I'm in a meeting and my masculine Ti is thinking "this is not going to fucking work" and my fem Fe is thinking "don't say shit, just let it fail and keep clear of the shitstorm."
Wow feminine De is so real... just trying to keep to tribe at peace and if you actually got real and said nope I am having this! It's going to go down!!!
It’s really interesting being an ENFP with Savior feminine functions and Demon masculine functions. I’m also Blast last, so the masculines don’t come out much. As a result I tend to be really self-doubting and performance-averse in anything I do. People say I “panic easily” because I’m always fussing about how I don’t feel qualified to do things and I’m not as ready as the next person. Personally, I don’t think “panic” is what I do; I think it’s who I am, and it‘s a signal of comfort. Why? Because discomfort for me looks like a metaphorical gun at my head, forcing me to get up and work with what I have. And when that happens, my masculines come out and dominate the playing field with certainty because they’ve been lying in wait the entire time. After people witness it enough, I get accused of perpetually faking my sense of cluelessness. But I’m faking nothing: I just perform well under pressure, and I don’t perform at all when I’m not. Such is the feminine consume first, masculine blast last lifestyle 👏😙
omg amazingly put, im Ne/Fi with Feminine Ne and Feminine Te. im so secure in my place in the world with my Masculine Si and Fi but my insecurity for my ideas at the workplace. been through so many years of schooling and work doing pretty damn well and accumulated nice accolades but just such a struggle to believe that in myself considering how many times i was seen as crazy just cuz my ideas were out there. and saaame on the 'looking like i planned this' thing that people do to us, my mom gets starts being skeptical when im a little too crazy and happy cuz then its an 'OCD explosion waiting to happen' and i dont blame her x3
"My key is the one that opens all the key holes!" -There is a time and a place for the masculine. -We gotta find a way to use some blockers on self to create a new habit. -Whoa, put the brakes on. Shan & Dave key points -How do you guys put on the blockers in your real life?
Hi from 🇺🇦 You've posted this on 21st and it's just magical timing, you have no idea how powerful this particular bit of mentorship turned out for me. Thank you for what you're doing
Love this video guys. I don't know what saviours I have but for now I think as long as I keep reminding myself stuff like you mentioned here, and other things that I've picked up, I will continue to develop and when I can, try my best to drop my tools to swap them with the next ones. You two are great, and the clips at the end are always fun. Today's one made me laugh, it's kind of relatable haha
i think i be reeking Masculine Fi, I'm the typa guy to make my own extremist political ideology and fight Every way to impose it onto people and fight to get it on (revolutionary mindset) (Also I'm an INTJ)
With my savior masculine Te, I just wanna say to the feminine De's: JUST FUCKING SAY IT, godammit! It's so annoying to me, when people are not straightforward and try to be nice on autopilot. Everyone sucks, bruh, wear it on your sleeve. Like, I can't bother to try and not be mean to you, you have to tell me that, so I apologize and keep shoving in all the ways. xD
True and I agree, but as a masculine di, blast last, exxp anti control guy, the problem isn't confrontation, it's how to phrase it - lot of the time it comes out awkwardly and annoying, it doesn't always have that chill mas de roll with the punches vibe. It feels more personal like I'm criticising u as a person. It's like I have these standards and if other ppl r oblivious to what I think is obvious, like how everyone knows not to spit in someone's face etc, then if u do that I think u r stupid or annoying etc. But that's mas di; mas de on the other hand doesn't have a problem with the person but the actions so they can criticise u without feeling awkward since it's not a personal attack. Di "no excuse u should know better, u as a person is the problem", de "ur actions r the problem, I'm going to tell u the right way to fix it, u as a person is fine just don't know better"
I'm masculine dominant ni fi. I vibe with Dave's masculine fi and feminine Te. That skit was hilarious😂. Dom masculine fi bully iron mike in action. "You like my shit , and better not hurt my feelings, or I put you in the hospital." Lol When people conceptualize, I'm making sure they get the right idea with a similar ferocity. This conceptualization of masculine being the "fight for" function, is on point. Thanks for sharing.
i'm femini e Fe and yea i think all people are good until i wake up to reality, and i'm harder on my self than on other people. in my head it's like everyone handles shoving on themselves seperately i don't need to shove on them. and some of my paperwork and stuff was late because i don't push on the tribe. also that masculine sensory shoving on the bed and bitch testing it .. i would never do that, i handle my stuff with gentle and delecate care. i'm Ti/Ne FF
After "self learn through it" and standing out in some different grounds. Just in the last 2 years I learned that what I really need to fix its the consistency of doing things that I dont care hahaha and not find other stuff to learn and become good. I was Fi pushing through (M savior) And I need to master Si (M demon)
i really appreciate the time, effort, and iterative development that brought your system to this level of effectiveness. i'm really enjoying it immensely. the MF coin was definitely the hardest for me in fully fleshing out my type under your system. the animals were also difficult but i worked them out before the MF. i have found myself to be NiFi sc/b(p) FF and i see that it explains so much. i'm currently in the process of figuring out how i can leverage this knowledge of myself and the newfound ability to uncover it in others to achieve better, more successful results and relationships. at this time it's still a bit unwieldy bc of my lack of fully internalizing it but my hope is to make it second nature to identify and respond to personality while maintaining focus on the actual topic at hand (i.e. being able to concentrate on work while being successful with the coworkers)
@@OliveMule some advice from a possible masculine Di. Look for people who's negative traits and tendencies you don't mind dealing with. As humans we are more moved by and remember negative things better. Finding the right people is about finding people's whoms negativity you're okay or even happy to deal with.
I would really, really love it if you guys would at least give the full name of DE, Oe. It's great you have your own terms, but a little reminder would be amazing... seriously... please.
But obviously a very exaggerated form of Fe. Fe is like "Heyyy come hang out, eat my food that I made for you and I hope you like it and it would make me feel good to make you happy --sweet smiles--" But the (exaggerated for comedy) shovey Fe is like "BOY GET IN HERE AND PLAY WITH ME, EAT THIS FOOD YOU BETTA LIKE IT OR ELSE (and don't beat me on my own game and offend my demon Ti)"
I'm in a meeting and my masculine Ti is thinking "this is not going to fucking work" and my fem Fe is thinking "don't say shit, just let it fail and keep clear of the shitstorm."
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@@diplomat2623 Now just trying to figure out M/F on my Se/Ni.
Holy shit, same. My wimpy Fe has to work so hard to tell them that without being too blunt lmao
@@tfranc347 It's interesting, my spouse is Fe #1 and is really diplomatic but, not afraid to call out people on their shit.
You better like this masculine comment.
Wow feminine De is so real... just trying to keep to tribe at peace and if you actually got real and said nope I am having this! It's going to go down!!!
I’m masculine sensory, and my mom always tells me to stop picking on my hair. But now I realize I’m “bitch testing” for weak hair follicles.
It’s really interesting being an ENFP with Savior feminine functions and Demon masculine functions. I’m also Blast last, so the masculines don’t come out much. As a result I tend to be really self-doubting and performance-averse in anything I do. People say I “panic easily” because I’m always fussing about how I don’t feel qualified to do things and I’m not as ready as the next person. Personally, I don’t think “panic” is what I do; I think it’s who I am, and it‘s a signal of comfort. Why? Because discomfort for me looks like a metaphorical gun at my head, forcing me to get up and work with what I have. And when that happens, my masculines come out and dominate the playing field with certainty because they’ve been lying in wait the entire time.
After people witness it enough, I get accused of perpetually faking my sense of cluelessness. But I’m faking nothing: I just perform well under pressure, and I don’t perform at all when I’m not. Such is the feminine consume first, masculine blast last lifestyle 👏😙
i relate :O
omg amazingly put, im Ne/Fi with Feminine Ne and Feminine Te. im so secure in my place in the world with my Masculine Si and Fi but my insecurity for my ideas at the workplace. been through so many years of schooling and work doing pretty damn well and accumulated nice accolades but just such a struggle to believe that in myself considering how many times i was seen as crazy just cuz my ideas were out there.
and saaame on the 'looking like i planned this' thing that people do to us, my mom gets starts being skeptical when im a little too crazy and happy cuz then its an 'OCD explosion waiting to happen' and i dont blame her x3
damn, that sounds like it would be really hard. Thanks for sharing this experience, it's very educational in relation to how OP plays in real life.
Such a foreign language, but I love it. Cool to see you bounce ideas around.
how did you just sum up the whole
reason i love this stuff so well 😭😭 is this ne or something
"My key is the one that opens all the key holes!"
-There is a time and a place for the masculine.
-We gotta find a way to use some blockers on self to create a new habit.
-Whoa, put the brakes on.
Shan & Dave key points
-How do you guys put on the blockers in your real life?
I can even explain SADGURU'S journey with your info omg like thanks
Hi from 🇺🇦 You've posted this on 21st and it's just magical timing, you have no idea how powerful this particular bit of mentorship turned out for me. Thank you for what you're doing
Ukraine, everyone now associates Ukraine with the war
That clip at the end was hilarious.
Love this video guys. I don't know what saviours I have but for now I think as long as I keep reminding myself stuff like you mentioned here, and other things that I've picked up, I will continue to develop and when I can, try my best to drop my tools to swap them with the next ones.
You two are great, and the clips at the end are always fun. Today's one made me laugh, it's kind of relatable haha
i think i be reeking Masculine Fi, I'm the typa guy to make my own extremist political ideology and fight Every way to impose it onto people and fight to get it on (revolutionary mindset)
(Also I'm an INTJ)
With my savior masculine Te, I just wanna say to the feminine De's: JUST FUCKING SAY IT, godammit! It's so annoying to me, when people are not straightforward and try to be nice on autopilot. Everyone sucks, bruh, wear it on your sleeve. Like, I can't bother to try and not be mean to you, you have to tell me that, so I apologize and keep shoving in all the ways. xD
Que isso rapaz
True and I agree, but as a masculine di, blast last, exxp anti control guy, the problem isn't confrontation, it's how to phrase it - lot of the time it comes out awkwardly and annoying, it doesn't always have that chill mas de roll with the punches vibe. It feels more personal like I'm criticising u as a person. It's like I have these standards and if other ppl r oblivious to what I think is obvious, like how everyone knows not to spit in someone's face etc, then if u do that I think u r stupid or annoying etc. But that's mas di; mas de on the other hand doesn't have a problem with the person but the actions so they can criticise u without feeling awkward since it's not a personal attack. Di "no excuse u should know better, u as a person is the problem", de "ur actions r the problem, I'm going to tell u the right way to fix it, u as a person is fine just don't know better"
You guys are amazing. Just here to show love.
i cant wait for your work to become more popular and recognised!!!!!!!!
I'm masculine dominant ni fi. I vibe with Dave's masculine fi and feminine Te. That skit was hilarious😂. Dom masculine fi bully iron mike in action. "You like my shit , and better not hurt my feelings, or I put you in the hospital." Lol When people conceptualize, I'm making sure they get the right idea with a similar ferocity. This conceptualization of masculine being the "fight for" function, is on point. Thanks for sharing.
i'm femini e Fe and yea i think all people are good until i wake up to reality, and i'm harder on my self than on other people. in my head it's like everyone handles shoving on themselves seperately i don't need to shove on them. and some of my paperwork and stuff was late because i don't push on the tribe.
also that masculine sensory shoving on the bed and bitch testing it .. i would never do that, i handle my stuff with gentle and delecate care.
i'm Ti/Ne FF
Love you guys
After "self learn through it" and standing out in some different grounds. Just in the last 2 years I learned that what I really need to fix its the consistency of doing things that I dont care hahaha and not find other stuff to learn and become good.
I was Fi pushing through (M savior)
And I need to master Si (M demon)
“It survived slavery” 😭😭😭
I thought i was IP but i DEFINITELY relate more to Shannon
Maybe that Is your Feminin or Masculine function
I did sometimes naively think everyone was my friend. I'm still rather confused about which of my N or S is masculine.
i really appreciate the time, effort, and iterative development that brought your system to this level of effectiveness. i'm really enjoying it immensely. the MF coin was definitely the hardest for me in fully fleshing out my type under your system. the animals were also difficult but i worked them out before the MF. i have found myself to be NiFi sc/b(p) FF and i see that it explains so much. i'm currently in the process of figuring out how i can leverage this knowledge of myself and the newfound ability to uncover it in others to achieve better, more successful results and relationships. at this time it's still a bit unwieldy bc of my lack of fully internalizing it but my hope is to make it second nature to identify and respond to personality while maintaining focus on the actual topic at hand (i.e. being able to concentrate on work while being successful with the coworkers)
Istj here....I'm aware that my personality is like sandpaper...
Not ashamed
Jk but hey I'm really workin on getting more communicative
Howwwwwww do I get a healthy girlfriend?? Everyone just assumes I have a serious gf and I dont bc i have standards. I'm tall and i work out but yahh
@@OliveMule some advice from a possible masculine Di.
Look for people who's negative traits and tendencies you don't mind dealing with. As humans we are more moved by and remember negative things better.
Finding the right people is about finding people's whoms negativity you're okay or even happy to deal with.
Need a more comprehensive written explanation on masculine and feminine. I don't understand any of it
When has Mike Tyson become such a good comedy actor?
What would a classic mbti INFP CP/S with masculine play look like?
I would really, really love it if you guys would at least give the full name of DE, Oe. It's great you have your own terms, but a little reminder would be amazing... seriously... please.
Go consume it. It's not that hard. The info is definitely in this channel
1:12 dying at "deep in my bone marrow"
Wait wasn’t Dave MM NiFi. In this clip it sounds like he’s changed type
feminine Te
Why don’t you guys have any videos on the feminine functions?
Me: "Oh, you're surprisingly good at this."
Also me: "Oh, you're surprisingly bad at this."
Though the first one tends to happen more...
i can’t tell if the last video clip is supposed to be M-Di vs F-De.
I thought it was supposed to be M-Fe?
But obviously a very exaggerated form of Fe. Fe is like "Heyyy come hang out, eat my food that I made for you and I hope you like it and it would make me feel good to make you happy --sweet smiles--" But the (exaggerated for comedy) shovey Fe is like "BOY GET IN HERE AND PLAY WITH ME, EAT THIS FOOD YOU BETTA LIKE IT OR ELSE (and don't beat me on my own game and offend my demon Ti)"
1:48 so interesting
You shove on what is non-movable to others
Shan kinda reminds me of Ana Kasparian
I wonder what Ana's type is
@@zlatanibrahimovicisbettert7980 FM-Te/Si-BS/C(P), something along those lines, is my best guess, but could be way off.
@@someonerandom713 I see you on all mbti related channels
@@zlatanibrahimovicisbettert7980 I see you a lot, too! Doing well? :)
@@someonerandom713 no. Where did you see me?
7:23 ⏸
Yeah why do neighboors just wanna mingle?? Ughhh