SEVEN KEYS TO A WOMAN TESTING A MAN by RC Blakes

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    SEVEN KEYS TO A WOMAN TESTING A MAN by RC Blakes
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Komentáře • 824

  • @royalgimper
    @royalgimper Před 2 lety +387

    "Marriage is not the death of me, but the birth of we."

  • @joycewatt800
    @joycewatt800 Před 2 lety +397

    “Lust gets bored.”
    That’s a word of truth right there!

    • @fizahaque
      @fizahaque Před 2 lety +9

      I actually needed to pray about my situation rn and I sent this to one of my girls. She JUST texted me and I also JUST read this comment while the video was playing and the pastor said the exact same sentence. If those aren’t signs, than idk what is.

    • @Realness4sho
      @Realness4sho Před 2 lety +6

      Real Raw Truth Here Buddy!

  • @QueenSamiyah
    @QueenSamiyah Před 2 lety +28

    When a man says " you ask too many questions" I'm out

  • @cathymcquade2680
    @cathymcquade2680 Před 2 lety +498

    You teach all the things that I wish my father had taught me. I'm 51 years young, from Delaware. Divorced after 3 decades from a narcissist, went right into bad relationships because I felt SO lonely. I was the breadwinner, made the decisions, gave to everyone else, was a people pleaser and just so tired of being the leader. I should have stopped to heal, to learn myself and the results of my childhood trauma. You have helped me to start over again, to listen to my intuition, to make wise decisions to end relationships that aren't evenly yoked. THANKYOU for being an example of a godly man. MAY Adonai bless you and your beautiful wife!

    • @nnedwards3260
      @nnedwards3260 Před 2 lety

    • @lafemme8
      @lafemme8 Před 2 lety +24

      It's never too late to learn. I know women older than you who still haven't learn. I'm spending time now healing and getting over my childhood trauma. This is best I've ever felt...single and growing.

    • @victoriavitoroulis3273
      @victoriavitoroulis3273 Před 2 lety +33

      Be gentle w yourself .. we didn’t have this education , information or spot light on these characters . We didn’t realized are behaviors are from our childhood wounds , and theirs predators that feed off childhood wounds .. married 40 yrs w covert narc . We need pastors videos shown in high schools … bc these narcs are the real pandemic . 😵‍💫

    • @nursemelody45
      @nursemelody45 Před 2 lety +6

      Hallelujah!!! My story too

    • @makebaramsey4121
      @makebaramsey4121 Před 2 lety +2

      God Gotcha 😇

  • @anabautista8071
    @anabautista8071 Před 2 lety +765

    1. Prove his self - control. 2. Prove his servant's heart by expressing your needs and watching his response. 3. Prove his synergy with you by sharing your dreams with him. 4. Prove his authenticity through questions. 5. Test his love by his capacity to rest with you. 6. Is he learning your love language? 7. Can I please him?

  • @rhondawalker2020
    @rhondawalker2020 Před 2 lety +231

    My niece who is an RN and her boyfriend is an attorney. (They are married now.) They are both very Christian. The would always meet for every date and leave separately and go to their respective residences. They were never alone together and were not tempted. They were both virgins until their wedding night. They were both in their 30s when they got married! It worked! It can be done. They dated for 4 years. Great video as always!

    • @Kashmir-lt4cx
      @Kashmir-lt4cx Před 7 měsíci +2

      @rhondawalker amazing!

    • @heezy888
      @heezy888 Před 5 měsíci +1

      Thank you for sharing this testimony! I hope they are still successful and doing well! Esp with very difficult careers

  • @kendrajones16
    @kendrajones16 Před 2 lety +85

    I think it’s so funny when he says “I gotta go I’ve spent too much time talking” and then I immediately go and watch two or three more 50 minute videos 😂 I just love the wisdom that spews from him. 🙌🏾

    • @user-xc4ky8le5y
      @user-xc4ky8le5y Před rokem +4

      Lol!! I do the exact same thing! 50 minutes of divine directions! My soul is being nourished & the Holy Spirit is confirming.
      Thank you RC Blake’s

    • @kayjaycee75
      @kayjaycee75 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Me too! Lol

    • @aidaortiz7219
      @aidaortiz7219 Před 7 měsíci

      Same here! 😅

  • @galejordan4570
    @galejordan4570 Před rokem +71

    "Just because a man is a good man, doesn't mean he is a good man for you" AMEN, I am 3 months out of a toxic relationship with a "good man", who was controlling and manipulative, had low self esteem and projected all of his insecurities into our relationship.

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter Před 2 lety +374

    I put up with so much in relationships because I didn't understand my worth. I know better now. Thank you for this teaching.

  • @miarobinson9893
    @miarobinson9893 Před 2 lety +96

    as a young woman who’s biological father passed when I was 15…and seeing all of the older women in the comments wishing they would’ve met you sooner or had you in their lives younger…as a 28yr old with no kids and no man. Thanks “Dad” 🙏🏾💕

    • @janellamurphy4212
      @janellamurphy4212 Před 2 lety +5

      I AM AN OLDER SINGLE WOMAN MYSELF NO BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN EXCEPT SPIRITUAL ONES AND I AM STILL LEARNING!!😇

    • @never4saken165
      @never4saken165 Před 2 lety +5

      God is blessing you

    • @mcqueeny-gloriakavari546
      @mcqueeny-gloriakavari546 Před rokem +3

      I resonate with this. Lost my dad at 14, now im 26 with no kids and no man. Forever grateful for this wisdom.

    • @privateperson1461
      @privateperson1461 Před rokem +1

      Dear 28 year old sis. Preserve yourself. These men are AWFUL many narcissist and predators. I am now 53, single, one adult child. I wish I could go back to 28 and stay celibate to truly weed out all the imposters they will waste your life and use your body and no God in them. They will use God and religion to get over on you. Very sad. I am not bitter just FACTS. I am starting Graduate school to get my masters soon and looking forward to dating an equally yoked man who will prove himself. Be smart.

    • @tamiajackson
      @tamiajackson Před rokem

      Blessings sisters 😊 we are all like sisters now 😅

  • @miolana3777
    @miolana3777 Před 2 lety +45

    I wish.....I wish I had heard this one year ago to save me the pressure of having sex with someone who ended up being the worst monster I had ever met. I pray that God will heal my heart, mind and spirit and that I will be able to forgive myself and move forward.

    • @greaterishe7197
      @greaterishe7197 Před 2 lety +10

      He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3

    • @pjh3839
      @pjh3839 Před 2 lety +9

      You’re not the only one. I did this too I am a witness GOD will heal you. Forgive yourself and forgive the person.

  • @alinacash786
    @alinacash786 Před 2 lety +199

    Truth….my marriage was to an untrustworthy man. He was not a masculine man. He was a “simp”. So tragic. If I had knowledge, it would have saved so much pain. Thank you Pastor.

    • @alinacash786
      @alinacash786 Před 2 lety +3

      Pastor…would you update the 9 questions?

    • @victoriavitoroulis3273
      @victoriavitoroulis3273 Před 2 lety +14

      I thought my husband was bi polar .. but just realized he’s a covert narc and I’m w him 40 yrs . Ppl wear a good mask these days 😵‍💫

    • @houston10
      @houston10 Před 2 lety +21

      Masculine men can as well be toxic and abusive. As a woman it’s just the luck of the draw whether u get a men tht truly loves yu. No matter his mannerisms

    • @roshellfrancisjones
      @roshellfrancisjones Před 2 lety +2

      Yes

    • @shedlightwholistic5610
      @shedlightwholistic5610 Před 2 lety

      989 you ou ooio88ii ou 0

  • @l.christinejones8164
    @l.christinejones8164 Před 2 lety +70

    "How can two walk together unless they agree?" One of my favorite Scriptures Pastor Blakes.

  • @Nancy22102
    @Nancy22102 Před 2 lety +221

    An unproven man is an untrusted man”
    That message spoke to me...Im taking this as a vow... Thank you Pastor Blakes.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @janellamurphy4212
      @janellamurphy4212 Před 2 lety +7

      YUPPA!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾I AM RE EVALUATING THINGS CONCERNING MY RELATIONSHIPS WITH MEN NOW!!! MAN LOOKS AT THE OUTWARD APPEARANCE, BUT GOD LOOKS AT THE HEART AMEN!!!!

    • @florencepl4343
      @florencepl4343 Před 2 lety +8

      I recently heard an author say attraction and chemistry are just the floor and paint (find out what the house is made of, foundation, roof, history before buying). I loved the analogy and thought I'd share.

    • @Realness4sho
      @Realness4sho Před 2 lety +1

      Amen

    • @zztdivas8551
      @zztdivas8551 Před 2 lety +2

      It has taken me 32 years to realize this!

    • @shevaray
      @shevaray Před rokem

      Me to sis 💗🙏🏾

  • @angelicadavis1404
    @angelicadavis1404 Před 2 lety +250

    Pastor, the first thing that came to my mind was I wish I had found your teaching years ago, but a thought came to my mind’ it’s never too late!!! Thanks for your growth Jesus ❗

    • @keepthechange1
      @keepthechange1 Před 2 lety +11

      When the student is ready, the Teacher will appear. You are ready my friend. The time is now. God bless you. 🙏🏽🌺❤️

    • @mariereed916
      @mariereed916 Před 2 lety +1

      I agree 💯

    • @amenamem
      @amenamem Před 2 lety

      @@keepthechange1 Ooohhh! That is a word right there.🔥🔥 The Lord bless you as well. 🙏

    • @janellamurphy4212
      @janellamurphy4212 Před 2 lety +1

      I AM IN FULL AGREEMENT WITH YOU SIS!!!👋🏾👋🏾! IF I KNEW WHAT I KNOW NOW FROM YOUR TEACHINGS BISHOP BLAKES, I WOULD HAVE BYPASSED THE DUMB STUFF, MEN AND SITUATIONS AMEN!!!

    • @apologeticministry
      @apologeticministry Před 2 lety +1

      That was God.

  • @joycewatt800
    @joycewatt800 Před 2 lety +21

    Abstinence is a test of one’s character or even “fruit of the Spirit” since self control is one of the fruits of the Spirit. I think we forget about this one fruit.
    The fruit is a reflection of the root.

  • @cityreadings
    @cityreadings Před 2 lety +32

    “Submit to her Husband, to her husband, to her husband” period!! Amen 🙏💯💯💯

  • @Christimony222
    @Christimony222 Před rokem +51

    This channel deserves to be on Oprah Winfrey's channel. It's a genuine match. This is the type of content she and her audience would appreciate. It's beyond valuable. Thank you for being the father that most of us will never have in real life, when it comes to being able to go to him for relationship advice.

    • @janebraun4482
      @janebraun4482 Před 11 měsíci +5

      I don't think he/we need more Oprah at all. We're good.

    • @aidaortiz7219
      @aidaortiz7219 Před 7 měsíci

      It should be it’s own show. Pastor Blakes and his beautiful bride Lisa are amazing.

    • @shantastewart1814
      @shantastewart1814 Před 6 měsíci

      I agree this valuable information. 🙏🏽

  • @MHiL7
    @MHiL7 Před 2 lety +215

    Hello from New Jersey. I can’t get enough of your teaching & extremely grateful that I found your channel!! I’m 52 & lost my Dad to cancer when I was 4, your wisdom has changed my life because I was a silly woman who attracted my childhood trauma in every relationship I found myself in & a narc magnet but thanks to you, those days are over!! Thank you 🙏

    • @janicerockwell8417
      @janicerockwell8417 Před 2 lety +8

      Some entertainers are good pretenders...

    • @janicerockwell8417
      @janicerockwell8417 Před 2 lety +6

      My ex-husband was a good provider and father. I settled. He was a workaholic. Where was the love ?

    • @rebeccamcfadden2241
      @rebeccamcfadden2241 Před 2 lety

      @@janicerockwell8417 pppp0pppppppppp lol ppppppppppplplplllp

    • @MHiL7
      @MHiL7 Před 2 lety +10

      These clowns are great actors…….UNTIL you know what you’re looking at!!! Biggest lesson of my life.

    • @marytaylor9504
      @marytaylor9504 Před 2 lety +3

      @@janicerockwell8417 yes they are Really Good at this!!!True Fakers!!!!

  • @dublingirl1691
    @dublingirl1691 Před 2 lety +105

    At 30:32 - To me, when a man drops everything when you ask him for some help, this is so romantic & loving, it shows a wonderful connection between the couple.

    • @never4saken165
      @never4saken165 Před 2 lety +5

      My ex did but let me tell you, he is the worst kind of a narcissticist. He jumped most of the time bc I ran the relationship & it was NOT by my choice.

    • @NoNakersAllowed
      @NoNakersAllowed Před 2 lety +7

      So true. Acts of service is my love language and the man I was involved with knew this and when opportunities presented themselves to prove his words he failed almost every time! That actually was the last straw recently that caused me to cut him off and block him.

  • @melissaj.corbin7675
    @melissaj.corbin7675 Před 2 lety +44

    When your “standard is broken”…it’s time to pray, look inward, ask the Father to help you heal and draw closer. Thank you for your teachings. God bless you!

  • @QueenNile
    @QueenNile Před 2 lety +9

    I have been very wise when it comes to handle men. They like boys who love their toys and Selfish. You have to be catch me if you can. 1) Love yourself 2) Able to live with yourself 3) Set boundaries 4) Respect yourself as a woman 5) Be very wise 6) Don’t take things personal 7) Watch your words 8) Able to control your thoughts and your actions 9) Choose wisely 10)Take care yourself mentally physical 11) Don’t be the first 1 to say I love you 12) Travel with that person before you move in together 12) Don’t tell your business with your man to your family or friends 13) Keep yourself very busy

  • @86boluda
    @86boluda Před 2 lety +36

    Hahaha OMG that was my email! I'm so happy you replied in this form and so quickly! Woke up in the morning and saw this, made my day 🤣 God bless you always

    • @smcdade4577
      @smcdade4577 Před 2 lety

      Blessings to you! It was a great question which answer has benefited many!

    • @maudline
      @maudline Před 2 lety

      Agree, it was a great question of how to vet a man without playing games

  • @alinacash786
    @alinacash786 Před 2 lety +44

    I listen every night as I go to sleep.

  • @dempress3549
    @dempress3549 Před 2 lety +73

    I love this msg, POWERFUL, I call my husband my king bcuz of the man he is to me and in general, I often times tell him that he is a man of many men, this msg showed me truly that he is a king. I give Yahweh praise and thanks for blessing me with a really good husband 🙏

    • @lilianahuekwe
      @lilianahuekwe Před 2 lety +7

      Dear God,i want this to be my testimony
      Bless me with a good man ,Amen

    • @BlessStyles
      @BlessStyles Před 2 lety +2

      Yes! I want this to be my testimony too

    • @BlessStyles
      @BlessStyles Před 2 lety +2

      Yes! I want this to be my testimony too

    • @mikafishet8043
      @mikafishet8043 Před 2 lety +2

      I'm happy for you!

    • @1986chevon
      @1986chevon Před rokem +1

      Yes I want this to be my testimony too! Amen 🙏🏾

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove Před 2 lety +45

    There should be no excuses for staying in a relationship with someone that puts you through more stress and pain over love and joy.
    💙CZcamsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @justJamiePS
    @justJamiePS Před 2 lety +24

    When a woman questions and interrogates a man, she's working to a place where she can trust him in order to be In her role and allow him to lead 🥳🥳🥳🔥

    • @nightswan1234
      @nightswan1234 Před rokem

      This part sums up the whole message! Everything is locked solid within this simple context! If he can’t / won’t answer questions, red flag flying all over the place!! Let the whole thing go, he’s not the one for you.

  • @piscesbby9464
    @piscesbby9464 Před 2 lety +47

    This is exactly the issues in my relationship. Every single one of these is lacking and my husband has been trying to convince me that Im asking for too much. Its all my fault, he never wouldve passed the tests if I wouldve known before. I found all of these things to be necessary on my own. You put them into words beautifully.

  • @atlantasbarberstylist8658
    @atlantasbarberstylist8658 Před 2 lety +24

    Queens ask questions only a king can answer!!

  • @keepthechange1
    @keepthechange1 Před 2 lety +28

    The Queens are here. God bless each of you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @anjizignstudios500
    @anjizignstudios500 Před 2 lety +85

    This teaching is my “level up” Praise God Blakes ministry

  • @kheleecebrown1799
    @kheleecebrown1799 Před 2 lety +50

    Hello Pastor you are a blessing to me as 22 yr old woman.

  • @sharhughes1086
    @sharhughes1086 Před 2 lety +115

    I Love Your teachings Pastor Blake's, because you back it up with the scriptures from the Holy Bible!

  • @AtmosphereShifterz
    @AtmosphereShifterz Před 2 lety +148

    Can’t wait to hear the word; I have been watching u for months & caught up to ALL ur videos. The way the Lord uses you to minister is a blessing to my soul. 😇 - Minister Mari

    • @RCBlakesJr.
      @RCBlakesJr.  Před 2 lety +23

      Thank you. I am honored. 😊🙏🏽

    • @novinehenry5650
      @novinehenry5650 Před 2 lety +5

      Thanks for your words of wisdom. You are helping me rebuild the broken areas with… Completely, queen conscious! Thank you🙏🏾

    • @marytaylor9504
      @marytaylor9504 Před 2 lety +2

      @@RCBlakesJr. God go with you! Lead and give you the words we need to hear that God gives you to share. With Us!!!
      Yes try the Spirits .watch how they operate in their lives.The words they speak when the man feels lax and comfortable around you. When they feel that they can be their real personality identity self!!!
      I

  • @latedesca5
    @latedesca5 Před 2 lety +50

    Wow. Speechless. I never learned how to vet him. Now after heartbreak amd divorce I am understanding thanks to you. Keep teaching ⚘Thank you

    • @nursemelody45
      @nursemelody45 Před 2 lety +2

      Me either!!! 3 marriages down the drain!

    • @sandirichard5461
      @sandirichard5461 Před 2 lety +2

      We got this ladies! Abusive marriage and dead end 10 year relationship later, I'm ready for this relationship to myself for myself. We're going to get our king's one day!

  • @noeleen743
    @noeleen743 Před 2 lety +48

    These teachings are for generations to come. I pray Gods blessing over a man who has covered us as daughters of God.

  • @marcia4415
    @marcia4415 Před 2 lety +50

    This is going to be GOOD. I feel it in my soul.

  • @cindylu1226
    @cindylu1226 Před 2 lety +43

    Your wise words will work in any relationship. If you could include teachings for widows or those of us over 50 who are considering remarrying that’d be much appreciated. There are different dynamics in 2nd marriages, adult children, etc. Love your teaching.

  • @jayenfrancis859
    @jayenfrancis859 Před rokem +6

    You describe a dance where a woman can trust the true course of the man and follow his lead, and so then can 'submit' to the beauty of the music and movement of two as one...
    Thankyou, beautiful

  • @zellaward3520
    @zellaward3520 Před 7 měsíci +1

    When a man treats you like God wants him to treat you, you will have no trouble submitting to your man! R,C Blake's is speaking truth!

  • @joycewatt800
    @joycewatt800 Před 2 lety +10

    Ooooooooh Jesus
    How I wish I had this message in my young teens, twenties and thirties.

  • @sarala1jan
    @sarala1jan Před 2 lety +36

    I love this man. He helps us to set our bar high, be able to look the finer side of a man where most times we women overlook . @RCBlakes, you also need to run a course or a channel for parents. Most times parents need to instill good values and be a good example when the child is growing up. Why I am suggesting this? Coz I believe most of us are built the way we see our parents interact and our environment. Our surroundings makes us who we are.

  • @TheTabbym
    @TheTabbym Před 2 lety +10

    i married someone who was not supposed to go past being an acquaintance. we dint last past 3months in the marriage. i dint have this knowledge and wisdom, thanks so much for this pastor RC

  • @priscillaaharper4078
    @priscillaaharper4078 Před 2 lety +50

    God is going to keep blessing you both and your ministry because you are helping so many.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @keneshawilliamson1574
    @keneshawilliamson1574 Před rokem +9

    Amen!!! That's why I have been Celibate for 4 years!!! God is Awesome! I pray that God continues to keep me until I get married.🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @nzingahoney
    @nzingahoney Před 2 lety +6

    Hi everyone good to be here from Trinidad and Tobago

  • @celiandimande8776
    @celiandimande8776 Před 2 lety +17

    THIS IS GOLDEN! G O L D E N

  • @DayaTom
    @DayaTom Před 2 lety +4

    Years ago I dated a guy for a bit, then one day I told him about my dream.. my passion of photography. Mind you, I'm already one and I have some success behind my back. He told me my dream was too much and that I should pick something more down to earth.
    Dropped him that same conversation and told him why.
    Never done better cut in my love life!
    These people just weigh you down. Life is challenging enough without them.

  • @Afterthehealing
    @Afterthehealing Před 2 lety +40

    Amen! God is so faithful that even when I try to back slide he steps in on my behalf and I'm able to be kept!!! I have the power and authority over my flesh to wait for my KING and hold myself and walk as a QUEEN

  • @Idkjustyet
    @Idkjustyet Před rokem +2

    Thank you so much for the prayer at the end 💯💖

  • @biblequeen4sure823
    @biblequeen4sure823 Před 2 lety +8

    Watching for the 2nd time

  • @brendawest2650
    @brendawest2650 Před rokem +1

    There's a lot of people "Talking" but not "Truthing". Wise counsel.

  • @anastasialayden2000
    @anastasialayden2000 Před 2 lety +12

    'The marriage it is not the death of me, it is the birth of we' ...Great! Thank you Pastor Blakes 💕

  • @hellosunshine3647
    @hellosunshine3647 Před 2 lety +10

    I love your channel! Still grateful for your teachings! While I have been engaged, I'm so glad I did not go through with that wedding! He was a horrible man and I knew it. Now I'm glad that I purposely take the time to date these men and figure out what they want from me. I have learned that I am lusted after by alot of men. Smh🤦🏽‍♀️ When you said is it infatuation, that's exactly how I feel, they feel about me. Until they get into this hot seat! I asked a man yesterday is he ready for the hard questions because some men tend not to be, even when they think they are. He said I will answer your questions! 😆 I have also had the man who came to visit me in flashy cars. When I asked him to teach me about stocks, he gave me nothing. He was the most inconsistent man I have ever met. So I took heed and moved on. I love testing a man to see where his mind is. It is so vital to my life and my purpose as a feminine woman. It has taken some time to get here. But I am here!

  • @tieonneyvonne1222
    @tieonneyvonne1222 Před 2 lety +31

    Good evening Bishop Blakes and First Lady Lisa Blakes🙏 I am so thankful for your ministry helping fatherless women like myself. ❤

  • @patriciagonzalesrealtor3483

    How accomplished you are for all those you help to find true love. We all need love, we all want love, we all hope for love, we all hope for lasting love. You are on point with your direction. We just need to trust and follow your teachings. More importantly set our standards ,values and expectations and NEVER waiver. Ladies we are the power!

  • @Michelle-mj8yq
    @Michelle-mj8yq Před 2 lety +14

    I am excited to be apart of this evenings presentation 🙌

  • @terriwebb4425
    @terriwebb4425 Před 2 lety +21

    My 1st time listening to u Pastor Blakes it was sooo very enlightening & refreshing i wish I had this knowledge b4 I got married & divorced....understanding a man and his intentions is key.....thank u for knowledge

  • @dawannwilliams6301
    @dawannwilliams6301 Před 2 lety +22

    Hello Bishop and everyone listening. Ready to enjoy and receive the message

  • @praise3700
    @praise3700 Před 2 lety +6

    You just described everything I’ve been doing subconsciously. I ask any man that shows interest questions upon questions while guarding my heart. So far, none have been able to Elicit trust because my questions were not answered.

  • @cocojonestwin
    @cocojonestwin Před 2 lety +3

    I love this word. It reminds me of animals. Males have to fight and/or prove themselves before the female animal submits herself to him.

  • @brindageorge701
    @brindageorge701 Před rokem +1

    . . . submitting "to a HUSBAND, to a husband, to a husband . . . NOT a boyfriend. " Ha! Fabulous advice!

  • @sheronobryant5058
    @sheronobryant5058 Před 2 lety +6

    Good evening from Texas ♥️

  • @catherinem4130
    @catherinem4130 Před 9 měsíci +1

    You are doing EXACTLY WHAT GOD WANTS YOU TO DO......teach women (even me who at age 75, widowed aft. 53 yrs. in happy, good marriage....YET has been lacking in social skills because I never HAD to!!!...now I'm having to learn things I NEVER HAD A CLUE ABOUT!!!) So, that said....KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING PLEASE and I give GOD all the glory for it, which I can tell you are already doing. And thank you!

  • @lizwanjirunyaga9582
    @lizwanjirunyaga9582 Před 2 lety +17

    God bless you sir. You are a spiritual guide to many. Thank you for your teachings

  • @PFPSocialMedia
    @PFPSocialMedia Před 2 lety +8

    Whew Praise the Lord Bishop!! I’m chuckling because I don’t know how to test 😂😂😂

  • @sharonoloya
    @sharonoloya Před rokem +6

    Pastor your truly annoited and I'm thankful for your life. I love your sense of humour, you put a smile on my face when you say 'Clowns in Crowns 👑' I once had one! Your words touch my soul and bring me to tears, just what woman needs from a wise father figure. I start my day with your videos without fail! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @Jassywazzy1
    @Jassywazzy1 Před 2 lety +8

    Wish I had this information in my early 20s, but learning it at 30 in this format/teaching is so refreshing. Tfs your knowledge with us Pastor Blakes! God bless you💫

  • @lismith1852
    @lismith1852 Před 2 lety +17

    GOD Bless you Bishop for speaking about this pertinent subject!! 🙏 ❤

  • @Tiffmart08
    @Tiffmart08 Před rokem

    THIS WAS SOOO GOOD!!!! THANK YOU 🙏🏽

  • @EnjoylifeinJesus
    @EnjoylifeinJesus Před 2 lety

    Great word! Thank you so much!

  • @msprettybee45
    @msprettybee45 Před rokem

    This sermon was everything 👏👏👏 I really needed to hear this.

  • @hellomellow4265
    @hellomellow4265 Před rokem

    Thank you Pastor, I needed to hear this.👏🏽🙏🏽❤️

  • @joansturrup9146
    @joansturrup9146 Před 2 lety

    Thank You, for Sharing!! God You & Family!!!

  • @blacklove804
    @blacklove804 Před 2 lety

    You're always on time with your video's. Thank you 😊

  • @whenthasmokeclears
    @whenthasmokeclears Před 2 lety +7

    This was an awesome presentation and I so needed it! Thank you! 🙏🏽

  • @angiebrown6524
    @angiebrown6524 Před 2 lety +3

    I grew up with no father in the home, most of my relationships have been dysfunctional but I'm learning to love ME first. and to respect myself.

  • @tiatsele
    @tiatsele Před 2 lety +6

    Hello Pastor Blakes. Thanks for this message. The Holy Spirit has been speaking to me about this in this season of my life. My boundaries have been violated time and time again by this man and I'm at a point where I am no longer playing his game. Thank you for empowering young women all over the world. Your South African daughter here!

  • @flygirl1942
    @flygirl1942 Před 2 lety +1

    This is real real good teaching Bishop!! Thank you so much!💕

  • @edithzulu5314
    @edithzulu5314 Před 2 lety +1

    I wish I heard this 32 years ago.... all the same I thank GOD for his grace over my life and children

  • @Mindfreegardener
    @Mindfreegardener Před 2 lety +17

    Ok so the introduction was a whole word by itself!!! 🙌🏽 thanks pastor for this word I so needed this as a reminder during this time of season 🙏🏽

  • @SanctifiedLady
    @SanctifiedLady Před 2 lety +28

    Perfect timing… I think I’ve bumped into the one. I have asked him tons of questions…he was patient. We are both in our God given purpose which is that we are both in the helping profession and we have the same lifestyle and hobbies. It’s been 2 weeks…. He is a bit reserved to ask me anything…I know men are hunters and prefer to peel back layers slowly and learn us on their own… I’m waiting for him to state his intentions, start asking and investing in me, he is smart not to just open up and make himself vulnerable to me just yet it’s still new. I’m waiting for it to flow naturally to the point I tell him I’m sacrificing my body to God until marriage. Thank you for the other good questions about asking him where to invest money… I plan on keeping the conversation light for him to continue to learn me. We are 5hrs apart…he’s mentioned me coming to visit but I need him to do his work and tell me on his own that he has self control without my asking and with out him just saying it. Pastor first time I have felt like I am talking to myself…we are already a reflection of each other…all we have to do is abstain, vet each other thoroughly, blend our lives in one place and get married. We don’t have to change anything about ourselves. However, I am a co dependent personality and past the test on my last narcissist attraction and he failed…because of listening to you and others I’ve learned how to spot them immediately. 1.) they mess with your boundaries 2.) they mess with your time 3.) they play with your mind and emotions. 4.) they never do things for you, your pleasure and that take, take, take! I’m cured 🙌🏾 and I’m doing some shadow work of my own to test out all other lingering childhood traumas. Keep me in prayer. This is exciting and I am definitely prepared to walk away. I’m loving myself and keeping my own life fun and exiting.

    • @thelookout5802
      @thelookout5802 Před 2 lety +7

      2 weeks? Slow down🙂 please...

    • @lisabowman877
      @lisabowman877 Před 2 lety +2

      Slow down and be careful. Be sure he’s not mirroring you. That’s what narcs do. Trust he’s not another you. Even if that’s the appearance. You have to be aware that his reactions to the same issues could be totally different than you expect. God bless you. If he’s for you, I’m sure God will show you in time. 2 weeks is just enough time for you to fantasize about what you want the relationship to be based on what you’ve begun to feel. Take you’re feelings out of your dating process until you’re sure there’s a real possibility, which should at least be 90 days or more! In two weeks you know nothing except what he wants you to know.

    • @Simply_Shalee
      @Simply_Shalee Před 2 lety

      When u pray about this man. Ask God to show u his heart and his sprit.

  • @mimip2704
    @mimip2704 Před 2 měsíci

    Although the videos that are helping me through this difficult time were made between 1-3 yrs ago, they are speaking to my heart and soul TODAY! The exact messages that I need to hear are being delivered through this amazing servant of GOD to help his Queens and KINGS improve themselves and each other. I thank GOD that he allowed me to find you on this platform. Much love and blessings to you and your beautiful wife Lisa. GOD bless! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @mariereed916
    @mariereed916 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for this message wish someone had taught me this earlier in life

  • @mmfhines
    @mmfhines Před 2 lety +10

    I share your video with many, you’ve been such a blessing to me. Thank you for keeping it real, God Bless you & ur wife. Look forward to seeing you both in Houston, Tx. 🙏🏼

  • @LolitaStClair
    @LolitaStClair Před 2 lety +15

    Powerful and Outstanding!

  • @TheElephantInTheRoom12

    Excellent teaching as usual. So thankful for your videos and sharing your wisdom with authenticity and clarity.

  • @smallimpressionschildcare489

    Always love your word.

  • @piyabiswas9475
    @piyabiswas9475 Před rokem

    Beautiful . Thank you so much

  • @thegrace-basedstudent5701

    Such great and applicable wisdom, here!

  • @ariellenngonkog3280
    @ariellenngonkog3280 Před rokem

    Oooh !! How your messages soothe me every time i listen To them. Thanks for all🙏

  • @linni9160
    @linni9160 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow - this is deep. Thank you so much!

  • @CaliforniaGirl1
    @CaliforniaGirl1 Před rokem

    Best advice. Thank you.

  • @nikolewiley2207
    @nikolewiley2207 Před 2 lety

    This is EXCELLENT. Thank you.

  • @jenniferjones4113
    @jenniferjones4113 Před 2 lety +9

    This was powerful🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾!!!

  • @ruththompson2757
    @ruththompson2757 Před 2 lety

    Awesome Teaching pastor Blake's! 👍 🙏

  • @jeneciagallimore7096
    @jeneciagallimore7096 Před 2 lety +7

    Thanks Mr Blake I write down all ur points in my note book. Thanks alot man of god. God bless u and pray for me to find a great man of God husband like u🙏

  • @angelacole4293
    @angelacole4293 Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you for your wisdom tonight.God Bless you and Mrs Blake's

  • @yasminmurabi7802
    @yasminmurabi7802 Před 2 lety +1

    I’ve listened to a lot of videos on CZcams and this one is a TOP video for me. Saved, shared, and revisted

  • @renitaa7148
    @renitaa7148 Před 2 lety +4

    I appreciate you Bishop… Always sharing wisdom with us….