Men's Hat Etiquette - Rules for Wearing & Removing Hats
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A great many menswear sources, if they do offer advice on hat etiquette, will typically advise that the most basic rule to remember is to wear your hat when outdoors and to take it off indoors.
While this advice may end up working out for the wearer, let's say 75 to 80 percent of the time, we believe that there's a better central starting point for approaching hat etiquette which is as follows:
Wear your hat in public spaces and take it off in private spaces.
Stated simply, a private space is any place where people live, work, or pay a fee to enter. Anything else is generally going to be considered public.
Here then are some more specific examples of this philosophy in practice. A house is a private space but the foyer or entryway just inside the door can be considered a public space. This goes back to the era when a butler would typically greet guests at the door and take their hats and coats. Similarly, an apartment is a private space but their surrounding hallways, as well as the lobby, are public. This same general rule is typically true for hotels with the added caveat that spaces reserved specifically for hotel guests such as the pool or lounge are also considered private spaces. One unique distinction for apartment buildings, hotels, and other such multi florid spaces, an elevator is considered a private space. This goes back to the days when most elevators still had human operators. As such, you would consider the elevator the operator's office. Related to the concept of entry fees are membership dues. As such, any club with specific members is also considered to be a private space.
And there you have it! Using this public space private space motto, the hatted gentleman can be sure that he's always observing proper etiquette when wearing his hat or as the case may be, not wearing it.
The question remains, however, why remove the hat in private spaces, to begin with?
The answer is that the uncovering of the head is a sign of deference that goes back millennia. It's usually done to signal an acknowledgment of intrusion or to show basic gratitude. In other words, the hallmarks of a gentleman.
This brings us to one final piece of hat etiquette for today, the practice of tipping the hat to others while out and about. The tradition of tipping one's hat has its roots in bowing to show respect. A practice that was common across various cultures for centuries. When hats became the dominant fashion for men and bowing was still common practice, the hat would have to be removed when a man bent from the waist so that it didn't hit the floor. Bowing would gradually become less extreme over the course of the 19th century, culminating in the simple hat tip by the 20th century. These days in the 21st century, even that practice can seem a little outdated.
If you're a regular hat wearer and feel totally comfortable in headwear, you can give a hat tip to people regardless of gender these days too but if you feel that the behavior would seem affected coming from you, you can go ahead and skip the tip.
In conclusion then, even if you don't commit to memory every single example we outlined in today's video, you can still be sure that by following the basic model of the public space private space paradigm, you as a hat-wearing gentleman will be courteous with your stylish headwear.
So which of the etiquette rules we covered today came as the biggest surprise to you?
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Great video man. Appreciate the very clear delivery. What about a hat on an airplane? You paid to get in there.... You may eat... Seems private. But you are in motion.
Thanks for the heart.... But what was the answer?
A very good question! Planes and trains bend the "motion" rule to some extent, as they're typically conveyances used for much longer journeys. As another commenter pointed out below, a hat is fundamentally a piece of outerwear, much the same as an overcoat. So, if you'd find it comfortable to remove your coat on a plane or train trip, you could acceptably remove your hat in such circumstances, as well. Thanks for watching!
- Preston
Gentleman's Gazette - Great video. I like the public/private space breakdown as you provided specific guidance for most common situations. However, for those who are ever unsure, no one would ever fault you erring on the side of caution and having strict policy of 1. Remove your hat off once indoors. 2. Remove hat when sharing of a meal while sitting. 3. Removing hat while In an enclosed means of transportation is optional. however it would be respectful to remove hat on a plane or share in a private cabin of train.
I'd wear a hat or cap on a plane. Unless you are sleeping, I'd keep it on.
@@DavidLLambertmobile I might take it off in a plane, except if I want to sleep and offer my eyes a bit of shade ;) I am not sure traditional etiquette still applies in a day and age where wearing a hat is the exception rather than the rule. To me, deference is the key factor: when do you think a hat is appropriate or not depending on outdoor/indoor, public/private, but most importantly your social environment.
*Being male is a matter of birth. Being a man is a matter of age. But being a gentleman is a matter of choice. - Vin Diesel*
couldn't agree more, some men want to be boys, and never grow up.
I’m going to use that one.
When did Vin diesel say it?
Vin Diesel? Haha
Vin Diesel? really?
I'm a woman but I'm still watching this. I love it. Gentlemen are really rare nowadays. I really appreciate it. ❤️
I have lived in Japan a long time, but love to wear classic hats. Here, whenever I "tip" my hat, the other person usually bows in reply. Surprisingly, even among quite young people, there is no confusion on this. However, the uniformed (and hatted) security guards at the universities where I work (usually rather older men) actually give me a military-style salute in return. Since I am a civilian, of course, I would never salute, hat or not. (I was military, decades ago, so I know better.)
Yes except for extremely esteemed soldiers (matter of choice) and per regulations any time a medal of honor recipitant is present and you salute the medal and recipient
@@wesleybarrett9502 . . yes, sir - that part!
Excellent video.
As a former Marine, learning the intricacies of when one wears his "cover" in boot camp is as important as learning how to lace one's boots or clean one's rifle. Recruit Training is about learning a whole new system of etiquette even more so than shooting or doing pushups.
Here's a little something that may interest you: When a servicemember is indoors, he is required to remove his headcovering except if he is "under arms", which is to say, actively carrying a weapon (or a symbol of a weapon, i.e. a badge or a belt) in the execution of his duty.
Preston, I may add: in public spaces, we also take off our hats when a funeral cortege passes as a sign of respect. And as a sign of veneration when the Blessed Sacrament is being carried, e.g. during a Corpus Christi procession or when a priest is bringing the communion of the sick.
My daddy taught me at a young age to remove my hat when I go into a house.
In Roman Catholic churches the normal etiquette is that all men must remove their hats. Maybe the exception is if the mass is held outdoors.
Really enjoyed your video. The biggest issue for me is where to put the hat. Only having one free hand is a bit foreign if I'm walking through a museum for instance. I suppose it's just a bit I've got to get used to.
I agree.
When I'm stealing artifacts from museums, i too prefer both hands free.
I had no idea about the elevator one, but it makes sense; sending this to my father btw, as he is the hat wearer between he and I. One other rule on hat etiquette is to never mess with a another man's hat.
Between him and me. Prepositions that precede require the use of pronouns in their objective case.
@Nigel Cam True. I always was taught that a man can wear a hat in an elevator but if a lady walks in, he should remove it.
@Nigel Cam the channel is called the Gentlemen's Gazette not the people's gazette
It is considered, bad manners to wear a hat indoors, or has my father says, it don't rain indoors, so take it of
Yes, my Dad told me you don't touch another bloke's hat.
In the old days when most gentlemen still wore hats, elevators often had a posted sign reading something like, "To conserve space, gentlemen are request not to remove their hats."
It's the one example I felt some disagreement to, myself. Though I'd suppose it comes down to the occupancy of the elevator at any given time. I'd feel like it's a misstep to doff the hat and take up more space in an already cramped enclosure and, as they said, it hearkens to a time where we had elevator attendants. Sans the attendant, I'd consider it as public as any tight hallway.
as a rule, I remove my hat when women enter the elevator and leave it on if its just men (unless its impractical).
Thank you. Welsh rabbit, sir
Makes no sense. 10 guys wearing hats will take up less space in an elevator than 10 guys holding their hats.
@@rogerp4612 that is why men were requested not to take off their hats. :do not take off your hat"
I was surprised to find out the origin of the hat tip and it's morphology as it were. In military school, we called your hat a "cover" and followed many of these guidelines. I always thought of tipping the hat as the civilian version of the salute. Cool vid and I guess I better step up my hat game!
Love love these videos. I wish the gentleman would become more popular. This level of politeness, care, intelligence, and propriety is absolutely delightful. Thank you Preston and all the gentlemen of the gazette!
The biggest surprise for me was that you didn't mention hat etiquette for men meeting or talking to a lady, indoors or out. In my lifetime in England, that has probably been the only hat etiquette I've ever witnessed.
Your public / private designation helped solve a quandary I found myself in a few years ago. Although there are still some questions. On a cruise ship, what is considered indoors and outdoors? Public and Private are a better rule, although since you pay for the cruise, I suppose one could argue the entire ship is private.
" Wear a hat in public places, remove a hat in private spaces'. This has been the most applicable and helpful rule Ive learned here. I commonly wear hats, and this etiquette has served me well in hat-questionable situations. Thanks Preston and Gentleman's Gazette!
I enjoyed this review of civilian hat etiquette. It's interesting to compare the etiquette with the rules for military hat wear. Mostly they match with some exceptions. When under arms (wearing a sidearm while on watch for instance) you remain covered no matter where you are. When passing through a dinning area, or eating, you remove your hat, aka cover. When entering a military club, esp the bar, you remove your cover. If you don't you may find yourself buying a round for the room. If you place your cover on the bar you own everyone seated at the bar a drink. When on an active flight deck you remove your normal cover and if appropriate put on head and hearing protection. (Hats in engine intakes are not good for the engine.) During the national anthem, or that of other countries, when outdoors you leave the cover on, and salute. Boy can your arm get tired if several countries are represented in the same location.
Thanks for the review,
David
Really well done video, this one. I've worn hats and caps for many years, and the way I have thought about it is that if it feels socially suitable to remove one's overcoat, it is also time to remove one's hat. This video does a really good job of clarifying those situations. I had never really thought about removing my hat when getting help from a shop employee, but it exactly the kind of thing I would instinctively do.
The overcoat parallel is an effective one, yes. Thanks for watching!
- Preston
Great vid. I personally tip my hat/cap very often, and I've noticed youngsters sometimes are a bit puzzled, but it hardly ever provokes an awkward "moment", so to speak. Of course, me being an old chap helps: I guess they very quickly understand (intuitively maybe), but it's indeed to be done as unaffectedly as possible: otherwise, yes, skip it.
I love this channel and these videos. They cover all of the rules of being a gentleman that were common knowledge "in the old country" lol.
The 1960's era killed all of this, and to have this resource today is invaluable. Thank you Gentleman's Gazette for your generous contribution to bringing back a more polite and honorable society.
Enjoyed the video. Have worn hats a long time using the indoor/outdoor concept. Just in the past few years have I been introduced to the public/private idea. Well done.
Outside - hat goes on. Inside - hat goes off. Also I think some commentary about different climates is relevant. From the polar to the equatorial, wearing a hat can be a life-saver.
Great video, I like this gentleman don’t mind what others say.
“don’t mind what others say”: Always me when it comes to clothing, but all people say is compliments to my gloves, shades, hats, watches, and shoes (literally everything except my actual outfit).
Dear Gentleman's Gazette team,
I just finished watching your Video on Table manners , which you uploaded on 2018. For myself I have to say, that I'm very happy that my mother raised me the way she did, which means, that I at the young age of only 16 and a half years allready knew most of these manners.
Eventhought I haven't watched that many videos you've uploaded, because I only found this channel yesterday, I highly appreciate the work you are doing. I allways try to leave a good first impression. Sitting straight at the dinner table, eating with a closed mouth to avoid the anoing sounds and even placing the fork and knife between 4 and 5 a clock is normal for me, but I've never seen a German eat bread in the way of taking a piece of it at a time eating it and then take another one. And that eventhought I'm German myself.
It might be, because I haven't been in highly noble envirements, I mean I'm still a student, why should I, but even on family events or when we've been in a restaurante I have never seen this specific way of eating bread.
I don't want to question that this formal act of consuming bread exists, I just want to say, that I've never witnessed it.
I think that, even thought many people that I know, and even close fiends of mine consider me a gentlemen, I can learn a lot about being a propper gentlemen for my future, by watching content like yours.
Very nice outfit and a great hat.
In an effort to modernize the "gentleman style", I would say this private-public space ideology could be applied to sunglasses, no?
Oh, yes! Since most people now wear sunglasses instead of hats to protect their eyes, I believe the same rules generally apply.
Haven't thought of that yet but applying the same rules makes sense
I say yes unless the sunglass lenses in question are transition prescriptions. But that's just me.
Yikes on trikes. I forgot to make this comment 2 years ago.
Great video. I am a regular hat wearer, with a collection of fedoras, a couple of flat caps and rural, 'cowboy-style' hats. The one I love is a bushman's hat from South Africa made by Rogue.
Regarding tipping, every time I've been in Australia - particularly into the countryside, I found it common practice for other hatted men to lightly tap the brim of their hats with forefinger and index finger, and a slight nod when passing another hatted man. Loved this little gesture.
As an exception to the "in motion"-rule, I'd say airplanes should be considered private spaces, since you're being served by attendants and being seated. Though the airport should be considered a public space, except for some lounges, restaurants, etc.
you are also serviced on a train and seated but the rule on the train is to keep the hat on
Also, according to the video, a gentleman should keep his hat on while seated in a car… that can be awkward with a low roof and high headrest.
Though, as a practical matter, when squeezing oneself through the cabin, and your, and everyone’s carryon bags…it is more practical to get to your seat, with your hat on. imo.
I am not even an adult, but I am already attempting to build my formal wear collection. As of now, it consists of a black bowler hat, black paisley silk tie, black paisley handkerchief and cufflinks, black blazer and matching trousers, white cotton cufflink shirt, thick woolen sack overcoat and clarks leather shoes.
Update: thankfully, my taste and my wardrobe have improved. All items in my closet are of natural materials and traditional styles, yet my wardrobe shall increase ever more.
I once worked at Clarks.
Nice shoes.
If I may, I think the key point is what you mentioned at 6:45, i.e. that uncovering yourself is a sign of deference and respect to your peers, and might be the main (if not only) rule of hat etiquette, especially nowadays where hats are not commonly worn by gentlemen. For instance, if you are in a public yet casual environment where very few people wear hats or any other classic garment, the presence of a hat can seem differentiating, and it could make sense to take off your hat even in public place, especially indoors. In that sense, I am not sure if the public/private space is still relevant nowadays.
The public space vs private space breakdown makes so much sense. As an avid hat wearer, this is mostly what felt right to me, but having it articulated this way just made me feel validated. Thanks! lol
The military does a good job of teaching this. With some notable exception. Also some people's jobs in the military change the experience. The ones that come to mind are Military Police and aviation. Really though if you move around a lot on the post you will see many specific rules regarding your hat and get very comfortable taking it on and off without thinking.
If you are "under arms" or carrying-wearing firearms, you can wear headgear. There are no hard or fast rules indoors but most soldiers remove headgear indoors.
In the navy hats indoors is prohibited, and saluting uncovered is prohibited. Every branch is different
@@jas9friend Very good points.
I love things related to etiquette I love to see it in action and appreciate greatly it!☺I see so much etiquette getting lost or never taught it's great to see it here being discussed ❤
I always love the Laurel and Hardy sketch that involves removing hats indoors, with Stan Laurel fighting it out with the chef
It's wonderful to see you. Thank you for all your advice.
These guidelines reflect WW2 German hat etiquette perfectly!
the "public/private" and "when in motion" guidelines are gold! Thank you!
Good job. This kind of orientation is never too much.
As an Amish person this really helped me a lot . Thank you so much .
How are you watching this bro. You smuggling stuff in to the amish?
I am going to let you in on an "amish loop hole" get a job that requires you to have to use a computer . OR " i need this phone for my job" Presto you are now buying an Iphone because " my job my need to get in contact. with me " "I swear to only use it for work" you ge thet picture.
Watching videos such as this just makes me even smarter than before.
I would have many things to ask about the hat etiquette:
If there is no place to hang your hat on at a restaurant - or even a house for that matter - where do you put it? On a chair? upside down? etc...
Supposedly no one should mess or touch your hat; do you let a waiter or host take your hat to a proper place?
How do you carry it when seated at a waiting room: put it on your lap, always on your hand? What if you don't get to be seated because of insufficient chairs or crowded space?
If you are in motion from one office to the next do you wear it? -Let's say from a job interview to another with a different company officer or would be boss-.
Is wearing a hat to a job interview even acceptable?
I guess in funerals its hats off at all times? Would you take one to these events?
How about when playing pool or billiard?
How about taking class as a student or impartng a class as a teacher at school?
Oops that was may be too much...!
What happened to Raphael? I enjoyed his accent and his delivery.
his family enlarged +1. hence he is now a bit bit bit occupied with daddy duties, i guess.
My grandma used to call the foyers the "four your" I love you guys this warms me up gq style
This has been very helpful. I'm just getting into classic hats, and it's nice to have a resource to learn. I've got a cheap panama hat from Costco, but I plan to upgrade to a proper hat soon, and I've got a few vintage hats (a flatcap, trilby, a canvas fedora, and a winter fur hat that I don't know the name of) from my grandfather that I'm looking forward to exploring when we get into Fall and Winter.
Once again, great job Preston!
Wow! Preston's delivery is really improving! Great video!!
Your explanation on how you keep your hat on while in motion was something I never considered or heard before but I'm glad I know now. Outstanding video by the way. 😄
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think the modern equivalent of bowing or hat tipping is *the nod*. Nodding up at someone is a gesture of familiarity. Nodding downward is respect.
Cody Smith I couldn’t agree more
Great video and long overdue. Thanks so much for the additional information.
I have a question: when we remove the hat, how should we keep it when we are talking to a person? and when moving, for istance, inside a private space?
A long awaited one, thank you!
If in public space you should you remove your hat when a funeral cortege or Hearse passes? In England it is considered as a mark of respect regardless of who the person may have been... to remove your hat.....
Good practice.
It’s a piece of fabric on your head. The fact that people think it’s disrespectful is mind boggling
@@joedellaccio4657 Probably because you have no class.
I really enjoyed watching this video.
I asked for this video (ages ago).
Thank you for making such high quailty videos.
A very well done video on many levels. Thank you so much for sharing.
Having never worn one, I just purchased my first nice, Fedora-style hat a few days ago and have already received a number of compliments from total strangers.
I appreciated the kind words (as anyone my age does) but felt to myself the favorable impression was because of two things. One... I was patient and tried on lot's of hat's. When I finally found just what I wanted I didn't hesitate and brought home the brain bag. But the most important thing was I gave myself permission to express myself as I wanted. I wasn't waiting for cowboy or Mickey Spillane cat-calls from my friends. I let myself feel comfortable in my skin, as they say. I feel comfortable in my hat.
Thanks for the tips on etiquette for one who tries to be a gentleman.
Warmest regards,
D
I am traveling in Scotland and will wear semi formal highland attire. I was curious on how and when to wear my balmoral. This video was quite helpful. Ta.
In my years of military service I generally followed the basic when outdoors hat on & when indoors hat off, but was nice to get more specifics.
Thank you so much for sharing this informative video. I was surprised that the mention of the "hat tip" was so brief. Like some skills I would imagine that it might be easy to wear a hat but that it takes care and practice to wear one as a proper gentleman in today's world. Cheers!
Great video! There is one point where there are exceptions. When looking through old photos and movies of indoor sporting events, such as the very popular boxing matches, men were wearing hats. I've found many photos of indoor boxing matches with men sporting all types of hats and military, such as sailors who did not remove their sailor hats. I think a place like Madison Square Garden would still be considered public, at least to the 1930s-40s gent.
Of course, there were exceptions to the no wearing hats indoors rule, like in corridors, lobbies, etc.
Mr. Preston, you have once again helped me greatly.
Thank you for this video and your clear explanations. I usually go by the outdoor/indoor distinction. But the occasions I diverge from that are often times not in line with your public/private distinction. I am accustomed to the greeting etiquette of not just tipping the hat (just a military tradition here in Germany) but actually lifting the hat up - perhaps just for second if the greeting is in passing. So as taking the hat off is a sign of respect, I take the hat off when interacting with people. Because interaction most often takes place in a private setting, there are many cases where your rules and my habits coincide. But for example when riding on a train, where often small talk with your seat neighbour occurs, I take off my headware. But on a subway I do keep my headwear on - as people try to give each other space and do not invade each others privacy by small talk.
Put maybe I am just odd and people were always too polite to correct my strange ways ;-)
My dad always just said "Always take your hat off indoors". Good thing you educated me so now I don't have to freeze in the supermarket or in my car.
Mmm... a smooth looking guy. Great video. Appreciated!
Great and informative video, as usual!
Just a couple of questions, though... I've always believed that keeping your hat on while you're driving a car without an open top is a big no-no, while you said you always wear your hat when moving. I'm Italian BTW, maybe it's a cultural difference or something like that?
Another curiosity is when you remove your hat at the restaurant and such, where/how do you put it (if there isn't an obvious hanging space available, of course)? I mean, when I sit at the table I remove my hat, granted, but then there's the awkward moment of "where do I put it?"
As a regular fedora wearer, if the roof of the car allows you to wear it, do so, if not, not. I think this rule applies more to flat caps, ball caps, ski caps. etc. I never tried wearing a fedora in a convertible, but I think the risk of losing the hat makes it a bad risk.
The more upscale the restaurant, the more likely that they have accommodation for hats and overcoats. I seldom patronize those establishments, so I look for an empty chair nearby, or if worst comes to worst, I will place the hat on my right knee during the meal - not a perfect solution, but I think it is acceptable.
Great stuff. As you can see I'm a racing Trilby man, love a baker boy as well.
Excellent, informative, concise and delivered with some understated self effacing humour.
I rarely wear hats because my size is 7 3/4. I just found a Donegal Tweed Irish Walking Hat in that size, so this content will come in handy. Thanks.
Like they trained me in the army. If outside, hat on. If inside, hat off. Simple! Thank you !
Question...
I keep my hair cut short and well groomed, however if I opt to wear a hat inevitably after a hour or so I get "hat hair" leaving me to look poorly put together. Do you have any advice to prevent "hat hair" other than not wearing a hat to begin with?
When I had glorious hair I carried a comb.
you might use a hair comb, a small one will do the trick
As other commenters are pointing out, carrying a comb is the simplest solution (and one that I use, myself). On that note, you can take a look at our article & video on Everyday Carry (EDC) Essentials, here:
www.gentlemansgazette.com/everyday-carry-edc-essentials/?
Thanks for watching!
- Preston
Yep, two solutions that are mutually exclusive:
1. Carry a small comb and use it after taking off your hat
2. Use a strong enough hair product, so that the hat doesn't affect the hair
Just to add my own two cents worth:
I find that the comb/hair product tips don't work for me because the comb causes my hair to become frizzy and puff out in all the wrong places, but whenever I put in enough gel to prevent this, it makes my hair look really thin. The best solution I've found to prevent "hat hair" is to ask my barber to cut my hair just a bit shorter so that it isn't long enough for the hat to dishevel; not a buzz cut by any means, but short enough that after brushing it in the morning nothing short of a noogie would displace it. All the best!
Good work Preston 👍
I really like your videos. They are always tremendously good-looking and professionally made.
Could you please create a video about the iconic Barbour waxed-jacket, if it is worth its price?
Thank you for this much needed video on proper hat etiquette. I would appreciate a follow up on how exactly and when to tip your hat to someone. There seems to not be any information on this lost custom. Regards,
Would one apply the same with sunglasses ?
Great video, Preston. The private/public rule is very good. I love your pocket square fold! I would appreciate it very much if you could you tell me the name of the fold or how to achieve it please. Thank you!
Just wanted to share my hat story from Italy which took place some 10 years ago - as a student, I was in Verona with my friends& colleagues, and me and one of my friends went to a walk and then decided to enter a hat store named "Borsalino" basically just for fun, to try some expensive hats and make a few pictures with them on if we can.
The salesman, one experienced older man, didn't let us go out of his sight like he knew what we are up to so soon we decided to leave. Then he asked me if I'd rather buy a hat for 20€ and make a picture with it whenever I want instead of trying to do that in the closet of a hat store.
I was kinda ashamed and I agreed and told him I'll pay with a credit card (owned by my parents, first time I had a credit card in my hands in my life) and when we exited I noticed on paper he billed me 200 €, not 20€.
When we came back he was pretending we didn't understand him and there was a language barrier, and didn't wanted to cancel payment.
I want back home, had some problems with my parents, tried to wear that hat at least a couple times a year, but I think last year "Borsalino" bankrupted and for that series of hats you can take like 500€ on e-bay.
I don't need money right now at all, but as it turned out I will be the one laughing in the end after all those years if I sell it for like 300€ more than I originally payed.
I really enjoyed this video, although there wasn't anything that could be surprising to me and I definitely LOVED all about your outfit!!!... Good job! :)
Awesome, have been waiting for this video for ages! :)
I like it best when someone has a place to put my hat while I'm there. A hat rack is good but a clear table there for hats is good, too.
Hello, I have bought a few vintage suits and separates based on some of your videos.
I do need help on how to get rid of that old Closet odor though. I have taken some to the cleaners but the smell comes back. I was hoping you could give me some tips, thank you very much!
Thanks for the video much appreciated I had a question and I was wondering if your leg is alright? I was concerned.
Stylish sorry to hear that
What about flag ceremony? Or presentaation of flag? When flag is moviing? Lowerering or raising flag?
Looking forward to the pork pie hat guide. I’m a flat cap man myself, but have been considering diversifying.
Thanks for this great video. But one question: What is when I have a barbecue with friends? That's outdoor but private.
Stylish and classic look sir. Also the use of the word trouser shows you are a man of culture, and I would indeed, tip my hat to you.
As far as may hat etiquette goes I basically followed the military's model of headgear etiquette.
That I learned during my time in the J.R.O.T.C.
When outdoors wear your headgear.
When indoors remove your headgear.
However when on duty or in drill ceremonies indoors you must wear your headgear.
Headgear is a general term for hats
Where it's a beret, office cap, Combat uniform forage kap, or a helmet like the M88/ M84
Great video cant wait for the next
I learned about hat etiquette thru watching old movies; I found the private/public space model to be consistent with what I saw in film
Grade - B+. I disagree with leaving a hat on indoors at a reception station. My personal guide is the indoor / outdoor rule. When I learned about hat etiquette in the 60s, there was a lot of emphasis on not wearing a hat in any public building (police, post office, city hall, court house, school, federal building etc.).
I was surprised by the suggestion of doffing the hat while at a large indoor sports arena. I consider that a public space whether indoors or out. I also have mixed feelings about public elevators, I usually leave my hat on, but feel guilty when there's an older lady or two on board. I've tipped my hat on occasion, but feel the gesture is lost on the other party.
I was surprised by that, also. I have my father’s US Army Officer’s Guide from about 1961, and it has a section on when to remove one’s hat and when to leave it on. It mentioned specifically that it was proper to leave one’s hat on in an indoor sporting arena. On the flip side, legendary football coach Tom Landry always removed his hat when the Dallas Cowboys were playing in an entirely indoor stadium.
So, quick question. I know most knit hooded sweaters are seen as quite informal in most circles, but would the rules for removing hats in private areas apply to garment hoods as well? The reason why I ask is that I've instructed my nephews to " remove their jacket hoods when they enter establishments, for it's proper ettiquette to do so." and want to set a good example for them.
Thank you for the informative video. I was looking for a video on hat etiquette following a conversation with a friend about today's customs which have changed a lot. Today you see a lot of young people wearing hats or caps in spaces such as churches, theaters, shopping malls etc. I know people who don't remove their cap at all, as they consider it part of their outfit.... I would imagine that the etiquette for hats applies to caps and other head attire (such as beanies). Why is it that nowadays these etiquette principles are falling into disuse?
That vintage trilby, if I am not mistaken, has a Cavenagh Edge to it. The Cavenagh edge stitching is invisible and is cleverly hidden within the fur felt with no visible stitching on the top or the bottom of the edge. These vintage fedoras are highly prized by collectors, because it was the most time consuming and expensive stye of fedoras. I am not sure if anyone in the millinery world still knows how the reproduce the process. Unfortunately it seems to be a lost art.
I love this video I'm trying to memorize the list too
“A hats not a hat, till it’s tilted”
Loved the video by the way
BIG question. I wear hats consistently to cover the solar panel but I am curious where to put it while in the restaurant? I don't want to leave it on the floor and usually there are not other seats to place it on. Thanks for helping me have the look of a gentleman!
Could you recommend a hat color if you can only have one? I'm torn between a light sand color and a light brown/fawn. Which would be more versatile?
Great video!
My father (a WWII veteran who, despite his balding pate, hated wearing hats because of his time in the Army) always told me that a gentleman should remove his hat in private places & leave it on in public places, except when using motor transport (planes, trains & automobiles), when one would remove it as a courtesy to the other users, primarily so one doesn't block their view. When I served in the Royal Australian Navy, this was also the rule, with the added advantage of making it harder for the less socially adjusted to steal or make sport with the hat if you let your guard down.
With these rules in mind, I have always removed my fedora while on the train during my commute to & from the city for work & fully intend to continue this practice. Not because I am in disagreement with your rules & guidelines but because I paid a lot of money for my hat & I wouldn't like to lose it...
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Either I missed it or you might not have mentioned dining areas, and specifically restaurants and, for military personnel, mess halls. You always, remove your hat or head dress when you enter such establishments. Never eat with a hat on. Exceptions made for religious head coverings (keepahs, turbans, keffiyeh’s etc.),
Back in my military days, if you absentmindedly entered the men’s mess or mess hall with your beret on, you would have to buy everyone in there (or the first person to spot you with your beret on and yell ‘beer!’ while pointing at you) a beer.
Keep up the great work!
Very few men where hats today.......this is not the 1930s up until the mid 1960s.....they looked great back in the day,,,,,but they are archaic now
@@thomassaehler9038 Class is never archaic...
Perfect video, as usual
Skip the tip!? My dear sir, you never skip the tip. Nothing is more enjoyable whilst on a walk and someone looks at me from a stopped vehicle and you tip your hat.
Interesting video, my Dad, who is no longer with us, wore his old trilby almost all the time and he taught me that when you respect a person or an event such as a funeral or wedding, even if you're not actively part of it, you take your hat off out of respect. He said wearing a hat in those situations makes you appear to want to leave as soon as possible. I've followed these rules for so long it's second nature