Be Real... Would You Prefer Good SEX Or Good LOOKS!?

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Komentáře • 64

  • @elizabethquiver10
    @elizabethquiver10 Před 4 měsíci +20

    This is an important conversation, Christians need to talk about s3x more. I especially appreciated the acknowledgment that women are not guaranteed pleasure during s3x and hearing the importance to Yvette of having good s3x.

  • @brokerightfoot
    @brokerightfoot Před 4 měsíci +19

    I'm a mother of a 39 year old. I know for sure at my 59 Year is that Sex is Much Better Than A Good Looking Man. 🎉😂❤

  • @angelajudge3049
    @angelajudge3049 Před 4 měsíci +22

    There’s more to attractiveness than looks. If the personality and intelligence is there, I’d choose the good sex. I’m an educated woman of a certain age. Looks fade and how long would it take for me to teach someone how to please me.

  • @juliblued
    @juliblued Před 4 měsíci +16

    I pick good sex over good looks easy. Looks end for everyone.

  • @LadySayso
    @LadySayso Před 4 měsíci +16

    For me, it's going to be the good sex. What is considered beauty is, in my opinion, highly overrated. And beauty intels so much more than just looks. It's also about a person's heart, mind, and soul. If you don't have a beautiful mind, a beautiful heart, and a beautiful soul, you're not a beautiful person.

  • @Cuishi10
    @Cuishi10 Před 4 měsíci +32

    *sigh* I don't even care anymore.

  • @celvil1848
    @celvil1848 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Yvette asked the right question it was actually perfect! ❤❤❤❤
    Would you rather really good sex or the person being really good looking?
    I think most people would choose amazing sex over looks ! !!
    This is written from a Christian women who is 38 !

  • @Ox9707
    @Ox9707 Před 4 měsíci +19

    My thoughts: good sex can be taught. I can definitely express what makes sex good for me. So if i had to choose, I'd take the looks because I'm physically attracted to them, our personalities mesh, and in time she will be good at sex for me, so i get it all. (Nobody said the sex would be perpetually bad. That wouldn't even be realistic)

    • @realestatecoachestv
      @realestatecoachestv Před 3 měsíci

      Looks can be bought,Look at the Kardashians. You can't teach good sex to a woman who's not coachable

  • @turquoisebrowntq
    @turquoisebrowntq Před 4 měsíci +9

    He’s gotta have good looks for me because if not, the moment I get mad, I’m calling him all types of ugly in my head 😂😅 I know this from experience (I never said it to him). The sex was good but I couldn’t get over his looks. You can teach someone how to please you. You can dress a person in nice clothes, but you cannot rearrange their face. 😂

    • @diamondglaze725
      @diamondglaze725 Před 4 měsíci +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @realestatecoachestv
      @realestatecoachestv Před 3 měsíci

      Did you see michelle obama when she was a lawyer? Look definitely change,Even Oprah had a glow up.A man who knows when to go slow when it's needed, thrust and grind at the appropriate time and lick, suck, fondle and gently smack without any instructions is top tier. You can teach everyone doesn't have a teachable spirit

  • @creativecheftamara
    @creativecheftamara Před 4 měsíci +2

    You guys are awesome!!

  • @donnie-9913
    @donnie-9913 Před 4 měsíci +7

    I feel like the attraction has to be there or it’s a wrap. The sexual aspect could be improved, but what do I know.

    • @rbdoby
      @rbdoby Před 4 měsíci +2

      I completely agree!!

  • @rosemary1704
    @rosemary1704 Před 4 měsíci +15

    When are you going to do the family show again? I miss the kids😢

    • @Ayurveduh
      @Ayurveduh Před 4 měsíci +11

      Be open, their kids are getting older

    • @AyoJavid
      @AyoJavid Před 4 měsíci

      prolly only been like not that many years.@@Ayurveduh

    • @hannahbenn3933
      @hannahbenn3933 Před 4 měsíci +16

      he said he is allowing the kids to give their own consent on being filmed. i don’t think they want to be a part of it

    • @juliblued
      @juliblued Před 4 měsíci +5

      I think I remember him saying that the kids don't really want to be filmed at this point.

    • @StormKoriHQ
      @StormKoriHQ Před 4 měsíci

      Check the recent live streams they just did hours of content

  • @Cornbreadmuffin86
    @Cornbreadmuffin86 Před 4 měsíci +14

    Let's elevate our conversations ❤ I miss seeing how beautiful the family has grown. Please bring that back?

    • @Vivi19905
      @Vivi19905 Před 4 měsíci +6

      I agree about the content in terms of the topic. We have these same conversations repeatedly across the black community. It's a little juvenile/tiring in my opinion. The children don't want to be filmed anymore and it's great they are respecting their choices ❤

    • @VashtiPerry
      @VashtiPerry Před 4 měsíci +3

      They kids don’t want to be on camera. So…. Boundaries.

  • @Kelz_X
    @Kelz_X Před 4 měsíci +6

    Looks? 🤔 What *Mother Nature* gives, *Father Time* snatches
    Bumping Bellies? 🤔 In MY experience (low body count😉) it’s been UNfulfilling for me. I’d rather buy a COSTCO pack of AA-batteries 🤣
    At this age, I value _COMPANIONSHIP_

  • @ItsaSisterhoodThang
    @ItsaSisterhoodThang Před 4 měsíci +15

    I’m HERE FOR IT YVETTE AND BELEAF! 🤎🙌🏾🙌🏾🤎

  • @emilyevans3629
    @emilyevans3629 Před 4 měsíci +2

    If the sex or even the kissing is bad I can't be attracted, I can be attracted and get sexy vibes based on personality alone tho. Hotness is also a state of mind. We all age and change

  • @VELOCITYS943
    @VELOCITYS943 Před 4 měsíci

    Hey guyssss

  • @AtypicalIC
    @AtypicalIC Před 4 měsíci +1

    Good sex… considering that some of the worst sex would lead to no sex… and no sex with a good looking spouse is cruel torture

    • @AtypicalIC
      @AtypicalIC Před 4 měsíci

      … or your good looking spouse having sex with other people than you

  • @thebrightside7015
    @thebrightside7015 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Dude you guys have a talk show that's what up

  • @yanuscloset3360
    @yanuscloset3360 Před 2 měsíci

    Honestly I just care about how you treat me and yourself...bad sex is not a deal breaker...you can teach your partner what you like and don't like and make it work

  • @JesusismyKingNL
    @JesusismyKingNL Před 4 měsíci +2

    Jesus loves everyone on here, seek him and you will find him.🙏

  • @afrolofi
    @afrolofi Před 4 měsíci +2

    Good $3x

  • @kandyedwards1376
    @kandyedwards1376 Před 4 měsíci

    Very interesting question, a guy trying to give me the world but not attracted to him at all

  • @tanyaparker-callsign.kk7ic238
    @tanyaparker-callsign.kk7ic238 Před 4 měsíci +9

    I’m five years celibate…my vote in marriage sex…I figure he may protect me with his not do great looks…lol.
    Cute podcast and way to highlight you guys and give the children a break…
    Love it and let’s enjoy our 2024❤🎉

  • @annak706
    @annak706 Před 4 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Ms.Cris421
    @Ms.Cris421 Před 4 měsíci

    An account that I follow did a survey/poll of what men liked in a woman. A woman's career and education all came last. THRY DO NOT CARE. 😂😂

  • @realestatecoachestv
    @realestatecoachestv Před 3 měsíci

    Beauty Fades.... Laziness in bed on a woman's part is a tragedy! We don't talk about low sex drive in women as they grow enough.

  • @maryannanderson5964
    @maryannanderson5964 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Happy New Year,🤳

  • @meljesticlife9622
    @meljesticlife9622 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I gotta be attracted soon as he make me mad and I’m not attracted I’m gonna be done. 😅

  • @zazilicious
    @zazilicious Před 3 měsíci

    Good looks doesn’t necessarily mean good sex but bad looks always means bad sex because how can you have good sex with someone whom you are not attracted to?

  • @Ox9707
    @Ox9707 Před 4 měsíci

    I don't get why people think men are intimidated by women with high degrees or PhD's or lofty jobs. None of that interests me and, beyond that, i don't really see any of those things making her a better wife or mother.

  • @MorKing86
    @MorKing86 Před 4 měsíci

    I'm uncomfortable 🥴

  • @sarahpearl9462
    @sarahpearl9462 Před 4 měsíci

    What was the name of the lube you guys recommended again?

  • @RobertaStonequist
    @RobertaStonequist Před 4 měsíci +6

    hmay podcast episode on the wrong channel? 🫣🤔

  • @ItsaSisterhoodThang
    @ItsaSisterhoodThang Před 4 měsíci +2

    I like this conversation. 🤎 I’m feeling what Yvette is saying too. As far as GOOD sex and not being physically attracted to someone.

  • @VashtiPerry
    @VashtiPerry Před 4 měsíci +2

    Good sex and great hygiene 🪥 🧼 😂😂 weight is not a problem until health issues pop up. Lastly I’ll say my attraction requirements have changed from majority physical to certain characteristics like cleanliness, self confidence, safety, etc.