Her downplaying that event will only embolden the assaulter because they didn’t face consequences. This can lead to them expanding their scope to include r*pe or worse. Please, don’t fear to speak up. You speaking saves lives.
There's no blame in the above comment and it's true. However it's every individual's choice on what to do from there. For those who don't speak up it can be for various reasons, not that they don't want to. Social reasons, community or family reasons. Believe it or not some cultures shun you or families would disown you if they found you were no longer a virgin even by rape. That's just the beginning. The world is not as evolved as we would like to believe.
Women are taught to always downplay any transgressions against us because we are "overreacting" if we say what's happening is wrong. Or we fear that we or someone will get hurt which. Honestly isn't helpful when it comes to trying to get people stopped
Yeah I have done it all my life- but there are different degrees like if a guy is like hitting on me at work I'll brush them off, I'm not going to report that - but if he tries to like grab me or something then yeah-
@@jazzyjaz9108 any guy on here that thinks you're wrong or doesn't understand those are the exact same kind of guys that do crap like that! I mean just look at their profiles 😅
Can we just talk about how wonderful their friendship is? Like she didn’t want to ruin her friend’s birthday and her friend said she would rather spend her birthday going with her to the police, like that’s actually heartwarming despite the situation she was in
Um we aren’t forgetting where after the incident she also couldn’t be touched by her boyfriend for awhile, she had a good sex life too and was very open and enjoyed it but she soon enough stopped wanting to even hold hands.
@@rebelgordo2339 You are lonely and live under a rock if you think all movies are sweet and innocent, dude even cartoons have inappropriate adult humor sometimes cause the producers are literal adults and don’t have kids. Many kid movies have some kind of nasty joke or quote that kids don’t pick up on cause they’re kids and don’t understand, this isn’t a kids show and the title is literally ‘SEX EDUCATION’. Grow up kiddo or keep scrolling.
watching this episode and i think the one after this one was really sad. aimee was trying so hard to defend him and tried to delude herself into thinking that nothing bad happened, and even affected her own sex life with her bf because she was so scared. she didn’t deserve it but i’m glad her friends helped her feel stronger
@@lkblondie8061 I live in a city and have never seen someone ejaculate on someone in public. Also if someone did that me and 90% of the men around would assault him and turn him over to the police. I am not saying it has never happened I am just saying that clip represents what would happen in reality 0%.
This is REALLY sad actually, as the show progresses she begins to wear more and more modest clothing and closing herself off from everyone even though she initially seemed ok afterwards (she was in shock) she eventually gets so far removed from the girl you met in the start of the show up until she and a few other girls share their similar stories with her and tell her that it wasnt her fault
That happened to me in the train. I was 22 years old at the time. When I realized what had happened I cried out of anger and frustration. I didn't see who did it.I was heading to work and could go back home.
He's handsome? girl he's stalking you, better get some pepper spray lime juice and razor because he's coming for the real thing and it's not your favorite jeans
The sad truth is that the police will take a report then do NO FOLLOW UP.... Even if they're bored. They would rather write tickets for not using a turn signal.
This same thing happened in a pub to my friend it shook her up pretty bad she wanted to report it no one listened to her even with it on her leg they said no proof disgusting
Sometimes it's easier for women to move on than it is to try making a big deal and get a "reputation". I used to work construction and had to stop reporting harassment because people started to talk, so I quit. I stopped confronting people when they "accidentally" bumped into me, because it would ruin my day. I started ignoring all the stares and people taking pictures of me because it's easier for me to live if I just forget about it and don't make a big deal. It's sad that I have to do all that, but it makes living easier.
I hear you. I got shunned from the community I grew up in for calling out pedophilia and abused I experienced. people started turning on me the more I spoke up.
@lkblondie8061 My friends stopped talking to me after a game of never gave I ever. Friends I knew almost my entire life. One of them said they never did it in the forest, so I put a finger down. They ended up asking me about it, and I said I never wanted to, it wasn't my choice.. Perhaps that was the day I stopped trying to ask for help..
It didn’t start to affect her until later on in the show experiences like these can be so insidious even to the victims themselves before they realize they are in fact victims
Not being bothered by it would be a mental defence mechanism in this case.. even if she wasn't 'injured' as such the behaviour would have to be punished in real life as a deterrent to others and to correct the behaviour.
Wow normal good thing they have cameras on the subways now and other riding areas so if and when someone makes a complaint the bus will be able to figure out who the person was by them cameras
Her not reporting it and letting him do that without him getting in trouble most likely will make him think she liked it and continue doing it to women. What if he did that to a little girl or thought to follow her home or another women home to go further since he got away with it that time.
My daughter at college had a stalker, football player. One day he was outside her dorm room and she left and when she came back he was in her room. She had went to the restroom. Her phone, and keys were in the room.he refused to leave. Yet the school told her and thw four other girls with complaints against him that he could just transfer to yet another college and they cannot do anything. She is refusing to go to police bc of the embarrassment of having this happen to her. I told her next time it could be a gurl that gets raped.
The boondocks saints come to mind “Now we should fear evil men, but there is another kind of evil and that is the indifference of good men” bad people do bad things cause good people do nothing to stop em
I remember keeping quiet for years bc my abuser was family, and I didn't want to cause any rifts in the family. My nan is the sweetest person ever and there is not a day that goes by that I don't feel guilty about putting her through this. The worst part is I know that it's all gonna be for nothing, it happened years ago and I don't have anything to prove that it actually happened. So now I can't talk to my Nan and my Aunt and Uncle are avoiding me, it feels so shitty. Report anyone that does anything to you the moment it happens, I'll only cause you more pain when the trauma comes crashing down on you
Thats so disgusting. I once had an intoxicated man come up behind me on a bus, snatch up a handful of my hair from my scalp and start sniffing me. I immediately screamed and the driver stopped to call the cops, i guess he was saying nasty stuff to 2 women right before i got on.
This happened to me in April of 2006, except instead of touching himself, a man reached under my skirt and underwear. I was only 16 and had only made out with someone once by that age. I went into shock and it felt like I had an out of body experience. I was using the subway with friends, though we had gotten separated so they didn't see what had happened. When we got to the next stop, I ran off the car and puked into a bin. My friends completely brushed off what had happened to me. It broke my heart, and my heart still breaks for the 16 year old still inside me
Dudes thats fucking sickening and yet people say that its a good thing that shes unbothered? What the hell...its like people blame the victims more and not a single word about the damn rapist
Its crazy the other man saw it and everyone hears her and no1 says anything or do anything wtf 😒. Its sad that alot of females go thru stuff like this in real life.
My mom told me when she was young a guy followed her out of the bus and was trying to touch her. But my mom is a feisty woman and she scolded him as he approached her 😅
I remember being on the train and my quiet friend was standing in front me of as I was seated. A man walked onto the train. Which had a ton of standing space and he came and stood behind my friend- I mean directly in her. I looked at him and said are you moving? She didn’t even realize how close he was. And I moved her myself..
This is so fucking sick do not blame her for making excuses blame him for making her feel like she had to because most people would laugh in her face and say its not a big deal.
In India, if a girl even says something that loud, the guy will be beaten and made to get down the bus or directly the bus takes them to police station
Eww, If I heard some women yelling about a guy waking on her. I'd like to think that myself and the others around would be sure to at least look and see WtF is going on and hopefully stop a perv like this and get them arrested. 😮
Weird how there's comments that are blaming other men for not doing anything to stop it. My question is why didn't SHE do anything? She needs a man to intervene for that?
No, that shouldn't be the question. it's shocking as fuck to be in those situations and victims shouldn't be blamed for it. if anything, we should ask why the fuck someone would be so deranged and detached to wank on someone.
She ends up spiraling pretty badly, she avoids the bus. In the end her friends help her out by escorting her on the bus, she takes photos of her destroying the jeans and it helps her move on.
It you keep watching as a Muslim man it breaks your hearts cuz this poor girl suffered from ptsd about this sexual assault. It angers me cuz no man stood up for her. Not all men are like this! May all women get Justice for this disgusting acts!
Tbf if there wasn't a bunch of false allegations from chicks about stuff like these kinda assaults I think they'd get helped more... but a lot of them make it worse for actual victims..
Man idk if innocence is her reaction or trauma like a way to suppress any potential damage or if people can just be so unbothered? Idk if that’s the right word
Her downplaying that event will only embolden the assaulter because they didn’t face consequences. This can lead to them expanding their scope to include r*pe or worse. Please, don’t fear to speak up. You speaking saves lives.
Ok I get that but you can’t really blame the VICTIM
There's no blame in the above comment and it's true. However it's every individual's choice on what to do from there. For those who don't speak up it can be for various reasons, not that they don't want to. Social reasons, community or family reasons. Believe it or not some cultures shun you or families would disown you if they found you were no longer a virgin even by rape. That's just the beginning. The world is not as evolved as we would like to believe.
Exactly. The thrill of getting away with it makes them want to escalate.
Women are taught to always downplay any transgressions against us because we are "overreacting" if we say what's happening is wrong. Or we fear that we or someone will get hurt which. Honestly isn't helpful when it comes to trying to get people stopped
she did report it in the end :)
I agree though- we're taught since there's so much worse that things like this aren't thet bad which is utter bullshit
So many women constantly make excuses for horrendous actions men do to them
Bro what
Are u ok 💀
Yeah I have done it all my life- but there are different degrees like if a guy is like hitting on me at work I'll brush them off, I'm not going to report that - but if he tries to like grab me or something then yeah-
@@OrgBobaFret finally! someone who understands what I'm saying.
@@jazzyjaz9108 any guy on here that thinks you're wrong or doesn't understand those are the exact same kind of guys that do crap like that!
I mean just look at their profiles 😅
Can we just talk about how wonderful their friendship is? Like she didn’t want to ruin her friend’s birthday and her friend said she would rather spend her birthday going with her to the police, like that’s actually heartwarming despite the situation she was in
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I know this is a movie, but...NO!!! This young woman is someone's daughter. This hurt to watch.
It’s a show called sex education
@@charlieamiels2915thanks so much
It's actually a 4 season series called sex education
It doesn't matter if she's someone's daughter, it matters that it was NOT wanted and completely disgusting. I wish she would've called the police
NO! This woman is SOMEONE. That is enough.
Poor girl she dosent deserve this
Breaks my heart 💔
She’s not all there.
She's an actress. This isn't real. Get help.
@@frauleinhohenzollern8442naw rlly I thought she was a cheeseburger
@@frauleinhohenzollern8442what????
She is so upbeat as a person and didn’t talk much about the incident after but could never ride the bus again. She was so traumatised!
Um we aren’t forgetting where after the incident she also couldn’t be touched by her boyfriend for awhile, she had a good sex life too and was very open and enjoyed it but she soon enough stopped wanting to even hold hands.
@@SnowBunni-420 What crap do you people watch
@@rebelgordo2339 The show that you just saw a clip of you dumb monkey.
@@rebelgordo2339almost all shows these day shows peoples sex lives, hell even kid and family shows make jokes about it too, shit is weird
@@rebelgordo2339 You are lonely and live under a rock if you think all movies are sweet and innocent, dude even cartoons have inappropriate adult humor sometimes cause the producers are literal adults and don’t have kids. Many kid movies have some kind of nasty joke or quote that kids don’t pick up on cause they’re kids and don’t understand, this isn’t a kids show and the title is literally ‘SEX EDUCATION’. Grow up kiddo or keep scrolling.
watching this episode and i think the one after this one was really sad. aimee was trying so hard to defend him and tried to delude herself into thinking that nothing bad happened, and even affected her own sex life with her bf because she was so scared. she didn’t deserve it but i’m glad her friends helped her feel stronger
What show is this?
@@KrisMoon333 Sex Education! It's a good watch, I found it on Netflix
If they had just let her let it go, it would have been fine.
Nah@@ccmayhem7549
Yes it was bad but you don't live in reality if you couldn't get over something like that
I screamed at my phone when it showed "the stain" absolutely not ok!!!! Don't let anyone get away with this!!
Yet her yelling, "hes wanking on me" didn't spark a reaction 💀
Fictional movie
@rebelgordo2339 ok but this does happen IRL! I was just saying don't just stand there and let them do it stand up for yourself. That's all
@rebelgordo2339 this happens irl, and actually is pretty common sadly.
@@lkblondie8061 I live in a city and have never seen someone ejaculate on someone in public. Also if someone did that me and 90% of the men around would assault him and turn him over to the police. I am not saying it has never happened I am just saying that clip represents what would happen in reality 0%.
This is REALLY sad actually, as the show progresses she begins to wear more and more modest clothing and closing herself off from everyone even though she initially seemed ok afterwards (she was in shock) she eventually gets so far removed from the girl you met in the start of the show up until she and a few other girls share their similar stories with her and tell her that it wasnt her fault
Gentlemen, why don't any of you stop this. If real men were to stand up to these punks, this shit would stop.
What makes you think they don’t?
@@bacon8891 I'm with ya on this but let's not for get we stand up in defense for others and then we get hit with assault charges.
Who do you think she's going to report it to?
I couldn’t stop it because it was a show my bad
Not my problem, she’s a “strong independent woman”
That happened to me in the train. I was 22 years old at the time. When I realized what had happened I cried out of anger and frustration. I didn't see who did it.I was heading to work and could go back home.
She’s a keeper.
I’m sorry the people in the comments are disgusting. And I’m sorry that happened to you that’s just wrong and I hope you’re doing better now ❤
Omg😮
It happened to me when I was 9yrs in a school bus...so young, I didn't even realize it was an assault till I saw it in this show..
No it didn’t
It’s a show called sex education
Thank you!!!
That’s a true friend. ❤️
He's handsome? girl he's stalking you, better get some pepper spray lime juice and razor because he's coming for the real thing and it's not your favorite jeans
Amy Is really a wonderful character
What movie or show is this and where can I watch this on?
movie name?
@@user-kx3ve7xt1j sex education
@@mushhroompixieesex education
The sad truth is that the police will take a report then do NO FOLLOW UP.... Even if they're bored. They would rather write tickets for not using a turn signal.
"Hes WANKING ON ME" love British curses
Thats not "a curse"- thats a description of fact! (Yes, I'm British)
This same thing happened in a pub to my friend it shook her up pretty bad she wanted to report it no one listened to her even with it on her leg they said no proof disgusting
Nice friend ❤
Horrible what happened but damn was he fast 30 seconds thats a record
Man like Meep Meep 😂😂
Is blud the flash
30 seconds😂
30 seconds? Try my five seconds instead!!!! (This is a joke btw).
Sometimes it's easier for women to move on than it is to try making a big deal and get a "reputation". I used to work construction and had to stop reporting harassment because people started to talk, so I quit. I stopped confronting people when they "accidentally" bumped into me, because it would ruin my day. I started ignoring all the stares and people taking pictures of me because it's easier for me to live if I just forget about it and don't make a big deal. It's sad that I have to do all that, but it makes living easier.
I hear you. I got shunned from the community I grew up in for calling out pedophilia and abused I experienced. people started turning on me the more I spoke up.
@lkblondie8061 My friends stopped talking to me after a game of never gave I ever. Friends I knew almost my entire life. One of them said they never did it in the forest, so I put a finger down. They ended up asking me about it, and I said I never wanted to, it wasn't my choice.. Perhaps that was the day I stopped trying to ask for help..
It didn’t start to affect her until later on in the show experiences like these can be so insidious even to the victims themselves before they realize they are in fact victims
Not being bothered by it would be a mental defence mechanism in this case.. even if she wasn't 'injured' as such the behaviour would have to be punished in real life as a deterrent to others and to correct the behaviour.
I hear they do that in Japan and now USA subways, like alot, like it's normal???? 😢
Wow normal good thing they have cameras on the subways now and other riding areas so if and when someone makes a complaint the bus will be able to figure out who the person was by them cameras
@@ThomasMorri on BART in the Bay Area, over 60 percent of the cameras don't work.
USA subways are crazy in general. Sexual assault occurs a lot in Japan
yeah, sadly it's a somewhat common occurrence, especially in crowded areas.
Her not reporting it and letting him do that without him getting in trouble most likely will make him think she liked it and continue doing it to women. What if he did that to a little girl or thought to follow her home or another women home to go further since he got away with it that time.
Wait a whole bus saw that and was like “meh, Mondays right” wtf 😂
These disney shows are getting crazier.
Bro i have a housemate who watches this shit and it is so far from reality
@@rebelgordo2339women get wanked on in public a lot more than you think. it's awful
My daughter at college had a stalker, football player. One day he was outside her dorm room and she left and when she came back he was in her room. She had went to the restroom. Her phone, and keys were in the room.he refused to leave.
Yet the school told her and thw four other girls with complaints against him that he could just transfer to yet another college and they cannot do anything. She is refusing to go to police bc of the embarrassment of having this happen to her.
I told her next time it could be a gurl that gets raped.
The boondocks saints come to mind “Now we should fear evil men, but there is another kind of evil and that is the indifference of good men” bad people do bad things cause good people do nothing to stop em
This hurt me smh
Wait I could almost hear a part of the dialogue please add more music and keep turning it up.
I thought the movie was called "sex education" not "how to commit sexeul assault"💀
Taking an uncovered cake on a public bus might be the biggest crime here
Seriously.?? I hope that's a joke
Your priority is fucked, man.
Than sexual ass*ult? Sure.
Facts 😂😂
so thats worse than what the man did to her? What if that was your mother or daughter, you human shit stain.
Im sorry women have to go through crap like this all the time :(
The way I cried at the end of that episode is insane. All of the girls waiting for Aimes on the bus was just beautiful🤧
DNA 🧬 enter the chat...👀💀
Tf is wrong with u?
I remember keeping quiet for years bc my abuser was family, and I didn't want to cause any rifts in the family. My nan is the sweetest person ever and there is not a day that goes by that I don't feel guilty about putting her through this. The worst part is I know that it's all gonna be for nothing, it happened years ago and I don't have anything to prove that it actually happened. So now I can't talk to my Nan and my Aunt and Uncle are avoiding me, it feels so shitty. Report anyone that does anything to you the moment it happens, I'll only cause you more pain when the trauma comes crashing down on you
The shocking thing is, no one on that bus bothered to help her?
I wouldn't believe someone shouting "he's wankimg on me!". I'd think it was stupid shock value.
sadly that's not uncommon.
@@lkblondie8061 someone wanking on a girl on the bus? Or just no one helping those in trouble as such?
We need 1 more song playing over this clip
Thats so disgusting. I once had an intoxicated man come up behind me on a bus, snatch up a handful of my hair from my scalp and start sniffing me. I immediately screamed and the driver stopped to call the cops, i guess he was saying nasty stuff to 2 women right before i got on.
That poor girl. And it left such a long term impact on her too.
What the hell did I just watch
This happened to me in April of 2006, except instead of touching himself, a man reached under my skirt and underwear. I was only 16 and had only made out with someone once by that age. I went into shock and it felt like I had an out of body experience. I was using the subway with friends, though we had gotten separated so they didn't see what had happened.
When we got to the next stop, I ran off the car and puked into a bin. My friends completely brushed off what had happened to me. It broke my heart, and my heart still breaks for the 16 year old still inside me
I'm so sorry your friends brushed it off. mine did the same in many situations and it really hurts
I remember that episode, definitely was disturbing poor Aimee
Love all the music in the background. Really adds to the scene
Bro instead of me watching I was listening to x in the back
This is so common for bus rides
There’s no way no dude would have knocked this guy out on the bus after her screams
How did bro finish so fast💀
to be fair things will only bother you if they let them and she's doing a great job being unbothered
We need more women like her
Aimee's been gaslighted her whole life, the podcast bros are probably making it worse for her
Bro gave her some icing for the cake💀
“He jizzed on me” 😭
Dudes thats fucking sickening and yet people say that its a good thing that shes unbothered? What the hell...its like people blame the victims more and not a single word about the damn rapist
I love her accent is it British or what is it
At first I thought she said 'he's walking on me!' Until it showed the jazz stain lolll I was like OHHHHHHH WANKING!
Its crazy the other man saw it and everyone hears her and no1 says anything or do anything wtf 😒. Its sad that alot of females go thru stuff like this in real life.
exactly ):
@@lkblondie8061 I pray this world changes before judgment day 🙏
Sadly this bs happens in real life.
My mom told me when she was young a guy followed her out of the bus and was trying to touch her. But my mom is a feisty woman and she scolded him as he approached her 😅
That's nasty. Especially since no one helped her. I know it's a show (Sex Education), but this happens.
The saeest part is she stayed in trauma for the whole season
She has an entire ecosystem of tiny human beings on her leg 😂
Wtf....... This is why i love texas and the fact that I'm allowed to carry.
He jizzed 💀
"Is it Coke zero?"
"Theres definitely zero coke in it"
As a grown man, who rubs one out on another human being.
I have never had that thought crossed my head.
💀
The fact that the people didn't even budge a bit to help her 🙄
Yo le hubiera puesto el pastel en la cara
I remember being on the train and my quiet friend was standing in front me of as I was seated. A man walked onto the train. Which had a ton of standing space and he came and stood behind my friend- I mean directly in her. I looked at him and said are you moving? She didn’t even realize how close he was. And I moved her myself..
This is so fucking sick do not blame her for making excuses blame him for making her feel like she had to because most people would laugh in her face and say its not a big deal.
Good friend!!
In India, if a girl even says something that loud, the guy will be beaten and made to get down the bus or directly the bus takes them to police station
XXXtentacion
What did I just see
Eww, If I heard some women yelling about a guy waking on her. I'd like to think that myself and the others around would be sure to at least look and see WtF is going on and hopefully stop a perv like this and get them arrested. 😮
Movie name?
Netflix series called sex education. The first and second season are the best in my opinion
Bill Clinton rides the bus !
Weird how there's comments that are blaming other men for not doing anything to stop it. My question is why didn't SHE do anything? She needs a man to intervene for that?
No, that shouldn't be the question. it's shocking as fuck to be in those situations and victims shouldn't be blamed for it. if anything, we should ask why the fuck someone would be so deranged and detached to wank on someone.
Welp she got his DNA so he's busted (twice)
as someone else said who commented from experience, the police may not even do anything about it.
If this is in NYC that guy wouldn’t have had the police called on him, he would’ve been beaten to a pulp.
Bros confidence is crazy💀
She ends up spiraling pretty badly, she avoids the bus. In the end her friends help her out by escorting her on the bus, she takes photos of her destroying the jeans and it helps her move on.
I would've said something to the crowd lmao
Idk the context if she been SA before or genuinely think it okay but that is not okay no woman or man should think this is okay
Honestly this show is amazing it’s on Netflix & it’s called Sex Education if I remember correctly
A bear wouldn't do that.
It you keep watching as a Muslim man it breaks your hearts cuz this poor girl suffered from ptsd about this sexual assault. It angers me cuz no man stood up for her. Not all men are like this! May all women get Justice for this disgusting acts!
What the fuck does being a Muslim have to do with ANYTHING here
Maybe as a Muslim man you should start standing up to the gangs of rapists in your community then you can talk about being a real man.
He literally left his dna on her jeans so he can get charged pretty easily
Tbh, if this happened irl this guy would probably be pulled apart in that very bus
I agree with the blonde
Yes he is wrong
But people letting it happen is worse
Tbf if there wasn't a bunch of false allegations from chicks about stuff like these kinda assaults I think they'd get helped more... but a lot of them make it worse for actual victims..
Man idk if innocence is her reaction or trauma like a way to suppress any potential damage or if people can just be so unbothered? Idk if that’s the right word
Definitely a coping mechanism due to experiencing trauma in some degree.
Erm why is everyone blaming the girl 😭😭
There is two songs playing at the same time. Cane you tell me what the 3rd one is?
That is nasty bro 💀
Amy didn’t deserve that😢😢
She should go to the police
And nobody on the bus did anything? Pretty realistic actually 😅
She’s adorable
You were the wanker weren't ya mate ??
Bro what
Bro what
Derry girls ? Something like that is that the name of the series?
He sHud be... Arrested