FIVE THINGS A MAN IS LOOKING FOR IN A WOMAN

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  • @Dentist2100
    @Dentist2100 Před 3 lety +1410

    Love and honor my wife. My pride doesn't mean anything when it comes to her needs. God Bless.

  • @hishandywork55
    @hishandywork55 Před 3 lety +1949

    A king looks for a woman who:
    1. She EXCLUSIVE to him
    2. She REPRESENTS herself well
    3. She ENFORCES her boundaries
    4. She is capable of creating a high-value partership with
    5. She is RESPECTFUL to her husband

    • @Aritul
      @Aritul Před 3 lety +32

      Thank you!

    • @Andre25167
      @Andre25167 Před 3 lety +53

      well said, many women are not exclusive the ones that are or the loyal ones God will bless even more

    • @charmedlife6378
      @charmedlife6378 Před 3 lety +14

      Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @conceptualelegance
      @conceptualelegance Před 3 lety +16

      only agree with 2, 3 is redundant 5 is a consequence not a relevant measure, 1 false, 4 is vague

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 Před 3 lety +9

      Thank you so much for this valuable information!!!!

  • @nadinedavid1501
    @nadinedavid1501 Před 2 lety +1889

    I had a “King” for my husband but I chose wisely. He passed in 2020 but I’m so blessed to have had him as my husband and father to my two children. We were married almost 22 years. 💕

    • @nadinedavid1501
      @nadinedavid1501 Před 2 lety +9

      @Alicia Hope Alexander thank you 🌺🌸

    • @1972jojodancer
      @1972jojodancer Před 2 lety +33

      Oh how precious sister Nadine! Your beloved king had his queen. So many of us wait a whole lifetime for this bond in Father's Love.

    • @annieschmitz9145
      @annieschmitz9145 Před 2 lety +24

      Nadine am sorry for that loss be strong and hold on the bond he left with you in its well and God is your strength

    • @darlenedijon6820
      @darlenedijon6820 Před 2 lety +14

      Sorry for your loss.

    • @everydaylifebyrozy6174
      @everydaylifebyrozy6174 Před 2 lety +12

      Sorry for the loss.

  • @mannalawson432
    @mannalawson432 Před 10 měsíci +77

    “He is a man that honors a woman so well that submission is her natural response.” Yessir. 👏🏽 🔥

    • @JeanGardner-Cato
      @JeanGardner-Cato Před 6 měsíci

      Most men do not understand this; perhaps they did not have role models especially from a father's, the friends they had, other family members, the mothers not teach their sons the value of a woman & the marriage & family institution ordained by God Almighty Jesus Yeshua Christ Jesus hallelujah and soon coming king! R.C Blake's is a real God sent; to promote the education & change so much of our men need & women; it is both sides balance . Most family need Christ character in their hearts, in truth in the lives; not just 'profession' bug to walk thecwslj; talk the talk; live the life; in accordance to st John chapter 14 & verse 6 & 7. Ephesians chapters 6; we are not wrestling with flesh & blood... to understand Galatians chapter 5 , those who practice such things will not inheritance the kingdom' of God. And Absouletly understand II Timothy chapter 3. ' 'Perilous times shall come" it here & now. Individuals will be lovers of pleasures; themselves more than lovers of God. Love will be waxed cold, without natural affection, law breakers, ferce...On so on read for yourselves & let no man deceive you.. says Christ Jesus hallelujah! Yeshua . ❤and appreciate to you all the body of Christ; for all the gifts abilities & talents; the calling; service & ministries; diversity that Jesus Yeshua Christ Jesus hallelujah and soon coming king have blessed his people with. May you all, seek his face now in true humility, repentance, love & obedience; faith & righteous; holiness which is lacking in the body of believers/ church hence the lack of real power & shining light before men; to glorified our father in heaven. Prsy God me as I continue to pray for you all! Because my hope is built on nothing less; than The merits of Jesus Yeshua Christ blood & righteousness; than blood will & cannot loose it power, so simple to the cross I will cling❤
      ;

    • @yuu_miran
      @yuu_miran Před 6 měsíci

      Reverse manipulation?😊

  • @lovensjeanpierre4294
    @lovensjeanpierre4294 Před 2 lety +256

    I heard this : " Men need to be respected. Women need to be cherished. " Thank you RC BLAKES !

    • @tranishaguzman-lopez7054
      @tranishaguzman-lopez7054 Před rokem +4

      So a women don't need respect also but to be cherished...Sounds kind of unusual 🤔

    • @treelover1050
      @treelover1050 Před rokem +12

      A woman needs to be respected as well.

    • @Happey67
      @Happey67 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@tranishaguzman-lopez7054 Tell and say that again.

    • @cletusthemysterious
      @cletusthemysterious Před 5 měsíci +2

      At what point does a woman being cherished mean she’s being disrespected? Smh

  • @ninad8543
    @ninad8543 Před 3 lety +1154

    “He’s a man who honors his woman so well that ‘submission’ is her natural response”

  • @jennyelliott7735
    @jennyelliott7735 Před 3 lety +858

    I was in such a bad place drinking way to much upset about my past and just so lonely, I decided to stop drinking and would go to bed and tell myself stay on your path One night I was looking for some calming music and I saw you so I listened to what you were saying . You Sir have helped me so very much , the way you speak to women and the truth behind everything you talk about. I just want to thank you so very much for all you have showed me so far

  • @bradblades4245
    @bradblades4245 Před rokem +48

    “When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.” - Thomas Sowell

  • @ghutchin33
    @ghutchin33 Před 2 lety +120

    1. He knows who he is. 2. Where he is going. 3. Who he needs. THAT PART ! This is a man who knows his purpose and with whom he needs to align so as to allow God to get glory from his life.

  • @valencialundy8857
    @valencialundy8857 Před 3 lety +235

    The quality of a man woman is basis on how he treats her. So how a KING treats his QUEEN is a reflection of him.

    • @janellamurphy5665
      @janellamurphy5665 Před 3 lety +4

      REAL TRUTH AMEN!!!!!!👍🏾👍🏾🔥🔥💚🙌🏿👐🏿💜

    • @crystalclearfam6444
      @crystalclearfam6444 Před 3 lety +4

      I cant agree more. 💯✔️

    • @melissam.6054
      @melissam.6054 Před 3 lety +12

      And how a QUEEN treats her KING is a reflection of whether she's taken responsibility for healing herself in Christ, to ensure she's not speaking or behaving from a place of woundedness or toxic Feminism.
      This is a two-way street of two adults owning & taking responsibility for becoming emotionally integrated, to be able to treat each other with mutual respect & love within the boundaries of their God-designed roles, so they can be a Kingdom Couple who adorn the gospel. 💜🙏💜

    • @kamed.
      @kamed. Před 3 lety +1

      FACTS!

    • @waitwhat6882
      @waitwhat6882 Před 3 lety +3

      That is the exact truth.

  • @valencialundy8857
    @valencialundy8857 Před 3 lety +302

    KINGS and QUEENS do not have time to waste they do not play relationship games

  • @WatupGable
    @WatupGable Před 2 lety +76

    5 things a woman is looking for in a man: 1. FAITHFULNESS 2. A FREE MAN who IS INDEPENDENT OF PLEASING THE CROWD. 3. A MAN WHO SUPPORTS HER CAREER OR INTERESTS AS WELL AS HIS OWN. 4. A MAN WHO DOES NOT SEE HER AS A BODY PART. 5. A MAN WHO SEES HER IN HIS FUTURE WHEN HE LOOKS IN HIS MIRROR.

    • @ARareGEM2890
      @ARareGEM2890 Před 10 měsíci +11

      6. A MAN OF GOD WHO FEARS AND LOVE GOD.

    • @karenbell3900
      @karenbell3900 Před 8 měsíci +6

      7. A man who is respectful and kind, loving and gentle, not abusive and evil !!! A man who will respect the woman if she has children, and will help her to raise them if he loves her enough to do that. A man who has the strength to do the right thing ALWAYS; and NEVER needs to follow the crowd!!!💯💜🙏

    • @sharonshaw3907
      @sharonshaw3907 Před 8 měsíci +1

    • @shinep9658
      @shinep9658 Před 6 měsíci +1

      A man who is not into substance abuse like alcohol and cigarettes, a man who is emotionally controlled, a man who has wisdom and maturity.

  • @JaneInThisThang
    @JaneInThisThang Před 3 lety +298

    “Queens draw the line.” God has been molding and teaching me that this year. It feels empowering to have stern boundaries

  • @yk8301
    @yk8301 Před 3 lety +511

    You are the father I wish I had growing up ❤️ thank you for teaching women how to value themselves like queens ❤️👸🏻

    • @moneywithmichelle
      @moneywithmichelle Před 2 lety +5

      I just adopted him today!

    • @sharonmathis-washington3455
      @sharonmathis-washington3455 Před 2 lety +4

      I jus happened to click on your message about a woman should not pursue a man. You were so right Bishop Blake's. I want to thank you for allowing me to fess up to myself about a previous relationship that was just as you stated. I now have a man that I have never met (he is an Orthopedic Surgeon serving our country in Bagdad , Iraq). We met on line, we communicate by text and he calls often. I don't call him he calls me quite often. He has asked me to marry him as soon as he gets home. He has never asked me for anything with the exception of loving him. He does not let me have my way all the time. He steps up to the plate and puts me in my place. You know sometimes we women like to try a man to see how far her man will let her. I'm so happy he is a man that I can love and respect.
      Thanks for your knowledge and scriptural influence on my life. Glad I took the time to listen to you tonight. I will continue to listen to your programs.

    • @discerningtruth6848
      @discerningtruth6848 Před 2 lety +1

      "When my mother and father forsake me, its the Lord that will take me up. "God knew parents aren't perfect people..follow by their with their struggles...with brokenness leads too
      disfunction...uncertainty hopelessness and despair. The Bible says ",when not hypothetically speaking...not if but when means there's going to be challenges..heartbreak and pain.

    • @yvonneyoung7443
      @yvonneyoung7443 Před 2 lety +6

      @@sharonmathis-washington3455 Be careful of this man you have NEVER met. Long distance relationships often times don't work out well.

    • @roses4me451
      @roses4me451 Před 2 lety +4

      @@yvonneyoung7443 "He does not let me have my way all the time. He steps up to the plate and puts me in my place." "He has asked me to marry him soon as he gets home". Met online, never met him, communicates by text, he calls often. RED FLAGS!!!! Beware!

  • @simplymynz2683
    @simplymynz2683 Před rokem +25

    Now that is deep. A King honors his woman so good that his woman naturally submits to him. 💕I love it, & believes it's true. It's her free will and how she shows her love for him.

  • @brandy4522
    @brandy4522 Před rokem +62

    Thank you being obedient to the holy spirit and using your voice. You are giving many women a well needed Father - Daughter talk that some never got, and some that needed reminded of.

  • @jerushadowdy7094
    @jerushadowdy7094 Před 3 lety +152

    A man wants a woman who will represent him well 👏👏

  • @TheLuvlfe
    @TheLuvlfe Před 3 lety +255

    A KING mindset is so rare these days. I have faith and patience that there are a few still left.

    • @lesliethomas5088
      @lesliethomas5088 Před 3 lety +6

      I’m with you Sis.

    • @robinahninsiima6976
      @robinahninsiima6976 Před 3 lety +2

      Yeah rare i have one in my inbox ,now finally on my WhatsApp but i don't know how to behave❤bt trying to be me and pray when time is right all works out well

    • @katalinmcewan
      @katalinmcewan Před 2 lety +1

      There are, but very few of them.

    • @queenjazmyne
      @queenjazmyne Před 2 lety +5

      I have found one, its beautiful sis. Prayer and wait ,he will find you.

    • @deliafrye7753
      @deliafrye7753 Před 2 lety

      I'm waiting and seeking for my king

  • @kathyberven9579
    @kathyberven9579 Před 2 lety +63

    Thank you so much!!! I am 33 and Single. I am working on my healing process. Waiting for a King that God will put in my path. Thank you for this clarity.

    • @kwameantwi4229
      @kwameantwi4229 Před 5 měsíci

      Hi dear my name is Kwame from Ghana I want to be your King I do it

  • @cassandranarcisse2915
    @cassandranarcisse2915 Před 2 lety +10

    A king does not share! Shout out to you Mr Blakes, you hit the nail on the head.... Preach!!!!! Great message

  • @barbarahull1987
    @barbarahull1987 Před 3 lety +488

    This was very informative. I considered myself as being a virtuous woman and my husband prospered because of it. Then he decided he could get a better family because financially and socially he was a "King" and I needed to be more submissive and then he became abusive physically and mentally toward me and the children. The very person he wanted, he tore down. Some men just don't know what they want. Now he wants his family back, which will never happen. I thank God for rescuing me and healing me.I might be torn, but I'm not broken.

    • @caroliner2029
      @caroliner2029 Před 2 lety +43

      Sweetie, what a heartache 💔
      It sounds like you were ensnared by a Narcissist.
      I have experience with them, and I'm learning about Narcissism through reading and being in professional therapy.
      God bless you, and continue to comfort and heal you. You're precious to Him.❤️

    • @barbarahull1987
      @barbarahull1987 Před 2 lety +36

      @@caroliner2029 Hello. I most definitely was involved with a "narc" and his mom supported him all the way because money was involved for her. Now she wants to be in her adult grandchildren lives, which they won't call her or anything.They probably blame that on me too, but they remember her not calling and sending gifts for Christmas. Now she's trying to assist her son into getting back to me. Crazy, huh?. We all are well and I do wish him the best as well as her; but as for me and my children, we will stay away from them. Our emotional state depends on that. Thank you for your concern and have a blessed day.

    • @staceynorton5308
      @staceynorton5308 Před 2 lety +20

      Be very discerning about what you see.

    • @katalinmcewan
      @katalinmcewan Před 2 lety +12

      @@caroliner2029 I was going to say the same. Have you checked out Dr. Ramani’s channel and Lisa A. Romano’s? I have had a terrible experience and spent the past almost 3 years learning about NPD. I own nearly 30 books on this topic. I love Shahida Arabi’s books and the latest book from Dr. Ramani. I listen to them on audio all the time. I’m sorry you had to go through something so awful! Sending you love and light!

    • @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
      @Dr.JudeAEMasonMD Před 2 lety +11

      @@katalinmcewan these are two amazing channels. I agree. Dr. Ramani and Lisa A Romano have helped lead me to some powerful revelations regarding narcissists and narcissistic abuse.

  • @thommydavis2396
    @thommydavis2396 Před 3 lety +292

    Thought it was just me and wouldn’t put it out there. “A woman is happy and polite.” This was so important to me. When I met my wife she was so delightful and respectful to everyone that she captivated me. I said to myself “That is who I want beside me!”

  • @user-fr5se1hd2g
    @user-fr5se1hd2g Před 9 měsíci +16

    I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS AND THEY'RE ALWAYS WELL WORHT MY TIME. Thank you for all of your knowledge. Spoken like a true king. You and your wife give the rest of us hope knowing that this type of blessing does exist and isn't just in fairytales. Thank you again 💝

  • @roxanacupsan
    @roxanacupsan Před 2 lety +64

    I’m manifesting a husband like you, a marriage like yours…right now 🧘🏼‍♀️
    Sending you some love and thank you for your work!

  • @destinythomas2129
    @destinythomas2129 Před 3 lety +317

    I’m 22 years old and I’m taking in all this wisdom from your videos, it help me in my journey of becoming of virtuous woman of God, setting the example for my daughter❤️❤️❤️ thank you

  • @camilla4783
    @camilla4783 Před 2 lety +85

    "A woman that says before I disrespect myself and get in this masculine energy...I will find my happy place within myself which is the only place it resides anyway, I will live my life with purpose and fulfillment and I will be a blessing to the world for all of my years before I come down off my place of virtue."
    Thank you for your guidance!! God Bless you and your family.

  • @darknluvly702
    @darknluvly702 Před 3 lety +137

    No pimps or simps.....I NEED A KING!! 👑❤️🙏🏾

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 Před 2 lety +1

      Goodafternoon real good man will sacrifice for you make you happy n also ask what ‘s you need help with seriously n what ‘s your future goals . A real good man willing take burden off you n also send you roses , help with bills , communications is the key n trust , get away weekend , make you first in his life . He going to honor you n value seriously, a lots men doesn’t take this seriously n do a lots of talking but not actions . It’s simple things too keep a woman

    • @Gloryfied
      @Gloryfied Před 2 lety

      Oh yes hun we need kings 😁.

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 Před 2 lety

      Goodevening I take this seriously

    • @maxinefisher178
      @maxinefisher178 Před 2 lety

      Be a Queen.

  • @keiexperience6919
    @keiexperience6919 Před 2 lety +31

    For a few months I’ve seen you on my timeline and had the nerves to roll my eyes because I’ve had no desire for a relationship… however today I’ve started listening and I’m stuck. Thank you for checking and directing me for when I am ready.

  • @TytianaBurgess
    @TytianaBurgess Před 2 lety +36

    God led me to your teachings and I look forward to watching your teachings daily , you are the earthly father I didn’t get the opportunity to have to sit down and teach me these important lessons … I was taught the worldy way but now that I am saved woman of God , I feel God has used you to teach me the Godly way 🙏🏾 God bless you Bishop

  • @lyssadaqvxxn
    @lyssadaqvxxn Před 3 lety +117

    yea i 100% messed up on who i had a kid with. 😔 y’all pray for my son Elias please, and his father too. 🙏🏼 God bless. praying for every woman here watching this too

    • @lyssadaqvxxn
      @lyssadaqvxxn Před 3 lety +3

      @@lala5061 i’m sorry girl. it really, really, REALLY sucks. 🙁 i’ll pray for you sis 💜 love you so much. hang in there. Romans 8:28

    • @clarissegomez9275
      @clarissegomez9275 Před 2 lety

      That's makes 2 of us 😓

  • @fazeelafazal8615
    @fazeelafazal8615 Před 3 lety +234

    Love what you said when a man honours his wife and takes care of her, submission is her natural response. When a man treats a woman well she fall in love with him more and want to be closer to him 😊

    • @caroliner2029
      @caroliner2029 Před 2 lety +13

      Absolutely!
      When we feel protected, not exploited, but valued, we feel relaxed and excited at the same time.
      The pleasure felt is greater, and we fall in love so completely.

    • @kazadimwamba183
      @kazadimwamba183 Před 2 lety +7

      True ,love is reversible not irreversible, when you sowed is what you will reap

    • @bettybartlett5410
      @bettybartlett5410 Před 2 lety +1

      XR cuz

    • @louisewilliams9279
      @louisewilliams9279 Před 2 lety +1

      @@caroliner2029 p

    • @avafrett8455
      @avafrett8455 Před 2 lety +2

      AMEN!!!🙌🏻

  • @kelliew.4285
    @kelliew.4285 Před 2 lety +30

    A woman represents a man better than he represents himself. Wow. Thank you for putting importance back on what's inside. I think there are some things I can change now to attract the man I want.

  • @lindarichardson2878
    @lindarichardson2878 Před 2 lety +20

    Thank you for your teaching. You sound so much like my dad when I was a young girl teaching and telling me what to look for I a man. He passed away at 83 years of age, and I miss so much talking and listening to him. It's like hearing him thru you thank you and your wife. I send this teaching to my 3 sons. Keep it up people need to hear these messages.

  • @valencialundy8857
    @valencialundy8857 Před 3 lety +171

    KINGS do not share neither do QUEENS

  • @fromdoormattoflyingcarpetw407

    “My spouse represents me better than I represent myself.”

  • @nzingahoney
    @nzingahoney Před rokem +10

    Pastor Blakes, you have really helped me to understand my whole disastrous romantic history with this one video. I have always been a queen, but lacked patience because of the dire lack of kings in my circles, in tandem with my biological clock. I am from Trinidad and Tobago, aged 42. I have been a question asker from childhood, a voracious reader and strong thinker, and I was always interested in creating high value children and a high value visionary partnership with their father. I always had a style that was self-respecting; I always felt my body was only to be seen by my king. No booty shots for me, and no decolletage or pum pum shorts, either. But I could never respect or give exclusivity to a man who did not cherish, honour, commit to and demonstrate king-leader qualities both in his own life and with me. I just don't know how to do that. And my boundaries haven't always been clear, especially the older I got. So now I know exactly what work I have to do and I also know what the man who would be my husband must be able, by his lifestyle and character, to inspire in me. Thanks a million. The Force is really strong with you.

  • @carolmitchell7137
    @carolmitchell7137 Před 2 lety +7

    I too was physically,emotionallly and verbally abused by my ex husband I was so torn. I was a submissive wife but he was so unfaithful. I lost all respect for him. I'm free from him now. Thank God. Don't think I will ever get married again.

    • @tempiedemps5179
      @tempiedemps5179 Před 2 lety +1

      May God Bless you when the Blessed man shows up in your life, to know it and accept God's gift Amen

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 Před 3 lety +156

    “A great man is governed by his hearts integrity ““ 🙌🏽💯 RC Blake

  • @harrietthornton5328
    @harrietthornton5328 Před 3 lety +188

    Submission is her natural
    Response, so true. My father
    Was that man. My father had
    Standards for us, enforced
    By example and love. We
    Never wanted to disappoint
    Him. We had a treasure in
    Him.

    • @nikbks8637
      @nikbks8637 Před 3 lety +14

      You are blessed. My father was argumentative, forceful and angry more than anything else. So I entered into some very abusive relationships with my last one almost killing me. We learn from our fathers. So true.

    • @harrietthornton5328
      @harrietthornton5328 Před 3 lety +14

      Thanks for your
      Reply. My father was
      Loving, and taught me
      To take care of myself.
      However he didn't teach
      Me about abusive men.
      Therefore I married
      Not a physically abusive
      Person but emotionally
      Abusive person, because
      They hide they're true
      Selves until after you
      Come to love and trust
      Them. What I am relearning
      Is balance self love.
      Just left the doctors office
      To begin getting my health
      In order to live better.
      I'm on my journey. As soon
      As you can start your
      Journey. I can understand
      The things you may have
      Endured. Their are so
      Many of us who care about
      Our neighbors. I'm
      Your neighbor , don't
      Give up for yourself and
      Those that love you.

    • @gloriousjohnson1807
      @gloriousjohnson1807 Před 2 lety

      Amen.🙏💋

  • @tonyamarieable
    @tonyamarieable Před 2 lety +13

    This anointed teaching is needed in our church & schools today.

  • @gertrudebuck366
    @gertrudebuck366 Před 2 lety +18

    I TRULY DO LOVE THIS “A MAN CHERISHES HIS WOMAN AND THE WOMAN RESPECTS HER HUSBAND!” THIS INTERTWINES AND GOES BOTH WAYS! HALLELUJAH AND AMEN 🙏🏾
    A MAN IS LOOKING FOR A WOMAN WHO RESPECTS HIM!!

  • @missladybug9055
    @missladybug9055 Před 3 lety +201

    Your ministry❤️is RELEVANT and VERY MUCH NEEDED inside and outside the body of Christ‼️ Thank u Sir. Dallas, TX🙋🏾

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Před 3 lety +15

      Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @paulthomas4569
      @paulthomas4569 Před 3 lety +4

      GLORY TO GOD I,AGREE & AMEN!!!

    • @MTortillaKitt
      @MTortillaKitt Před 3 lety +6

      I don’t know what I would have done without Mr. Blake’s, I’m grateful to have found him. So many things learned through his ministry, so much comfort to the heart after we accept what he and Gpd have to teach us. 🙏🏼

  • @wisdom1273
    @wisdom1273 Před 2 lety +18

    I just had time to listen to this video. All I can say the wisdom in this message is great. Thank you.❤

  • @carlaarnold1612
    @carlaarnold1612 Před 2 lety +19

    Your teachings quench my thirst for knowledge and wisdom and empowers me to practice healthy boundaries. Thank you so much for ministering to my friends and I... you're loved and appreciated ❤

  • @keadearmond5511
    @keadearmond5511 Před 2 lety +61

    I finally found my king in Africa.This Queen couldn't settle for less

  • @skylafragrances
    @skylafragrances Před 3 lety +146

    “And another thing I love about my wife.” Ladies isn’t that just so precious?❤️

  • @chir401
    @chir401 Před rokem +22

    Another gem. Thank you for the priceless lessons, Pastor. You are a blessing to us all, especially those who did not have a father figure.

  • @nikkilong7377
    @nikkilong7377 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Thank you for this. After my husband passed I have been on the celibacy ride and just chug a long in the life I have been led to. Recently I have been thinking if I were to be in a relationship I want a king. A man who sees me as his partner in life. I have met someone and he seems to have begun to meet my needs. I appreciate your words Bishop.
    I continue to listen to you and I have I trounced him to your videos.
    Love and light to you and your family💜

  • @marilyndenham7039
    @marilyndenham7039 Před 3 lety +90

    1. Exclusivity
    2. A king values a woman that represents herself well
    3. A king waits for a woman that draws the line
    4. A king needs a woman to create a high value partnership with
    5. If you respect him you can have anything

    • @fatikay5735
      @fatikay5735 Před 3 lety +12

      Thank you! I always look for the blessed person who summarized the video into a bullet list! :D

    • @angieayala6867
      @angieayala6867 Před 3 lety +3

      Same here.♥️

    • @Aritul
      @Aritul Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you!

  • @valencialundy8857
    @valencialundy8857 Před 3 lety +70

    Just how some women can not handle a king likewise some man can not handle a queen

  • @einotilarashi6178
    @einotilarashi6178 Před 2 lety +9

    All the way from Tanzania East Africa...listening to your teachings bring out the best in me..thank you may God bless you😇

  • @kblroaychkee8636
    @kblroaychkee8636 Před 2 lety +5

    Wow this speaks to my soul. Thank you for pulling me from such a dark place and showing abs teaching me what it is to be a godly woman who deserves a king of a man because I have queen mentality!

  • @travism3307
    @travism3307 Před 3 lety +113

    Thanks! Pastor! I really enjoyed this sermon! I have never been Married so I have stopped all things regarding to my own flesh instead I’m waiting on the right woman by the grace of “GOD” waiting on the “LORD”🙏🏽

  • @davinadrayton7269
    @davinadrayton7269 Před 3 lety +87

    Representation is everything! This is the message that Monique have been speaking about , woman coming out in public with bonnets and pajamas. It's crazy how she's getting bashed for her message!

    • @n.b.0212
      @n.b.0212 Před 3 lety +8

      I seen a woman while out grocery shopping, in boy shorts with both her cheeks exposed 😳

    • @lyhmedia5225
      @lyhmedia5225 Před 3 lety +3

      Just crazy... the children you will raise sad commentary about society; she is just stating the truth.

    • @BB-ll2ih
      @BB-ll2ih Před 3 lety +4

      Monica? Says the woman who has an open relationship Yea ok.

    • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
      @durbansaladyinaccra2173 Před 3 lety +1

      On point 👍

    • @lindaclark4242
      @lindaclark4242 Před 3 lety +2

      @@BB-ll2ih Monique the comedienne not R&b singer Monica but hey yt has been playing on comments/spelling heavy lately

  • @patsyoliver1237
    @patsyoliver1237 Před 2 lety +4

    A real King takes his time observing and already prayed to God about you before approaching. Real Queens only pay attention to real Kings.

  • @wizzerwizly
    @wizzerwizly Před 2 lety +12

    Thank you so much for your words of wisdom and for acknowledging YES WE ARE ON TOP AND GOING HIGHER. This put an even bigger smile on my face.
    When I see one of your videos that I think would be particularly helpful to my children in their own marriages, I always send them out....this is going to all of them. You’ve outdone yourself here. So interesting and so truthful. Thank you again, these reminders are so much needed in this day and age.

  • @oksanadobryshina76
    @oksanadobryshina76 Před 3 lety +64

    I am Russian and I just love all what you saying every day watching 😍

    • @light75777
      @light75777 Před 2 lety

      Yes, me too
      It's really a blessing for me to find your channel here, Pastor!

  • @chandraanderson8924
    @chandraanderson8924 Před 3 lety +66

    Submission is her natural response... I love this!! 💜❤️

  • @allthingspositive4990
    @allthingspositive4990 Před 2 lety +18

    This is literally the most sober word and instruction I have ever heard on this subject. Thank you so much for taking your time and including relevant scripture! God bless you!

  • @PutTheShovelDown
    @PutTheShovelDown Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you. This was a great message.

  • @simonswamy688
    @simonswamy688 Před 3 lety +35

    For all the people out there always remember couples don't complete each other they only unite in the physical realm it's god and god alone who completes them in an institution of marriage and marriage is not a contract it's a covenant made by him so let's honour it .

  • @cheshahale
    @cheshahale Před 3 lety +157

    This was SO GOOD! If this ain't preparation, I don't know what is. One of my prayers has been, Lord teach us about relationships and how to go about this thing. Well, Pastor Blakes is the voice for this hour and helping us to understand how to present ourselves. He's talking to the KINGS and helping them as well!! "He who has an ear...let him listen, understand, take into consideration!! Thank you Pastor Blakes and Lady Blakes! Appreciate you both GREATLY!!

  • @TR-bl8wn
    @TR-bl8wn Před 2 lety +1

    Awe, thank God for you and Lisa and love how you speak of your queen! 🌹Thank you for this message!

  • @corinnebate5181
    @corinnebate5181 Před 2 lety +11

    I'm so impressed with you. Your messages are so profound and accurate. Just perfect for this time frame, a message for required learning for happiness.

  • @lynnmcmillian5137
    @lynnmcmillian5137 Před 3 lety +38

    Life is so Beautiful. I gave my life to Jesus when I was 19 and Ive not regretted that, but I have made some wrong decisions along this journey but I will not allow them to define me!

  • @giselleromo1254
    @giselleromo1254 Před 2 lety +147

    I cannot express with mere words how grateful I am for all that you have taught me to better myself. You are truly my spiritual father and for this I will always give thanks to God. I wish I could have been blessed to have had a father like you to help guide me as a young girl. Better late than never Bishop and I will ensure my daughter is very familiar with all you have taught me in order to put that crown back on my head and straighten it! Love ya and Beautiful Mrs. Lisa Blake’s -2 beautiful souls Helping millions of people in need of the Lord’s guidance

  • @hopemincer1795
    @hopemincer1795 Před 2 lety +2

    This message was phenomenal!!!!

  • @jennifersmith75
    @jennifersmith75 Před 2 lety +2

    I throughly enjoy listening to this man. He speaks the truth.

  • @ajack7122
    @ajack7122 Před 3 lety +44

    I missed it Bishop in my 20's, but God is opening my eyes and healing me. Thank you.

  • @shells6683
    @shells6683 Před 2 lety +14

    I like what you said about "A King waits for A Woman that draws the line." Too many women do not have the self-respect for themselves to enforce this. This is good preaching! Thank you for speaking the truth!

  • @CarnivoreSeventyOne
    @CarnivoreSeventyOne Před 2 lety +2

    Bless you brother for preaching and teaching this. God bless you and your wife. Just ran across your videos. I’m shouting brother. I’ve been married 51 years and am so enjoying your preaching.

  • @mr.beatthamorning
    @mr.beatthamorning Před rokem +3

    This is so on point. I can tell you right now, he is speaking facts. 🙏

  • @anointed2bnatural
    @anointed2bnatural Před 3 lety +46

    Listen you are hitting everything that needs to be said this day and time!! This is a right now message. And I'm so tired of social media and television teaching us how we should be as women. But they are not teaching us how to be Kings and Queens. My husband and I talk about these things all the time. We are that power couple!

  • @childhoodluv
    @childhoodluv Před 3 lety +86

    My reminder is set!.. my mind and ears are OPEN!!!...Lord Jesus help me fully understand the message you've given Bishop to rely.

  • @marjoriemischeaux9337
    @marjoriemischeaux9337 Před 2 lety +3

    Such great wisdom. Thank you for assisting us in being our best version in our role as wives. 🙌🏾💞💜

  • @ElleBeWatchin
    @ElleBeWatchin Před rokem

    I’m so grateful for finding this channel.

  • @Jenavee26
    @Jenavee26 Před 3 lety +67

    It really takes two to tango. Thank you for teaching us women from the perspective of a man, and a godly one at that

  • @nolaclarke253
    @nolaclarke253 Před 3 lety +28

    This is some REAL grown folk conversation.

  • @19lbrown
    @19lbrown Před 2 lety +7

    I Love the way he Loves his wife!! 💝💝Amen!! A King and Queen relationship!! Let the church ⛪ say Amen! Amen! Amen!

  • @gmartin6033
    @gmartin6033 Před 2 lety +8

    This is the first time I have been on your channel and I’m very impressed with the way you explained well. I’m a sixty plus and my mama told me to always respect yourself . I’ve been married to my king for thirty-six years. We are a team and I let him be a great man and share with me our love and be an example for other couples. The children love a good father and mother with great values. You are explaining the biblical words. My husband when we have been in social circles. He would always next his bosses and I would be happy to show him that he has a good wife with morals and respect of him.

  • @sharonwilliams393
    @sharonwilliams393 Před 2 lety +54

    I seriously thank God for allowing him to use you by teaching us how to be Godly women/ Godly wife.. it’s very well needed. Help me Lord!!!

  • @bellamocanaturalsllc
    @bellamocanaturalsllc Před 3 lety +98

    This means no bonnets in public😄 Thank you so much for this Pastor Blakes❤

  • @sylviabarber619
    @sylviabarber619 Před 2 lety +2

    I am a new listener. I appreciate the way you utilized scriptures supporting all you presented. Simplifying aa well as giving illustrations to your audience, well done.
    I look forward to listening to your conversations again.
    Thank you!
    Sylvia

  • @charlenecasoli568
    @charlenecasoli568 Před 2 lety +4

    Exactly you’ve got to be a queen to atract a man with integrity

  • @davinacarrell2427
    @davinacarrell2427 Před 3 lety +38

    My man is fully governed by his integrity. He’s all about his unspoken and sometimes spoken code!

  • @carlalyons2052
    @carlalyons2052 Před 2 lety +56

    Thank you Holy Spirit for putting these teachings in my Path! Our culture old and young needs to hear this.

  • @MelaF-iv4wv
    @MelaF-iv4wv Před 6 měsíci +1

    I love this so much I had to comment again !!!!! This is truth on all levels and both sides. I felt like you weren’t just talking about what the men (Kings) are looking for but what the women (Queens) are looking for too. You touched on everything of value!! This resonated with me so much!!!! A Queen is seeking a King and a common man can not attract her. These characteristics you speak of are 100% on both sides. What a blessing stumbling on this video!!!!

  • @zukiswanhase6289
    @zukiswanhase6289 Před rokem +2

    I'm super blessed to have listened to this teaching. What a great lesson!
    Thank you, Pastor Blakes 🙏

  • @Wealthybaby
    @Wealthybaby Před 2 lety +87

    God bless this man, he’s literally like a internet father for so many including myself. There is such a genuineness and fathers love in his messages. What a blessing to get this for free. Thank you. And continued Blessings to you & your Family💙

  • @tinaberry6466
    @tinaberry6466 Před 3 lety +40

    A common man WOW! Such a clever speaker love this and your compassion and devotion to clarifying all these issues in our world of clowns.

  • @sandrataylor820
    @sandrataylor820 Před 2 lety +2

    This is the first time I am listening to your show, I found it by scanning , it was the best thing that could happen to me.
    Thank you for your teachings, and I have said a few things that you brought up.
    Thanks again and I will be watching you.
    Peace, Faith, Love and Blessings.

  • @dust2dust976
    @dust2dust976 Před 2 lety +1

    LETS GO 👑!!!!!! ThAnk You for your Wisdom and your Knowledge Pastor. Bless your soul

  • @angeliquechronicles3579
    @angeliquechronicles3579 Před 3 lety +53

    Discerning how woman carries herself it’s plus when she has wisdom like Proverbs 31 wise woman.

  • @kuaquitaanderson5223
    @kuaquitaanderson5223 Před 3 lety +26

    If GOD loves me for who I am, any man he has for me also will.

    • @cadyg2531
      @cadyg2531 Před 3 lety +2

      Amen!

    • @royalisrael7475
      @royalisrael7475 Před 3 lety +3

      That is true but remember there is the spiritual side also, the devil also can send wolf in sheep clothing that appears to be from TMH God and if we his children do not test the spirit of that man first we sometimes can get blindsided.

  • @adelaidelee9756
    @adelaidelee9756 Před 2 lety +1

    SIMPLY WONDERFUL. Well versed, direct and to the point. 😊

  • @belindaholland848
    @belindaholland848 Před 2 lety +2

    OH my God, absolute exquisite message. Thanks for giving a message to those who are spiritually asleep.

  • @dennajohnson3177
    @dennajohnson3177 Před 3 lety +18

    “ Maybe you’re not supposed to be on this Bentley lot.. Move on to Ford, or Chevy” I love it! PREACH!!! PREACH!! Absolutely Pastor Blakes.

  • @ritadoran5039
    @ritadoran5039 Před 3 lety +64

    I wish more men trying to figure females out and how they feel and need to be treated WOULD watch
    These videos and read your books
    Boom problem solved 💯💯💯

  • @royaenayati5873
    @royaenayati5873 Před 2 lety +1

    Bravo, great advice!
    If we don’t respect ourselves, then no one will!

  • @tempiedemps5179
    @tempiedemps5179 Před 2 lety +2

    Perfect commentary, Thank you