It's not over. Wheat Waffles is missing the Godmaxx box. God may actually send you a non-ugly female if you repent and go the marriage by sacrament route. There is a large population of women desperate to find a Godmaxx'ed man.
@@rafaelpais970 I have a girlfriend ...maybe I'm speaking of a light Tyrone viewpoint but if you think it's already over, go on and focus on your hobbies and passions ...better be happy doing what you like than recovering from a rejection like a man...
"Improve Social Circle" should be a step for most normies and chads. If you don't have enough high-quality women in your periphery, then you should at least try to become friendly with guys (of a similar tier) who do. The women in your circle don't need to be single or straight, as they will try to introduce you to their female friends. It's a form of networking. Acquire new male friends -> meet their gfs / women that they interact with -> meet female friends of those women.
@@BenjaminBotwe1999 yes i am close with my male friends gf. in fact someone in our friend circle actually started dating a guys gf's best friend as she put in a good word for him lol. if you cant trust your friends around your gf then why are you friends in the first place? true friendship is all about trust and loyalty and having each others backs and having the bro code. yes some ppl are snakes in the world but why hang out with those kinds of ppl?
how do you think this shit works lmao like people just come and say "hurr durr well meet new people bottom text" meet them where? most people already have friends and dont want a randok stranger approaching them, it isnt that simple especially for us in small towns
This beats all the "being alpha is a mindset" and vague self improvement advice the RP gives you. I think this might be the most comprehensive, practical and down to earth guide, an actual PLAN. Although it's not perfect it's not full proof, it's infinitely better than no plan at all. Thanks Wheat.
Buy my alpha mindset book now! Invest in my crypto coins even though I'm a low inhib dating guru and know absolutely nothing. Buy it all now! The only thing this video is selling to us are straight facts and an actual plan of action.
You don't understand 2 things: 1) This is a video about "what you should do in your dating life," not "what you should do in your overall life." 2) Saying to have a fulfilling life outside of dating, within this context, is nothing more than the nicest, most diplomatic way to say "you cannot date, likely won't ever date, so don't even try because your odds are highest when it's blind, random chance."
Iâm proud to say Iâve achieved a tier well above Sub 5, Normie and Chad. A tier that puts the typical 3 to absolute shame: The Morbie. Also known as the Morbius Male, Morbies completely dominate the competition. With a body count and dating record of over a morbillion, the Morbie can charm any girl with the utterance of these magic words: âitâs Morbin timeâ.
I realize this post is probably a joke, but for the ones that are serious. You guys are starting to sound like these crazy pronoun leftists identifying as they them theirs. and ze zem zer. I just want to you acknowledge the irony.
It didnt take me long to figure out that dating was not for me (Sub5 who is South Asian and 5'5''). I am into religion and now I am a monk living in a monastery and I am happy with it.
I seriously almost spit my drink when he said âdo you have money?â LOL, that means itâs already game over for 90% of the guys who are falling into that box.
@@Neucher as difficult as that may sound, it's accurate, having 200k on the side will definitely boost your game, and even sub 5 guys can satiate their needs with escorts if they have money
I have watched all your video and came to the concusion that all three "pills" have marred: Looks are the most important thing - Support that 100% in this day and age. (Black pill) Game/ Charisma is not only needed for getting into a relationship but to keep it! (Red pill) And last but not least... You need a little luck in life! Right place, right time. (Blue pill)
@@fender1000100 nah most men nowadays gymmaxx and go above and beyond what they need to do in order to secure đ±, boomers never had to exert this much effort to get a partner.
@@jokerpilled2535 You have to be kidding the number of guys who are in shape out there Is pathetic. I'm 57 and still have a 6 pack. It can get embarrassing. If I go shirtless. I will mog most of the men out there young enough to be my grandsons. And have girls they should be getting smiling at me. Because they don't realise how old I am looking like I do Too many young men today are lazy and can't put the game console down long enough to do anything else. They are either too skinny or too fat. Then wonder why the guys in shape are cleaning house. It's nature. Women want fit virile men. Not string beans or Johnny fat boys. When you are in top shape. Everything will look its best. Your face, your posture and your presence. A woman once told me one of the biggest turn ons is a guy with a good shoulder to waist differential. Women notice this IMMEDIATELY. And it can often make up for a lack of facial looks. This is how alot of average looking black guys get women out of their league. BODY GAME. I've been using it for 30 years. If you have the right proportions. You can be 5 8" and still get alot of women wanting you.
This was 100 times better than the generic red-pill advice of getting money, getting ripped and "holding frame". It all boils down to looks. First and foremost, you need to evaluate whether or not you're a sub5, normie, chad-lite, or chad. All your realistic dating options flow from there. Great vid!
It does not all boils down to looks even the video itself covers this by mentioning daygame and stuff. Looks help a lot, but you'll still have a hard time if you're a good looking potato, and even ugly guys can reach way above their league by having good game. I've seen this is practice many times. You have to improve wherever you can.
How does one know what they are if they feel they could be either a sub 5 or Normy. Purchase the Fiverr service? I think I am the lowest tier Normy. A 5.
I have been married for 15 years. I met my wife in philosophy class in Uni where I debated the professor as a first year in front of 200 students. She came up to me and we started to talk. This was in 2007. Back in the day, these dating apps and overcomlpication of dating did not exist. I find it very interesting how dating has evolved, and I think this channel gives the necessary advice for young men to be able to navigate in this moral abyss. You guys are the true heroes of this age, society and the manipulated dating life raises such obstacles in front of young people with good will that no other generation had to face. The wretched dragon has grown too many heads, and you can only slay it with the mighty sword of sharp reason. Stay strong, keep a clear mind, work on yourselves, don't give up hope, and free your princess. Help will come. I follow this channel with great interest, thanks for the quality of work you are putting in for the benefit of everyone.
Im married for 12 years. Met my wife back in 08. Back then i use them confident and cocky approach and other PUA shit. I still used them now for light flirting. I only realized after these years that it was effective because i'm decent looking.
@@ImMakEiTNasty Speak for yourself. There are STILL alot of nice women out there. But they aren't 7 plus so you don't want them. Everything comes with a PRICE. The more in demand a woman is. The less reason she has to be nice. The same way most very goodlooking men are complete bastards. When you get something EASY. You seldom appreciate it. You guys never stop to think about that.
My father keeps asking me when i will have a girlfriend, as a 5'4 normie never! Every time i tink about this i come to the conclusion of eighter he is completely not awere of this generation or he just likes to remember me what kinde of a failure i am. Your understanding comment had me thinking about this again and i wish he had your insight a little bit and leave me alone.
FEET/INCHES TO CM: 5 feet 5 in 65 in 165.1 cm 1.65 m 5 feet 6 in 66 in 167.64 cm 1.68 m 5 feet 7 in 67 in 170.18 cm 1.7 m 5 feet 8 in 68 in 172.72 cm 1.73 m 5 feet 9 in 69 in 175.26 cm 1.75 m 5 feet 10 in 70 in 177.8 cm 1.78 m 5 feet 11 in 71 in 180.34 cm 1.8 m 6 feet 72 in 182.88 cm 1.83 m 6 feet 1 in 73 in 185.42 cm 1.85 m 6 feet 2 in 74 in 187.96 cm 1.88 m 6 feet 3 in 75 in 190.5 cm 1.91 m Just in case anybody doesnt have a clue of wtf is 5.6, as I did cuz im from Spain lol.
@@friedrichschnobel4000 Face doesn't even compete anymore. I think he deleted himself. The other guys just have a completely different style. Tails doesn't even talk. Incel TV talks but he doesn't use diagrams; but you've got to hand it to the guy, he just shows you a burning car and makes you listen to him because his words are so damned poignant. Incel TV is also the most loyal to the blackpill. He's not a little red or a little black. He's totally blackpilled.
I think the best attitude towards dating is to forget about it, if you are blackpilled and believe that 99 percent of women will not be the one for you, then you can easily go through life not giving a shit about trying to please women in any way, u can actually just be yourself. I think this is more important than being in a relationship, being yourself and feeling free and invincible. I think thats what blackpill can get you. Yes, a 99 percent loss of hope, but a 999 % increase in your quality of life.
never date where you work. Warm approach applies to the situation: local area or community families that know each other, local village neighbours, Father's friends daughter, etc.
The problem with warm approach is if it goes south in any way, you jeopardize the environment that made the connection possible. You can only use the warm approach if you literally do not care about your circle.
Nah that is not true at all. It only is a problem if you are asking out literally every women in your circle. If you ask at one and get turned down, most women will vault that and not torpedo you. Most decent looking women have the "you shoot your shot" attitude as long as you are not creepy.
.. gdamn.. i feel for the young guys out there⊠iâm 48⊠and luckily, dodged all of this bullshit that has been created via dating aps/social media/etcâŠwhen i look back at my dating history, there is NO chance i would have been as successful, had i grown up in this day and age⊠best of luck to u guys⊠and .. great videoâŠ
Has a sub 5 myself I recommend finding fulfillment outside of dating Find hobbies and passion Doing stuff you like will make you feel better and positive and if women ever notice you theyâll feel that energy coming from you although that doesnât mean anything but being good around people makes you better than an angry incel
What he fails to mention in the video is that almost everything a girlfriend can give you can be had with a supportive group of close friends. A successful relationship is also a commitment and requires many sacrifices that will make you uncomfortable and it takes away a lot of your freedom. Blackpillers present women like some prize which you must acquire to be a real man but in reality, being in a relationship is more like having a really close friend that you also get to fuck. It's really not necessary for a happy life, this is true for many chads too, that's why so many of them only focus on hookups. Sex is nice, but it shouldn't be your life goal. If you lack supportive friends then this is the first thing you should focus on
Find life fulfillment outside of dating is the road I knew I would have to go down many years ago. For anyone who has just found out this reality, I promise it will get easier. You will have to go through the five stages of grief because accepting the reality that dating for you is over is going to be a life-changing realisation that will have you grieve but the pain will pass and it will get better.
It's not over for many people, it's just very ineffective. I occasionally sat in dating websites for the last 20 years, and I got some fun from it, but it was worth it only in terms of fun experience, not sex counter. There are better, faster and cheaper options. And yeah, getting so little responses made me think someone has it all, and I was right. I knew a guy who boasted he banged 200 women in 5 years of something like that. Now pay 100$ for each, and you get 20k for that. Also keep in mind he didn't bang only 7-10. You can definitely earn those money in that time and even more. But if that what you want, or you want relationships. Males want recognition from females more than anything to feel high in value. Sex is actually pretty cheap and affordable. It's realizing how low your sex market value is what jagging and keeps hooked pursuing women, hoping to prove otherwise, and it was a mistake. It's discouraging, as it's something we were given, being not equal, and is hard to fix. Especially since you live in illusions till 15 or 20, and then reality hits you in the face, that you're useless and not needed by women.
I wish there was a personalitymaxxing blue box. For nuerodivergent people , overcoming their weaknesses gives them an edge. They just have to have the potential to do it. EX: ADHD , anxiety , autism , dark triad etc....
Can you personalitymaxx? A sperg can learn to mask better but masking results in being awkward and exhausted. Eventually you burn out trying to be NT. It's possible to improve as a non-NT but you'll never really be a NT normie.
Great flow chart. "Travel the world where dating (was) easier" is NO longer 10x better. It requires a stealth snip, pretending to put a ring on it, and fleeing before the screws get turned. The short time bar girls are low quality and it's a sausage fest. Higher value ladies are only seeking fans online and often have a husband. The first trip is often brings a false hope. Disappointment sets in quick when the lack of English, demands of extended family, and being a sugar daddy sinks in deep. Peace.
I wouldn't want to make those trips "cold" not these days. Pre internet, pre smart phones, OK. If you carry yourself well and pick your spots there is potential. Back before they scrubbed the internet there were sites where guys would blog about their trips. Oh the stories! Macau, superstar level, if you know you know. Now you get shaky video footage but it doesn't tell the story.
In the Phil and been here years, and mostly agree, but I think it's not quite that dire (yet), although it's very true about having to support the family/friends of the girl.
You probably should only go to the Philippines if looking to date, it is quite easier and the girls speak English. I just did 5 months in SEA. I agree, you need to have guts to live there long term and marry there. I would not want to do this. It is fun and adventurous for a short time, but go there and get out.
@@Fighter4Street Tried that. Huge mistake as I was naive and that was years ago. They just want the green card to send money home "utang na loob" like an OFW. Met many such asawa couples. All cold bedrooms after the babies arrive. Only good for short time P4P, and that's gotten very expensive with all the neighboring competition. I wish I had better news.
Thank you so much for thist video. I've spent the last few years of my life juggling the possibilities I had in my mind without being able to form a clear picture and you just laid it all out in such a rational and well structured way it's scary. Also, considering money and neurotype in the picture is such a fundamental part of the process that's often left out.
An incredibly well done video, pure logic in action. Iâd only add that settling for your looksmatch or even a point or two below might not be as bad as some of you think (assuming youâre at least 5-6): Undamaged normie tier girls > promiscuous attractive girls
Every guy should be going for his looks match. And this is the unspoken PROBLEM for most average guys. They are trying to punch above their weight. And of course most FAIL... You all complain the so-called stacies only want the so-called chads. WELL YEAH! They want their looks match. It's only NORMAL. If you are an average guy you get with an average woman. If you are below average you get with a below average woman. If you are above average you get with an above average woman. This isn't ROCKET SCIENCE. Water rises to its own level. There are always exceptions of course. Due to MONEY or a quirk in a man or womans personality and life experiences. That might make them buck the trend. But generally. Things go as they're supposed to.
"normie tier girls" - someone here still believes in them unicorns. Your typical "normie tier girl next door" has body count in triple digits, she is likely more promiscuous than attractive girls.
The question is i have is, if Im outearning her, outproducing her, cook/clean/etc self sufficient. I bring food, house, cars, etc. ... and she's below me or same level in looks, what is she bringing? There is no point dating western women. Theyre leaches. And even the average ones are very frequently damaged. A girl 6 in looks, can easily get ran through by Chads - and have alpha widow mindset because of it. Convinced she wasnt just used for a night; not even the sidepiece - below the sidepiece. But she got the "experience" and will resent a man better than her - in every way better than her - for not being the 10/10 guys she thinks she deserves.
@@APsupportsTerrorism Ideally, she should bring her femininity, companionship and sex. Iâm not a chad by any means, but from my (limited) experience, itâs much less of a headache and more sustainable to be with your looksmatch or a point below
Females of any species are designed to choose the best possible males, which benefits their children. Our descendants will become taller and more attractive on average because of them.
You are right, but there's a problem: since women began to put height above all else, including intelligence, we are seeing new gen becoming taller, indeed, but dumber and dumber... đ
It's challenging to generalize a large system with high levels of confident results falling in the mean...this is certainly a well designed hypothesis and while it may not capture the outcomes for an entire population it could be argued reasonably that applying the strategy would (and should) capture a positive outcome for a large pool of test subjects, so nice job and cheers
Yeah, he should add a bit of disclaimers into such videos. I mean it's obvious, that there are outliers and it's a simplification, but it would make it harder to attack.
Imho, that's the best general solutions that a guy, especially normie, may try until he's failed at those or doesn't like the results this strategy provides
well at lest he said that his theory is for neurotypical as of youa re not you are likely not even going to like those women who woud like you if you are considered a chad or looksmax by his recipe
Money is cope. You can never be certain you were her first flr starters. You can have all the money in the world but a Chad can walk up to you one day and say 'I have been inside your wife'.
I like that the video got to the same conclusion I did 12 years ago with "find interest elsewhere." What a time saver you took that path first! Thank you!
There is a 4th reason why warm approaches are good: A person in your friend network has a reputation to uphold This will cause her to practice self-restraint in how she treats you. She is less likely to behave in an exploitative way, because this will damage her own reputation.
that's 2 edged sword. she may refuse interaction or sex precisely to retain her reputation. and she will definitely will not open herself because of fear that her secrets will spread around. Also exploiting a man will not damage her reputation at all because it will look like you are totally OK with being exploited
@@deltaxcd also if she does have a good reputation and has decent looks, all itâs going to take is for her to say one bad thing about you (true or not) and a bunch of peoples perception about you is changed
If you just want a casual fun and are not good looking, there is nothing wrong with paying for casual fun. The game guys hate on it because they know it is a far superior system to their pickup artistry nonsense (also they lose out on sales for their dumb courses) . Making more money is far easier and more effecient for non-Chads than the pickup nonsense
Itâs not that easy for me. Itâs illegal in the US and most girls who do this stuff arenât the type of girls I want. Iâve heard of scams like them not looking like the photos or worse and undercover police stories. Plus itâs not really the same as having someone whoâs actually into it
Valid, aso be careful about who you share this info with. If your buds don't make a lot of money they will become jealous little b**ches saying dumb crap like I don't believe in that yada yada or some dumb. No, you just broke and can't afford to pay the game.
@@KurokamiNajimi well yeah weed was illegal in the all USA for a long time and people went out of their way to buy it and smoke it. Youâll also run into the scam/fake photo thing on dating apps. Iâve had hookers who were into it when I saw them, but yes most wonât be. Once you do it several times itâs a 1-2-3 step process with guaranteed results for time you do it
@@Thiccness_Is_Delicious Than why don't just lay into your grave? In that perspective all life is waste of time because at the end we all meet the same fate.
What you fail to mention is that if you're dating in SEA's countries you're basically picking up gold diggers who you will have to financially support who don't even find you attractive. You're playing yourself. Go for it if you want to date casually, but don't think they are dating you for appearance based reasons (speaking to all sub-5's, some normies).
What difference would that make if love is a mixture of dopamine, oxytocin and adreneline? You just have to detox before female humanoid destroys you. Hardest blackpill was that there never was such a thing like love. I mean even my sow mother expected certain behaviour for goodboy points.
Well that depends. They obviously will value you for your money if youâre from a western nation. But the reason why is that of a traditional woman. They value your resources to have a family and live a generally better lifestyle, gold diggers value men with resources so they can get expensive shit that ultimately superficial, like new clothes and shoes, expensive dates and traveling to places just for the hell of it, etc.
If you find goldiggers it's a you problem, try to filter the women you meet ...you think there aren't nice, well adjusted women in third world countries? You must not be talking about experience
Women who want are decent life and security aren't golddiggers. That's a feminist framing to promote females having careers and guys not going for the poor and young ones. Women planning the divorce from the start, or want to spend a lot of money on luxury things, and have expensive things for themselves from such a relationship are golddiggers. However, I don't see the point in dating without the goal of marriage and children, and I won't have children not looking like me and my people. Also, marrying into another culture is likely to be difficult. SEA is for sex tourism. So it should be obvious and not be a problem, that it is for the money and fun time. I totally agree on that part.
Agree - White sub fives are STILL sub fives in Asia. Asian women are not blind. They will marry them for security but might still cheat on them. Funny how some white men think going to Asia is the solution. That only works for normies, not sub fives
Idk why these videos are so interesting to me as I've been married for 6 years but they are. In the terms I've learned from your videos I'll state that when I was single, I was a normie with a bit of looksmaxxing, I had a lot of success with online because it was fresh and new due to having just came out, but my primary dating strategy was warm approaches as I was in college and participated in a lot of different groups as well as having friend groups from the dorms. However I met my now wife with a cold approach at a camping event with an interstate Christian organization. So my path diverged from this chart some. Taking in the fact that I'm far from neurotypical I actually skipped a lot of steps, because I was dirt broke all through college and I actually dropped out and didn't moneymaxx. Feels really funny to say it in these "blackpill" terms.
Marriages last 7 to 9 years the seven-year itch comes for the woman that's when she cheats check her phone it's always in her phone bro do not marry do not have children do not cohabitate every second of every day a woman is looking to upgrade to a bigger and better deal until the day she takes her last breath
Married boy here too. Red pill and black pill made become more social person. BLack pill made me feel good for not being single. I could imagine how terribe the dating scene can be.
@@TuscanBrick well right away sold my soul to be a state worker at a prison, then I joined the army, then I worked for Satan himself (federal government at yet another prison), and after tiring from negative authoritarian environments I took hard labor jobs that paid well, and now finally I'm working on removing my self from the employee pool for good as a first generation farmer. Trying to become self sustaining and all that jazz. It's going well. Got 3 kids, some dairy goats and some chickens on some land just outside my hometown of all places I thought I'd never be.
@@BandoDNC That's awesome, what sort of Christian camp did you meet your wife at? This is how my Aunt and Uncle met before they died and they had a great marriage.
Damn, was that a little shade thrown at Hamza? Lol. Also, you donât have to be Sub5 to find life fulfillment outside of dating. Normies and Chads will find that is also the best option for happiness by and large! Women are like Wild Horses, and unless you are fully equipped to tame her, not only with your physical aesthetics but Mentally and financially, I suggest you stay out of LTRâs and just date casually!
@@father5946 He is correct in doing so. WW are severely OVERRATED. And if they were ignored more. Their egos would come crashing back down to earth. But you can't do it can you. So the GAMES will continue.
Take a peak into r/blantantmisogyny, there's entire threads around wheat waffles and how much they hate him and his content. They are mad people are catching on and being to plot data based around it. (Also being able to provide strategies around how to go about the vast majority of situation in an easily digestable format.)
I swear reddit feminists are the worst. They are so narrow minded, they don't even want to watch 2 videos of this channel fully without prejudice. They see blackpill and incel, and think school shooters. Or hate. I bet most of the hate from people in these communities is because no amount of attention is given to their problems. They can easily talk to 10 guys at once, without a sweat, and think we are really doing something wrong to not be getting the same attention. But average to below average men are left in the dust, to fend for themselves. Nobody gives a fuck, and you are shamed for believing the blackpill and trying to looksmax.
@@BlackHole-qv5no Ladies are not interested for men to know the truth of blackpill, who will provide with money, beta-orbit, and simp? If all men know the truth, they will fill up gyms to the fullest, empty iHerb and Vitacost online shops, dress to impress, then choice will be hard to make. yet so far competition among men is more or less acceptable. We see a lot of obese, lazy, ugly men on the streets, teenage boys are smoking and drinking alcohol, having no idea that it stops height growth. In my city it is enough for a man to wear a Zara shirt, belt, jeans get some Tom Ford perfume and ladies will get melted in front of him.
your channel is a blessing, it tells us the truth and shows us what to do to be happy, thank you man despite the criticism of others you are really good and we appreciate you because you show us the truth and how to get out. REALLY THANKS MAN â€ïžđđœ.
Bro. I wish to shake your hand for all of the great job that you're putting up in here on youtube. The truth is out there...right in front of our eyes...soo close that majority of ppl, can't see it, or miss it. Yet. Here we are. In the age of blackpill, sorting out our doubts, and false hopes. Salute, and cheers!
This is very good advice, I live on an island of 20k people, mode of which are elder because it's very expensive here. My only options are interns which cycle out every year, and forces me to be stuck I'm short term relationships, which is why I stopped dating them because I want a long term. So I've been money maxing by learning new skills, but I'm 35years old, so feel like I should let go of hope at this point most of the time.
This video is the best male improvement I have seen. Should get over million views. Great work. Your content has really come of age. Approaching 100k subs, congrads on your success.
Emotional damage! So cold and honest.. I hate the fact that I agree with it.. Great video. Good luck to us all. Let's work hard and improve what we can.
I feel like the worth of game, fashion, a good body, a career, ambition, etc., has plummeted so much in the last few years. After having no results over and over, when I used to have results before, it makes me feel quite pessimistic, and even antagonistic towards the idea of women liking me after e.g. "moneymaxxing".
I'm from Europe, I get 0 match on tinder usually or maybe once every 2 month, but it's probably an error because they never respond. I went to Singapore for a few days for work, I tried tinder here just to see, I put the range to the max and I got multiples matches every single day, from Malaysian, Indonesian, Thai and Filipino women. I know they wanted me to get them out of their misery, but I think it's a great deal. It's a transaction.
An additional note about going abroad. It's not only that standards for men are lower, but women in those countries are much less likely to be damaged. In America, maybe 1 out of every 500 women is marriage material. In SEA where casual sex is frowned upon, you can start out with a pool of around half the women not being damaged. If you "settle" for a 4/10 or 5/10 woman that's a good wife, it'll definitely be better than even if you're able to get a 7/10 American woman with a body count of 300.
thanks for waking me up man i always tried to make sense of why i had so few girls, lookswise im between normie and chad, but im not neurotypical and even am autistic (social death sentence) and im poor for life. so finding life furfillment outside of dating is incredible advice for me. just to let it all go. and maybe its for the better since those who are often in relationships they get cheated on a lot due to hypergamy and it comes with lots of drama.
yep, I agree on travel maxxing. I traveled a lot over the years and got the most attention from girls in general (18-40 abroad, 3-8 in rating) while abroad. I spent most time in Eastern Europe and learning some of the local language makes you stand out from the average foreigner. I met many english teachers or other girls that had a good knowledge of English in even more remote regions there lol I consider myself normie though. Smaller cities are better for dating than capitals though bc they are used to foreigners there.
Why anyone would want to jump through all of these hoops just to get a girl that will leave you in 10 years any way is beyond me. Meanwhile they just have to exist and not be obese...
What do I like about this video? The absolute clarity and precision in identifying problems and solving them. You suck? Not attractive? Fix the problem and then put yourself on the market. DO NOT waste your time and energy on dates without solving the problem first. You do not have money? Ok, in the flowchart it is not necessary but it is a fundamental element to verify Don't you know anyone? Even a day game (cold approach) is fine.... you just need to live in a city. All so clear. All so trivially true. Too bad that so far I am not aware of anyone who has had the idea to collect this information and communicate it. Genius guy!
You should check out Jacked and Stacked channel too. He's more positive and works on solutions and improvement. Not just the doomer type of black pill.
Thank you for this chart and information wheat waffles. It's amazing how many dating coaches are out there right now hustling men for money just to get the same information. One coach out there wants a $100 a month It's called the bad boy's club or bad boy's membership or something like that
Bad boy's club... Women love handsome and tall bad boys, likewise, they love tall and handsome good guys. Dating coaches will never tell these...instead they teach bullsht that all ladies love bad boys (facepalm)
Big fan and congrats on another thorough, well explained video which Iâm sure will be a hit! Just a quick thing I noticed which I disagree on. The box concerning âare you neurotypical?â At 2:14 youâve mentioned people with personality disorders and learning difficulties being sent back to the sub-5 path. If you look at personality disorders and what they entail, specifically the cluster B category like your ASPDS, BPDS, HPDS, then by default this should theoretically give those inflicted with them an advantage over neurotypicals. Hear me out, cluster bs are known to have many negative traits as well as some positive which help out massively in attracting and dating. 2 specific traits are superficial charm and lack of/no remorse. This is massively helps those with attraction and dating as a whole as they are often seen as innately witty and charming. This is especially more clear when paired when dark triad traits like narcissism and Machiavellianism. Maybe trying to achieve high functionality for those inflicted with these disorders may be a better approach as opposed to setting them back a tier. This doesnât apply to everyone with cluster b PDs, however it is a norm to have these traits. Plus, some folks with ADHD, when utilised correctly may come across as âfunâ or âhappy go-luckyâ which also helps as attractors in dating. Food for thought I guess. Being neurotypical is often overrated and seen as plain and boring. Almost NPC like and imo those disordered folks âjust have that something about themâ.
What would you say about not having a "normal" character/personality? For example I'm very logical, goal oriented, introverted and tend to ignore small talk (INTJ if you know anything about MBTI).
Seems a bit niche mate if you ask me. Girls wanna be entertained and want to have a fun time when with you. Sadly, being extroverted would be ideal. Unless you go for a sort of opposites attract and go for a girl whose extroverted and so on. When youâre dating your in competition with other dudes and your girlfriends friends boyfriends so beats me.
True stuff! Think Russell Brand might be an exceptional case. I believe depending on how itâs utilised things like ADHD and personality disorders might actually give you an upper hand; at least in the short term side of dating/ONS.
For sure! You can develop a persona which can help but personas are fake and are seen as masks. Your personality is more or less set in stone and will soon show as true in the long run. You can only keep up a facade for so long unless you got some Split personality action going on.
Social Circle is HUGELY understated in dating self help, but is often underplayed for other options such as online dating / day game, which are far far far less effective. I've slept with women in my social circles in the past just based on proximity, nothing else. You go out with your friends, you get to know each to other, party/get drunk and end up hooking up just by nature of "I trust him and he is normal looking and a normal person and I'm horny now".
This strategy works for high tier normies and up only, as a sub5/low tier normie I've spent plenty of time around women in warm environments and nothing ever happens. You get to watch other people hook up and it makes you sick.
@@Krelian4400 Don't let it make you feel sick. It is what it is, she not interested. Don't hate on him, don't hate on her. Drop that hate, envy and jealousy, those things don't bring you anything good, just makes you a toxic loser. Keep your spirit up, be happy, and don't let things make you feel bad.
@@deantrail6789 Not necessarily, I had to look up that acronym. But yikes, that seems really toxic (from what I read on Wikipedia). Some people may dislike/avoid dating for other reasons. So no, hard disagree on that.
On Reddit there have been recent threads on r/Tinder and r/Hinge and r/Swiperhelper from bluepilled Indian guys who are like "Hey has anyone else noticed that things are different? I haven't changed in fact I've gotten better photos! But I'm getting nothing. Anyone else having issues?". It's popping up more and more because things are basically open in America/Europe and ppl are trying to date again. But ofc the typical(but not TOO typical) Reddit respsonses were popping up like "Bro you look great! Idk what's happening!" or "If HE can't get matches then we're all doomed!". Hahah so funny...But in reality the reality is forcing its way onto Reddit because here were numerous comments mentioning 'blackpill' and 'jbw'. And even though the replies would be like "what's that?", the explanations were NOT getting downvoted. Which is good.
"Find life fulfilment outside of dating" = It's over
DATING.
It's not over. Wheat Waffles is missing the Godmaxx box. God may actually send you a non-ugly female if you repent and go the marriage by sacrament route. There is a large population of women desperate to find a Godmaxx'ed man.
Never loose hope
@@dedasalmeida9047 There is no hope for any of us.
@@rafaelpais970 I have a girlfriend ...maybe I'm speaking of a light Tyrone viewpoint but if you think it's already over, go on and focus on your hobbies and passions ...better be happy doing what you like than recovering from a rejection like a man...
"Improve Social Circle" should be a step for most normies and chads.
If you don't have enough high-quality women in your periphery, then you should at least try to become friendly with guys (of a similar tier) who do. The women in your circle don't need to be single or straight, as they will try to introduce you to their female friends.
It's a form of networking. Acquire new male friends -> meet their gfs / women that they interact with -> meet female friends of those women.
Fuck
Jfl if you think male friends will let u around their gf
easier said than done. most men have no friends irl
@@BenjaminBotwe1999 yes i am close with my male friends gf. in fact someone in our friend circle actually started dating a guys gf's best friend as she put in a good word for him lol. if you cant trust your friends around your gf then why are you friends in the first place? true friendship is all about trust and loyalty and having each others backs and having the bro code. yes some ppl are snakes in the world but why hang out with those kinds of ppl?
how do you think this shit works lmao
like people just come and say "hurr durr well meet new people bottom text" meet them where? most people already have friends and dont want a randok stranger approaching them, it isnt that simple especially for us in small towns
This beats all the "being alpha is a mindset" and vague self improvement advice the RP gives you. I think this might be the most comprehensive, practical and down to earth guide, an actual PLAN. Although it's not perfect it's not full proof, it's infinitely better than no plan at all. Thanks Wheat.
Buy my alpha mindset book now! Invest in my crypto coins even though I'm a low inhib dating guru and know absolutely nothing. Buy it all now! The only thing this video is selling to us are straight facts and an actual plan of action.
*fool proof
What about AMS?
The alpha mindset is not accepted by others when it comes from men without the looks to back it up.
@@zimdollar3229 based and goated
Have a fulfilling life outside of dating is something you should do regardless of what category you are in.
If u dont do so, u gonna regret watchin these kind of videos
Honestly it still Sounds Like the best Option for me
Cope.
Hobbies/career etc are just a pathetic cope for people who can't slayđ
â@@behindyou529you won't have a good relationship if all you are into is that person
You don't understand 2 things: 1) This is a video about "what you should do in your dating life," not "what you should do in your overall life." 2) Saying to have a fulfilling life outside of dating, within this context, is nothing more than the nicest, most diplomatic way to say "you cannot date, likely won't ever date, so don't even try because your odds are highest when it's blind, random chance."
sub5 is living life at max difficulty
Iâm proud to say Iâve achieved a tier well above Sub 5, Normie and Chad. A tier that puts the typical 3 to absolute shame: The Morbie. Also known as the Morbius Male, Morbies completely dominate the competition. With a body count and dating record of over a morbillion, the Morbie can charm any girl with the utterance of these magic words: âitâs Morbin timeâ.
You bad movie shitposters make me proud. You're big guys, all of you.
mighty morbin lady slayers
I realize this post is probably a joke, but for the ones that are serious. You guys are starting to sound like these crazy pronoun leftists identifying as they them theirs. and ze zem zer. I just want to you acknowledge the irony.
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@@FedeArgentina if you don't know about the Morbius memes you won't get it
You forgot to say, If you travel where dating is easier you must stay there and don't bring the girl to where you are at a disadvantage.
The girl will have to stay near their parents when they gets old. It's how it works in those countries.
This. I've seen this way too many times. The guys bring these girls over and they are gone the moment they no longer need him to stay there.
Everybody gangsta till Wheat Waffles busts out the flow chart
Women who wanna date: "Just go on tinder"
Men who wanna date: "Just go to SEA" đ€Ą
It didnt take me long to figure out that dating was not for me (Sub5 who is South Asian and 5'5''). I am into religion and now I am a monk living in a monastery and I am happy with it.
King Shit keep at it you'll always be a monk not a sub 5 đ€
@@eric6rock Yes brother. As the Buddha says, attachment leads to suffering. I am trying to let go of my attachments.
@@kiribertiefandango9807 đ
God reveres the piety.
@@isaacfaith9369 Thanks (even though Buddhism is a non-theistic religion).
Women dating strategy : Just exist!
Men dating strategy : this video!
love your channel name. Very apt and amusing.
Women's dating strategy is finding a good match out of a sea filled with shit.
I mean, if you're a woman over 35, you start to summon the hoe_math "not people" sticker pretty quick.
I seriously almost spit my drink when he said âdo you have money?â LOL, that means itâs already game over for 90% of the guys who are falling into that box.
What do you mean ? Just have 200k on the side bro đ€Ą
@@Neucher as difficult as that may sound, it's accurate, having 200k on the side will definitely boost your game, and even sub 5 guys can satiate their needs with escorts if they have money
@@mattllaves 200k on side with 30k average yearly income in the country - you will be like 50 by that time
Hard to swallow but honest
I have watched all your video and came to the concusion that all three "pills" have marred:
Looks are the most important thing - Support that 100% in this day and age. (Black pill)
Game/ Charisma is not only needed for getting into a relationship but to keep it! (Red pill)
And last but not least... You need a little luck in life! Right place, right time. (Blue pill)
You don't need any luck or timing if youre a chad. Create a tinder account anywhere and you'll get 100+ weekly options everywhere
@@NinjaKiller999 So what? Who gives a fuck if other people get 100 matches a day? DonÂŽt let envy poisen your mind.
@@NinjaKiller999 learn to use photoshop damn it and use decent camera. any shmuck can be a gigachad today.
@@NinjaKiller999 Lets be honest, Chad won at the game when he was conceived. He won the lottery right then and there.
@@centralintelligenceagency9003 stop idolising ur chad god lol and focus on urself
I couldnât help but laugh during this video, its so mathematical but yet so accurate.
Women have turned dating into rocket science.
@@jokerpilled2535
No men just got LAZY.
@@fender1000100 nah most men nowadays gymmaxx and go above and beyond what they need to do in order to secure đ±, boomers never had to exert this much effort to get a partner.
@@jokerpilled2535
You have to be kidding the number of guys who are in shape out there Is pathetic. I'm 57 and still have a 6 pack. It can get embarrassing. If I go shirtless. I will mog most of the men out there young enough to be my grandsons. And have girls they should be getting smiling at me. Because they don't realise how old I am looking like I do
Too many young men today are lazy and can't put the game console down long enough to do anything else. They are either too skinny or too fat. Then wonder why the guys in shape are cleaning house.
It's nature. Women want fit virile men. Not string beans or Johnny fat boys.
When you are in top shape. Everything will look its best. Your face, your posture and your presence.
A woman once told me one of the biggest turn ons is a guy with a good shoulder to waist differential. Women notice this IMMEDIATELY. And it can often make up for a lack of facial looks. This is how alot of average looking black guys get women out of their league. BODY GAME. I've been using it for 30 years. If you have the right proportions. You can be 5 8" and still get alot of women wanting you.
@@jokerpilled2535 fr
This was 100 times better than the generic red-pill advice of getting money, getting ripped and "holding frame". It all boils down to looks. First and foremost, you need to evaluate whether or not you're a sub5, normie, chad-lite, or chad. All your realistic dating options flow from there. Great vid!
Frame is cope though. Nobody can act like tony soprano 24/7.
It does not all boils down to looks even the video itself covers this by mentioning daygame and stuff.
Looks help a lot, but you'll still have a hard time if you're a good looking potato, and even ugly guys can reach way above their league by having good game. I've seen this is practice many times.
You have to improve wherever you can.
How does one know what they are if they feel they could be either a sub 5 or Normy. Purchase the Fiverr service? I think I am the lowest tier Normy. A 5.
@@lucasbrant9856 cope
Never heard of Chad kite before
I have been married for 15 years. I met my wife in philosophy class in Uni where I debated the professor as a first year in front of 200 students. She came up to me and we started to talk. This was in 2007. Back in the day, these dating apps and overcomlpication of dating did not exist. I find it very interesting how dating has evolved, and I think this channel gives the necessary advice for young men to be able to navigate in this moral abyss. You guys are the true heroes of this age, society and the manipulated dating life raises such obstacles in front of young people with good will that no other generation had to face. The wretched dragon has grown too many heads, and you can only slay it with the mighty sword of sharp reason. Stay strong, keep a clear mind, work on yourselves, don't give up hope, and free your princess. Help will come. I follow this channel with great interest, thanks for the quality of work you are putting in for the benefit of everyone.
It hasn't evolved, it's devolved.
Thereâs no sword big enough to slay this dragon. Itâs over
Im married for 12 years. Met my wife back in 08. Back then i use them confident and cocky approach and other PUA shit. I still used them now for light flirting. I only realized after these years that it was effective because i'm decent looking.
@@ImMakEiTNasty
Speak for yourself. There are STILL alot of nice women out there. But they aren't 7 plus so you don't want them. Everything comes with a PRICE. The more in demand a woman is. The less reason she has to be nice. The same way most very goodlooking men are complete bastards. When you get something EASY. You seldom appreciate it. You guys never stop to think about that.
My father keeps asking me when i will have a girlfriend, as a 5'4 normie never! Every time i tink about this i come to the conclusion of eighter he is completely not awere of this generation or he just likes to remember me what kinde of a failure i am. Your understanding comment had me thinking about this again and i wish he had your insight a little bit and leave me alone.
FEET/INCHES TO CM:
5 feet 5 in 65 in 165.1 cm 1.65 m
5 feet 6 in 66 in 167.64 cm 1.68 m
5 feet 7 in 67 in 170.18 cm 1.7 m
5 feet 8 in 68 in 172.72 cm 1.73 m
5 feet 9 in 69 in 175.26 cm 1.75 m
5 feet 10 in 70 in 177.8 cm 1.78 m
5 feet 11 in 71 in 180.34 cm 1.8 m
6 feet 72 in 182.88 cm 1.83 m
6 feet 1 in 73 in 185.42 cm 1.85 m
6 feet 2 in 74 in 187.96 cm 1.88 m
6 feet 3 in 75 in 190.5 cm 1.91 m
Just in case anybody doesnt have a clue of wtf is 5.6, as I did cuz im from Spain lol.
This table is bruuuutaaal if you are 5'4 and below LMAO
@@wamxfl1p653 so according to blackpill if u 5,4 or blw u fuckd bro hahaha
Lol, I thought I was 5'7, but um actually 5'9. Thank god.
@@oimctv3642 gotcha my guy
@@oimctv3642 i thought i was 5'5 but I'm actually 5'7-8 and I'm so happy to find out lolđ
This is such a well brilliant done video. Wheaty is definitely the best black pill content creator right now
He has dethroned LMS, IncelTV and Tails.
@@friedrichschnobel4000 I love his approach. He's realistic, honest and offers solutions also.
@@friedrichschnobel4000
Face doesn't even compete anymore. I think he deleted himself. The other guys just have a completely different style. Tails doesn't even talk. Incel TV talks but he doesn't use diagrams; but you've got to hand it to the guy, he just shows you a burning car and makes you listen to him because his words are so damned poignant. Incel TV is also the most loyal to the blackpill. He's not a little red or a little black. He's totally blackpilled.
No lord bog is the best blackpiller youtuber
@@tomy6078 ill check him out. I relate to wheaty alot though.
I think the best attitude towards dating is to forget about it, if you are blackpilled and believe that 99 percent of women will not be the one for you, then you can easily go through life not giving a shit about trying to please women in any way, u can actually just be yourself. I think this is more important than being in a relationship, being yourself and feeling free and invincible. I think thats what blackpill can get you. Yes, a 99 percent loss of hope, but a 999 % increase in your quality of life.
But what about coochie
Because people feel lonely without a partner, I guess.
@@yolenda_loves_to_sing czcams.com/video/bKISTUr_vig/video.html
@AtheJbaka Stop killing people my man let them cope.
@AtheJbaka the one u cant access
never date where you work. Warm approach applies to the situation: local area or community families that know each other, local village neighbours, Father's friends daughter, etc.
I knew where I was before I watched this video and the chart has put me exactly where I thought I would be. Good video.
The problem with warm approach is if it goes south in any way, you jeopardize the environment that made the connection possible.
You can only use the warm approach if you literally do not care about your circle.
Nah that is not true at all. It only is a problem if you are asking out literally every women in your circle. If you ask at one and get turned down, most women will vault that and not torpedo you. Most decent looking women have the "you shoot your shot" attitude as long as you are not creepy.
.. gdamn.. i feel for the young guys out there⊠iâm 48⊠and luckily, dodged all of this bullshit that has been created via dating aps/social media/etcâŠwhen i look back at my dating history, there is NO chance i would have been as successful, had i grown up in this day and age⊠best of luck to u guys⊠and .. great videoâŠ
Same here, although I'm a little younger (just turned 40), but I'm just old enough to remember when it still wasn't so bad.
thank you cosmo
Has a sub 5 myself I recommend finding fulfillment outside of dating
Find hobbies and passion
Doing stuff you like will make you feel better and positive and if women ever notice you theyâll feel that energy coming from you although that doesnât mean anything but being good around people makes you better than an angry incel
This tbh. Maintaining your dignity is huge
I just yugimax
Pain Uchila cope
@@Pennywise467 but itâs a healthy way of coping tho. Better than being angry on the internet like a fool
What he fails to mention in the video is that almost everything a girlfriend can give you can be had with a supportive group of close friends. A successful relationship is also a commitment and requires many sacrifices that will make you uncomfortable and it takes away a lot of your freedom. Blackpillers present women like some prize which you must acquire to be a real man but in reality, being in a relationship is more like having a really close friend that you also get to fuck. It's really not necessary for a happy life, this is true for many chads too, that's why so many of them only focus on hookups.
Sex is nice, but it shouldn't be your life goal. If you lack supportive friends then this is the first thing you should focus on
Find life fulfillment outside of dating is the road I knew I would have to go down many years ago. For anyone who has just found out this reality, I promise it will get easier. You will have to go through the five stages of grief because accepting the reality that dating for you is over is going to be a life-changing realisation that will have you grieve but the pain will pass and it will get better.
There are always escorts to provide the occasional relief right?
It's not over for many people, it's just very ineffective.
I occasionally sat in dating websites for the last 20 years, and I got some fun from it, but it was worth it only in terms of fun experience, not sex counter. There are better, faster and cheaper options. And yeah, getting so little responses made me think someone has it all, and I was right.
I knew a guy who boasted he banged 200 women in 5 years of something like that. Now pay 100$ for each, and you get 20k for that. Also keep in mind he didn't bang only 7-10. You can definitely earn those money in that time and even more. But if that what you want, or you want relationships.
Males want recognition from females more than anything to feel high in value. Sex is actually pretty cheap and affordable. It's realizing how low your sex market value is what jagging and keeps hooked pursuing women, hoping to prove otherwise, and it was a mistake.
It's discouraging, as it's something we were given, being not equal, and is hard to fix. Especially since you live in illusions till 15 or 20, and then reality hits you in the face, that you're useless and not needed by women.
I wish there was a personalitymaxxing blue box. For nuerodivergent people , overcoming their weaknesses gives them an edge. They just have to have the potential to do it. EX: ADHD , anxiety , autism , dark triad etc....
dark triad is a plus when dating women
@@Ri-hr4uy depends on the type of girl, usually works great on the dumb ones.
@@Ri-hr4uy
Dark triad is a plus when dating women if you are a chad
@@tochukwuifeanacho3843 it still doesn't hurt your chances as some normie
Can you personalitymaxx? A sperg can learn to mask better but masking results in being awkward and exhausted. Eventually you burn out trying to be NT. It's possible to improve as a non-NT but you'll never really be a NT normie.
Great flow chart. "Travel the world where dating (was) easier" is NO longer 10x better. It requires a stealth snip, pretending to put a ring on it, and fleeing before the screws get turned. The short time bar girls are low quality and it's a sausage fest. Higher value ladies are only seeking fans online and often have a husband. The first trip is often brings a false hope. Disappointment sets in quick when the lack of English, demands of extended family, and being a sugar daddy sinks in deep. Peace.
I wouldn't want to make those trips "cold" not these days. Pre internet, pre smart phones, OK.
If you carry yourself well and pick your spots there is potential.
Back before they scrubbed the internet there were sites where guys would blog about their trips. Oh the stories! Macau, superstar level, if you know you know. Now you get shaky video footage but it doesn't tell the story.
In the Phil and been here years, and mostly agree, but I think it's not quite that dire (yet), although it's very true about having to support the family/friends of the girl.
You probably should only go to the Philippines if looking to date, it is quite easier and the girls speak English. I just did 5 months in SEA. I agree, you need to have guts to live there long term and marry there. I would not want to do this. It is fun and adventurous for a short time, but go there and get out.
@@Fighter4Street Tried that. Huge mistake as I was naive and that was years ago. They just want the green card to send money home "utang na loob" like an OFW. Met many such asawa couples. All cold bedrooms after the babies arrive. Only good for short time P4P, and that's gotten very expensive with all the neighboring competition. I wish I had better news.
Thank you so much for thist video. I've spent the last few years of my life juggling the possibilities I had in my mind without being able to form a clear picture and you just laid it all out in such a rational and well structured way it's scary. Also, considering money and neurotype in the picture is such a fundamental part of the process that's often left out.
Glad you made it a point to mention neurotypical vs neurodivergent. People sleep on that
An incredibly well done video, pure logic in action.
Iâd only add that settling for your looksmatch or even a point or two below might not be as bad as some of you think (assuming youâre at least 5-6):
Undamaged normie tier girls > promiscuous attractive girls
Every guy should be going for his looks match. And this is the unspoken PROBLEM for most average guys. They are trying to punch above their weight. And of course most FAIL...
You all complain the so-called stacies only want the so-called chads. WELL YEAH! They want their looks match. It's only NORMAL.
If you are an average guy you get with an average woman. If you are below average you get with a below average woman. If you are above average you get with an above average woman.
This isn't ROCKET SCIENCE. Water rises to its own level. There are always exceptions of course. Due to MONEY or a quirk in a man or womans personality and life experiences.
That might make them buck the trend. But generally. Things go as they're supposed to.
"normie tier girls" - someone here still believes in them unicorns. Your typical "normie tier girl next door" has body count in triple digits, she is likely more promiscuous than attractive girls.
Yeah, that's a very valid point.
The question is i have is, if Im outearning her, outproducing her, cook/clean/etc self sufficient. I bring food, house, cars, etc.
... and she's below me or same level in looks, what is she bringing?
There is no point dating western women. Theyre leaches. And even the average ones are very frequently damaged. A girl 6 in looks, can easily get ran through by Chads - and have alpha widow mindset because of it.
Convinced she wasnt just used for a night; not even the sidepiece - below the sidepiece. But she got the "experience" and will resent a man better than her - in every way better than her - for not being the 10/10 guys she thinks she deserves.
@@APsupportsTerrorism Ideally, she should bring her femininity, companionship and sex. Iâm not a chad by any means, but from my (limited) experience, itâs much less of a headache and more sustainable to be with your looksmatch or a point below
Females of any species are designed to choose the best possible males, which benefits their children. Our descendants will become taller and more attractive on average because of them.
Precisely Males are disposable natural selection doesn't care if most males die virgins. BRUTAL
You are right, but there's a problem: since women began to put height above all else, including intelligence, we are seeing new gen becoming taller, indeed, but dumber and dumber... đ
@@graig578 of course
@@marmotacascuda4440 humans should become dumber so other animals can actually survive
Based. The next generations will be better looking and taller. I am already even noticing this. I can't hate them for it.
7:10 now we are talking!
Thank you for the content, Waffles. I do enjoy your videos
You should make a board game out of this đ
I would buy it! LOL
You get to choose to play as sub 5, normie or Chadđ
@@RAIMSTER That sounds fun! But everyone would choose Chad then, haha!
@@yolenda_loves_to_sing nah boys love playing on insane difficulty mode in videogames, Iâd play as sub 5đ
Well said, simple and straight to the point, keep up the great work Wheat Waffles.
It's challenging to generalize a large system with high levels of confident results falling in the mean...this is certainly a well designed hypothesis and while it may not capture the outcomes for an entire population it could be argued reasonably that applying the strategy would (and should) capture a positive outcome for a large pool of test subjects, so nice job and cheers
Yeah, he should add a bit of disclaimers into such videos. I mean it's obvious, that there are outliers and it's a simplification, but it would make it harder to attack.
Imho, that's the best general solutions that a guy, especially normie, may try until he's failed at those or doesn't like the results this strategy provides
@@sevdev9844 this is such a good way tho i found a perfect place for myself in the normie category without looksmaxxing so this helped alot
sub 5 trust fund babies become giga chads with looks maxxing plust connections. This paradigm does not apply to them.
well at lest he said that his theory is for neurotypical as of youa re not you are likely not even going to like those women who woud like you if you are considered a chad or looksmax by his recipe
This is definitely a video i needed right now⊠thanks wheat waffles.
When younger I was a normie with learning difficulties. However that learning difficulty was completely hidden, by becoming a millionaire.
Money is cope. You can never be certain you were her first flr starters. You can have all the money in the world but a Chad can walk up to you one day and say 'I have been inside your wife'.
LOL
What's your job?
That makes so much sense Trump
I like that the video got to the same conclusion I did 12 years ago with "find interest elsewhere." What a time saver you took that path first! Thank you!
There is a 4th reason why warm approaches are good: A person in your friend network has a reputation to uphold This will cause her to practice self-restraint in how she treats you. She is less likely to behave in an exploitative way, because this will damage her own reputation.
that's 2 edged sword. she may refuse interaction or sex precisely to retain her reputation. and she will definitely will not open herself because of fear that her secrets will spread around.
Also exploiting a man will not damage her reputation at all because it will look like you are totally OK with being exploited
@@deltaxcd also if she does have a good reputation and has decent looks, all itâs going to take is for her to say one bad thing about you (true or not) and a bunch of peoples perception about you is changed
@@ImMakEiTNasty Good point
"You need to find fulfillment outside of dating" đ
Sub 5 category recommends it.
If you just want a casual fun and are not good looking, there is nothing wrong with paying for casual fun. The game guys hate on it because they know it is a far superior system to their pickup artistry nonsense (also they lose out on sales for their dumb courses) . Making more money is far easier and more effecient for non-Chads than the pickup nonsense
Itâs not that easy for me. Itâs illegal in the US and most girls who do this stuff arenât the type of girls I want. Iâve heard of scams like them not looking like the photos or worse and undercover police stories. Plus itâs not really the same as having someone whoâs actually into it
Valid, aso be careful about who you share this info with. If your buds don't make a lot of money they will become jealous little b**ches saying dumb crap like I don't believe in that yada yada or some dumb. No, you just broke and can't afford to pay the game.
@@KurokamiNajimi well yeah weed was illegal in the all USA for a long time and people went out of their way to buy it and smoke it. Youâll also run into the scam/fake photo thing on dating apps. Iâve had hookers who were into it when I saw them, but yes most wonât be. Once you do it several times itâs a 1-2-3 step process with guaranteed results for time you do it
That's a waste of time and resources in fact it's all a waste of time and resources.
@@Thiccness_Is_Delicious Than why don't just lay into your grave? In that perspective all life is waste of time because at the end we all meet the same fate.
What you fail to mention is that if you're dating in SEA's countries you're basically picking up gold diggers who you will have to financially support who don't even find you attractive. You're playing yourself. Go for it if you want to date casually, but don't think they are dating you for appearance based reasons (speaking to all sub-5's, some normies).
What difference would that make if love is a mixture of dopamine, oxytocin and adreneline? You just have to detox before female humanoid destroys you. Hardest blackpill was that there never was such a thing like love. I mean even my sow mother expected certain behaviour for goodboy points.
Well that depends. They obviously will value you for your money if youâre from a western nation. But the reason why is that of a traditional woman. They value your resources to have a family and live a generally better lifestyle, gold diggers value men with resources so they can get expensive shit that ultimately superficial, like new clothes and shoes, expensive dates and traveling to places just for the hell of it, etc.
If you find goldiggers it's a you problem, try to filter the women you meet ...you think there aren't nice, well adjusted women in third world countries? You must not be talking about experience
Women who want are decent life and security aren't golddiggers. That's a feminist framing to promote females having careers and guys not going for the poor and young ones. Women planning the divorce from the start, or want to spend a lot of money on luxury things, and have expensive things for themselves from such a relationship are golddiggers.
However, I don't see the point in dating without the goal of marriage and children, and I won't have children not looking like me and my people. Also, marrying into another culture is likely to be difficult.
SEA is for sex tourism. So it should be obvious and not be a problem, that it is for the money and fun time. I totally agree on that part.
Agree - White sub fives are STILL sub fives in Asia. Asian women are not blind. They will marry them for security but might still cheat on them. Funny how some white men think going to Asia is the solution. That only works for normies, not sub fives
Mr. Waffles, This chart is quite well thought out and scientific. Good practical guide to moving forward. Thanks.
Idk why these videos are so interesting to me as I've been married for 6 years but they are. In the terms I've learned from your videos I'll state that when I was single, I was a normie with a bit of looksmaxxing, I had a lot of success with online because it was fresh and new due to having just came out, but my primary dating strategy was warm approaches as I was in college and participated in a lot of different groups as well as having friend groups from the dorms. However I met my now wife with a cold approach at a camping event with an interstate Christian organization. So my path diverged from this chart some. Taking in the fact that I'm far from neurotypical I actually skipped a lot of steps, because I was dirt broke all through college and I actually dropped out and didn't moneymaxx. Feels really funny to say it in these "blackpill" terms.
Marriages last 7 to 9 years the seven-year itch comes for the woman that's when she cheats check her phone it's always in her phone bro do not marry do not have children do not cohabitate every second of every day a woman is looking to upgrade to a bigger and better deal until the day she takes her last breath
Married boy here too. Red pill and black pill made become more social person. BLack pill made me feel good for not being single. I could imagine how terribe the dating scene can be.
@@TuscanBrick well right away sold my soul to be a state worker at a prison, then I joined the army, then I worked for Satan himself (federal government at yet another prison), and after tiring from negative authoritarian environments I took hard labor jobs that paid well, and now finally I'm working on removing my self from the employee pool for good as a first generation farmer. Trying to become self sustaining and all that jazz. It's going well. Got 3 kids, some dairy goats and some chickens on some land just outside my hometown of all places I thought I'd never be.
@@neutralmilkbaby oh yea I have some friends going through the Ringer still. Glad I exited that market with gains when I did lol
@@BandoDNC That's awesome, what sort of Christian camp did you meet your wife at? This is how my Aunt and Uncle met before they died and they had a great marriage.
Being short absolutely decimates us lol. Takes me from a high end normie to a sub 5.
Don't fret, you can date midgets.
same here, got money, good job, face and body 6/7 and still 5'6" is killing me. Only geomaxxing left but it is coping
@@karolak9983 Nah, you can do midgetmaxxing.
Move to Thailand
Same, I'm exactly 5'6 but my facial attractiveness is chad tier so I guess that knocks me down to normie tier.
I just found out your channel and i love it, you are honest and don't nitpick. Keep up the good work, you've earned yourself a subscriber
Appreciate the amount of effort and thought that goes into these videos
Damn, was that a little shade thrown at Hamza? Lol.
Also, you donât have to be Sub5 to find life fulfillment outside of dating. Normies and Chads will find that is also the best option for happiness by and large!
Women are like Wild Horses, and unless you are fully equipped to tame her, not only with your physical aesthetics but Mentally and financially, I suggest you stay out of LTRâs and just date casually!
Hamza openly trashes WW all the time so I don't blame Wheat for dishing it back
@@father5946 theyâre cool but they throw shade time to time
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He is correct in doing so. WW are severely OVERRATED. And if they were ignored more. Their egos would come crashing back down to earth. But you can't do it can you. So the GAMES will continue.
Looks like his "Just be Adonis, bro" schtick isn't working so well if he had to run of to SE Asia and geomaxx. lol
Take a peak into r/blantantmisogyny, there's entire threads around wheat waffles and how much they hate him and his content. They are mad people are catching on and being to plot data based around it. (Also being able to provide strategies around how to go about the vast majority of situation in an easily digestable format.)
I swear reddit feminists are the worst. They are so narrow minded, they don't even want to watch 2 videos of this channel fully without prejudice.
They see blackpill and incel, and think school shooters. Or hate. I bet most of the hate from people in these communities is because no amount of attention is given to their problems.
They can easily talk to 10 guys at once, without a sweat, and think we are really doing something wrong to not be getting the same attention. But average to below average men are left in the dust, to fend for themselves. Nobody gives a fuck, and you are shamed for believing the blackpill and trying to looksmax.
Looked into it. Boring.
It seems to not exist
@@sevdev9844 It is literally just a circlejerk for women getting mad at guys and things like redpill and blackpill.
@@BlackHole-qv5no Ladies are not interested for men to know the truth of blackpill, who will provide with money, beta-orbit, and simp? If all men know the truth, they will fill up gyms to the fullest, empty iHerb and Vitacost online shops, dress to impress, then choice will be hard to make. yet so far competition among men is more or less acceptable. We see a lot of obese, lazy, ugly men on the streets, teenage boys are smoking and drinking alcohol, having no idea that it stops height growth. In my city it is enough for a man to wear a Zara shirt, belt, jeans get some Tom Ford perfume and ladies will get melted in front of him.
your channel is a blessing, it tells us the truth and shows us what to do to be happy, thank you man despite the criticism of others you are really good and we appreciate you because you show us the truth and how to get out. REALLY THANKS MAN â€ïžđđœ.
Bro. I wish to shake your hand for all of the great job that you're putting up in here on youtube. The truth is out there...right in front of our eyes...soo close that majority of ppl, can't see it, or miss it. Yet. Here we are. In the age of blackpill, sorting out our doubts, and false hopes.
Salute, and cheers!
Love the honesty and realness. Everybody deserves to win at life.
no one 'deserves' anything. no one is entitled to anything. that mindset is what will enslave us all
If they work or outsmart for it yes.
People who work hard and earn success deserve to win at life.
@@jt1559 well, you're definitely NOT winning at writing a coherent sentence
@@jt1559 reality is hardly ever fair, especially these days.
I didn't even finish this video and this is one of your best video
yet another banger, please keep them coming
Another informative video by wheat waffles. Thanks.
This is very good advice, I live on an island of 20k people, mode of which are elder because it's very expensive here. My only options are interns which cycle out every year, and forces me to be stuck I'm short term relationships, which is why I stopped dating them because I want a long term. So I've been money maxing by learning new skills, but I'm 35years old, so feel like I should let go of hope at this point most of the time.
This video is the best male improvement I have seen. Should get over million views. Great work. Your content has really come of age. Approaching 100k subs, congrads on your success.
Emotional damage! So cold and honest.. I hate the fact that I agree with it.. Great video.
Good luck to us all. Let's work hard and improve what we can.
WOW.....brilliant. Really enjoyed the flow chart so logically laid out and credible! Great job! Thanks! PS: I subscribed!
I feel like the worth of game, fashion, a good body, a career, ambition, etc., has plummeted so much in the last few years. After having no results over and over, when I used to have results before, it makes me feel quite pessimistic, and even antagonistic towards the idea of women liking me after e.g. "moneymaxxing".
I'm from Europe, I get 0 match on tinder usually or maybe once every 2 month, but it's probably an error because they never respond.
I went to Singapore for a few days for work, I tried tinder here just to see, I put the range to the max and I got multiples matches every single day, from Malaysian, Indonesian, Thai and Filipino women. I know they wanted me to get them out of their misery, but I think it's a great deal. It's a transaction.
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Wow, i just discovered Black Pill and this has been the best channel and advice I've seen....Well anywhere. Great videos Wheat
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Thank you for this, it really helps.
Thank you for this wheat waffles but Im red pilled bro đȘđ„. CZcams love recommending me your videos
All these hoops we gotta jump through when a woman just picks up her phone and opens Tinder đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
This was a great video, it told me what I pretty much knew, itâs time to give up on women and go fishing!
best video you've put out yet. it deserves to go viral
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I like how dating got so bad, we gotta have flow charts , graphs , probability equations blah blah blah
An additional note about going abroad. It's not only that standards for men are lower, but women in those countries are much less likely to be damaged. In America, maybe 1 out of every 500 women is marriage material. In SEA where casual sex is frowned upon, you can start out with a pool of around half the women not being damaged. If you "settle" for a 4/10 or 5/10 woman that's a good wife, it'll definitely be better than even if you're able to get a 7/10 American woman with a body count of 300.
Brilliant! Thank you for sharing this.
Really good and clear video. Guess now is a good time you pick up the topic of a day n nite game.
thanks for waking me up man i always tried to make sense of why i had so few girls, lookswise im between normie and chad, but im not neurotypical and even am autistic (social death sentence) and im poor for life. so finding life furfillment outside of dating is incredible advice for me. just to let it all go. and maybe its for the better since those who are often in relationships they get cheated on a lot due to hypergamy and it comes with lots of drama.
2:56 I can't be the only one who was expecting "kys" as action box
Love your videos bro keep doing you đđŸđđŸ
Brilliant. Thanks for the upload â€ïž
yep, I agree on travel maxxing. I traveled a lot over the years and got the most attention from girls in general (18-40 abroad, 3-8 in rating) while abroad. I spent most time in Eastern Europe and learning some of the local language makes you stand out from the average foreigner. I met many english teachers or other girls that had a good knowledge of English in even more remote regions there lol I consider myself normie though. Smaller cities are better for dating than capitals though bc they are used to foreigners there.
Why anyone would want to jump through all of these hoops just to get a girl that will leave you in 10 years any way is beyond me. Meanwhile they just have to exist and not be obese...
Sub 5 category recommend pursuing hobbies instead of women
A lot of work went into this. Well done.
people gotta stop hating on this guy, cause personally wheat waffles i fuckingggg love the way you chart everything and explain it so creatively!
How to win dating game 100% guaranteed win
Step 1: don't
What do I like about this video? The absolute clarity and precision in identifying problems and solving them.
You suck? Not attractive? Fix the problem and then put yourself on the market. DO NOT waste your time and energy on dates without solving the problem first.
You do not have money? Ok, in the flowchart it is not necessary but it is a fundamental element to verify
Don't you know anyone? Even a day game (cold approach) is fine.... you just need to live in a city.
All so clear. All so trivially true. Too bad that so far I am not aware of anyone who has had the idea to collect this information and communicate it. Genius guy!
This was very well done and logical enough that most guys can fallow.
i like these type of blackpill videos which is not hopeless shows there is possibilities and hope, thanks wheat
You should check out Jacked and Stacked channel too. He's more positive and works on solutions and improvement. Not just the doomer type of black pill.
@@ishidacoolp sure man i will check it out
Every single man needs to watch this video!!!
literally the best channel in this website.
Good analysis. Keep up the good work.
Thank you for this chart and information wheat waffles. It's amazing how many dating coaches are out there right now hustling men for money just to get the same information.
One coach out there wants a $100 a month
It's called the bad boy's club or bad boy's membership or something like that
Bad boy's club... Women love handsome and tall bad boys, likewise, they love tall and handsome good guys. Dating coaches will never tell these...instead they teach bullsht that all ladies love bad boys (facepalm)
Big fan and congrats on another thorough, well explained video which Iâm sure will be a hit!
Just a quick thing I noticed which I disagree on. The box concerning âare you neurotypical?â At 2:14 youâve mentioned people with personality disorders and learning difficulties being sent back to the sub-5 path. If you look at personality disorders and what they entail, specifically the cluster B category like your ASPDS, BPDS, HPDS, then by default this should theoretically give those inflicted with them an advantage over neurotypicals. Hear me out, cluster bs are known to have many negative traits as well as some positive which help out massively in attracting and dating. 2 specific traits are superficial charm and lack of/no remorse. This is massively helps those with attraction and dating as a whole as they are often seen as innately witty and charming. This is especially more clear when paired when dark triad traits like narcissism and Machiavellianism. Maybe trying to achieve high functionality for those inflicted with these disorders may be a better approach as opposed to setting them back a tier. This doesnât apply to everyone with cluster b PDs, however it is a norm to have these traits.
Plus, some folks with ADHD, when utilised correctly may come across as âfunâ or âhappy go-luckyâ which also helps as attractors in dating. Food for thought I guess.
Being neurotypical is often overrated and seen as plain and boring. Almost NPC like and imo those disordered folks âjust have that something about themâ.
What would you say about not having a "normal" character/personality? For example I'm very logical, goal oriented, introverted and tend to ignore small talk (INTJ if you know anything about MBTI).
Seems a bit niche mate if you ask me. Girls wanna be entertained and want to have a fun time when with you. Sadly, being extroverted would be ideal. Unless you go for a sort of opposites attract and go for a girl whose extroverted and so on. When youâre dating your in competition with other dudes and your girlfriends friends boyfriends so beats me.
Russel Brand is labelled as one of the charming men and he has ADHD. Food for thought.
True stuff! Think Russell Brand might be an exceptional case. I believe depending on how itâs utilised things like ADHD and personality disorders might actually give you an upper hand; at least in the short term side of dating/ONS.
For sure! You can develop a persona which can help but personas are fake and are seen as masks. Your personality is more or less set in stone and will soon show as true in the long run. You can only keep up a facade for so long unless you got some Split personality action going on.
Wonderful! The ultimate dating game flowchart.
Great stuff Wheat. Very useful for all types of men.
Social Circle is HUGELY understated in dating self help, but is often underplayed for other options such as online dating / day game, which are far far far less effective. I've slept with women in my social circles in the past just based on proximity, nothing else. You go out with your friends, you get to know each to other, party/get drunk and end up hooking up just by nature of "I trust him and he is normal looking and a normal person and I'm horny now".
This is very true, you can't get women if you aren't around women. Lots of average guys get girls just because they know a lot of them.
What's the point of that. You may aswell go with a prostitute.
This strategy works for high tier normies and up only, as a sub5/low tier normie I've spent plenty of time around women in warm environments and nothing ever happens. You get to watch other people hook up and it makes you sick.
@@Krelian4400 Don't let it make you feel sick. It is what it is, she not interested. Don't hate on him, don't hate on her. Drop that hate, envy and jealousy, those things don't bring you anything good, just makes you a toxic loser. Keep your spirit up, be happy, and don't let things make you feel bad.
@@fred.flintstone4099 Or use the anger to motivate yourself to improve. That's what I'm going with.
Damn. This kid is a real professor.
I like your honesty and how you have transfered dating almost into science đ
Amazing content as always.
I miss the Sigma option: "Are you looking for a relationship?" -> "No" -> "Do you want to casually date?" -> "No" -> "Discard this flow chart"
Isn't that just MGTOW?
@@deantrail6789 Not necessarily, I had to look up that acronym. But yikes, that seems really toxic (from what I read on Wikipedia). Some people may dislike/avoid dating for other reasons. So no, hard disagree on that.
On Reddit there have been recent threads on r/Tinder and r/Hinge and r/Swiperhelper from bluepilled Indian guys who are like "Hey has anyone else noticed that things are different? I haven't changed in fact I've gotten better photos! But I'm getting nothing. Anyone else having issues?". It's popping up more and more because things are basically open in America/Europe and ppl are trying to date again. But ofc the typical(but not TOO typical) Reddit respsonses were popping up like "Bro you look great! Idk what's happening!" or "If HE can't get matches then we're all doomed!". Hahah so funny...But in reality the reality is forcing its way onto Reddit because here were numerous comments mentioning 'blackpill' and 'jbw'. And even though the replies would be like "what's that?", the explanations were NOT getting downvoted. Which is good.