Wheat Waffles Waves Goodbye: I disagree with his conclusions but he made some good points
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- čas přidán 14. 05. 2024
- BlackPill CZcamsr Wheat Waffles announced his departure from CZcams this week and I wanted to critically address a few points he made in his video, as well as the movement as a whole.
Original video I'm responding to:
• The End of Wheat Waffles
#blackpilled #wheatwaffles #redpill #selfimprovement
Wheat Waffles or any blackpill CZcamsr never said that looks or height are everything. He is just saying that in 2024, looks and height have become more and more important. For instance, 90% of women are only chasing the top 10% of the most attractive men because social media and dating apps have given women countless options and validation. He has also provided a lot of data to support his point. Blackpill also points out that how people, especially women, treat you is mainly based on your looks. Confidence and personality only matter if she is already attracted to you by your looks first.
I'd agree with everything up til the last sentence. I've become attractive to women when I was invisible before through them getting to know me socially, or through being confident in approaching them.
Only in online dating and social media does looks become an absolute barrier. There's some flexibility in real life with enough women for it to be worth attempting.
Us monks don't have these petty issues. Find purpose. Delete the apps. Forget about dating. Be a great person.
People need to understand that dating is inherently discriminatory and unfair for both women and men. Just because some people have an obvious advantage it doesn’t mean the rest of us won’t find a partner. Imagine perfectly functional men are giving up because of looks how are disabled people, burn victim finding a partner? I think the real problem here is most of the time this people desire people who “ are out of their league “ and I hate saying this because there is no such a thing as leagues but they want people who would never give them a chance sometimes because of fantasy other times to prove their insecurities right and abandon. All this to say if looks is what you focus on tho put yourself out there then you are doomed. There are non attractive people who are in committed relationship because looks are not everything, they communicate well, are interesting, intelligent, charming and well behaved and that’s far more attractive on the long run
This is a great comment and correct on people who won’t accept their realistic options in dating. Too much social media artificially pumping perceived value. There’s nothing wrong with being realistic
A question for my not so younger self:
Would you rather have a 9 who just about tolerates you, or a 7 who adores you, communicates with you, and apologises when she should?
Superficial looks don't really matter so much in the long run. They don't need to be the most instantly attractive person you've ever seen or dated. They just have to be attractive enough, with values and character being much more important.
Disabled burn victims are a rarity, and only some of them would find partners
Make dissatisfaction either dating apps largely outweighs fringe cases
@@busybecomingmyselfthe issue is the average man wouldn’t attract either the 9 or the 7
The non-attractive people aren’t winning on tinder.