How to Stop Feeling Lonely even though You Live Alone
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Standing alone is better than being around people who don't value you.
I believe that if you're comfortable being alone, you already come a long way 😊
You're absolutely right.
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I just tell myself jokes. And I laugh at all of them, even if I’ve heard the joke before…
That sounds like the best medicin 😍 I do the same, haha
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They DO say that laughter is the BEST medicine!!!!😁😁😜😍🤗
Love that! 😃 I talk to my dog and tell him jokes! 😂 I laugh for him...
I have long comversations with myself and I laugh at the things I say and think...sometimes I think crazy funny ideas 😄
Feeling lonely and being alone are two completely different things. I LOVE being alone, but some don't.
I live alone in the mountains and mostly find it a joyous experience. Imo, the trick is to be present, because wherever we live, we take ourselves there.
Exactly, being present is the key for me as well 😊
My alone time is like a treasure to me. I have to prompt myself to go out sometimes. I love it so much.
I find my calmness in being alone. Time to destress the day and evaluate my situations without distraction
I truly love being alone, it gives me a feeling of peace. But! There's ofcourse a limit, every human needs social interactions. Great video Kalle!! 👏👏👏❤️
Totally agree ❤
Agreed, but does EVERY humans needs social interactions? I pass i'd say 95% of my time alone, it's so peaceful, i love it.
Great video! I've had Siberian huskies for 45 years and to me, no other dog can compare. The years I ran and raced my teams were the best of my life. I can't say I love being alone all the time - I think for women it's different - it's a safety issue, at least it is in the US. And it's definitely not fun if you're sick or in pain. But you can feel worse than lonely if you're with a person who doesn't treat you right, so there's that too.
Just beautiful videography! As a man with a long history of depression, what you say is right. I have learned to accept my depression and Asperger's as part of the fun and interesting person I am and just live with it with humor and go with the flow.
Thank you Joseph ❤That's the way to look at it!
hey, Joseph. have you heard of neurodiversity paradigm? I am autistic as well, and knowing I'm just a different kind of human the majority simply does not understand was lifesaving. humanity is diverse, and majority doesn't equal humanity.
⭐ Joseph ... sorry to hear about your depression 🙏 Have you heard about "Grounding"? It has helped so many people with f.ex. depression, inflammation, insomnia, etc. etc. czcams.com/video/44ddtR0XDVU/video.html ⭐
I am autistic too... loving Kalles work..
It's all about appreciating if you ever felt sad or depressed.
As Kalle said, appreciate what you have done, not what you missed out. 😁
Asking for help isn't giving up it's refusing to give up
Very true!
Going to the city and getting sick...while otherwise you can shower in the snow and ice cubes outside your door and stay healthy...that says a lot. I'm sure you'll recover very soon! Love from Italy ♥️🇮🇹
It's not the cold that makes you sick its virus and bacteria
I am a 62 yr old female, I have always preferred to be more solitary, having moved from a city of 6,200,000 people (Miami), where I lived miserably for a few years, to an island 2,000 miles northeast on the Maine coast and feel more at peace here, with little population. I find "introverts" to be a stronger "breed" than those always needing to be surrounded by others, my only child, my daughter (22yrs), who is the same as me, and though at times she struggles with being an "outcast" in many social situations due to not being the party type or club-hopper (if that is what you call it), I find she will be stronger for it in the long run..."happy being with herself and by herself". I am glad to know you have your dogs with you, as I have my kitties who are my heart and soul in keeping the cottage full of "personality". So from my happy place to yours, thank you for sharing your life in the videos.
This video helped so much, it wasn’t even what i expected as an answer, but it was just right
I have had so much trauma and abuse in my life from people that I need the space to heal and not get entangled with people.
I love being with my dog. We go everywhere together on all sorts of adventures. I say hello and chat to people on walks and that fills my cup. Apart from spending time with my adult children, I don't like socialising and avoid it.
There's so much peace available to you at home knowing that you can nurture yourself, your own needs, and feel safe. ✨️ There's so much wonder in the world available to us, it's impossible to be bored.
A simple, peaceful life is not something I intend on giving up. It's precious. 💚
Thank you for this video and sharing your story as I am currently experiencing loneliness and feel sad that I have not found a nice partner to share life with. It has made me feel sad. But your story is not only inspiring but also comforting in knowing there are others like you in this world who are alone and still happy and ok.
I feel lonely but i think im finding my path again just if you feel lonely just find the positive path you wanted to go and go toward it
Kalle, this video was amazing, it literally brought me to tears of joy to see the courage you have to pursue your dreams...it encourages me to maybe do the same. I'm also inspired by your honesty and vulnerability. So greatful to have found you and your channel!
Thanks for sharing advice on feeling lonely. Love seeing you and the dogs. Hope you get to feeling better! From the United states 🇺🇸👍😊
Thanks for your honesty. I know how you feel. Sometimes chasing a dream can be distracting you from what you do have around you already. Wise words. It’s important to slow down and appreciate a simple life.
Love being alone, especially in nature. Really enjoyed this video. So beautiful! Appreciated all the thoughts you shared here too! ☺
I was about to watch Talasbuan's new video when I saw yours was online. Thank you for the ride with the huskies, the views of the forest, the birds and your advice ❤. Loneliness and depression are feelings that I know too well. Your videos should be prescribed against depression ! Take care and get well soon.
I like thinking of our feelings in thirds! Less pressure to over analyze and just accept when we are down, thank you ❤
I hadn't heard your take on the rule of thirds before and found it incredibly useful. I'm about to graduate from college and unsure where to go from there because nothing felt 100% right yet, but thinking about it in terms of happy - okay - crappy and accepting that following your dreams will have each part was very helpful. Thank you for sharing!
You are such a realist which makes you suited for living in the wilderness. Im glad Christina shares your love of nature💗🐾
Watching your new videos on monday morning always calms me and helps me to feel better before a new week. Thank you, Kalle!
Thank you for watching ❤
Thank you so much for this wonderful film and in particular the rule of 3rds -while pursuing your dreams- it’s something I’ve never really heard, but it had me crying in relief knowing that a third of the time I am feeling rotten just rotten.
I am leaving my beautiful farm to start over and my dream to find bigger acreage to build right in the middle of, and have the peace that I used to have here… things have developed so quickly and it’s like being back in a city neighborhood even though I have 18 acres of a beautiful farm it has been heartbreaking but at this point myself and all my animals …we are so ready to find our new home … our dream…and was so relieved to know that all the time I feel rotten through this pursuit is normal. Thank you so much Kalle!
I am so touched, watching the sleds and the dogs Nala and Tuss are the hugest blessings! 🤍🤍take care you and Christine 🐕🐕❤️🤍🤗
Such a great video, Kalle. Many important and great lessons. Thank you for having me over, I had such a great time and looking forward for our next adventure!
Thank you Olle 🥰 Same here dude!
Thank you for sharing 😊 have a wonderful week 😊
En sak jag verkligen uppskattar med dig och dina filmer Kalle, det är att man får komma bort från vardagen en stund, komma bort från stress, bort från alla måsten, bort från ja, vad ska man kalla det, det vanliga. Tack för allt du gör!
I felt as if you were talking to me, directly as a friend. As someone who moved from UK to NZ, living in an area with little friends after taking a huge risk, that gave me such comfort with how i feel. Thank you for this helpful and clear message.
I travelled to Norway last summer and drove a buggy with huskies. My dream is to come back to Scandinavia, again in the winter to try it in the snow. I absolutely loved it!!!
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I really like the slow pace and the overlying story arch of this video. And the bird shots are gorgeous! Hope the drone is okay. 🌲💚
This video was spectacular!!! Great job, love it.
That's the right perspective. We can beat ourselves up for the things we don't accomplish, but sometimes, the things we do instead are far more important than the goals we originally set out to achieve. The birds are great! BUT.... seriously, very cool drone footage! Keep filming. You are great!
thank you so much for sharing your journey! knowing im not the only one feels that way and scared for asking for help is normal...made me brave enough to go further in my own journey!
Another amazing video, Kalle! 👏This is so inspiring, nature is so beautiful in winter 🌲☃✨
Thank you Lora 🥰❤ I'm so happy you like it!
Beautiful scenes and works well with the music. I admire your outlook and wise words. All the best!
I really appreciate that Alex, thank you 🥰❤
Thanks so much for sharing the beauty of the Swedish winter and your insights on life, hope you feel much better soon. Take good care 🌲🌨❄
Thank you for being here watching ❤
The drone pictures of the snow covered tree tops were spectacular!! We in Louisiana, hardly ever get to view something that grand.
Amen to peace. Contacts are essential in case of emergency. Good work on the cabin KF 👍neat pictures of snow sledding!
Hej Kalle! Du inspirerar mig. Jag älskar naturen, de är det viktigaste vi har!
Jag håller på att bygga en hemsida där jag vill hjälpa andra att lära sig gilla natur och vildmark likaså.
En dag har jag också en stuga mitt i ingenstans!
Watching your videos after a long time . Thank you for sharing your honest feelings with us. I assure you that you are not alone. We can correlate with you.Good to be alone than surrounded with mean and selfish people. Wishing you happiness and just keep going ✌🏻
Hope you’re starting to feel better Kalle . Lovely video as always with some great advice. Have a great trip to Christine’s family. Love to you both xx Diane (woodland Tales) 🌳💚🌳
Thank you 😊❤
I love it. I actually gave a guy who runs his own business the rule of thirds yesterday and he was so greatful. Love the cinematic shots at the start. And love that you chose a product that is so useful within paid advertisement. As this is something I would need use of when I goto Sweden and other country's. Great video
Just stumbled across your channel! Though I live in a big city with hundreds of thousands of people around me... there are still moments of loneliness. This simple life mindset makes me want to move to the mountains 🏔! Thanks for feeding my wanderlust!
Happy you've found your way here to my channel 😊
Fantastisk video Kalle. Tack!
Tack Timo 😊
Always so inspiring! Thank you for the video.
youre a wise old young man. the idea of thirds puts things in perspective. love your cabin life, i was lucky enough to be in norbotten for 2months one yr ago. i love sweden and miss the snowy silent incredible beauty of the place.
Seeing this reminds me of a Siberian Husky I had for many years, my blue and brown eyed girl Moria❤💔 The lose of her was incredibly devastating. Glad you are happy and have found peace and happiness. Glad you are grateful!
Hei Kalle. Nylig begynt å følge deg. Har selv drømt om ett tilsvarende liv i noen år. Har nå laget en plan for å gjennomføre dette om ikke lenge. Nytt kapittel og leve som jeg ønsker. Liker din åpenhet og ærlighet. Takk for inspirasjon og motivasjon til å gjøre dette så raskt som mulig. Lykke til videre. Fra en utpreget friluftsmann til en annen;)
Such a beautiful video! Those huskies are gorgeous 😍🥰
Awesome video intro! I was totally flashed! Outstanging job! I like this version of less spoken content and lots of nice images with a very nice sound.
Newbie here in your channel , how I love to see snow your place is so magical
Glad you got to go to concert and spend time with new friends! that is life!
I'm going to be so bold as to say that without having lived on your own, you can't deal with loneliness productively at all. It will confront you with the necessary lessons to embrace loneliness as the ambivalent experience that it is.
This means so much to me more than you know. My friend thankyou. Now subscribed❤
So important video. I have just been thinking about same things. Thank you Kalle, you made my day happy. 🥰 Have a wonderful week. 🏡❤️
I got it to play. Your Videos are so beautiful. My Cairn Terrior Scruffy loves the dogs in your Videos. He runs up to the screen to look at them. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
Beautiful video again. Always enjoy your perspective on life. 💚🌲
Beautiful in all ways. Love it! 😊💥
Loved the video 🖤, also rule of 3rd is amazing
My neighbor lady across the street is 84 years old, her husband died 20 years ago. I talk to her once a year at Christmas to give her a gift, I asked her if she ever gets lonely and she said no she goes months a time without talking to anyone else. She talks to her daughter twice a year and uses the self checkout at the store. I don't know how she does it! that was some good filming there.🙂
ur videos are always a treat man... thank u for making this videos... heavenly cinematics
Thank you for your perspectives. I’m realizing that I’m scared to feel lonely when In fact it’s okay to feel this way. I won’t always feel that way but sometimes it will happen and I won’t always feel my best. And that is perfectly okay.
Nice one, Kalle! I like what you said about the law of thirds. Hi from Holland!
Incredible intro, Kalle! Really cosy video, we truly enjoyed it :)
Looks so perfect !! Well done !! What a achievement !! X
I really like your collabs a lot!
Thank you 😊❤️
Thank you for sharing your beautiful life with us ❤ The beginning was like watching a movie, like scenes from Narnia, nostalgic vibes, and just the pace of your videos is so calming plus the music and production such quality work! much appreciated 🙏 Watching your videos have helped calm my mind at times it was feeling anxious~ and at times helped me fall asleep 😊
Stunning imagery. It's so beautiful.
Your ideas... the rule of thirds, concentrate on what went well were gold to me... we are off for three month tours with our tent and you have given us a really useful tool with which to view our trip and enjoy it more. Also we are going to hire a cabin sometime like yours to experience what you do... we had previously not booked cabins with no running water, etc but we will now give it a go... thank you,. loving all your videos. always interesting, always inspiring and always beautiful.
Beautiful video, cheers!
What an awesome video, with such heartfelt content. You are an inspiration to your viewers. Don’t ever forget that we are here for you, cheering you on! Take care, my friend! Cheers!
That's very sweet of you to say, thank you Barry ❤
That was the best presentation I have ever seen you do and I’ve been watching you for a long time
New to your channel I'm enjoying it 😎
I completely agree at the end of the day you are on your own.. I would love love to be off grid having that peace would make my life complete..greetings
I really like your perspective in this video. Great message. I look forward to your videos. Tack så mycket.
Hi kalle, great video and as always fabulous photography, I am putting your thinking points up on the wall of my classroom. My students often ask who Kalle Flodin is - I tell them to look him up - many do. Thanks again for always grounding me.
Your videos are well done and beautiful in every aspect! As always, thank you for sharing these things that matter. xox
Hi from Québec. Rule of thirds👍I have 2 huskies and one German shepherd. One of them is like, "Stop, don't even think to come in," and the two others are like, " Yeah, we have visitors!..." Blablablablabla..."😂 Awesome video! Thank you🙏
Thank you, I needed this. Us dream chasers need to be reminded that thirds are how it needs to be
Happy that it resonated with you ❤
Beautiful opening scene!
Gorgeous video 😍
I use to fear living alone but then life happened as it does and I all of a sudden found myself left alone with myself. I was petrified however, today I can't see myself ever living any other way than alone. I learned many things about myself. This has been both a hard pruning experience and yet also a growing experience. You will never know the real you until you are alone with "the REAL you." ❤ Love your channel. New subscriber here.
one of the most wholesome channel i came across :)
That's sweet of you to say 🥰
Καλημέρα Kalle !Ζω σε ένα μικρό χωριό κοντά σε θάλασσα (Χαλκιδική αν την γνωρίζεις )και μου αρέσει πολύ !Η πόλη είναι κουραστική !Αυτό που βλέπω στα φανταστικά βίντεο σου είναι υπέροχο !Παντου φύση ,φύση ,φύση !Σε ευχαριστώ που τα μοιράζεσαι μαζί μας ! Από Ελλάδα 🇬🇷 με 🤗❤️
Loved this video. Learning about thirds seems like a valuable way of looking at life.
Happy you liked it 😊
Hi Kalle, greetings for the great video! So real and honest beauty as always. Just wanted to share that I really prefer your dron shots because your friend drive very fast the drone and I got dizziness...so actually not very relaxing or calming feeling. Keep following your style and bring us same brain food, mindfulness & fullfilment ♡ Thank you deeply!
I just love husky pups. I love their bark/howl. So cute. Music to my ears. I loe the 1/3, 1/3, 1/3 analogy. I never thought about that. So right! Thank you for a wonderful video!
Happy you like the analogy as well 😊
I certainly appreciate what I have and now more than ever what I contribute ❤
Tjena Kalle! Vi har huset på andra sidan sjön (Västra L). Till senvåren tänkte jag paddla ut med kajaken på sjön. Vi kan ju mötas upp halvvägs nån dag. Skulle älska att dela lite tankar och ideer med dig.
Vi planerar full flytt med hela familjen. Detta område känns mer levande än någonsin. Bästa hälsningar, Nicklas
Amazing!
Yes buddy, lovely film! :) Just out on my own for the moment in west Jämtland, so some great words of advice here!
I love this rule of thirds. Thats cool. Thank you.
I feel perfect most of the time. Ya I’m done pushing myself. It’s a good place to be
Wow, absolutely incredible drone shots Kalle! Love this video 😊. I never realised how many cabins you had haha. How’s the A-Frame coming on?
Interesting video, well thought out as usual. However i reject the premise that we must 'work hard' at life. I work hard but do not push myself just for the sake of pushing. Rather, I live my life and enjoy it and work hard when i really need to
Great video, but I feel like it really lacks in how to be happy, and being alone, what I noticed was you were always spending time with other people, and that’s the opposite of being alone
What a intro! I felt like going to the Cinema!
And the ride with the Huskies! It’s so amazing! I adopted an old senior Husky once, he was such a sweet guy! Maybe one day, I have a new Husky friend aswell….. I realy hope so!🤍
She looks so pleased to see you