Will This Feeling Last Forever? When Will I Be Happy Again?
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- čas přidán 13. 12. 2020
- Scott Ste Marie is a Mindfulness Practitioner, Coach and Mentor. Through his lived experience with depression and anxiety he has seen what is truly possible in recovery, healing, and living authentically. If you feel at ease and comfortable with the videos on this channel and Scott's approach to emotional and mental well-being, the resources below may be helpful to you.
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I promise, even though you may not believe the answer right now, it's true. Nature demands it to be true.
I'm so frightened of feeling like this from anxiety, will it ever go away, I'm sat at home on Easter Sunday, crying, I just want to be myself again,
i feel this way as well but i promise you there will be better days, how are you?
Hope ur ok 🙏🏻
I feel same. I feel i am a strange person everything around me does not give pleasute😭
GOD gives us hope 🙏 Stay strong, friend ❤
Depression and anxiety are temporary. Peace is forever (which is *reaI* happiness)
Stay safe, everyone!❤
So much love to all that read this 🙏💚🙏
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Hello there, I’d love to know you more
@@samadallibalogun1646 🙏💚🙏🥳 hola from Spain
(917) 810-1863 Here’s my number
@@thischannelhasmovedcheckla1235 I’m from USA
My brain has ruined my life, kept me in isolation, and left me alone and heartbroken. I have worked extremely diligently to become a better person but it doesn’t change. Nothing else i can do. I have everything going for me but still feel Life is just not worth living. Which is even more sad because i am an incredible person but still hate my life and myself.
Omg. Had a terrible day
Sadness. Suicide thought
. Then found this video. Thank you so much, thank you for giving hope!! ❤️
How you feeling now hun????
@@starchildofthe90s7 so much better. And in off medication. Thank you so much for asking. Howxare you today🙃
@@Kamo27944 trying to keep myself a float not out of it but hoping for the best not as many suicidal thoughts. Can i ask what meds you were on im considering getting on something.
@@starchildofthe90s7 are you still feeling suicidal?
if anyone needs some motivation, start right now because if u don’t, a year from now u would’ve wished u started earlier. do it so your future self will thank u!!
*I lost my license, mom to suicide last year and have had severe depression ever since. It's been well over a year. I'm on meds but nothing works. I can't even work. Some days I want to give it. Not much motivation to do anything. Can barely get out of bed. God help me :(*
Sorry about that
I’m here if you need anyone to talk to
Pls hold on, the storm will pass even if it doesn’t feel like it. Eat healthy, exercise regularly, get a good amount of sleep, talk to someone about how your feeling. YOU ARE NOT ALONE AND YOU ARE WORTHY OF LIFE.
How are you today my friend?
How are you?
I hope you're doing okay
I'm feeling so fatigued over the past year. Every thing seems hard to do. I greatly appreciate your words of sympathy and hope. Thank you.
36 and still no friends, no bf, i dont see any light at the end of tunel 😥
It’s hard when so many aspects of your life feel like they are in shambles. Sometimes you try to reach out to a friend, but so many people are dealing with their own issues. I feel alone 😢 It comes and goes, but as I get older I just feel so worn down. I used to deal with personal issues by escaping at work. Now work can be frustrating. I’m trying to keep pushing
I'm a lonely person with a lonely childhood, 18. never remember being GENUINELY happy. have done bad things to get recognition from people and now ashamed of everything. why is everyone so happy and good-looking while I'm not? the small world I've created for myself started to suffocate me.
Youre going to be stronger dont give up
Read the book Journey Of Souls
@butterfly-oi1bj Hey I feel the same, if you want to talk about anything know that i am here
Thank you for this, Scott. These words of yours couldn't have come at a better time for me! As always, wonderful to hear you speak. Much love.
My dad passed away last Saturday (Dec/12) I’m so broken 😭😭 💔💔 I feel like I can’t even walk, but I have to... thank you 🙏🏻
Oh no... I'm so sorry.💔🙏 Hope you'll get better soon and stay safe and healthy.♥️
@@obstsalat8118 thank you for your words. 🙏🏻
Much love to you in this time. It's now when your greatest gifts are strengthened. I share a video on dealing with death of a loved one on my channel. My best friend died at 19years old. I share how I coped, be great if you watch it and let me know if it helps you 💚🙏💚
You are strong ❤️
@@thischannelhasmovedcheckla1235 thank you 🙏🏻 I’ll look for it .
I can’t imagine to *feel* really like.. Feel. Cause i can’t remind to ever felt it. What if i can’t feel happyness?! What if it’s not possible... I never got out of this feeling dont remember how it feels to be happy don know if i’ve ever been
I have anxiety and OCD issues. Last year I was finally with the love of my life, everything seemed to be great, but I got this commitment of a project in another country that I had already accepted and had to take, so I traveled and had planned with her that she would come to live with me here. She got detected ovary cancer and all the plan got destroyed, and she refused to have chemoterapy. I felt like the situation was too much because of my health issues and the responsibilities and the distance, and I tried to convence her to take chemoterapy but failed. I decided to break up, and I can't believe all that happened to us, we had all a life to share together, and I honestly don't know how and when will I recover from this, and I am in this country away from my family; I like my job but each day is like unbearable to find the motivation to keep going. BUT THIS VIDEO, YOUR WORDS ARE SO POWERFUL AND HAVE GIVEN ME HOPE, THANK YOU
Dude....I seriously had to change literally everything to get well. Thanks for the encouragement. A strict regime, developing discipline has served me well. Really glad I ran across your stuff today
Scott you are honestly an angel. Your words always manage to make me stay hopeful no matter what it may be. Thank you
That's amazing, thank you for your wonderful words.
Thank You Scott for sending this message, is was something I needed to know. I feel like we could be besties or just want to talk about crazy issues like unhappiness & depression. Because deep down, I know it matters. Love & God bless❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for the reminder that this too shall pass. As a child I was never in the same school for more than a few months. Family life was a joke. I found a family in the Navy. I excelled and was part of a team. Now the team is gone. I tried being married but was too damaged and didn't know what love was. I eventually broke her heart and we divorced. This world seems so screwed up and now I'm 60 and alone. With nobody to love, I feel my heart growing colder. My brother committed suicide and my sister tried several times but I was able to stop her. Sometimes I think they had the right idea. Then again, I believe this will pasx.
sounds good, I will definitely give it a try
I feeling severely depressed. Please God help me. Help me change. I can’t take this anymore. No more depression no more anxiety.
Thank you scott :)
Thank you for this ❤️
same hre
You're great in every video. Hugs from Europe.
Thank you
Idk man I’m 16 and drink almost every day sometimes I wish I could go back to my childhood when my only worry was stepping on a Lego
Your brain isn’t completely developed until you are 25 so cut down and quit get educated and learn a skill think about your 50 year old self stop living for just today
@@Supportdog2020 Jesus man it’s been a year well i hope you know I almost completely kicked alcohol and I did find a hobby I started learning how to fix cars I’m a lot more happy than I was a year ago I was just in a super dark place for awhile after I got cheated on by my ex but I finally know my worth plus I just got into a nice automotive tech school so I’m really looking forward to that honestly life has been a hell of a lot better for me lately
Wow brother..wonderful...thank u very much
Im so much better now than when I was younger. Itll be ok.
Thanks Scott
Thankyou
My 20 year old son struggles with depression and he lives with me, just the both of us. I try everything to help, doctors, therapy, holistic approaches and I pay for it all which is fine because I just want him to be happy. However he has anger issues and I know he doesn't respect me. He breaks things and swears at me when he is raging. Everyone tells me to kick him out but I just can't because I know he has nowhere to go and no money and I don't want him to feel that I've abandoned him.
It's just that it's bringing me down so, so much. I walk on egg shells around him and sometimes I feel like just ending it all so I can stop this pain and abuse.
At what point do I say enough because at this rate I will have a nervous breakdown and not be there for him anyway.
I am becoming as depressed as he is.
I don't know what to do😔
Hi i am in a similiar situation but with my dad. He has depression but he hides it from us but its fairly obvious to me that hes feeling down. He pretends to act really macho and talks really loud but i know hes not feeling good on the inside. He has a lot of angry outbursts and sometimes he just stares of into space like hes dead on the inside. Being around him is also really negatively impacting me. I notice every day im at my happiest when im away from him. Sometimes i wish he was gone or wasnt my dad. Luckily tho i have an amazing mum and brother so they keep me sane. I have a few passions and they also help me. I feel really bad for you coz i know the struggle of loving some1 so much but that love is also the thing destroy ur mental health. I think every one copes differently with these situations. I know you probably heard all this advice before but try something like reading a book or meditating or exercising because somedays they will be the only period of time in the day when u actually feel ok. I know its tough now but every storms ends! Also try reaching out for help. Im an 18 year old boy by the way so a similiar enough age to ur son. Exercise really helps me and also music. Reading dormes to. Best of luck and dont ever give up! If u want more advice feel free to ask.
Maybe your son needs more time. Maybe he's angry at himself for being in the state that he is? I can relate if that's the case.
I found my purpose in my mid twenties. The years before that I had severe depression because I was lost and had a wrong perspective on life. Try to help your son find a purpose. Give him books to read, books about great men who made it. Offer job ideas, a gym membership, whatever. In the end he needs to figure shit out himself but he probably can't do it without help right now.
In case you didn't do it already: buy Vitamin d3 and omega 3 supplements and tell him to take it every day. It will help in the long run
There's quite a bit of research on this.
I recently (few months) broke up with my girl friend , it was a 10 years relation, and the distance on the pandemic make her decide to end up our relationship we got a fight right at the beginning, something stupid, and now she is dating someone else and I am in a hole, this feeling that i am not good enough, We have a 4 year old child, and i have to see her (my ex) all the time and it hurts... I have try to talk to her an there is nothing I can do, All i know this last couple of moths have been terrible, her father got an accident and she looked for my and we spend a couple of days in where it was like the old days, she even told me she was confuse about that... and then she get cold again... I am just sad all the time
Sorry about that man
Went through something similar during the pandemic
I’d love to know you more
Here’s my number (917) 810-1863
Much love and strength to you in these times. Know you will always be an inspiration to your daughter, so be a good one. Head high, full of love and start self love exercises. You need to recognize your value and worth 🙏💚💚💚
@@thischannelhasmovedcheckla1235 hello there
How are you
I no longer ask that question anymore. I have given in and accepted my fate.
This question will it last forever is one of my biggest fears.
Having dishymia since decades with some moderate episodes since 5 years moderate constantly since 5 month severe depression with strong suicidal thoughts.
You see sometimes things do not get really better. Nevertheless it is better now then 2 month ago but lifing on like this means suffering more or less most of the time.
Self concern will lead to hell... always be nice and you will reach the heights of success... like leveling up in video games... and there is no level cap...🎉🎉
Actually i do ask myself that question when im happy
Why does change always have to involve extreme pain? I’m so tired of having to learn hard lesson after hard lesson. Honestly it feels like as soon as I get through one hard time and learn the lesson, a new challenge comes along. I want to live my life instead of going from one struggle to another. Honestly I swear I look for the lessons to learn in each challenge and do my very best to learn and grow. Can’t I just get to a place of peace? I do appreciate stumbling upon your channel. Hopefully I’ll find some peace.
I totally relate. I don’t want surprises and alarms. I want soft lessons. But I only learn through hard lessons and it’s difficult
It been a year now the only way to fix this is go back time
Hey brother this will sound like i am promoting something but do Inner Engineering By Sadhguru your life will change and you will be more happy than ever in life i have been through it and now trying to help everyone who is currently struggling
A huge part of me is finding it difficult to believe 😕
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What I've never been happy ?
What if it does last forever😥
Tc
idk you, but personally - when will I be happy again? never. It ain't possible. ya, I've been down before and yea, it had gotten better but *this* (whatever the f&")k it is) is VERY different. so never.