel that this lesson is really sound advice and well presented. I appreciate you and the work you do with your channel. Thanks!

  • @Piercelordbago
    @Piercelordbago Před 5 lety +14

    I really like this person I helped her,care for her and be there in times of need i feel like she never appreciates me
    This video helped a lot Thanks

    • @gnjkdhj4856
      @gnjkdhj4856 Před 3 lety

      I feel u bro.... their not worth it....

  • @rickparke4983
    @rickparke4983 Před 2 lety

    Wow you hit a lot of key points. Thank for the big sister advice

  • @user-fz4sv8bs8f
    @user-fz4sv8bs8f Před rokem

    Thank you Apollonia. I just realized the mistakes I'm making with your help.

  • @ark_6829
    @ark_6829 Před 4 lety +6

    Thank You and Bless you so much on these videos. I even like the tagline you have at the end of, “You are always loved” reminds me of Aaliyah, and it means to me that I stumbled upon your content at the right time, me wanting to improve, and hopefully get this one right. Even if I don’t, you have helped me to believe in acceptance of what I can’t control, knowing that I can only control myself, my actions, my attitudes. Thank You and God bless you sincerely. If the relationship cultivates well I’ll come back and see what you have for G Spot advice 😂😂😂🙏🙏🙏❤️

  • @datbull74
    @datbull74 Před 4 lety +6

    I thank you for this video Apollonia. I'm dating a young lady and I believe I was too attentive. Now things have gone south and I wasn't sure what to do until now. Thanks.

  • @goodboi1232
    @goodboi1232 Před 4 lety +27

    I’d book a trip but this quarantine wont let me lol

  • @xmagnaxtank1179
    @xmagnaxtank1179 Před 3 lety +9

    when you do everything she says, working on yourself, all that and your still single feels bad man.

  • @convowithvinaytiwari4966
    @convowithvinaytiwari4966 Před 5 lety +8

    It is an one of the best video I have ever watched this exactly happens with me I had been seeing a girl since 13 years I am 22 years since childhood we have a relationship now she has been changed

  • @MrRaitachi
    @MrRaitachi Před 5 lety +74

    Posting things on social media immediately tells others that you're actually not that busy... Also doesn't it actually kill the mystery of what you're doing?

    • @mastakilla_2k218
      @mastakilla_2k218 Před 3 lety

      Exactly that kills the mystery

    • @rades920
      @rades920 Před 3 lety +1

      Definitely not if I have a crush on a girl and all she has on her Instagram is the same thing from 3 years ago I immediately assume she’s not done anything interesting in her life.

    • @KingEZ33
      @KingEZ33 Před 3 lety

      @@rades920 she out living and fucking my G not posting. Don’t get caught up in this social media crap it’s online business/fake news.

  • @chrisirving868
    @chrisirving868 Před 3 lety

    your advice saved my relationship!! thank you

  • @briandenes2033
    @briandenes2033 Před 4 lety +2

    Unbelievable advice, thank you.

  • @nelsonmolina1846
    @nelsonmolina1846 Před 5 lety +32

    It does work, I tried it with a girl that would take a long time to respond, I did not text back and waited a day, she reached out the next day :) and is more interested now

    • @macdhillon5677
      @macdhillon5677 Před 5 lety +3

      And how has it been going so far? Any improvements?

    • @mellymenes8210
      @mellymenes8210 Před 4 lety +1

      She must be a low value women 😃

    • @jamesroberts1810
      @jamesroberts1810 Před 4 lety

      Im gonna implement on afemale friend off mines..time to up the anti

  • @antonioham3923
    @antonioham3923 Před 4 lety +3

    she's giving great advice. I'm learning slot from you. thank you so much

  • @04drjoseph2000
    @04drjoseph2000 Před 2 lety

    Thanks once again Apollonia, the discussion was very informative, i was guilty as charged!!!!!!!!

  • @M.Vstudio
    @M.Vstudio Před 2 lety

    thanks for the great energy .. even that you know these things but sometimes its hard to do them without someone helping you to trust yourself and act like a high value man

  • @kaikavikone5158
    @kaikavikone5158 Před 5 lety +5

    You're great, I like that you are always give some samples^^

  • @bigtimedrum
    @bigtimedrum Před 5 lety +26

    You can't make someone feel anything , even if you give them a reason, they need to come to terms with there own feelings to know which way there going with it, so honestly, your taking the same amount of chances by not calling her or not being available and acting like your busy or whatever it is to get her attention to turn around in your favor that it may or it may not work.......However, some people don't realize that they take people for granted when they were right there and when they are not there thats when they want to see there value, it sucks but its true.

    • @brandon3411
      @brandon3411 Před 5 lety +4

      It’s true, you can’t force an interaction with a women. It has to be her idea.

  • @Shandough
    @Shandough Před 3 lety

    After watching a couple videos Apollonia is officially my WCW 😜.. keep it going I love the content 💯

  • @mattdimarino5894
    @mattdimarino5894 Před 3 lety

    This is HUGE! Thank you I needed this

  • @tdjkhazard4522
    @tdjkhazard4522 Před 4 lety +5

    Im currently a student, so it’s quite easy to work on yourself by focusing hard on schoolwork, sports, and after school clubs. When I’m not studying or going to practice, I’m building my community service hours as a counselor for a group of kids ages 6-13. Stay active. If she’s not willing to stay with a person who’s dedicating more time to personal development and the community than on her, she’s not even worth the spare time you have to begin with.

  • @seyibale
    @seyibale Před 5 lety +7

    Apollonia, you're super amazing! I'm a big fan.

  • @druhboy5631
    @druhboy5631 Před 4 lety

    Thanks Apollonia this is soo true! 🙏 God Bless you

  • @jeromefulton7106
    @jeromefulton7106 Před 3 lety

    I love your videos they straight to the point accurate you know what you talking about

  • @4H54N
    @4H54N Před 5 lety +18

    Awesome tips
    Its made me smile watching this vid bc i sometimes dont want to play this game.just too lazy lmao

  • @tripleog7376
    @tripleog7376 Před 5 lety +6

    100% Fact. It Is So True

  • @barak808
    @barak808 Před rokem

    man oh man when i say i am the poster child for what you’re talking about is an understatement. bout to book you tonight.

  • @bencrosbie
    @bencrosbie Před 3 lety +1

    That was excellent advice 🙌🏻