If a woman is using you, she does these 7 things.
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- čas přidán 4. 06. 2024
- This Video highlights subtle things that you need to look out for, to figure out if you're being used by a woman.
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00:00 - Intro
01:00 - Number 1
01:44 - Number 2
02:58 - Number 3
04:35 - Number 4
06:21 - Number 5
08:38 -Number 6
09:55 - Number 7
11:23 - Solution 1
12:05 - Solution 2
12:41 - Solution 3
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I've been following you for years now and your advice has really been helpful. If you could do a video on how to sustain your relationship but still your prioritize your mental health, when your partner is going through a traumatic experience.
Just stating facts as a man, it's hard find a good partner no matter if your man or woman so their both equally bad they both cheat equally lie equally and use equally. Just saying so I ain't throwing just women under the bus and trying playing victim role. As a kid I always heard how innocent women were how they were victims in relationships to infidelity how men were all dogs and cheaters and use women for sex to this day that does exist. As a grown wise mature man and with experience under my belt and having more bad than good experiences which drive men to be bitter. All that I said previously does exist among men but it's not one sided women are equally bad they lie and cheat just as much if not more they just know how to not get caught cause they so sneaky and devious about it. Let's not talk about the money draining women and gold diggers etc who use their sex appeal to manipulate and produce false interest to try get in men's pockets but try get out of spending time hanging out kicking it and or just don't want put out but try get financial benefits. The list goes on the foul stuff women generally speaking . So in ending I ain't saying all women are like this but good women who ain't don't come in dime and dozen their few and far between most of them are probably taken. But over 50 percent of women majority are like that. People in this day and age don't know what love is they say the words famously and so loosely. Majority put conditions to romance and relationships. When real love itself is unconditional. They put limitations on Love but in love their is no limitations or boundaries.we use finances we use sex to justify betrayal and or rejection or acceptance of a partner. Some think their in love when it is only infatuation til the newness wears off and they get bored their ready to move on to the next exciting big thing. Communication is absent and divorces are on the rise and people are deciding not to get married.
As a man, it's really difficult to find woman. Lemme add to that list she always stays at home. She always mentioned her parents to you that they might be mad for bringing her friend. That's the excuses she make when i also experience that when i asked her siblings and even her mother it's fine for me to hang out with her at her HOUSE. She kept cancelling it like "no, let's meet up tomorrow or any day not here my DAD will be mad he doesn't like an outsider (male)."
Great Great! Thanks 4 being so educative and creative! Long live@ LADY Jessica OS!
1. No one-on-one dates
2. They seem checked out
3. They will always seem nice when they need something
4. Uses you to network
5. The relationship seems unequal
6. Always wants to be at home(dodges you)
7. The relationship never grows
I’m a mechanic by trade. A girl who says she likes me only calls me when her car needs to be sorted after. Everything you said is accurate! 💯
tell her it will be a few days before you can get to it. Then take longer than usual to repair it.
I listened to this video as a female out of curiosity and she's spot on in everything she said I'd tell any man the same thing because women will use you for a free meal or a free drink with no intention of giving you anything else out of it
What if I am in a long distance relationship?
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I did Same 🔥
Yea true heating it on the right nail
Well, duh!
I agree people know when they’re being used. They either don’t care, don’t understand their worth , or they believe they can win the person over. Speaking from personal experience.
Women and people in general have made me a BEAST
I think it’s great that women are sharing tips to other women on what to expect when dating women. Men we had to learn the hard way.
I think the main thing to keep in mind from what she said is that we usually see the red flags in the beginning but bulldoze through them because we want to believe it's different or that we make excuses for that one lady's red flag behavior because "she's different". No need to be upset or angry, just create distance when she shows red flag behavior and go on about your way.
True & run like hell when you see those red flags.
A woman will ALWAYS make a way to be in your presence everytime your resources are top tier quality sources
My girlfriend always seems nice and respectful only if she espects to need something but even when I provide in my efforts if I don't meet her basic goal, she turns against me saying am so mean and selfish. Have always tried to hope she will change not until she said am not her type just because I failed to send her full amount she needed.
Unfortunately, you'll never know someone is using you until after they start or are done using you...
There's no escaping this pain after it's all over.
The signs she mentioned are absolutely why you know you’re being used
True
Not true at all. There are different types of “usage”! If you have the prerequisite experience, have common sense, ask the right questions and look in the right places you will know. It’s not rocket science and women are way more predictable than they think they are.
I find most to be monolithic esp black women..
Well you usually know and can FEEL something is not right but like Jess said, "you always hope against hope" 😂😂😂.
@@ngalahansel6066 ^ Yep, you’ll feel it in your spirit! And that gut is always right!
This lady is such a gem ❤️
She is
Great advice. After listening to her problems for 5 hours in 3 phone calls the final straw was: "I want to do what I want, when I want and don't want to be responsible for someone else's happiness". I've since learned to look for balance, not a one-way relationship, not be too agreeable and walk away when spotting red flags.
Jessica, you hit it on the nail with this video. A man can be blinded when he is interested in a particular woman but there are clear signs. In the end, the woman will never change because that is the role she wants for the man, so the only way for him is to not argue or reason, pick himself up & walk away from the relationship because he will never be appreciated or loved by that woman. Don’t waste your time.
Very true sir
great content. This stuff should be thought in high school to everyone as well as personality disorders, toxic people, how to read people and narcissism
Women do not feel love in any way, shape, or form. (except for dogs and children.) Stay strong, gentlemen.
I think the key here for men is, stay Stoic & avoid sexual relationships with women you might find yourself in a relationship with. It breeds a lot of clarity and like Jes said, you need to set clear limits & boundaries, make direct statements as well. Awesome solutions Jes, nice one 💯
Omg spot on. Once sex gets involved the woman feels entitled to your time and resources and the man looses his balance because he now feels he owes her.
@@upstream0564 The emotional attachment is what causes the entitlement. Women are more emotional than men so sex for most of them is more emotional than it is for men. It's easier said than done though, to avoid sexual relationships with women because it is how we've been wired (to procreate, so as to survive) but with discipline, one can go the distance.
Thank you Jessica, sometimes love really blind some of us men that we fail to see all this.
Food for thought to us men. We appreciate you Jess.
When she get angry after asking you something wise up she is Gold Digger
My nixxa I had to open my eyes to see 🤝
Jessi , we men are all grateful for your life because if not you who then will speak for men ? As if we are not human and also molested by women. Some men are also dying just like some women and others are going through heart breaking dear, is very sad one. Long live Jessica
Jessica your videos are therapeutical, you speak to the mind and soul
Walking away is always the most respectful, attractive and most powerful action you can take. You walk away with a smile.
Simply enlightening and you’re so good Jessica
Number 5 was it for me although she did the cooking and the cleaning.I could not help but feel something was off because everytime I had financial difficult and I couldn't get her stuff she wanted, she always reacted with anger and she eventually decided to end the relationship when I was struggling financially.
Hi Jessica, I am a South African and i just discovered you/your channel today. On this day one i already watched about five of your topics. I am impressed with your content and i really appreciate it. TBC.
I'm in a situation where the woman I'm seeing is really using me and I am so convinced that she is using me. She made sure that she keeps me because I am not working and I am useful to her. I am working so hard to set myself free but she would do something that would make me feel bad and very manipulative.
How's it going for you now?
You are weak man,,you should be in control or you quit the relationship
I'm an introvert and I love being a house wife. But personally, I love stepping outside of my home for a long walk to view nature, and go to the library etc., She is right, no woman in her right mind wants to just lay up in the house and sit idle. I love doing activities with my significant other. I am single, but lived the married life with a cheater.
That's cool
You cute
It will be nice to know you if you don't mind
Very sloxxish😊
I suffered a lot in the hands of narcissist women who used me financially by taking advantage of my love for them. If gifts aren't the way to a girl's heart then they shouldn't act like it and lye to you that it is.
Yeah true talk paaa 😭
I especially love that your pearls of wisdom on relationship stuff are expressed in impeccable English.
love your consistency. just found this channel and have learnt a lot.
You are such a rare gem of knowledge girl. I have no doubt in my mind many men can relate to a thing or two that you have talked about.
Thank you Jessica, total facts.
Thank you my black sista Growth, Growth, Growth if that's not happening in all areas is not worth it, I really love women with your mindset I appreciate you, thank you
Jessica is a pro as far these matters are concerned...wake up men💪
"when you're in a relationship, you notice the signs. But you keep hoping against hope".
This hit hard, Jess.
5-year relationship. Did all the work, she was always checked out. Had financial, health, emotional, work issues.
I was the guy who paid for everything, supported her, encouraged her.
She found a new job, bought her place (loaned her money for that btw).
Got on her feet.
Dumped me. Never even bothered repaying the money I owned her.
And started mocking me for being "weak" and froze me out.
I've been there. Men don't leave, women do when she left I told her it was the best thing she has ever done for me.
Good you are out of it sir I really advocate for good men like you
Take that as a learning experience and move on make sure it never happens again
5 yrs is really more with investment. Thank you for sharing your experience. Take care
Don't worry brother, those that set out to use people's, will find themselves being used. She will meet a person just like herself one day.
Thanks jesi , that was straight to the poin.
Everything said here is so correct. Thanks a lot
Ill be honest and say I wanted to skip the video cuz it's a woman giving relationship advice but oh boy I was wrong. Very spot on and insightful. Thank you ma'am🙏🏼
There are just a few women I’d sit down to listen to. She’s one of them.
A great majority of women know nothing about a man’s struggles in relationships.
I don’t agree with the last tip, if you run quick you won’t learn enough and might end up falling for another woman’s different method, Men you must Train yourself to manipulate the manipulator and don’t get hurt in the process. It my hurt but the pain would make you stronger because it can’t kill you. Once you realize she’s using you don’t let her know. Lead her on! And don’t invest a dime anymore, she should be the one to leave you after she’s tired. That way she’ll still have respect for you.
Thanks Jess. You're always awesome with tips.
Jessica you are AMAZING! You are very brilliant and explain things SO CLEARLY and are always on point.
With your videos I can never marry a wrong woman.. thank you I hope I learn a lot of more from you Jess 👍🏻
very true... i had this experience recently and tbh, these lines are so real... Thanks Jessica
Jessica, you are just too good with what you do. kudos.
You are a sweetheart Jessica! Your heart is so pure & clean
Thank you Jessica, this is amazing 🤝🏾
Tnx so much Jessica, i've learnt a lot from this. And I must say you've just aided in solidifying my future relationship experience.
I watched just out of curiosity to see if everything I was telling my friend who is clearly being used was right and with the exception of a few things not listed here, I happened to be right. It’s truly amazing how some guys will ignore each and every one of these and just act like they’re happy when their “happiness” is under false pretenses
Love your channel Jessica. Keep up the good work.
Thanks so much for sharing i'm healed🙂
Am glad you have enlighten me thank you so much Jessica
Thanks Jessica for this helpful info.Always a fan listening to your words.
Professionally done and apt choice of words...
Very enlightening and well worth my time. Thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thanks again you are spot on again,this lady's plays us big times be bless Jess luv u
Thank you Jessica. Learnt a lot from you. Thank you
You are spot on keep it up keep educating people about these situations in life
I love the new feature where your voice keeps going up and down during the video❤️ I wish to see more of this in the future😊
Thanks Jess. this is very informative. Thumbs up. Luv U.
Great advise Jessica you said it all
You have opened my eyes thanks a lot
Thank you Jessica I love your videos a wise person will always benefit from it whether man or woman
Intensive subject handle with perfection. Love it♥️
Thank you so much Jessica, I really do appreciate...🙌🙏🤭🙏
Thanks Jessica for the advices❤️
Thank you so so much sis I really appreciate you for the advices ❤
thanks Jesca for ur nice lessons coz this u are doing to us help us to analyse relationship issues and save time
Ist point noted Jherss
Thank you
Thank you very much I really appreciate your effort in making this video 👌💖
Jessica, you are a pure genius, and you always keep it real.
Lots of love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️
I appreciate your time and insight 👏
You've defined me and my situation. Now I got the direction to go
I only want to say that Jessica is absolutely stunning... love the advice sis
wow am mind blown by this vid, thanks Jess
I enjoyed your teaching
Great wisdom, articulation and teaching with illustration and understanding...
Indeed a woman of excellence...
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Thank you madam for the clear message. These are the things I've been going through. Your resolutions at the end of this video, are actually what I had thought to do. Moreover, I had thought of telling my girl that, I won't make any move with her including hangouts, unless she takes me to her parents for introduction failure to that, then I'd quit and be silent. 1)if you cant shape up, then ship out of my life👌.
2) if you cant reciprocate my efforts of loving you, leave me alone.
3) if you cant value, respect my time, money and everything, then we can't rhyme. Leave me alone.
I Learned a lot with your content. B'coz I Was Always Been a Victim of this Relationships with a Lot Of Girls I Meet. Thank You So Much With Your Advices Miss Jessica 😊
All that she said happened to me,Like taking her out on a date,she is not interested but very busy on the phone,She is only nice when she wants something
Im going through the same thing.
This video has just come in the right time
1M subs on the way⏳Thank you for these eye opening points. We appreciate them🙏🏽
You are so welcome
Girl you're a blessing
Your spot on with this advice Jess, 90% of it applies to a lot of my past relationships and sometimes a guy can be too kind hearted for his own good especially if the woman is particularly attractive but in my case as soon as the money 💰 dried up so did her affection and interest in me,the worse case scenario is if she also has NPD and things can turn real ugly fast,maybe you could do a vid covering opposite sex who may have NPD,I've noticed there seems a lot of it about these days so ppl could do with warning about such individuals,see what you think, anyhow great vid,thankyou again Jessica 👍 xx
Even when a girl says she likes you if she only calls when she needs something it’s best to cut her off or keep interactions to a minimum.
It's called simping but you and i can agree that there is a certain girl who really likes u but u ain't attracted to her,but u only simp for the one manipulating you
@@upstream0564my guy I was to blinded to see 💔
Thank you Jessica very good video . Iam learning alot from you about women
Kevin from
Uk
She just described my son's mother in a nutshell. 😂
My nixxa🤝🤣
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7th point is my problem now
Doing everything but no appreciation or growth
Wow this channel is really getting big. Almost 1M subs
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I really enjoy following Jessica’s videos. She is so knowledgeable. Continue to share your expertise to us, men. Really appreciate listening to you my dear
Thank you! Will do!
Thank you for this highlights...
I do really admire your personality keep up the good work 🤜👏♥️
Love you Jessica. ❤❤❤❤❤❤all the way from Kenya. Please don't stop. I can't do without you
Thanks Jess 💕
' When you being used, you can feel it'
Walking ways saves a lot early ,thanks Jessica
Thank you Jessica
Great advice
This is awesome content and very true
Jessica. I like n I do follow your teaching ❤
Love yourself and respect yourself.