"Short Time" Relationships in the Philippines/Working Girls
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- "Short Time" Relationships in the Philippines/Working Girls @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234, "Inside the Shadows: Unveiling the World of Prostitution in Dumaguete Philippines." Join me on a journey that exposes the stark reality of the prostitution industry in this sleepy little city. From its secretive corners to the individuals impacted, this video delves into the multifaceted aspects surrounding the world's oldest profession.
She showed me around the city one day after just asking a few questions on the boulevard. We went by foot to show me where to get fresh vegetables, clothing and a phone sim.
She never asked or implied anything in return. She is a very funny, kind person regardless of occupation.
Tough subject, Paul... you presented it with respect.
Too skinny and a hard life
Tore up
Dirty Paul should be ashamed of himself , exploiting her for views , who did this help ?
@@user-tk7so5ii8x This is not a non-profit site. Why does it need to help anyone. Why does any CZcams channel need to exist to help anyone or do any humanitarian work? Get off of your high horse.
Insightful.....Thank you and Clarise for sharing this unique facet of life.
She is very honest , with all the dishonesty in the world . She deserves respect
A tough job. I am a older Australian male and have never been to the Philippines. I do feel sorry for the girls doing this work and most work to support family etc. Please do not look down upon them. They do not deserve to be treated badly.
Too right. Most GROs are just nice girls like this in a tough spot. Some are not ofc, it attracts bad apples. But I worked in Balibago (they call it "Angeles", an error) for 4yrs. As I went to work at 7pm, the tide of girls comes in. At 5am, the tide goes out & lifts are required. People who look down on these girls are despicable imho. One nasty remark or boasting of some weird crap by any fellow expat was enough for me to offload them asap as 'friends'.
Do not put them down but realize they not marriage and have kids .
I’ve seen this woman around so many times and never in 1000 years would I imagine her having such a great outlook and as well very humorous. Great Interview Paul. Loved it.
Having been stationed in Korea 🇰🇷 and Philippines 🇵🇭 working as a Air Force Security Police 🚔. I did participate with relationships with many of these women. If you communicate with them, you understand and respect their situation. Especially the job situation in the Philippines 🇵🇭.
She’s a very beautiful woman and I hope that she gets out of that situation soon. God bless her heart ❤️
These Filipinas all seem so friendly and happy, I love them all!
Paul, you handle those questions so well, with lots of compassion. Clarise was a great interview. Probably the best you have had. So honest and such a warm sense of humor. She would be a great friend to have.
Paul, this was one of your better interviews. You need to really thank Mrs. McGil for recruiting such an interesting person for your channel. Good teamwork guys!
Thanks Paul. A view of "real life" in a place that is filled with poverty. We Westerners (most) have very little understanding of how life is in the rest of the world. No judgement, its life.
Very true, I try to explain this to my friends in the USA
Paul, I don't watch every video, but once again (and this has happened many times in the past), I'm struck by how well you handle conversation with Filipinos from different stations in life who are almost always decades younger than you. Well done. In this video you successfully use your sense of humor (as well as tact and humility) to make your guest more comfortable and willing to address difficult subjects. You're a good ambassador for we Americans.
Thanks so much 👍
Great interview Paul. Made me laugh and cry, but lots of respect for her. Lots of info to process. Feel bad for her and all the Filipinas that struggle to make a decent wage, and financially make this choice to sell their bodies. Many are working in the malls/stores for 500P or less a day. Many also have kids, families and even a Filipino husband to support. To hear her story is why I say, “the Philippines is simple, yet oh so complicated”.
What a candid, and wonderful interview with a girl in a profession that is typically really difficult to talk about. She is very confident, outgoing, and really funny, and takes her profession with a grain of salt. I wish her luck in the near future to be able to move back home and get a steady job. She truly deserves that. Thank you Paul and Baby Mae for bringing this topic up, and having a great conversation with her.
Hasn't seemed to jade her, she seems grounded and together, not unheard of but something of an accomplishment under the circumstances. Respect.
There is no judging to be done. It is not an easy path, she is brave and hopeful. I hope she gets what she needs.
She has a amazing upbeat attitude! I hope she gets better opportunities soon. God willing 🙏🏻
Which god?
To me her eyes say it all. She's sad.
A lot of nonsense spoken by those of enormous privilege and full bellies.
@user-gh3xf8dv5l ah, Zeus
You and Mae are truly wonderful people. ❤
One of the best interviews, the brutal honesty is refreshing.
Hi Paul. Same one story in Las Vegas. Money is too good to give up without a fair tradeoff financially. The oldest profession is definitely recession proof and make the world go round. Either way she's a funny lady .
She looks much older than 25. Either she is lying or the life she is living is making her age real fast.
I'm part Navajo and some women in other tribes have very prominent & high cheekbones like she does. To most westerners (& even to me since most Navajo women have round faces) it makes them appear older much faster due to the comparison to the women they see daily. You could be right, but just wanted to be devils advocate since I've seen a few aunties in their mid to late 20's in other tribes that look like her.
@@WhenTheManComesAround My Ex Filipina gf also had high cheekbones. Yes it makes them look older.
I agree with you. I believe she looks much older than 25 but her personality says she is 25. Her hard life must be giving her a hard looking older face.
My filipina just said no way she is 25, she said much older. Oh well.
😂
A thumbs up to this woman, she is a winner in several ways.
She is smart, and will survive.
Wow. Clarice is a good soul in a tough situation. One of your best interviews, Paul; respect to May for befriending Clarice. I hope you can interview her again down the road.
She is so lucky that she has no horror stories to tell. I think though in this industry it’s only a matter of time. I wish her well and all the best.
You're 100% right. Out of Vegas this a common theme and usually never turns out good.
Correct, but you don't think there are marriage horror stories (and heaps of them)?
Another great video Brother !!
It still amazes me,how happy Filipino's are in general.
The friendliest people as well ..
5 years of videos, can't wait to get there in September !!
She has an amazing personality !!
I was surprised by Clarise's sense of humor - always laughing. On my island, I think the average working person retail, gas attendant etc makes 500 php a day, 2.5k week, 120k year. If Clarise is pulling down 12k per week, 576 k per year, then I hope she is saving money to make a life change.
Very few Filipinas can save money....most live only in the moment of NOW (which has some positives vs. living for the future but it does make money managing unlikely).
I doubt she is pulling down that much. I was friends with a bar girl in Subic before i met my wife. We talk quite a bit about the ins and outs (no pun intended) My friend was lucky if she earned 20K peso per month
400 a day for supermarket worker here in Pangasinan! If full-time, 6 days, 8 hours a day. Unfortunately, many are on only short term contracts . So , the employer can avoid paying for ss phil health ect.
Being made a ' regular ' , is a rarity! Sadly. So many desperate people chasing a job!
Some employers can demand a college education, even for very low paid jobs!.
One girl I know, had a job in the local market, selling plastic slippers, salary was 150 ($3) pesos a day!!!
@@davida.4933same as Thais
@@Electrichead64I don't believe she is doing those numbers either
Clarice is truly an amazing kid. So cheerful, bright, doing what she can to build a life. Keep in touch with her, Dog, see if she can find her way into something better for her. I'm on a 5 year plan so I won't be there in time to help keep a watchful eye out for her benefit.
Another award-winning amazing video, with incredible story. Look like she is just trying to survive in this world. I wish her the best in life. I will say a prayer for her. 🙏
It was nice to meet both of you, Paul and Baby Mae today. Keep up the good work on the vids. Thanks for taking a minute for the pictures. Take care.
Sending prayers for her!!!! Great video Paul 2 thumbs my friend!!!!
Thanks so much
Wow - your wife certainly finds some interesting people there - LOL. It is sad to think life has been so difficult for this young woman yet she has found a way to survive without stealing from others. I found her confidence and matter of fact attitude very enlightening. I pray she is able to have the life & family she wants within the next 5 years and enjoys life for a change !!
I think she's enjoying life more than she made out. She seemed very bubbly during this interview and said she's never been mistreated. While it's true on the hole these girls don't like being sex workers, like any job there are good and bad customers. I guarantee she's had incredible sex at times.
Paul you continue doing an amazing job finding such interesting people to interview! It says a lot about you that people trust you and feel comfortable to open up. Here’s to learning new tricks! ✌️
Very interesting interview. Thank you for sharing
It's very hard for these women to resume a "normal" life for a number of reasons, but she doesn't fit the hard core profile of others in her profession so I wish her all the best in whatever path she chooses in the future.
It is hard...but it happens for some... you would be suprised.
@@flinx649 very few
She’s a treat !! Hope she can turn her life around ❤
Nicely done, and what a wonderful young lady...
I always thought working girls are very brave going out with different men. She sounds like a smart young lady. I hope she will find a good foreigner who will take her out of that lifestyle. Life is hard in the Philippines. Sometimes the only way out was to marry an old foreigner or do illegal work.
It would be a rare for a foreigner to take her out of this life style, take her for her word 4 guys a week X 52 X 2 years. 432 guys. I don’t think any guy wants to be with somebody with that higher body count. in reality she is probably in the mid 30s and her body count exceeds 2000 guys. I. However this is a great episode I would encourage you to start interviewing more like this is a whole new ballgame for you. I believe you’re a readership with double
@@genebaket Correct. The other problem with a high body count it correlates with more difficulty in strong bonding.
Hope she keeps away from the drugs. That is a very slippery road.
Also getting a Filipino boy friend, who will take advantage of her earning potential!
Here in Thailand even when a foreigner comes in to sponsor a sex worker, most girls still sell pu$$y when their sponsors not around. The bigger money opportunity is very addictive for these women.
One of my regulars I see here in Thailand has had a sponsor for 5 years paying her 30k baht a month, yet she still fukks guys when he's home in the states. I've fukked her 108 times now. She is a sex addict and simply needs dick just as much as she wants as much cash as possible
Nice video. Well she is a smart lady and seems to be in control. I hope she stays safe. Love her sense of humour. Thanks and take care.
She is a great lady - God bless her
Great interview! Wonderful wishing her the best
She seems to be a really genuine, nice person. I wish her best of luck.
WOW, Excellent Video Paul 😊. Clarice is very bold and very forward/open. She really took command of the video. The name Clarice is a French name meaning Bright 🌞 ✨️ and clear. I think that fits her perfectly. Hopefully she can get out of that lifestyle and meet a good guy that will take care of her.
Outstanding Interview Paul 😊.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
Hi Paul,..great video and great interview.
I like your way in that you interview all kinds of people with all "walks of life".
Keep up the great work.
She's charming and funny and seems to be reasonably intelligent. It goes to show you how circumstances can dictate what a person becomes. She's doing what she can to survive. By her own admission she doesn't like what she's doing and wants a better life but, she has to get an opportunity. I hear on some vlogs that darker skinned women like her have a much harder time getting a "regular" job over there. If she can stay clean from disease and drugs and get off the street, I think she will eventually be OK.
Great interview, I wish her the best in life.
Great interview Paul and Mae.
Good an interesting interview. ❤
I lived in Cebu for a year and went to the bars, mainly to play pool. I met quite a lot of the girls and all were very charming and lovely to be with.
Many had hard life and bad luck and most didn't like the work obviously.
I didn't have time for the girls who had 2-3 clients a night and we're not chatty.
I wish this girl luck, her step mum hopefully will help her get on the right track. I think she is needed to look after her step sister more than anything else. I hope that doesn't keep her from progressing.
Nice personality but not my cup of tea, in fact although I like slim, she looked too skinny.
Interesting topic Paul...
G-DAY. Appreciate your video and Respects u gave 2 the young lady. My prayers 4 her. Hope she does find happiness. Please always keep safe and healthy stay healthy .
Oh wow Paul, such a sweetheart. So sad for these girls, I hope she succeeds in leaving this life behind. Thank you for the communication earlier in the week on the CP profile girl, love the videos.
Had wondered if you would ever do “one of these” type of videos. Thank you for doing it.
I am moved by how generally positive and upbeat she is despite how unhappy she is with her current life. I think maybe this, in part, is due to the Filipina spirit we hear so much about from everyone. I do hope and pray that she finds her way out of this job and into a far better life, as well as back to her mom. She deserves that. She seems like such a sweetheart. God bless you Clarise.
Very good interview Paul you handled it very well.
I see Clarice every time I go to Whynot. All this time I thought she was just a really enthusiastic dancer.
She seems like a very happy person. It would be nice if she was a blogger talking about the Philippines I would subscribe I like her happy attitude.
that's something new , so refreshing interview , thanks for making this possible Paul
Thank you for this interview. VERY telling.🤔
This girl will achieve anything she sets her mind to!
I never realized how good I got it until I started learning about the Philippines
Interesting interview. Best of luck to you!
Great video Paul. It was priceless when she made you blush the first time 😊 Thanks you and your wife for sharing this, it really made my day. You seem to make me laugh 😂 prayers for her. I hope things turn out for the best for her.
All respects...
I liked to see this interview, I think it will be the motivation to cause the young lady to move towards a better life.
God bless
Excellent interview, Paul. 👍 Although the circumstances of Clarice's life are somewhat dire, and her "work" is admittedly unpleasant for her, and she hopes to end her career as a working girl sooner rather than later, there were parts of this interview where I was laughing out loud along with you. Fingers crossed 🤞Clarice will be out of "the game" and into a "normal" life before very long.
She gave me the impression she's great fun. If I was in Dumaguete I'd be happy to have a ST with her based on her personality alone
@@graguitar6493why not just give her the money and let her have her own body
Oh My Goodness...this came out of the blue! Did not expect this interview here. However, for someone so charming and funny she could make someone a good partner. I bet, Mae was laughing in the background. Not many working regular jobs in Dumaguete are making 8,000 + PHP a week. That is reality.
I doubt it, she has been ran through too many times. But at least she doesn't have any (visible) tattoos.
@@craigsmith2755 I did the sums, 4 customers a week over 52 weeks a year x the last 5 years = 1040 client sessions. I think the ability to pair bond may be impaired. Which is a shame.
Mr Paul …., ya killin me bro😂😂😂 . Love your style and your way of interviewing people.
Great interview.
Great interview I like that girl..she is authentic
The interview was Funny but also Very serious at the same time, very good interview, I wish the lady a lot better future & lots of happiness 🇬🇧
great interview i have talked with this girl on the Boulevard 2 times in the early evenings i had no idea she was a working girl
I'm a navy veteran and was in subic in 80s n 90s, and thank God I know better these days. I plan to come to Duemegette a few years but coming for the health benefits of Philippines.
I loved that talk you had with the young lady. It was very interesting and also very cool to watch. ❤❤❤❤
Paul, all of above so many questions! Yes yes yes yes no details 5 minutes!
Great interview paul, I saw her a lot times in boulevard. I am also curious about her life ...
Easy to judge these ladies. But think about it - it’s hard for someone like her to access unemployment benefits, these girls are generally uneducated, and often are the sole bread winner for their families. She said she doesn’t like the work but it’s an attractive option for these girls financially . So give her a break - she isn’t hurting anyone and aswell she has a great personality.
Ask any Filipina working at typical jobs and I suspect most are not happy with their jobs!
But hey, are average foreignesr happy with their jobs? Most probably are not. They also do it $$$.
The only culprit is the bad, horrible, corrupted government!
@@davida.4933spot on. I've been mongering in Thailand for 8 years and you occasionally meet girls who are simply sex addicts. These women are the ones I repeat until they either lose their mojo or move on. They are rare to find though.
I never understand why anyone would judge a girl in a 3rd world country turning to sex work to survive. I think they are very brave and worth their money unless they hoop jump during the sessions with their customers
Literally Nobody is judging her
Interesting video.
God bless you young lady and I pray you find a better way of life 🙏
Clarice is a nice girl & has the right thoughts to change her life. I hope her plans come true ! Paul you have a way making that interview flow seemlessly - nice job.
True to wish but we all know too well the reality. Too bad for the lady as she's upbeat and outgoing. She could be a tour guide without the private extras but that kinda money is hard to turn down.
Good interview. Wish her luck.
Good evening Paul, Baby Mae and Tada! Clarice’s life is very unfortunate. I hope she can return to a normal life one day. God bless
I hope so too
Bless her dear heart , good luck Sister.
She seems really nice, I hope she gets into another line of work soon
great girl ,,, best one you have done !!!
Thanks Paul
Great interview. I hope people can help her.
This story really got me 😢
Your the best paul
Good interview bro.
She is beautiful, intelligent and has a very nice kind of humor.
I hope she finds a way out of her situation.
Hi Paul & Mae Great Interview with the young lady, this is a hard life working as a working/ bar girl going with guys you not really want to it’s one of the oldest profession in the world. Also some guys just want some female company especially if they are like her bubbly personality and very honest and straight forward. I like to wish her all the best for the future and I hope she finds a nice guy some day we all deserve to be happy.
Keep up the great work Cheers Irish Paul
I like this girl
She is very candid and blunt. I like that about her 😊
Great interview, and it's a public service I would say. I got friends who worked like that, some have married and moved overseas. It's common work in most of South East Asia, I never met anyone who dose it because that want too. I hope this will be the viral video.
great girl hope she gets a great start
Good information, loved the items where you though you had to insert a bleep. I know it's a serious topic, but it was also done with a bit of humor so very intresting.
Hi Paul Great Topic , lovely young woman, she deserves better. I hope to meet you someday and maybe we could make a difference there, some kind of chariety work. I have a Filipina I am joining soon. Keep up the great work.
She is such a beautiful young lady it breaks my heart to see her have to do this to survive. Life is unfair!
Wow - Clarice is so full of life, charming and upbeat ... this was a great interview. We can only hope her upbeat (bordering on hyper) nature is due to her naturally lively, friendly personality and not due to the substance abuse (shabu?) that many such girls fall into in order to tune out the unfortunate reality. As she says herself her physical traits are very attractive to foreigners (probably not so much Filipinos) and she has a fun personality so she really needs to get out of this business now and meet a good man and share a real, mutually-satisfying relationship with him. I hope she manages to do this before she becomes one of the older, "haggard" (Filipinas love that word) ladies of whom she spoke on the Boulevard.
I am concerned about her privacy and effect on her future of putting her face on a popular YT channel for everyone to see now and forever ... unless she's knowingly doing it simply to find new clients?
Hi Paul, am sad to see that she is having a poor time, being so skinny, and stuck outside a lot. Hope she can get a better life someday soon.
You sound very American.
She's proud of being skinny because even in the Philippines, more and more women are fat esp after they lose their youth. Maybe not as fat as average Australian or American women because they have smaller frames, but fat nevertheless. A big reason is simply the dietary shift in recent decades.
@@davida.4933 yup, eating rice, noodles ect 3 or 4 times a day, soon puts the weight on. Some many end up fat and diabetic!
@@davida.4933 but this is a 'hard life' kind of skinny. She admits she has to do this in order to eat. This is a tough profession, she's only 25 and she looks very sad.
@@cletushatfield8817 Nope - just someone who has provided accommodation to many Filipina in SG for over 15 years. Regarding skinny - there is slim and then there is skinny. To me, that level of slimness indicates an almost starvation diet. She is surviving.
She's a sweetheart. I hope she can find a better life.
I like this vid. Good insight.
Very positive interview and insightful for people that have no world understanding of life choices just to survive.
We see this in the US, Europe and all over ASIA.
Accolades to Clarice for being straight forward and honest about her situation.
Accolades to you and Mae for doing a decent interview.
Wonder how long before CZcams removes this as some church lady gets offended.
He could have blurred the girls face, now the world knows her.
Working is so hard on them!