HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR SOUL MATE by RC BLAKES

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  • In this session we revisit the idea of SOUL MATES. I talk about how one may attract her/his soul mate.
    In this discussion I deal with the reality that a real RELATIONSHIP will require much more than sexual attraction.
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  • @DunstanW
    @DunstanW Před 3 lety +969

    Today's points 📝 to work on self or to confirm you're on the right track...
    Thank you Bishop...
    #1- Evaluating your presets attractions
    #2- You have to become what you desire
    #3 -You got to be available
    #4 - Marry your purpose
    #5 - You've got to Trust God completely
    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @kasand01
      @kasand01 Před 3 lety +14

      Thank you for the highlights!

    • @divinelychosen5554
      @divinelychosen5554 Před 3 lety +5

      Thanks so much for the key points

    • @DunstanW
      @DunstanW Před 3 lety +1

      @Kasand01 and @ChynaAjayi-khiran... You are both welcome🙏🏾

    • @divinelychosen5554
      @divinelychosen5554 Před 3 lety +12

      @@DunstanW
      RC Blakes is such an awesome teacher. Learnt alot from him in the last 2 years.

    • @DunstanW
      @DunstanW Před 3 lety +2

      Chyna Ajayi-khiran Ohhh I know, truly a Blessings this side of heaven 🙏🏾 and so is Bishop Samuel R Blake's... The Blessing Brothers 🙌🏾

  • @kimberlyhill948
    @kimberlyhill948 Před 3 lety +1016

    “Hard to attract a soul mate when you’re still attracted to a soul tie”- facts!

  • @mnorwo2
    @mnorwo2 Před 3 lety +474

    "Soul mates make you big. Soul ties make you small"! R.C Blakes

    • @apriljohnson7772
      @apriljohnson7772 Před 3 lety +1

      Love this quote

    • @colemacedo-phillips5768
      @colemacedo-phillips5768 Před 3 lety +3

      You sure make a great deal of sense R. C. Blake's! Thanks!

    • @kmonette
      @kmonette Před 3 lety +10

      And soul mates draw us closer to God while soul ties draw us away from God.

    • @sofianyoni-7209
      @sofianyoni-7209 Před 3 lety +1

      Thats deep!!!

    • @rosinamhlambi5212
      @rosinamhlambi5212 Před 3 lety +1

      Good morning Pastor Blake's , thank you very much for the empowerment I received from to since last year May 2020 , my husband passed on 2018 and I asked God to help me as I was alone , and was not empowered how to deal with the high libido I had as my husband was sick for a long time , o think God s not you to me through You tube , since then I become blessed and empowered by you through our Alsmighty , thanks a lot , Go d bless you

  • @BeautifulMorning-dl6nl
    @BeautifulMorning-dl6nl Před 3 lety +284

    Right. People think you are about to sit up and play games with them I WILL NOT. I will wait on my soul mate before I entertain these clowns.

  • @jenniferreedcoachjrose4301
    @jenniferreedcoachjrose4301 Před 3 lety +50

    You don’t know who fits into your life until you find your purpose 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾‼️

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 Před 3 lety +668

    Meet the requirements of your requirements, do the work, dont focus on externals, dont be thirsty, let God write your love story, be prepared for God to make the introduction. Thanks Papa. Another amazing one.

    • @buttereffect3798
      @buttereffect3798 Před 3 lety

      Oh so sweet your right right though.

    • @blondiek35
      @blondiek35 Před 3 lety +1

    • @ladyt3701
      @ladyt3701 Před 3 lety +2

      Love your bullet points

    • @dortheamcnulty6465
      @dortheamcnulty6465 Před 2 lety +3

      Definately he knows what he is talking about. Ain’t enough men in the World. Piling soul ties on top of soul ties. He is telling the truth.

    • @theresadunn7279
      @theresadunn7279 Před 2 lety +4

      Just started watching your channel and I'm loving all your messages. Thank you God.

  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Před 3 lety +846

    I DEFINITELY BELIEVE IN SOUL MATES. However, I don’t necessarily subscribe to the idea of God doing all the work. I believe that we must attract our soul mate, primarily through becoming what we desire. Just my thoughts. What do you think?

    • @ritaf2366
      @ritaf2366 Před 3 lety +42

      I just got to knowing about you and your teachings a few weeks ago and I don't wanna keep wondering why it didn't happen several years back. Rather I remain extremely thankful to God that He led me to your teachings even now..I feel like the best season of my life has just started. Thank you very much for availing yourself for God to use in helping women like us. About attracting our soulmate...having followed your teachings so far, I believe we have great work to do on ourselves, while we trust God to bring our soulmate our way. So while we work on the weak areas in our lives as God reveals to us and as He empowers us to, we are working with Him to attract our soul mate.

    • @pooh4025
      @pooh4025 Před 3 lety +6

      I agree Pastor.

    • @letsbefruitful5457
      @letsbefruitful5457 Před 3 lety +30

      I totally agree one thing I have learned from watching your channel is self love and alone time , so you can attract righteousness in your life “soulmate”!

    • @idb6673
      @idb6673 Před 3 lety +10

      @RCBlakes, Jr I agree. I once had a friend, who, when describing the 'MAN' she desired, said... "He has to be educated (some type of degree), he must have a car, live on his OWN, speak well, definitely- has a great job, or his own business, nice looking (a few more adjectives... Or accolades... I can't recollect).
      My Response (other than being exhausted by her 'desires')... I said, "Whelp! THAT does it for The Law, Prophets, Apostles... & ...Our LORD & Saviour. JESUS 'walked' or rode a donkey, And, when HE wasn't inViting HIMself onto someone's boat, He stayed with his parents. If Isaiah 55 is an accurate description, HE was NOT to be 'desired'. Moses was a thief & a liar (He told THE LORD that he didn't speak well. He knew varied languages!!); Peter cursed, and cut off folk's ears; Paul... Well, too much to say about him. John lived in the wilderness. Thomas doubted; Timothy was timid; Paul constantly said, "Stir up the gift!" Guess, Only Luke, the Doctor & James & John, 'Sons of Thunder' (ambitions, they (or their Mom were) fit. But, the kicker- I said, "You desire these 'traits'; Yet, You possess none of them. Geez!
      Let us become that or WHO we seek... Or, desire.
      There's That. Now, I'm HERE for it! 🗒️ ✍🏽 ✔
      🌸Blessings Pastor & Sis` Lisa for sharing your "Sacrificial Life & Love"
      🙏🏾✝️ 🛐 🙇🏾

    • @pooh4025
      @pooh4025 Před 3 lety +4

      @@idb6673 wow!!

  • @exoticbarbie1000
    @exoticbarbie1000 Před 2 lety +53

    This really spoke to my heart. I told God I can’t endure anymore heartache so I decided to marry Jesus. I’m solely focused on my purpose and not my pain anymore. I went back to school to further my career in medicine and also my daughter and making sure I model a good image for her so she will grow up and be a virtuous woman. I trust God completely. Thank you for this message ❤️

    • @takyrica
      @takyrica Před 2 lety +4

      Beautiful ❤️ trusting God sounds simple but it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done. And let me tell you, it is beautiful.

    • @rimakaram1313
      @rimakaram1313 Před rokem +1

      BLESS YOU AM PROUD OF YOU MY SISTER

  • @kasand01
    @kasand01 Před 3 lety +212

    Wives Wait! Analyze & Prioritizes. Girlfriends go for anything! What a Word! Thank You Pastor I got to share this with my Queen friends!

  • @teopistorsind9874
    @teopistorsind9874 Před 3 lety +117

    "Untill you evaluate what you are attracted to, you are not gonna get there" Preach pastor preach!

  • @estherngongi3977
    @estherngongi3977 Před 3 lety +103

    Has to match your energy, your vibe, your mental level, your purposes align some how, understands your emotions, your thought process, they don't try to change your essence and speaks life into your life... You'll never find a soulmate if the exterior package is what gets you ... Be the one for you and that soul mate should match you... Stay blessed y'all 🌹🌹🌹

  • @trinaj.2427
    @trinaj.2427 Před 3 lety +269

    Pastor Blake’s words are full of truth. One must make room.
    Once I freed myself from a toxic relationships,my king showed up! My sisters do the work and become available. Praise God!

    • @kirk1007
      @kirk1007 Před 3 lety +8

      That is very encouraging.

    • @ninahm6267
      @ninahm6267 Před 3 lety +4

      I'm a queen now, common my king 🥰

    • @ikrambaouchouch9511
      @ikrambaouchouch9511 Před 3 lety +10

      It's been two years since i let go of a soul tie with a narcisst. Ive done all the work on myself spiritually and financially and im now ready to meet my soul mate but sometimes i feel discouraged when I put myself in the dating scene and i find all these clowns , then i go back to RC blakes videos to remind myself that the journey to my soulmate can be hard but it's worth it at the end. I hope i meet him in this life time 🙏💕
      Thank you for the encouragement and making me believe that mine is out there making his way to me ❤

    • @trinaj.2427
      @trinaj.2427 Před 3 lety +7

      @@ikrambaouchouch9511
      Stay encouraged!!
      God has showed up and showed out; not just in my life but in my daughters lives.
      My King was just the icing on the cake.
      When I decided to put Him first and live for Him.
      He turned the ashes of my life to beauty!
      Jesus did it for me and I am confident He can do it for you!One step at a time my sister and one prayer at a time!
      God bless you!❤️

    • @ashleymoffettnzeribe9353
      @ashleymoffettnzeribe9353 Před 2 lety +7

      Mine came too and now we are engaged to be married. Jesus works!

  • @pooh4025
    @pooh4025 Před 3 lety +271

    He always has the best messages

    • @Priesthood275
      @Priesthood275 Před 3 lety +5

      yknow! He is a blessing. Am learning alot i wish i knew 10yrs ago

    • @youx457
      @youx457 Před 2 lety +1

      Most Women Are Not Going To Get A Legal Marriage Contract This Brother Quoting Biblical Christian Text Is Very Smooth Authoriative Sounding But Can't Help These Women He Has No Current Contextual Message For A Time At This Hour With These Mordern Day Draconian Marriage Laws That Are Not Any Good For Men He Is Preaching From A Judgemental Fire & Brimstone Fear Perspective . Many Of These Women Will Never Be Married & They Should Still Live Happy Fufilled Lives . These Marriage Family Court Laws Are Designed To Extract Resources From Men . Quoting Scriptures From A Book Printed In A Book Printed In A White Male Run Warehouse Mean Nothing in This System of Institutional Marriage License State/Government Pair-Bonding Validation Contruct . Some Men/Real Good Men Are Just Not Doing It ... The Preacher Makes Good Points But Is Not Progressive & It Makes Delusional Women Feel Unworthy ... Because Men Are Not Entering These Marriage Contracts .... His Message Is For Women Most Of Whom Are
      Fantasy Hard-Core Jesus Gonna Send Me A Man After I Hit The Wall Wishful Thinking Types.

  • @ozlemeda2852
    @ozlemeda2852 Před 2 lety +14

    Pastor Blakes, I am Muslim and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. You showed me the difference between soul mate and soul tie. We believe in the same God but i needed to hear this. Thanks so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @sscott504
    @sscott504 Před 3 lety +211

    If grown people still have a "type", I would encourage them to evaluate their maturity level

  • @Ash2beauty
    @Ash2beauty Před 3 lety +158

    I can say that i just met and have been spending time with the man of God that I believe is my soulmate . We both agree that we’ve never had moments as enjoyable as what we have. I was not looking but waiting for God to send a mate. God had me prepare for him by losing 20 lbs, wking on my mindset, strengthening me spiritually, changing my wardrobe and ridding myself of any soul ties. He will prepare you before he blesses you. Great job Pastor. 🙏🏾

    • @lindaharris3432
      @lindaharris3432 Před 3 lety +8

      Ashes 2 Beauty : I'm so happy for you , Make sure he love God as much as you do . Be bless 🙏🙏🙏💝 🙂💞💘💕

    • @msharic85
      @msharic85 Před 3 lety +1

      How did u get rid of the soul ties?

    • @deewils381
      @deewils381 Před 3 lety +1

      Amen

    • @TracyTranquility
      @TracyTranquility Před rokem

      Beautiful sis

    • @Summer-tk8yk
      @Summer-tk8yk Před rokem

      Blessings for you ❤

  • @carolynjaynes36
    @carolynjaynes36 Před 3 lety +38

    Married to my purpose, I’ve lived my dreams while I wait for God to bring my king. Trusting God in all things.

  • @coriwilliams1983
    @coriwilliams1983 Před 3 lety +95

    Psalm 37:4-5 "Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart.Commit everything you do to the LORD. Trust him, and he will help you. Reread🌹🌿 This a few times🌿🌹
    Your soulmate will be your equal. Marry your Purpose 😊 Stop wasting your time on these clowns in crowns 🤣🤣(Preach Pastor RC Blakes Jr)

  • @mofimTV
    @mofimTV Před 2 lety +20

    Soulmate gets u mentally
    Aligns with your desires in life
    Ministers to u emotionally
    Knows how to build u up emotionally
    Makes u larger
    Ushers God's presence in your life

  • @lashundawashington3321
    @lashundawashington3321 Před 2 lety +7

    Though I've been single for 10 yrs, this is EXACTLY how I think and feel. Many ppl try to tell me I should put myself out there but I refuse. I work on me daily and trust GOD for all things!

  • @thuladei5552
    @thuladei5552 Před 3 lety +290

    Hello Pastor, I have to tell you I never imagined I would find a father figure this way, but I am so glad. Your videos feel more like conversations, and I go back to them when I need a reminder on a lesson. Thank you for sharing your teachings with such genuine love for us ladies who did not have that before.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Před 3 lety +16

      Whendy Kin Thank you❤️😊🙏🏽

    • @thuladei5552
      @thuladei5552 Před 3 lety +5

      RC Blakes, Jr Bless you pastor

    • @ShawntaE99
      @ShawntaE99 Před 3 lety +9

      At Whendy Kin I 💯 Percent agree with you. I feel Pastor is a true definition of a spiritual father. Which was something I never had growing up, my own father having these conversations with me. The depth of his conversations are mind blowing. I’m honestly thankful I found Pastor on CZcams. 🙌🏾

    • @SheilaTrueLove
      @SheilaTrueLove Před 3 lety +1

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    • @bumptv2028
      @bumptv2028 Před 3 lety +1

      So true, sis!

  • @divinelychosen5554
    @divinelychosen5554 Před 3 lety +44

    "We are attracted to everything we are getting". Wow!

  • @MySideHustleStash
    @MySideHustleStash Před 3 lety +76

    Wives wait...😇 I needed that.

  • @LeslieMBates
    @LeslieMBates Před 3 lety +16

    I begged and begged for my to husband to "speak INTO me"...Im over it now. I've learned to keep pushing and to encourage MYSELF. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @mnorwo2
    @mnorwo2 Před 3 lety +115

    "Self-actualization is the KEY to what you DESERVE"!

    • @tanikanakeyalewis4202
      @tanikanakeyalewis4202 Před 3 lety +1

      You are Born Actualized, until You're required to learn to become Independently, and Self-Sufficiently Actualized.
      At Age Eighteen, how many Years does that Process require?

  • @kayrahmaansheppard8377
    @kayrahmaansheppard8377 Před rokem +24

    Yes sir. Listened to this message when you first posted and corrected myself. I’m happy to say I’m getting married to my king on the 20th. Praise God 🙏🏽❤️

    • @TracyTranquility
      @TracyTranquility Před rokem +1

      Beautiful sis. Congrats 👏

    • @Ireb100
      @Ireb100 Před rokem +1

      Congs

    • @trineshacatrell
      @trineshacatrell Před 11 měsíci +2

      Amen. That is so excellent. I pray that you both increase and allow God to guide you both through your journey never forgetting what God has done and continues to do in your lives.

  • @elainepjones2478
    @elainepjones2478 Před 3 lety +142

    This was right on time! Thank you sir! I'm over 50 and I have decided not to compromise or settle. I've determined that God will bring the right Man at the right Time! I just published my first ebook called Spark Fire to Your Day. Im having it printed in paperback. Ive done all this since listening to your for the past 4 months!
    Due to your advice I also listen to Tony Gaskins! I'm learning, growing and developing! God Bless you!!! Thank you!

    • @bumptv2028
      @bumptv2028 Před 3 lety +6

      Congratulations, Sis!

    • @Talkwithtina808
      @Talkwithtina808 Před 3 lety +4

      Congratulations

    • @naturallenatty8199
      @naturallenatty8199 Před 3 lety +6

      Stephens speaks is amazing as well ♥️

    • @alishadennis7077
      @alishadennis7077 Před 2 lety +2

      You rock 👑😍👏👏 sister & you look so lovely.
      I watch RC Blake & Tony Gaskins who are both called, guided & anointed by God 🙏💗 my Abba father to teach & motivate with knowledge & wisdom from the Bible & the
      Moving of the holy spirit to bless & minister to women & People for holy, blessed victory in our lives to God's 🙏💗 true glory!!!!!!
      Our choices & strength, with true queenship 👑😍👑😍 operating in our lives is very, very important to activate for our own well being that God's 🙏 💕 love wants for his ladies, girls & people, especially in - during these days & times that are highly challenging for us.
      These 2 Christian men are like big hugs, also correction with direction & love 💖💕😘💗👑 that we needed from God 🙏 . It especially dose bless & assist guide & teach girls & women who will hear & submit to knowing God 🙏💗👑🙏 as Lord & our savior. As our King 👑❤️ & Lord 🙏💗 God 🙏 wants even better for us than we can want for our selves, if we learn to believe, learn, get ready & then recieve in our lives.
      I 🤔 think is special for us women who have been mislead & told to except small, lower & less in life. That's more often said or implied to females if color in this 🌎 world.
      We are being told the truth, as Gods 🙏 word & his greatest , awesome 😎🆒😁 loving, strong 🦉 purposeful futures & lives for us period amen!!!!!!💕😘💕 Thank you Lord for your grace, power mercy & loving kindness for us by sending your male servants to minister to us now!!!!!
      I pray God 💗🙏 🙏💗 always keeps blessing these brothers & teachers & their families highly & greatly, in Jesus blessed name, Amen !!!!!!!
      Also Lord 🙏💗👑🙏 bless the ladies, girls & people who follow your guidance through holy ministry here. With great results & holy blessings they give honor & thanksgiving too you for Lord. I pray this in Jesus name, amen!!!!!!

    • @janicewoods8399
      @janicewoods8399 Před 2 lety +12

      I agree with you Elaine…..I was 50yr old when I met my husband I am 60 now and I can truly say he is my soulmate keep waiting for your soulmate no matter what age you are….he will show up

  • @lashawnames9066
    @lashawnames9066 Před 3 lety +120

    "Are you a nickle searching for a dime?" Wow!

  • @ilissawalker7051
    @ilissawalker7051 Před 3 lety +190

    This is just what I need to hear. Straight facts from my CZcams father. In the past 7 months he has really helped me stay on track.

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Před 3 lety +12

      😊🙏🏽♥️

    • @s.crockett5457
      @s.crockett5457 Před 3 lety +4

      Praise God. What a blessing

    • @kimberlyl.mccauley8501
      @kimberlyl.mccauley8501 Před 3 lety +3

      Me too! Blessings from God!❤

    • @josannebruce3096
      @josannebruce3096 Před 3 lety

      CZcams father lol 😥

    • @ilissawalker7051
      @ilissawalker7051 Před 3 lety +5

      @@josannebruce3096 lets be real.. People have have parents but you should understand one parent might have been absent their whole life. So many people come from broken homes ,So many people need to get a proper understanding from and RC Blake's Jr.. Is my positive person a fresh breath of air & yes my CZcams Dad.. find something good to do with your time.. Have a blessed day..

  • @jacquelineharris8850
    @jacquelineharris8850 Před 3 lety +36

    Marry your purpose 🙌🏽

  • @free2bmecoaching
    @free2bmecoaching Před 2 lety +3

    "Marry Your Purpose!" That's the key to a healthy and exciting relationship! "I'll wait, while becoming what I desire!!"

  • @deeb8060
    @deeb8060 Před rokem +3

    Well I'm 33 never had a real committed relationship , never had a situationship, always working towards my relationship with Jesus. Still waiting on the man God has for me. I know that I'm suppose to be protected , loved and to be provided for. I ain't gonna let nobody tell me my clock is ticking to jump into the wrong relationship.

  • @normaortiz216
    @normaortiz216 Před 3 lety +99

    We need to heal first from the past and work on ourselves and our relationship with God! Thank You Pastor!

  • @ThePsimmons3821
    @ThePsimmons3821 Před 3 lety +8

    Here I am 5 months later....And right on time for me!! I hear you Father God!!! Move Me Out The Way!!! Less of Me & More Of You!!! You are making it plan and I hear you loud and clear!!! Trusting You God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾45 and working on my mindset and breaking soul ties In Jesus Name 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @pussywillow2957
    @pussywillow2957 Před 3 lety +18

    “Are you a nickel, praying for a dime-moment of silence please~Wooooow🤯

  • @mjbvd2
    @mjbvd2 Před 3 lety +30

    You couldn't have been my father but your advices feel like i get them from the father i never had in my upbringing. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Im becoming another person through your advices and video's. You and your beautiful wife change lives. ♥️

  • @SuccessBug
    @SuccessBug Před 3 lety +54

    👀👀 I'm taking detailed notes on this one. 🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️🤸🏿‍♀️😆

    • @angelgatlin9285
      @angelgatlin9285 Před 3 lety

      All the note taking means nothing when you meet your soul mate you are going to know it! I knew when I met my soul mate this was the man God made for me and it took 10 years before we we went on our first date.

    • @SuccessBug
      @SuccessBug Před 3 lety +1

      @@angelgatlin9285 Good for you. I'm still taking notes anyway 📝😌✍🏾💅🏾

    • @daishanewsomednp6956
      @daishanewsomednp6956 Před 3 lety +1

      @@SuccessBug same here sister

  • @jamie1425
    @jamie1425 Před 3 lety +59

    Become what you want. Absolute facts.🙌

  • @akaSuni
    @akaSuni Před 3 lety +53

    I've healed, done the work, have no soul ties, changed the type I'm attracted to. But I feel like this is more a problem of today's society and the lack of quality men. Narcissists, Players and grown boys are all over, all though I'm not saying there are no good men out there, but actually finding one is searching for that one special sand corn in the desert.

    • @ribaker822
      @ribaker822 Před 3 lety +42

      We need people to help shape the men. Soooo much focus on mentoring women that women are over-ready. MEN FOLK NEED AS MUCH MENTORING IF NOT MORE.

    • @akaSuni
      @akaSuni Před 3 lety +7

      @@ribaker822
      AMEN TO THAT!!!!!

    • @LV2308gmail
      @LV2308gmail Před 3 lety +10

      Like looking, or yet waiting for a diamond, in a world full of cubic zirconias 😂😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @minimalassembly7893
      @minimalassembly7893 Před 3 lety +16

      I agree. I feel like this video is speaking to a specific type of broken woman who is not ready for marriage. There are good, well-adjusted, healed and marriage-ready women out there, some who have never been in relationships, some who are even Virgins, who are single as heck!!
      How does he respond to those women and what have they done wrong?
      A few things that I am finding helpful.
      1. Stop hunting, the man will be introduced to you. You don’t need to search for him. Men value what they find, not what finds them.
      2. That said, let your friends, family, co-workers, former classmates, acquaintances, hairdresser and even the mailman know that you are looking for a single, Christian man. Treat it like a job where the more staff you employ to help, the more efficient you will be.
      3. Watch the CZcams video,
      “The Miseducation of the Christian Single Woman,” by Godzdesign. She used to be single then got married last year. She and her friend break down the myth that Christian single women (particularly Black women) have bought into that keeps them single into their 40’s. Meanwhile, other women are getting married left and right. She was introduced to her husband through married friends.
      4. Pray for revelation from God about the things you should know about your future husband, future marriage and also if you need to fast. Sometimes the enemy blocks kingdom marriages because they will advance God’s work. Prayer is your first line of defense even before you start letting people know that you are looking.
      I pray that God will give you the revelation that you seek about your husband and why He is making you wait in this season. Be blessed.

    • @ninobk196
      @ninobk196 Před 3 lety +3

      Ri Baker teachings of Pastor Blake geared specifically to men. I would pray and support that!

  • @aleeshamucharwa9127
    @aleeshamucharwa9127 Před 3 lety +15

    God can make a way out of no way 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️

  • @indyTyson
    @indyTyson Před 3 lety +102

    Cant wait for this word from the man that inspired me to give my life to Christ and then my whole world changed for the better! Glory to God & God bless you pastor Blakes, you are my spiritual dad! ❤

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Před 3 lety +13

      Wow! This is too much.❤️😊🙏🏽 I am so honored

    • @indyTyson
      @indyTyson Před 3 lety +5

      @@RCBlakesJr. I will send you an email just to let you know how you have helped me and will be forever grateful. 🙏🏾

    • @gailtshehla5368
      @gailtshehla5368 Před 3 lety +2

      @@RCBlakesJr.
      Thank you so much Ps Blakes. Gail from South Africa.
      Your teachings and coaching truly helped me through my difficult time, where I was battling with self forgiveness and breaking away from toxic relationships.
      I've decided to WAIT UPON THE LORD, and MARRY MY PURPOSE inorder for me to ATTRACT my SOUL MATE.
      THANK YOU SO MUCH PASTOR BLAKES

    • @ARighteousLife
      @ARighteousLife Před 2 lety +2

      Amen 🙌🏾 He inspired me also to re-dedicate my life completely to Christ. ❤

  • @jamie1425
    @jamie1425 Před 3 lety +65

    Are you your best version? Still working🌹.

    • @DanaeLaurenTolbert1
      @DanaeLaurenTolbert1 Před 3 lety +6

      Same sis. Definitely improved a great deal. But God is still doing construction.

  • @africanwoman5571
    @africanwoman5571 Před 3 lety +17

    Woow! This is beautiful
    Kings and QUEENs.
    #Put GOD first in everything
    #Become what you desire.
    #selfEvaluation
    #purpose
    #Be available.

  • @deonsinclair9598
    @deonsinclair9598 Před 2 lety +10

    Let me confess I'm a more positive person right now after listening this video..thanks a million..
    Thank You Jehovah God for this powerful msg through Your Servant..

  • @dominiquejonte268
    @dominiquejonte268 Před 2 lety +9

    Your Wife and children are blessed to have you in their life!! I feel blessed to have found you and thank God for placing you in my life!!

  • @amandadavis5246
    @amandadavis5246 Před 3 lety +7

    My clock can run out before I soul tie again to the wrong man. God is my father. He knows the plans he has for me

    • @tallartist
      @tallartist Před 3 lety

      I let my biological clock run out. I regret it terribly. I should have just settled and at least had a child.

    • @amandadavis5246
      @amandadavis5246 Před 3 lety

      @@tallartist I've got two kids and have a third up for adoption because of the narcissistic ways he became and refused to step up even dogging my name

  • @heavenlyheartgirl1995
    @heavenlyheartgirl1995 Před 3 lety +60

    Soul ties with clowns 😂 That's a good one.

    • @clairewolf6013
      @clairewolf6013 Před 3 lety

      Have a soul tie to a literal clown. I found him so sweet for dressing up as one and going to nurseries of elderly people and alleviating their loneliness. Wasn't my soul mate, but a phenomenal person. I wish clowns wouldn't be used as negative metaphor in that sense so often...

    • @violetselene244
      @violetselene244 Před 3 lety

      @@clairewolf6013 I think it's just meant to mean a foolish, silly person, someone not to take seriously. And I feel like clowns purposely portray that type of personality for laughter.

    • @jackiemuthoni7302
      @jackiemuthoni7302 Před 2 lety

      😀😀😀😀

  • @laurai2599
    @laurai2599 Před 3 lety +17

    I love the term “situationships”... very accurate.

  • @paulinemontgomery971
    @paulinemontgomery971 Před 3 lety +35

    This is definitely some “get right “ for me, it hurts but is gonna help me to grow into the woman of God I’m called to be with grace. Thank you so much.

  • @TUFTSLOVE
    @TUFTSLOVE Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you Bishop. Many things that you have said confirm what I already knew but haven't put into practice. I'm 65 years old I intend to get married again for the second time but this time around I'ma rely on God and use the wisdom that he instilled in me

  • @nadiacharles8091
    @nadiacharles8091 Před 3 lety +19

    This just took my breath away. I’ve been doing so much work to work on my childish attractions. This video just reminded me all the work I’m doing is for the betterment of self, being closer to God and attracting my soulmate.
    Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @angelgatlin9285
      @angelgatlin9285 Před 3 lety +3

      It's nothing you can do to attract your soulmate when you meet him you will know. It is God timing when you two will become one. I was drinking and partying when I met my soulmate I knew it but God didn't allow us to be together until 10 years later it.

  • @annwamuyu8560
    @annwamuyu8560 Před rokem +3

    Waoh I thank God I am listening to this after my therapy sessions. Been in toxic relationships until I enrolled for therapy and I am really enjoying the new me. I feel a lot of difference and too fit for marriage than ever before. Am 30, Kenyan and trusting God for a mate soooon.... indeed Jesus is Lord!!!
    Thanks Blakes you're so resourceful

  • @rhccit6032
    @rhccit6032 Před 3 lety +13

    Wow right on time, I'm in the process of breaking a soul tie. I asked God for a husband out of desperation before I began that 5 year soul tie journey. This discussion made me realize I need to focus on my God given purpose first. Thanks again pops. God bless u and ur family.

  • @bereniceocampo8601
    @bereniceocampo8601 Před 3 lety +28

    Hola pastor Blakes looking farward to lisend your wisdom 😊 the papa i never had. I pray 4 months ago to God to have some terrenal father guidance then i found your chanel. Answered prayer 😃

  • @chandysvlog715
    @chandysvlog715 Před 3 lety +9

    Hoping and believing that I can find my soul mate in the future . I know he will give me the right guy for me . 🙏

  • @thompsonthompson5581
    @thompsonthompson5581 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you for this ministry. I’m not looking. 62 Years young. Been there and done that. Been in these streets when I was younger. It’s too much work. I’m content.

  • @ryleyray9404
    @ryleyray9404 Před 3 lety +35

    Yay I love listening and it's helped me a lot through my first heartbreak but I've learned how to better myself and no longer am in love with a narcissistic butt.
    Truly has been a milestone finding this channel for me

  • @leratomaithufichosenbyyaweh

    I am so calm after hearing this word! Thank you, Pastor RC Blakes. Be Blessed

  • @anna-laurahocker5570
    @anna-laurahocker5570 Před 3 lety +5

    Every time this pastor opens his mouth to speak, I learn something. RC Blakes, Jr. is a BLESSING! Don't miss out. Give him and his take on the Scriptures a close listen.

  • @erikagaleana9340
    @erikagaleana9340 Před rokem +5

    Wow. Very powerful message!!! It all makes sense...how can we expect a 'great' partner if we have not worked on ourselves?? For the last few months I have been working on all aspects in my life...I want to level up & be ready to meet that soulmate once I feel ready!!! It is a process. Thank you for the reminder & for all the knowledge you share.....You are a blessing!

  • @jackiejackson2859
    @jackiejackson2859 Před 3 lety +19

    you have a smile., that makes me smile back when im feeling, sad.

  • @tiffanymoody1208
    @tiffanymoody1208 Před 2 lety +4

    I thank God for putting this man in my life he's speaking nothing but the truth I'm on a spiritual journey and God is showing me the way he wants me to be.

  • @kasand01
    @kasand01 Před 3 lety +6

    Maximizing my Excellence! Becoming my Best Version by God’s Design!
    Spiritually
    Emotionally
    Mentally
    Financially
    Physically

  • @Ms.Haleyy
    @Ms.Haleyy Před 3 lety +8

    Pastor SR Blakes, I’m glad you mentioned Brother Tony Gaskins!
    NHM & him are the channels I watch on a regular basis. I see you two have a similar mission. Let’s get together and really help people! God is so amazing! 😍
    PS: for anyone reading: No one pays me or puts me on in either direction 😊

    • @GeiaCarterPR
      @GeiaCarterPR Před 3 lety

      What does NHM stand for? Thx in advance.

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 Před 3 lety +32

    I have given up, I realise my crown is not just any crown, so that person would need to have certain criteria as a man ,if I don’t see it and it could be the simplest things I would lose interest , it’s not all about material things, I must fulfill myself , but he better fulfill me to, now I smile looks like singledom beckons ,however I will tune in. Set reminder
    R. Blakes bless

    • @blackblack697
      @blackblack697 Před 3 lety +1

      I gave up all together too many games too many steps Im tired of Step 1 Step 2 Step 3 all the lying cheating manipulating its as of God has destined for me to be alone all the godly men are taken or either dont want to be married

  • @chandlert1
    @chandlert1 Před 3 lety +9

    Become what you desire!

  • @grandmak9013
    @grandmak9013 Před 3 lety +7

    This kind of teaching need to be televised.🙏💕

  • @32HUNNYB32
    @32HUNNYB32 Před 2 lety +1

    That part "be available" hits different! Thank you!

  • @ms.a806
    @ms.a806 Před 3 lety +6

    Thank you pastor. I want the real thing and I’m believing God. I had to pray for God to help me to resist the temptation to get back on the dating sites, which never worked for me in the past.

  • @gabihicks1405
    @gabihicks1405 Před 3 lety +22

    Yesss 👏🏾I can’t wait because I know Pastor Blakes bout to teach us something gudd!🙌🏾🤩

  • @lennethsuzanneboucher2880

    Its important to have God first in your life and everything else will fall into place 🙌🙏

  • @leratoshawane8920
    @leratoshawane8920 Před 3 lety +6

    This had me in tears five minutes into the video. Thank you for this. Just what I needed to hear

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you for the wise words. I’m waiting patently for our lord to bring me my future husband. I am no longer seeking him. Amen. 🙏🏻❤️🌟💫✨

  • @gwendolynhall2321
    @gwendolynhall2321 Před 3 lety +7

    This was a great word. Everything you said is the absolute truth! Keep going!

  • @toptierbaddies
    @toptierbaddies Před 3 lety +6

    Broke down into tears 😭 🙏🏽

  • @kimmieann316
    @kimmieann316 Před 3 lety +5

    I have been out of work last few days and I have been binge watching all your videos . You are really making a difference in my life with your messages. I am going to continue to work on self and wait on God.

  • @timdand
    @timdand Před 3 lety +7

    🥺Just fills me up. Bishop your preaching has been such a blessing to my life. May God continue to bless you and your family 🙏🏾❤Thank you

  • @winnienm
    @winnienm Před 3 lety +5

    I've been doing it all wrong. Back to square one. Thank you

  • @MJCreative-Bleu96
    @MJCreative-Bleu96 Před 3 lety +1

    What a beautiful and truthful message! Thank you so much for connecting the dots for soulmate and marrying my purpose first and for all 5 Soulmate guidance lines. Amen!

  • @sibylgale5208
    @sibylgale5208 Před 3 lety +6

    This was an on time talk for my life. Seems like God always comes through for me with one of them when I need to hear from him. Thank you, Pastor Blakes

  • @msnismith
    @msnismith Před 3 lety +22

    Thank you Pastor R.C Blakes...I took rigorous notes that I am going to apply in my life. I am doing my due diligence to master my purpose and attract my soul mate. Thank you for your beautiful words of wisdom. ❤

    • @OpulentAristocrat
      @OpulentAristocrat Před 3 lety +2

      Me tooooo!

    • @msnismith
      @msnismith Před 3 lety +1

      @@OpulentAristocrat Your hard work will pay off!❤

    • @rashawntaylor4316
      @rashawntaylor4316 Před 2 lety +2

      Good morning real good man will sacrifice for you too make you happy! Also ask what ‘s you need help with, what ‘s your future goals ! A real good man will send you roses , help with the bills , make should you have gas in your car , car repairs , has God in his life ! Communications is the key too everything n trust !

  • @kimberlybell8952
    @kimberlybell8952 Před 3 lety +21

    This will be my first live. Pastor Blake's has blessed me so. I'm super excited for the word tonight 😊

  • @pmack6977
    @pmack6977 Před 2 lety +1

    That prayer at the end blessed me tremendously!!! God bless you and your lovely wife, family and ministry!!! 🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽

  • @LifeCoachLi
    @LifeCoachLi Před 3 lety +4

    This message was an on time Word Pastor, I’m truly grateful to have your honesty and commitment to see us, as Gods daughters, living and loving better. 🙏🏽 I receive your prayer, divine connections that’ll enhance the lives of singles in waiting be our portion.

  • @Tcwillie
    @Tcwillie Před 3 lety +10

    Awesome, I’ve been listening to you for a few months Sir’ and I even shared many of your teachings with my two daughters and my friends, but this one particular video was so real to me because it semis like you were talking directly to me, this is exactly what I needed to hear, I appreciate all of the messages because we need this, this is what the world is missing, real talk, reality, a check. Thank you and God bless you and you’re family.

    • @patriciawhite1664
      @patriciawhite1664 Před 3 lety +1

      On point with your words. R.C. Blake's should have been a part of my curriculum in high school.

  • @snsnj7180
    @snsnj7180 Před 3 lety +3

    You’re so right! You’re the father I never had... man, your words make me cry 😢

  • @nicoletrulyyours
    @nicoletrulyyours Před 3 lety +7

    This message is so on point🙌🏾 Thank you ❤️✨

  • @nickywood3573
    @nickywood3573 Před 3 lety +1

    You always seem to speak what I need to hear exactly when I need to hear it. Thanks for blessing me and encouraging me. I'm so grateful for your service to the Lord.

  • @jessicapurple3737
    @jessicapurple3737 Před 3 lety +6

    I really needed this message! Thank you!

  • @isabelltecaxco4987
    @isabelltecaxco4987 Před 3 lety +14

    Hello Bishop, I love your precious words of wisdom. I'm a 59yr Hispanic lady, never had children because I never met a man worth having them for. I have had much abusive relationships through the decades. I haven't had a relationship for five years and I've been alone to work on myself. I'm not lonely but it would be nice to have a partner in my life. I know now that I'm a true queen, but the way the world is now how can I meet a king? Thank you for your wisdom and the videos you make. I listen to you everyday! God bless you and your precious wife

    • @sbongilemajola4128
      @sbongilemajola4128 Před 3 lety +5

      Hey, we dont know each but my life has been exactly the same as yours ,watching bishop's teaching has make me realizing the mistakes I've done all these years, God is good and I believe our kings will find us in jesus name.

    • @isabelltecaxco4987
      @isabelltecaxco4987 Před 3 lety +6

      @@sbongilemajola4128 hello there, yes you are right about our kings will find us in Jesus name

    • @mercyokon2989
      @mercyokon2989 Před 3 lety

      Ameeen

  • @keyotatribble931
    @keyotatribble931 Před 2 lety

    These videos are EXACTLY what I need RIGHT NOW..
    I feel like everything that has been said in the last few videos that I have watched of yours are talking DIRECTLY to me!!
    Everything in these videos applies to me!
    THANK YOU for making these videos for women like me!
    I have already began to pick up my self-esteem!

  • @brigetfull
    @brigetfull Před 3 lety +2

    This is the best opening I have heard, it was beautiful. Thank you.

  • @jackiejackson2859
    @jackiejackson2859 Před 3 lety +7

    I feel Greatness.,in you strengthening, me with your words of wisdom.

  • @prettibrowneyez2u
    @prettibrowneyez2u Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you Pastor Blakes, I needed to hear this🙌🏽💯

  • @pamelacartwright9263
    @pamelacartwright9263 Před 3 lety +1

    This is the absolute BEST teaching on this issue and subject matter. Bless you and your ministry of obedience.

  • @ms.jaysemakula8921
    @ms.jaysemakula8921 Před 3 lety +6

    This is amazing and very powerful and timely message and lessons learned. I thank God for being here and learning a lot from you. There are many wrongs in my life that i needed this as a turning point in my life. God bless you.

  • @Musicfreaklolduh
    @Musicfreaklolduh Před 3 lety +8

    You've inspired me to get closer to the word of god. So thank you. I really enjoy this message. You are so right. I need to work on me.

  • @rosiesrpink07
    @rosiesrpink07 Před 3 lety +5

    This video was phenomenal, it really blessed me!

  • @paulamcnairunapaulagetic
    @paulamcnairunapaulagetic Před 3 lety +1

    Good word Bishop . Thanks for sharing your wisdom! You’ve BLESSED MY LIFE!

  • @MReid-hl9wy
    @MReid-hl9wy Před 3 lety +7

    Love you Pastor! You make me laugh, cry and think!